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Own it. "I'm the biggest geed you'll ever meet." "Gamma Delta Iota" "I'm actually in a sorority" "Which one do you think I'm in?"
/r/askTRP16/09/16 01:18 AM
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http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/page/12/
/r/askTRP12/07/16 09:35 AM
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I go to clubs that have dance floors, and I dance. Like I get in the middle of the floor and dance like an idiot and just focus on having more fun than everybody else there and put the hugest smile on my face. So long as you're having fun, you'll have a good night regardless of whether you meet a cool girl.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:51 AM
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I want to hear more of what your mentor had to say. Straight up some of the most useful advice I've heard on here. I'm going to write that letter now and send out some applications to competing organizations. Truly, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 12:19 AM
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Reread Atlas Shrugged last year, so I have something to add. In context of TRP, the romantic subplot reads as Dagny's hypergamous quest to lock down the best guy around, branch swinging from one to the other until she reaches the top. I believe she nailed TRP's view on female sexuality, but not quite so for male sexuality. Here's the main thing Rand misses, because of her female solipsism. She says that your sexual partner is the ultimate expression of your self-image. It makes sense she would s…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 11:13 AM
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No of course not but what are you gonna do, hit her back? Retaliation looks like she actually got to you.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:38 AM
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"That's your one." Continue uninterrupted. You are also allowed to block it.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 01:21 AM
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You can "next" guys too.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:54 PM
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All you need to say is "Ok cool." It's not a big deal. I don't know why everybody is freaking out here. If she's high-quality and worth your time, she won't do anything stupid at the party. If she isn't, that will become apparent afterwards, and you can dump her for another girl who doesn't have loyalty issues. She's allowed to have her own fun, and you sound like you're coming from a scarcity-based mindset. If you had other girls on backup would it even cross your mind that a party could be an …
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:38 PM
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I can speak to this. Once, for a period of 100 days, I worked 85 hours a week running a business. It required a Herculean effort I never knew I had. I gained an impressive amount of skills in a very short time, and my friends told me I became a different person altogether. If you put in that effort, you will reap rewards. HOWEVER, at that level, work is an unsustainable level of commitment, and only possible if you are extraordinarily passionate about what you do. I gained 15 lbs, ate like shit,…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:42 AM
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Everybody here wants the easy solution of dumping the girl. I'll work within your constraints outlined in the last sentence of the post. It sounds like she has gotten too familiar and comfortable, knowing you're always available. How much time do you spend together in a week? I find that when I spend too much time with my LTR, we generally treat one another "less" and take each other for granted. She might need some time to miss you. I recommend taking a week to yourself without her to jump-star…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/15 01:50 PM
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Fuck you. Anybody, not just girls, will treat you like shit because you let them. Are you going to let them do that to you? Your dick is not the issue, it's your bitchy attitude. Stats? Is this a fucking video game? Did you even read the goddamn sidebar—was there one thing on it about penis size? Guys with dicks smaller than you get loads of pussy all day long. Stop trying to level up your dick like it's a gun in Fallout, and consider spending those skill points on your frame, confidence, and at…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 12:08 PM
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Google Scholar revealed this, which shows a ~30% increase in testosterone after supplementing daily for a whole year in 54 men.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 10:30 PM
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If she catches a whiff of the "I need her" vibe coming off you, you're hosed. It's of paramount importance that your frame remains "I am the leader in this relationship, and I choose to be with her." Not the other way around. Meaning there should not be a change in demeanor if you move in together. If she pays >50% of the expenses, then it's going to be extremely hard to maintain that frame as a guy, and it sounds like you have a strong grasp of what that means. I recommend reading what David De…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:44 PM
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Keep it light and fun, like "oh another guy hitting on you? Can't blame him. Good on that guy for trying" shit eating grin. It conveys that you're not threatened, while boosting her up and making her feel good. What you said was absolutely savage, sure, but it's the opposite of abundance mentality because a secure person does not lash out like that. Additionally, next time she will take additional action to hide that guys are hitting on her if she thinks you're going to be a bitch about it. I wo…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:27 PM
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This deserves its own post, son. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:36 AM
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Julien actually uses that as marketing for his product. "Techniques so good, entire countries have banned me for fucking their women." Fucking genius, actually.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 10:47 PM
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What would you do if you had thirty other girls texting you to come over and slob your knob? Would you even care? Pretend like you do to get into the right mindset to make the decision to drive in or not. At this point, you already said you will do it, so keep your word. But trying to intimidate the other guy will just make you look like a bitch who knows he has lost.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:59 AM
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That would be a good start. However, you also need to diagnose and fix the reason you lose your shit in the first place. No woman's antics should disturb your frame, ever.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:43 AM
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financially supported her angry a lot shout at her although I'm always apologetic afterwards self loathing paired with a superiority complex You are exhibiting shit-tier frame as a man, not to mention being her beta bux. I'm amazed she's not already blowing him. This relationship might already be a lost cause, but it sounds like you need to work on yourself first. Stop paying for her education Find why you hate yourself and fix it. In the meantime, mask from her the emotional toddler roller-coas…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:34 AM
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Asking somebody else "what should I base my identity around?" is not a good way to go about it! If you think like this, you will become what other people want you to be, to serve their own purposes. Girls will want you to be their "friend." Guys will want you to be their pawn or they will ignore you altogether. Identity comes from having interesting experiences and meeting cool people who have traits you want. The Most Interesting Man in the World is a character with identity because he does coo…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:20 AM
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Any "game" you learn should come from you developing yourself as a man and earning that higher value. However, if you want a quickstart, RSDTyler is good. He goes over non-canned, natural game. I find him helpful because even though he's a chubby, balding, pasty ginger, he absolutely destroys.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 03:59 AM
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Surprise, anger, and feeling the need to use inflammatory internal dialogue. How do you judge that girl on the dance floor, making out with every dude and blowing two in the bathroom? Your reaction shifts from "what a whore, that hypergamous cock-carousel-riding sloot" to "hmm, interesting, she looks like fun for a ONS."
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 03:47 AM
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If you read 7 Habits, you will notice that every self-improvement book you read afterwards will say something Covey said first. This book and How to Win Friends and Influence People are always the first books of this genre I recommend to people.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 03:04 AM
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Oneitis is the feeling you get when you believe you can't do any better. Go fuck a hotter girl.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:07 AM
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/r/askTRP31/07/15 09:17 PM
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Team up with GLO and rule the manosphere.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 05:20 AM
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That "documentary" made me cry tears of laughter, holy shit. GLO, It's a great idea to use humor to engage more people. I would watch the shit out of anything you produced.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:41 PM
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Seconded. TRP is very much "take it or leave it." It is what it is, and it's your job to accept or reject the individual parts. Great men do not waste their time debating people, not only because they have better things to do, but also because their frame is strong enough to know they are right. Entertaining any form of debate is a break in frame, especially when it's to impress strangers on an anonymous Internet forum. Digest the source, understand it, apply it, then keep what sticks. If you wa…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 11:04 PM
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They censor posts. Go look at the sticky on pillscollide.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:51 PM
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Hey wow an actual dentist. OP listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:12 AM
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Always try to fuck the girl. Always have two in the kitty though.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:05 AM
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Try men. No, really. It sounds like you're lacking intellectual equals. I suggest finding a male social hobby like shooting, camping, or jam sessions. Use these to stave off boredom until you find a woman who can keep you on your toes and is worth your commitment.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:25 AM
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She is being awkward because she is into you. Ignore the weird way she's talking and respond to the question only. "I'm awesome! I'm going to be at X place at Y time. I want to see you there."
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:16 AM
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All girls do this occasionally. Communicate like an adult that she needs to act like one too. "You are acting like a bitch right now. I do not appreciate it. Adjust your attitude." Two seconds of pointed eye contact. Hold your ground, do not get angry, and ride through the shitstorm. There might even be tears. If she does not come around, then she isn't worth the time of day, soft next, especially if it is you she is acting like a bitch towards. The difference between a Bitch and a girl who is a…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:08 AM
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George Washington had fake ass wooden teeth and he still needed a snorkel for all the pussy he had to wade through. But really, your dentist will know more about your options than a stupid Internet dating forum. In the meantime, focus on that which you can control. Do the abscesses give you face-melting bad breath? Fix that shit with gallons of Listerine. Does knowing your smile looks like it should belong on Duck Dynasty make you self-conscious? Yeah, I bet it does. But what's cool is that your…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:54 AM
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If they know your age and you don't look older, you are a boy to them. A child. A non-sexual entity. BUT if you achieve the physique, income, dress, and game, along with the confidence to pull it off and make it into the top 20% of the 20-30 year olds they're interested in, I see no reason you can't smash college chicks, so long as your social circles manage to intersect.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:17 AM
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I'm also logic-oriented, but I have no problem having fun and cultivating that IDGAF attitude. I might be able to help. First, ask yourself if you're "logical and serious" for real in your natural state, or if you're "logical and serious" because you're afraid of loosening up and being social. To find out, imagine time when you felt like you were in the zone getting lost in a deep passion. This might be that one time when you were playing soccer and you scored a hat trick, or having some baller …
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:09 AM
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Requesting PDF instead of .zip
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:32 PM
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Nobody's dick's as incredibly thick as Gaston's.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:34 PM
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She's your plate, not your girlfriend. Who cares which other guys she is fucking?
/r/askTRP
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RSD Max came out with a video on this topic two weeks ago. https://youtu.be/BtWdPY2PHvw the idea is that they are trying to get a reaction out of you because they can't get a reaction out of the girl. This means that they've already lost, so if you hold frame by staying fun and light they will only look stupider and stupider. Then you walk away from them with the girl. They also sound like shit friends. Good friends HELP you get the girl, not the other way around.
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Girls, and people in general, will love you for your value to society. That article is required TRP reading. That said, you're right that you shouldn't base your identity around external things. Stephen Covey talks about this in 7 Habits when going over the idea of your "center." Some people are "centered" around their girlfriend (unhealthy), some around their job (still unhealthy). He argues it is best to be "centered" around a set of principles you can identify with, because you are a stronger…
/r/askTRP
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This is a stupid question, and has been covered many times. Search for the keyword "Indian" in the main subreddit, and read the sidebar.
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