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Honestly maybe she gates texting, I for one find it truly draining. Also perhaps she prioritizes her time and that results in the busy schedule. Earmarking time for yourself and treating that as a firm commitment is something I'm def working on because it brings me a lot of joy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:41 PM
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I struggle with texts because I absolutely hate them for chit chat, making a quick plan or getting info is fine, but a discussion by text is not for me. Also, I'm not a fan of announcement text, like: just did this thing. Kinda pointless share and distracts me from the day. Those distractions are legitimately draining to me. And while I do feel bad not responding to that kind of random share, in my opinion, that is just poor texting etiquette and doesn't really merit a return of my time and ener…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:38 PM
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Agreed, those comments are something else. I'm surprised women are defending him and making her believe it's her fault. Some people are hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:44 AM
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Haha! Boob greed, I love it! I told myself I'll do a revision at 5 years so 3.5 more years to go until I hopefully get what I want. On the whole though, my BA was truly a positive experience on all accounts and I would recommend it to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:49 PM
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Good question. I convinced myself people wouldn't take me seriously at work, that if I was a big chested lady people may perceive me differently and I could miss out on future opportunities. This was not at all the case in reality, so many women in leadership roles already had them as I later found out and they owned their size and decision to get them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:32 PM
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I lost a lot of nipple sensation but otherwise good. Did 250 cc and went from an a to a c. Would have gone bigger but I was so afraid of impact on professional life etc. In the end it was all in my head I think. So many women turned out to have had them or were considering getting them done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:10 AM
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Had a BA a year and a half ago. Love it and would do it all over again, but bigger, and earlier. I consider it an investment in myself. Much like putting on make up or wearing flattering clothes, many men will assume women get plastic surgery for them. Literally couldn't be further from the truth. I dress and do my makeup for myself and I love it, so for me not sure if it's about leveling up or responding to my own needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:06 AM
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I get Botox and filler, and certainly let the world know. I'm not keen on supporting some mystery beauty standards, whether when I'm talking about my routine with women or men. I want to be transparent for my own sanity, it actually gives me a sense of empowerment to proudly own my shit. That said, I'm also open to discussions of why I feel the need to use more drastic anti aging measures - is it some internalized misogyny ? Possibly, but man, I love investing in myself and the Botox and filler …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:57 PM
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Amazing! I love that series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:37 PM
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Hey girl! I'm a needy person as well so I feel you. Normally I'm able to achieve balance by maintaining a super wide social circle of ultra strong and awesome gal pals and a huge commitment to yoga (both as a practitioner and volunteer) but during the quarantine my routines are obviously non-existent. I'm creating my own space by staggering my sleep schedule - I wake up earlier, have a huge audiobook addiction going on, and have started a nightly self care routine and stick to it as much as poss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:33 PM
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Oh my god, this thread is giving me PTSD it's hitting so close to home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:07 PM
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This porn debate just between women blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:47 PM
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Ah yes, the classic "you look tired"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:46 PM
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Exactly. It's so exhausting to hear this shit - women apparently aren't good enough done up or au naturel. We are expected to secretly tend to ourselves to present some perfectly no fuss image to them. This puts an incredible amount of pressure on our time and financial resources just so men can continue to validate the natural beauty trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:43 PM
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Ouh excellent point. I completely agree that they want a woman that is just a "no fuss" because she doesn't know her potential. This natural beauty push is a control thing like everything else men preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:35 PM
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I know. Most of all I'm afraid of to see women supporting or normalizing the unbearable choice made by these young girls and calling it female empowerment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:18 PM
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I think they don't know shit about make-up and def mistake good makeup skills for natural beauty or airbrushing/photo editing. Problem with this "preference" is that it creates a lot of insecurities in women to just be magically beautiful on their own - it low key tells us that women who wear make up are inadequate because "natural woman best" according to caveman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:30 PM
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How do his needs supercede his commitment to this woman and the dignity of their relationship? If she was cool with the whole arrangement I doubt she would be of the 'i don't want to hear it' camp. That right there tells you she either does know or knows and fucking hates it, with her only coping mechanism being complete disassociation from the disaster that is this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:10 AM
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I don't want to get married because Im of the opinion there is no one man that could support all of my personal growth and changes over the years. One man may be able to do that for some years but not perpetually. I'm too dynamic, sufficiently career driven and see no place for children in my life so I don't want to risk getting married even to a hvm. My priorities and desires regularly change including what I want from a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:04 PM
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Dream life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:59 PM
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Best advice for all all single ladies, regardless of age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:13 PM
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Maybe not. I flip my shit so hard if I ever even so much as suspect he may have watched it. I also communicate to him my dislike of porn in calmer times and have said that it is not negotiable in our relationship for what it's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:05 PM
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I think our sentiment is shared by many women. Once I found this sub I thought, woah, finally sisters that speak my language. The responses in that thread made me think there are many many more of us out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:56 PM
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Amazing! Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:25 PM
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Sexual exploitation by economic elites is the new class!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:34 AM
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Horrible experience all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:48 AM
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Hahhaha! Your joke is cute and on point, signed women of the quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:29 AM
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