toadparking Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	How do I get over him?	DATING ADVICE	toadparking	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/18 11:18 PM
1	In Love with a TRP		toadparking	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 01:02 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Plate not sexual anymore, should I next? Maybe she is backing off to give you space. She is aware that she is a plate and that you don't want to be in a LTR and she is letting you take the lead in initiating sex. She doesn't want to appear needy and is just following your lead.	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 12:37 PM
2	Overuse of AWALT: The hidden Bluepill Excellent post! This was always one area that I have struggled with regarding TRP. I've seen posts that describe horrible behavior by men and then they wonder why women react the way they do and then men scream AWALT! Human behavior comes into play here, in that, shitty treatment may cause shitty reactions.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/18 07:37 PM
3	Newbie red pill woman - Need advise for broken marriage That is excellent that you have talked to them about it! I wish I would have been that aware to know to do that. Good job!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/18 07:20 PM
3	Newbie red pill woman - Need advise for broken marriage I think all advice given is excellent. The one thing I want to address is: We don’t want to split due to our kids. It would devastate them. My parents stayed together for the kids and then divorced when I was 29 - I don't believe it was any less devastating to me then if I had been a teenager. I also stayed in my marriage for the kids and left when the last one went to college. They were understandably upset, but both told me they were surprised I had stayed as long as I did and were not at all …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/18 12:48 PM
12	Office Romance? I am currently living this experience. I have been seeing a guy that I work with for almost 2 years now. We don't work for the same people or share coworkers, etc. He is a practicing TRP and I believe I would probably be classified as his plate or slightly higher, but he is truthful in not being exclusive, although I am with him. At work we keep it very professional at all times. I am in love with him. When he is being distant or practicing some of the TRP rules; it is very awkward and upsetting…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/18 09:48 PM
3	How to deal with a plate/LTR's personal tragedy or legitimate sadness Sorry to hear about your loss. Then move on. I'm biased here because I'm completely a dog person, but since it's a LTR 1 year, you should show some genuine concern for her sadness. However, if it drags on for more than a couple days, stop entertaining the drama, she's using it for attention. Iffy on my response here, but I think you offer minimal support. Don't entertain this drama with a new plate. Move on.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:35 PM
4	I love him but... Excellent post! I left my husband not because I didn't love him; I did very much. But he was an alcoholic and I had lost all respect for him. I am now struggling with following the RPW philosophy because I had to manage everything for the last 23 years due to his drinking. I am in love with a TRP who I respect very much and so badly want to be his 1st mate, but I can't figure out if I am a plate or LTR to him.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/18 07:20 PM
2	Reach out or wait for response. Definitely reach out!	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 06:40 PM
1	Need some advice Advice coming from a controller: I really struggle with being controlling and am constantly working on myself to let things go/fail/succeed without my intervention. Now that I have become self-aware of this fault in myself, I look back and wish people would have called me on it. Not in a harsh way, but just suggesting more that I relax, let it go. Possibly reminding me that I can't control certain situations. Hope that helps!	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 01:59 PM
1	Do you drink alcohol? I drink. I left an alcoholic husband and I had to always stay sober to get us home, be available for the kids, etc. when I was with him. Now, my kids are grown and I am on my own, so I drink. Not a lot, but maybe enough to get a buzz either 1x a week or every other week.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/18 11:29 PM