toastedtomato Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
337	I wonder why too		toastedtomato	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/09/20 03:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!" The only reason there are more females than men is because men have shorter life expectancies. Additionally, men in their 20s die at much higher rates than their female counterparts. At birth, there are more males than females iirc	/r/MensRights	26/11/25 04:31 AM
1	What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates? Should be the new norm since younger women are outearning their male counterparts, own more property, and are the majority in universities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:16 AM
1	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties Physically yes, but men’s attractiveness is based on their status and their ability to provide resources, which is generally much higher when they’re much older and further along their careers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 11:58 AM
1	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Becoming a CEO takes decades of experience. In the past things were more unfair for females, so naturally there would be more men in the workplace and therefore, more qualified men becoming CEOs. That trend is definitely going to reverse as more the number of qualified females increases with time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:01 AM
8	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? They have lesser access because there are practically no uni scholarships for men. They don’t have quotas for them at work either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 01:57 AM
5	Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic? That wouldn’t address female hypergamy though	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 11:34 PM
15	Single women are happier than single men Men are typically more romantic than women. So the lack of romance makes men more unhappy than women.	/r/BlackPillScience	26/04/25 09:31 PM
0	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Plans don’t always work out. A 25 year intern doctor may plan to become a plastic surgeon but there’s no guarantee he’ll make it. Whereas the 45 year old plastic surgeon can provide a guarantee of such a lifestyle. Similarly, there’s no guarantee the 25 year old aspiring rapper will make it while the more established older one would’ve already made it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 10:02 PM
1	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men The fact that women make their own money makes the older guy even more attractive. The older guy is likely to be more advanced in his career and hence, earning much more. He’ll offer the female a better lifestyle than the 25 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:27 PM
0	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men In some parts of the world, the 25 year old would be struggling to buy a house, even with a great career. He would be living in sharehouses/renting shitty places with other people/living with his parents. A 35 year old on the other hand, is far more likely to have a house, making him a more attractive prospect	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:17 PM
1	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men Sexually no, but status wise most older men are in significantly better than their younger counterparts. Since female attraction is hugely dependent on status, the older man will be more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:08 PM
1	Circumcision constitutional challenge coming. 2 religions actually	/r/MensRights	13/03/25 10:51 AM
2	You really can’t make this up😂😂😂 (scroll to the end) Should’ve warned us about the jumpscare 😂	/r/MensRights	22/07/24 02:52 AM
-2	Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally end In sex obsessed american culture looks might have a more important weighting but in most places status trumps everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 03:56 AM
-1	Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally end That’s because the dating landscape is vastly different now compared to when you were in your 20s. If you went back in time to when you were in your 20s, you’d be more successful	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 03:55 AM
1	Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally end Most men are in a better place financially at 35 compared to their early 20s. That makes them more attractive to hypergamous females.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 03:31 AM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? And the drinks are still free. Being appreciated and desired for just being yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 11:52 PM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? Free drinks at the club, discounts, emotional validation, never being lonely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 11:43 PM
–	Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them? Disagree. As men we’ve been told too many times to just suck it up and accept it because it’s the way things are. We need to talk about it and build more male spaces and support systems for men out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 11:38 PM
1	Men are giving up on dating and women are getting desperate They’re not getting desperate. Most women in Australia have no trouble getting into relationships. The videos on TikTok are just to get engagement, saying men are bad is an easy way to do so.	/r/MensRights	21/02/24 03:33 AM
–	Dating doesn’t actually have to be fair Except other men who can relate are labelled as incels. There aren’t any communities exclusively for men left	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 05:22 AM
5	Loneliness has nothing to do with gender Well said. They always want to be the victims for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 05:25 AM
1	Most men today don’t date in college, or in general Even GTA 6 is gonna be ruined by female characters. Soon there’ll be no more copes.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 12:58 AM
2	Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutal Which part of australia are you in? I think it’s more the ethnicity rather than the height that hinders your online dating experience. Australia isn’t as pc as USA	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 08:33 AM
3	Dating as a minority under 6ft in Australia is brutal “my stupid male brain” @mods please ban this bluepilled white knight simp	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 08:30 AM
3	Getting married to her Perfect Person Rivelino’s green line theory in action	/r/AllPillDebate	27/10/23 10:27 PM
10	45% of women expected to be single by 2030 Truly happy. Being single for females is not the same crippling loneliness an incel feels.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 02:11 PM
8	Do women prefer to stay single all their lives in hopes of finding Gigachad? As opposed to dating men who are Sub 10 or Sub 9? Being single for a female isn’t even bad, they’re the happiest demographic for a reason. Normal relationships have ups and downs, there are disagreements and compromises involved. But by being single they don’t have to deal with that (or in their language, there’s no emotional labour involved). They can fulfil their sexual needs with hookups with Chads, and their emotional and financial needs with their beta orbiters. They get all the benefits of being in a relationship, with none of the disadva…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 09:30 AM
8	Do women prefer to stay single all their lives in hopes of finding Gigachad? As opposed to dating men who are Sub 10 or Sub 9? There’s no shortage of simps out there, why limit yourself to that one elusive gigachad your whole life when you can get gassed up by hundreds of beta orbiters instead?	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 09:09 AM
1	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. Maybe in T and E, but M is definitely female dominated. Only a matter of time before T & E become that way too.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 11:22 AM
1	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. Yes	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 05:36 AM
0	Dating for men is a race to the bottom Instead of killing them we need more healthy male spaces. We need more blackpilled men in the education system. We need to teach boys not to simp. We need more funding into AI girlfriends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 07:49 AM
7	Dating for men is a race to the bottom Cope. Soft harems are the way of the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 07:46 AM
18	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. Even in universities females significantly outnumber men, including in fields such as law and medicine. And yet society promotes bullshit affirmative action policies that favour females. Fuckin clown world out there	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 07:40 AM
8	Friendly reminder fem"cel"s aren't real Like the Chad of pugs	/r/AllPillDebate	12/10/23 07:55 AM
15	Gym guy Please don’t be a creep. Not all Chads at the gym want to be approached. Can’t a Chad just work out in peace without getting harassed?	/r/AllPillDebate	10/10/23 10:15 AM
2	Face rating and amiugly subs are cringe! Do you agree or disagree? Rating subs get ruined by simps. Someone needs to create a male only rating sub where females are banned to keep the simps away and to keep the ratings objective.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/10/23 10:23 AM
3	Women do not hit a ‘wall.’ Most of these red pill gurus come from an older generation where the wall did exist. Back then there was no online dating. They’re still stuck in those olden days, and you can’t really blame them for choosing to hold on to memories of a better time tbh. With the rise of OLD and the subsequent hoeflation, the “wall” has been smashed like the Berlin Wall.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/10/23 07:58 AM
1	What are your standards to date guy ? What are your educational qualifications, and what do you bring to the relationship?	/r/AllPillDebate	29/09/23 07:40 AM
24	What are your standards to date guy ? Above 6’2, makes 100k +, white, someone with muscles but not too muscly (Chris Hemsworth type of body, not into the bodybuilder look teehee), willing to accept curvy girls, willing to step up and be a father to my 2 beautiful kids, Tyrone and Shaniqua	/r/AllPillDebate	29/09/23 03:36 AM
22	Why do women even use this subreddit? The smart ones are out there dating Chads and basking in their beta orbiters’ gifts and compliments. The ones you see on Reddit are those who struggle to be able to do that, so they try to argue to make themselves feel better. They just don’t want to accept the fact that they’re among the bottom tier of women.	/r/AllPillDebate	23/09/23 03:49 AM
1	"I'm a perfectly well-adjusted and successful person with a job, a relationship, friends, and hobbies, but I spend my free time on a pill forum telling short, ugly, and ethnic minority men that they're not entitled to sx and wmen hate them because of their personality" 😂😂	/r/AllPillDebate	10/09/23 04:57 AM
11	Blackpillers aren’t always fat, lazy, basement dweller NEET losers They say that to gaslight us. For them it’s easier to put the blame on us rather than entertain the thought that females aren’t the perfect specimens they think they are.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/09/23 02:28 AM
4	Women who frequent spaces like these are honestly pathetic Complain to your boyfriend instead?	/r/AllPillDebate	07/09/23 10:38 PM
1	Why is this cringe considered normal? Young men deserve more respect than this. Men don't require each woman they date to weigh less than them. Maybe we should pull out the scales. She’s got 2	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/08/23 01:08 AM
0	W*men have caused me to become permanently disfigured at only 23 Interesting how the “patriarchy” is blamed for ED in females but when op engages in similar behaviour it’s solely his fault…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 10:47 AM
5	Anyone ever realize desire is what matters? Stop inventing pills ffs. Black pill is the final pill. There’s nothing to shift your attention to because it doesn’t matter.	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 10:01 AM
1	Why don't women support Polygyny/harems? They do. Times are changing. In the Netflix show Selling Sunset, one of the women is in such a harem, and with the exception of one, the rest of the office overwhelmingly support her. That’s just one example in one of the most popular shows out there. So yes, among younger generations polygyny has strong support	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 12:04 AM
5	telling a self-improved ugly guy to do thousands of cold approaches is like telling a poor person to buy lottery tickets everyday with the hope of eventually becoming a millionaire (Depunking a common argument) Very well said. Unfortunately rational arguments like these don’t get addressed. Red pillers love responding to low hanging fruit so that they can sell their scams	/r/AllPillDebate	25/08/23 05:42 AM
2	Women Just can't take "OK" for an answer. Now you’re gaslighting me	/r/AllPillDebate	20/08/23 06:46 AM
2	Women Just can't take "OK" for an answer. You need to stop gaslighting him.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/23 01:48 AM
1	I have a medical condition that prevents me to go to the gym Sorry brother, unfortunately body positivity doesn’t apply to you.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/23 01:30 AM
1	It’s crazy how even women well past their prime think they can still afford to be picky, sometimes even more so than genuinely desirable women Because in todays climate they can afford to be picky. More single men out there so they still have lots of options.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/08/23 01:19 AM
1	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? Absolutely. Work is a place to work, not a social place to befriend females.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:02 AM
4	Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life? Absolutely not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 09:55 PM
2	Do men like plus size women? Absolutely. Men, are attracted to all shapes and sizes whereas females tend to hold men to a narrower standard of beauty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 02:18 AM
16	I'm a passport bro. Ask me anything. Swiss women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 03:44 AM
1	Which man would you pick? > Tom	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 08:26 AM
1	It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege. These days being a landwhale just means you’ll have a few less options	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 06:09 AM
2	Does female loyalty exist anymore? It never did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 05:05 AM
10	Let's just be honest, about men and height. Same energy as a billionaire complaining about poor people talking about rising costs of living	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:33 AM
2	Let's just be honest, about men and height. It’s called statistics. Obviously, enough wealth and status will make them overlook height, but that is simply not applicable for the vast majority of the dating pool	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:28 AM
6	Let's just be honest, about men and height. She says that while getting railed by the local NBA team so that some bluepilled simp would gas her up to maintain her ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:26 AM
2	Question for everyone: could you commit long term to a person that swiped you left on Tinder? If you remember it’s an easy no. Don’t get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you as much as you like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 06:35 AM
1	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards You’re 38, it’s different for gen z men	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:18 PM
3	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards And that’s why “Stacy” chose an open relationship with you rather than an exclusive one. Of course girls you come into contact will say you’re attractive, but watch their actions, not their words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:06 PM
7	Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards Another great example of variation in men’s tastes, because I prefer the “fit and healthy”	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:34 PM
1	Q4M question for males: you meet your dream girl, but then she ages and is no longer the girl you met? Women are equally, if not more, into looks than men when seeking relationships and dates. It’s only in marriage where a man’s looks can take a backseat if he can make up for it with resources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:41 AM
6	Q4M question for males: you meet your dream girl, but then she ages and is no longer the girl you met? The same thing you’d do when a man you meet starts to have a receding hairline, starts gaining fat and loosing muscle as his metabolism slows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 08:48 AM
2	Is it just me or there's a certain type of woman that loves to bully single men specifically? I know exactly who you’re talking about lmao, swipesfordaddy and her commenters have got to be among the least self aware people on this planet 🙄🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 02:20 AM
2	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Because men are more romantic, it’s harder to opt out for us	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 08:04 AM
2	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? Yeah but you do get a similarly high standard of living if you like city life	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 10:45 AM
1	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? There’ll be a lot of compromises you’d have to make in other aspects of your life if you want to go back to Bangladesh, unless you’re very wealthy. At the end of the day it’s up to you whether you want to make those compromises. I do not, so I will continue to stay in the west for career opportunities, at the expense of my dating life. With South Asian MOC, while we do face a significant disadvantage in the dating world, we do have an advantage in the marriage world, because of our culture of ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 09:34 AM
4	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? It’s about as materialistic of a society as your average Asian country + USA. The cost of living is high but it’s a bit exaggerated tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 09:27 AM
2	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? In the US there are a lot more white guys so they aren’t as special, but in Asia, white guys are much rarer making them a lot more prized and revered. They’ve got a massive pandemic of White Fever there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 09:24 AM
3	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? LMAO in the countries you mentioned other than USA and Europe, women would literally worship the ground you walk on because of your skin colour	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 08:39 AM
7	which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating? Singapore isn’t any better bro, one of the most common dating preferences you’ll encounter there is “Whites/Chinese only” or “No Indians”. And they’ll be a lot more open about it because Singaporean culture isn’t as pc as usa. The silver lining is that the higher proportion of Indians means that there will be more people used to Indian guys, so there’s a larger proportion of people open to dating Indian guys too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 08:36 AM
1	What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?" Solid advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 01:24 PM
1	Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bed No chemistry = < 6'2"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 10:16 AM
-3	Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals? Men definitely love more. The greatest works of art were by men professing their love. A man's love comes straight from the heart, whereas a woman's love comes from a brain, filtered through a calculator. Because men are the ones who love unconditionally, while women love based on status and what a man can provide them with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 11:16 AM
11	Unpopular opinion: incels are justified in feeling frustrated It makes it easier to hate on incels when you generalise and paint them as someone they are not. Same thing happened to the lgbtq community before they got more acceptance, same thing happened with ethnic minorities, and the same thing happened with Muslims.	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 09:31 AM
5	45% Of Women Will Be Single & Childless By 2030 Gotta pump those numbers up	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 06:08 AM
1	Whatever you do never allow yourself to slowly drift into the frienzone catch yourself-Woman POV Appreciate the candidness. Not a lot of women willing to openly talk about their behaviours like you did.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 12:17 PM
1	What advice do you give to below 6' guys to vote in the Modern dating world? The advice I follow and would give would get removed under rule 9	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 02:18 AM
7	Assuming the Tinderpocalypse is real, what happens to the dating market over the next 10 years in the west? We will mimic the simp-like nature of nature itself, with men being like worker bees and women like queen bees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 06:43 AM
1	A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario? A.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 03:55 AM
2	The REAL reason all my boyfriends have been 6ft plus Reads just like a racist trying to explain why they don't like the race they don't like lol. Trying to justify their attitude with baseless generalisations and anecdotes pulled out of their ass to suit their narrative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 09:15 AM
1	Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not? Nope	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 04:49 AM
3	NY Post - Millennial men want 1950s housewives after they have kids It’s quite alarming that for every 100 women with a bachelors degree, only 74 men get one. We need to put in policies in place to remove the matriarchal degree gap	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 12:45 AM
5	Dominant/masculine women, are submissive/feminine men a turn-off? It just so happens ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 06:36 AM
48	I've had my fun and men are holding me accountable for it "Want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that's fucking impossible" "Stop dming for a date im not interested". Fucking tutorial mode	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/04/22 08:00 AM
2	Would you go to a male-only gym? Yes. I just prefer the energy of all male spaces.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 12:32 PM
36	I think women are perfect, never have ulterior motives, women never lie, the divorce and rape and domestic abuse courts aren't rigged against men. I think love between men and women is real, and I also think that reddit can take its content policy and blow it up my ass. Wtf you get suspended for upvoting stuff now?	/r/MGTOW	01/08/21 11:32 AM
10	Look at this Good to see some fairly based comments in there though	/r/MensRights	23/05/21 11:27 AM
137	Non conventional way of exposure, but atleast she'll think twice about cheating next time. All actions have a reaction folk! 😂 Damn, Uncle Phil is savage!	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/10/20 01:07 PM