toaster10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	[FR] #2: First time out solo	toaster10	/r/seduction	28/07/12 04:09 PM
1	First [FR] 3 approaches, # close	toaster10	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:22 AM
1	Does TRP apply more to getting women or reshaping a relationship you've already established?	toaster10	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/14 11:54 PM
0	Eliminate who, what, when, where from your vocabulary when talking to women	toaster10	/r/seduction	29/06/14 07:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	TRT and the elevation of SMV beyond 40 I'm a doctor, and I'd recommend putting a more obvious disclaimer in your post. Hormone therapy is not benign, I've seen some ugly things happen because of it, and there are probably enough readers of this post that someone will be harmed by starting testosterone replacement without proper monitoring. I'm not saying it's wrong for everyone, but it's also not right for everyone.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/18 12:15 AM
8	The 20 Principles of Rogue Health Just so people are aware, principle #10 references a very specific study in which statins were given to people with no known heart disease. Statins are not generally indicated prophylactically unless there is a known familial hypercholesterolemia or other disorder that puts one at increased risk for atherosclerosis. Statins are extremely effective for most people in lowering LDL cholesterol, commonly referred to as bad cholesterol. Support for the cholesterol hypothesis is seen in studies that u…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/15 04:16 AM
1	Why I am grateful to have lived in a feminist dominated university flat I think it comes down the futility of arguing with feminists. It's not ideal but what does he have to gain by revealing his beliefs? He can focus on self improvement and building a social circle that will give him sexual options through social proof.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/15 03:44 PM
10	Mike Rowe Responds to the NYT Modern Man article Serious question about how this becomes practical in the case of an intruder: you need to have the gun locked up to prevent your kids from accidentally shooting themselves, so where does one get the time to unlock the drawer/safe and grab said gun when someone enters your room? I have no strong opinions about guns but do doubt their usefulness in some of these scenarios.	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/15 02:27 AM
9	[FR] The first hole's the hardest (or: baby's first plate) Not trying to be preachy but the fact this annoys you or makes you mad suggests you have some work to do as far as frame control. No woman should have the power over you that'd let that happen. This is a scenario where abundance and amused mastery are very applicable. If you have an abundance of things in your life that make you happy, the LMR should just be a cue to enjoy one of those things instead. Treat her antislut behavior with amused mastery and she'll realize it's just as stupid as you k…	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/15 05:29 PM
2	Modern women are totally fucked. That's a great reply, appreciate you taking the time. I guess I've struggled a bit with the fact that some of these very educated girls I've been with have low partner counts (<3 I've been told and at a certain point you can tell when this is true by their behavior in bed unless you're super beta in which case I realize all girls will act like prude virgins in bed for you). Lower partner count=indication of past behavior=indicator of future behavior=less likely to cheat or whatever. BUT as you s…	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/15 03:19 PM
1	Modern women are totally fucked. Thanks for the reply. I do think that the fact you admit it was in your BP days says something about why this might have happened. I have lost "good" women in the past for reasons directly tied to BP behavior. I would guess that your doctor fiancée may not have strayed had you been a dominant self-respecting constantly-improving badass at the time.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/15 12:40 AM
3	Modern women are totally fucked. I'm curious on where you stand on a couple things. I'm a med student too and have seen your posts in the past. At this point I don't date below MD, PhD or Masters level of education (in a science field because i like talking to people who understand science) and she has to have some spontaneity because it's something my life will otherwise relatively lack in coming years. But I feel like when you set your standards to this level, you're not dealing with sluts everyone writes about here. These ar…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/15 08:27 PM
4	Redpillage - A Gift To TRP community Maybe try watching Peaky Blinders. Super RP.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/15 08:15 PM
14	Frame Lesson from Donald Trump Lol yeah when I first read that he should next them hard I was like "yeah good idea...so simple." But then I remembered about nukes and economies and genocides.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/15 11:03 PM
1	[FR] "I'm getting married in 14 days, I'm gonna have some fun." I'm guessing this could vary state-to-state, but I'm pretty sure a way around this is own/rent a property that's not your primary residence (where you live with your LTR) and make that your legal residence. My dad did this with a condo he owned in another state, spent maybe 6 weeks of the year there but it was his legal residence. Probably worth doing for protection against these common law issues and because real estate is traditionally a good investment.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/15 03:18 PM
2	Techniques to get into study mode for young man bursting with energy I'd recommend stretching and the 478 breathing technique to relax your body and mind. Meditation might be helpful.	/r/askTRP	09/08/15 01:37 PM
1	"Would you be mad?" I like this one best but I think agree and amplify can work too. If you agree and amplify nonchalantly it should come off as "that question doesn't deserve a serious response." If your frame is solid, I don't think most girls would worry about whether you're dodging the question.	/r/askTRP	03/08/15 08:32 PM
2	Vaults, cats, and books I think this post represents a phase of swallowing the RP that's not often talked about. This comes after the anger phase but stands between you and self actualization. Some of us, including myself and I believe you as well, have so much work to do in order to overcome a lifetime of beta programming that we must construct a simplistic paradigm to base our thoughts and actions on for a while. This gives us time to reprogram ourselves, internalize our new values before integrating ourselves into t…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/15 03:31 PM
1	I have 6 months of time to learn new skills. What should I do? Philadelphia	/r/askTRP	01/08/15 01:21 AM
1	Making that first move I agree, it's more about making a move as soon as she's wondering why you haven't. It's like your health bar increases from the second the date starts because you're a genuine RP badass. Let that health bar (her interest / feels) peak, then cash it in with a bold but devastating blow that's sure to leave her on her knees in front of your wizard's staff.	/r/askTRP	01/08/15 12:59 AM
1	I have 6 months of time to learn new skills. What should I do? I think that focus could be redirected and if you have a constructive way to do that I think it would be appreciated. I know you've acquired the skills to move beyond lifting, new skills/languages, etc. as methods of self improvement and think some of us would benefit from insight on how to the same. There is limited concrete advice on this sub about how to move from 95th percentile to 99th. I'm looking at being a bilingual MD with a finance background in a few years and there are a few voices h…	/r/askTRP	01/08/15 12:43 AM
1	I have 6 months of time to learn new skills. What should I do? Can you tell us about it or is it a secret?	/r/askTRP	31/07/15 10:58 PM
3	BRIFFAULT’S LAW and the high social staus woman Would you mind linking your stats on physician marriages? I've read that dual doctor marriages are actually quite durable compared to the average marriage. A couple if links below seem to agree: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11915527 http://www.nationalreviewofmedicine.com/issue/2006/03_15/3_physicians_life02_05.html	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/15 05:36 PM
1	Should I wear a wedding ring to my next job interview, /r/asktrp? Does it really signal reliability to male and female hiring managers? Any other interview tips? Neat username but I have to disagree. Just because you're a RP guy who values workplace contributions more than dumb shit like marital status doesn't mean the rest of the world is so wise, and there's a chance someone from the rest of the world is who will be interviewing him.	/r/askTRP	27/07/15 10:03 PM
0	Building your empire from scratch in your 20s? Work on yourself and the empire will follow. If you become someone with admirable fitness, knowledge and skills people will be drawn to you. There are many ways to build your empire but really no shortcuts. Becoming an alpha does not lead to a place where life becomes "easier." You will need to constantly improve yourself and be responsible for making good decisions for those around you because most people aren't capable of doing so. In many ways it can be a stressful existence because you can't…	/r/askTRP	21/07/15 04:37 PM
5	Successful Men Are Warriors. That seems a little short sighted. You have a lot of control over whether you have to pay alimony someday so that's a terrible reason not to make money. Washboard abs are cool and useful until you're about 50 years old- then people just see an old guy who takes care of himself. At which time you might have 40 years of life left, and you're going to want some money at that point. Money gives you access to social circles with elite thinkers and doers. I don't know about you but I'd rather make eno…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/15 09:08 PM
2	[FR] These chicks are wild. I've not heard of a comfort test before. I get the basic idea but can you explain more about what this means from her end and from the guy's end? It seems like one step toward validating her hamstering (other people should look after me when I black out waaaaa!).	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/15 09:04 PM
4	Ridiculously good looking problems. Maybe read closer, OP has a quote about you I think: "Learn to make people feel comfortable and accepted by you, and you will be treated like a royalty. If you are aloof or self involved, they will topple you like royalty." I can't imagine you not doing the latter to most people if this is actually how you are.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/15 03:57 AM
1	My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jacking There's a two month gap between the last time they had sex and when the pregnancy started. It's not OP's kid.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/15 01:23 AM
5	So Mark Manson's models is literally predicting my future here. How do I break out of this? Pretend she's a bag of chips...	/r/seduction	10/01/15 09:35 PM
7	Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRs I am too. I actually wrote a post here two days ago referencing this issue of being stuck, but OP has done a much better job of expressing it. I've seen the recommendation on here that we may need to lower our standards for a bit to gain momentum and get used to living the lifestyle of abundance. Think about it, I bet you'd be swimming in pussy if you lowered your standards 1 or 2 points on a scale of 10. It's worth considering.	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/14 01:31 AM
1	Does TRP apply more to getting women or reshaping a relationship you've already established? I don't disagree with you, but how would you explain the disparity between number of times we hear about trp work for guys in relationships versus meeting girls?	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/14 12:39 AM
0	Does TRP apply more to getting women or reshaping a relationship you've already established? I know what you mean, and appreciate what you say. Problem is, my studies plus training take 7+ years and I don't want to just "focus on my studies for that long." I don't feel like I need a woman in my life, but I'd prefer one. I think that's the reason any of us go through the trouble to even talk to women, we'd prefer them to be in our lives. I've had relationships where my woman cooks for me, asks for sex, pays for more than her share, etc. I'd just like to be able to experience that more of…	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/14 12:24 AM
9	Two months in - changes so far... I see, thanks for the link. I highly recommend reading that article to anyone who hasn't yet. It's not something I'd thought about much but its definitely true.	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 10:19 PM
9	Two months in - changes so far... I'm assuming this means being jacked and looking smart creates an inconsistent style that's attractive?	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/14 09:13 PM
9	Can F-close, but will definitely reck the girl, is this beta? How does one do this? I've tried to do this, but in most cases the only way you leave someone confident and happy is when they break up with you, because they feel like they can go do better. If you're the one breaking things off, most girls question their worth because you didn't find them good enough to continue relations. Mutual splits are rare. Am I missing something?	/r/seduction	09/07/14 02:29 PM
4	Tips/tricks/routines v. genuine confidence (and my story) "I learned that it's important not to give a fuck about what people think about YOU, while simultaneously, it's also important to care for people as a person as well." Great quote by you here. I think this is an underrated mindset and at the root of the likeable alpha male personality many of us strive for.	/r/seduction	24/04/14 03:29 PM
4	Dating Is Over - AskMen I really this guy's article, but I think there's still room for dates, just in fewer situations than it used to be appropriate. If you have great success with dates, then maybe your demographic is more receptive to the idea, or maybe you give very positive first impressions that allow you to attract a girl quickly and get excited about spending a whole evening together. I think for myself, this doesn't work as well. I tend to grow on people, so a casual hangout is a great way for girls to get to…	/r/seduction	31/12/13 02:26 AM
1	My first, facebook chat game, I had a lot of fun, #-closed, and think I did damn well. I think this was solid.... You never took the interaction too seriously and she obviously thought you were pretty funny. Got the number and put off good vibes, that seems like a success to me.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 06:35 PM
1	[FR] 1st time clubbing, 3 #-closes, 1 K-close, 1 almost F-close :( Hey man, question for you: do you normally open with the "i'm Erik, I'm awesome" thing? It seems like you're qualifying yourself right off the bat but it also seems to work for you. Any thoughts on this? Does it usually work well?	/r/seduction	20/08/12 08:32 PM
5	[FR] Daygame from a noob..3 number closes! Great persistence with the Zara girl. That could have been creepy going back so soon but it sounds like your delivery and lack of fucks given made it work.	/r/seduction	04/08/12 09:58 PM
6	Shittests for girls This is interesting. The thing that comes to mind is compliance tests. The difference is that if they comply, nobody loses. You win because they complied, and she wins because you're likely to escalate from there and she probably wants that.	/r/seduction	03/08/12 06:57 PM
3	[FR] First Field Report, Spontaneous Get together Wednesday Night I have similar issues sometimes my man. I sometimes neg a bit too often, and even though they're usually decently funny, it can get to be too much for the girl. I've started thinking about it this way, which has helped: the pua techniques like negging and disqualification should COMPLIMENT an interaction, not dominate it. This results in a more genuine interaction, where you just throw in negs periodically to remind her who's boss. This might be worth a try, but as a disclaimer I'm still fairly …	/r/seduction	03/08/12 05:15 PM
3	I look about 7 years younger than I actually am, can anybody give me some tips so I could turn this to my advantage? I saw a good line for this on here one time and actually used it last weekend. She said "aren't you kind of young to be in a bar?" To which I said "yeah I actually just got picked up from daycare. I stole my dad's id and the bouncer actually fell for it!" She lol'd.	/r/seduction	02/08/12 08:17 PM
1	[FR] #2: First time out solo Yes good point, ill keep this in mind	/r/seduction	28/07/12 10:37 PM
1	[FR] #2: First time out solo Yeah I hear you. While I was making my douchie comment I was thinking to myself 'wtf am I saying?' but sometimes that stuff just happens to me.	/r/seduction	28/07/12 10:36 PM
2	[FR] #2: First time out solo This is an awesome response, thanks for taking the time. I agree with the premature ejaculation. After re reading I realize it sounds like I blame the poor interactions on their shyness or whatever, which I really don't, I just mentioned it more as context for the vibes I was reading. I want to get to the place where I can pick up a girl on the worst day of her life because I'm that fun/awesome, so obviously have a long way to go.	/r/seduction	28/07/12 10:34 PM
2	[FR] Made out with random chick, I don't feel like I actually accomplished anything. I would say the reason it wasn't fulfilling was because you didn't do it for yourself. If you had OWNED that moment, stepped up and looked her in the eyes, teased her by pulling away right before she thought you were going to kiss, then pulled her hips into you and rocked that make out like fucking david hasselhoff, then you would have felt good about it. You kinda blew an awesome opportunity, but I'd bet good money you'll crush it next time. Good luck partner.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 05:09 AM
2	Let's have an update about what we are up to Good for you on doing things you like even if you're alone. I aspire to do that, and know that is my next step in becoming independent. The world is YOUR/MY goddamn oyster. Get out there and approach like a madman for 2 hours this week! You'll get your date!	/r/seduction	26/07/12 05:01 AM
20	It's Saturday night. Who needs some motivation?! Thanks for taking the time to write this	/r/seduction	22/07/12 03:00 AM
1	With the weekend approaching, let's get our anxiety out of our systems. Tell us the story of the worst blowout you've had and the lesson you learned from it. Haha me too. Makes it sound so much weaker than it is.	/r/seduction	21/07/12 02:54 AM
1	[FR]Party Bus Adventure Damn! So close! There's only been a million lines thrown out on this subreddit about how to deal with the boyfriend issue. Use dat shit!	/r/seduction	11/07/12 01:37 AM
2	[FR] #-close/k-close while trying new things! Good for you man, sounds like you took a good situation and made it great. Can you elaborate on techniques, kino, etc you used so we can learn from you?	/r/seduction	10/07/12 07:57 PM
1	First [FR] 3 approaches, # close Thanks for the feedback man! Yeah the cash for approaches thing is legit for a guy like myself who can get complacent easily. I agree with the assessment of the first hb8, I meant to hit her up later but got caught up in the two set for too long- gotta work on cutting out the fluff but I wanted to try to create more attraction with the girl I #closed cuz she was kinda money in the looks department. Texted the hb8 already, trying to set up a date for this week but she already turned down the firs…	/r/seduction	09/07/12 05:39 PM
2	[FR] First field report. Know the basic theory, just not very experienced Yeah I would I agree the "where is you bf?" line isn't the strongest, but I think that's an easy mistake to make (I can easily see myself doing it). Overall though I like the aggressiveness with the kino and don't think you made any terrible moves- just could have recalibrated a bit better after the first rejection. However your method could have just as easily worked out wonderfully. Nice job, thanks for the read.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:36 AM