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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men So…at least some of these friends of yours are actually women you’d like to date, right ?	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 06:38 PM
5	I don't believe the majority of women prefer average sized penises Many, many women like above-average sized dicks, but not clownishly-large donkey dicks. That said, I think it’s time to get over it, as there’s nothing anyone can do about dick size other than learning to use it effectively.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/24 06:48 PM
1	Am I wrong to feel like average women have been hyped up so much to the point where now it’s exponentially harder to date as an average man? I think there might be something wrong with your approach if you are getting rejected across the board (ugly, mid, attractive). Do you have women friends? Get an honest opinion.	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 12:47 AM
3	Evidence? Well said. Let’s call Mike’s gf Jackie. She’s a sweet girl who rolls her eyes at Sarah’s shenanigans and doesn’t cheat on Mike.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/24 04:23 AM
3	Evidence? So, I’m convinced that the perceived negative effects of online dating didn’t come out of nowhere, and that there actually has been a negative effect on the social scene. That said, there’s no real evidence of the red pill canard re: alpha men sharing all the girls out there - all of the sexist ‘wisdom’ on the interwebs is anecdotal. The shared experience of a small segment of the 7.5+/10, aged 21-35 dating world has been projected to apply to everyone out there, and chronically online NEETs now…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/24 02:05 AM
7	Is escortmaxxing a good way to deal with emotional pain, have fun, and be adventurous in life whenever I’m feeling lonely, will it ruin my chances of finding a long term relationship, and will bragging about it on social media make the women who know me jealous? Definitely don’t post about it - it’s illegal in lots of places, for one.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/24 05:37 AM
2	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. Not me. I don’t need to be cooked for, cleaned up after, or doted on. I just like a little effort, affection, and respect. I know women have it tough too, but man…it’s tough to find a lady who can be those things consistently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 02:37 AM
3	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. Not me. I don’t need to be cooked for, cleaned up after, or doted on. I just like a little effort, affection, and respect. I know women have it tough too, but man…it’s tough to find a lady who can be those things consistently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 02:37 AM
1	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. I think that’s a sex thing. If you mean “tradcons” there are maybe a few of them out there, but that’s just not my bag. I would like a lady who at least considers my opinions in making decisions, but that’s not how they are rolling these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 02:04 AM
3	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. We don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 01:45 AM
1	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. I think I’d ask if people were more or less satisfied with their current sex life as they were 10 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 11:05 PM
1	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. I think you’re being intentionally obtuse - would you consider annual sex to be adequate ? I sure wouldn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 09:52 PM
2	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. So that’s what I’m trying to say - is a guy who has sex once/year “getting laid” or “in a relationship” as OP says ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 09:40 PM
1	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. My understanding is that the study criteria counted one or more sexytimes in the last year as a yes. I could well be wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 09:27 PM
3	Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us. To be fair, having sex once in a year isn’t exactly drowning in tang. Those guys might be visiting this sub the other 364 days/year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 09:18 PM
2	Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions. Honestly - I’d like people to have affordable health care. It’s less important to me what we call it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 08:11 AM
4	Men are not oppressed by women, they are oppressed by institutions. Yep - the term you are looking for is a “mixed” economy, as all countries are essentially a mix of socialism and capitalism to some degree. The US has a higher capitalism to socialism ratio than, say, Finland. Somalia (obviously not a ‘western’ country, making apples-to-apples comparisons trickier, but just using it for the sake of argument) has almost no functioning government, so its ratio is even higher than ours. North Korea has a very low ratio, as did the former Soviet Union. So, anyone wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 10:08 PM
3	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? You forgot about Poland	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 12:59 AM
3	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? We were friends before we briefly dated, and we talked about prior relationships. Fast-forward to the present, and the ladies still love him…though he’s gotta be 40 by now, I’m thinking his brokenness might finally break his winning streak. P.S. I understand that these “alpha-widows” are relatively rare, and I just got unlucky. I don’t think this is common behavior by women (or men). But it does happen! P.P.S. Yes, I shouldn’t have dated her at all, but she was finer than frog hair and laughed a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:57 AM
5	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? Sure, though apparently one of the things she couldn’t get over was his skill as a lover	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 02:44 AM
16	How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters? I dated an “alpha-widow” once. It completely sucked. She’s been chasing that high for years, while Mr. Magic Dick has two different families and is working on a third.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 01:27 AM
1	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? There’s also bias. Wealthy couples (in my experience) tend to send their kids to elite schools starting very early, and slots at these places tend to go to nuclear families.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 03:50 PM
2	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? Well that’s a little bit outside my area of expertise, but the systems we have in place for owning and transferring property often involve governments. Cryptocurrency is interesting in this regard, but it has its obvious drawbacks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 10:57 AM
9	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? I’m not favoring one “side” or another - it is just my experience that those who want children have an easier (and less expensive) time when married. It is completely possible to set up one’s finances to have children and be unmarried.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 10:18 AM
4	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? We have treaties with most countries which require us to give full faith and credit to their marriage and divorce proceedings, and them to ours. This issue would only come into play if one or both spouse(s) came to the US and accumulated a lot of assets, and then filed for divorce and/or died. Simply visiting the US would not affect assets or marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 10:15 AM
2	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? Marriages from other countries will usually be valid in the U.S.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 09:59 AM
1	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? Adoption is hard on its own, and it’s even harder for an unmarried couple. More?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 08:35 AM
6	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? Makes inheritances cleaner, for one. Want more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 04:02 AM
7	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? If he wants kids, absolutely he should get married. Kids born to married couples have a number of financial and legal advantages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 01:36 AM
28	Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts? Lawyer here: they are sometimes tossed, yes. Usually, it’s because a rich tech moron uses an online template without consulting a lawyer. In that same category, sometimes a big wealthy family has been using the same language since the 1820’s and doesn’t habitually run it by a lawyer before new marriages. (Bad move- laws change every year). In California, the most important case is called Bonds v Bonds (after Barry Bonds, of MLB fame. Go Giants!). Bonds’ wife didn’t really speak English or have h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 08:48 PM
1	Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother? More Purple-Pilled here. My mom and I have a pretty normal relationship. I have a twin brother, so I guess he and I were always closer to each other than the other family members, but we all get along well and text often. I just saw my mom this weekend to drive her for a memorial service for my uncle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 12:30 AM
2	Are young men at a disadvantage when it comes to dating compared to older men? Yep - money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 06:15 AM
-2	How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate? “You were incredible on Saturday.” <——-send this Monday. Works like a charm. All women like to be told they are good at sex.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 05:48 AM
1	Sex life of a high value man? A buddy of mine was about a year out of his divorce, maybe 30-31 years old. He was finally making real money (without his ex spending it all) and met new people all the time because of his industry (he’s a pharmacologist, and met female sales reps all the time). He decided to start “playing the field”…from what he has told me, his ex-wife was the 4th girl he ever slept with, and now, eight years later, he’s at about 20 women, all very pretty. That’s not a crazy high number, but that’s a fair amo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 03:15 AM
1	Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective? I have a great relationship with my mom and sister. My two divorces, however (one for infidelity and the other for overt cruelty) have led me to a place where I’m very suspicious of most women’s motives. Most women suspect that men are out to use women for sex…whereas I’m quite wary of being used as a punching bag. Seriously, once the “new relationship shine” wears off, the women I’ve dated just stop being courteous, interested in my life, kind, or grateful. I’m just the pain-in-the-ass roommate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:03 AM
1	[Question] How to deal with "White Knights"? “This isn’t your boyfriend, is it?” is better than “Is this your boyfriend?”	/r/seduction	14/02/22 10:01 PM
2	Marriage looks like a blast! Don't know why ya'll aren't simpin', ya LOSERS! Please be a joke, please be a joke…	/r/MGTOW2	29/07/21 11:18 PM
2	An extract from a news article i was reading about declining marriage rates I have to agree with this - anyone who has tried to live on unemployment will tell you that the ladies don’t exactly swoon at the sight of those little checks.	/r/MGTOW2	09/07/21 04:58 AM
2	Sex then loneliness Keep doing whatever your lawyer says, and ignore Reddit legal advice. I’m a lawyer (but not your lawyer) in California, and each separation is different. There is no hard and fast rule that moving out voluntarily is bad. Some petitioner’s lawyers will argue “abandonment,” lack of interest in the children’s lives, etc., if dad moves out first without being forced - but it’s just that, an argument.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/21 08:48 AM
1	Friend got divorced The worst part is feeling like a sucker. It’s embarrassing 🙈.	/r/MGTOW2	17/02/21 09:58 PM
1	We’ve just decided to separate Yes, yes, and kinda.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/21 01:26 AM
3	Off-topic discussion: Dudes who are always busting other dude’s chops. At some point, bring up (good-naturedly) that you don’t mind the goofing around but there’s a respect line that gets crossed occasionally. Tell him you don’t mind getting your balls busted, but you do mind getting them cut off.	/r/MGTOW2	12/02/21 11:00 PM
2	Can a divorce become "void" if too much time goes by between the separation and divorce finalization? Hey dude - you really need a lawyer. This is above Reddit’s pay grade. I can recommend one in the SF Bay Area, otherwise I’d get on Avvo and start making calls.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 11:13 AM
2	If divorce takes a year.. do you end up having to pay a years worth of child support? Let’s call it “freedom tax.” Also, yes.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 10:44 AM
-5	Red Pill Parenting: If you have boys, or plan to, get ready for what the world has in store: LA Juvie experiments on boy with estrogen You guys need to stick with tips for getting laid.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/20 11:22 PM
1	A Note on Leadership 41,000	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/20 09:43 AM
1	A Note on Leadership 23,000 dead in the US. Ever consider that your little tips for getting laid aren’t exactly applicable to a major public health crisis?	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/20 07:52 PM
2	Lockdown Monk Mode I think we are trying to agree with eachother - it takes well-honed skills (and the implied discipline) to succeed in online sales. A person could just have a natural talent for it (or have really nice tits), but it’s more likely that a good digital sales professional has worked in the traditional sales trade (cold calls, knocking doors, running client-maintenance on the boss’ big accounts, etc); or has launched a few failed sites first. Trial and error is a great way to pick things up. So is th…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/20 02:35 AM
2	Lockdown Monk Mode Robinhood is (mostly) commission-free. I’m not exactly a big shot, so that’s the one I use. If you are talking about real money, you could actually hire a broker from one of the big investment houses (Schwab has my job-linked retirement account and my employer likes them, for what that’s worth). Beyond that, there are fancier programs that require special computer setups (I think they’re called Bloomberg Terminals?) for when you graduate to full finance wonk. And don’t trade on margin until you …	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/20 09:40 PM
2	Lockdown Monk Mode The stock market is bananas right now; this might be a good time to create a fake portfolio just to learn (like circling horses on the racing sheet without making the bets). Start with something basic (Investing for Dummies, The Millionaire Next Door) and start reading a regular financial news service (Motley Fool is enjoyable). Good luck!	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/20 01:06 PM
102	Lockdown Monk Mode They are mostly lying, or in a pyramid scheme. That said, if you have developed a skill from an extensive education (or a career) that you can now market on your own, go for it! But you aren’t going to get rich by dropshipping Ali Baba products or selling Wordpress themes.	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/20 01:01 PM
1	A Note on Leadership Wow, your comment sure aged well. Enjoying the quarantine?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/20 04:49 AM
12	A Note on Leadership 10 times more lethal than flu, and we have a vaccine for flu. Don’t be stupid on purpose.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/20 07:53 AM
59	Dear TRP: You were right Time to do some terrible, disgusting things to one of your side chicks. (Obviously only with consent, be safe, and so on). Get the poison out of your system and move on. Sorry dude.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/20 03:54 AM
4	What Every Pretty Girl and Champ Guy Knows, But Can Never Tell You So, I don’t mean to denigrate your efforts, but it sounds like you a) cleaned up your look a little, b) got into better shape, c) played it a little cooler. All great things! But no need to overthink it...you just cogitated yourself into intentionally sniffing a butthole. Maybe quit while you’re ahead, eh?	/r/seduction	01/01/20 09:56 AM
1	Do Women Appreciate Societal Protection from Men and What Would happened if it stopped? You seem to think about violence a lot. Maybe talk to someone about it? Those kind of intrusive thoughts can be headed off at the pass with a little work, my dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/19 07:48 PM
3	Do Women Appreciate Societal Protection from Men and What Would happened if it stopped? JFC. This post, and most of the comments here, are essentially illiberal. Men don’t “protect” women in a democracy; We The People have formed a body politic that protects everybody. The definition of who counts as a real person keeps growing, which is a good thing. Also, to the total dorks who are posting some variant of the following: “only men know the power that is forged in blood on the field of combat” (and whatever other bullshit you tell yourselves) - you aren’t fucking Odysseus. Get ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/19 07:14 AM
0	The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail. I’m of the opinion that having a high opinion of oneself will prove useful with the fairer sex. Surveys of successful people usually put “self-assuredness” at the top of the list of qualities that got them there (see for yourself with your googler machine). Calling everyone on here “mediocre” and insisting they will “fail” is, thus, counterproductive. Some advice from a 39 year old, lads: the handful of times I’ve hooked up with cute girls on the same night I met them, I typically did nothing ot…	/r/seduction	25/12/19 12:55 AM
12	The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail. This is pseudo-philosophical horseshit, designed to make people feel bad.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 06:21 AM
6	Always assume attraction - A.A.A. I say this with respect - about 90% of your post is legally dubious or flat-out wrong. I’m not saying all office philanderers get busted...in fact, most don’t. But the alleged wrongdoer will be named as a codefendant with the corporation basically every time. I have one on my desk at this very moment. To any of you young guns who have read down this far: keep the mustang in the barn until you’re off the farm!	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/19 08:24 PM
15	Always assume attraction - A.A.A. Ok, so you made me laugh, but for every fuck-palace that you describe, there are ten cubicle farms that don’t tolerate funny business of any kind. Also, you speak of getting fired like it’s the worst thing that can happen - it’s not. Lawsuits and police trouble are potentially on the horizon for dudes who dip into the office ink.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/19 07:56 PM
85	Always assume attraction - A.A.A. I’m a civil litigator, mostly defending companies who have purchased insurance against big lawsuits (workplace injuries, discrimination, and yes, sexual harassment). You should do most of your communicating with women via email. Obviously that isn’t always possible, but seriously, if the office 10/10 corners you in the break room...leave! (Obviously, if you are a gay man, the same applies to single men. Lots of straight guys out there flatter themselves into thinking they are being hit on by hom…	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/19 09:07 PM
5	Gillette loses $8Billion after disastrous Feminazi ad debacle - Clueless CEO blames beards. LoL A company like P&G doesn’t take an $8 billion write-down due to a bad commercial. (I thought the ad was dumb, for the record). Years of stubborn adherence to the old-fashioned “manufacturer to wholesaler to local distributor to foreign distributer to foreign retailer” model bit them in the ass when online subscription-sellers popped up.	/r/MGTOW	12/08/19 07:50 AM
2	When SJW's try to explain things to a MGTOW Anti-semites are real. Not saying there are any in this sub, but there are plenty of folks in the Middle East who aren’t exactly fond of the Jewish faith but aren’t properly called Nazis or anything similar.	/r/MGTOW	13/09/18 04:07 AM
10	Female predators, don't be their victim. Mine just got the last of her alimony. Never again.	/r/MGTOW	06/09/18 08:08 AM
21	I just broke up with my girlfriend who was a single mother. You didn’t want to raise a disabled child...that’s a sane and prudent choice. She can get back with babydaddy if she wants financial support. Your family isn’t thinking about you, they are thinking about how they think things look. First of all, there’s no community-at-large that gives a shit what you do. Secondly, you only have one life on this rock, and you shouldn’t spend it raising Chad’s disabled child. It sounds awful.	/r/MGTOW	04/09/18 08:41 AM
5	He “raped” her. Absolutely disgusting Lawyer here. If this is real, be aware that such a thing is typically NOT rape in the United States. “False pretense intercourse” is a topic for debate among academics, but ultimately everyone lies a little re: sex. A woman claiming to be current on her birth control when she forgot that morning’s pill hasn’t raped anyone (unfortunately). Fun time article There are some exceptions - such as claiming falsely to be someone’s husband in a dark bedroom, or claiming that the act taking place isn’t ac…	/r/MGTOW	03/09/18 02:28 AM
2	Some empathy maybe? No? Yep. No one calls black homeless guys privileged. It’s a clumsy counterfactual. “Oh yeah? Male privilege eh? What about this picture of a transient?”	/r/MGTOW	26/08/18 05:55 AM
3	Anyone who has lived with a woman knows this routine. Don’t forget “freak the f&&k out on husband and kids a few times, making husband wish he could travel alone instead.”	/r/MGTOW	15/08/18 10:55 PM
3	My experiment running "asshole game" Totally. And if you’re feeling bad, random poon doesn’t really help (so much as distract) anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/18 08:43 PM
1	My experiment running "asshole game" Does poor state mean, like, emotionally in a bad place? Or actually feeling cash-poor? Either way, if you are preoccupied with something, you might be putting off the “I need a friend” vibe. Nothing wrong with that, btw. My life would suck without my friends, male and female.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/18 08:04 PM
2	More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister. Re: STI’s/ STD’s at the end of the post - you can get dong germs from blow jobs. Public service announcement to the straight guys and gals who skip condoms for oral.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/18 02:20 AM
45	How NOT to Day Game It sounds like you have regular work, you get some exercise, and you are working on your writing. A little social anxiety with women doesn’t make you a loser, dude. This weekend, walk around a mall and ask every 7+ lady you see what time it is. “Excuse me, do you know what time it is?” Seriously they won’t bite you, they’ll just answer. Make eye contact, say thank you, and walk away. There - you just “opened” a whole bunch of chicks...it’s not nearly as hard as it feels. Now you just need a bett…	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/18 12:17 AM
1	On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture. You are clearly very well versed in the subject ! I would say you make a valid point re: the violence inherent in Islamic texts. As you spoke to, the Old Testament is also pretty nasty. Admittedly, for a vulnerable reader, it’s a short distance from these holy books to explosives, or to violence against women. That said, we can’t just give up on all religious people - that’s most of the world! Religious people have a tendency to cherry-pick the nice parts of their religions anyway. So to the ext…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/18 07:36 AM
0	On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture. You are painting with a pretty broad brush, dude. The KKK is supposedly Christian, as was MLK, Jr. Pretty different beliefs between the two, right? I’ll say fuck the KKK, but MLK was a good guy. Just like I’ll say my Muslim neighbor who adores his daughters and invites me to his celebratory meals is a good dude, but the Pakistani judge who sentences a raped woman to be executed for adultery can eat shit.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/18 10:42 PM
-1	On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture. As a lefty: none of us are afraid to criticize Islam. We just don’t like seeing anyone tortured or blown up by drones (without good reason). Lots of our grandfathers fought against some very bad dudes who targeted minorities, and we aren’t interested in propping up such a system, on either side. And fuck anyone who rapes a woman. To the extent that any religion condones this, fuck their religion too.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/18 10:07 PM
3	First date sober. Learn from my mistake. I quit drinking about 2.5 years ago. It gets much, much easier to talk to girls. Just gotta be patient, bud. Your body is changing, so let it do its thing and take it easy on yourself. I took some friendly advice and started listening to a comedy podcast and practiced being clever on twitter until my verbal game was back up to where I wanted. Takes a while. On the plus side, you'll live longer! Good luck.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/17 05:27 PM