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Thanks!
/r/seduction18/10/17 12:31 PM
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You can't give up as long as you have desires. Same here. One start could be just saying to random strangers. As a start.
/r/seduction29/03/17 09:43 PM
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Also, maybe it helps talking to someone sitting next to you, or saying very obvious things to them. For me it's a problem I can't approach anyone when it's not very safe.
/r/seduction27/03/17 09:27 PM
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I will try
/r/seduction27/03/17 09:25 PM
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Yes, I know. It doesn't help saying "just do it". I think in our situation, either: 1. We try to find a solution, even if it means getting a dating coach or someone to push us. 2. We give up and try easier situations, social events + internet dating I hate giving up though...
/r/seduction27/03/17 09:25 PM
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Where do you usually approach, what do you say?
/r/seduction26/03/17 09:24 PM
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But what did you do to get to that point where you can just do it?
/r/seduction26/03/17 09:17 PM
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Tinder became crap when they stopped having unlimited swipes.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:14 PM
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I get it. But it isn't about what to say. It's about going over and risking rejection. I have social skills enough, this is not my main issue. It's fear of rejection. Plus I think what to say doesn't matter really, what matters is your vibe.
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:04 PM
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Internet and real life are very different things, hiding behind a screen is easy. The hard thing is to go up and get rejected in real life. That's what I'm struggling with now.
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:33 PM
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But internet is easy, no challenge. There are however maybe real life situations that can be make it a bit smoother. But honestly, I think I have to jump out on the deep end, there is no way around this.
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:00 PM
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Thank you. My issue is mostly initiating a conversation. Once we talk it's fine. But I don't meet a lot of people naturally through work or other places these days, so I have to start initiating a conversation.
/r/seduction02/12/16 10:34 PM
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Good idea. Anyone in London??
/r/seduction01/12/16 11:45 PM
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It's not that I can't, I did it in the past, but wouldn't get more than a smile and "you made my day". Too much pressure. Better to be fun and playful than super direct I think.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:12 AM
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Have you ever done in the morning when people are rushing to work btw?
/r/seduction17/11/16 11:45 PM
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Yes, I guess so. I find streets a bit hard. Today I was in a couple of bars. Made eye contact with a cute girl, stunning girl, but couldnt do it. I could, but chose not to is more correct to say. I let fear win. I would love to go over with no plan. What can I say on the street that's not a compliment? I feel that's putting too much pressure on the whole situation, I want to start easy.
/r/seduction17/11/16 11:35 PM
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All I know is that I don't want to start with a compliment.
/r/seduction17/11/16 11:06 PM
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I know, but I just haven't find a canned line that makes me relaxed enough to do it, I always find some excuse anyway. But feel free to suggest me a relatively safe line. I know it's not about the line though, but a good line would definitely make it easier to go over.
/r/seduction17/11/16 11:02 PM
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Nah, doesnt seem like my kind of place, but thanks anyway;)
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:10 AM
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Is it good for talking to women? Any other good bars around there? I was in the area tonight, but I rarely find a good opportunity to chat to women. It always feels like I need something to say first, then I overthink it and do nothing.
/r/seduction15/10/16 11:20 PM
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Cirque old street? Thanks. Will try it.
/r/seduction15/10/16 08:24 PM
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Probably, but I'm not rich...
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:41 PM
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Whereabouts? What are they called? Yeah, let's try.
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:40 PM
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Thanks. My main issue is i find few genuine things to observe and say. Just people doing normal stuff. If i see a pretty girl, i look for something hard, but i only see her pretty face. How do i overcome this and just say something?
/r/seduction07/10/16 09:41 PM
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I can say hi, but that's not that difficult. I struggle with initiating longer conversations and just passing remarks to people.
/r/seduction30/09/16 09:44 PM
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So start with a question is a good idea?
/r/seduction30/09/16 09:40 PM
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But isn't it typical to go through a period of forcing yourself to do something before it becomes a habit?
/r/seduction30/09/16 09:35 PM
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