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3	Not Sure What to Expect This is a shitty situation for sure, here are some things to consider: Individual and/or couples therapy. There may be other things going on that needs to be revealed. Anger usually gets in the way of effective communication, so a therapist might help. They might also be able to recommend meds for depression and/or anxiety. Threats of divorce and suicide is classic narcissist behavior and not healthy at all. You need to start looking out for yourself and your mental well being. I didn't see a me…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 11:14 PM
4	A California Father: "Child Support interest has created a Slave race with no end of ever being free. I'm 66..have been paying interest for over 40 years..as much as $1,000 a month..I sit around waiting to die..I have given up hope" Would filling bankruptcy have any impact?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 02:31 AM
2	All my friends are getting married. You guys teached me a lesson to never marry It means one can't just show up, sit around, and expect things are ok. It applies to both. Each needs to work at building a strong relationship. They both need to have compassion, understanding, empathy, etc. If only one side is doing that, the relationship is not healthy.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/22 04:09 PM
22	All my friends are getting married. You guys teached me a lesson to never marry Well this is a divorce sub, so you'll only hear the horror stories. Even though this sub serves a purpose, it's not representing all relationships. There's not a guaranteed way to find a spouse that you can be with for the rest of your life. There are certainly obvious red flags, but something may not be discovered until years later. Or there is some traumatic event that changes someone physically/emotionally. Even childbirth can wreck havoc on a woman's hormones causing post partum depression. …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 07:44 PM
38	How do you bond with your daughters? If you know their particular hobbies you could get some supplies/tools and join them. Everyone paints their own small picture, then everyone helps paint a large picture. Maybe have them help you cook dinner while you're all trying a brand new recipe. Go on a hike. Do geocaching. Play Pokemon Go. Visit the city museums. Show them how to change the oil in the car, change the wiper blades, do some woodworking, help with home repairs. How to change store. How to use afire extinguisher (build a littl…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 06:43 PM
1	Cold feet on filing.. Oof. If the children have to be exposed to all that, they'll suffer. Time to call it quits.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 03:36 PM
1	Cold feet on filing.. It's a tough choice and always filled with anxiety and uncertainty. Therapy sometimes takes several months, and it may take a few different therapists to find one that works well. She (and probably you as well) should get evaluated for anxiety and depression, and look into anti-depressants. Those will also take several weeks or months to have an effect, as with finding the right medication and dosage. Couples therapy is an option that might help. Eventually though, you gotta take care of the chi…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 01:52 AM

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