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Just to clarify, it's a much younger colleague that proposed the thing, the single mother, while the retiring woman is more neutral than positive on the idea
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:35 PM
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The female suicide rate is half what it was before Feminism took hold. Male suicide rate seems to also decrease in years (Fig. 1 ch. 4 of your reference material), how do you know it's not due to other factors? Had you got a longer data span, from say the 1800s or something, showing a constant trend and then a sharp decline in suicide rates did actually start in the 1970s, that would make more of your point. Like this it could be anything other than feminism, likely just a constantly downwards t…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:46 PM
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Lifting doesn't count as a hobby unless you compete
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:40 AM
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Seconding the request for brain rewiring and trying to get rid of self-loathing and insecurity. Started lifting 1y ago and I surely look better, but inside I feel still so insecure! It's as if I'm projecting negativity to everyone I speak to, most times, which is a problem not only with girls (which I don't care that much aabout, atm) but with my male friends as well! My excuse is that I'm going through some bs in life, but I also can see that I always have had some kind of excuse like this, so …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:05 AM
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Thanks for the book suggestions and practical actionable tips. Regarding the native language, male manager agrees with you. Could you elaborate a bit on the DLVs? Both managers are my manager on different days, with female manager having peer value when male manager is present. I initially suspected there was some kind of miscommunication with her in general, so I asked her for feedback. She then never replied so after 3 workdays I exposed B's problem to male manager. Subsequently yesterday fema…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:11 PM
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CorporateLand haven't read it couldn't find it, thanks Also you literally mean for me to treat a male shit test as a female one? But then I would reply a lot more, I fear, in his eyes. I can't A&A unless I want a kick in the face, same with ignoring. How do shit testing techniques apply here? EDIT: Also this job is not my future, and despite that my male manager already sees me as his right hand even though female manager has (contractually and hierarchically) more power, that's why he pushed on…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:56 AM
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Yours is a good point, and I appreciate the explanation on absolutes, but you kind of missed my question since, in retrospect, it was probably poorly phrased: is there any possible general strategy to try to bring back a relationship that seems to start sinking? I'm still a novice, but I read in a couple of comments here that it might have to do with dread game and abundance mentality? Is that it? Just pushing a little bit so then you can pull again? Of course it might not work, I'm not saying i…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:27 AM
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But how would you do that if as soon as you "give in" (like many others said already) you slowly start going downhill in the relationship?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:25 PM
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I think I chose the wrong words, I didn't mean to say I want to actually stop at some point, but rather something along the lines of "when does one start to only do maintenance instead of adding more plates to the bar" but your answer is still one step further, so yes, ok, I need a change in mindset, eventually. That makes perfect sense, it'll be difficult to interiorize of course, but it's also going to be well worth it. And same with nutrition, you're talking about the same thing in a differen…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:32 PM
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This is gold to me, thank you, a lot
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:16 PM
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Ok for Stronglifts 5x5, it seems easier to get started with than Starting Strength. The objective here is not to become big but to look good and keep looking good in the long run, right? So when does one stop? Also how do I know if I eat enough proteins? How much is enough, and how do I know I won't be peeing most of them out? Ok also for getting out of the comfort zone, I've been doing that extremely gradually of the past years, I guess it's time to start to get really out of it by talking dail…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:45 AM
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What do you mean by purpose and finance? The rest of it seems clear and very helpful
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:00 AM
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What actually made me decide it's time to act is a combination of rejection and regret. First of all, I'd like to point out I've considered myself a complete beta since high school. That said, I still tried to improve my social interactions and managed to get some good friends and two girlfriends during the course of the years. I met this girl in the beginnings of December, #close in 2 weeks, straight away ask to go drink something. During the course of the evening I get from a k-close to (after…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:57 AM
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Ok so as I understand it, you're saying to just do what I'm supposed to do to get a higher SMV while still living a normal social life. A normal life, in the end. Just do what I would've done anyways while keeping in mind the stuff I'm trying to learn and interiorize here on trp, without precluding any other possibility to just focus on me, right?
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