todaysnewest Archive

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1	Divorce is not an Option(for us) He was practically my boss. He had hired me. I worked only with him on the project at work. I didn't know how to handle the reality of the experience. So I asked him about it. I told him hey how did we end up at your place? I even asked him if we had sex. . "He told me I had wanted it." and laughed at the idea that I was one of those people who forget everything. It stopped my mind from feeling betrayed by my actions. He then also went hard on wanting to spend time with me. He started buying me …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 09:59 PM
1	Divorce is not an Option(for us) It's possible, I can't wrap my head around how much I regretting it and it feels like rape(Like something was taken without my knowledge or consent). Telling the person upfront I didn't want to sleep with them. Getting so drunk that I got in this situation. Being sold a false sense of security from this predator. I was unwittingly gamed by a cerebral narcissist. It didn't seem like it was going in a sexual direction at all. I was cross faded with both alcohol and later weed. I really saw this gu…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 09:36 PM
1	Divorce is not an Option(for us) My husband was in an accident which made him lose his car. His car was really important to him. He withdrew, in order to cope. I reacted poorly to this. And he became really self conscious around me. However I hadn't considered cheating on him. The guy I worked with was older and charming. He was extremely manipulative and quickly got me on a regimen of cognitive dissonance. The guy had a history of mental illness himself but more along the lines of a personality disorder. I didn't know what was…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 07:55 PM
1	Divorce is not an Option(for us) I understand. I am excited for a change. I'm trying not to let my fear take control. I feel like if I could go down that road I might catastrophize and become a deer in headlights. I know it will take work. In the past things have kinda just worked for me. I think of my self as slightly above average in looks and smarts and in the past I've let that get me where I was. I've relied on that without having to develop myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 07:13 PM
3	A Few Things I'm Pondering I don't think it makes you a bad person. American culture pushes alcohol and glamorizes drugs, without any values to go with it. In other cultures alcohol is rarely consumed without a meal. Where as here in America that isn't required. Haha. I'm on an anti-alcohol drug kick right now. I seen alcohol destroy many families and as an addiction it isn't really taken seriously. Also in my industry alcohol is encouraged at work as well. Lots of unhealthy habits are pushed at work. Having a value syste…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 07:05 PM
1	Divorce is not an Option(for us) I don't disagree with you. But I don't want to leave. He does have beta traits but he also has alpha traits. I think you might have missed the end where I said "I am taking the red pill.". Which should point out that we did have a blue relationship. And I am taking the steps to become a RPW. I don't want to disapoint myself like I have with my past actions. My husband deserves a great person. He could make any girl happy and I know I would regret leaving him. I recognize what it means to be marr…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 06:58 PM
2	RPW approach to drug abuse Have you met his parents? I find it odd that he is so close to his parents that in order to cope he turns back to drugs. I also find it odd that he turned to drugs at all and still is close with his parents. To have two children that have turned to drugs and one run in with the law. I really hope his parents are actually good people and not the fake good. Addiction does stem from something.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 06:49 PM
2	A Few Things I'm Pondering Yes. When I made my "debut" into cooperate America I realize everyone kinda wants to encourage you to be like them. Or worse. I was encouraged to drink and try drugs. I didn't have a strong value system. I think it happens when people lack boundaries. A lot of people are selfish and un-empathetic towards others. Personally, growing up I hadn't many male figures in my life. I think the women in my life thought of men as children.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 06:40 PM
2	Divorce is not an Option(for us) I am considering a few things. I think I may end up going for a masters just cause I am interested in research.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 06:28 PM
3	Spiritual Practice to become closer to my captain- recommendations needed! This sounds really sexy to me. I have been interested in reiki for a while. My Husband recently brought it up to me cause he know I like spiritual stuff. I am going to do more research. But being able to do some kind of intimate healing reiki session sounds great.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/17 05:00 PM