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that's very cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:09 PM
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While it was an interesting read, being able to know when to move on is a nice skill to have
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:05 PM
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what kind of toxic logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:00 PM
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I thin this is why I have always struggled to understand why so many immigrants from muslim countries still wear the headscarf. Maybe when they are outside their country when they can really choose what to wear, they do it because of tradition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:51 PM
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omg that's so cute I wish you good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:45 PM
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I saw a few posts here and there shaming Hillary for praising this PM just for being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:43 PM
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the fact that there's even a porn category named "barely 18" should raise some flags
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:13 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:23 PM
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In my personal experience this is true. I got more results by only dieting than adding exercise to my routine. I used to swim a lot but somehow I managed to eat the burn calories lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:53 PM
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"better looking" is 100% subjective so it's not comparable. What men have that women don't is homo shaming lol So a woman can look at lesbian porn without questioning her sexuality while a man can't. Also women who watch porn grew up with male porn, and really one of the few genres that focuses on women is lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:51 PM
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I DONT WANT TO WIN I WANT TO DEBATE lol joking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:20 PM
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here's an interesting statistic: How Many Trans People Regret Transitioning? On average, 97% of people who are transgender are happy with their decision to transition. Only ~3% of trans people experience some form of regret, but may not detransition. These detransition statistics are for 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:18 PM
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lol this is interesting I'm going to talk from my ass like I always do. I noticed with women friends that sometimes it's good to have consensus about who is hot (famous people for example) but with crushes in real life it's the opposite. It's nice to like someone nobody else likes, makes you (and the guy) feel special. Also competing for a guy can ruin a friendship. On the other hand men need validation from other men to like someone. That's why they rate women constantly and notice "leagues" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:15 PM
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Makes sense, Lesbian porn focuses on women's pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:09 PM
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Only one of them is "more right" than the other guess which side I am 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:02 PM
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yes exactly! that's what you are supposed to do with other people's dogs! Pamper them and make them have a special good time while they wait for their humans!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:39 PM
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So if it's bigger tits it's fine but the moment she wants to stop being attractive to other men, then that's an issue, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:35 PM
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I think you should reevaluate your social circle if PPD gives better advice than them 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:30 PM
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I thought you were saying they take them out every day just not for long enough. AH I thought you were speaking generally. That's not the case for them though, the house is HUGE. They simply don't like the outside, so the dog is always inside. They do take them for wals daily but they are not enough apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:21 PM
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I'm not saying targeted marketing will cease to exist. I'm saying those marathons about female empowerment will cease to exist because they will be already empowered. They will be as ridiculous as organizing a marathon to empower white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:19 PM
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Not the same at all. In fact slut shaming is as old as humanity. The man not wanting women to vote is the same that now wants women to "be more pure". It's about controlling women, which is the exact opposite of letting them have human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:15 PM
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If you take them out regularly I think it's fine and/or hire someone to make them walk for you. I'm trying to convince her to hire a dog walker
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:10 PM
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I know! In fact having them do plenty of exercise, socialization and discipline is a form of affection. But my friend and her family (2 kids and a husband) apparently love living inside. She wouldn't even let me open the windows because "some rat might come inside" of course I didn't listen. So the dog sat happily smelling the air coming from the window. I fear for those kids who will deal with them when they get old and difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:08 PM
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OP should then think to himself why nobody likes his preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:42 PM
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How is that any different from "I want feminist's approval for my preferences"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:37 PM
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Don't be ridiculous I'm not talking that the Olympics are going to become gender neutral. I'm saying that COMPANIES will stop profiting from the feminist movements. WoMeN SuCk At SpOrTs you sound like a child btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:30 PM
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I should've put an /s sorry I just find some people disguise other serious issues with "personal preference" The weird thing is that they want other people to tell them "your preference is ok", which is kind of telling somehow. Either they are having fun provoking feminists or they need validation to survive. Nobody is asking other people "is it ok if I only date metalheads?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:22 PM
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My friend left me her anxious and hyperactive dog with me for 15 days. After an episode of massive diarrhea and incontrollable poop everywhere I decided to take the issue in my own hands so I started taking the dog for long walks. It worked perfectly. The dog quickly morphed into a well behaved normal pooping dog. He even stopped having separation anxiety. Now my friend is back and the dog wants to continue that lifestyle and my friend hates me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:16 PM
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there's probably an inappropriate music teacher measuring your penis joke here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:12 PM
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I mean, I prefer virgin Asian women what's wrong with that??????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:11 PM
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So what OP wants is "I want feminism to be ok with me preferring virgins" yeah that's not going to happen, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:02 PM
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So they build their whole confidence and personality from the size of their penis? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:44 PM
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I'm on episode 3 or 4 and it already sucks. They are repeating the formula everyone likes "girl who wants to be in power" + incest + sexy evil boy The CGI is one of the worst I've ever seen. On some shots they didn't even bother to remove the green from the screen. Some studios look like a bad porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:41 PM
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yeah but realistically Does feminism can actually change their actions? Otherwise this discussion is simply "I want to get upvotes from feminists" which is dumb to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:38 PM
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that is hilarious and it makes total sense man I love the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:35 PM
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"I do your laundry and take care of the kids ASMR"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:34 PM
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I though purplish_possum was a woman huh I'm a firm believer that if incels lowered their standards they'd be luckier. Like that show "Love on the spectrum". So if there are guys like purplish_possum there are probably women out there who'd sleep with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:33 PM
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everyone is talking about how fascists won
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:23 PM
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Onlyfans has trad-con content tho so, there you go. 👀👀👀 how would this even go?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:19 PM
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We are going on that direction. The true end of patriarchy will be when that ruling class is 50/50. Otherwise I agree they are using feminism for marketing Yesterday there was a all women marathon organized by AVON (which is a company who has been promoting questionable beauty standards since forever). So they dressed the women in pink obviously and they made them run. I wanted to puke. In the future there won't be woman's marathons because it won't be an issue anymore. It'd be like organizing m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:14 PM
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you dirty little slut /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:08 PM
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but on this sub men hate fat women with passion so I still find your answer not convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:58 PM
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interesting I didn't know this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:20 PM
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yeah but the world isn't ready to let chivalry die completely. I hope one day the default is going 50/50. and talking about who is going to pay what in advance is tacky
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:14 PM
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what does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:07 PM
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Do you think Feminism is forcing men to be with women they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:07 PM
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because men are answering "no" does this mean incel women exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:03 PM
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I think by default you should offer to pay for the whole thing and then hope for her to offer to pay half or full. Telling her in advance that you are going to go 50/50 is tacky af. Sorry I don't make social rules. if you don't want to risk it go to non expensive places like beer or coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:01 PM
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What are you looking for? Women's acceptance? Can't you like something without other people's approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:53 PM
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because there was someone a few days ago spamming the megathread with nofap stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:47 PM
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Like that whole men are failing at dating because women rose their standards. If you say it like this it's like you are saying it's women's fault and that's stupid It's blaming others for your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:31 PM
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I absolutely agree with this but ppl here will argue that EvOlUTiOn The idea that sex is different from gender is too advanced for conservatives here. They are like PENIS, TESTOSTERONE, UGA BUGA WOMAN PREGNANT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:18 PM
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RP want submissive women so I guess the answer is blue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:11 PM
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you want to be a teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:07 PM
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2 constants I've observed from being here On Sundays ppl post crazy shit like I believe sex robots will replace women. On Mondays posts tend to be angrier and still a bit unhinged then by the end of the week posts are bluish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:58 AM
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have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:47 AM
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Everyone is talking about beauty but they are wrong bring me the woman with the least genetic diseases in her family. Your grandma had Alzheimer's? next! Aunt had a weird bump in her boob? next!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:46 AM
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How was he in the meh category if you said “ only him “ would have gotten it. because he IS "meh". Not a HVM, more a AverageValueMan or a MehValueMan You are talking about like a segment of population, I'm talking about the value as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:38 AM
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But he's in the "meh" category and you said women didn't have "meh" categories. As if it all FWB situations are failed LTRs. that was my poit at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:31 AM
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Maybe they have a bot to do that? is there such thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:26 AM
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so someone 🤗😎 linked a post 🏤 from a random 🎲🔀 beauty 🌹 sub that 😐 had 🥕 a selfie of a woman 👩‍🚀 to make the point 👇👉 that 😾 even 🌚 an "average" 🧬 looking girl 😲 will 👊 get called 📲 gorgeous and beautiful 😍 by redditors 👪 in ⛵⛵⚓ the comments I 💰 and others 💏 were like "nah 😠 bro 👆🌈 she's 👩🏾 cute 😻💓 what 👏 are you ‼️‼️ talking about" then 🥵 other 👹 guys here 📍 tagged her, 👩 reposted her 👩 photo, and started 🆕 mocking her 👸 looks 👀 which caused her to delete her photo. 📷 then she started 🆕 comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:25 AM
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Like any guy coulda been there and he woulda gotten it ? no, not any dude, that dude only, A dude who has FWB potential but not LTR potential because he's dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:23 AM
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Nothing else defines your value except the person you choose to be. I can think of so many reasons to value someone other that who they are with. Intelligence, political affiliations, interests, humor, looks, etc besides by your logic single people have less value.... are you really saying that? anyway, maybe you do value people like that, but that's not me and I don't associate with people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:21 AM
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so someone linked a post from a random beauty sub that had a selfie of a woman to make the point that even an "average" looking girl will get called gorgeous and beautiful by redditors in the comments I and others were like "nah bro she's cute what are you talking about" then other guys here tagged her, reposted her photo, and started mocking her looks which caused her to delete her photo. then she started commenting here and getting into toxic fights with the users here et voila (btw I'm tempte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:06 AM
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because horny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:01 AM
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You changed your pic too! Even that happened when I wasn't here! I want to go back to the genderless 1 color reddit avatar and I don't know how to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:59 AM
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The day I don't come here is when you chose to have drama? this sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:56 AM
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because sex already happened and you keep in touch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:51 AM
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well, yeah, because he's "meh" he doesn't get special treatment If you say yes to everyone they are not really "meh"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:50 AM
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send boobs and vegene
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:46 AM
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He's married! with a woman smaller than him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:42 AM
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WHY WOULD ANYONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND SHARE A SELFIE HERE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:40 AM
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the difference is that for men ALL women are varying degrees of "meh" while in women the range is smaller. But there IS a range.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:39 AM
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nah sometimes the requirement is simply "he's dumb as rocks but sex is good"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:35 AM
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yeah, it's only 20 of us on rotation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:25 AM
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the top comment is "What in the actual fuck did I just read." so I think people upvoted just because its wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:54 AM
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hahahhahahahaha that made me literally laugh out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:17 AM
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Is this about BJ Novak and his 22y/o gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:11 AM
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why are women that have high body counts called used cars? Sure there are assholes, racists and misogynistic people in the world but luckily not everyone thinks sex has anything to do with the value of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:41 AM
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It's called "women like casual sex too"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:11 AM
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some women like sex and hookups, so if both want casual sex nobody is pumping and dumping
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:10 AM
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I have done that before to another user because I'm so petty I'm glad people notice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:04 PM
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I think there's another POV here besides cope I think incels or maybe young men cannot fadom the idea that what they consider as "settle" is in reality "change in taste/maturity" for women. So they see that the hot 35 y/o woman starts dating a balding funny guy and they assume she's taking what she can get, but in reality her priorities changed. She's as happy as she would've been with Chad a few years ago. She would not be happy with a "chad" at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:01 PM
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Then don't chose that pic for your dating profile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:40 PM
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the only funny part is the megathread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:25 PM
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We don't see enough PPD posts about men's humor
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:08 PM
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she's a solid 7 -PPD probably
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:07 PM
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the graphic nature of your comment goes with your username
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:06 PM
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I'm curious as to if he had answer "broccoli" how would that example have worked with what you said lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:00 PM
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I think this is funny https://i.redd.it/gmmbucpgbnp91.jpg edit: thanks for the award!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:51 PM
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All hail the mighty pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:10 PM
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you don't need 2 kidneys anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:52 PM
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every pussy is loose when you have a small penis ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:40 PM
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who are you the flatter yourself police? /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:07 PM
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Unless you've been grieving before the break up no, I'm sorry I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:05 PM
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Fact is not all pussies are the same. Get your solipsism outta here but a baby can come out from most pussies, so if she's tight she's probably nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:03 PM
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Those guys are more appealing to gym bros than women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:00 PM
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that's not normal sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:56 PM
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if it takes you 48 hours to get over it it wasn't very meaningful to begin with not everyone is able to let themselves feel stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:10 PM
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tell me you've never experienced a meaningful relationship without telling me you've never experienced a meaningful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:02 PM
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They have a podcast and a website, they are earning money via donations. It's just not in Reddit anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:20 PM
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One thing is to like porn, another thing is to watch it every time you masturbate. That's more on the auction side
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:30 AM
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Like the guy filming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:57 PM
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I swear I'm not a troll also you are following me now? why? You are not going to see anything interesting I come here to debate, I'm sorry I made you feel this way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:22 PM
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Absolutely not, I'm so sorry I made you feel this way From my POV we were simply debating, I'm still very open to change my POV ​ anyway, see you around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:18 PM
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It makes it very frustrating to have a conversation. ok, so maybe it's time to stop having it have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:46 PM
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you've opened too much threads! you've entertained me all afternoon and I'm not saying this with sarcasm. I'm answering best I can, if you don't like it you can stop replying, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:27 PM
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If someone would give them money as a present they would refuse and say "no thanks, I'd rather work for the money myself"? This is very unlikely How come there are so many corrupt rich people? what about tax evasion? That money wasn't rightfully earned with a 10-14 hour work, they robbed that money. They took it as a present. I also don't see any rich person refusing family money. I've heard of rich people killing for family money. That isn't very hard working of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:25 PM
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I used to think discrimination against white people was racism now I think that white technically it IS racism, that's not how it should be applied in the real world. I used to think it was equally hard for men and women to date and thanks to PPD I see that it's way easier for women I was skeptical of the "hypergamy theory" but now I think it's true. But I also think men do it too. I used to think men and women are the same now I think we are not. Thinking that we are the same erases each other'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:20 PM
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let's say B but it depends what sacrifice I have to make to have that. Am I born with that amount of money in my account? then B Do I have to marry a rich guy who will give me that money? then I choose A
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:37 PM
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I feel the same about you! I keep asking stuff and you keep ignoring it or maybe you are not understanding what I'm asking. I honestly don't understand the logic behind "women could rule the world if they wanted to, it's just that they are not willing to put the effort" it sounds so counter intuitive in a capitalist setting. That's what I'm challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:34 PM
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Are you? I like debating like we are rn, it's interesting to me and I've kept replying this far because none started insulting each other (thank you for that lmao) We also kept it short and concise. I hate walls of texts. I like reading and challenging POVs that are different from mine, which this sub is for. I'm always changing my own political thinking so I'm open to hearing new stuff. Also I've seen the "patriarchy doesn't exist" and never knew what's the logic behind that. So, while I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:23 PM
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The results show that they don't make the effort. why are you discarding the possibility that society raises women to be less competent than men? why are you so sure they have the opportunities but choose not to take them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:50 PM
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Your argument is that women choose not to have power and money. When given the chance women decline that opportunity. The reason for that is because men have an innate ability to be laser focused and hard work. How can you prove that it's not that women can't but that they are not willing to make the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:34 PM
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You are saying that people who got to that 1% are there because they are laser focused into obtaining power. You are also saying that: Men they desire it more, and their pursuit of it makes them work harder which does give them more merit. So there is something about men that makes them more likely to be successful. Something that makes them different from women. Like you said men tend to work harder and be laser focused. This would explain why that laser focused 1% are men. By contrast this mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:04 PM
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Unless you are 12 or below, all of this is easy to observe and understand. I'm sorry I don't respect people when they start insulting during a debate. That usually means they lost. have a nice day, or not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:45 PM
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you are literally saying that though Because they desire it more, and their pursuit of it makes them work harder which does give them more merit. is this not truth then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:05 PM
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Still not explaining. You are stating "facts". "Men are...." "women are,...." To move further in the analysis you have to answer why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:04 PM
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Because the desire it more, and their pursuit of it makes them work harder which does give them more merit. Does this mean women are lazier and less focused? In this case why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:02 PM
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However, a quick google search showed: Women experience higher rates of poverty than men. In 2018, 12.9 percent of women lived in poverty compared with 10.6 percent of men.*10 Nearly 10 million women lived in deep poverty, defined as falling below 50 percent of the federal poverty line. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/basic-facts-women-poverty/#:~:text=Women%20experience%20higher%20rates%20of%20poverty%20than%20men.,of%20the%20federal%20poverty%20line. Let's say that link is wrong just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:00 PM
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I'm not following. If there's no "men" in power why there is "men" in suicide rates? Men do commit more suicide than women and you definitely have to ask the question why in a same way I'm asking why the people in power are mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:46 PM
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That's not the definition of meritocracy though. a society governed by people selected according to merit. / a ruling or influential class of educated or able people. So what is it then. Are men in power because they want it more or because they are more able to be in positions of power? secondly Why do you think women don't want to be powerful and rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:11 PM
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yes you never explained why is it that that 1% happen to be men is it evolution? gender expectation? culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:08 PM
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The fruits of labor goes to those that earn it. So men have earned their place in positions of power. They deserve it. That's your answer, right? Does this mean you agree with the definition of patriarchy? "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." There is no homogenous group of 3.8 billion that you would call men. However most people in power identify themselves as men. So they have something on common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:05 PM
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Do you think he doesn’t know that Melania is only with him for the money and lifestyle he gives her(i.e. no real connection)? Melania is a woman whos is choosing a not real connection too. How do you explain this? By what you are saying Trump, whos is a very powerful man, isn't able to break up with her, do therapy and seek a real connection. You truly believe that this is more likely than him being happy with his trophy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:55 PM
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The difference is that women aren't excluded in the west So it's evolution who is excluding them from positions of power. Not society, it's genes. Women's genes make them less driven and that's why they are underrepresented in positions of power. Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:50 PM
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statistically they are much less, there's a huge imbalance in, for example, presidents and CIOs. It's a simple google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:33 PM
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How does adding that make any difference? Patriarchy is "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." You are saying that for evolutionary reasons men are more driven on a single narrow mindset to achieve one goal and the result is them being in positions of power. As opposed to women who lack that drive. How is this not patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:32 PM
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are you seriously linking urban dictionary? -🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:26 PM
2

So to you meritocracy is the answer? Men deserve it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:24 PM
1

So by being a mother a woman sacrifices her ambition of money an power for the child she's bringing? Why fathers can and mothers can't given that they are both perfectly capable of raising a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:21 PM
1

Then why are men able to enjoy power and money and women aren't? Or you are saying that Trump, Elon Musk, Putin, Xi Jinping, Hitler, Bill Gates, all of them have chosen to sacrifice themselves for society. If given the choice they would've chosen to have a middle class happy family?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:16 PM
1

Patriarchy is "a system of society or government in which men hold the power " You are saying that for evolutionary reasons men are more driven on a single narrow mindset to achieve one goal and the result is them being in positions of power. How is this not patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:10 PM
1

So this means there's something in men's genetics that make them more suitable for positions of power. And that is not patriarchy how?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:57 PM
1

midichlorians yes exactly, this makes perfect sense /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:55 PM
1

Honestly no I've never heard anyone say that actually, men or women It doesn't make sense to refuse to have more money and power. It goes against capitalism so I think your argument is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:54 PM
1

is it evolutionary? cultural? is it a gender expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:41 PM
2

You say "women are like that" but you are not explaining why. So what is it? is it evolution? social conditioning? gender expectations? genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:37 PM
1

(I don't agree but I'm going along) Why do you think women are "smarter" in this sense and refuse to have more money and power?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:33 PM
2

Women in general are smarter If given the choice of a promotion the women decline that promotion because it's a smart thing to do to refuse more money and power?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:23 PM
2

but why why do you think women won't sacrifice their lives for powerful positions? (sacrifice their lives to some extent because as far as I know most powerful people have friends, family and pets. They go to parties, have affairs, travel to exotic destinations, have mansions, etc. I don't think the life of a CIO is as sacrificed as you make it to be)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:19 PM
5

sure but why? because they can't or because people don't consider them competent for powerful positions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:10 PM
2

and why do you think that is? coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:07 PM
3

Are women not fighting for those roles or are they never taken seriously because they are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:05 PM
3

and you think that's a coincidence that men are meant to be rulers and you don't see patriarchy in that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:03 PM
3

The uk is just one country in the world, what about the rest? once it's start looking like 50/50 we can talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:02 PM
5

so it's just a coincidence that the rulers of the world are men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:00 PM
24

Sneako - an trp streamer who is witty lmaoooo the guy won't stop screaming and talking trash for clout. Once youtube got bored with Andrew Tate, they found Sneako as a successor. He's dumb and an easy target. Sneako is also very happy that popular streamers are looking at him so it's a win win. Have you seen him talking about him being a cuck during a threesome? It was so cringe to hear. His friends clearly used him for clout because the whole interview is so embarrassing. ​ What women like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:58 PM
3

How is having 100% women in power be patriarchy? Why did you go to the extreme of 100? and not 50/50 like it'd be reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:43 PM
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sure, once rulers of the world stop being majority men we can talk about how there's no patriarchy anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:31 PM
2

he is but that's not the reason he's not popular with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:28 PM
1

No, you don't get banned for posting here I think this is a pretty toxic place but not as toxic as mensrights where there's no discussion going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:11 PM
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held 1 boy's hand HELD HANDS AT 16? YOU ARE SUCHA WHORE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:09 PM
3

But the red pill says women are hypergamous. That means they are seeking for someone better than the rest. That means only the best men can reproduce. Isn't that how we evolve and survive as a species?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:06 PM
3

PPD be like "women don't like him because he's ugly" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:00 PM
3

what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:59 PM
2

same. The pandemic sent us all home and we are not going back. I live alone 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:19 PM
2

me too, lol are you really saying that birth control should fall solely on women? what about all the women who BC screws them up or doesn't make them feel comfortable? they should't have sex not even with a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:59 PM
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so? what are you saying? that the responsibility of birth control should fall solely on women? Don't come crying when she gets pregnant and doesn't want to abort lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:45 PM
1

I think giving personal information is waaaaaay different than just sharing public transportation. There's literally no risk in sitting besides someone. However you don't know if the guy you just rejected will follow you home. Why would a black guy follow you home? it doesn't make sense I don't think it's even comparable. It's just a fake number, it's not the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:11 PM
5

There are condoms for that BC isn't for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:07 PM
7

Sir, this is a Wendys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:05 PM
0

But you are saying that there are women who intentionally seek the creepers attention. So to do that she's probably doing something to get their attention. Is she dropping her phone on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:04 PM
1

what? i'm lost how is this related to giving a fake number?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:02 PM
0

"Excuse me love, you've dropped your ph..." Is she dropping her phone near creeps or......?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:43 PM
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OP has clearly never met the rage of a man who was just told "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:18 PM
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girls aren't taught how to give rejections the thing is a blunt clear rejection sometimes makes men angry. Some might get violent. So sometimes it's safer to give a fake number.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:06 PM
1

are you calling me a cunt? lmaoooo what'ts wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:27 PM
1

the fact that you can make a huge poll and find a gaussian curve doesn't mean it's hard sciences. There are beauty standards sure but beauty in it's essence is subjective. How do you explain the differences with, for example, medieval times? how do you put in a formula that change? As opposed to, for example, the weather, the planets. Measure the position of a planet from China or from Brasil and you'll get the same result. Ask about beauty standards and you'll probably get very different answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:48 AM
-2

biologically more attractive than men Attractiveness is subjective, nobody can be "scientifically" more beautiful because it can't be measured in scientific terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:08 PM
1

I have no idea what 811 is don't assume everyone lives where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:07 PM
1

Come the fuck on, insult me don't insult my friends. then don't insult my gender 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:06 PM
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Why do I need the ""? I'm saying it like it is, you have misogynistic views, good luck hiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:37 PM
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But I don't go to forums and write essays about how Karens don't like me. I don't care about Karens so I don't talk about them. It doesn't make sense to care what women think about you and then dismissing what they have to say about you. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:33 PM
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which is part of what you said a creepy person is one who makes advances where he's not welcomed. A misogynistic man thinks he's entitled to make advances on everyone, regardless how women feel about it. So, when you cross that line you are labelled creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:31 PM
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yeah that's a good point with social skilled men it takes a while to know it ​ ok so good luck on hiding your misogynistic views I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:28 PM
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Smart women probably can see through your bs that's why only the shallow ones pay attention to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:09 PM
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yeah but women can see through that bs in a heartbeat whenever they say a man is "creepy" that's probably what they are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:06 PM
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you have 2 choices either convince women that what you said isn't misogyny (good luck with that) or you can shut up and reflect about it ("maybe they are kind of right") nobody cares what you think misogyny is, the result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:05 PM
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I assume that means you consider the bar to be very low? So you think you know better about the things women are allowed to be offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:46 PM
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How can you spit misogyny right into everyone's faces and then complain that women don't like you? ..... it's right there... the reason is right there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:41 PM
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I use that rule for everything. I used to feel bad about my portfolio (I'm a graphic designer) until one day a friend told me that if I still see the stuff I did a few years ago as awesome, that would mean I didn't grow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:38 PM
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nobody has time to read and answer that sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:34 PM
1

I think it is though I also think all those gender studies are heavily biased
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:32 PM
3

next on PPD: WoMeN DoNt LiKe Me WaAahAahaahaaaa 👶
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:28 PM
2

no judgement I wouldn't even ask about ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:25 PM
2

If someone comments on my post history I automatically assume they are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:24 PM
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of course not, emotions are for women you have to puncha a wall or kill someone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:22 PM
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slut shaming is bad so I guess she's better off without this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:21 PM
0

so you want to have control over your ex's life even when they are not with you? How are you planning on doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:18 PM
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for you maybe but not for me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:15 PM
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Eh, I love sex with men but don't find penises visually arousing without context. That's what I'm saying. Besides context, it's the same. You are not going to get aroused by seeing a penis on the street because you are conditioned to think "danger", but your partner's penis (or any other body part) is another thing. I think the female form is simply more visually appealing. That is your personal preference. I find men more visually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:51 PM
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I guess here we are dealing with twitter polls and PUAs, not serious social studies, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:48 PM
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I think it's the same as men if you could remove the fear of being abused. That's the reason women don't get horny if they get flashed. A man has no fear of being raped on the street, a woman does. There's also not a single horny experience for all women, results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:50 PM
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Historically there have been more men scientists than women for obvious reasons. Social studies, semiology, psychology were started by men and we still use their theories as a base for any social study. But their studies are never about one gender, they study society as a whole. In fact I don't think anyone studies women or men in a void. So this question is pretty weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:46 PM
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They were shitty friends in the first place Most of my friends are married with kids and they all have single and married friends. Their kids sometimes join us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:07 PM
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The guy who is bitter with women to the point he wants to remove human rights talks about other people as "emotional thinkers" ohhh the ironyyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:53 PM
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Nono, they literally want to take away the right to vote from women and they are wondering if that's hate 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:51 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:49 PM
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Yes that's exactly it If you are not attractive you are not a man Why do I even bother to reason with autistic children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:28 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 also: 17-22: Have a model agency or a talent agency
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:26 PM
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We'll be expecting you with open arms the mods are baking a cake just for U
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:20 PM
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"do you mind mailing me the thing, my address is XxxxXXx I'll pay for it, thanks" It's so short and to the point that they won't think you want something else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:18 PM
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I speak about men and women in general In fact I've had very wholesome relationships. We broke up in good terms. I would never put them in the same bag as incels because they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:20 PM
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most assertive people are also aggressive Take a look at moms. It's very common that a mom is assertive "GO TO BED RIGH NOW" yet she's not being aggressive. Teachers and coaches do this all the time as well. are gonna be taking sexual initiative with people who also don't want it No, because they "get it" they stop before anyone is uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:32 PM
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I don't agree. More that the amount is the intention: Example1 A big dose of toxic masculinity is humiliating a man for crying A small dose would be repressing your need to cry for fear of being seen as weak Real Masculinity would be "man up and cry without caring about other people's judgement. You see how the whole thing changes and becomes positive? ​ Example2 A big dose of toxic masculinity is rape A small dose of the same poison would be staring at boobs even when the women are visibly unco…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:27 PM
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UNAGIIIIIIIIII
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:17 PM
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Making moves without signals is called being creepy. let's frame this phrase I hope I can remember it for future arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:23 PM
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When even playful touching requires foregoing "consent". Even when a woman is all giggly there is no way to tell in advance whether you making a pass at her will be welcomed or she'll freak out because she thought you were "just friends". This paragraph right here is the opposite of being assertive. I think the difference between then and now is that women now tell you to your face "stop doing this you are making me uncomfortable". In the past they would just smile and give you a fake number. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:19 PM
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I think you are talking to a troll though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:21 PM
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ah yeah, by writing a paragraph I already have some info Most people don't read profiles though 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:17 PM
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RP be like "ahh so I was right! looks are important!" Any pill knows in dating apps the most important thing is looks since there's not much else to show. So this isn't a RP win IMO. In a super shallow society looks are important how is this a surprise? However attraction isn't 100% looks. Attraction is way more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:12 PM
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To be fair, a piece of personality can come out in a well written paragraph. I vet people who write paragraphs lmao They come off as complicated Unless it's a paragraph full of jokes, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:09 PM
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This happened literally 20 years ago, but thanks I wonder what's going on in her life rn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:03 PM
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All the times I've seen someone being called creepy there were reasons. All of the times. I'm a woman btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:46 PM
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I'm lost, what's your opinion based on? If you heard women say "he's so creepy!" How do you know he wasn't actually creepy if you weren't there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:11 PM
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Most guys are never told that in their lives so, if someone told you that, you probably broke a social rule without realizing. Or maybe they were jerks. If it happened more than once then you should ask yourself why that keeps happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:59 PM
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Gigachad is an asshole in different ways. He knows social cues but decides to ignore them. You can't be a Chad without social skills. It's part of being a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:57 PM
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There's nothing we can really say to them except "get yourself out there and start trying." Which is exactly what everyone did in their teenage years. The difference is that when you are a teenager some mistakes are seen as cute or as "normal for your age". For example I had a friend who baked a cake for her crush who was an older popular kid. Everyone made fun of her, poor thing, but anyway, it's a mistake that when you are 15 it's funny. Imagine doing that at 25 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:37 PM
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Not every ugly guy gets called creepy, only the ones who are oblivious to social cues. Which also explains why they can't see why they are being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:32 PM
1

WHere are you reading that? All I can see is a story of some random incel who forged covid tests and said he was lucky in Colombia how is this trash even a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:23 PM
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This is your source? The experience of some incel abroad? Wtf this site is so sad 😂 I feel sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:59 PM
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Also with experience you start choosing better. You know how people here think that "the 30 old woman settles for the beta something"like it's something bad. But I don't think that's true. I think experience makes you vet people faster and more accurately. So the beta bux theory is just inc*ls not understanding why women choose non-Chads when they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:56 PM
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I think the guy's baggage cancels out with your baggage. Every 30 year old has lived through stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:50 PM
1

Yes, putting all women under the same insults is misogyny. Your are not asking to be challenged, you want people to agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:58 PM
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It's nonsense, just go outside and ask real people not people from the internet, forget about me, see it for yourself but outside
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:09 AM
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You are just repeating the red pill like you are brainwashed. If it helps you sleep at night then great, go for that fantasy, it'll backfire though because women can smell the RP and that generally makes them go "yikes" TRP feeds itself, the more you buy into it, the more repelling you become to women- The more women reject you, the more you buy into the RP Maybe go watch some Hassan, he's awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:03 AM
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There are plenty of subs with women and men talking about their relationships issues. I don't understand how a bunch of posts on Reddit are representative of anything? Remember when people go into LTRs they don't post about it. Why is it so hard to believe that women in sex/relationships have it easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:21 AM
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her husband seem really really jealous about her promoting at work. ughhhh and now he's sick and she depends on him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:14 AM
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Ufff that sounds bad. She had to quit her job to take care of the kid, right? that's awful. I wish she could0ve hired help instead. It must really suck. It also makes sense that she'd do everything for her kids, even if that is not teaching them how to clean a pot lmao My friend has a happier story. He's from a Christian family, the ones that don't wear condoms lol. His parents also have a huge age difference but they are happy-
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:05 AM
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nup, still false, they can and they do it all the time. I know people here are able to sleep at night imagining the ultimate revenge "she's going to get pumped and dumped muahahaha" but that's not real life and women know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:55 AM
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what a coincidence 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:52 AM
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you are clearly a whore so I'll say about 35
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:49 AM
2

Reminds me of a friend who dead serious asked me how to serve spaghetti. He just stared at me with the pasta spoon in one hand, the pot of noodles and the plate in front of him. He has 3 brothers and their mom does literally everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:46 AM
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Beauty standards are a thing so the tall guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:41 AM
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love them! except last one. I don't think rice and avocado mix well like that IMO (I do love sushi though)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:15 AM
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because they are going to go to the bathroom, give birth to a blob of blood, have a panik attack, go running to the hospital, make them waste money and time to figure out wtf happened that and her body her choice, remember? also that's not how abortion pills work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:13 AM
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It's reaaallllyy easy for women to date below 40 (I'd say at any age but I have no idea what happens when you are +40 I don't have friends that age). Like seriously, it's easy. And women know this, that's why they are giving that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:08 AM
2

I'm happy I got out of bed and ordered asian food
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:01 AM
1

it's kinda weird getting mad about how other people call their dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:56 PM
1

Colombia I've seen this before and I'm not sure what kind of people you think live in Colombia. As white people colonized Latin America and practically killed all of ancient civilizations, there is A LOT of white people, like half the population. The 4/10 incel guy won't have better luck there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:49 PM
2

But what if you don't want kids only dogs? how is that copium?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:35 PM
1

wait, that means your age bracket includes 55 year olds 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:31 PM
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The spirit of this sub is to debate but OP is simply saying "I hate women" and I don't think he wants his views challenged This is plain misogyny and hate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:19 PM
2

I don't see any unhinged take or any discussion like on ppd, They all agree they hate incels. That sub is 99% made up stories though They repeat whatever discussion is happening on the internet, then they write it in the first person = karma "My gf told me she's trans after we had sex so I feel betrayed" "I told my bf about my slutty past and now he wants to break up" "I am a fat person who is against fat acceptance"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:48 AM
1

Thank you I just lost 50% of hope in humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:38 AM
4

you can get all Machiavellian and control people with your eyes what are you talking about? do you mind expanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:12 AM
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they don’t see this back and forth This. This sub underestimates, or basically ignores how far social skills can get you. That's also why you often gets questions "either or".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:08 AM
1

which subs were gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:35 AM
2

if you feel comfortable doing something that doesn't hurt or benefit anyone... is it really brainwash?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:11 AM
1

She is a woman, I'm more than that, I'm a super woman, I have like 6 vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:09 AM
2

If I could trust them 100% and if I could like myself 100% yes absolutely However I don't think I'll ever reach that maturity level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:52 PM
2

riiiiiiiiight then what are you doing here? the movement to demand your money back when a woman lies about her ncount isn't going to form itself!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:32 PM
5

I think some troll, some are on the spectrum, some are delusional, some are just angry because they are lonely and they vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:23 PM
2

no, you are a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:22 PM
3

That makes it even more plausible, I mean, what's stopping you? fight for your rights! or are you expecting feminism to do the work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:10 PM
5

yes, exactly, this is perfectly reasonable, you should start a movement, everyone will follow our new messiah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:05 PM
5

sadly for you, women aren't objects you can return if you don't like them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:58 PM
2

I have so many questions 1) maybe they use dogs for guarding? 2) maybe they have cats and dogs? have you been to all of these women's houses? 3) have you ever owned a cat? some of them are pretty clingy 4) w h a t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:35 PM
5

we have rom coms and series though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:26 PM
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I think this applies to everybody (except obviously the people who chose to be single) But I also think this image is too wholesome for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:25 PM
2

schools are mandatory, what is wrong with schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:46 PM
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Oh I'm sorry I though you were an RP man that you wanted to throw an unsolicited insult my bad ​ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:32 PM
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yes exactly, there's a group of people promoting racism, this is exactly what I meant 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:56 PM
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again how is this related to the post? I think you and the other guy just wanted to throw an insult out there to feel good about yourself I hope this makes you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:55 PM
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Have fun you are young! Later in life you'll regret more not having done this that listen to a bunch of conservative weirdos on a niche subredit. IRL people don't care about ncount. And if you encounter one, you still have plenty of options of people who do not sl*t shame
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:51 PM
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You are saying that there are people who deserve to die because of their genetics Meaning that there are people that deserve to be rich because of their genes right? So that means there are people who are superior to others because of their genetics If you still can't find the link with the Nazis I'm sorry for the people that have to deal with you daily. Have reich day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:38 PM
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you reeeeeaaaalllly need to learn about genetics Wasn't there another movement that said that there was a better race of humans who deserved better? hmmmm what was it? hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:31 PM
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yeah fuck that kid If he didn't want to die of hunger by the age of 3 he should've chosen another family to be born (again, that's not "genetics" lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:21 PM
1

DO you have an English or Spanish link? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:18 PM
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that's not how genetics work Rich people don't have different genes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:13 PM
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So a child born in poverty got in life exactly what they deserved?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:08 PM
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I think it's a very emotional response to hate the one thing you can't have: women's will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:52 PM
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yeah, kind of explains how all other social movements (feminism, lgbtq+, racism, etc) hate TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:51 PM
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Imagine suggesting to "regulate the dating market" Imagine suggesting we go back to 1960 unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:38 PM
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You don't have to be in a place to know their rules and culture. That's why we have media, You know what I'm saying is right that's why you resort to "I don't know, you don't know" While you are still in denial you can watch this documentary about the awesome lives of people in the middle east https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4\_NppxAt\_cY&ab\_channel=ABCNewsIn-depth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:05 PM
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Maybe I really should divorce my husband on paper and quit my job and just not worry about money at all. Exactly, that's how people do it right? All the people that I know that receive help from the government live in mansions and travel overseas a lot, so I'm not sure why single moms complain so much. (obviously /s)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:54 PM
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Ah, like the middle east or india, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:33 PM
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You mean when divorce was illegal? Who regulated it? The government? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:10 PM
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Try having a kid as a single mom, you'll me bathing in money by 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:54 PM
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unregulated sexual marketplace Why does this sound that you want it to be regulated, or that it is supposed to be regulated? as in The Handmaids tale? * shivers *
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:51 PM
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Unless the woman is fat then all of the sudden there are standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:42 PM
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how is this related to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:37 PM
1

Her problem isn't in meeting new people but connecting with them and that can only be solved by therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:36 PM
1

yeapppp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:30 PM
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If she had needs e.g. romance and an a strong emotional connection and he wasn't fulfilling those, then he's at fault. And that's exactly what she was complaining about. That her husband only shares time with her when he wants sex, making her feel like an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:37 PM
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If she doesn't mention it we can only assume best case scenario es "meh" One thing is not being automatically aroused when your partner initiates and a different thing is avoiding him all together. If they had a good time she wouldn't probably try to avoid him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:58 PM
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Lmaoooo taking care of 2 kids and running a house is nothing to you? Have you ever even met parents of toddlers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:51 PM
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Pity sex? That sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:49 PM
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Yeah I lurk the dead bedroom sub but that's not the case here, she says she has sex to make him happy and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:48 PM
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That is very sad, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:15 PM
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That's not how relationships work though. What you are saying is the normalization of a dynamic where the wife can't refuse because where else can she go. Thank god for divorces and independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:11 PM
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The fact that a lot of women have sex with their husbands even if they don't want it, doesn't make it right. I don't need to be married to know how sex works. In fact having sex with someone who's doing it for duty must feel pretty awful. It's like they care more about satisfying themselves than sharing that experience with who they supposedly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:00 PM
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She knows what he needs to be happy and she's pretending not to recognize it, she's ignoring his needs. No, she's not ignoring them, she's having sex with him She's not even happy about it. Her needs of romance are the ones being ignored. What is he doing for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:56 PM
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before she destroys her marriage. Why is it her fault and not both of them? She's having sex as a duty to keep the marriage going while the guy refuses to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:44 PM
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you are posting this on this sub and you don't see the irony? hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:41 PM
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How can the low libidos that get the whole sahm provider experience be this entitled? Everyone has the right to not have sex, that's not entitlement, that's just human rights. Sex is not something you exchange for something, so it doesn't matter that he's the provider, she isn't forced to have sex. The fact that this needs to be said makes me shiver
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:39 PM
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Because it's kind of funny in some way. I take it like talking to flat earthers with denial issues. "Women are stupid sluts" "you are a misogynist" "no I'm not, I have preferences"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:34 PM
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Nah I'm sorry I totally agree with people getting banned from other places for posting on that sub. It has All Lives Matter vibes. It's absolutely crazy the mental gymnastics they do on that sub to deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:31 PM
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at least in PPD there is a chance of conversation You dare to post something 1% different to what the ppl in mensrights think and you are downvoted to oblivion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:59 PM
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there will be a dead stripper this shouldn't be funny but it is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:58 PM
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Oh, same as last week? huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:55 PM
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If men had a makeup equivalent that's functional and socially accepted, do you think they would use it? As a kpop fan oh I hope so Men look so good in make up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:51 PM
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on this sub are older and genuinely out of touch nono, I'm old and I've been binge watching the type of content where they make fun of Andrew Tate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:57 PM
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Nobody wants to hear the real answer that's why the question is phrased more like this: "Is it fair that she made me wait when....." And that's a question that's impossible to answer because there's no such thing as fairness in other people's preferences. You can theorize all you want but in real life that question doesn't exist. The real answer hurts because these guys don't want to leave this girl. They want her to want to have sex with them. So they cry "it's not fair!" to who exactly? nobody…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:24 PM
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I'm not sure why people here point hypergamy to women when we all do it. In fact, if hypergamy wasn't real we would've never evolved
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:12 PM
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Are you Ethan Klein's wife? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:09 PM
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Awesome, we agree on that one, so.... why do you guys keep asking the question again and again and again when you agree that this is the answer. Today there's another post, my god what's up with this imaginary scenario that triggers men here so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:47 PM
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This is not a good comparison though Men don't get approached since childhood and men don't know the struggle to be afraid of rape or a violent action when you decline them So obviously everyone here will say "I'D LOVE TO BE APROACHED CONSTANTLY" They never had a random creep asking for "boobs and vegene" since they were 12
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:44 PM
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she probably wants to be with someone who is willing to wait so you clearly not compatible. Again, why do you need to ask any sort of question about this, if you are not comfortable for whatever reason just leave and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:34 PM
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Who are you asking this question to? the girl you are dating? -Honey I think we are ready to have sex, it's been a month since we started dating and I already met your parents -No my dear boyfriend, I don't feel ready yet -That's not fair! You didn't make the last guy wait! -Oh, honey, you are right, your logic makes perfect sense, let's have sex rn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:56 PM
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Because it's a incredibly dumb question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:34 PM
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But wait, does this mean you think sexual liberation has no risks (other than the obvious risk of making a bad choice)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:05 PM
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Because it's all about social skills. Sure money, being fit, beautiful helps but in the end it's all about social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:02 PM
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yeah I think so For me it's like when people say that feminism hates men. I'm sorry if you heard that from a feminist but that's not what feminism is about. That's just a crazy person who is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:43 PM
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When you don't want to have sex, but you do it because you think it is the "emancipated" thing to do. I don't think this is a good example though. That's like blaming an ice cream store because you chose chocolate ice cream when you actually wanted pistachio. Instead you should be glad there's more than 1 flavor to choose from. To be able to make a bad decision is exactly what the sexual liberation wants, because it means you have choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:23 PM
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I'm half through the podcast and I can't stop wondering why is it all so black or white? It's not like aaaaaall women want a LTR some do, some don't So while it's good advice for some women to wait for sex, it's shitty advice for the women who want hookups. Why is it so hard to understand that some women want sex just for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:09 PM
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yeah but can you describe an example of a risk coming from sexual liberation that it's ultimately your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:07 PM
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I agree with you but do you have any other example of risks coming from sexual liberation? I personally don't see any, I said rape because it popped into my head. I don't see how "Feminist: this my choice, men's responsibility, society's problem." can be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:47 PM
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Your only option as a man is to better yourself and become a man women want to fuck This is the only thing I agree with RP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:42 PM
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Feminist: this my choice, men's responsibility, society's problem. I mean, if you are talking about a possible consequence of sexual liberation like rape* this applies 100%. It's women's choice to be sexually liberated, it's men's responsability not to rape, Rape is society's problem. ​ *btw let's not pretend rape didn't exist before women were allowed to have hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:28 PM
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I am a proud white knight, there's nothing to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:13 PM
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if women aren't fucking him, it's his fault for not being a man women want to fuck Then why are there constant posts about "women need to lower their standards"? In fact, they get offended when someone says "you should go to the gym and take a shower"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:03 PM
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yes, I'm a white knight, women need a man's protection, they can't defend themselves (this is sarcasm btw, in case you have trouble understanding social cues)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:01 PM
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yeah well that's not how civilization works. You can't just insult people and expect everyone to be happy about it. Besides it's so ironic that you are offended because they are offended lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:54 PM
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no but wait what if a woman makes a guy wait for sex but last month she had a hookup at a party /ssssssssss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:49 PM
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Again, you clearly lack social skills if you don't see how saying "you are not beautiful enough for this guy" is insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:39 PM
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The point of not having a flair is so that you don't read my ideas with preconceived notions. I sometimes change the avatar to look like a woman or a man or genderless. You should try it, you'll see how people react different about the same concepts if they know you are a woman, a man, rp or bp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:31 PM
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Making a comment about a woman's age is the worst thing you can say to her Is it though? HAHA YOU ARE 40 YOU ARE SO OLD HA HA HA I don't think it's as harmful as you think but if it makes you happy......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:26 PM
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Who would've thought insulting people results in them being offended Some people lack social skills to arrive to this shocking conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:21 PM
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"get red pilled" = get bitter and start insulting the gender they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:33 PM
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No it's not Feiminsm focuses in actions that can be done by women TRP is "women need to lower their standards because if I can't get laid, it's going to be the end of humanity"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:49 PM
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I'm sorry for you then. You depend on others for your own happiness. In fact I'm looking for a house now to improve my life but that doesn't mean I'm uncomfortable rn. I'm improving my situation, not fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:26 PM
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Yes you can. It's exactly the advice women give. You have to love yourself first, then you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:01 PM
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and don't get me started on n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:03 PM
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Which raises the question, why are all the other methods not working? I often read here that the tinder demographics are something like 25% women. So where are the rest of the women? And why do men keep insisting on this app when it doesn't work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:11 PM
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I have a friend who one day went to visit her bf's family. They were staying at his family's house in the middle of nowhere. The bf decided it was the best time to propose even, when they had never even discussed it before, in front of his family. So my friend felt forced to say yes. I wouldn't have said yes but I can totally understand why she did it. So anyway they broke up a few months later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:03 PM
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"Evidence was recently provided for vaginal orgasm, orgasm triggered purely by penile–vaginal intercourse (PVI), being associated with better psychological functioning. " I'm not sure who writes this articles but this seems biased and ridiculous sorry. "Better psychological functioning" it's ridiculous Women Who Prefer Longer Penises Are More Likely to Have Vaginal Orgasms Who wrote this? Pornhub? It's impossible sorry. It doesn't correlate to logic, or my experience, or my friend's experience. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:07 PM
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Are you serious? So I'm liking to articles about studies but you are simply saying "they falsely claim" with no additional explanation or links. So am I supposed to believe in your words? Classic ppd. The sources "aren't valid" when they don't repeat their bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:55 PM
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quality has nothing to do with that, if that was the case Alex Jones, Ben Shapiro, Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson wouldn't have any audience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:26 PM
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Do you have any links because the first 3 I searched for says what I say https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289 https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/ https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2013/2/1/sex-question-friday-what-percentage-of-women-reach-orgasm-fr/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:24 PM
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Size doesn't matter when it comes to vaginal orgasms. On the contrary, you need to be able to stimulate the outside part of the clitoris, and a big dick can't do that. I think men care more about dick size (unless it's micro) because they see it in porn. Also whenever someone starts "I have 45 girlfriends and a big dick" sounds like you most likely don't lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:45 PM
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Every content creator asks for money imagine getting angry with patreon and twitch subscriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:18 AM
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Every content creator asks for subscriptions, likes, patreon, shares, et etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:16 AM
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OP is being so weirdly obsessive by a type of answer he wants to receive and is getting frustrated with everyone answering "marriage is stupid lol" MAM, ANSWER THE QUESTION HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU BEEN ASKED TO GET MARRIED YOU LOSER
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:43 AM
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nup, look it up, it's not most
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:34 AM
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12
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:40 PM
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they can but it's a minority who are able to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:39 PM
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I don't think daddy's girls are accepted, they are seen as pretty objects
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:36 PM
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Because they think dating is about numbers not connection
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:34 PM
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In my parents house my mom would feed the dogs. I never did it and they still loved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:33 PM
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Yes a dog will still love you even if you don0t give them food
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:51 AM
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You are hoping it doesn't go more mainstream than now right? What are you going to do? start wearing make up to attract 20-25 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:49 AM
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exactly. the trash takes itself out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:46 AM
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This again? omg Arguing this to a woman who is making you wait for sex is a huge red flag IMO. So if she is making you wait and you bring up this shit up it only means that she did good in make you wait and leave your ass. She will have sex with you when she wants and there's nothing you can do about it. However I'm sure this are hypothetical scenarios for karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:31 PM
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But in different circumstances. What you describe is a normal reaction when they are being incredibly misogynistic. So insulting "you are an incl" is unrelated to their real situation. I have never seen anyone being shamed by talking about their poor situation. In fact there was a guy talking about his difficulty with dating as someone on the spectrum and the comments were so wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:02 PM
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Youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:26 PM
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The only thing I like about andrew tate is that he gave content to every YT creator I follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:25 PM
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WHOOOO?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:24 PM
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yeah, it's a self report actually because 100% of the times that happened the conversations were generalizations and I wasn't even thinking about their current status
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:17 PM
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only 250 women? what a loser that's so beta omega omicron
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:14 PM
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What exactly makes you think this? It means men are also hypergamous but this sub isn't ready for that conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:10 PM
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Whenever someone brings a personal anecdote about how the fuck a lot of women or they have a girlfriend, or something like that I automatically assume you are a loser who wants to prove a point for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:07 PM
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husband does not owe his wife fidelity Unless they agreed on being in a monogamous relationship. In that case they are both entitled to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:56 PM
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mmm I've seen it more like MINORITY PERSON: we suffer so much discrimination NON MINORITY PERSON: there's no such thing as "discrimination" THIRD PARTY / ME: non minority person, you are entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:55 PM
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fr!! This extremely rare scenarios that are only useful for debate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:56 PM
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They also have less cheating. Is it because women behave better when they are married? or because they are stoned to death if they cheat? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:54 PM
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Oh right, "freedom of speech", forgot about that excuse bigoted people make so that they are able to say harmful stuff about other people's lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:25 PM
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no, you shouldn't be concerned about what other people do or like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:55 PM
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lmaooo no, we are not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:54 PM
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the idea that many women may not be fundamentally attracted only to exclusively 'masculine' traits. yes, this scares them A LOT Because if they don't like The Chad they don't have anything to look up to, or don't have a reason to justify why women don't like them. It's easy to say "women don't like me because I'm not muscular". The problem comes when these guys see women liking non muscular men/women/queer, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:16 PM
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straight up homophobia here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:11 PM
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It has "boobs and vegene" vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:54 PM
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Catcalling has a bit of that I don't believe they actually think they want women to feel nice when they corner them and tell them "I WANT TO SUCK YOUR TITS"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:52 PM
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They were very clear. Don't be dense. If women don't like you because you are ugly that's another thing. There is probably some woman out there who thinks you are good looking. The problem is what happens after a woman says "I'm not interested". If you keep messaging them or insult them, then you are the reason women lie, give you a fake number, or hate cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:48 PM
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The truth is plenty of women are only looking for "Mr Right Now" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is awesome and so true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:43 PM
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congratulations, you are part of the problem too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:22 PM
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​ we don’t want a bunch of emotional crybabies running around. This is exactly the type of shaming I'm talking about. You are part of the problem and you are not even aware of it. It isn't surprising that you think this isn't toxic. That's how you were raised. This is your normal. A lot of men's lives could be saved if you let yourself show emotions or "be a crybaby" like you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:51 PM
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If you succeed you can thank your parents for the guidance if there was any but you can't credit them. Failures and wins are all yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:29 PM
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So, you don't see a relationship with men not being able to express their emotions with the amount of male suicide? You think it's coincidence? You don't see anything wrong in shaming men for talking about their feelings...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:23 PM
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No, you can't blame your parents lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:21 PM
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you have to be old to appreciate an old man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:18 PM
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Has anyone been to the dead bedroom subs? Because there are surprisingly A LOT of women complaining there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:15 PM
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How would you call the "it's not manly to cry" idea which is strongly related to the amount of men's suicide over women's? It's an idea that applies only to men and it's even encouraged by the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:06 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 you thought he was an anime character lmaooo it happens don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:48 PM
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What you said is the reason I put this flair. These guys have all their Standards and Chads and whatever and then a pretty slim boy with blue hair and make up makes all women die. ANd they don't understand what's happening lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:44 PM
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That's because you are looking at them with western eyes. Once you get into kpop Felix looks like a regular beautiful man, not a child or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:32 PM
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He's abused A LOT of women, like A LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:27 PM
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As long as we keep learning from porn, yes I don't think it's solely a man's responsibility though, A woman has to know where it feels nice to be touched so that a guy can follow instructions. Men need to learn to listen and be open to follow instructions. Porn is the exact opposite of that. Porn makes you believe the penis is magic and insertion is the only thing necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:50 PM
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The gspot isn't a different part of the body, it's the name scientists put to a part of the clitoris that can be stimulated from the vagina. So during PIV everything should be stimulated, inside and outside. The easiest one is the outside part of the clit, which is often ignored in porn. So yes, women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, google for yourself if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:21 PM
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WHere people meet people for dates: OLDsomewhere you both have to go regularly (school, work, courses, etc)travelingparties, friends of friends with a guy who is not significantly above average or really attractive. either go to therapy to level up that self esteem or find women who are uglier than you. Attractiveness isn't the only thing men have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:06 PM
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oh noooooo I confused 2 different conversations from 2 different posts lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:42 PM
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ah sorry I know there are genres, pornhub has a small section which is the same hetero porn labelled differently, (shocking, I know) But other than that it's still not mainstream, because porn in general isn't very popular with women. Add in that some are against the existence of pornography or sex work and you are left with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:41 PM
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most orgasms are clitoral, the outside part, being it either oral or PIV. During penetration that same area is stimulated (from the inside and the outside) resulting in an orgasm. A big dick helps with general stimulation because you feel it more but you can have a PIV orgasm with any dick. The fact that you believe this proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:38 PM
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Your basing this off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:24 PM
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I totally agree but I wish they would include clitoral stuff even if too aggressive and fake, so that people learn about it's existence. Like the scissors things porn lesbians do, which is fake but it's cool to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:23 PM
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My personal experience with porn, the internet and what I talk to women about porn you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:18 PM
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The porn women watch is not the same porn men watch usually. I mean that the majority of women who watch porn watch what men watch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:13 PM
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That's why lesbian porn is so popular with women Because there's at least some attention given to the clit, and even most hetero lesbian porn is unreal AF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:11 PM
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If there is such thing it's so niche, it doesn't change statistics. Most women who watch porn, watch what everyone watches.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:09 PM
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Most powerful people in the world are men. So statistically if you are born a man you have more chances to be powerful and have money more than women. The fact that you can choose weather to be a CIO, a wife of a CIO or a slave IS privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:06 PM
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It is possible but it's not the norm so porn watchers go thinking it's the norm and most don't understand why sex isn't as good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:03 PM
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Doesn't mean its ideal, but I'd still take it. Exactly my point. If given the choice you'd rather be CIO than wife of CIO, right? If you answer wife I won't believe you so don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:27 PM
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I think you are speaking from privilege. It's like saying I'd rather be a slave because someone feeds me and I will never be out of work you think that until you are a slave
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:50 PM
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Are you kidding me? Even if you marry a CIO that doesn't mean that you are able to make decisions. You are just an spectator who is allowed to use the husband's money, not your money, someone else's money. You are just............ a wife. The guy decides to divorce you and that's it. You are always second, interchangeable. How is that better than being IN POWER?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:45 PM
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Porn teaches women that some things are supposed to feel nice and it implies that if you don't then you are not enjoying sex like a "normal person". Hetero porn focuses too much in penetration and sex IRL foreplay is even more important than penetration. Porn shows a woman screaming and having multiple orgasms with no clitoral stimulation, that is fake af. Anyone who sees that maybe thinks this is normal and it's not. It's specially bad for ppl who grew up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:35 PM
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Have you seen men in hetero porn? Probably not because they never show the guy, they only show the penis which not always is a monster cock, sometimes is very normal Depends what genre of porn you watch maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:29 PM
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but being a CIO is better than being able to marry a CIO, the comparison is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:14 PM
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I think the world is ruled by men so if men are jealous of women it's only in the dating/sex department
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:59 PM
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Are you guys aware that women IRL really don't give a shit about what a bunch of lonely redditors think of the amount of men they sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:37 PM
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dude wtf women do enjoy casual sex en practice it normally how is this news to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:50 PM
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Yeah but people are answering with the assigned hypothetical person that loves you and op is sort of agreeing for the sake of debate (I assume)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:34 PM
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I know the boys would happily still take the wife even if it was a case of assigned. But isn't this something.. you are kinda not supposed to be proud of? Any woman is ok? you don't care about their personality? You don't care that maybe you don't love her back or find her insufferable? Any random woman is ok? Are women interchangeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah, either people here are too young or come from very religious background or don't have many social circles because in my experience there's no such thing as "consequences". People are out there living their lives getting married, having ons, having children, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:48 PM
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Makes sense. All the couples I know that married young (religious) were the same age. They meet each other in some kind of religious groups for young chrisrian people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:44 PM
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Exactly. FDS skips the part of being feminine to attract men. They are more like "I look good so I deserve better" instead of "to get what I want I have to look better"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:33 AM
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No thanks, he's ugly inside and outside
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:08 PM
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he is going to “feel” lesser If he feels less because he's not getting sex that means he values himself through sex. Like a sex object lol. Kidding but not so much, because an sex object becomes useless once you don't use it for sex. A person is so much more than that. That in itself is a red flag. LTR have their ups and downs regarding sex. If a man values himself through sex, that means the day I'm too tired to have sex he's going to be hurt. Or the day he's too tired to have sex I'm going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:07 PM
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Kevin Samuels of all the hot men out there you chose Kevin Samuels? he's proof that a 4 with nice outfits can become an 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:46 PM
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So basically we are all gay men? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:41 PM
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So, EVERY date a conservative woman has is ONLY for a free meal, not to meet the person, ALL of them are looking for *only* a free meal? hmmmmmmmm I think this girl simply didn't like you, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:28 PM
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I imagine a guy going through a record "here it says you had drunk sex in 2015 with a random dude, you know what that means right? now go get undressed I'll be there shortly"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:58 PM
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If you do everything else to presnet yourself as something you are not, What do you mean by "present herself"? like the clothes? If she says something false, that's a lie and it's wrong but what do you mean by "present herself" If she's a slut she should dress accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:55 PM
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to show their commitment to the date, to be taken seriously. Saying that the proof that she was just looking for a free meal is that she said "the man has to pay" isn't really proof. You have a lot of conservative women saying that AND the FDS crowd. Are they aaaalll looking for free meals just because they think the man has to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:34 PM
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that's a good example too! I struggle with people IRL so I come here where it's easier and impersonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:26 PM
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when that blows up in your face. You mean if he finds out that she had casual sex before, so he leaves her? If I was in that situation where a guy feels entitled to have sex with me because I had sex faster in the past he can leave and never come back. The trash takes itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:23 PM
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yesss so much thisssss sex is a moment of vulnerability. Being hurt by someone you care about hurts 358131351% more than with a random dude you know you are never going to see again. I'm exactly like that with secrets. I have told my life's story to travellers. I have cried with a random Norwegian guy about my father. But I could never open up like that to someone I'm trying to build something. I mean, eventually I will obviously, but all in one like to a stranger in a hostel? no way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:21 PM
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But the dick is too important for men to do what you suggest. It's ingrained in society that being a man IS having a functional dick. Removing that, for them, would be like taking away their essence. So even though you are probably right, they would never do it. Also the problem is never them. It's the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:38 PM
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you are trying to disqualify what i am saying merely Whenever a guy here mentions that they are having sex when it's not relevant I automatically assume they are lying. Like this guy. (not deez_mf_nuts, in his case it is relevant to what he's saying)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:35 PM
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I'm not sure I understood what you said but women should have sex just for the sake of sex, not as a promise of a relationship, that way nobody gets pumped and dumped. Same with a meal. If you pay, you pay for sharing a good time not as a promise of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:25 PM
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But many women say that the man should pay on dates... they really go on dates looking for a HVM and want the man to show appreciation by paying-
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:01 PM
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Still, honestly, it's no problem I remember being poor and whenever I got the chance to eat something nice I enjoyed it so much. Besides it sounds like these men didn't struggle with money. To them an expensive meal is what a cheap meal is to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:53 PM
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I think it's a way of setting the dynamics in the relationship. If you want to pay for the whole meal but your date wants to go 50/50 you are probably going to crash in a similar way in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:46 PM
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She barely had to eat at home. If I found out I paid for someone's meal because they barely had at home I wouldn't feel mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:32 PM
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Give me a respectful source and I won't insult them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:22 PM
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At first I thought it was ridiculous when people here show "studies" to prove a point. The sStUDiEs being a 10 line abstract because the rest is behind a paywall. But I learned to go along But this? This is a random woman who repeats your bias only in video format Want to learn from youtube? check this out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgO25FTwfRI&t=2425s&ab_channel=m%C3%BCnecat at least she cites sources
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:21 PM
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I disagree. Boobs are too permanent to be like beards. Boobs is like a nose. You have it or you don't or you can have simple plastic surgery to fix them. When a man shaves his beard, even though we all know it's just facial hair, it looks like their whole face changed and now he looks like a toddler. Actually it's the same with make up. Once I saw my friend (who always wears make up) with her washed face and she looked tired and depressed. I obviously know it's a make up effect, but still, she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:12 AM
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That first comment made me sad As much as I like making fun of misogynistic incels there are probably some out there that really struggle with humans in general. So I can totally see how the advice of "going outside" feels like when you tell a depressed person to "just go outside". I had a classmate that was misogynistic and socially awkward. Everyone hated him, he was the target of every bully. Once he celebrated his birthday and literally nobody went. I feel so conflicted about this because on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:56 PM
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My own I want someone who uses Reddit but at the same time I don't like Redditors 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:42 PM
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sexist you mean sexiest 🤣🤣 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:36 PM
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Make up is not as deceitful though. I mean, eyes aren't normally that black and shiny. You can literally see the make up on someone's face. I'd say beards are like make up. You can't remove either without an unpleasant surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:31 PM
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I agree with this post But instead of advising women to make men wait for sex, better tell them to have sex only for the sake of having sex, not as a promise of a future. That way you are never pumped and dumped, you had sex because you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:56 PM
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Having kids I didn’t want sounds like a nightmare. exactly! that's why I was so surprised! yeah me too, it's a definite no but I'm open to have a partner with kids. It's not like I hate kids, more like I prefer if someone else does the dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:48 PM
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I’d rather regret having kids I didn’t want than not having kids I wanted, Like you said it's absolutely personal and I'm surprised how I feel the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:40 PM
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Exactly. Having casual sex is perfectly fine everyone knows this "pumping and dumpling" implies they went for casual sex but didn't disclose their intentions to the other person. Makes sense for women to make them wait for sex no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:20 PM
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NO, YOU ARE FORCED TO MARRY HER /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:17 PM
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This just keeps confirming that it's better to wait for sex, at least until you have that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:15 PM
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so you found a "pick me" who repeats everything men say on Reddit? great analysis man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:11 PM
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“just knew” "just know" means they pay attention, it's not mind reading magic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:31 PM
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So because a select minority of men had power we get to diminish what the 99% went through? I don't diminish them, what I'm saying is that men should go against the people who send them to war, that 1% (which are all men btw), not women I don't think I understood the second question. There are more women voters than men but if all candidates are men (that 1%) what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:25 PM
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lmaooo thanks for the award 🥂 people like you make me so mad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:17 PM
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But you said it...... "men are expendable" is something I read/heard in RP spaces. It's the notion that capitalism is a money producing machine at the expense of men. They send men to war and to do dangerous jobs, and nobody cares that they die. Up to this point I absolutely agree, capitalism sucks and cares more about money than the wellbeing of humans There are 2 things I dont agree with: - men aren't the only ones being exploited for money. Women are vulnerable too. Women are part of the work…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:28 PM
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you must be knee deep in toxic convos on here Yeah, that happens when I interact with people that make posts like "Being a trophy wife is a good thing" lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:04 PM
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PPD: women's standards are too high! also PPD: " If you have guests over, wouldn't you want to show them your pet wife?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:48 PM
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That's how YOU see them. As something to "win" like a price Other people "meet" "date" "love" "get to know"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:21 PM
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Beauty is a measurement for women, like this post suggest She has nothing else to offer but her beauty. Like a nice shiny quiet submissive object you show around. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:20 PM
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Men build a world where men are expendable, let's keep that in mind. Objects Wives can't possibly have a saying in wars because their function is child bearing, like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:17 PM
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maybe in some very specific corporate circumstances.... I have a male friend who didn't say he was gay so that he kept getting invited to do "manly stuff" with other corporate men. luckily I don't move in that environment. Advertising agencies are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:32 PM
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While you are outside take notes on the couples you see. You'll notice that those average people have lives, families, partners, children, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:48 PM
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By definition you'll never find something that replaces human connection That is not what I want. What I want is to have my needs.met without bothering anyone and without having to depend on anyone. This sounds better. The problem is the word "rights" because it implies that the only thing that bothers you from human interaction is that the other person has rights. And that sounds creepy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:21 PM
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you never got your dick injured? lucky you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:17 PM
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I'm surprised by this Why are we giving the man all the power to determine if the sex is degrading or not? What matters is what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:12 PM
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It's not degrading if you don't consider it degrading. You can sleep with the worst POS that thinks he's using you, but if you are using them too, it's not degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:11 PM
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If he views you as less than for being female or that he's "getting sex from you" then it adds a more degrading tinge to the experience. Unless you are a woman and don't care what the guy thinks Why is the guy's opinion more important than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:07 PM
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but when you buy a hammer you don't expect it to love you and act exactly like a human You want a human you are allowed to abuse My question is, why? why do you need to abuse something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:00 PM
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nah, men here don't want advice from women, even though this sub is 70% QFW
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:08 PM
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Once we create an alternative that does not have free will and rights This sounds so creepy man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:06 PM
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Only after 40 but everyone already knew this, there are all sorts of possible complications at that age. There is a increased risk when you are 30-39 but it's small and it's both for men and women. You are making it sound that it's all women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:32 PM
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you mean Japanese families don't fuck each other continuously all in the same house while doing chores? ohhh nooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:23 PM
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The cruel irony is that the spike in Autism has largely been caused by women having children later in life, Are you aware that scientists don't know the origins of autism to this day? so it's not caused by women having babies late in life. It's not women's fault or men's fault. It's not like there's a rise in autism, it's more like people are now able to diagnose it. It's like saying that people in medieval times didn't suffer from breast cancer. They did but they weren't able to diagnose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:16 PM
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they don't. The same people that complain about male suicides is the same people who encourage other men to not cry or express emotions. The day they sort that stuff out between themselves, then they will form a movement. But right now it's all over the place. It's like they want changes without going to the streets. That's not how social movements work..........
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:58 PM
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Are you considering all the people who move in together but don't go through the paperwork in your equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:56 PM
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Hey, at least they admit it They sort of admit it though. The manosphere has so many incongruencies like on one hand they complain about male suicide. Which is a 100% valid concern I was this close to jump into that. But then the same people are the ones who say "it's unmanly to cry and show your feelings DON'T DO IT" So..... what is it then? Are you concerned or you are not? If they admitted that it's just a sexual strategy then don't complain about the suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:52 PM
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pair bond = find the blue prince and live happily ever after It's conservative talk and slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:34 PM
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I like how they use animals to explain that They usually use primates for the most basic stuff except for pair bonding. Because chimps don't pair bond so they choose another animal like parrots to explain the women side. Males are chimps but women are parrots. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:33 PM
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Until the wife finds he's been cheating and then she files for divorce *rp the next day* WOMEN END DIVORCES MORE THAN MEN, THEY ARE HOME BREAKERS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:30 PM
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or maybe you like men, have you ever thought of that? If you don't find ANY women interesting idk. Some people here give so much closeted vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:25 PM
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then you probably have a misogyny problem sorry my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:12 PM
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If you don't find ANY conversation with women boring then I have news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:48 PM
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you take this guy seriously? 🤡 tate asking the real questions Why wouldn't I have a machete next to my bed https://youtu.be/SaClRs4TbQ0?t=15 another moment after Immense power I posses https://youtu.be/SaClRs4TbQ0?t=76 ​ Here's a smart guy making fun of him https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAkudf93i3s&ab_channel=Vaush
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:01 AM
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You should watch all the videos that make fun of him, there are PLENTY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:48 PM
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I don't think I've actually seen anyone criticizing him address the specific content of the things he says to be honest. That's because you are on the other side of the algorithm. All of the streamers/youtubers I follow did a "tate is a clown" vid. He's so easy to laugh at that he's given content to his haters. Everyone addressed what he says, his MLM, his human trafficking accusations, etc. His 15 minutes of fame will be over in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:46 PM
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Then don't come with Pikachu face 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:02 PM
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That's because you've been taking dating advice from men and not listening to women. The moment here women say "don't try to be someone you are not", everyone is "this is not useful, don't ask a fish how to catch them, ask the fisherman" The fisherman being a 45 year old dude. So don't come with Pikachu face. Feminism is exactly that, not forcing anyone to either like masculinity/femininity or be masculine/feminine. I'd anything it should be a relief that you don't have to pretend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:39 PM
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So women are fucking who they actually want to fuck how they want to fuck? And that's a problem how?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah Emma Watson was a 7 and Kirsten Stewart was a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:48 PM
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That's how social changes are supposed to feel, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:55 PM
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I guess that's the main difference with feminism. Feminism tries to go against this and change the world for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:13 PM
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ahh I have no idea why women hate that If it's not hateful then they shouldn't. Like any other follow your dreams self help stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:39 PM
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Because in that sub that you mentioned there's no "men are stupid" or "women are stupid" So if you take advice from a guy that literally says "men have the right to cheat" you are so so so lost. It's like when people say "hey this guys are toxic and give terrible advice" you decide to cover your ears and spew "YoU DoNT AsK a FiSh hOw To CaTch FisH" or something like that. I have no idea who Mark Manson is, but Fresh&Fit, Jordan Peterson and Samuel Jackson are what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:19 PM
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Exactly. They simultaneously say: rp : It's terrible how men commit suicide more than women it's so unfair ALSO RP: MEN CAN'T CRY, IF YOU CRY YOUR DICK WILL FALL OFF
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:59 PM
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it's because of the misogynistic takes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:57 PM
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I suggest r/NotHowGirlsWork Sometimes they post stuff said here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:55 PM
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It's not that women hate the idea that you learned that from reading It's more like, if you have to learn that stuff by reading you already lack social skills that are key to date. Also the generalizations in some circles are misogynistic. So if you learn stuff from Fresh&Fir for example.... you are so lost
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:54 PM
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rule is too strict, a trend isn't, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:01 PM
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Fresh & Fit is the saddest podcast I've ever seen. The insecurity is palpable. They feed of young naive guys which is a bad thing since they are super misogynistic. They also unintentionally fed all of the lefttube lmao Even the name is terrible. They should open a vegan deli instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:56 PM
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There are a lot of assumptions going on here but anyway "playing hard to get" is so lame. Dating life is complicated enough to add more confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:47 PM
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if a guy is a friend and he then saves a woman from being assaulted by some other guy, is he still met a friend, or does he become someone more attractive to her? This Superman fantasy lmao Someone can be suddenly attracted to someone that they haven't been attracted before but I don't think saving the girl is what makes it. I think ugly guys have better chances with people they see everyday like at work. The friendzone can be reversed but there's no formula. That's why having women friends is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:17 PM
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I can't believe how wholesome the top answers are! ❤ where am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:28 PM
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To connect is the first step. If you can't connect you can't stay connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:03 PM
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not at all In fact in my circle the people who dated a lot are the ones who are in relationships now. The ones who don't date much continued in that tone and are still single. It makes sense too. The more people you meet, the more chances you have to fall in love with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:32 PM
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Yes, we are animals but we have our differences from other animals, you just can't erase those differences to fit an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:29 PM
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I think culture definitely makes us humans. Chimps don't have that, or if they have it it's 5% of what we have. Culture is what molds your perception, so leaving that out is like leaving "humanity" out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:27 PM
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That's probably because they weren't able to connect in the first place. People here seem to believe that sleeping around makes you unable to connect when it's the other way around. Same if you find a 30 y/o virgin. They aren't able to connect and they won't be easy people to have a relationship with. but that's not the case for everyone. All the people I know that now are married with children have had a fair share of hookups until one day they found love and decided to build a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:25 PM
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Exactly thissssss I would never want to be with someone who feels that they don't have options. I'd rather be alone than living a lie. So what if you have to go through some people until you find _the one_ (if there is such thing)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:27 PM
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So humans can't share features with two different animals at the same time? They can and they do The problem is when people force an action on others with the "it's only natural because lobsters do it too" justification. It makes it sound so scientific and objective but the truth is, we could compare ANY animal to humans. Even those who don't have hierarchies or pair bonding or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:23 PM
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and they are wrong too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:25 PM
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No, I didn't say that I said that the fact someone is married doesn't mean they are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:23 PM
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We used too (and still do in some parts of the world) But we don't anymore since we developed other skills. So if we don't do that anymore maybe we don't do "alphas" anymore. That is because who ever is alpha gets to have sex with the female. So we don't pair bond? Why do we have the institution of marriage and monogamy if the alpha is supposed to have sex with the females? Something doesn't add up. Pair bonding isn't just about sex they do it through things like grooming each other to create st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:12 PM
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Additionally, other human behaviors like in group preference, borders, etc. can also be observed in chimps. Except they live in the wild, don't have cars, planes, paintings, philosophy, economic theories, cryptocurrency, google, etc etc etc you can justify your bias with any animal example if you leave out key things that makes us humans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:24 PM
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I'm copying and pasting my own comment: There are also so many differences with chimps https://releasechimps.org/chimpanzees/chimpanzee-society they also live in extended family groups of as many as 20-120 individuals. We don't live like that. Upon reaching sexual maturity, females migrate to neighboring communities while males stay in their natal group. We don't do this. While fathers and mothers do not form monogamous bonds for life (...) This even says chimpanzees don't pair bond. So what is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:16 PM
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Implying that we resemble chimpanzees, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:09 PM
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Sure but there are also so many differences with chimps https://releasechimps.org/chimpanzees/chimpanzee-society they also live in extended family groups of as many as 20-120 individuals. We don't live like that. Upon reaching sexual maturity, females migrate to neighboring communities while males stay in their natal group. We don't do this. While fathers and mothers do not form monogamous bonds for life (...) This even says chimpanzees don't pair bond. So what is it? Are we parrots, chimps or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:07 PM
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Are lobsters or parrots close too? or are you picking animals according to what you want to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:57 PM
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Same with wolves Everyone is "alpha" this and "beta" that. I think they took this terminology from a study of wolves and their hierarchy. As it turns out the science guy who conducted the study realized he had made a mistake and has been trying to correct it. Wolves don't have a alpha, beta hierarchy. They just move around like families and the eldest are the ones leading the puppies until they are grown and can have their own puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:17 PM
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Sure but there are animals who pair bond and some who don't. There are groups of animals where the females lead, others where males lead. Some animals are sexually dimorphic while others aren't. Some eat their offspring, some eat their mates. Some is the female who seduces the male, some it's the other way around. So you have as many examples as you want in the animal kingdom. So why choose specific ones like lobsters or parrots when there are so many animals who don't behave like that. Yes, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:11 PM
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we are birds but sometimes we are lobsters too it all depends on which narrative they try to push
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:06 PM
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So then why use it as a mark of happiness? The statistic is also leaving out all of the people who live together but never went through the paperwork of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:04 PM
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The thing is, a woman with high ncount is less likely to take BS because she knows she has options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:27 PM
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women with 0-1 sexual partners have the lowest divorce rate Yeah but this doesn't equal happiness. They could very well be religious and are unable to leave the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:24 PM
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+1 because you managed to offend everyone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:22 PM
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sure, maybe second after your post 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:48 PM
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On the contrary, is the mindset of a man with more options. You are cancelling a part of the population, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:13 PM
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how many times do I have to repeat myself! I'm not offended so why would I be aggressive? I come here to debate for the sake of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:05 PM
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aren't we all? lmao but yes you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:43 PM
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First quote wasn’t even me Someone else said that and you answered "It’s both. It’s almost always both." So I'm assuming by your answer that you agree with what I quoted. The other stuff is just general PPD toxic stuff people repeat here again and again. Anyway I hope you find a way to be happy. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:39 PM
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They punch walls or hit other people, that's how men throw fits of emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:32 PM
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Asian women Also asian men! Men in kpop are so infantilized. It's a culture thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:30 PM
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believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:27 PM
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It's about PPD mentality in general I know people think that the grass is greener on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:27 PM
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They’re not lonely, they just want the money. Assuming that women are looking for relationships *only* for monetary interest and desperation instead of love it's pretty toxic The notion of "hitting the wall" meaning that a woman looses value as a person just because they grow older is toxic too The most miserable demographic of human being is 40+ year old women, I think this sounds like toxic BS. Women are happier single than in a bad relationship. If you don't see what we are saying I'm very so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:23 PM
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They don't so I don't know what to tell you. And we can go in circles forever about something that impossible to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:12 PM
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and your point is ..........? ah yeah I know, you are ugly so you are doomed because there's no gym than can save you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:11 PM
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I'm a guy but ok And I'm not offended. I was saying that your way of viewing life and women is toxic. You are probably driving away potential high value people with that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:09 PM
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They did also an experiment with a photo of a man model spewing Nazi ideology, and got lots of convos. wtf people need to find better hobbies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:07 PM
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How can you possibly know this? How can you possibly know the struggle of fat ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:51 PM
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If you can be friends with your partner, why is a friend you have a crush on be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:44 PM
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not at all, having a crush on your friend it's pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:42 PM
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sadly yeah, that's what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:05 PM
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Because it's different moments in life. When you are younger you want some things like partying, drinking, coming home late, etc. Once you grow older you stop wanting to do all those things. Your priorities start to change. Instead of clubs you start going to restaurants, enjoy a nice wine, go home and watch a movie. More chill activities and stability. So if all of that changes, why wouldn't your preferences in relationships change too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:04 PM
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someone who cheats sure, they will probably cheat again But having random sex when you are single isn't cheating and there's nothing wrong with that. It's not a crime. But I think the reason is you are very conservative and I was raised liberal. I honestly don't care if someone sleeps around. I do it too and I have never cheated. It's a whole other thing unrelated to normal casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah but I have ugly friends who struggle. They would never in a million years post about their issues online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:41 PM
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I'm addressing exactly what you are saying. I don't believe in slut shaming. I think it's dumb, that's why I say that having sex is not a crime. But it doesn't change the past. As I said, slut shaming is dumb so this makes no sense to me. Like me there are many other beta whatever that'd be more than happy to fall in love and get married with a woman who is in love with t hem as well and want to start a family. You don't want a "used" woman? that's fine too. The world doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:40 PM
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I don't think having sex is a crime but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:29 PM
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I don't need to. I have ugly friends that struggle to get sex. That's why I mentioned it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:25 PM
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Ur literally said that men are only interested in hook ups and not relationships. I never said that and I don't believe that either Now ur saying women need time to mature to want a relationship. Everyone, not only women. The whole ima sleep around when I'm 20 and suddenly want to settle down when I'm 30 is such a bad deal for men. I really don't think being "convenient" for men plays a role here. It's just something that happens. You can either imagine that she's not being truthful or you can f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:19 PM
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There's no need to be toxic though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:24 PM
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you are right but it's one of those corrections that sound pretty much like AcThUaLlY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:05 PM
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Yes, that's what happens when you grow up, you mature
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:59 PM
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So by your logic, no guy should care if a woman was a hoe because she's not sleeping around any more? yep, that's how people that surround me do it. You do you and be sad i don't care honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:56 PM
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Depends on the moment in life and depends on the person, but yeah, not all women want to get married from the age of 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:51 PM
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We have very different definitions of "interesting"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:50 PM
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I'm not ignoring it. I opened the link, read it, laughed at it, then came back with an answer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:48 PM
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Because maybe they are not mature yet for such compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:43 PM
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That's not how it works. People simply sleep around while young because of hormones or because why not. When they enter a relationship the rules change and they stop. How is this new information is beyond me. I don't agree with anything you said. I think it's very disconnected from reality and also very toxic way to see life that will probably make you sad and prevent you from enjoying life. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:39 PM
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I'm sorry I don't take seriously a random post from a random forum titled "Online dating experiment with Pig Woman". Go with your "science" somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:14 PM
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Men here say that men have it easier for relationships, it's part of the CHad fantasy. Also ugly women are invisible to men too. There are ugly women that get no matches, but nobody talks about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:55 PM
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I agree with this. The whole perception of settling comes from jealousy, IMO. The narrative is that the woman, "once she's stop being a wh**e", finally settles with a beta something IRL, the woman stops being a young adult, matures and decides to continue to the next part of life. She finds a man who has the same values. They fall in love and have a family. She doesn't want to be a "wh**e" anymore so I'm not sure why people here keep using the word "settle".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:52 PM
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I honestly didn't understand if they are a man or a woman, that's (also) what I'm asking Either way that's disgusting and extremely shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:19 PM
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That's why I think these stories are either made up or incredible specific and rare. How many people do you know that had a religious awakening? I personally don't know anyone but idk, they probably exist.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:09 PM
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ikr! Once a week some story like this is posted. What's curious is that it's the only type of stories (is it fair that the slut woman makes him wait?) where characters have names.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:05 PM
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Hot enough to fuck, but not exactly hot enough to be associated in public with. So you didn't want to have a relationship with someone because you were embarrassed he was too ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:00 PM
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Peter Dinklage? He has a handsome face and seems very confident
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:00 AM
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Having self esteem has been a popular trait since forever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:07 PM
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Besides you can't change anything so....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:53 PM
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How disconnected to reality you have to be to not know that women masturbate to Freud and Saussure? My god, go touch some grass 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:23 PM
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There's no such thing as "Tate haters", that's just normal audience that agrees with Hassan To make fun of him is also easy content that people like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:20 PM
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I could care less what some woke gender studies or feminist class wants to put forth lololol Semiology psychology and philosophy exists way before feminism and it was all written by dudes, maybe that'll make you take them more seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:34 AM
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you could use some philosophy, semiology, psychology, basically any social study. Just the basic stuff. It'll expand your view of humans. You don't have to do women's studies if you think you'll burst into flames, just pick any other social study.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:27 AM
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Women at the beach don't fall in horniness with just one special guy, it's more about a range of men that fit beauty standards, SAME WAY MEN LOOK AT WOMEN That's true, if you don't acknowledge the existence of culture and how that filtrates and forms our perception you sound like a flat earther to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:20 AM
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I said park but I should've said beach but anyway you are not considering the danger factor that women have ingrained in their brains from early age. Even if the guy is hot, seeing a penis in a place where there shouldn't be a penis, the first thought is "is this dangerous?" "ah no, it's just a guy naked on the beach" second thought: "nice" or "eww". It's not very arousing to think you are in danger. It's true that I deflected the subject a little bit but only because I read park instead of beac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:08 AM
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you'd have to be flashed, groped and catcalled since you were 12 to understand how fucking scary is to be flashed at the park that doesn't mean women don't find naked men attractive context matters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:52 AM
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BiOLoGiCal is what RPs think is an "irrefutable" evidence that things should go the way that fits their agenda As if we were animals in a zoo with no culture and intelligence We are not living in a cave anymore, please read philosophers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:48 AM
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ohh that's why so many men want to suck his dick, yeah, now I totally get it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:40 AM
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the thing is, rational normal humans see him as a POS like, come on: https://www.reddit.com/r/Hasan_Piker/comments/wb85nr/this_man_i_cannot/ this is YIKES How much of a rotten brain you have to have to see this and go yeaaahhh thats so true mannn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:39 AM
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do you have any source that he's on the clear? because all I can find us that he's being investigated for human trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:36 AM
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yeah but you have to add that he's under investigation for human trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:34 AM
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yeah it is https://www.reddit.com/r/Hasan\_Piker/comments/wb85nr/this\_man\_i\_cannot/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:33 AM
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and Tate still got humiliated lmaooooo It's empirical, not imperial the debate was awesome to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:31 AM
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Studies show that the naked man works 2 out of 3 times it's science
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:28 AM
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It's BiOlOGiCaL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:24 AM
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the key difference is that naked men in some circumstances mean DANGER Like if you are in a park and a man flashes you that means you have to run the hell out of there If a man finds a naked woman in a park she poses no threat, that's why they can go "hehe nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:23 AM
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What is there to say honestly? a) "I lilke short guys" = liar! anecdotal! b) your study is flawed= liar! it's not! its pure science! I'm blue pill but I think beauty standards are a thing and yeah, tall guys fall into that category. I don't even think you needed a study to find this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:02 AM
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still a lot of warm bodies? YIKES!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:50 AM
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flair is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:47 AM
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This Also anecdotal works for them when it fits the agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:31 PM
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If you put babies to robot's care they end up screwed up I think this was done with babies and the only conclusion they arrived to was that babies need human contact otherwise they die/have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:02 PM
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naaaah I'm against the whole negative connotation that "settle" has here. She's still falling in love with a "beta" and wants to be with him and have his babies (optional). And the guy is too. So I don't see any negative side to "settle". So what if her priorities change when they turn 30? That's life, we learn and change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:59 PM
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Ah so the examples aren't even here and or in any study? I'm also in the other dating subs like dating over thirty and still can't see what you are saying. I'm also old, and I have female friends and none of them are struggling to get matches on tinder So I'm not entirely sure where these "most women" really are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:47 PM
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you are kind of right but in a bad way it's true that these men who shame don't do it because the women showed interest in him, because probably women don't show interest in them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:46 PM
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you? why you? let them narrow their dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:44 PM
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Yes, you have to use your own criteria and social skills to determine if you are making someone uncomfortable, like with any other action
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:37 PM
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That's slut shaming bro, disguise it as "preference" disguise it as "evolutionary bs" it's still slut shaming. And to your original point: I've never in my life heard of or seen a guy shaming a woman for showing interest in him Slut shaming is a thing in this sub, so men do shame women. Though I don't believe this women are interested in men who slut shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:18 PM
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you say collective but I've been here a while and I have never seen anyone saying that women struggle to get dates. In fact, quite the opposite. The general narrative here is that women have tons of possibilities, that's why they have the luxury of choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:09 PM
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ah you are right, then check all the slut shaming posts "women with high body count are LVW"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:04 PM
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Ah so anecdotal, got it you probably have 1 or 2 friends who are between relationships and are a bit bitter and that translates to "most women"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:56 PM
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I've never in my life heard of or seen a guy shaming a woman for showing interest in him Then you should check out this sub. People are here constantly saying that they should reject 30 y/o women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:53 PM
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You can look but you can't make them uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:47 PM
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Now most of the women that were hot a few years ago are looking very sad and lonely now. Where do you get this info? or it's just speculation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:31 PM
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But then you'll be wondering if they are with you just for the money, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:43 PM
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men like to see men put their dicks in things and they were looking for new places. why is this so funny and correct at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:46 PM
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oh, please do, that's also my kink
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:43 PM
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He's a clown many redpillers follow If you guys ever want the RP to be taken seriously you'll have to stop giving attention to a guy who says stupid shit like this https://www.youtube.com/shorts/p5-qzXcqCe0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:58 PM
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come on man, don't give this creep tips He should be on a list
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:53 PM
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If I write down all the BS Andrew tate says you wouldn't know if its Cesar Milan speaking or him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:45 PM
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Typically the red pill strategy is to withdraw attention, affection, and validation when the woman they’re with is perceived to be “misbehaving,” and lavishing it when she is behaving in a way that is pleasing. If I ever go out with a RP man I expect to be walked 3 times a day and he has to pick up my poop and throw it to the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:36 PM
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This is the craziest post I've ever seen on ppd. I hope they are joking, I hope Like how far from reality do you have to be to even consider this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:05 PM
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the rape issue won't be solved for men though, they rape each other in jail so a segregated community is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:55 PM
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oh no, don't worry, reddit is full of weirdos and I suspect some might be on the spectrum Don't listen to people online, the world out there has nothing to do with what's talked about here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:53 PM
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riiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:03 AM
1

So the reason here people constantly repeat that women are hypergamous is only because they are men? (meaning that it's irrelevant to them that they too are hypergamous?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:45 AM
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suuuuuuuuuuuure You only got the clitoral timing right, so I'm going to assume that's the only experience you have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:41 AM
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You know that watching porn doesn't count right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:25 AM
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"I want to have sex with you" lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:23 AM
2

but one of my friends sister is 33 and she looks just as young as us. oddly specific 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:00 AM
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if you like her go for it, if you don't then don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:03 AM
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If it's the same woman sure. maybe it's unfair, but a different person? 👆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:02 AM
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I don't know, I haven't met this women, maybe you should and decide based on real life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:20 PM
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The one missing out is you, not me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:18 PM
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he whole point is to 'punish' someone for a 'crime' that they didn't commit Feels like OP is punishing himself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:16 PM
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It's kind of weird to preventively say no to a hypothetical person. If they end up being like your preconceived ideas you can always leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:14 PM
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You are thinking theoretically "giving woman your own age a chance" means there's a woman asking OP for a chance, that's why he's asking if he should say no or yes- In a real situation the best answer is "if OP likes said women he should date her, if he doesn't he should't" IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:08 PM
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If it's the same woman sure. maybe it's unfair, but a different person? Imagine explaining the situation "no, sorry, we can't date because I tried to date other women in the past and it didn't work out"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:54 PM
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If you like a woman would you still say no to her because other (different) women didn't pay attention to you in the past? Does this make you feel like winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:48 PM
0

But men don't date up? When a guy wants to sleep or have a relationship with a "9" or a "10" isn't that dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:48 PM
1

Then the use of the word "strategy" is wrong (thank god I though they were trying to be a psychopath)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:53 PM
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I do understand what "strategy" means though "a plan of action designed to achieve a long-term or overall aim." So are you voluntarily trying to be one of the traits of the triad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:46 PM
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by strategy you mean that if you start acting like you are an impulsive psychopath you think you'll get women? And that's not insane??????? And by responsibility you mean that if one of those impulsive psychopaths happens to kill or rape this woman, it's her fault for not being responsible? Just straight up victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:25 PM
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So what you are saying is that your friends care about the past, does this mean EVERYONE cares? I don't think so. I for instance never had that conversation with anyone. Why is your personal experience more valid than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:47 PM
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oh no, someone on the internet called me dumb oh no 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:11 PM
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I think overall is a bad example because none of us knows what she's going through in her life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:11 PM
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ok. I'll rephrase "she'll cheat later" is a revenge fantasy that help some people sleep at night and it's imposible to prove since it's a statement about the future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:10 PM
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That's your fantasy man sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:01 PM
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Nobody should base their value on other people's thinking. AKA "the trash takes itself out"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:59 PM
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It's better to be alone than unhappily married yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:12 PM
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Not having sex doesn't necessarily make you bitter though There are some dudes out there doing the opposite: making themselves more appealing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:02 PM
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I don't think she'll find it difficult to find another man lol or maybe she'd rather stay single? But if it makes you feel better you can fantasize how she's paying the price for being a slut lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:56 PM
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That's a huge thing with asian men that you can see in kpop. This women find some male idols "cute" "babyface" and they also want to fuck them be their girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:47 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key\_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:41 PM
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This post is ridiculous. It's not like women in the real world are concerned about what conservatives think of them. They'll always find a progressive man who hasn't even heard the word "body count" in his life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:41 PM
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I think she's doing as she pleases, which is something most people in this sub can't say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:33 PM
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in this thread. in this SUB
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:31 PM
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is just conveniently ignored. Just yesterday someone posted a study from the cdc saying that men have waaay more "body count" than women. All of the sudden everyone was "the cdc is lying" "they don't know how to conduct a survey" "the cdc isn't credible source"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:01 PM
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Just because there is a historical document of a woman being sold does not deterministically mean it was non-consensual. How can a person whos is SOLD AS AN OBJECT have any saying in the matter? What's next? Black consensual slaves? That's not how slavery works
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:58 PM
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I wouldn't burn myself because I wouldn't know about it. If it's casual sex, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:47 PM
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it's WEIRD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:38 PM
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So when you start dating someone you ask to the group "hey, has anyone already slept with [name]" or you ctrl+F?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:31 PM
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I'm sure the CDC knows better than you though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:28 PM
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Ah I get it. Now all of the sudden the CDC is not a trustworthy source because it breaks your personal narrative. You know better than the CDC yeah, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:09 PM
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So you just mention the name? "Hey I just had sex with [name last name] do you guys know if she's a slut?" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:08 PM
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Ahh all of the sudden age is important now sure fucking LOL how convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:03 PM
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For a woman, that's below average, by a lot. nup, wrong: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Women 4.3 (0.10) Men 6.3 (0.39) Men are slutier than women but it's ok because Andrew tate is your boyfriend or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:53 PM
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100% REAL NO FAKE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:49 PM
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They are probably competing with each other. "dude I have so much sex look!" It has insecurity vibes all over
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:43 PM
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Some guys will legit just post a pic on a WhatsApp group and ask if she's been around or if anyone knows her. wow that sounds like a shitty friend group I mean who posts about the people they sleep with? that's tacky AF
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:42 PM
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LOL so men are more promiscuous than women and somehow you all are constantly talking about how women are cheaters if they have slept with 3 men LOL that's some biased misogynistic Andrew Tate BS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:36 PM
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If it's"growth" it's level up. Doesn't matter how that growth is. Too bad in the real world you can't have many wives unless you cheat but society doesn't like that. So you are left with leaving one women for another, like everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:30 PM
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but rather try and have them both 🤣🤣 in male's POV's having more partners IS leveling up. They don't see a partner with more income as leveling up for whatever reason. So it's different scales but same potential outcome. Everyone wants to level up, I'm not sure why its a women thing (according to ppd)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:27 PM
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Finally someone that doesn't link a buzzfeed article, so thanks for that. However this study talks about economic hypergamy. Which of course makes sense. If a woman is going to carry a child and potentially be out of work for that child she'll obviously find a partner that can provide. But on OLD you can't see the economic status, so this study, while interesting*, doesn't show what people normally say here on PPD. What I usually argue about the hypergamy is not that it exists or not. Ask yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:02 PM
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Yes it was! The one where women swiped right on 20% of men. I've been told here that the whole hypergamy stuff is based in this one and only study, so..... https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/ Women, on the other hand, are harsh with their ratings. According to the study, they rate a whopping 80% of men on the site as ‘below average’. So, if this isn't it. Do you have any others like you mention?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:34 PM
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or 17 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:28 PM
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no you don't. You find her hot and then go to books and read "males are attracted to boobs" But you don't need to know about cultural beauty standards to find someone hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:26 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:22 PM
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depends how fast that rock goes "necrophilia" could also apply
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:20 PM
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with studies to prove it Is there any other study than the OK cupid one from 2009?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:14 PM
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polygynous by nature, oh how convenient 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:13 PM
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i think its already happening. Nono, we are past that phase IMO A few decade ago being feminine was bad. Being a tomboy meant that you were past women's stereotypes, which is a good. "I'm not like other girls" I think now thanks to all the trans acceptance movement we've learned to accept and embrace femininity. "I AM like other girls, because womanhood is good" Anyway I don't think men have a saying in all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:12 PM
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I thought the same, what if horny OP misinterpreted a normal conversation for flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:22 PM
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I don't even get what "entitled" means here Entitlement here means "how dare she say no when she's old" YIKES
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:20 PM
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How is being cis related to going to the gym? Do you know what "cis" means? And no, I don't have "sTuDiEs" to prove everything I say. I just have knowledge from real life and real people. You should try that sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:02 PM
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Stop trying to make bodybuilders happen.... It's not going to happen. Amateur bodybuilders are just fit guys btw. Those are attractive. Bodybuilders aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:44 AM
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I think it's less that 15% and they are probably all at the gym. The thing is, IRL the bodybuilder has chances only with gym women, while the lean guy has chances everywhere. just because Japanese women have a certain cultural preference or beauty standard doesn't mean that standard is universal. I bought it up because people here usually mean "women"=American hetero cis women As if the western beauty standard was the only one existing on Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:52 AM
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Wonho totally. TBF he looks so weird dancing with those muscles lmao I think the limit is Jackson wang, who, in western standards, would be considered as a thin guy. The absolute Chad is Cha Eun-woo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:22 PM
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Of course not, who said that? I'm saying that attractiveness is unrelated to being trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:58 PM
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lmao, Reddit in a nutshell. America = the world I think women like some muscles, but not as deformed as bodybuilders. Some body fat is good or/and being lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:56 PM
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Ah, your contribution to the conversation is that all women are garbage trucks, gotcha, very interesting and informative, good luck in life man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah Hasan lol it's so funny seeing him "noooooo Japan isn't as cool as I thought" lmao I didn't mention that video as proof of anything though. Women don't prefer bodybuilders in general that's a known thing. edit to add sorry: An example of this would be saying that xQc is as hot as Hasan is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:38 PM
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You mean women should become lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:28 PM
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I think the logic is "if he's desperate he'll treat her better" And I can assure you the men who say this haven't actually dated unattractive men. Having low self esteem can make them jealous, angry, insecure, etc. Those traits affect a relationship. Also being desperate is not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:27 PM
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I think a little bit thinner than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:12 PM
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I don't think women go for the bodybuilder obsessed with proteins type of guy. I think that's just male fantasy. Bodybuilders were never attractive for hetero women. Coincidentally I'm now watching a youtuber having a meltdown seeing Japanese ladies say exactly this lmao that they prefer lean muscular men instead of bulky ones Edit to add: that also explains kpop popularity where women worship slim slightly muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:49 PM
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What is this Romeo and Juliet nonsense. It's death or it's not love? Wtf I'd never expect anyone to die for me In the real world people make breakfasts, cuddle, give their time and carry emotional weight, that is already a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:22 PM
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I'm going to assume you are saying that hookups could be harmful because saying that same sex relationships is harmful is straight up homophobic. There is no harm in hookups. People have been doing it for centuries, I have done it with no consequences. If you can't handle it, that doesn't mean other people can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:06 PM
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Is this your first day in PPD? There are tons of posts from men complaining that women's standards are high
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:56 PM
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if men chose not to have casual sex. you tell me my comment has nothing to do with the discussion yet to are still telling people what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:50 PM
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Because casual sex and being bisexual isn't the equivalent to getting burned with a stove. It's ok to tell people what to do in the case of harmful stuff like drugs and alcohol, but casual sex between consenting adults? that's not dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:48 PM
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I'm sorry but the hypergamy things sounds pretty much like "women should lower their standards"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:45 PM
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Sally shouldn't have a say in geriatric men having sex with each other though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:42 PM
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Exactly, That's why the s**t shaming n-count issue is so prevalent. How dare they have sex when I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:05 PM
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I think TRP and the fat women you are talking about are struggling with the same. If it's ok for a man to rant here about how he's invisible in the dating market, then it has to be ok for a woman to rant about beauty standards. because it's the same, it's a cry for acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:43 PM
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WHy not people who want to have casual sex have casual sex and people who don't don't? What is it with this constant telling people what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:39 PM
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I absolutely agree with this The day the manosphere stops being misogynistic is the day society will listen to their struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:32 PM
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Men are usually fooled by make up. They see a beautiful woman and think it's genetics when in fact there is A LOT of money and dedication behind that look. Which explains why OP thinks women put less effort than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:57 PM
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idk if being disgusted by the idea of a man sleeping with another man isn't homophobic idk what is honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:49 PM
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Someone said something here that resonated with me Having a preference means "a greater liking for one alternative over another or others." It doesn't completely exclude the alternative Meaning that if your preference is hetero guys but you can still give a chance to bisexual guys then it's a preference. Now if you completely refuse to date a bisexual person just because they are bisexual, then that's not "preference", that's being biphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:37 PM
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what does this mean? what is a gold star lesbo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:32 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/w4kbny/cmv_the_gender_pay_gap_is_largely_caused_by/ ​ read this, the comments explain it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:31 PM
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There was an interesting post in CMV that explains the wage gap better: https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/w4kbny/cmv\_the\_gender\_pay\_gap\_is\_largely\_caused\_by/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:30 PM
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You should read semiology then, read the real intellectuals who came up with this idea a century ago and it's taught in first level university.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:50 PM
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First how would you measure biology traits? I think it's impossible given the broad spectrum human beings offer but for the sake of argument let's say you arrive to a bracket number that applies to all races, cultures and history. Then there are the cultural traits. You can't just judge beauty by biology standards because we perceive things filtered by culture. How do you measure culture? A single country has different cultures coexisting, so where do you draw the line? You can't. This is not so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:44 PM
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You can add croutons if you don't understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:30 PM
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Both things are equally important and you still can't measure them, making beauty subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:30 PM
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It's still subjective and deeply tied to a certain culture/race/time in history. Sure you can broadly say that muscular beardy men are perceived as more beautiful by western standards because biology tells women that this guy can bring a good catch to the cave. But then how do you explain the massive popularity of kpop idols who are nothing like that and they even wear make up. And worst, how do you measure that? What do you measure?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:23 PM
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It's basic semiology. There are things that are quantifiable and things that are not. "amount of beautifulness" is not. You can measure stuff like "muscular mass" but you are still left wondering about the arbitraries of certain traits being more important than others across cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:10 PM
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It's basic semiology, sorry Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:08 PM
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Being beautiful is subjective and are tied to beauty standards. It's a combination between women looking for other factors in a partner aside from looks and men finding youth more important in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:46 PM
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That's again the male lens Older guys hitting on younger women are often seen as creepy. Sure you can find the ocasional girl with daddy issues but more often you'll be labeled as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:42 PM
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It gives you more room for fantasy too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:39 PM
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This is precisely what we do in this sub. We generalize and we tell people what to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:59 AM
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They are not. Immature people confuse obsession and confusion with interest. Mature people are able to separate them. It's not a gender thing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:42 PM
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Then the fox jumped over the lazy dog
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:12 PM
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This is sociopathic Act interested when you are interested and uninterested when you are not. Faking disinterest creates confusion and miscommunications. If you are not meant to be then faking won't make it work. I usually see many posts saying stuff like "he/she texts once every 3 days, does that mean anything?" and usually the answer is "if you are not comfortable with them texting every 3 days then you should leave"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:18 PM
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Because I got the notification on my phone this morning even though I had already responded yesterday and I was like "wait, I'm a douche"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:27 PM
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Oh no! I read it as YOU really should go touch some grass sorry for the sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:00 PM
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Oh I haven't thought of that thank you so much so helpful /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:44 PM
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same here. "really? you had nothing better to do on a Saturday nigh than debating about body count and pills? Who is Chad btw?" -people from the real world probably
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:50 PM
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"Women need to...." yeah, no, that'snot how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:14 PM
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fresh and fit Oh the 2 guys who sell healthy food? I read they also have a training program and sell healthy recipes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:30 PM
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Most women aren’t attracted to asian guys. Time to start liking kpop lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:53 PM
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I know but it's not like I'm the only one not speaking, if they ask me something or conversation flows I won't stop it. Once I did that, we chatted a lot before the first date but then there was no chemistry... I felt like I had made her waste her time. So I decided next time I will chat just to arrange a date and continue to chat if the date is successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:52 PM
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It's perfectly reasonable for men that keep themselves fit or at a a normal weight They are talking about skinny guys, the ones that aren't normal weight, their weight is too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:43 PM
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One: Only sleep with a man if you want to have sex with him. That way, if he flakes afterwards, you got what you came for (literally!). Yessss If a man doesn't press you for a commitment after sex, he's not that into you. I don't think this is necessarily truth. They could be shy to ask or idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:25 PM
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Spend the time between almost constantly talking. If this isn’t successful, either the chemistry is bad or they’re too busy with other things to put much effort into a relationship. Oh no! I fail at this. Usually if I arrange a date with a date or with friends, usually the chat goes silent because I rather talk about stuff face to face than through chat. In fact it makes me nervous to chat a lot before meeting. TBF I arrange a date I do it with 2 or 3 days in advance tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:21 PM
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Looks because I'll explain to myself that they are shallow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:46 PM
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in that case, love is gone and you are left with rational thinking and sadness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:36 PM
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So a Chad who is a fuckboi will maintain his HV status as long as he keeps lying to a woman that he wants a LTR, when in fact he is sleeping around? I think that's very trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:33 PM
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I'm saying that if ALL PUAs generalize with "women do this" and "women do that" then it's safe to say that ALL PUAs give bad advice. The "eww" part is the generalization. That's why I was asking, I wasn't deflecting I'm open to you sending me a non gender specific PUA. There could be out there, some dating coach that helps you meet people and not necessarily make this weird general assumptions like "women want to have babies because evolution". But it seems that PUAs without gender generalizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:30 PM
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So chad is basically a woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:06 PM
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Love IS BS, but it's real and it's way stronger than any rational explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:46 PM
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I also think that some women know they are being played but they still go along because of horny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:45 PM
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But women know who is a fuckboy and who isn't. If Chad is a fuckboy then that lowers his value in front of women who aren't looking for that. If Chad isn't, and is simply a guy with options, then that doesn't lower his value. Women also have a lot of options and that doesn't make them less valuable or more prone to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:23 PM
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Sure, all you bought up are men's POV. I'm talking about women's POV about The Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:22 AM
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Do you have any PUA that doesn't generalize women? "women like X" "women are Z"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:14 AM
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I saying that if you struggle with meeting women go to therapy, don't go to PUAs, because they are a scam and "eww"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:03 AM
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You know why it's "eww"? Because every PUA talks about women like numbers, stock market or objects. Not like human beings. Doesn't matter if the advice is good or bad, every generalization erases personality. There are already professionals that can help with interpersonal dynamics. They are called therapists. Because when you struggle to get along with people it's usually about rooted personal issues, not because The Women act like this or like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:55 AM
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lol no a guy falling for PUAs is the equivalent of being involved in an MLM it's so lame it's a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:24 AM
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sure I'm saying that women who want LTR want guys who also want a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:22 AM
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Those are different things. Not every wealthy good mannered man wants a LTR, why are you mixing traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:05 AM
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What are you basing your opinion on? How do you know the women who fall for PUAs are the same who read about PUAs? Also the fuckboy tactics are kind of.. known... they are even ridiculed in How I met your Mother, which is super mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:03 AM
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I think chad is both: tall handsome good job man who is a fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:59 AM
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what about LTR marriage and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:57 AM
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Chad is HVM for men but not for women who are looking for a LTR. I think Chads are good looking fuckboys and nothing more. Value is subjective so both views are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:56 AM
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Why are women seemingly so terrible at determining whether a man "likes them as a person" or not? The popularity of pickup artists don't help with this. These guys are told how to trick women into making them believe they like them as a person, only to have sex with them and then leave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:40 AM
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I enjoy debating also sometimes it's like a freak show how some users just bluntly say stuff like all women are prostitutes like that's an acceptable thing to say for a rational human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:35 AM
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It shouldn't be for a woman either but I know nobody thinks that in this sub Divorced can get along very well with other divorced, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:43 PM
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26 year old women aren't in a hurry though. "The wall" is about having children and it supposedly starts at 30-35
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:23 PM
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You clearly have no idea what women like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:23 PM
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Idk, the other day I had a guy tell me here that Johnny Depp isn't beautiful now Vin diesel is hot? I think ppd guys have different taste in men than women. Ppd guys and your mom ;-) I do agree that the gym makes people more beautiful, but it's not magic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:28 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:57 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 well then maybe she'll also find this tate guy likeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:46 AM
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proving my point thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:10 AM
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I agree that wanting kids has an expiration date because well, that's just biology. I wouldn't call that a wall though, I'd call it end of fertility. But in other types of relationships I think the damage is equally distributed in the dating pool. young people carry childhood trauma that hopefully a grown up has already solved but a grown man maybe carries baggage from past relationships. Choosing a partner is choosing which kind of trauma you are willing to deal with. There are so many people i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:08 AM
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The other day I saw him arguing with xqc and the whole time he had a woman giving him a massage, that was sooooo ridiculous people look up to that loser? omg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:55 AM
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To men maybe but definitely not to women. He's a "hot" as Vin Diesel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:53 AM
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none of those are necessarily bad. Maybe that's the reason "men don't have a wall". Everyone carries baggage, relationship and childhood trauma at any age. If they are valuable or not is a case by case thing, Some people come out of difficult situations stronger, some come damaged. Many guys start hitting the gym after a divorce. Looks are not all in a relationship and they are subjective, so a caring average guy is better than a manipulative hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:24 AM
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anything. I don't think every 40 y/o guy is looking to date a 24 y/o. A 45 with a 24 y/o? yikes! You don't see that everyday for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:06 AM
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not so much. For example, an experienced woman knows the guy can give her pleasure, knows a guy can make her orgasm An inexperienced woman that is unable to orgasm maybe thinks its normal. A manipulative guy can gaslight her into thinking it's her fault when in reality he's not even trying. This can cause psychological trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:03 AM
4

yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:00 AM
2

That's not a kink though from wiki: kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. It is thus a colloquial term for non-normative sexual behaviour.[1] Virgin role play is a kink but wanting to fuck a real virgin is not, because it's not a deviant sexual practice. Imagine saying that religious…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:58 AM
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Yeah but a young innocent virgins are vulnerable. If a guy wants to be with a woman because she can be easily manipulated then she's probably in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:47 AM
5

Are you calling all women prostitutes or you just don't understand that The Wall is about women and not sexual workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:33 AM
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Why does this Wall thing feel like some kind of revenge fantasy against women? Like if a woman rejects a man they can secretly think "you are rejecting me now but you'll be coming back begging for attention when you are 35"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:24 AM
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really? I've been following the RP women for a while and I don't usually read stuff like that. It's interesting because I don't share the RP POV but I still usually agree with the top comment. I think RP women don't deserve RP men like the ones that comment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:33 PM
3

I have another theory. they are looking for that angelic submissive woman but they will probably instead find a normal woman, fall in love and throw the standards out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:29 PM
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I agree with this. I bet that as soon as they fall in love, they leave behind this BS because they won't be able to explain it rationally,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:26 PM
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It's the other way around. The fact that the most powerful ppl in the world are males is a symptom that there is male privilege. Women couldn't even vote less than 100 years ago... If that's not a show of imbalance I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:05 PM
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Same. Because I don't think The Chads are having sex with the ugly women. The Chads supposedly have choices. So by their theory (hypergamy), either the ugly women are having sex with slightly better looking versions of themselves (=average guys), or they are too ugly to be considered at all in the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:19 PM
1

But the people with more power in the world are men. Do you think that's just a coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:13 PM
2

ok, let's try: "I think women are as horny as men, the difference is they express it indoors" WRONG yOu ArE JuSt PrOvInG Op's PoInT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:40 PM
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The fact that there are many beauty standards in the world is proof that attraction isn't 100% biology. For example guys in kpop use make up like women. And women like that (see bts fans). Another example is thiccccness. In the west a big ass is seen as desirable, while in Asia you are considered ugly and fat. If we all share the same biology, how come something is seen as beautiful in a part of the planet, and not desirable in another?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:33 PM
5

I think this post isn't very welcoming to women's opinions so I don't understand why some even bothered. Unless they agree with op, they are dismissed "is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:50 PM
4

So, how would a woman be able to express a different opinion than OP's?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:47 PM
3

Men want to fuck more than they want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:56 PM
23

What for? So that ppl here can dismiss beautiful women's opinions? They already treat you different with a girly avatar than with a neutral one Also I would never post pictures of myself on this site
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:25 PM
1

Yeah, sometimes I'm conflicted because on one hand you see some people here (or in general Reddit) that seem to be a bit on the spectrum and receiving a lot of hate for that. Makes me sad. But on the other hand they are being super hateful, homophobic, misogynistic, etc and that makes me angry as well. Makes me want to join the hate train. Or maybe they are trolling, and behind a username there's a 14 year old just laughing writing s**t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:15 PM
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🤣🤣 COME AT ME BRO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:10 PM
5

brave flair! how much hate do you get for that daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:01 PM
1

I think it's a good skill to learn, to be able to let it go once there's no more productive things to say. The anger fades faster than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:13 PM
1

nah, don't bother it's not worth it you are proving their point by answering with an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:07 PM
1

intentionally or unintentionally? If they are doing intentionally then yes, leave them alone, not replying is a message in itself If they are doing it unintentionally then maybe remind them once or twice of your existence but if you still feel uncomfortable with the amount of time they take to reply then leave them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:55 PM
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If they are ignoring your texts it means leave them alone If it's a long relationship like a friendship I'd ask if they need to talk, and if they don't answer leave them alone there's not much else you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:40 PM
2

OP pisses me off but not so much for his socially awkwardness but THE FORMATING OP WHY DO YOU PRESS ENTER TWICE WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:33 PM
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By all the answers you are getting and the way you are replying I don't think you have good social skills mate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:31 PM
9

small group of people, but OP said that: would say 80-90% of women are average or below average, 80-90% of all women isn't a small group of people though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:15 PM
1

It’s like a woman purposely acting like a dumb bimbo so she can get guys. Some guys might actually preffer that so that's not a good example I think I think if you reverse genders it's the same. A woman behaving like an ass***e (treating him like stupid, picking unnecessary fights, being controlling and annoying, etc) so that he feels something for her. In fact I think this is how MANY people deal with boredom in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:24 PM
4

I think we will never know human "natural" state because culture is always in the way. You'll find many animals with different behaviors, that doesn't mean we are like them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:58 PM
1

Ask any women, they will consider any man walking down the street or at least most as a threat. In some circumstances. It's not like women are terrified all the time. You see people on the street relaxed and laughing. Women go on dates, walk on the street, use Ubers, etc. Taking care of yourself doesn't mean being afraid all the time. the more likely it is that they will fall in love with someone else. Let's say you can control how many people they are friends with. What about work/school/univer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:10 PM
2

Regardless if you are able to form friendships with women or not, letting your partner dictate who you can be friends with is the definition of toxicity. This means she doesn't trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:37 PM
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but, it's not "normal" or "human" to consider everyone a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:27 PM
2

Redditors don't have sex, don't be silly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:35 PM
2

Guys just like to whinge in hopes they’ll get pity sex out of it pity sex from Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:24 PM
1

They are there, they just don't say it in front of you. "I'm fat I need to loose weight" or "wtf happened to my face" is sooooo common it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:22 PM
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(I saw your answer on the other thread so half my reply is there) Depends on the type of parent. Some people don't give a shit about their kids, poor or rich. They just bring people to this earth for an ego boost but don't want to parent them. That has nothing to do with economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:40 PM
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ah, no, then I don't agree. I think everyone, specially poor people, will sell their soul to corporations for money. In fact a SAHM or SAHF is a luxury not everyone can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:37 PM
2

there are so many things men can do to surgically enhance their looks. In Korea plastic surgery is more common in men (or in kpop idols at least) than in the west. They are not very noticeable and they look awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:33 PM
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Not me. I have 2 friends, sisters. They both had their boobs done. One was so happy she showed them all the time. The other one has body image issues so it took her YEARS to assimilate the new boobs as her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:29 PM
1

I think you want people to say that poor people raise children wrong because they have too many? and everyone agrees on that already, that's why it's not an a-ha moment. Or I'm lost and that's not where you are going at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:27 PM
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You keep repeating this instead of answering a simple question lol wtf does that even mean It's so cryptic notice how I'm the first person to ask and I'm scared of the answer so what is it? Do you think children can thrive with less attention, love or money than what middle class considers a standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:22 PM
1

so if a woman has sex, just not with you, is a red flag? the red flags keep on multiplying!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:41 PM
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I'm 69 years old. Nice Also, are you saying men are hypergamous? HOW DARE YOU, we don't say that here. Men want someone prettier than them but we don't call it hypergamy, we call that "evolution" and "natural" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:23 PM
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How on earth is race relevant here? I wonder who is the racist here hmmmmmmmmmmm I'm not from the US. We don't divide people by races here we divide people by income, sex, education, origin, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:02 PM
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Ah, they hope to be able to slut shame a woman who is chasing them reducing even more the chances to have a relationship That's as close as shooting yourself in the foot as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:37 PM
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I think that's very delusional IRL men just leave their families and women have to deal with the children more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:31 PM
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If men care soooo much about the children why aren't there as many single dads as single moms? Women also neglect their children but the ones leaving are usually men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:24 PM
1

It's not the a-ha! moment you thought it was It's just Humans 1.0
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:15 PM
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oh yeah I forgot to clarify "outside of PPD, normal people are repulsed by this" my bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:09 PM
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I'm pretty sure we all agree that children need money, attention and love even poor people agree on this You are not answering the question though why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:00 PM
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Everyone is repulsed by this, there's even a Netflix series about how repulsive this is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:56 PM
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As soon as they run out of money or attention to give to the children, yes why would YOU want to do such thing to another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:51 PM
3

How is it revenge fantasy? "whores" don't care that these men won't sleep with them, they have plenty of other men who will. The only ones who are making it more difficult to have sex is them by reducing the dating pool to virgins or low n count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:50 PM
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I agree, not only that but I'd also question their "league" If all women consider you a 5, who cares that you and your friends think you are a 8 are you reeeaaaallly an 8 if most women consider you a 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:42 PM
2

I can't wait for childfree women are the end of Humanity week!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:42 PM
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yes why do you want to have as many children as possible, knowing that after certain number, you are not going to be able to be a good father for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:39 PM
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maybe she tried her best, that poor woman, it's not het fault you are a bit psychotic 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:38 PM
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humans in general prefer people with their shit together specifically targeting virgin women is massive red flag though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:30 PM
1

We could make weekly or daily bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:27 PM
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You can always adopt or work for organizations who care for children, if that's what you care about. You can join some religion that forbids the use of condoms, marry a woman and have tons of babies The whole premise seems very fucked up though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:16 PM
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herpes outbreak 🤣🤣🤣 Today there's also a lot of mentioning that poor people have more children maybe that's next on the ppd agenda? who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:10 PM
1

Ate tons of chocolate cups yesterday same. I ate waaaay too much ice cream yesterday. Now back to diet happy monday! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:03 PM
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WHY IS EVERYONE TALKING ABOUT N COUNT? did something happen? are you subscribed to some email list with a PPD schedule? I NEED ANSWERS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:59 PM
1

(place meme with the lady doing math)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:54 PM
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you don't sound very feminist though 🤣 she did a poor job if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:52 PM
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How about a right for all men to not be indoctrinated into B.S. which is going to get them burned latter in their lives? Nobody is pointing a gun at men LOL they can think and do what they want. Isn't it weird how feminism, POC, gays, trans and even some men like you mention all can fight together while men's rights can't even indoctrinate men? Makes you think what kind of ideas are so unpopular not even men want to be a part of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:43 PM
1

This post and the answers are making me laugh IRL what's next? ability to sing when the sun rises? ability to migrate when the weather gets cold? the animal kingdom is the limit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:52 PM
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I think women also like if you prepare a nest and dance around it. Chicks totally dig a nice nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:49 PM
2

Women had been sluting up long before I was eighteen. I don't know how old are you but this is what wiki says "First-wave feminism was a period of feminist activity and thought that occurred during the 19th and early 20th century throughout the Western world. " I don't think you are that old If you are trying to imply to me that I'm supposed to suffer because of the "sins of my forefathers" I'm not saying that. I'm saying that if you want to fight for men's rights you have to be patient at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:57 PM
2

Yeah, it can happen because they are out there in the wild (the bravest ones at least) but in this particular case the OP was a TRP guy, not a virgin woman like she claimed to be LOL I have never ever been asked the question. I don't ask or talk about details of the past in general. I do talk in general obviously. I think it's very tacky IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:42 PM
1

I mean, look at the answers.... That post made everyone cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:36 PM
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Sometimes people from PPD (or similar) go to other subs and make up stories to validate their opinions only to be buried in downvotes, it's very sad. As soon as someone asks "My date asked me about my body count for the sexual market value blablala" everyone is "Yikes, no"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:33 PM
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Sex and the City came as a result of many many many years of feminist struggle. The first feminist who said "fuck it, I'm going to sleep around with as many men as I can" she was probably called a whore. TRP appeared only a few years ago. You still have A LOT to do to be able to have your own Sex and the City. Social movements don't happen overnight and you don't get to them without pissing people off, like in the first decades of feminism. Also TRP or mensrights don't have a discourse yet. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:09 PM
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Because having your shit together is relative to both of you. It can be about money, ambition or emotional stability. And I don't think being well stablished in a good job or having money is necessarily having your shit together, you still can be an emotionally unstable workaholic asshole. It's ok to not want to have children. What do you even care about them feeling happy with their situation? It requires courage to say "fuck the rules I'm going childfree" maybe you should say that too "fuck th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:56 PM
1

de vuelta, tengo 35, no 60. Si el rango es 20 a 40 estoy bien. Ademas el punto no es ir de caceria. Si surge, joya, pero el objetivo es conocer gente y pasarla bien. Nunca sabes lo que puede pasar, pero en tu casa sentado convencido de que la gente de 30 no quiere saber nada con vos seguro que no vas a conocer nunca a nadie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:51 PM
1

el rango de edades es 20 a 40, no son todos de 25. Es una meetup comun, nunca fuiste a una? yo es la 3ra vez que voy a una.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:42 PM
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pero me voy a juntar con zoomers, ellos organizaron la salida de hecho. Y la gente de 25 definitivamente crecio con redes sociales.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:52 PM
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This is the first time I agree SO MUCH with a comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:00 PM
1

vos eras el que hablaba castellano no? jajajaja pero que tiene que ver? estabamos hablando de que la gente deja de conocer gente una vez que salis de la universidad. Y yo digo que eso no es asi, que la gente sigue conociendo gente, no importa como te criaste. En este grupo que estan armando la mayoria tiene 20 a 25 años y estan organizando para juntarse. Todos ellos nacieron con redes sociales. Tambien hay gente "mayor" como yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:49 PM
1

but I never stopped dating or meeting people. Like just yesterday someone from my country made a Telegram group chat with Reddit people and they are organizing a meetup. So....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:06 PM
1

Some probably overlook that, sure maybe because of denial? But what about all the other cases you read in dating/relationship_advice where "we've been dating for a month but he doesn't take showers/he's annoying/he has shitty friends/we don't have the same political views/he's too clingy/ etc etc etc... so I'm breaking up with him" This are pretty normal reasons why people break up, you see them everyday. How is it "alfa" to be rejected for any of those normal reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:51 PM
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I think that used to happen like 5-10 years ago. I remember everyone talking about this dumb strategies on the media but now I hardly see any. I think people now know that you are on your phone or computer all the time (specially thanks to the pandemic) so if you don't answer either you are not interested or are playing games. Anyway, if a relationship/hookup doesn't work out it's not going to be because of the speed you are replying. By taking some time to answer to someone who replies slowly y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:25 PM
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nono, she's thinking "he's not good enough for me to have a relationship with him" like when someone displays a red flag. Take a look at relationship_advice and you'll find plenty of these examples. I'm talking about normal dating scenarios where people start dating until one of them displays red flags. How is being rejected "alpha"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:33 PM
1

I didn't understand what you just said but I don't believe men are inmune to rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:33 PM
2

What do you do if someone’s ignoring your text messages Take it as either they are not interested or they are playing childish mind games. Life is hard as it is to complicate it even more. If they are busy they'll probably tell you. You also have to read a bit into it. If they regularly take the same amount of time to answer maybe that's their rhythm and then you have to decide if you are comfortable with that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:02 PM
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It's like when ppl go from mistress/lover to a LTR. If they met you while cheating, what makes you think you are special and they won't cheat on you? this is not a gendered issue IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:49 PM
0

Speak for yourself, that's how so many people get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:16 PM
1

I think it's a love/hate frustration. It's easier to think you are failing because the rest is wrong, not you. They want to like women and be normal but they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:15 PM
2

People who are on Reddit don't date or have sex, that's a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:07 PM
1

I just had a "conversation" with a guy convinced that all women are gold diggers. They are not capable of love to men, only to cats. I'm simultaneously laughing and worried about the blatant misogyny displayed here as if that was a normal way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:05 PM
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Unless you work with them or for some reason you see them every day. Then chemistry builds up. I mean, who hasn't had a crush on a coworker you initially didn't like? There was a name for this, coworker effect? something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:58 PM
3

So you are saying every man that doesn't want a relationship but still hooks up with women is a manipulative liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:51 PM
4

I though being an alpha was a good thing, I'm confused now Being rejected isn't a good thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:53 PM
2

The definition of a gold digger is: a person who forms relationships with others purely to extract money from them Some probably are looking just for money but some also want love and be loved back. So, if you think no women is capable of love then I'm sorry for you. You are missing out on a lot of nice things that a relationship has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:46 PM
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I hate talking on the phone Why on earth would I put my voice in a dating app? How and why anyone thought this could be a thing is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:27 PM
5

at this point pretty sure OP is a troll I hope he is at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:20 PM
2

the "perception" of contraceptive and basic human biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:13 PM
3

Aka the birth control made them think they are pregnant and now they want to find a beta to cuck. That's not how contraceptive or pregnancy works loooololol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:11 PM
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I thought they were joking omg I'm in tears subconsciously pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:10 PM
5

I think your statement speaks more about yourself and your relationship with women than about women saying that aaaaallll women are gold diggers sounds a bit like those drunk people who had just been through a break up and are like "aaaahhh wiiimiinn areee biiishhesss, fuck youuuu stacyyyy"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:07 PM
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And women don't want to be in a relationship with every guy they sleep with. Some ppl are just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:56 PM
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But she's thinking "this guy isn't good enough for a relationship" how is that alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:54 PM
1

LOL I'm 35, not 60 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:31 PM
3

The very very best is new enough fwb/situationship to be excited but long enough to know eachother. 10-15x in. I think the best sex I had was in a FWB situation. There is trust and you know each other and you don't give a shit about kinky stuff because they are just a FWB, who cares if they judge you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:32 PM
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nooo, you are wrong, women enjoy sex "genitally". I have plenty of friends who hook up in a similar way like men do. What they crave is the physical connection a toy doesn't provide (like thrusting). And then they want the guy out of their place once the sex is over. It's kind of cold for my taste but to each their own. If a woman tells me they do enjoy sex for the sake of sex, who are we to say "oh, you don't I know better than you about what do you like" that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:25 PM
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What in the crazy ppd world holy fuck you people are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:02 PM
2

Cheating is a symptom of another issue. I doubt beautiful people don't have issues just because they are beautiful. Didn't we just watch a trial between 2 hollywood stars where they showed us all of the issues? (Depp Vs Heard)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:57 PM
1

What if she doesn't want to have kids or is on birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:55 PM
3

FINALLY some real answers here!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:53 PM
1

If you are scared that anyone (really? anyone?) might fill a SA complain on you, then you definitely have to stay away from people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:19 PM
1

Yes, anecdotal and common sense are more valid in this case. I'm not playin scientist building a whole theory based on just one study. And people even dare to say that's FaCts AnD ScIeNce. That's not facts and science, that's as science as a Twitter poll or a Buzzfeed article.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:18 PM
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dating has changed that much since 2009? Yes, because more than 10 years ago finding a bf/gf online was seen as something for weird people, for crazy cat ladies and undiagnosed Asperger's. There are tons of series that make fun of that. Now it's the norm. Yes, +10 years IS A LOT So you built this whole ridiculous theory on just ONE study. This is what you call FaCtS AnD ScIenCe? just 1 study from 10 years ago? you people need to do A LOT of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:13 PM
2

ow, you didn't like my answer, poor you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:09 PM
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How does being in the exact position you are describing invalidate my experience? that doesn't make any sense Most of my actual friends are from current, previous jobs and friends of friends I also met so many people while solo traveling I'm way past my 30's btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:07 PM
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women that engage in cause sex don’t enjoy it and don’t find it emotionally satisfying This is ridiculous, women who do casual sex do it because they like sex, this isn't a strange concept Not everybody has to have an emotional connection to have a good time during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:59 PM
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Can you tell me one SPECIFIC country or race or culture on this entire planet that promotes very promiscuous women for marriage? Western culture outside Reddit promotes practicing sex freely like ONS for men and women. In fact ONS are promoted as empowering from women. Western mainstream media frowns upon slut shaming and being a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:45 AM
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BTW Do you have any other proof other than the 2009 ok cupid study?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:23 AM
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So you have 2 choices: either move or look better (I'm sure there are single people on your area, what do people do when they divorce? move to NYC?) or keep complaining on the internet with other men your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:01 PM
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You do you but don't generalize that single people are only in NYC, that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:51 PM
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You know, there's a whole world out there outside the US
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:46 PM
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But not all women are the same! Libido is a spectrum. Women who sleep around with random men are very real (I know many). And women who can live with no sex are real too. ( I know many too) I'm saying that inside that spectrum there's probably a bunch who are repressing sex because of societal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:29 PM
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🌟Congratulations🌟 you solved rape
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:23 PM
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This is ridiculous Tell me you've never left your town without...... etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:22 PM
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Nobody should drive any conclusions from an abstract only BTW, but here we are on Reddit, not being that serious about scientific social stuff. Also nobody should share a link to a study behind a paywall as proof of anything. Give me $39.95 to convince me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:18 PM
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What if now people consider social interactions as negative because they can? Like when people say that 50 years ago there was no ADHD, when in fact, people weren't diagnosed because ADHD didn't even exist. What if people back then were forced to socialize and now they just have the freedom to refuse to do it. Or what if now it's more visible? We have the internet to group and talk about it. Without internet how would introverts talk to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:15 PM
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I don't know where you live but in big cities there are plenty of single people doing social activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:01 PM
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I think negative correlation means no correlation What I interpreted is that once social stress enters the game relationship between T and desire changes. TBH it's kind of confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:58 PM
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Then I think I'm not following you If I want sex, I want sex with a particular man. I think this proves my point. You wouldn't have sex just with anyone. Why is that? Because there are dangers and social judgement if you just sleep around. I'm saying that those dangers and potential judgement from society makes some women don't have as much sex as their hormonal libido tells them to. Hormones play a huge role in libido but also does social constructs. Or you mean that just by masturbating you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:54 PM
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dyadic Wiki: "In sociology, a dyad is a group of two people, the smallest possible social group. As an adjective, "dyadic" describes their interaction." I think "dyadic desire" simply means the relationship between T and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:35 PM
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I READ ABOUT THAT, it's insaneeeeeee Also it's way kinkier than most average sexual practices. I mean, there are 3 people in the act 👀👀 I'm glad God created that loophole for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:32 PM
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I'm old lol, that's why I know people continue to meet people outside college You can do any sport, play in a band, go to pottery class, go to any group class, travel, meet the friends of your friends, go to parties, meet up with ex coworkers, actual coworkers (not ideal scenario but it's possible), etc etc etc etc etc etc. People don't stop socializing at a certain age, that's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:30 PM
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Outside of being nuts about a guy at a particular moment I've never wanted sex just for sex. I wanted that particular sex from that particular person. I think in that way I'm pretty normal. And this is where the societal stuff plays a role. This is what I'm saying. You can release that libido because you have someone who you feel safe with. It's not like because you are horny you'd sleep just with anyone. But imagine a single woman with high libido who doesn't have that someone? She still probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:24 PM
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why do your women care about status and carreer so much I'd say that caring about career doesn't mean they are gold diggers. Many times it shows how much the other person has their shit together, which is something desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:14 PM
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Where do people who are out of college socialize? It's not like you graduate and stop meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:11 PM
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Yeah I'm not saying hormonal stuff has nothing to do with libido, I'm saying societal expectations also play a huge rol too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:02 PM
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You don't need studies. Just go to the park, to the movies or to a bar and you'll see average people dating average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:01 PM
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What could society realistically do to make women worry less about things that are already very unlikely to happen to them? Stop telling women that their fears are irrational is a good start 100% of women have been harassed or catcalled from the age of 12 or even younger. So telling them that "these guys who are threatening to have sex with you statistically aren't going to actually do it" yeah, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:58 PM
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But even the article you cited says "However, few studies have incorporated both hormonal and social or psychological factors in studies of sexual desire." There are not much studies that combine socio cultural factors with hormonal factors. Also: "T was positively linked to solitary desire in women, with masturbation frequency influencing this link. In contrast, T was negatively correlated with dyadic desire in women, but only when cortisol and perceived social stress were controlled." So in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:49 PM
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This is a personal theory but I think some of that low libido is repressed libido. Slut shaming and being scared of getting raped might be some things that society can change to free the libido of those women. That could work as the pill you said, which made me laugh btw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:08 PM
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Do you really think the general population is on PPD? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:27 PM
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SO THESE DENSE PEOPLE ARE BASING THEIR DENSITY IN ONLY ONE OUTDATED STUDY my lord
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:15 PM
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Why is nobody talking about age? Not that I care for bodycount but it's not the same having slept with 5 guys at 19 than 5 guys at 28
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:08 PM
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To the point people claim I'm bragging when I mention it. lying, the word you are looking for is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:03 PM
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If you think it was never disproven that means you are so willing to believe it (maybe to convince yourself that it's not your fault you are single) that no amount or rational thinking will change your mind It's a ridiculous theory. If you bring this outside this niche sub, you'll be laughed at
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:54 PM
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Now women can see what everyone is doing. How? You match with someone but you can't see what they are doing. You never know if they swiped right on the whole planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:47 PM
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"better" or "worse" depends on you What did happen is that it went mainstream. So now there are more average people than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:44 PM
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That's true! I remember many series saying that only losers who nobody wants are on OLD. Now it's almost the norm. And that famous OK cupid statistic analysis (where the 20/80 theory comes from) is 10 years old, right? I have never considered that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:43 PM
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yeah, filing for divorce is different from "decided to get divorced" It's just the last step from a mutual dying relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:33 AM
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What's the point in lying, if you are inexperienced you can really tell anyway *proceeds to rub where the clit is not*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:49 PM
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Are you a graphic designer? I am and I think it's one of the few jobs where you can't really lie about what you know because it's right there in the portfolio
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:48 PM
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we don't do individualities on this sub. Either we all agree in 1 course of action or you better die
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:46 PM
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you obviously had to twist it why is the most hateful answer always the one PPD deems as "yeah obviously" "she said she loved him but studies show women lie, so she's probably another lying whore" = ppd every day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:42 PM
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Did you miss the part where she mentions that even though women considered only 20% of guys attractive on okcupid, women are also more likely than men to swipe on guys they don't feel they are physically attractive? Meaning that women DO appreciate other qualities than height and looks? Which kind of debunks 50% of posts here too. Studies show that women aren't that shallow after all! go figure. It seems very convenient to leave out that part of the study, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:58 PM
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riiiiiiiiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:52 PM
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Well tbf the video is not meat to change radical incel's mind. You'll always find a "BuT My StuDy Is MoRe TrUe ThaN YouRs"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:44 PM
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Do it! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:01 PM
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I don’t think the average PPD dude even knows what an average woman is anymore. Last week there was a graph being linked and upvoted here where Kristen Stewart was rated a 6. And Emma watson a 7 FUCKING LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:52 PM
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They don't think they are dating up because they don't perceive themselves in the same league as fat awkward chicks. They think they deserve better. Which raises the question. If no Women considers you in the same league you think you are..... are you really on the league you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:49 PM
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Are you serious? Nobody in their right mind thinks that PPD (or reddit) is a representative of "all men" or "all women" Have you ever been to a meetup? I have and I'll tell you, we are ugly and awkward lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:46 PM
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You should take a look at yourself and reflect on the fact that the only reason you could come up was "women are liars who use poor bastards" Have you aver been in a relationship? If you were you'd know looks isn't the only thing important, specially in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:10 PM
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Did you also watch munecat's video? such a good video debunking all of these "studies" with real studies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgO25FTwfRI&list=PL1xrj1GoFXSDLpvdBvpSzNYqhsv1oYlAe&index=39&ab\_channel=m%C3%BCnecat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:05 PM
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Ah, yes, by attractive I thought they meant "datable"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:38 AM
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objective and empirical reality of gender and gender relationships Just because you claim that something is empirical, doesn't make it empirical. What you are saying it's like "empirical sociology studies" or "empirical psychology". Social studies (= the study of relationships in a cultural setting) are never objective and empirical because of their nature. Read semiology, psychology or sociology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:06 PM
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I don't think 35 y/o women find 25 y/o attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:56 PM
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they are not invisible, they are seen as a threat. A 40 y/o guy flirting with a 20y/o? 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:53 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:45 PM
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YET 3 in 5 posts are Q4W!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:44 PM
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When women say the bar is too low means they are used to tolerate shitty behavior and that should change. However, women are not in charge of men's standards. I think it'd be awesome if men were more picky. If you want women to value a match then you have to show that you didn't swipe right ON EVERY woman. Sure, you'd get less matches but that's the only way to raise the value
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:32 PM
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If my grandma had wheels she'd been a bike 🚲
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:19 PM
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si, se re suicidan pero por depresion, no por no tener sexo. La depresion es un proceso quimico del cerebro a veces triggereado por eventos de la vida real. Con lo cual para mi no tener sexo y estar muy frustrado al respecto, en todo caso es un sintoma de una depresion. Con lo de los catolicos quiero decir que si esta necesidad se hiciera mainstream, nunca serian apoyados por ningun catolico, porque la gente religiosa al toque diria "pero como puede ser que el cura no se muera y este chico crea …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:37 PM
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porque una cosa es hacer o no una actividad (sexo) y otra my distinta es tu identidad. No ayuda toda la iglesia catolica y sus curas celibes + todos los monjes y religiones que practican el celibato. Nadie muere de por no tener sexo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:28 PM
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But that's not what's being discussed here, that's another scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:44 PM
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jajaj dale
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:25 PM
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I asked about those who don't transition. jajajajaja me jodes digo que la gente que no transiciono ES gente trans igual. Escuche miles de entrevistas de gente trans que dice que hasta que no transicionan se quieren matar y muchos lo hacen. Es como que transicionar es algo que tienen que hacer y es mas fuerte que ellos. Imaginate que si fuera realmente una opcion muchos no lo harian porque el mundo no los quiere. La vida es mas facil siendo hetero cis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:25 PM
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yeah, that leaves the gender as the only difference between them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:21 PM
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Read the articles don't be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:47 AM
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Aren't all the "the man" answers prove that in fact men have it easier than women? Does anyone think there's no bias towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:19 AM
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Here are links: https://www.hcplive.com/view/mortality-rate-higher-transgender-people https://www.forbes.com/sites/roberthart/2021/09/02/transgender-people-twice-as-likely-to-die-as-cisgender-people-study-finds/?sh=566f37fd5f48
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:15 AM
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lolol you ar probably right it's a dystopian story. In a world where fertility is a huge issue they install a dictatorship that kidnaps fertile women and force them to have sex and have children. All in a weird religious ritual, which is super creepy. It's nicely filmed too. Do with that information what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:12 AM
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State founded surgery, surgery for what? a lifetime therapist, This 100% i agree monetary compensation for what? people with kids have more reasons to ask for extra money. Also the money would be just for men who don't have sex? how do you even enforce that? ​ , investigation about VR and sex robots (followed by destigmatizing them), legal prostitution, legal drug use, all of these yeah. totally. These don't hurt anybody,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:07 AM
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Ah you should watch it or read it. Both series and book are awesome. It's a perfect example to argue in this subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:24 PM
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It's not my problem, so it's not up to me to come up with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:23 PM
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Not having sex won't kill you. Imagine the catholic church being behind that idea? lol Trans people die for being trans. It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:21 PM
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Nobody is treating incels as terrorists, most people laugh at them. Because without concrete proposals you come across as whiny babies frustrated because they can't get no sex. Don't you see? Solutions legitimize the movement. You want to be taken seriously? then do the homework and work it out like all the other political movements in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:20 PM
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Do you have a solution besides "just let them be resentful"? It's honestly not my problem, so I'm not the one in charge of coming up with a solution. So what is it then? If you had real solutions you'd say them, but you don't. Maybe the solution you are thinking of but you can't say is something like The Handmaids tale. People from the real world would laugh at you (at best)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:12 PM
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Take women's rights away? lol wtf that's the solution? This won't work in democracy, so.... a dictatorship? Like The Handmaids tale? state founded prostitution This is so weird man. I know you think this makes sense because people repeat it on the internet but imagine going to the real world as a politician and advertise people paying taxes to found prostitution for a minority. You'll get no votes and will probably be laughed at. Unless, again, what you are proposing is literally The Handmaids t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:01 PM
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That's social conditioning, if true. If women could survive for centuries adjusting their libido to the circumstances I'm sure men will manage too. also masturbation is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:52 PM
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But what can a politician do appeal the below average guy sex wise? What are the concrete measures below average sexless men want to solve their situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:38 PM
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sex harems virtual sex harems please get your incel facts straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:34 PM
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I was going to say the same thing. I know so many couples that are equally ugly that are together for years and years and are inmune to social media and OLD. I don't see why those will cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:30 PM
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To find a solution that leaves everyone happy. Yes but if you want change step 1 is complain about the current situation and step 2 is proposing a solution. How else are you planing to change anything if nobody knows how to act? All other political movements have propositions, why this movement doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:21 PM
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It's not a threat! It's The Implication of a threat, lmao I'm curious too as to what they think might be a possible solution. I read in another comment about funded prostitution FUCKING LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:19 PM
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Nah, I don't mind because some people need that money more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:38 AM
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you are kind of benefiting indirectly though. An educated population is better than an ignorant one in so so so many aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:43 PM
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In my country it's not that they tax bachelors, they do some tax exceptions if you have kids because it's understood that that money goes to kids. It's the same bit it feels different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:41 PM
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I agree with OP Some men see penetration as a way of controlling the other person and proof of this is all the homophobic slurs we hear every day, specially in football (soccer for USA) chants. The weaker one, the looser, is the one being penetrated. Men can cum from being anally penetrated, they have an extra key for pleasure right there but for some cultural reason most hetero guys won't even try it. How would anyone explain that refusal to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:08 PM
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Thanks you for your wisdom, have a nice day 🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:44 PM
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But their has often been research of it being influenced by abusive childhoods. Are you saying being gay is a result of an abusive childhood? WHAT? This is 2022, that idea doesn't exist anymore dude I think I don't have anything to add beyond this statement since it's so backwards The post has been removed too, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:39 PM
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It seems that you aren't accepting that they believe that can alter or change peoples minds. Or that they simply believe only one way is the best way. They can't understand just like you can't understand. sure you can change minds but not taste. It's like asking gay people to be hetero. She thinks a man who's rich will treat her just as well with the added bonus of being rich. This is often not the case. He is often extremely busy and sees relationships as more transactional. Once she finds this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:27 PM
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If there's someone crazy enough to want to be a slave is owning them as a slave still wrong? But the RP theory is more "choose submission" which doesn't make them really submissive in the first place, or slaves. I don't share that POV but as long as there's no abuse I couldn't care less for people who do. Which is not real despite reddit incels thinking it is true lol HOW DARE YOU ​ My post has been removed for "leading question". Now it makes sense how nobody usually asks this questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:22 PM
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and woman values looks as much as man if not more And I dare to add that everyone tries to date higher. It's just common sense. When being asked "would you rather a mediocre X or a better X?" it'd be self destructive to prefer mediocre X.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:15 PM
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Ok, sure, I dare you post this same post on a general forum or mention this in real life. All with the words "if men want submission they need to pay 100%. Let's see what happens 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:41 PM
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Obviously the ones who are having sex are not here. Everyone knows nobody on Reddit has sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:27 PM
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Then you should go to more traditional POVs like RP women. The rest of the world doesn't think the same, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:22 PM
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let's go to the mall.... today!! 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:13 PM
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And what does the man get in return? A woman who also takes them seriously. You view it as a transaction, that's why you don't see the advantage in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:10 PM
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Men that worked hard for what they have and had to overcome obstacles see themselves like this. Turns out that women who also worked hard for what they have and had to overcome obstacles also see themselves like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:05 PM
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It's the RP women who want submission and the man to pay 100% FDS doesn't want submission. They want the man to pay for dates so that they take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:52 PM
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a very common story for neuro-divergent people especially on the autism spectrum. But in that case they should clarify that they are on the spectrum because it's not the same. I don't think anyone would have a problem with taking a step by step analysis of a date if they knew. I even mentioned in another comment the series "love on the spectrum" which is very wholesome. But if you are not on the spectrum, "don't overthink because you'll come across as obsessive" is sound advice. Secondly, the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:44 PM
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Men who simultaneously remove rights from women as well..... I don't think it's a good historical moment to claim that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:07 PM
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But the message should be directed to the people who can actually make a change. At least one in a bunch. But on that sub you only see the hate towards those voters you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:44 PM
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Oh sure So, to be heard by male legislators, CIOs, millionaires, politicians, you make posts only against misandrist women. How are you supposed to accomplish anything? Is this really the plan? I think you can learn a thing or 2 from feminist movements who did dare speak against this powerful males.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:38 PM
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Women no. Then explain these 3 posts from today (it's not like a had to dig too much) "females acting like you are harassing them when you are just walking? (what to do about it?)" "The way that women treat short men is horrible" "Putting Women In Charge Is Not The Way To Make The World Better" ​ are you suuuuuure they "only" hate feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:27 PM
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AGAIN, if the people in power are responsible of all of mensrights things say, Why not direct the message to them instead of women and feminists? This is why you are never going to be heard, because you are barking at the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:18 PM
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So then, how come the mensrights sub focuses entirely on talking shit about women or feminism? you are really not answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:51 PM
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Ah so if mensrights are screaming at other men, how come 1 every 2 posts on that sub are against feminism or women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:41 PM
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Do you think there might be a market out there for a more "wholesome" or "innocent" version of PUA? I wish there was! I remember a show on Netflix about dating on the spectrum. They attended "dating classes" which honestly looked like pretty fun. While obviously the advice they got there was for people with more difficulties to relate with others, there was no misogynistic agenda. This is what young lost men need! Unbiased dating coaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:32 PM
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I don't think they were being hostile though Most of the answers are "you are thinking too hard" which is true. The OP sounds like he need precise instructions to have a successful date, but real life isn't like that. There's no formula or script to achieve success. And that's why PUAs are a scam. Most of the real world advice is "read the room and be patient" but how do you make money out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:26 PM
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It's not the inexperience people laugh at. People (including myself) laugh and hate PUAs because they say women are stupid. They encourage men to be deceptive and manipulative. So, if you are following a guy who's being a misogynistic asshole don't complain when you receive a bit of backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:18 PM
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The government Who are mostly men???????? Same as CIOs??????? Honestly I don't understand who mensrights people are screaming at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:14 PM
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I'm very sus when a man says a woman is "nagging". In the RP women's sub there's plenty of them asking "my husband promised he was going to fix a pipe 6 months ago. The roof leaks every time it rains but I don't want to be nagging so as to not diminish his masculinity"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:52 PM
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yeah "It's just preferences" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:44 PM
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Haha I don't believe you for one second haha what a looser
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:36 PM
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Usually low n count is for the reasons people are saying on this post, an inexperienced person is easier to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:31 PM
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How does that make you not a misogynist lololol. It's like saying "I'm not an homophobe, I have a gay friend" lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:24 PM
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Unless these men are looking for inexperienced rather than young looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:20 PM
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Please take a look at the real people you know from the real world on your IG. Are all of them really 50k followers? That's impossible. I personally only got one, she's hot and shows it, but she has 10k no more. It's just ONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:39 PM
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Where do you think you are? Of course that's the most important issue here, this is PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:04 PM
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You are the exact example of the type of guy we were talking about. The ones women should stay away, what a coincidence. So I repeat what was said before in case you didn't read it: The guys that would judge you for it aren't worth dating. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:48 PM
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Waw that is a lot of resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:35 PM
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The more often a person is seen by someone, the more pleasing and likeable that person appears to be. TBF could go either way lol. Some coworkers start acting nasty once they get comfortable. But yeah, the exposure efect is super real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:31 PM
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I'm a pretty firm believer than a girl can tell really quickly whether or not she would date a guy. Like OP said women change their mind thanks to the coworker theory. You'd be surprised to learn how many women start liking someone they previously didn't like just because there's coworker chemistry developed over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:27 PM
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You say "west" as if there were no poor families with numerous children inside USA and Europe as well. And as if Latin America wasn't part of the west. We have tons of arable land were not using. sure, but it's not unlimited. Have you been to Europe's countryside? It's very crowded compared to rural USA or rural Latin America. and only 2% of the developed countries work in agriculture. ?? That's because developed countries are industrialized and third world countries are the ones doing agricultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:21 PM
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Because, unlike other animals, we have conscious of ourselves and of the consequences of our acts. We know that Earth doesn't have unlimited resources and there will arrive a time where there won't be food for all of us. Better reproduce less before arriving to a critical moment where is too late and people die of starvation or diseases. And the proof is that somehow developed countries arrived to this conclusion. If you believe that developed countries are more evolved you can't ignore this sud…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:33 PM
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Yeah but I think it's more than that. I think the childfree trend is a way of survival as a species as well, given that if humans continue reproducing that'll be the downfall of the species. So not reproducing like in the 1800 is also a way of mantaining the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:54 PM
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THANK YOU SO MUCH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:49 PM
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It's the woman's fault obviously. She promised sex by having sex previously. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:47 PM
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There was a post YESTERDAY about the exact same thing only the names where Mark, Jenny and Dylan 🤣🤣🤣 But yesterday's was more intenesting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:42 PM
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I think this sub should come with a list of acronyms and definitions for us normal people* to understand. It took me a while to guess what OLD was lol What is SMV? *(who am I kidding I'm always here lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:37 PM
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is founded on humans being chained to our evolutionarily determined behavior. Which is a very fancy academic way of justifying their need to go back to traditional values. They believe in evolution BUT don't like change, which doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:19 PM
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Not at all. If that were the case most people would be afraid to share public transportation with other people and that's not the case. Whenever there's a fight in public people don't automatcally assume they are goping to have a physical fight. I think our primary drive is just surviving. We'll do just about anything to live longer and that includes not impulsively acting on aggression and sex. However sex could be a primary drive but again, for survival sake, we have learned not to act impulsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:15 PM
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technically we are animals but we have our own set of characteristics that differentiate us from other animals like tools, culture, math, clothes, nuclrar power, vaccines, buildings, etc etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:19 PM
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Maybe men smell better to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:28 PM
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