| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted, but after the 2nd date? | Removed: Specific Situation | tokerjoker7 | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 05:33 PM |
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| 0 | I should be more mysterious or let go of my situationship? Help :(You guys have met up 8 times but you already met his friends and family? Idk just try and have an honest conversation with him about what you are to him. It's weird to say I don't want anything serious and then introduce you to everyone he loves, but yeah more than likely just take a step back. It's only 2 months and you're clearly starting to attach to him. So before it goes too far just think what do you want out of a partner? Is he displaying those traits? I would say no, most people mirror a… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:27 PM |
| 10 | Biggest confidence boost?Playing basketball has definitely got my confidence up, nothing beats the feeling of a good day on the courts. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Trapped HOW do I get out of this Jam?You figured it out at the end of the post, just say literal what you have in quotes most normal people wouldn't react negatively to that at all. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 21 | FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) is the real way to attract women.Yeah this is a huge one, but also he could just be the best looking out of the guys in his age range lol. I worked somewhere with a healthy mix of women and men around my age but my demeanor at work and being the tallest made me stand out despite the competition, being tall was just lucky but when I was working I only cared about executing my job perfectly so I think you're right about the deliverance of hard work for sure. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Exercise to get girls to investI think this is great advice, go in without thinking about I want to get laid or get this number. Go in thinking this girl looks cute/interesting/fun, maybe I can have a fun conversation with her. A lot of the times when I do this, and the girl is actually interesting they end up asking for me for contact information. It's great because if the girl only has her looks to offer the convo dies on it's own and you don't waste time trying to date some sack of potatoes. | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 06:59 PM |
| 3 | found this girls Instagram through looking through a mutuals followers, is it creepy to dm?Yeah man you see her in person so just walk up to her and start a conversation lol | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Knees touching when sitting side by sideeasiest way to gauge if the girl wants to kiss you? sit close to her and just look into her eyes, don't say anything just keep eye contact. If she holds it more than likely she's waiting for you to just kiss her. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Need a bit of helpYeah if you're interested idk what exactly you are asking here, it's a lay-up bro don't over think and just text her already. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Friend suddenly acts like she’s into meKeep the gift funny, but I mean if she was flirting go for it. No point wondering what if. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | What can I do to be more attractive, before entering college?If you can study super efficiently you'll maximize the amount of real free time available to you, instead of being a procrastinator you'll just be someone on top of their shit which is only gonna help with the ladies lol | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:35 PM |
| 6 | So I did it, I worked on myself for years and the ladies came pouring in… now I find myself being wanted by 2 awesome women (gf material), and not sure what to doI get where you are coming from, but IMO it sounds like you are just full of dopamine after putting this girl on a pedestal and having her come back and express interest in you. You fell in love with this imaginary version of this old girl that you created and also compared every girl since to this impossible standard, don't forget you said yourself the reality is not nearly as good as you imagined her to be. Look at all your comments, every edge goes to the new girl but you're asking yourself i… | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Logistics of living with your parents?Lol all depends on the girl man, either she's cool with it or just walks away | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 10 | So I did it, I worked on myself for years and the ladies came pouring in… now I find myself being wanted by 2 awesome women (gf material), and not sure what to doSo what about their personalities and common interests? is the younger girl boring cause you guys have no common interests or cause your personalities don't mesh? If the personalities are similar to you then I'd go with the Younger girl. She liked you immediately and even right now is displaying how much she's willing to put up with to show you she cares about you. Like someone else said the older girl feels like she's settling for her back-up plan, she's just excited now because her back-up lev… | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Is double texting ever worth it?Yeah send the Hail Mary if you really like her, no harm no foul right? she either keeps ignoring you or she likes you back and wants to actually meet up. I'd suggest something funny, but if can't think of anything organic just ask her out to another date. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 2 | What can I do to be more attractive, before entering college?I'd recommend looking into how to study properly. Study how to study and that will help streamline you're studying to the most efficient form possible for you. Anki is a great flashcard app that uses these principals and can really help you study well without being a huge time sink | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to be more attractive, before entering college?The ones worth joining are the ones you actual have interest in, something that you're curious about or have a passion for. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Becoming a better conversationalist?Conversation isn't really a science it's an art, you gotta go with the flow but also not be afraid to say whatever pops into your head. If you're a good listener and aren't afraid to steer the conversation towards whatever topics come to mind there shouldn't be any struggle to keep one going. Just do what feels natural to you and have fun with it, conversations aren't that serious so don't think about them that seriously. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted, but after the 2nd date?out of the last 3 second dates I've been on I'm 3 for 3 on the described scenario. As for the romantic feelings, while I'm looking for a relationship I never really go into any date thinking this is my next girlfriend, I usually keep it very casual and just go with the flow, I don't want to come on too strong cause I'm still trying to just sleep around until someone special comes along. and the 3rd date usually comes up after some back and forth, but I just ask like when they'd be free again, no… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted, but after the 2nd date?I've considered this as well, it's most likely true and if it is I can't do much to change anything about myself to be better except having a 6-pack. But I mean is that really what's keeping me from being selected? I get abs are sexy, but I have muscle and I'm not fat, just not diced. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted, but after the 2nd date?I usually end the second date with a make-out session. As for the authenticity part I really don't pretend to be someone else, I'm not afraid to be honest cause I don't want someone that doesn't want the real me. As for the self-sabotaging I feel I am going for women I am really attracted too, I only ask for a 2nd date if I feel like there's some kind of connection over the physical attraction. Like the dates go well, conversation flows, they usually laugh, the kino is reciprocated, the make-out… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it?I think this is the key. If it's someone you know irl there's a better chance, it it's someone that you know solely thru instagram well chances are very slim it'll lead to anything. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't get hard - again - with a wonderful girlI think you need to just have regular sex with someone. Maybe instead of rushing to have sex take it slow and then maybe with practice whatever is causing your hang up will be revealed to be unfounded. I'm sure if you try again with this girl it just may click fine. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 08:05 AM |
| 16 | So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the marketyeah I'm pretty selective with the women I swipe right on, but maybe adding the show men can help even more. I'll give it a shot. Thanks for the advice and insight. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 7 | So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the marketshoot I'd smash lol | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 218 | So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the marketYou gotta be above average looking my man, I've had tinder for months and haven't even gotten 20 matches. Unless boosts and platinum really make that big a difference. Edit: I forgot to add my props to the end of this, but good shit on your recent success my man! | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What turns a girl on in general and conversations?Yeah that's what I have been thinking lately, maybe I'm looking for a real connection but just matching with women that just want sex lol. | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 86 | What turns a girl on in general and conversations?This is weird, I have the exact opposite experience with women, they never ask questions and I'm trying to carry a convo. I'm still looking for these women that like to converse | /r/seduction | 16/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 23 | What is one sign guys should look for on a date that says you should definitely/definitely not try hooking up with me after this?more comfortable she is with you, the better the chances | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How can I show that I’m fit on an online dating profile without looking like a douche?naw just embrace that your trying to take a good picture of yourself and your progress. It's only going to be douchey if you act douchey in your description/pose/expression. Just take a good picture that happens to be shirtless that's it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | The ClawOh for sure, but that's why it shows so much confidence and better to be left hanging than possibly creating a misunderstanding. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The ClawThat's it! I completely forgot the name thanks for mentioning it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The ClawInstead of grabbing, just stick you hand out like the classic "would you care to dance" gesture. This is risky because you're grabbing someone and pulling them which can be seen as very aggressive. You can pull off the same confidence without having to be kinda rapey about it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | FR - 3 Cold approaches - Number and dateYeah man, girl's are already on edge about men. Just approaching in the middle of the day and saying you're cute and I wanna fuck is gonna be intimidating initially for most women. The excuse me at least let's them know the guy might not be an asshole. Being polite while trynna fuck in the middle of the day makes sense to me. | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | How to keep the convo flowing and keep her interested in night time settingask questions then answer with your own assumption, ask open ended questions, change topics when one gets slow, talk to someone else if it gets slow, ask her to dance, play a game like "what's that person's day job" | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 08:00 PM |
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