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22

go for it man its a good practice handling two sets and have fun.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:31 AM
1

thats only one part of the equation that ‘physical’ thing. There are several attraction switches that one has to manage to learn game.
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:51 PM
1

pump BT
/r/seduction24/08/24 08:58 PM
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Assuming you have build enough comfort and rapport. Plus you have managed shit test etc. You: is it weird to kiss a girl if youre heterosexual Her: <she response> You: from 1-10 how good a kisser are you? Her: <she response> You: I think youre a 5 or 4 Her: <she response> You: do you think if i kiss you i would like it haha Her: <she response> You: well theres only one way to find out.
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:10 PM
2

just do it man, talk to her dont overnalyse things. are you struggling with your opener? if yes then a casual Hi will do or look back at your convos from the past and build your opener from it. its only taboo to open a set in the gym if a.) you got zero game experience and youve never done cold approach. b.) you dont have social intelligence, women can detect a creep from miles away. goodluck 🍻
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:38 AM
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because most guys are slackers, low self esteem, fearful, awkward and lazy, they want the hotties but they dont want the hardwork to learn the game. they would rather go to a strip club, massage parlor or pron. some are trying and will do it but without the necessary skills and mindset, it will be failure after failure. learning seduction is like learning chess the higher the elo rating + experience the greater the success. theres no magic pill.
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:50 PM
1

thats a good one too 🍻
/r/seduction22/08/24 01:40 PM
9

there are two options 1. reframe the conversations. example: Her: youre too young for me. You: i noticed something about you. exaggerate or misinterpret. example: Her: youre too young for me. You: then what are we supposed to do when two souls collide? Her: youre too young for me. You: thats what my x said. what not to do: be defensive and make a fuss about it.
/r/seduction22/08/24 06:18 AM
4

lol why do you complicate your banters ? you dont need to explain yourself to her unless shes complying because youre the ‘prize’. Her: how many gfs have you had in the past? Option 1: challenge her You: make a guess sweetheart and win a prize 😀(dont let her qualify you remember you’re the prize) Option 2: reframe with a bait and stack forward You: I think you got 1 of my 3 weaknesses. Option 3: reframe in a cocky funny way You: 😀wait are you a lawyer? Her: No why? You: because youre leading the…
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:03 AM
4

OPs wrong thats whats wrong
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:49 AM
1

looks are important but thats only a miniscule and a small part of the big picture there are several aspect of the game (for inner and outer game). and also seduction is not for everyone, being good with the subculture thats called pickup is not a walk in the park. its a complete mindshift.
/r/seduction19/08/24 10:19 PM
1

this should be the post not OP not some hanky panky stuff just pure question and answer🍻
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:10 PM
-7

look for the book The Layguide (author Tony Clink) or DM me
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:08 PM
3

best advice 🏆🍻 instead of paragraphs driven post😀
/r/seduction18/08/24 05:29 PM
1

be the person you want to date.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:34 PM
5

How about be understanding, kind and helpful.
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:57 AM
1

those are just noises dont let them bother you, in the field there will be more noises as you traverse the world of pickup. dont sweat the petty stuff its not good for your inner game.
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:07 AM
7

if you want a girl, just be yourself — thats the most stupid overrated advice ever. lol the idea is basically ‘be the person you want to date’, if you want a 10 then channel that and improve yourself, step up your inner and outer game. there are no shortcuts. be the best version of yourself. here is a piece of words to live by: https://youtube.com/shorts/iS9ZDMXfMFk?si=1eZ_vUTMkb9pe99c
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:03 AM
8

asking the right question
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:10 PM
22

thats the problem with dating apps its too shallow and superficial plus it makes people lazy. dating apps are for practicing your text game so that your convo material is at par when you do actual pickup. im sorry about your experience man. next time, get into the game and do cold approach. ‘you attract what you are, not what you want.’— The Game, Penetrating the secret society of pickup artists by Neil Strauss
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:08 PM
7

lol youll be shot down easily with that opener, theres a small chance it could work via night game. an opener doesnt need to be too heavy, a basic Hi would do and root it with situational statements.
/r/seduction11/08/24 11:11 AM
3

Insecurity exists on a spectrum, and most attractive individuals can experience moments of doubt or defensiveness. Style’s Annihilation Method (a simplified version of Mystery Method) suggests demonstrating your own value by focusing on qualifying women and emphasizing your own qualities rather than solely complimenting their appearance. For instance, instead of complimenting a physically attractive bartender, highlight their skills or personality traits. Classic types of women the implicitly dt…
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:47 AM
13

from my perspective the dismissive-avoidant that you mentioned is under the insecure ones. we have an umbrella of ‘insecure’ and the dismissive-avoidant is one category.
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:26 AM
1

lol whered you get that quote?
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:17 PM
1

Step 1 setup your favorite music and listen to it while outside or you can channel your favorite movie character e.g. Tyler Durden from Fight Club Step 2 talk to anyone baby steps wont hurt e.g. greet someone good morning, how was your day kind of thing. Step 3 challenge yourself by talking to girls like Step 2 add little progression everyday. ask them about their opinions on something etc. Step 4 the idea is to put yourself into a talkative state and then rinse repeat.
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:11 PM
2

what something you hate about yourself?, Im pretty youve build enough cynicism throughout your journey
/r/seduction03/08/24 02:28 PM
1

JT make an reddit AMA soon🍻
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:07 AM
1

you dont have game thats why, try taking a pua bootcamp.
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:39 AM
5

lol its only a ‘numbers game’ if youre following the RSD school of pickup. you need to dig into the old archives of asf board and learn the history behind that idea of ‘numbers game’. pickup as described by Mystery himself is like poker or chess the more experience you got the better you become. its all strategies and gambits etc. in short social engineering at its finest.
/r/seduction18/07/24 12:59 AM
2

thats relative to the situation, if the game calls for indirect then just do it. it maybe slow but the rewards are good. mass approaching in a direct way like an RSD monkey hoping something sticks can be exhausting. well to each his own at the end of the day whatever floats your boat.
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:52 PM
3

he probably approached head on mass direct game thats not gonna cut it for a culture like Japan 😅
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:21 AM
10

its never too late man
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:22 AM
2

Party in the city where the heat is on All night, on the beach till the break of dawn "Welcome to Miami" "Bienvenidos a Miami" —- Will Smith
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:05 PM
1

can you give an example scenario
/r/seduction10/06/24 07:12 PM
1

nope
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:43 AM
2

what is ‘witty bander’?
/r/seduction03/03/24 06:53 AM
1

historically, the ‘numbers game’ concept comes from the old days of Tyler’s RSD and its crew. youd see that more often in the asf forum. but hey, Its diff strokes for diff folks.
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:52 PM
1

Take a bootcamp
/r/seduction02/03/24 03:13 PM
1

lol @ numbers game to borrow a quote from Mystery ‘real game is like playing poker or chess. its a strategy game, the more experience you have, the better you become.’
/r/seduction02/03/24 03:12 PM
10

get out of your comfort zone and talk to anybody. socialise🍻 a small talk is the first step. dont limit yourself to a particular places.
/r/seduction11/02/24 04:41 PM
1

yes man
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:45 PM
2

i think you should change your strategy during the approach. You need to give value in your convo with her and dont do fast closing. Getting the IG is dead end specially if your profile is not social proofed. Go for the numbers and apply DHV spikes early on. example scenario: pua: hey! i just saw you i think youre cute and a mixture of trouble and fun. set: blah blah.. pua: im in a rush and have to get back to my friends(apply False Time Constraint) set: blah blah .. pua: are you from here set: …
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:04 PM
2

stop overanalyzing just get their numbers not IG
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:46 PM
2

Date coach
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:23 PM
81

you got some inner game problems boy. you need to deal with that first. change your mindset you dont need to compete. you just need to be the best version of yourself. be the person you want to date and remember ‘we attract what we are not what we want’. you have so much to learn the game(seduction) is a long road there are no shortcuts. fix your mindset and attitude.
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:36 PM
0

next time OP just TL;DR everything okay?
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:30 PM
3

Basically being HIGH VALUE 🍻
/r/seduction30/01/24 05:20 PM
5

OP should have talked to you first instead of a long ass thread. Props to you man 🍻
/r/seduction30/01/24 05:19 PM
1

is that what happened to you ? 😂 you should go out sometimes and breath some fresh air.
/r/seduction13/01/24 02:30 PM
2

this person just cold read the shit out of OP 😂🍿🥤
/r/seduction13/01/24 02:28 PM
2

thats what a hero will do finish the war
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/23 06:18 PM
15

now we need her name for my anatomy subject
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/23 02:45 AM
9

feral
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/23 03:22 AM
-1

man props to you! whats your back story how you got the good boy
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:04 PM
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tl;dr; 56 i guess thats 11.2 set of HB5s
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:57 AM
1

validation seeking perhaps
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:22 AM
1

youre too stiff relax man
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:52 PM
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when youre happy and you know it just clap your hands
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:51 PM
1

your convo material is weak! here is an example flirting banter: pua: whats cracking ? set: im good, how about you? pua: i just got out of the shower and ready for our date XD do you see the idea? a la prochaine!
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:02 PM
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theres never too late
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:07 AM
1

hahahaha wtf
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:11 PM
43

he gets two 5s and add them up to become 10 lmao
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:29 AM
1

‘easier said than done’ — introvert socially awkward guys. thats why there are bootcamps and training wheels for each items from 1-4
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:35 PM
1

this is one of the many tricks in Swingcat’s repertoire of strategies for convo material. its called Bait and there are several variations of it: ‘i noticed something about you.’ ‘i know exactly what the perfect stress relief for you.’ ‘holy shit im so right about my suspicion about you.’ In other of school of pickup the semantics are diff but the idea is the same. you should stack forward with a cold read after she reply or anything from your stack of DHV materials. kudos to you man!
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:17 AM
2

this isnt written in stone
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:40 AM
1

reframe
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:10 AM
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its not a numbers game if you have a rock solid foundations. its like playing chess, the more experience you got the more chances you will win.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:22 PM
4

evolutionarypsychology
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:12 AM
5

‘et suce me bite sil te plait ‘ 😅
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:56 AM
1

8 isnt true at all. "it isnt game if its not an HB"-- Mystery
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:59 AM
1

forgive them afcs man thats how they roll
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:23 PM
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