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Depends on the girl. Not all girls like the type of bad-a alpha-jerk that many in here suggest. But women do like confidence and leadership in a guy. Doesn’t matter if he’s shy and/or quiet. That quality is actually quite endearing to many.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 01:30 PM
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Feminist. Instant turnoff.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:12 AM
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I’d have a problem dating a girl who had divorced parents.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:48 AM
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A wife makes a house a home. Single life means bare walls, no true love, no true commitment, no sense of sharing, no common goals, no dreaming of the future, no kids, no grandkids, no flowers on the front porch or a wreath on the door at Christmas. No casseroles or hot, fresh cookies. I’ve lived the single life. It sucks. And the cheap sex with random girls is overrated too. Sure it’s fun at the time to some degree but what’s the point really. It’s much sexier and fulfilling and wholesome to gro…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:18 PM
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Wouldn’t change my marriage for the world. The single life pretty much sucks.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:58 PM
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Unpopular opinion here maybe....but I’ve got three daughters, all either dating or have boyfriends and I can promise you that they absolutely do not like assholes. Women like inner strength, confidence and leaders.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:52 PM
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That’s actually quite profound.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 09:48 PM
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I disagree with your silent treatment method of dealing with bad behavior. I generally use her bad behavior as a chance to remind her who the boss is. It’s a chance to do something constructive for the relationship and (re)set boundaries
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:08 PM
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Sugar and chemicals are the real bad guys. Not fat. That doesn’t mean to go nuts on the fats either though.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:04 PM
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Yea RP fits in quite nicely with Christianity and traditional values that have stretched back thousands of years. RP is just getting back to the fundamental truths of what makes male/female relationships healthy and natural.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:07 AM
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Here is one thing I was thinking about. Ephesians 5:22-24 “ Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands..”
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:45 PM
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Paul from the Bible seems a bit RP.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:29 PM
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yes, our marriage was a quite rocky for the first year...or two really......it took us a long time to get adjusted and looking back there was one shit test after another.......and of course this was long before I found rp so I handled it all terribly. I just shake my head at all the years I screwed things up...our relationship since rp has been amazingly good. Incredible how a simple word "no" can do a marriage wonders. If nothing else, learn to use that word...and learn the art of telling her w…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:23 PM
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I’m a Christian and have a sweet submissive wife. She’s not at all kooky but has a real, genuine faith. I thank God I married a Christian. Can’t even imagine marrying one of today’s radical feminists who are obsessed with “equality.” I married a wife, a helper, not a competitor.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:01 PM
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Lifting is good. But ultimately i believe some sort of martial arts skill trumps that any day. A good kick boxer or ultimate fighter would kick the living shit out of the random dude with muscles....or pretty much anybody.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 09:23 PM
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Because leftists have made getting freebies a virtual “right” in this country. Doesn’t take long for an entitlement mentality to take over once you get the taste of getting something for nothing regularly.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:26 AM
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It’s not talked about much around here but I think the first step is having financial success/security. Lots of good things tend to happen when you ooze money. Confidence, the mental upper hand, the ability to get out of bad situations. Financial freedom. Etc. I think self employment is the way to go but that’s just me. On the other hand, if you’re broke and/have no plan, no lofty goals then that puts you right there in the middle of the pack with all the others. No matter how much you lift. Tha…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:25 AM
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Real strength doesn’t need to belittle others. Especially older people. All you did was hurt yourself. You didn’t walk away stronger for that.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:20 PM
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Well the only way to conquer fear is to face it...regularly. Practice it. Even if it’s one word. Start there. Surely you can walk into a gas station or up to some checkout counter and say “thank you” after you pay. If that’s the case then surely you can say “thank you...oh those are cute earrings.” Or whatever. Just practice doing it. You have to. Do it for yourself. Don’t tell yourself you can’t. Because you can.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:34 AM
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Try complimenting girls. “I like your shirt.” “Cute necklace.” Etc. Don’t try to necessarily pick someone up or be obviously flirty or weird. Just be casual. Make it a habit to all females, regardless of age. You’ll get better at it. Make it a game to see if you can find something to compliment about people you come into contact with. Regardless of outcome. You never know. Sometimes a connection can be made at times when you’re not even really trying.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:38 AM
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No. Christian.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:32 PM
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You should come to my church. No lesbian tendencies at all. Lots of skirts, dresses and long hair.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:54 AM
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Discipline. Self reliance. Not being a victim. Working hard to get results. Not relying on others...no excuses.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:45 PM
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Wayne Gretzky: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.” Doesnt sound promising but then again it doesn’t hurt to try. I’d give it a shot at least. If it were me, after reaching out to her once like you did, I’d go silent for a while. See if she contacts you unsolicited. If she makes that move then that’s a good sign and you’ll be in the drivers seat. And...of course, if you see her again don’t come across as needy ever again. Be aloof if anything.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:46 PM
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Then again all profit made is yours. Income is always an issue but I’m just saying there are many perks that self employment offers. Income growth being one of them.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:56 PM
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I have two companies. I own rental properties and I own a landscape business...but I actually have my hands in a lot of things; decks, stone work, painting, tile work. Etc. whatever I can get my hands on...often I’ll act as a contractor and sub things out. If you’re looking for something I can’t recommend a service business enough; once you get your foot in peoples door then you can cross-sell all kinds of stuff. That’s what I do.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:21 AM
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Nonsense. I’m able to take the kids to school in the morning...eat lunch with my wife...no punching a time clock...unlimited vacation days...no boss bs or office politics...no daily grind with traffic etc etc. Not saying self employment is easy or a party all the time but it definitely has its perks. I’m married now but I can tell you that being single and self employed is a good combination.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:07 AM
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Self employment. Can’t recommend it enough. You don’t like working 40-50 hours a week because you’re working for someone else and making them rich. Waking up and going to work every day is a joy when you’re self employed. The freedom alone is pure gold.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:46 AM
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Good post and good point. On a related note, I’ve often wondered why self employment is not pushed. That’s the ultimate RP way of life. Being the boss, calling the shots, flexible schedule, unable to be fired, higher income potential, etc. Unless you’re a salesman or work on commission, most jobs where you’re working 9-5 for the man will keep you under 50k...certainly under 100k. It’s hard to pull off being an alpha male when you’re living in a dumpy apartment or a cheap rent house on the crap s…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:47 AM
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Because they’re stupid, short-sided and don’t stop and think that in 10 years these types will probably be broke, smoking weed and playing video games all day long.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:05 AM
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I would say be yourself. I’m not on board with everything I see here. Be the best you can be. And remember who you’re talking to...women have dealt with plenty aloof men who are jerks, arrogant and act like they could care less. Sure, self-confidence is important but smiling and being cheerful are great wingmen to that.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:16 PM
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I’m a big fan of smiling. There’s too much aloofness and anger in the world. Want to stand out and be different? Smile, compliment out of the blue, be cheerful, etc.....these mannerisms will attract a whole different and additional subset of females.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:48 AM
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I’m trying to understand why anyone would want to put their dick in an ass to begin with. Disgusting.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:18 AM
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Do this every morning in your car on the way to school, work, or wherever you go; starting yelling, screaming at the top of your lungs. For at least a minute or so. Or sing very very loudly. As loud as you can. Sing high. Sing low. Yell like a bat out of hell. In about a minute, and throughout your day you will be relaxed, at ease and more confident with your speech and speaking. I do this before big events, social engagements, public speaking, etc. vigorous exercise - a great workout - also hel…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:54 AM
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congratulations!!
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:54 AM
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As to your last comment, nonsense. You didn't screw up anything. Being married, having kids, a wife, a happy home is the best. Or at least it can be. Being single, looking for your next cheap lay is highly overrated. I've done both. No contest.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:34 PM
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lol....I thought I was the only one thinking that...
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:26 PM
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Screw the dead-end, 9-5 corporate world...and go straight into self employment....don't pass go. The money, the freedom, the unlimited vacation days, the lack of punching a time clock, the availability to pick kids up from school, the ability for rapid growth of income, the spontaneous vacations/trips, the inability to be fired....set your own hours, on and on and on.......even if the money is lower at first, all the other benefits far outweigh the daily grind/traffic, bosses, etc. If you are si…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:19 PM
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The porn/masturbation cycle diminishes sex drive, libido, and closeness of relationships. It's not even controversial anymore. Study after study shows the same thing. The problem is that somewhere along the way feminism has taught wives that it's perfectly fine to withhold sex or not be available for their husbands. And men have become so weak and beta that they just go along with it.......this sets up a cycle where the guy, to make up for what he's not getting in real life, watches porn and mas…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:01 PM
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Make her laugh as much as possible.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:53 PM
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Fair enough...I agree that we should be the best we can be, but playing like there's no competition in life, playing like there's no advantage to being the top dog, playing like there's no additional benefits, with men and women, to carrying yourself as the dominate one, is naive. As for my wife, not only do I try to be the best I can be, but I also make sure she knows who the boss is. Having this mindset everywhere, whether it be in social settings or in the office or anywhere really, will gene…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:59 AM
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"I want to leave the house and know that when I talk to another man, I’m on his level of dignity." I would shoot for higher than merely being at or on his level...instead shoot for being superior...this mindset will do wonders.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 11:03 PM
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If they weren't born with a prostate gland then they are not men. I just have to laugh at all the boards of people who go along with the fairy tale that they are. Of course millions of people think they're apes, too, so brainwashing is clearly active and powerful in today's society.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:48 PM
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"It does nothing to guarantee sexual security or provide a hedge against loneliness." True...but then again, nothing is a "guarantee" for that stuff. I guess I'm lucky though because my wife is naturally submissive...I don't think she's ever said "no" flat out...I get it pretty much whenever I want it... All I have to do is tell her what to put on or lock the door and she knows what's coming. Hearing some of these guys' stories about being denied for weeks or months is jaw-dropping...not sure ho…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:16 PM
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I'm thinking a stern, matter of fact warning would be better than just immediately kicking important people to the curb. You'd want your boss to give you some leeway I bet. I mean you're not even setting boundaries before the kicking.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:42 PM
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I don't know. I come across hoards of dumb men. look at all the leftist, pussy hat-wearing male feminists. Look at the grown men who waste days on end playing video games, yet live paycheck to paycheck and on food stamps. . Look at the guys with the $750 truck payment who make $35 k a year. Look at the dumbasses who screw around on their wives, only to catch an std or get caught and destroy their marriage. Look at the hoards of men who spend hours a day feeding their porn addiction. And all the …
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:37 PM
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I see what you're saying. But I look at it like this: I think a man should be his own man and should go his own way, regardless if he's married or single. The way I see marriage is this: a wife is a woman who wants to tag along and follow a man through life to experience it with him. It's much like the prototypical guy in the movies on a motor bike who rides off into the distance, and at the last moment a girl hops on and goes with him. So this is not really a "team." ... they are not fuzed into…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:05 PM
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I don't know....being lonely in life truly sucks. There's lots of lonely, single guys out there who never settled down, who thought they could ride the chick merry-go-round of life, only to find out that the pretty/thin/fun/single chicks start running dry when they hit their 40s.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 06:21 PM
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Getting married is for betas? Right. Rather, purposefully staying single and having no kids is ultimately an empty and pointless existence. Sure you might get laid occasionally, (does she have herpes?) but you'll find as you get older that the good looking chicks who aren't psycho are all married...leaving you and your precious, bloated cock alone with each other....desperately combing the clubs and bars for another empty screw. No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:57 PM
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I've read all that stuff...glover, schnarch, etc.... "Asshole is a much stronger position than pushover pansy." you should know better. These are just opposite ends of the spectrum..both are just different reactions to perceived weakness. The pansy feels he can't do anything about it; the a-hole tries to cover up his weakness with rage. The strongest position is to know who you are, to simply be yourself, and to make the most of yourself. Girls -- and guys for that matter -- prefer to be around …
/r/askTRP01/01/18 08:01 PM
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I guess we're weird then... I understand little jabs now and then...but I don't get making insults an art form.........maybe you can give me some funny examples of what you'd bust another guy for in front of a group.....for being fat? for being bald? for being an alcoholic? for having an ugly wife? for having herpes? by pointing out that his wife and kids left him because he's a dick or a drug addict? All I'm saying is that, not only is it childish but it's a good way to piss someone off or star…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:12 PM
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"Roasting/bantering/ball busting is how men test each other." maybe if you're a video-playing man-child in your parents' basement or still in Jr. High.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:12 PM
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I also avoid driving 100 mph on the freeway, unhealthy eating habits, and playing video games for hours on end. If other people want to do these things, fine.....it's not me. If Im going to have a dick-measuring contest with people, it's going to be intellectually. I'll get into it on politics, religion, science, all day long....but childish insult games? nah....not for me. I've never hung with people who do that either. besides, it seems that the OP is just using this exercise to build up his s…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 04:49 PM
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My suggestion would be to play to your strengths. Avoid things that you're not instinctively or inherently good at. If you just must engage in this type of jousting (which I personally hate) then practice is the only way. Personally I don't want to risk saying something over-the-line or stupid....I'm not into starting unnecessary fights. I don't believe in juvenile games or taking unnecessary risks in life. But that's just me.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 03:48 PM
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