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| 52 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseHe negged her in his response to her. Someone on reddit suggested some responses and he picked the neg which resulted in the block and delete. LOL. Below are the suggestions: 1. Don’t assume that she expects you to pay for both of you. That would be rude of you. 2. You could say something bland like “That’s an expensive meal for just finding out if we have good chemistry. I’d rather go somewhere cheaper until we know each other better. You ever been to _______?” 3. You could say something that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:56 PM |
| 57 | A cautionary tale from the '80s. This was a relative's former doctor and I found a newspaper clipping in storage. Full article in the comments.It really shows how men are willing to completely ignore bodily autonomy when it comes to them getting what they want. Their own desires outweigh all other factors and shows they have zero empathy, given that it would conflict with their ability to pursue their own selfish intentions. I am totally stunned at the level of violence that men are willing to carry out in a sick sense of punishment that they feel they have the right to dish out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:45 AM |
| 29 | A cautionary tale from the '80s. This was a relative's former doctor and I found a newspaper clipping in storage. Full article in the comments.If I can't have your vagina, noone will! *stomp* *stomp* *throws self on ground in tantrum* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:42 AM |
| 11 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveThe bit that upsets me about her videos are where she says "why don't you apologise for taking advantage of my vulnerability to get in my pants", as if she hasn't realised that this is basically the playbook for men everywhere. When she says that she fell for him because he helped her through a traumatic experience... that should have been the biggest red flag she'd ever seen. She was horrified that "he knew" and still violated her trust, so it's clear that it didn't seem to occur to her at all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:05 AM |
| 82 | Men want me to back down even when I am rightHe told me later he just wants me to roll on my back and submit and let him cool off because he's an angry guy and it pisses him off to no end i don't do it. It pisses him off because it threatens his view that he's the man in the relationship and is therefore the authority, and you are subordinate because you're a woman. Even if he's wrong, he can't have you questioning it (or knowing that he's wrong) because it undermines his perceived authority. You're not being subordinate so you're not stic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 88 | Male Scrote tried to silence meHe said I need to be careful with my words because I can come off too strong or harsh. If you were male you wouldn't have been warned for coming off too strong, seeing as there's no upper limit for that quality in men. His problem is that you're coming off too strong for a woman. ...and fuck that noise, you go do your role to the best of your ability regardless of what you were born with between your legs. ps - expect backlash and be prepared for it. strategise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:39 AM |
| 6 | He showed up at my door last nightInspect every time he brought back to you, box included. Look for a camera or a tracker, they can be tiny and can be placed inside things even if the item looks sealed. If you're not attached to those items the safest thing might be to just throw them out. If you can, have your car checked for a tracker, the trip over to return your things might have just been an excuse to get access to your car to plant something under it. Men are placing apple airtags (and other similar devices) on womens' car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 125 | I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant.Lundy Bancroft covers this in his book 'Why Does He Do That?' This excerpt is about men and women in a relationship but IMPO it can also be interpreted as how abusive men treat women in general. I think the same rules apply. Replace "partner" with "women" and it still reads true. REALITY #4: He disrespects his partner and considers himself superior to her. Most abusers verbally attack their partners in degrading, revolting ways. They reach for the words that they know are most disturbing to wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 35 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?Possessiveness and if they show signs of losing control at the eventual realisation that their attempts to keep a grip on you aren't working they will probably then start resorting to physical violence. Possessiveness should be enough of a warning sign as it is but if it escalates once he realises his grip isn't working - run, fast. Misogynistic views go hand in hand with violence towards women so try and sniff out his hidden opinions, particularly women that he's not trying to get anything from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 604 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??Did you ever see the reddit thread from a woman whose husband threw out her tampons after she gave birth, because he was jealous of them? Her doctor advised her that medically she needed to obstain from sex for a period of time because she'd just given birth. Her husband was so jealous that tampons were inside her and his penis wasn't, that he threw away her tampons and he actually admitted this to her when she found out. His excuse was that if a penis wasn't allowed then nothing else was allowe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 27 | Casual Sex ConfusionWhile you're dating you don't need to let a man see you vulnerable. Doing so would only give the guy a blueprint into which buttons to push so as to manipulate you. Showing vulnerability to new guys is just society's conditioning to get women to take the submissive role and play the wounded animal routine while he rescues you and protects you from your vulnerabilities. It's all spectacular bullshit. While you're vetting, you're not vulnerable. Vulnerability is reserved for long-term relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 21 | This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well.He knows what he's doing. He's lining her up to be in a position where she's financially dependent on him and has no other options than to go along with what he wants. He wants the dynamic where she's dependent on him because he thinks it'll make her subordinate to him. These kinds of men don't want an equal life partner, they want an employee. That's the future that awaits all of us if we don't hold out for the right men. Fuck that for a joke, I'd rather be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 37 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.No surprises there. Low value men view dating the same way they view their career; they want to obtain the best role they can and they'll climb the ladder to get there. They'll take whatever first job they can get because any income(sex) is better than no income, even if they don't like the job(girl). If they're suuuuper embarrassed to be seen in that role(with that girl), they won't tell anyone they're working there (dating her). They'll secretly interview for other positions(dates) with other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:07 AM |
| 5 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?The bit that bothers me the most is where he admits he's just testing a boundary. He clearly knows the game he's playing and it's obviously a known and rehearsed tactic for men. His explanation came out as uneventfully as anything. People test boundaries when they want to know the limits, he wants to know how much scope there is in you to accept his crap before you'll stand your ground and call him out on it. He wants to know how much room there is to manipulate you and exploit a potential relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleDon't be silly, he's not interested in being an actual father and fulfilling any parental duties required to raise a child to be a well-rounded, productive member of society with good values and a happy childhood full of fun memories. The extent of his desires and contributions is to put his penis inside a vagina and masturbate himself until some sauce comes out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't trust menMost men actually believe in the ladder theory. Google it and it'll provide a lot of clarity in the (gross) way that they think. It basically says that everyone has a ladder and for men, because you secretly want to fuck everyone, you put 'people you want to fuck' at the top of the ladder, 'people you would fuck and admit it' in the middle and 'people you would fuck and not admit it' at the bottom of the ladder. Women are placed on that ladder based on how attractive they are. Where your girlfri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.and the funny part is that so many men lament the loss of traditional family values, as if seeing our mothers and grandmothers discarded and homeless by shitty men didn't start the next generation of women on the path to self-sufficiency. Like is it any fucking wonder? How can they act all surprised? Women who spent their days being a homemaker, having dinner on the table for hubby when he got home from work, cleaning up after him, birthing and raising his kids, never getting a day off, being su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:12 AM |
| 127 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Watch how they treat women that they don't want to fuck. Is she old? Is she overweight? Is he racist and she's the "wrong" race? If your BF/hubby treats women badly if he doesn't want to fuck them... then the only thing preventing him from treating you that way is because he wants to fuck you and he knows that behaviour won't fly. But rest assured, he still thinks about you that way, he just suppresses that behaviour around you because there's something he wants from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | LVM/NVM Child Predators Grooming Young Teens For Nudes in the Guise of “Sex Positivity” - Mom Says She Tried To Prevent Daughters From Falling Victim To Online Predators, But They Were Still GroomedFrom your description, this girl is desperately seeking male validation. Who taught her that? I'm guessing mum. The whole of society taught her that. Young girls are raised and conditioned to believe that they have nothing to offer except for their beauty. From the time they're born, young girls are told how beautiful they look in that dress. How beautiful their hair looks when it's plaited. How beautiful their smile is. It's dished out as a compliment whenever a parent wants to praise their dau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 32 | Nice Guys are LVMs in DisguiseHe's so cheap he wouldn't buy a fkn firestick for $25 so the kids could watch TV at his house on the flat screen TV I GAVE him (they watch movies on their computer smh) He doesn't do that because it doesn't benefit him in any way. He's so cheap, my kids don't have proper beds at his house (one sleeps on a foldout couch and the other on a foam thing that sits on the floor) Your kids don't have beds because it doesn't benefit him in any way. LVM are inherently selfish. If something doesn't have di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:18 AM |
| 7 | What in the FUCK did I just readThat poor woman, she's been conditioned her whole life that she's basically to be of service to others and what she wants is irrelevant. Even her username breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:59 AM |
| 279 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedIf scrotes have tried to get this sub banned from reddit and failed, they will probably try and take it down from within. I would totally not be surprised by men trying to play the long game. Having women join for them, contribute reasonable things for a while in order to not arouse suspicion and graadduuaalllly try and steer the sub towards an ideology that verges on extremism, all for the sake of having it flagged and deleted off reddit. Don't underestimate the willingness of petty men to need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 8 | I set the boundary…He was watching porn before we were dating. He has not watched porn since we started dating. All I'm getting from your post is that he knows what words to use to get you on-side. How can you trust the words coming out of his mouth? They're just words, and ones that he knows you want to hear. I feel like telling guys your expectations just gives them a script to follow and they'll be on their best behaviour to say the things that you're looking for, all the while doing things completely different… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:51 PM |
| 80 | There's our answer ladies.Yeah, I can only come to the conclusion that men just don't care. Even the men who constantly harp on about notallmen, they don't feel any social responsibility to call out the misogynists because they don't really care. Women are largely having to face this issue alone. Side note, I'm glad someone sees my comments! I don't think I've been assigned a flair yet and I keep getting messages saying my comments have been auto-removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 222 | There's our answer ladies.I'm sad that up to half of the world's population sees me as a tool to be used and not as a person. That unless I can offer them some kind of purpose, that they think I am of no use and should be treated with hostility. I'm also sad that this belief isn't wrong... because if the guy quoted above was just a minority... then men everywhere would be replying to him and calling out his misogynistic views about women.. but they never do. It's nOt aLl MeN except where are the men confronting the men w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:14 AM |
| 36 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄The response sounds like it's written by someone with no experience in relationships turning abusive and being unable to leave. It should be normalised to teach women to set some funds aside incase their partner turns violent and tries to control you by keeping you poor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:21 AM |
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