TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

tomgjo Archive

View 1 posts and 64 comments by tomgjo on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Resourcestomgjo/r/seduction13/05/22 03:46 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I think you need to shift focus. Take some time off work, and make some attempts to meet new people. What you focus on you find. You focused on progressing your professional career, which is smart. Now its time to find someone!
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:08 AM
2

If she does respond, I would ask for her number, you are getting nowhere on email. A day or two for email exchanges seem normal. Don't show your frustration, just be cool, and wait.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:48 AM
1

What made you choose email as the communication method?
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:35 AM
1

Of course. Also, its only awkward if you make it awkward. You got this!
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:29 AM
2

You show it with your facial expressions and demeanor. Women can sense that shit a mile away. The energy you give out will be returned. Smile more, introduce yourself to women you meet for the first time. Remember confidence doesn't have to be genuine. Fake it until it becomes a habit. As far as your reconnection with your old highschool buddy, understand life moves a different pace for everyone. I bet you have progressed further then him in other aspect of life. Keep ur head up G, eventually yo…
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:27 AM
37

You're overthinking it, from what I am reading, she is genuinely interested in you. You are creating a false barrier, shoot your shot. Now that doesn't mean she wants anything more then a friendship... however there's only one way to find out.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:05 AM
0

I stand by that lmao.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:53 AM
3

You got it figured out. I would stay away from that one, focus on yourself, meet new people. Anytime I have been in a genuine relationship, or encounter with a girl money was never involved or spoken about.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:52 AM
-1

Coming from the dude who watches grown men wrestle in speedos....
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:46 AM
0

No, it was a post telling you so called internet gurus to pipe down. Acting like you're all something you're not, at the expense of others.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:40 AM
-1

LOL, stop it... Social media is soft as hell.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:38 AM
1

They are looking for a response to relate to their situation, not another post. We need to help people, not bring them down. Women can be cruel nowadays if you dont know how to handle them. Having a PUA group be cruel when someone is seeking advice is a good way to shatter someones self esteem.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:34 AM
2

short term breaking up will be worth it, long term it wont.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:58 AM
2

👍👍👍 good luck bro
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:12 PM
2

You Alr won her. So say whoa there I didn’t invite you yet
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:55 PM
8

U do realize this is a sub for guys trynna get pussy. Not scammed by a guy using a girls pic on Reddit
/r/seduction31/05/19 07:00 AM
1

No I’ve seen it. You can choose to ignore it instead of being a dick head
/r/seduction30/05/19 07:34 PM
1

If you’re going to be putting guys down on this sub don’t be on it bro. He’s reaching out because he has self esteem issues, and keyboard models such as yourself putting people down for no reason other then to boost your own ego don’t have a place to comment on peoples posts
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:38 PM
1

Hey man. She wants to meet. So meet her. You can’t look completely different unless the other side of you face has burns or something like that. If the other side of your face is different. Add her on snap take a full selfie, and if she still likes you you’re good. If not I don’t get what your big deal about it is. You can’t look too far off those pictures and she wants to meet up with you. Grow a pair of balls and jump in the water
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:37 PM
1

You don’t know what she is or isn’t Brodie.
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:34 PM
1

Just stand by the weight or treadmill she’s on, and critique her on how she could be doing better 😂😂
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:47 AM
5

Prison rules bro. Motherfuckers r gonna try and steal your food. But If you fight the first dude trying to steal your food win or lose nobody’s going to try it again. Because they know if they want it, it’s not going to be worth the hassle of getting it Also I understand your girlfriend is shy, but you need to put on the pants of the relationship and tell her not to entertain that shit. You’re only setting yourself up to get played.
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:44 AM
1

What. Lol
/r/seduction29/05/19 10:31 PM
3

Skype her or something. She’s interested jus show her how u look man
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:58 PM
3

Eating ass is always worth it
/r/seduction28/05/19 06:10 PM
1

tomgjo#4695 Send a request!
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:35 AM
2

I would have to agree with this. You're in the perfect position with the girl. She clearly is attracted to you and likes you. But she has higher priorities in her life. You need to accept that. However if you want to text her badly what you need to do when you see her next is the following. When shes telling you something important, or somewhat important. Pull out your phone, say hold on this important, and text someone you haven't texted in a while or reply to a message you left on read. The po…
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:59 AM
1

Yeah man. That’s going to happen. You don’t know her too well and you invaded her privacy. That’s a good line to say to a chick after you’ve known her for a while and she knows what you do.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:42 AM
1

Added you
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:06 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:25 PM
2

I don’t mind being driven around. Frees my mind for conversation. Not focused on driving
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:04 PM
3

there is nothing wrong with it. However it’s nice to find a girl who has the same interest as you. I say you try finding girls that have nice personalities, get to know them, and then judge if looks are all you’re after
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:02 PM
1

Invited you
/r/seduction27/05/19 08:16 PM
1

No problem man
/r/seduction27/05/19 07:29 PM
2

Agreed. No small talk. The day you’re available to get coffee text her. Or set it up.
/r/seduction27/05/19 07:25 PM
2

Shes going to send you snaps. Reply back to them. Start your conversations through those. Say things like "You're so lucky you're in mexico (or whatever) Thanks for the invite, i could've fit in your suitcase" but don't carry on full conversations. Say witty comments to where she wishes you were on vacation with her. Hope this helps!
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:45 PM
2

Say maybe I’m trynna be the boss 😎
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:40 PM
5

Ditch her. Move on to the next one. She sounds very shallow and not worth any pursuit. Put game on her best friend. Get your redemption
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:01 PM
4

Read up on everything by Neil Strauss. The game, the truth, and rules of the game. That’s what I started with and couldn’t have gotten a better understanding or headstart else where
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:18 PM
5

I’d have to agree with the previous comment. It is cheating man. If you want to be in the field. Break up with your girl, or tell her you’d like an open relationship. Don’t be using game to pick up girls while u got a girl at home. That’s intentionally cheating
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:14 PM
3

I was in the same boat. I’ve worked in construction so no females in my daily life really. Anyways Dating sites: keep switching it up. It’s not working because your profile isn’t up to par. So keep taking selfies, keep changing your bio, see what works. Once you start getting matches start working on routines to catch her attention and gauge a conversation. As for seeing girls more face to face. Switch up your daily routine. Go grab a coffee, sit at Starbucks while you drink it. Then find a girl…
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:12 PM
1

Dmd you man
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:04 PM
1

Dmd u man
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:04 PM
1

Agree with this. Use bio to find something relatable to start the convo. If no bio find something in the background of one her pictures. If it’s a selfie in her room say “that’s a really nice poster, I’d like to see it in person sometime” acknowledge her without acknowledging her
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:46 AM
6

This is easy man. Get your dorm mates the fuck out the room lol. Pay them 5 bucks each and tell them to grab food. Do something to get them out lol. Trust me. Once you have her alone, do what you’ve been doing. Once she starts getting flirty, call her out for being all talk. If she opens up go in for the kiss be bold. Seems to be like she’s trynna fuck. If she’s not. Oh well you’ll live
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:29 AM
0

Pro bono. Don’t worry about it man. Just do me a favor and follow me, and join a group chat I’m trying to start to give help to others!
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:23 AM
1

Ok so practice lines. If a girls feeling you, be risky. Fuck it. That’s your goal. Comment something witty when she posts a snap. Like “ I honestly can’t stand your outfit today 🤢” then she’s going to reply and follow up with I didn’t mean to offend you I just feel like you’d look a lot better without them”
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:16 AM
1

Never found the fascination us men have about nudes. They’re cool but like I feel like you’re focusing on it too much, therefore overthinking your game to get nudes.
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:07 AM
1

Yeah. I like it. Just make sure you try and meet up with her. You need to get your chance to hang out with her. I like your approach because it’s original and I can tell you spent time thinking about it. So it means something to you as well as gauges her interest. Just make sure you have a follow up game
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:05 AM
1

Are you doing anything relatively interesting in the coming days? If so make her wait till then to snap her. If you’re not message a witty reply on one of her snap stories. Make her anticipate.
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:55 AM
1

I’m not into astronomy honestly. So I wouldn’t be the best person to give you advice on how good of a open that is. If you googled a joke I wouldn’t use it. If you genuinely made it then shoot your shot man. That’s witty, and relatable to her. But have you been thinking of how that can turn into a conversation?
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:49 AM
1

I mean airbnbs are always a good option I say go for it. It’s not desperate. You need a place to fuck. Get one. Hotel, motel, air bnb, back of a car. Get it how you can
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:02 AM
2

Exactly my man 👍
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:00 AM
2

No problem man. Give me a follow and message me with any questions. I’m based out of Detroit. How about you?
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:56 AM
5

Say it. Wish her a happy birthday. But also make your move honestly. You’ve been waiting around for 3-4 months to talk to her and she’s your crush man. Rejection won’t kill you, you’ll find another girl. Say something witty like, now that you’re (insert age) i can really see myself with you. You were awfully immature at (insert her old age) then if she says how so say you never snapped me, awfully rude of you. Then just keep messing around with her, then once you get her talking bust a line like…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:55 AM
7

Repetition. I’m tall, attractive and a lot of girls seem to like me. In highschool I got no pussy because I was shy, you just need to work at it. You said you’re good looking, so that’s a good step. Look your best. Think of routines. Find things to say that gauge conversation. Girls love to talk, you just need to engage their interest. Once you get a girl interested in you, and you notice she likes you, your confidence will naturally go up while talking to her. So good pickup openers for inspira…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:42 AM
5

You have it all wrong. Girls don’t do heavy eye contact and look you up and down. They look at you until you notice and then look away hoping you’ll come and talk to them.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:35 AM
2

Not that easy man. Put it the work. Don’t say you want it to happen on reddit. That’s not going to do much for you. Make a run on tinder or hit up a club.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:33 AM
3

It’s game my man. She was flirting with you. Let her mention the boyfriend. Anytime she mentions his name be like “who?” “Oh I didn’t know you had a boyfriend” she thinks you’re attractive, isolate the target. Disregard any talk of her boyfriend!
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:31 AM
1

You need a routine. Your problem isn’t that you can’t find anything to say. Your problem is that the girl isn’t interested in keeping the conversation going. So you need to analyze the things you say, and her reaction. It’s a game bro. So think of some icebreakers. Ones you use multiple times. With the proper ice breaker she will be open to converse. There is a lot of material on good openers online. Different methods all proven to work. It’s all about the lines and delivery. Practice at home if…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:27 AM
3

No problem man. Give me a follow. If you ever have another question I can help you out!
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:21 AM
1

Don’t give her attention. Seems like you played the nice guy role with this girl. Start doing push and pulls. Say something cocky funny, then bring her back in with a nah I’m just messing with you. Start fucking with her. She knows your interested. She knows if the guys she’s chasing don’t work out she has u. So be the guy she wants to chase. Pull away and play hard to get
/r/seduction26/05/19 11:03 PM
3

If you want my opinion I’d say look for someone else. You can get his attention, but not in the way you want. To gain his attention you’d have to put yourself out there, and he will take advantage. If he’s a “bad boy” and goes for strippers he likes girls that are at the center of attention. Girls who have options. So jealousy would be the way to win him over. But as I said at first be careful. That’s a rough path.
/r/seduction26/05/19 10:38 PM
19

Well touching is a broad subject in seduction imo. There is plenty of scenarios in which touching the girl in the right way can significantly improve your chances with her. Girls love that shit. Anyways I’ll start with an introduction. When you meet the girl, hug with both hand around her. No awkward one hand around the shoulder. Go in for it. Don’t grab her ass or anything (unless you’ve already established enough IOIS or have known the girl long enough to shoot your shot. Keep complete body co…
/r/seduction26/05/19 10:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter