tommyetw Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Not sure what to think anymore Good luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/21 10:32 PM
4	Not sure what to think anymore Well, I wish I was young again and rich, too! But I’ll take my wisdom learned over the years over that. You can do both, but I’d only advise to weight it a bit more on the side of raising your children. Your former work colleagues won’t come wipe your behind one day when it comes time to that. I’m speaking from experience here coming from the child’s side, taking care of a mom who invested her life into me was a small price to pay.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/21 10:09 PM
5	Not sure what to think anymore Having kids who grow up healthy, mentally and physically, are well adjusted and have great relationships and kids of their own. VS. That job where your career path is suddenly ended because of corporate downsizing, and you were always just a means to THEIR end of making money. The working world doesn’t care about your advancement or accolades or that promotion. But your children, if you’ve kept a good relationship, will be your rich reward and lasting legacy in your older age when you’ve forgott…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/21 05:06 PM
2	What do you ladies think RP men think of tattooed women? Do it for you. If you don’t like it, then remove it. Don’t do it for the guy.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/21 07:21 AM
2	Mini Update on Trying again with Ex-husband I think the Doyle advice shouldn’t apply in your specific situation. He’s not simply the one you prefer. He’s the one that you’re trying to reconcile with after being married. If my ex-wife came to me like what you’re attempting, and I found out she’s seeing other men right up until I said let’s give it another try, I’d be skeptical of how willing you were to try again. You have to make sacrifices, and commit a length of time to walk this path. Good luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/02/20 04:20 AM
2	Body count Yeah, this is definitely my personal belief. How others want to live, up to them. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/19 07:00 PM
1	Body count I didn't think I was. I was answering her implied question from my perspective, and I believe many men feel this way. How she wants to live is up to her, no question. Sorry if it came off moralizing, but wasn't meant to be.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/19 06:45 PM
1	Body count Yes, it does, especially if it’s just mindless. Makes me question your morals and judgement. And you even stated that you’re feeling the lowering of worth. You need to up your quality of men. Men who only see you for sex have no respect for you as a person. I would never do that to a woman just to get sex. I’d rather do...something else... instead of bringing in another human being with feelings and emotions just to get my sex needs filled. How stupid and immoral, and the worst way to use anothe…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/19 04:30 PM
1	Introducing Chad Thundercock's Younger Brother, Dylan -- A Lady's Man for Our Modern Age I’m over that age by quite a bit, and this Dylan character sounds... just odd. Kind of like a progressive concave chested man boy Casanova. So confused.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/11/19 12:16 AM
-1	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? “Ultimately stays favorable for me.” So when the man doesn’t lead the way you want or like, then kick him to the curb if that’s favorable to you...? Whoa.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 08:16 AM
0	Is it too late for me to become a good wife? I left a comment already, but I want to reiterate: you ARE worthwhile already. Believe and accept that first. You have value just as you are, even though you may not feel like it. And don’t “want to choose.” Choose and do it. Do or do not. There is no try (Yoda😝). Even though you may not feel worthy, start acting that way. Read books—plenty here recommended already. It may be completely foreign, so it may help to have a daily saying in the morning and evening to slowly reinforce your subconsciou…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/19 06:21 PM
0	Is it too late for me to become a good wife? I’m a Christian Asian American married to a Korean American wife, so take this for what it’s worth.😉 I know there’s a challenge for AA’s living in a predominantly white America to integrate both cultures, and know of a Korean American woman back in college who was exactly in your shoes—the slut at the frat parties (sigh). The balancing act can be tougher if you come from a traditional conservative Korean home. So becoming American, and not embracing your Asian heritage is understandable—Korean c…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/19 03:42 PM
2	If you love something set it free? Yes, I understand. So, I guess the test will be when you meet up to hear what happened in his mind. My advice to women around your age, is if a man is willing to commit to you, then make him commit and don’t waste your time. If he wants to still just date you with no timetable for a commitment decision, the kick him to the curb. Your time is more valuable, much more. But if he does commit and you want to as well, you’re going to have to be patient with a younger guy till he really does man up. B…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/19 06:16 AM
2	If you love something set it free? Because someone loving you makes you think are you going to respond in kind. Kind of makes you sit up and look real deep at all your actions toward the person and if it was sincere and worthy of the relationship being long term.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/19 06:03 AM
3	If you love something set it free? If what you say about him being mature for his age is true, then take a look at the situation from his point of view. He’s serious about dating, and he’s dating someone almost 30. That path writes itself. You’d probably want to have kids within 3-5 years, and that’s pretty much all his 20’s. If I were in his shoes, I’d have to think pretty hard about the trade off between you and all the comes with dating up, versus continue without you for the next 3-10 years, and then settle down in my early 3…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/19 06:00 AM
3	Dating is destroying my self esteem and confidence.. I think the simple dating equation would be simpler without the sex. Sex complicates the equation. Leave it out is better.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/19 05:38 AM
1	Materialist Hypergamy in the Church I will, thank you for the referral. I did look at their site, and I like it overall. Seems polished. A little too much perhaps. But maybe a little infrastructure wouldn’t hurt.	/r/RPChristians	06/04/19 05:15 AM
1	Materialist Hypergamy in the Church Is there a sub for underground church or micro church?	/r/RPChristians	05/04/19 04:54 PM
3	Why should women reject the “princess mentality”? Your friend, for the next let’s say 5-8 years can live it up and use and abuse her boy toys. Assuming she’s your age. She’s also being used too, don’t forget that. Once she decides to settle on the guy deserving of her, her habits and attitude toward men will be ingrained and I highly doubt any men of quality will choose to marry her and settle down. As she turns the corner at 30, she’ll settle for some men of “lesser” quality and she’ll find a way to ruin that—maybe with a child to boot. Then s…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/02/19 12:03 AM
60	Boyfriend has this female friend that's a little too flirty with him You’re at an age where I wouldn’t waste time. If he thinks you’re worth the long term investment (I’m assuming you’re marriage minded), then he’d do what he needs to respect your boundaries because he values you. That’s the test. If he doesn’t, then flush him. Sorry. I always had more female friends and I was pretty flirty with gals in general, but they all went away once I got into a committed relationship/now marriage. 100%. There’s never a need for a close female friendship once you have an S…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/02/19 08:16 PM
16	Why do men only look at me as hookup material? I want a ltr but I never seem to attract those types of men If you’re goal truly is a ltr, then cut out the flirting and don’t wear tight clothing. You’re just gonna attract a lot of guys that will just discourage you, and the good ones will think to themselves that you really want to just have fun and avoid you. If your personality and character are truly solid, then let the good guys discover it instead of laying it all out there.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/19 03:19 AM
2	A Change of Heart... God bless you both on this new path.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼	/r/RedPillWives	16/07/18 04:40 PM
6	Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date? Have fun! Not a remote park, though. cough	/r/RedPillWives	19/06/18 05:36 AM
13	Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date? Sure, I'd do it earlier 4:30'ish so you don't stay too late since places close early Sunday (for the afterwards activity). Then, since he suggested this date activity, it'd be fine for you to suggest one activity after--like a tea or dessert in a public place--it'll be a logical and natural suggestion on your part. Then off to home for you, alone.	/r/RedPillWives	19/06/18 05:11 AM
12	Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date? The night doesn't have to end at his place after dinner. You can always then head out elsewhere more neutral/safe. If he's such a great guy, he'd sense the reasoning behind that and be fine with it. Just don't do dinner at 10pm.😉	/r/RedPillWives	19/06/18 04:41 AM
1	I can't seem to get commitment before sex I've read this a few times, and I think that this is what sticks for me. Sex should never be a bargaining chip. You should be able to get commitment without even bringing up sex as an issue. If it turns out that it's an issue, then flush those guys. You've got your answer. I've never thought that sex was my right or something to get in exchange for anything on my part. If I thought a woman was a potential lifetime candidate, then I'd do anything to respect her wishes and boundaries. Maybe I'm mo…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/18 08:19 PM