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i equated downvotes to ppl thinking i was wrong 🧍🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:57 PM
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okay i guess im wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:45 PM
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ppl w/ commitment issues suck, im sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:28 PM
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i think i’ve decided, i’ll take my monthly period over having sweaty sticky balls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:27 PM
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you literally asked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:31 AM
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already told you. you just can’t seem to wrap your head around mind around it i guess. it’s okay, it took me a long time to understand it too. but again, i never said she was entirely wrong and you’re choosing to forget that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:44 AM
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no...yeah yeah i agree. no jorkin, only wankin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:11 PM
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How do Brits feel about jorking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:01 PM
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How do you guys decide on what to post/debate? I have so many things I want to debate/discuss, but can't pick one bc i am worried one might be better than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:40 PM
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lol just now seeing this & seeing what you considered a win. there is absolutely no way you think he was being genuine and admitted to being wrong? if so, anyone debating you was pointless from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:05 PM
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you’re not giving room for a 3rd “box.” you’re implying that people can either decide if abortion should be banned in its entirety or not at all or confused between the two. the option should be that neither PL or PC is right in its entirety, because if they were it would mean that abortion must be banned completely or not at all, don’t you find that a bit extreme? is there not a possible healthy medium between the two? youre giving a third option but the option is just a check box for undecided…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:56 PM
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then why even make a post for a debate? that’s literally the ENTIRE point of this. you clearly just wanted to state your opinion and have people confirm it and/or unanimously agree. there are men in here telling you how they feel and how feminism has affected them but you are not listening. don’t expect them to listen when you won’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:02 PM
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Clearly, you are not comfortable with looking past any experiences or assumptions, and I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:40 PM
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Who’s bigger picture? Yours or hers? Neither one of ours, that is literally my entire take. It’s not about you. It’s about the women and her choices, stop making everything about yourself You do realize I am a woman, right? If so, if it isn't about me, a woman and her choices, then who is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:38 PM
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"I'm still figuring it out and am not choosing to support bans rn." That means you are undecided. When it comes to law & legality, it means what I said it means. That is why we have the problems we have now; people are so focused on picking one or the other, and instead of the undecided folks saying neither is right, they label themselves as "still trying to figure it out." Undecided folks are conflicted, and for good reason, but have people telling them they need to be PL or PC. Without getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:34 PM
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I said she is not wrong for how she feels, but looking at the bigger picture, she is. I am not living off of my experiences anymore...I used to refuse to have sleepovers growing up and still struggle sharing a bed with someone. But yk what I tell my friends, I say I know that you are more than likely not to touch me, but based on my past experiences with women i cannot make myself share a bed with you, that I cannot comfortably share a bed with anyone, not because of who they are but because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:22 PM
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I am saying women can be wary but still be open to the fact that not all men are dangerous. Not every person, even men, you meet or cross paths with is dangerous. I am not saying you need to smile & shake hands with every man you cross paths with, just be kind and open-minded. That not every man who buys you a drink only wants sex, that maybe they think you're beautiful and would like to take you on a date. I have lived this example, assumed that all men are predator pigs and never gave them a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:05 PM
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Pro-life means that no matter what, a woman has no right to abort that child. Pro-choice means that no matter what, that women has a right to abort a child. I disagree with both. Hope that explains it better, and again, if you would like to further debate on this, make a post for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:32 PM
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You haven't proved me wrong? If you did, you would also be proving yourself wrong as well, since I somewhat agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:29 PM
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I am running out of ways to word this differently for you. I am not sure how you are not understanding what I am getting at, especially when I am not saying you are entirely wrong; I somewhat agree with you. You can avoid them, but you are avoiding them based on an assumption, not a fact. I would imagine being treated differently based on how you look isn't a good feeling. You are coming off as believing all men are dangerous, and nothing can change that, and that women ought to act like all men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:27 PM
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It’s her opinion and her choices because i shouldnt have to live off of her opinions and choices. You asked me a question, and I answered it, but now you have a problem with my answer? I never said my opinion was more valid than hers. Who do you think you are that your opinion is more valid than hers? but arent you saying hers is more valid & important than mine? Again, you are being hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:18 PM
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I just don’t see the issue with women being cautious around people (usually men) than can harm them. I don't see an issue either; I really was not trying to give the impression that I do, and if I did, I apologize. I am just trying to say there is a difference in deciding one is an absolute threat and treating them like one, rather than considering it and being cautious. OP's post & comments are confusing and seem to go back and forth on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:11 PM
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And I am telling you i wont discuss this here because this is not a debate on abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:06 PM
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It's not a bad thing to be wrong either, if you proved me wrong, I would happily admit that, but you have not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:05 PM
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Being wary and treating them all like full-blown predators are two different things, and that is literally what I am trying to get at here. My stove example; the right answer would've been that i shouldve came to the idea that I ought to be wary rather than make an assumption based on my experiences and act on that assumption alone, like straight touching the hot stove. I must see something before deciding if it is an absolute threat or not. I came up to the stove knowing that, despite my experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:03 PM
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I asked clarifying questions so I could answer your question with confidence, but without the answers to those, I cannot. But I doubt you'll answer them anyway, so I'll just go ahead and give you an answer. I can respect it, but I do not agree with it. I see how & why she came to that conclusion, nor can I blame her for feeling that way, but that does not mean she is correct. Because again, all experiences are different, she cannot say that because it happened to her, it will happen to me. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:51 AM
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well if you want to post a debate on abortion, then I'll gladly explain how & why I think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:42 AM
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so you're just going to stoop down to their level? You haven't won the debate, you just proved you're no better than a man ig
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:41 AM
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So I guess I have to explain exactly how I was assaulted for it to make sense... it was not a fight, not punches or anything like that occurred. I was sexually assaulted when I was vulnerable to them. Yes, men are physically stronger, but women have their ways as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:40 AM
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Yes, it is called having a behavioral perspective. If the first & second time I touch a stove and it burns me, and I then assume without looking if it is on or off, that any stove will burn me when I touch it, would I be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:37 AM
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Well, how many men has she interacted with her entire life? If it is 5 out of 100, then doesn't that seem unreasonable? I have interacted with more women than men in my life so far, and I don't consider all women to be a threat. I may be hesitant before getting to know them, but i dont treat them as potential predators. Until I am comfortable and confident that they are not a threat, I do not act otherwise, but I don't treat them as one either, because I don't know if they are or are not. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:33 AM
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You are just trying to argue with people and prove them wrong. You have shown no indication of having an open mind or willingness to consider a man's POV. That is why you simply are not getting what he and I are saying. When people start shelling out insults or baseless claims, it is clear they have nothing factual or strong to rebut with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:25 AM
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I noticed you have not attached any evidence, even when asked...unless I missed it. If you can create an entire post without evidence, then I can comment without evidence. It is not disrespectful to tell someone that, but when they say it to you as well, then you go make a post about it...well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:22 AM
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Yeah, I am trying to find a healthy in between lol. Sadly, I have to learn lessons the hard way, so it'll most likely take someone calling me out on that before I realize I am being irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:19 AM
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You are simply not getting what I am saying. I am saying both men & women are wrong for instantly assuming anything based on gender. Men are offended when women treat them as threats, but at the same time agree it’s wise He specifically said, "all people," did he not? That means he believes both men & women ought to treat all other men & women as potential threats. Nothing in his comment insinuates him being offended, he is just stating his opinion/take...which is the entire point of these debat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:18 AM
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Well, I am not a fan of putting anything personal online, but I will just do it to further prove my point here. I have been assaulted 3 times in my life; only once was it by a man. The other 2 times were women, women whom I had considered friends & thought I could trust. Using experiences is not valid enough for an argument because the experiences differ for everyone, never consistent. It was extremely confusing for me growing up, trying to understand how "all men" are threats when, in my case, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:12 AM
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friend, I'm sorry, but if you looked at this from a man's POV, especially a man who treats women as their equals, this entire post is disrespectful & discouraging
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:04 AM
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thx king. I appreciate that. If you look at my one & only post I have made on here, I have come a long way lol. I have faith in OP, even though they definitely feel much stronger than I did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:02 AM
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Oh wow...was that in the OP or the comments? That is definitely a terrible take. I shamefully used to have that take as well, but seen how wrong that was...I hope OP can too. I decided the pain of admitting I was wrong and defending men when needed be was less painful than the pain of further dividing both men & women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:59 AM
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I cannot believe they have me agreeing with a red pill man, a rarity for me. But this is gold, I fear. Giving us women a bad rep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:56 AM
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Who has lost their manners? If it is regarding my last sentence, that was only to serve as an example. You are only doing the female version of misogyny I have not gotten offended, nor have I insinuated anything to suggest otherwise. I am saying that these are not facts; they are opinions. You can not label all men as dangerous, terrible people when you don't even know them all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:55 AM
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But most feminists only do that by tearing down other men or insulting them...making it hypocritical. You can not do what they do in return and expect praise or a difference to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:47 AM
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"If men really want to go their own way and stop being obsessed with controlling women, why can't they just go already?" "The men vs bear debate really highlighted the selfishness and entitlement of young men, too." Just 2, for example. You are assuming all men feel this way, you didnt you would've said some or most, especially in the title. insinuating a man is more of a threat than a bear can be insulting to some, especially if they are the kind of man who respects women & treats them no diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:45 AM
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And men feel the same way about feminism, does that mean that they are wrong & it makes them misogynists? Why not push for equality for all and not just one gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:40 AM
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Are you not doing the same? especially in your answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:36 AM
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Then why don't you avoid the men you are speaking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:32 AM
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Keep your preferences to your dating apps, cause nobody cares what you or most men want. This is pretty hypocritical dont you think? For starters, you are posting in a subreddit that is made to hear both men & women and their complaints/preferences/opinions/etc. You are stating your preferences, whether it is indirect or direct, you are. If you were going to practically dismiss every man's comment or rebuttal to this unless they agree with you, then why did you post this as a debate when you cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:29 AM
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after looking at other comments, i would like to add that abortion is too complex for this kind of topic. not only is it political but extremely personal to both sides. i am neither pro life or pro choice, the takes i have seen on this are very interesting but seem to stray from what the topic of debate really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:53 AM
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why don’t we just all just stop worrying what strangers want unless we’re interested in them? i know as women how frustrating it can be hearing men talk about these things but they hear it from us too. we fail to see how we do it bc we agree with each other & vice versa. some men end up violent bc they’re violent all around. if they don’t challenge their male counterparts, it’s because they don’t think they’d win. when violent men feel weak around other men, they usually take it out on women sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:41 AM
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…oh so it’s even worse than i thought
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:03 PM
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…oh. i don’t like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:21 PM
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If she is not attracted to him in the first place, then why should she get involved at all? unless... It's for monetary gain, which I find wrong altogether bc that would be using a person for their own benefit. I find older men attractive; most of my friends do as well. My s/o is 5 years older than I and doesn't damage my sanity, unlike the men closer to my age ive been with in the past. He seems to actually care & value me and my feelings. my mother & father are 8ish years apart, they are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:54 AM
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Most young women who believe that they are too mature for the age group are not as mature as they think. Therefore, they are not the women I am speaking of; they are not mature, they are full of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:48 AM
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imo men mature slower than women, it’s scientifically proven. so an older man may be more ideal to some women. that being said…a 20 year old with a 30 old is no bueno. if the woman is mentally mature and unable to be easily manipulated then the age difference is okay, but a 20 yr old women rarely falls underneath that category. if the man is well kept & healthy, he can live a long life. now…i do believe there’s a limit, i don’t think anyone should be with a person that’s twice their age or half …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:05 AM
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preach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:46 AM
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oh she just gets worse with each comment you make 😭 beating a child over something they can’t help…probably divine intervention is the rzn she doesn’t have children. she’d hate me, i’d have to tell her about herself every time i saw her, esp since she’s giving us childless women bad reps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:29 AM
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oh wow…she’s just all around insufferable, i’m sorry you have to be around that. she’s blaming everyone else instead of realizing she’s the problem. hell she probably figured it out by now and thinks being nasty to others who have what she never got will make her feel better about it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:21 AM
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could she even have children in the first place? if i wanted to but felt like i couldn’t or never give the chance to, then yes id be upset. but for me, this is a choice i made willingly edit: she’s wrong btw for making the ones around her be victims of her misery. i hate it when ppl try n make their problems everyone elses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:14 AM
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i seen that some women’s noses get bigger and don’t go back. my nose is already big, i’d be so upset 😭so many things change in a women during childbirth & pregnancy, although i don’t want to do it, i find it extremely fascinating the effects it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:13 AM
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a man saying this means a lot to me. most men don’t realize how hard being a mom can be bc they think it can’t be more difficult than being a father. just out of curiosity, if you didn’t have to raise your siblings, do you think you’d still opt to be child free? also kudos to you, i bet that wasn’t easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:09 AM
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welll…i ain’t come across them either, not saying you’re wrong though but maybe they’re not as common as you’d think. if they were, i’d definitely seen one by now & agreed. but imo, if i make it to 40, childless & single, ill be on cloud 9. i am one of the few that finds peace in solitude so maybe id be rare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:55 PM
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i’m in school to be a lawyer, i’m naturally argumentative lol so i apologize too if that’s how i came across. for further reference, don’t just say “have a newborn” bc to me & few others that mean give birth to a new born, if that makes sense. at least anytime i’ve heard anyone else say it, they’re speaking about childbirth only. now raising a child is definitely easier now than it has been in the past but it’s still not insanely easy and requires sacrifices from both parents. unfortunately some…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:51 PM
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havent came across a single 40+ year old childless women that was miserable or complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:26 PM
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Something foreign to most folks today My point exactly. I'll give it to you, you sound like a good father with the actions you take to help make her life easier, kudos really. But that is extremely rare; you are rare. I wish you valued women and the effort it takes growing and birthing a child...then there would be nothing for me to target. That being said, you being a caring & loving husband/father doesn't change how painful and draining pregnancy can be. I refuse to put myself through that, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:24 PM
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what a pointless comment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:16 PM
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so what about single mothers? unless you think it's solely their own fault theyre single mothers...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:16 PM
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You're literally complaining about women not wanting to birth children. If no one owes anyone anything, then why are you complaining about someone else not wanting to do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:14 PM
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like all of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:12 PM
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yup, further proved my point...keep going!!! I wish I could show the mother of your newborn child all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:11 PM
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i think OC is just saying anything atp to try to prove a point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:04 PM
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Women* have been raising kids for thousands of years. fixed it for ya. This comment of yours just further proved my point; you're disgusting. Feel free to keep commenting, it'll just even further prove my point and make it even clearer you have 0 idea of what you're talking about. How about go n tell your mother everything you're saying here and see how that makes her feel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:03 PM
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you’ve clearly never even tried to put yourself in a woman’s shoes and if you did, you did it with a close minded approach because absolutely nothing you said here proves your point. the fact that you consider childbirth an unskilled labor is absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:53 PM
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Can you explain how you think it's so much easier now that women have no right to complain or not want children?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:30 PM
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Creation requires no effort and only 9 months You know, some women can die during childbirth, correct? Women swell up, get sick, are in pain, and so much more... than we have a man telling us it boils down to little to no effort. It's not just 9 months, it's a lifetime commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:25 PM
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Being pregnant and giving birth is extremely difficult & exhausting. Some women just don't want to have kids, and there are several different reasons as to why, heres mine though: the pain of childbirth I know that most women say that the pain is worth it in the end, and I get that. But nothing will change the amount of pain I'll feel. Also, the idea of having a C-section is absolutely terrifying for me. I cannot willingly sign myself up for either possibility I am not fit to be a mother I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:20 PM
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ooo this is a good one. i haven’t gotten far into the post OP, a little past the second paragraph. but you’re absolutely right bc that is unfortunately absolutely what i do. just wanted to confirm that you’re not wrong for that assumption, ik other women who are like that too. as for their reasonings…well they all differ. i’ll gladly circle back in a few with my reasoning when i have the time to. but i wanted to make it clear that you’re not wrong for that assumption before anyone tries to say y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:25 PM
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believe or not i try really hard to not be so wordy😭i am practically incapable of summarizing things. that’s why i usually am like whatever when ppl wont read it all. however, when its a debate post only then will i be willing to get my panties in a bunch “gotta question what you ask” i’m stealing that, i gotta admit that’s a good one. i wish more ppl practice that idea. hopefully you’ll see me debating on the big screen one day & i’ll use it then. best wishes to you 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:01 PM
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also if you edited earlier, i didn’t see it till after my comment. so thanks i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:37 AM
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you so lucky there’s auto mod & i was got earlier this week…can’t risk it over yewwww. frienemies forever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:36 AM
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yay, I now feel like my life is more meaningful now since some close-minded individual likes me, couldn't...be... any...happier dawg if you can't read past 5 or more sentences, then why did you even enter yourself into a debate? you probably wont even answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:32 AM
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tbh, I was doing better before I replied to you. I had just a tad bit more faith in the world before it. Thanks for asking and literally not replying to absolutely anything I said, aka no rebuttal AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:27 AM
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yeah as a woman who doesn't know how to change a tire currently, if I ever needed to, I'll pull up a damn YouTube tutorial before I go ask a man for any help or even accept a man's help...JUST and ONLY because there are men like you out there, and allowing a man to help me will only further prove your point, which I refuse to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:22 AM
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yup, expected that response. You probably did read it, I honestly couldn't care less if you did tbh, but you AGAIN have nothing to rebut with, so you then AGAIN comment unfunny or tasteless, pointless jabs. Also, the edit AFTER I already commented did absolutely nothing. I knew what you meant when you said OP. Well im.not sure how to rebut it moee cleaely is fhe problem. Like what is the argument? You thought this didn't need editing? You saw someone disagreeing with OP & you and labeled them a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:18 AM
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Thank you lol, but I only go back and forth bc debating is kind of a hobby of mine, I'm a wanna be lawyer/politician </3 However, I refuse to let a bunch of men talk negatively about women in peace, and I'm one of the few women who has too much time on her hands. I am actually shocked by the outcome of who is commenting. I see just a bunch of men nodding in agreement to make themselves feel better about themselves, for whatever reason that may be...I found 1-2 men in the comments who had taken a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:01 AM
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I literally don't know where to start on this. I feel almost like...delirious reading this, i cant make out what you're trying to say or what your take even is. I actually liked how the comment started, but it veered into the worst solution in the world, obviously a feminist one. 'TELL THE MEN TO STOP HITTING THEMSELVES" ahhh okay i think i see what's going on now. So, are you saying that women are always the ones in the wrong and men are just innocent little angels who don't deserve anything le…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:47 AM
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refreshing to see a man saying all this. i feel like im going crazy. to go off of what you said: yes there are fewer enlisted women than men but that is their choice. also, because women are put at a desk & made to be pencil pushers doesn’t mean it was their choice. they give both genders the luxury of choosing their MOS but in the end it’s the militaries choice, not theirs. growing up i always wanted to be in the infantry, but honestly thank god things prevented it since i was too naive at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:27 AM
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didn’t say there was a utopia. clearly you refuse to even be open to the idea of being wrong & admitting it so i won’t waste anymore of my time here bc that’s literally part of a debate. “go and talk to some men” you think i know only women? that ive never spoken to my father or male relatives? you seem to have some kind of resentment towards women, specifically “white western women,” and that’s where all this could stem from. i’m not saying that no women do what OP is saying, i’m saying NOT ALL…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:07 AM
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i got one ✋why don’t you comment something that has actual value or maybe even some rebuttal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:48 AM
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and i literally see the exact opposite, so what’s being said here? is what i am experiencing entirely incorrect? or are you telling me that me & other like minded women don’t know how they feel but you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:45 AM
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not all women are like this. i’m not sure how you got this idea that all women find all men as such a threat…i don’t. when i feel vulnerable, i find everyone threatening, not just men. also im not trying to discredit you entirely on this, but ive never, not once heard a man say he was scared to take his child to the park or any other environment where there’s typically just women & children. women don’t think a man’s a creep off rip just bc he’s a man, its really bc he’s actually acting creepy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:35 AM
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yeah & women who think that are full of themselves i fear. but there’s so many like that, that its almost pointless to try to argue otherwise </3 i usually look past it and look for actual evidence he wants some putang before assuming & then acting on that assumption. i’m also nice about it too bc ive seen women be rude & nasty and then end up being wrong, id hate to be that person even though theres a flag, sorry for assuming. the damn gays stole the rainbow (joke ofc). but i could’ve probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:36 AM
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assuming off of the flag & that only, you perhaps being a gay man is probably part of that. i notice gay men who are good people are able to have several chic friends. but if you aren’t, you’d def have hella more if you were lol. women are just more comfortable with gay men bc we don’t have to ? if there’s any hidden motives if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:25 AM
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tbh it’s like 50/50 on this kind of thing for women. it really depends on the women you’ve been surrounded by, not the ones online. but if she isn’t a radical feminists or in a far left circle…then she’s the other extreme. there are some women that fall in between the two, i’d like to think i’m one of them, but yeah they’re rare. edit: would love for the ppl who are downvoting to explain to me how i’m wrong… i see just a bunch of men goin back n forth about how & what women think & do, no has ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:19 AM
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woman here 🙋🏻‍♀️ if the personality is what makes someone think a man is less than, then it’s the shit personality doing that, not gender. but it’s easier for men that fall underneath this category to say ppl can’t look past them being a man rather than admitting to being a shitty person. there are instances where some women can’t look past a person being a man, however, that’s not common. but that’s a shitty person who happens to be a woman & is using excuses for her behavior. example: i kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:11 AM
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part of me wonders if men think this way subconsciously & make up reasons without realizing. reality is, unless a man knows a woman was a virgin when he met her, & hasn’t “stepped out” he has no other way of knowing if the child she birthed is his (now we got DNA test, amen). that’s why is exceptionally irritating when a man cares about a woman’s sex life when they’re neither interested in her nor in a relationship. for the longest have men been expected to be with more than one woman, for procr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:52 AM
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oh okay so you’re even more strange than i first assumed…because that’s better somehow. finding joy in other peoples misery, yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:42 PM
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So what I am gathering is that I should take into account the oppression men face while combating my own? That women at any point in time have failed to consider the oppression men face, and that's why we can't get past these issues? Until men are not oppressed, neither can women. For example, when women weren't allowed to vote based on their sex, and that only, they should have considered the oppression men were facing...and that they would've decided they should be grateful for what they alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:04 AM
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I really want you to realize how ignorant you are. But you clearly just want to get a rise out of me, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:04 PM
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I called you an incel because I knew it was wrong to, because NOTHING you said implied that. I called you an incel because it was ironic, not because I was projecting. I thought maybe you'd say yeah youre wrong when I said yeah i was wrong for calling you an incel, but...clearly that did not work, and I have lost all hope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:03 PM
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Since I expect others to admit when they're wrong, I must hold myself to the same standards. I was wrong to assume that only you were the one to downvote my comments. i dont entirely take back my sour comment lol, but I do apologize for targeting you specifically. It was only one downvote, and I decided to abandon all critical thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:00 PM
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I know I said i wouldnt reply, but I will gladly eat my words on that. Same reason it happened to men; unlike laws, customs are not designed rationally This. I wish you started with this. With the goals & aspirations I have in life, I need to hear as many takes and perspectives as possible. Truly, I never did think how unappealing the expectations to be a "hunter & gatherer" can be. I mean i doubt men really wanted to go against lions, tigers, and bears, but perhaps felt expected and obligated t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:57 PM
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that is just an excuse for you not to do it, because you literally have nothing to quote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:47 PM
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i never explained because… guess what?😍 you never asked me too. you simply assumed. i’m not explaining to you how i found it interesting, since clearly it was irrelevant to you in the first place. you’re just avoiding admitting you were wrong & that’s okay. why didn’t you quote what i said that made you think i was projecting? or should do you think we should move on that because you say so. that the only important thing here is proving me wrong & not admitting you’re wrong. you’re just not able…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:44 PM
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i also love how you didn’t agree or acknowledge you were wrong about me not taking accountability but only brought up your other poor take of projection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:30 PM
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how am i projecting? if i truly am, then quote exactly what i said that made you think that. if you’re right then ill admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:29 PM
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yeahhhh there is no way you’re genuinely applying any thought process behind what you’re commenting. clearly your goal here is to troll, not debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:27 PM
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ive also taken accountability SEVERAL times through this post so your take that i’m a leftist is wrong off bat. you refuse to admit that because that means you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:22 PM
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yeah i did, i assumed you were an incel based on my limited interaction with you, the few comments you’ve left. you feel like that isn’t right to do so? that i was incorrect and that nothing you said implied you being an incel? then why’d you do the same to me and assume who i was off of a single comment. i was polite until you decided not to be. i was even polite after you were rude the first time. but i guess im just a woman, and what would i know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:21 PM
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yeah im not reading all of your reply or putting much energy into replying back since you clearly cant do the same. i’m also not replying after this. i only find purpose in debating people who actually read what im saying. i’m not saying women are still forced to marry anybody or that it was common in recent times. i’m asking WHY it happened in the FIRST PLACE. also feel free to downvote this comment too. i could care less about the opinion of someone who can’t even understand what i’m saying. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:17 PM
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and that’s a good thing? that your worth and intelligence is determined by the amount of people you sleep with? interesting take. you’ve yet to really comment anything factual that isn’t just a jab at me. you clearly are not equipped to debate and i’m not sure why you’re here trying to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:13 PM
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not surprised. you probably lack the skill to understand and process it all anyways. you’re an incel who can only seem to get satisfaction from trolling others. what a shame and waste on energy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:47 PM
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fall for what? what are you even going on about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:03 PM
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Yes, I am offended, not trying to hide it. I am offended because you called me names and are assuming things based on a single comment. Despite my efforts to admit when I am wrong, there is still going to be someone who just doesn't care about the facts and would rather push some rhetoric to try to invalidate what I am saying. If you acknowledge my ability to admit my wrongs & have a civil debate, then you wouldn't have even made any low-level jabs or remarks. You lack any intellect, which is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:03 PM
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also the take that I avoid accountability is flat out wrong, just look at my other comments where I gladly admit when I am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:50 PM
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My god, I'm not even a leftist. I have not insulted you or made any jabs, but here you are...feeling offended for some reason & enough so to make that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:49 PM
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and science says what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:32 PM
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wasn't trying to scare you lmao, I was just interested in your wording
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:29 PM
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Women are the majority of voters At one point, they were not a part of the voters because they could not vote! Women agreeing with men doesn't change the fact that they decided for them in the first place. Perhaps women only still agree because it's been etched into their brains by society, the society men have built. You get to decide who sleeps in it, Yes, I get to decide, but women didn't get to decide for themselves for a long time. Why is that? Why were women not allowed to choose who they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:24 PM
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yes i agree, but that doesn't apply everywhere. Because one place is matriarchal doesn't mean any other is, as a result of it. NK & the way or why they oppress people does not answer for all oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:06 PM
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from first glance at this link, which wikipedia is a terrible source but anyways, they’re oppressed based on their ethnicity, not gender. i am asking about oppression based on gender only. i have said before that because i am asking about only one issue doesnt mean the others do not exist or play no role. i’d like to make a post in regards to oppression on race/ethics but this isn’t what that post is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:47 PM
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i never asked it, i answered it. so both men and women are oppressed, meaning women are still oppressed. just because men are too doesn’t change anything, it’s still oppression. i was asked if itll be gone, i wasn’t asked what ifs, like if oppression differs or is universal throughout the world. if you think people aren’t oppressed based on their gender in NK, i agree and thats why i didn’t mention it bc it is irrelevant to what i am debating. i am asking about societies where only women were mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:41 PM
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is that supposed to like make whatever else is going on okay? that because there’s a place where everyone is equally oppressed that anyone outside of it has no right to complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:30 PM
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so men never restricted woman choices on what to do with their bodies? like the right to abortion or when they can tie their tubes ? i can keep going. i’m confused on the correlation of the homeless person and women. also what if off rip im to allow that person into my home, then what’s the argument ? “very petty thing to be salty over” just like how men can’t accept the idea of women being better than them. we are ALLLLLLLL sour. i don’t expect anyone not to be, it’s a lot to move past. serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:26 PM
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i made an error, sadly. the only time i used male in my post i decided to put it in the title out of all places. i used to have a tendency to say male and female but have been told by other women that female feels derogatory or not right to them. so everytime i go to write female i think twice unlike when i write male, to me male=man, which to some can be wrong. males haven’t corrected me on the term before so it just doesn’t dawn on me as incorrect in the first place, if that makes sense. i swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:34 AM
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probably long after i’m disintegrated into the earth. i base this on the speed of how things have changed in the past. it’s a possibility but i don’t think it’ll happen soon. i think currently, everyone is capable of being “progressive“ but typically need to be taught that. at one point people weren’t even open to being taught. i don’t think people are bad or wrong to have what i label oppressive takes/views, they’re only wrong if they refuse to acknowledge the possibility of them being wrong. e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:18 AM
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buttttt then society would shame you for cannibalism my friend. which sometimes doesn’t produce alllllll that great outcomes for the cannibal. unless you’re a masochist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:51 AM
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then why did men have them while women did not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:14 AM
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these cultures you mention where women get stoned also allow men to have several wives while the wife can only have one husband. why can a man have more than one partner but not a woman and when she does, it’s considered adultery and therefore shall die?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:28 AM
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now you’re trying to take jabs because you can longer support your take, otherwise you would’ve commented something else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:25 AM
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“dress like ninjas” you brought up religious beliefs regarding women clothing first. i simply elaborated why that even exist. not that is should be that way or is correct. women shouldn’t be expected to cover up simply because some men can’t help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:23 AM
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not sure how you got this from my comments but that isn’t how i feel at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:21 AM
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“our” girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:18 AM
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no…thats why i literally capitalized SOME. maybe i should’ve made it bold too …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:16 AM
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and why is that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:48 AM
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thank you to everyone who dropped their takes & insight, i really do appreciate it no matter what pill you take. i really enjoyed going back & forth with some of you and being able to learn new things. i hope you all feel the same as well, as that is my intention. the goal here was for all sides to debate, as well as learn new things and perhaps even change/alter some perspectives. this was obviously my first post/debate on here, but i look forward in engaging with you all again! i will take wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:37 AM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:01 AM
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You are not all that wrong, sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:43 AM
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no, i don't mean that, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:42 AM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:41 AM
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because SOME men can't control themselves due to their overwhelming sexual desires. Why should a woman cover up to a T? In my opinion, so they are not subject to a man's gaze. If women had the same overwhelming desires, then men would be walking around in burkas or skirts down to their ankles too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:39 AM
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i dont even know anymore, my brain is fried
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:34 AM
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What if that woman has no desire to be pregnant? I am that woman. Even if I REALLLLLYYYY wanted kids, I will never be able to get over my fear of birth. Some women can't even have children, so limiting based on a possible pregnancy doesn't add up. Also, given the typical age of a U.S. president, most women do not have children at that age. Because a woman is rude on her period does not mean she shouldn't be allowed any leadership role; men are just as likely to be rude without a "reason." This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:33 AM
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why didnt woman have those rights in the first place? Did they willingly give them up until men decided we should have them back?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:28 AM
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Did not know that about Greco-Roman mythology. You had my religion wrong, but you are correct on me being into niche stuff. I have a hobby of that & too much free time lol. I was learning about Goya's dark paintings, and he has a version of Saturn eating his son, the only reason I know anything about it. That being said, I am into religions & mythologies and definitely know who the triple goddess is, a deity worshiped by followers of Wicca or paganism. Blessed be, they say. I value knowing just …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:26 AM
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I do agree that woman has shown to have an equal impact. For example, to some, and to me, thanks to a woman & strong-willed mother of Narmer, we have Egypt & its rich history. I believe Egypt to be the best testimony of a woman's impact. Sadly, this does not change the fact that there are more male pharaohs than female pharaohs. Maybe they preferred to be behind the scenes rather than up front like a pharaoh, & I have it all wrong. My comparison to Saturn is flawed, I can agree, and it is also m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:12 AM
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...as of now, history says that Enheduanna is the first to do all I listed, which makes her the first author.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:58 AM
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u might be right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:53 AM
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friend, I fear you are not a no-pill person. Perhaps you change that to better fit your takes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:52 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:51 AM
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I can give several examples of men who failed at running a country or being in charge, and didn't need to be on a period to do it. Did it ever occur to you that a woman's period and pregnancy can give her insight into things a man will never have? Perhaps women are more sympathetic/empathic because of those insights that allow us to better understand others' perspectives. To say a period causes a woman to make a rash decision, like cause a war, then what makes a man decide to go through with a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:50 AM
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well i mean the first author was a woman...the first to write something with meaning or emotions, also first to use first person. We are still writing today, are we not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:40 AM
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You are correct, I have dowry wrong, I'm ashamed to say the least. There is a system, though were the groom's family pays the bride's family, but I cannot recall it. I think it is a religious practice that, although not common, still exists today. If I can find what it is called, I will circle back with it & the sources. I see what you are saying. I still can't shake my take, I'm still open to changing it though!!! i cant shake it because what's not to say they took on the risk of educating thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:36 AM
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well who wants to feel useless? i cant blame them either. But once one realizes that their utility isn't based on someone's beliefs or opinions, what they say doesn't change anything. No matter how much I dislike men, I hate to admit it here, if I want a child, I need them for that to happen. We have lived off the idea that one is greater than the other, so the idea of equality seems taboo. We as women fight to be better than men since most men have taken on the stance that they are better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:26 AM
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Where did I go wrong? id gladly admit my wrongs & be corrected so I can't be wrong on this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:06 AM
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The point there was that it was more about race and class than sex. And it is once again. Then why weren't women given the right to own property at the same time men were? sex still played a role, did it not? And if it didn't, do you think there would have been a different outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:04 AM
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yeah the south has its pros lol, I am hopeful. I would like to believe that there are more "progressive" men in the South, just hidden. That they just don't want to hear all the hootin n holler from their buds about it, & I kinda can't blame them. thx for interacting. I appreciate all the insight so that I can apply it when needed in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:58 PM
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okay then I am wrong, and we simply just can't drop caveman culture. I can stomach that & being wrong, that's why I made the post in the first place I used jobs & bank accounts as an example since it is the most recent one, I feel like, that I could use. I agree that the idea that woman being less capable than men started way before that. I thought using a more recent example would make it more relatable in a way. Because men are no longer fighting off lions, tigers & bears while women stay home…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:53 PM
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it doesnt actually, im not sure how you dont see that but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:46 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:45 PM
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nope im a catholic lol Why were women denied education at any point? That's what I am asking. Yes, women in upper classes were educated, but typically it was to increase their value, not because they truly valued their daughters having an education and wanted them to become great queens or whatever career they chose. The more beautiful and educated she was, the higher the dowry could be. Yes, she may have been educated, but she was limited to what she could do with that education. There might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:43 PM
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you cannot have a function society without limiting female behavior in some shape or form. oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:30 PM
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sure.... I liked the perspective of it all being based on the idea of keeping women "safe." i didnt say I agreed or took on that exact take. but yeah sure i know nothing on human history or biology
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:28 PM
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ah yes, women mustn't have jobs or own bank accounts because it could harm potential offspring. because if she has a job, she could get injured either on the way there or at the job...oh, and that money she makes, she could use it to harm the baby, like having means to leave the home & do anything without a man's permission. oh and god forbid she leaves the home without a man to protect her, because that could be her ultimate demise, since she isn't able to defend herself against animals, etc...…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:24 PM
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A lot of men voted for Kamala A lot of men don't answer for the men who didn't & what their reasons were. Maybe some didn't agree with her policies, and maybe some couldn't look past her being a woman, especially a woman of color. Though only white men could own property white men...MEN, not men & women. then before they allowed women to own property, they allowed any MAN to. Yes, billionaires are mostly men, but so are homeless people, addicts, the incarcerated, and victims of homicide and suic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:11 PM
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It is not me playing "Victimhood Olympics," it's facts, but I'll stop there since you asked & for the sake of the debate. I am happy to hear that the men you have seen & heard give you that take, I wouldn't want it any other way. But from the men I have seen & heard, I couldn't say the same. I am located in the southeast region of the United States...so maybe that could be a reason. I have noticed that most people in the south are the last to come around, but things change for sure. Perhaps my t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:05 PM
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best take yet. thank you. this has altered my perspective on it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:56 PM
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no i don’t, that’s why i said a male, not ALL males. those variety of reasons is what i’m debating about…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:55 PM
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i cannot say the same, however i’m glad that is your reality & i hope it continues to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:53 PM
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im sorry, i should’ve made it clear that im really focusing on historical events. i’m not saying woman now face the same oppression they have historically. i am saying why it happened in the first place. i think we can all agree that men looking at women as equal is not seen throughout all of time. im not speaking on the oppression of races at the moment, but that doesn’t mean i don’t think those exist or play any part. i’m speaking on the oppression based on gender. i must be crazy & imaged peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:53 PM
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i see this perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:42 PM
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i thought i made it clear when i said “a males choice” that i wasn’t saying all men oppress women, my apologies. bob might not be able to oppress me but do you think he’s open to a woman having authority over him, such as being a president? if oppression is not a gender issue then what is it? i mean men were able to vote before women, why may have that been? did they find women less intelligent therefore unqualified to make a sound decision on who or what to for? oppression can be any kind of is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:41 PM
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why wouldn’t men objectify women? i mean, they’ve been treating us like livestock for centuries. women were given off by their fathers to whatever man had the highest bid/most beneficial but that man isn’t going to bid on the least attractive woman either, he’s not worried about the money she can make but what kind of children she can produce and the status her & her family hold … so then why shouldn’t women want men that are of the highest value? why would a women marry an ugly peasant? he has …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:08 PM
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