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And on the flip slide they if we are perpetually single it’s because we don’t “put ourselves out there” or can’t read signs.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/25 04:15 AM
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If only mothers had their own day 🤔
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/25 04:07 AM
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Bodily autonomy exactly…violates bodily autonomy and laws specifically ban analogous procedures on women and girls.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/05/25 01:50 PM
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No, I won’t say I can fully understand it because I haven’t lived it. And k Sumerians sexual violence is on a totally different level than other violent crime. I’m genuinely not trying to one-up you when I say this…I’m trying tong to explain to you my perspective as a male on risk aversion… But I would submit to you that men are by far more often the victims of violent crime in general. So I do understand what it’s like to be afraid of walking home at night in a bad neighborhood. Men are killed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:37 PM
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What “leftists” have said anything like that?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/12/24 01:04 PM
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Can you imagine the reverse?
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/24 11:37 PM
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That’s because virtually every male space gets accused of being misogynist or otherwise problematic or not inclusive enough in some way. Simply drawing attention to men’s problems is belittled dismissed as “what about the mens!”. The only time men are allowed to to discuss men’s issues is if the discussion can be construed as a criticism of patriarchy or if the conclusion is that individual men are to blame for their personal problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 02:01 AM
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Ah gotcha
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 05:18 PM
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Sry whats pfp
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 05:17 PM
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I 100% agree…in 34 now and it not a moral judgement against single moms but I just don’t see myself feeling good about someone who has that priority over me (which they should…being another should always be #1) and also I wouldn’t want to like be expected to become a stepdad immediately. That being said it’s totally not easy…I’m not wealthy and I just want someone to like me for me even if they’re like 5 years younger or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:42 PM
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What did I deny about Jewish history? Cuz I don’t think people are entitled to displace people to return to a place some other people who practiced their same religion once lived? L. Can you imagine if every Irish Catholic who was driven out Northern Ireland decided they should get to show up and kick every British Protestant out of their homes who have lived there for 5 plus generations? Even that would be a less severe analogy because Israel even hands out citizenship to Jewish converts so it’…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 02:49 PM
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One really dude? How many UN resolutions or human rights groups have condemned Israel and ur just gonna blanket say I’m ignorant of intentional law…but as for anecdotal videos …So did you miss the video of Israeli soldiers raping a Palestinian Detainee? Then did I see the crowds that came to protect them from arrest or see the polls that show a huge portion of Israelis condone that activity? You really think the 40k + dead in Gaza were all killed in legitimate operations that conformed to intent…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 02:42 PM
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I’m not justifying anything I’m condemning what Israel did (and I didn’t want to get political but YES imp Israel is a terrorist pariah state that only exists because it is backed by the US). IMO both sides are committing terrorism and each have blame to go around…I am condemning the actions of intentionally sexually mutialting men outside of any active combat zone. Again…ask yourself if Iran did this is Iraqi or American personnel if you wouldn’t condemn it…and I’m guessing you and much of the …
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 02:28 PM
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How is that crazy? I’m making an analogous because if you think morality doesn’t matter in war because it’s war then no one can ever be on the correct side…the nations that have power can’t deliberate on what needs to be done to end things like this. You throw morality out and there justification for everything.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 01:16 PM
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It’s the moral question…to me this is one reason my government needs to dump support for Israel.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 04:15 AM
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There prolly people that think you’re a legit target if u live in a western country…doesn’t matter if your military or any of that…if u pay taxes to your government who does evil things then you’re a legit target…you’re a terrorist to them…should they be excused if they did this to you?
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 04:07 AM
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So bombing children is on the table then? As long is lowers morale?
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 04:05 AM
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She should browse some forums with lovely and see how many guys are virgins who want nothing more than any physical touch or connection with a woman.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 03:38 PM
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Idk maybe hit military targets? Also…we could go back and back about “the day before” dude…Israel isn’t exactly innocent. Days before they were continuing their genocide of Gaza…on and on we go.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 03:36 PM
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Actually dude it kinda sounds like this was just state terorrism …all it did was kill 8 people including a 10 years old girl btw ….they had to know this would ONLY injure or maim people (people that often weren’t combatants in the front line—-Hezbollah is a pelican entity they’re not just military force)…they didn’t eliminate hardly any of these people…sounds like torture and if someone did that to Israelis and side it was a response to Israeli terror…the western nations would condemn it.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:28 PM
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Do you think the IDF soldiers who raped that Palestinian prisoner should lose their penises? Or that a few IDF soldiers should have their genitals burned in retaliation should in be in retaliation? Many people view Israel as a terrorist state if you have not morals in dealing with your enemy…your not defendable as a moral nations as Israelis like to claim.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:25 PM
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Not the point…and I’m sorry I’m Not trying to advocate for a side but war is messy…we just saw weeks ago mobs of Israelis defending literal rapists from the Israeli military police…(and I don’t mean that these people thought he was innocent …they just thought it was okay that they raped a Palestinian prisoner until his anus couldn’t function properly). How would Israel react if they planted some devices that destroyed the penises of IDF soldiers in retaliation.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:22 PM
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Heres the thing: I can’t see anyone celebrating if women had their genitals targeted…even the worst women. Imagine some women that were affiliated with Isis were captured and subjected to genital mutilation by some Kurds or the Syrian government forces…generally society hates Isis and does believe that bad things should come to them but I can’t imagine anyone would openly mock the sexual disfigurement of women…can you see a western liberal woman (who rightfully would hate Isis) out out some twee…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:18 PM
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I’m not trying to debate you in the merits but “terrorist” is eye of the beholder. How would you react if the roles were revered and Israeli personnel had explosives detonated in them while they were going about their day doing normal work…and the people who did it said it was justified because Israel is a terrorist state. Again, you can defend Israel but it’s about the idea of inflicting indiscriminate pain that isn’t even meant to kill people’s but to maim or sexually disfigure them.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:13 PM
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Nah they’re not claiming it yet but not denying…but there’s no one who thinks it was anyone else..
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 04:21 AM
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Yeah sry maybe should have added context but google “Lebanon pagers” and you’ll see it all over the news…basically it looks like Israel somehow was able to remotely detonate thousands of pagers used by Hezbollah personnel (details haven’t been released but looks like they packed some kind of small explosive material and then maybe were able to overheat the battery to trigger explosions. As of now there’s only 8 deaths but thousands are injured). As you can imagine most people wear a pager in clo…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:46 AM
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TBF there was no doubt that she was going to pick a midwestern white guy to “round out” the ticket and I happen to like walz (I’m a progressive tho…mostly on economics). I think there’s still some balance and I’ve heard the gender gap discussed quite a bit…in fact it was a swing with white men that delivered the election for Biden last time.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/09/24 07:53 PM
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This is really depressing when they’re going after kids…I’m terrified of these people. Their perceived victim complex has overridden the most basic human outlook on life.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 12:05 PM
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I don’t doubt some women enjoy intimacy/etc. I just think very few actually crave it on the level men do. I think that’s likely the reason in addition to social customs men are expected to do the approaching. I mean you just retire to explain women “signal” in a progressive feminist era we have now why are women still just “signaling” or “giving permission”? We’ve moved on so many gender social norms in a just a couple generations but this stubbornly stays put and I can’t think of any explanatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:56 PM
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Yeah i do get that…I guess the difference if that I feel like single guys far more often feel like there is a void in their life without a gf or significant other. They’re likely to be depressed about the absence of one and feel like they need it to be happy. Women I feel like more often think of it as something extra or nice to have. Many women would probably never date if it wasn’t for the social dynamic of men being the approacher. They have the luxury of sitting back and seeing if a guy come…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:47 AM
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I think this is an extreme version of pointing out that women more often do not desire romantic/sexual relationships as much as men and are far more content being alone and that definitely causes an imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:06 AM
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There’s a reason bars have “ladies Nights” discounts and never seem to need to or want to create incentives for men to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:32 PM
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Men also work more hours than women on average (which partially explains the “wage gap”) I don’t have stats handy but I know many men who work jobs where they frequently have be 12-16 hour shifts…work strange or overnight hours…go in on weekends…a “9-5” job where they would be able to take the kids to school and be home to prepare dinner would be a dream…often you see couples where the man had such a job and his wife works a regular 8 hour shift and yes maybe she picks up the kids from school or…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/08/24 06:54 PM
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Yikes! And yeah honestly women can definitely be some of the most sadistic criminals…men are more violent but it’s usually pretty straightforward about money or gain or as an act of spontaneous rage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 07:39 PM
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I think that was expressing how that particular northern journalist saw it…I took the article as critiquing that idea.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 05:42 PM
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Can you imagine if a white person expressed the same disdain for issues that affect black People because interracial crime is disproportionately black on white?
/r/EverydayMisandry01/08/24 11:22 PM
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Were any of them cut as adults? Most men would have no way of no way of knowing what they are missing…just like if some weird parents gave their children eye surgery to remove their ability to see color…the kids would grow up to think being colorblind is normal because they haven’t known anything else. Some men are cut as adults and say it makes no difference—some say a small difference…but others have said it ruined their sex life or dramatically decreased their ability to feel pleasure…so I ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:06 PM
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💯Totally agree…and not just for men…for any person who desires a partner. Desiring a romantic partner and feeling a need for one is a normal deeply ingrained human desire. I always like to think how people would react if they had a friend who had not gone out or done anything socially for a few months and then when approached said something like : “Oh…I’m just not hanging out with friends…I’m focusing on myself right now” There may be some people that can live happily as hermits but for most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:28 AM
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Short answer is POTENTIALLY YES. The subtlety lies in that 1) not all cuts are the same (some men have “tight” be “loose” cuts that remove more or less tissue. And also the frenulum can be completely or only partially removed.) 2) most men from cutting cultures are cut at birth of young ages so they don’t know what they hear sensation or pleasure was like before. I am adult American male and was cut at birth…I do not know anything from before but I have experienced a lot of mental health issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:34 AM
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Once again I’d point out if some generalization about an ethnic minority was made and someone said something like “my spouse doesn’t get offended about comments about dangerous black men because he isn’t one”
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/24 03:34 AM
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Idk about the UK but in the US the vast majority of murder victims are male. Last year the count was 4,251 female victims to 14,441 male victims (about 70% vs 30%). Our media also is known for “missing white woman syndrome”…men of color are particularly victims of all kinds of violent crime…so we ignore them?
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/24 02:24 PM
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I’ve literally never seen a male friend become misogynist or angry after being rejected…it’s always a mixture of sadness/withdrawal/low self esteem if anything at all—-most dudes I know striking out is just the norm and something you accept since men are still expected to do the approaching.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/24 12:53 PM
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I’m not familiar with India but if it’s anything like the west…I’d guess most agriculture workers are male and a good chunk of reputable chefs and culinary artists are also male.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/07/24 01:48 PM
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I can live with skipping out on a fast food meal (or really for that matter just going to a different crowded place). I am unhappy being alone as a heterosexual male. I may have friends and family but they really aren’t enough to make me truly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:05 PM
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Just for perspective—most people on the planet were illiterate for most of human history—from what I’ve read it was only by the turn of the last century (around 1900) that a majority of people were able to read & write in their own or any other language….anyone who studied or was learned or went to ancient universities were a tiny group of elite wealthy noble class types. The vast majority of men throughout history did intense physical labor to produce food and died usually within miles of where…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/24 03:00 PM
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I agree but in my case I found at least some women are attracted to me but I think my uncertainty in approaching is also a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:19 PM
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I don’t think it’s only attractiveness it’s the social combinations that make some men romantically unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:03 PM
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I think you need to read up on the migrant workers and others that have ended up in Ukraine.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/07/24 12:24 PM
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I Identify as an Incel and I absolutely do not believe I hate women, and I do not act hostile towards them. Also, someone can be in therapy and still dateable. Not all incels are violent/misogynist/ or are looking for a woman to be their therapist. The label just means we lack intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:45 AM
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No worries
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:01 PM
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Seriously? I mean unless they’re all lying about their occupation you can find numerous incel forum users who are engineers, tech workers, etc and their frustration at having money and not being able to attarct a partner is a huge theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:00 PM
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I never said they necessarily should…just pointed out that the outcome would potentially reduce suffering for a growing portion of the population. Ask yourself though how women would react to men saying “why should I care about making women feel (safe/comfortable/appreciated)” “Why should I care about women getting paid less…they must get paid less for A REASON” Why should anyone be an “ally” of anyone that isn’t a demographic they belong to? Kinda just goes back to the whole “I don’t know how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:57 PM
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That’s would be ideal…and I’m sure some nice women do take the approach you do…and I know everyone isn’t as mean as they seem online but there is not shortage of women being extremely cruel online about men who approached them…mocking men they perceive as ugly/short/weird etc for approaching them. Also I think even if women aren’t cruel about it…there is still an element of looking like you lack self awareness if you try and punch above your weight. If I had a way of knowing a woman at-least fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:51 PM
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I’m confused what you mean? There’s a majority of women who claim no one wants them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:20 PM
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Incel here…I don’t worry about rejection per se…I worry about being perceived as creepy/inappropriate or asking someone out who feels I am way below them. It’s actually kind of an insult if you ask out someone that is more attractive than you and also embarrassing in that it shows a lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:15 PM
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“real pressures”….there are incels who are incredibly successful and work skilled jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:11 PM
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It’s the perception of being unattractive to women…I think it a lot of the is insecure guys who think no one will date them cuz they’re under 6ft or think they’re ugly…and because they don’t approach and women don’t approach them it’s a vicious cycle. Even if just a few women asked them out it would probably break the spell. I don’t see why it would make women unhappy? I’m not saying the burden should be completely flipped and shift to women I’m saying maybe it should be more 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:09 PM
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It’s working for less people all the time…especially with the dawn of online dating. More Men but also women are more single, having less sexual relations, losing virginity at a later age,marriage is in massive decline and both sexes are unhappy as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:32 PM
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Doing away with the man being expected to approach would greatly reduce Inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:27 PM
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If you didn’t give the context, I would assume this was an MRA meme…women DO talk like this and respond like this regularly.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 03:05 AM
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Do we? It’s a recurring meme online I see where guys talk about how they fall in love with the McDonald’s cashier while women are more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:21 AM
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Idk how many times I have to say WE’RE NOT ON a TEAM! Yes it I was handsome, wealthy, well connected etc…maybe you could tell ne I don’t experience any mistreatment. But Poor men, ugly or even below average looking men, men without social capital, men with men tow illness are are not immune because they are men. Women on the other hand can be given “outs” by the status quo cultural norms. I don’t care about the genitals of the people who treat men like shit or stand in the way of a more compassi…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/24 06:48 PM
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That’s the problem …what if ever girl is out my league lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:04 PM
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Are you African?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:08 PM
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I’m one of those said men…and the sting of feeling creepy is just worse than loneliness for me. I think cuz I have a lot of shame about being perceived as wanting something I don’t deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:05 PM
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Yea 100% especially because many of their views are contrary to advocacy for men. Many believe in traditional gender roles which basically puts the burden to provide for the entire family and sacrifice time with children etc for working 60 hours a week.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/06/24 02:26 PM
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This didn’t really change the status quo, it’s just saves men some paperwork.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 04:17 PM
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I mean for most of history democracy wasn’t a thing anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/24 12:29 PM
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When then what are you claiming? What are men doing that women are not to out themselves in danger? The vast majority of violent crime is men victimizing men so then if there is any explanation for why other than men have a callousness or preference for attacking men not women then shah else accounts for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:34 PM
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No. Men are victimized going to work, in daylight etc etc…if you think men are only victimized more because they’re out wandering bad neighborhoods at 2am your mistaken.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:21 PM
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They show a level of deference to women they don’t for men…I think it might even be self conscious but men are targeted for violent crimes far more often than women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:14 PM
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It’s our fault for putting up with this…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 04:40 PM
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I meant the singer/artist he’s referencing
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 01:24 AM
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We’re not on a team—and men also embrace misandrist cultural norms when the target men for violence or theft that they wouldn’t visit on women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 01:15 AM
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Who is she talking about?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 01:14 AM
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I mean “unfair” is a subjective standard…but ask yourself if you could apply the same indifference toward any other demographic of people : was segregation in the southern US “unfair”…if white people just didn’t feel like sharing bathrooms or drinking fountains or restaurants with black people? Isn’t that also a freedom of association issue? Is is “unfair” if the vast majority of female models are skinny or borderline anorexic and also mostly white? Maybe the world just doesn’t like fat women of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:09 PM
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That’d be Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:54 PM
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See that’d be a fair question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:11 PM
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I’m aware—-this is a supernatural hypothetical type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:43 PM
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Never said it was….this is a trade off of perceived male/female privileges…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:19 PM
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1) I have thinning hair which is probably an issue but I am in meds for it that have stopped or at-least slowed it down it seems…but I was of afraid of certain drugs as the side effects cbs be horrible abs possibly irreversible but my hairline still took a beating. 2) on the heavier side…I’m working on losing weight and sort of go back and forth. Honestly I don’t care about being doxxed…I’ll send you a picture if you want… Everything else is kinda subjective—-I admit my social anxiety gets the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:20 PM
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Yeah…I’m just overwhelmed where to start with the skincare there’s so many products
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:57 PM
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Ok if you’re happier than that’s a good thing then!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:53 PM
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I think it’s analogous for people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:32 PM
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No, I think that if an objective their party went around with photos of me and asked “would you entertain the thought of dating this guy if he approached you” (I yea third party because if I just posted pics on Reddit people would be disproportionately kind and give mostly positive responses but if someone else was like in the context of conducting a study and they knew I wouldn’t see the responses they’d be more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:16 PM
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I struggle with weight—-I’m slightly overweight now but lose and gain it back—I’m working in that currently again—also I’m relatively short: 5’8 and have thinning hair (started some medication that seems to have atleast stopped or drastically slowed it down). I sorta have dark areas under my eyes and might look older than I am idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:11 PM
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Just because something is essential doesn’t make it “everything”—I never said I’d want woman to like me solely for my looks but physical attraction on some level is an element (btw is there any objective reason that it also would be sad to be liked “solely” for your personality?—which is determined by chemical reactions in your brain based on your genetics makeup?) people like feeling desired…it’s that’s simple. And I’m glad you asked men out—you realize your an exception right? That’s partially…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:55 AM
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I think your response and some others have kinda vindicated my assumption that women generally don’t want relationships as much as men. For me, It’s would be about being pretty just for the sake of being pretty and treated well generally—for me being unattractive is devastating because I can’t find a romantic partner—and I think a greater share of men are not content being single—there is no moral clause there—I think I probably would be happier if I was asexual but I’m not, I’m attracted to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:36 AM
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No it’s hypothetical for a reason—pretend you are choosing this at birth—but also I guess u could say it would prevent any further assaults would you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:25 AM
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Ok…I’m aware it’s subjective but I really thinks it’s much lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:20 AM
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I really don’t think it’s incredibly low for an average looking to slightly below average looking guy—I think a lot of us couod ask 100 women if they find us attractive and only a couple would likely say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:30 AM
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I don’t believe looks are everything…and Well for the record I’m a kissless virgin in my early 30s now…so I’m living that now and at least you have a husband…I don’t know what it’s like to go on a a legit date and feel like someone of the opposite sex is enjoying spending any time with me. If I was asexual or maybe even just not Romantically inclined then maybe I would have different priorities…but I’m not…I’m heterosexual dude and I can’t change that so it is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:25 AM
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Better than what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:05 AM
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Idk if it the average man exactly but I do generally think that it is a trade off between generally what is common male/female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:37 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:35 AM
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I didn’t realize this term was in some common use and medical professionals would actually throw it around.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/24 06:43 PM
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Be fun to actually to see her realize society would crumble as men are overrepresented in so many industries that keep everything running (women are too of course) but if she got her wish the electricity will go off soon after.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 05:05 PM
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We act stoic because women judge us for it just as harshly if not more so. Dude who ignored him probably realizes women would judge him if he actually expresses any vulnerability and engaged with it.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 05:03 PM
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During war time or in the event of an invasion they do… but yes I agree women should be included and to their credit there are female volunteers.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 01:57 PM
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You think Putin does? I feel and for the drafted Russians but any that enthusiastically support the invasion Im happy to see them die.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 11:33 AM
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I am aware of the videos your talking about and zelensky cleaned house and fired an entire level of officials because of those incidents—-however “kidnapping” =checking their status on the street? Is that different than going to their home? Most large countries have some form of conscription—-Christ if you think what Ukraine is doing is bad you need to see what Russia is doing…and if you care about Russian men going into the future you should want to see Putin defeated and either disposed of hum…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 11:32 AM
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Notice everyone hear playing Kremlin apologist is acting like 1) Russia is offering some olive branch (as if they can be trusted) 2) As if Russia only wants Donetsk, Luhansk, Crimea when they already claim to have annexed the entirety of Kherson and zaporizhzhia:..despite never occupying the former two in their entirety. They have shown no willingness to settle for anything less. 3) As if Russia didn’t lie about the initial troop buildup and as if Putin didn’t broadcast justification or seizing …
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 04:32 AM
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Yes it’s disproportionately affecting Men but Russians occupiers are not my brothers.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 04:23 AM
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I know this isn’t an anti-circumcision forum and many of you have your own beliefs but I do consider the fact that I had part of my genitals amputated without my consent for bs cultural reasons to be by far the worst thing. It’s not the pain in the moment or the potential for complications at the time that depresses me…I genuinely believe my capacity for sensation and sexual function is severely diminished for the rest of my life and I in a way won’t ever get to be a full human being. I do not w…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 04:01 AM
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Case in the point all the male feminists who think they’re more civilized than the redpiller pick Up artists but are basically want to get the same thing through a different method…
/r/EverydayMisandry03/06/24 03:30 PM
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I like how in the process she basically declared that wanting to have sex with women makes you inherently dangerous to women 🤷‍♂️…
/r/EverydayMisandry03/06/24 03:28 PM
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Also, it might be considered weird but since when is a 45 and 20 year old pedophilia? They’re both adults and obviously we usually assume there’s some power dynamic but honestly just sounds like women jealous they know some men age better…many of them would be dating 20 year old dudes if they could.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/24 02:30 PM
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Very poetically put!
/r/EverydayMisandry27/05/24 05:39 PM
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I know multiple women who consider “resorting” to dating apps as something that is beneath them. (And not to be mean but these women weren’t like 10s…they were average to a little above average). That would be a death sentence for men to just expect women to come into their life. Of course the grass always looks greener but I would imagine most women that are reasonably attractive in their 20s or so she just engage in a normal amount of social activity (have friends maybe go to bars or go out re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:02 PM
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They both remove arguably the most sensitive and pleasure-inducing areas in the penis…if some madman abducted people and surgically cut off their limbs..but was very careful to deteriorate the instruments and cauterize the wound—-you would still call it mutilation.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/05/24 11:19 AM
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It’s actually really funny that this isn’t too far from moralist Victorian/Puritan ideas.:..
/r/EverydayMisandry22/05/24 06:06 PM
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Honestly it was a passing thought…once I realized she was distressed and scared I couldn’t not help…but I was afraid there was gonna be some misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:52 AM
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I was out on a run one time and a young girl that was lost (I would guess maybe between 8-10 or something …her parents let her ride her bike up to a nearby school). She was walking her bike and looking confused and then started waving at me to get my attention… I totally thought about pretending I didn’t see her because I was afraid to approach her even if she needed help. But eventually it was obvious she was yelling at me and asking for my attention. She talking in a tone that sounded like she…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:40 PM
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I’m not being obtuse, you’ve just constructed a an arbitrarily justifying discrimination by biological characteristics pertaining to gender while condemning it done so on the basis of race.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:39 PM
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Again why can’t a white woman afraid of black men make the same conclusion without you dismissing them as racist? And would you tell offended black men that they are elevating their hurt feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:33 PM
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Right but comparing everyone with a Y chromosome to a wild animal is totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:17 PM
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Do you think you’ve been around a similar quantity of both?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:01 PM
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I wasn’t asking the hypothetical…there are also endless examples of women encountering men and nothing bad happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:49 PM
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Let me just ask you this…if someone said they’d rather encounter a white than a black person alone at night…and then cited statistics that black men commit more violent crime (and we can of course specific that it’s due to social-economic conditions etc etc and then when accused of holding racist views they say “oh you’re assuming I’m saying all black men are bad? No…what a weird conclusion for you to draw” You might point that the white man is also potentially dangerous (as is the bear) but if …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:44 PM
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That was from a post shared by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:44 PM
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Why would you assume the situation is that you live in the woods? The numerous illustrations I’ve seen connected with social media posts usually show a trail like this : <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:25 PM
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That’s exactly what I was trying to get at.//it’s not that there are some men that would be capable of inflicting more pain and anguish than a bear but what are the odds that you encounter one of those men vs a bear that is territorial or hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:04 PM
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“You know what you get with a random bear” 🤔….do you? I mean people do get hurt in bear attacks..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:42 AM
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That’s usually not part of the hypotheticals I’ve seen online…it’s just described as a “man” (which btw I guess we’re assuming we can properly assumed everyone’s gender I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:34 AM
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what makes the guy “weird” before any actions are taken? Why can’t he be assumed a hiker or doing whatever activity you are doing? Are there any statistics to show a bear leaving you alone is more likely than a guy being a normal human not up to anything? That’s what im getting at that I don’t understand in the analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:29 AM
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You think a bear is less likely to do something violent or avoid you like pay zero attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:28 AM
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Yes and likewise you don’t know if a bear will be uninterested or perceive you as a threat…im trying to wrap my head around the logic or stats that would justify the bear being less dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:23 AM
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Yea but being exposed to a bear is also a gamble…I’m wondering about what forms the basis for assuming taking your chances with a bear is ideally safer/more peasant. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:15 AM
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I mean they are one of the few animals that’s ahead of us in the food chain and minus bead mace or guns were pretty helpless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:02 AM
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To eat or befriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:02 AM
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See and yet women who live in urban or suburban settings live in “man country” and pass by hundreds of men every day…is that scarier than what he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:51 AM
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Most hypotheticals I’ve seen it sounds like legit just encountering a dude in a trail…i imagined it being like just encountering another hiker in a national park who happens to be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:50 AM
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By that logic…people of color in the Jim Crow era should have asked themselves “Gee, why do white people not want to drink out of the same weather fountain or allow us to be in their town after sundown? Maybe we are the problem? What can we do to make white people more comfortable with our prescience”
/r/EverydayMisandry20/05/24 08:39 AM
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Honestly, if a woman had a man retrained she could stimulate him and give an effect ion despite him not being willing or genuinely aroused…. Men can get erections from tight clothing/chaffing…etc…just takes a force acting on that body part to stimulate it.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/24 03:41 PM
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Most murder victims are killed by family members or acquaintances period…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/05/24 08:30 PM
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Even joking about this should draw disgust.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/24 04:25 PM
1

I’m curious where does that 1/500 statistic come from? And even if that proportion of men have committed a violent crime…that doesn’t mean 1/500 you pass said man that you will be victimized by one. I’m sure female New Yorkers walk by 500 men every day and nothing happens.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/24 12:33 AM
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I don’t expect her to care and I don’t judge he for not caring. My problem is that people like her often 1) expect MEN to care disproportionately about women’s issues 2) Try and shut down/shame/delegitimize/stigmatize expressions of concern for men and want to see spaces that promote discussions or those concerns eradicated.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 04:14 AM
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Imagine if you added “Hispanic” or “black” to the front of that and then after you were confronted you were like “oh well it’s true of everyone but I’m talking about black/Hispanic men”
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/24 03:37 AM
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I wasn’t trying to conflate them and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:14 AM
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Economic situation…sure everyone could learn to code and get masters degrees but relationally most people don’t get a bachelors and end up working some job they kinda fall into…used to be you could work at factory in some union gif and buy a house and support a family on hat income…that’s a joke now…and we also live in a incomplete sexual revolution where women do want to be respected and have their own money etc…but many still hold the residual view that men should the breadwinner or atleast be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:56 AM
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Can you imagine if someone said something similar about white people that express fear of minorities or immigrants and implied they need to stop committing crimes at higher rate to make the white racists more comfortable.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/24 12:17 PM
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“On here” as in his own twitter bubble feedback loop?
/r/EverydayMisandry15/04/24 05:59 PM
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More specific about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:25 AM
2

I definitely am not…and full disclosure I’man incel in my early 30s but even when I was younger I never did. I maybe had some anxiety about “losing my V card” in my 20s but that was mostly over potentially being inexperienced and what not. If never would have considered a one night stand or wanted that to be my first time…I wanted a to lose it to what would ideally be a long term girlfriend or even more ideally a future spouse. I basically only crave female affection and companionship…sex is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:59 PM
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Would you agree bald/balding men though are treated like nonhumans in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:17 AM
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I’ll be upfront and say I don’t disagree men are shorting themselves in the foot to some degree:..I am basically an incel and never dated cuz if a combination of insecurities and social anxiety but I’ll try and give my criticism takes; 1) I do not believe porn is necessarily making men unable to date…I think maybe in the past some lonely men would be forced to up their game and make an effort to meet women and break out of their isolation. And today readily assessable porn has created a surrogat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:07 AM
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I just think heterosexual dudes want flesh and blood women…nothing will replace that without human needs becoming radically divorced from our primal instincts. I think the bots and AI are just coping but not curing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:23 AM
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I wouldn’t hit anyone unless I really had to….and if I had to defend myself or someone else then yes I would…However I’ll put it like this: GENERALLY (yes of course there are exceptions) a woman of similar age and health is smaller/not as able to apply physical force as a male counterpart…even more so than other factors…a woman could be 6 inches taller than me and weight 50 lbs more and it’s still unlikely it’s be a “fair fight”….so generally yeah it’s GENERALLY different to hit a woman….int ehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:20 PM
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I am a man that totally identifies with that lol…although I wouldn’t say it “ruins” my mood but yeah the atmosphere of your watching a game or of a local team in an entertainment district is way different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:55 AM
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Absolutely…the older I’ve gotten I definitely have come to appreciate other peoples enthusiasm for interests and hobbies…I think apathy and boredom should be what we are all fighting against.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:55 PM
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For the record I do enjoy a lot of her music even if I only endulge when I’m alone in my car lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:47 PM
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It isn’t for me (I’m a guy). We all have things that we enjoy or are attached to on an emotional level that are “irrational”. Us guys have our sports teams (I personally follow a couple teams religiously and watch the other major sports as well). Men also have guys that are into cars and watches (both provide a functional purpose but there’s no reason to put the money or design into them that many men do). Recently, I actually kinda developed an appreciation for Swifties because yes it’s celebri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:34 PM
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I actually had a few good experiences in the past but I think it became infected with wokemongers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/24 06:35 AM
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Oh I’ll have to check that out.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/24 05:05 PM
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Hope you’re right lol
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/24 01:25 PM
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“Almost every male figure in my life has been violently abusive to me” I just highly doubt when anyone says something like this this…and I just assume it is misandry based on their own bad home life or maybe growing up in some insular toxic community like a cult or something. Just imagine if someone replace “male” with “black/Hispanic…etc…” No one would give someone who said that the benefit of the doubt that every black person in their life was horrible…the assumption would be that they are rac…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/24 01:25 PM
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I totally agree…just saying that’s how many women and almost all feminists think…they believe more rapist are never punished so in order to bring them to justice it’s justifiable to make prosecutions/arrests easy for law enforcement.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/24 11:37 AM
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Sad thing is I think most women think it’s okay because they’re convinced more rapists get away with it.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/24 08:06 AM
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Could just as easily ask “What does the Planet need Humans for?”….meaningless question other than just to express negative beliefs men. Sure plenty women are happy with out men and vice versa…so what? What do you really “need” anyone for? There’re hermits that left society and lived by themselves for long periods of time who apparently didn’t “need” anyone. I’d you are someone who has 3 siblings do you “need” the 2nd and 3rd sibling? Would life still be be fulfilling if you only had one sibling?…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/24 07:09 PM
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Yeah idk what happened other than a moral panic or maybe it got radicalized as the more redpilled incel subs were banned and those users flooded in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 11:56 AM
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God forbid men ever want anything non-platonic.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/24 12:53 PM
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I’d say your partially right but I would add: I don’t think it’s impossible that maybe looking more attractive at a glance would open a man up to woman that would be more so attracted to other qualities…for example I watched a series of women questioned on if a man losing his hair would be a deal breaker and one answered “well I mean I wouldn’t leave someone if I was already in a relationship with them. This essentially means “I wouldn’t let a bald guy pick me up at the club abs go home with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:49 AM
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So you’re saying #notallwomen…also I thinks she probably has laughed at mens pain…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/24 12:11 AM
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Definitely is for my social anxiety…I don’t feel like I deserve to take up space or anyone’s time…even servers of bar tenders I feel like I’m bothering them with my presence cuz public spaces are for attractive people and especially women. I know part of it is my own anxiety but I definitely notice how much nicer and attentive service industry staff are if you are in a group with women and especially attractive women. When it’s me and other make friends that are about my looksmatch it ranges fro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 10:14 PM
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As a self identified incel…I think we’ve lost the culture…I recently got banned from incelexit which was the last incel-help related space (oh btw incel*tears is still operating and hasn’t been banned despite it being mostly culture warrior types posting screenshots of them provoking mentally I’ll people and to communally mocking them). All I did was basically make intactivist arguments in the context of my personal feelings about my own body. TBH I blame the redpilled incels…I really hate they …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 03:46 PM
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Thanks! I do feel a need to distance myself though because unfortunately the incel subculture is very redpilled and right wing and a lot of incel spaces do at least glorify violence and misogyny…but I agree the condition of being an incel itself is not violent or does not incline one to advocate any particular politics really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 03:29 PM
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Thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 07:06 AM
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The only issue I really have with what you’ve said is that…it’s true that not all circs are the same…you seem content (even though you didn’t mention sensitivity/feeling etc). Some men have their frenulum virtually intact…some men have it fully removed and and carved out…and even in circ crazy USA you see women’s magazine giving sex tips that refer to the frenulum as essentially the make g spot. That’s one example but there are other ways in which circ can be compared. The ridges band and foresk…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/24 10:30 PM
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This would be like a make janitor complaining that women’s bathroom stalls don’t need individual trash cans…also I bet slot of the women comparing about this are into body positivity to the extent they think obsess people shouldn’t pay extra for taking up two seats on a plane
/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/24 02:34 PM
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Basically an incel…just not an alt right one
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/21 12:46 AM
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I definitely am not…I have always seen class and economics as paramount in social status. On the flip side…it depresses me to see fellow leftists so dismissive of male suffering or even hostile it. I honestly feel like the world just hates me sometimes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/21 12:06 AM
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I mean again... I don’t cate about living better than women in old age.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/20 12:18 AM
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Just cuz people live long enough to get it... I’m not concerned with disease in old age really...I’m concerned about my young life being fucked up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/20 03:24 AM
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I’d rather have lupus that have twice the chance of dying in a pandemic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/20 07:03 PM
1

Auto immune disorders don’t kill as many people as pandemics like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/20 07:01 PM
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What advantage is it to have a shorty immune system that can’t fight off a virus as well as a woman?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/20 01:46 PM
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Just learned that among all the other awful things about being male...we have worse immune systems too, I hate that I was ever born a male and really at all... even Mother Nature hates us and thinks we’re disposable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/20 10:33 AM
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Is it bad if we actually are? (Ducks head) I don’t identify with the hateful 4 Chan culture but I meet the criteria I think, I sometimes post on r/incelswithouthate. I think incels are a symptom of our modern culture and to a degree the misandrist aspects. Of course they are reacting in a wrong and horrific way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/19 08:33 PM
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