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tony1449/r/seduction28/04/16 11:45 AM
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Do both A and B. Why limit yourself? Get valuable experience and work towards the girls you like. In fact go past them. Work on making those girls you think are drop dead gorgeous as if they are part of the "meh" group. A wise man once said: "Does your dick know she's ugly or fat?" *Note: I've found myself attracted to girls that weren't physically attractive and turned off by girls who are beautiful. Personality, you'll find does matter.
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:59 PM
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Join a frat is the classic answer. Its a automatic way to get social standing. However groups unlike frats are also great. Maybe join a physical club like wrestling, water polo, or soccer, or even ultimate Frisbee. Any group and be active in it will get you friends. If a club is still active, attend a meeting, ask how you can join and make an impact. Make the club better off because YOU joined it. Say "YES!" to new experiences. Be brave, its okay to be scared. However the ultimate answer is be u…
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:53 PM
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I think this belief is limiting yourself. Convince yourself it doesn't matter. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/06/16 05:03 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:38 PM
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I'm not perfect and i'm always trying to get better. I started when I was in high school but I've recently (several months ago) had some major epiphanies. Like you even said yourself you always think its going to be harder than it actually is. Everyone wants to meet a cool dude. Something that has helped me immensely is holding beliefs that might not be true but are beneficial to yourself. For example: I think I am way superior and better looking than most other people. That might not be true bu…
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:21 PM
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You see the difference between me and you is that I approached 50-60 girls my first day and it was brutal. I was ditched by some girls, it was awkward. I quickly improved. Trial by fire. You can lose your "mojo" but it can be obtained again if you remember, girls are just like you or me- human.
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:51 PM
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Well you can choose to not believe me, that's fine. One way I might do this is: Make eye contact, I smile genuinely and I'll say hi or whats's up and if the phone is still up I say "Your gonna wanna pay attention for this, put your phone down." or something along those lines. I keep a fun outgoing vibe. Then game is made.
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:23 PM
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That's pathetic. You can be better than that. Go out and practice talking to girls, cold approach. Pretend you are that suave cool guy who gets the girls. Act like him if he were you. Approach as many girls as possible, even if they aren't pretty. Be genuine and friendly. When you first say hi you want to do 90% of the talking at first until she gets comfortable. Remember let the conversation flow naturally and don't talk too fast.
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:17 PM
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You are simply wrong and if you weren't wrong why worry about the stuff that you can't change? Just get better, improve yourself.
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:05 PM
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Its works for me. You just need to feel the vibe. Be confident and playful when you say it and it will work most of the time. Also the club is different from outside.
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:04 PM
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I hope you continue to improve your game, or don't.
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:59 PM
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Tell her to put it down? You have to do this in a way that shows you expect her to put it down. If she resists be playful, be creative. Do what is aligned with your personality. If she was more interested you wouldn't encounter this problem so the best advice is approach more women, get more experience and think hard about how you could have done better after each day of interacting.
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:50 AM
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You need to approach more girls, you need more experience. How do you get better at other skills?
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:47 AM
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You only look like a creep if you look or act disingenuous. Follow social and cultural guidelines while appearing genuine in what you do. Convince yourself that you are awesome and the girls already like you and if they don't, don't sweat it.
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:45 AM
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Yup you are correct. Lucky for us men, looks are only 10-20% of the equation.
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:42 AM
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I'm always smiling everywhere I go. You have to act a way that fits your personality if you were confident and weren't worried about girls sleeping with you. This guy needs practice, everyone needs more of it.
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:40 AM
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I just told you how to start doing it. There is no easy way. Either just do it or become content with having poor social skills and poor game. Practice conversing. Work your way up. Choose low hanging fruit until you can jump to the next one. (In reality you should just go to all girls of various hotness and treat them all the same.) Looks barely matter, its all about confidence and how you act.
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:24 AM
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You need practice, learn to hold a conversation with even the least attractive girl. Keep doing this and work your way up until you realize everyone is the same.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:07 PM
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Go to your local mall or social gathering of choice and talk to everyone you see. Work your way up, start as far down as you need to. (Grandmas) When you get this practice you should come to the realization that women and men, attractive or unattractive are pretty much all the same - people. They are people just like yourself.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:06 PM
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Read his post history, he's a fake. He sounds really unhappy and miserable. Work on inner game before pledging yourself to the red pill.
/r/seduction10/05/16 02:34 AM
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Then what was your issue? In our society the woman is the one that is supposed to push for relationship. Have fun and if you really like one girl you can try. Literally just hangout with one girl regulatory often and you'll get a relationship.
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:28 PM
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This sounds like bullshit, I hear this same shit all the time. Getting a girl to fuck you can be the step onward to a relationship. If you're a stud that every girl wants to fuck, don't you think that stud could start dating if he wanted to? Learning this stuff won't just make you get women to fuck you but also like you more so. You can get relationships too if you want. Fucking is just the focus for most guys.
/r/seduction05/05/16 02:45 PM
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What else could it be? Of course it is. That's what approach anxiety means.
/r/seduction01/05/16 06:03 PM
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Read sidebar.
/r/seduction01/05/16 04:35 PM
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Yes. Fake it til you make it. It absolutely works.
/r/seduction29/04/16 12:36 PM
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A PUA is confident with himself and read the sidebar first.
/r/seduction29/04/16 03:20 AM
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Okay dude, sure. Not like there's another part that's crucial to that advice or anything.
/r/seduction29/04/16 03:07 AM
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Maybe there is some miscommunication going on. I am always pretty clear that I'm attracted to these girls. Either I say it or show it through body language. Being afraid to declared your interest is a beta move.
/r/seduction28/04/16 06:19 PM
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I highly suggest watching some of the rsd videos on YouTube. Also click top posts and sort that way.
/r/seduction28/04/16 05:13 PM
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I completely agree with you. It is rude for me to say that and I should read it.
/r/seduction28/04/16 05:12 PM
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Not if you make it fun for yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/16 05:02 PM
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Good point. You have the right idea.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:58 PM
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You have the right idea but others do not. I want this place to be new friendly not a place of shitty advice.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:56 PM
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I disagree with you. Always assume she likes you unless she makes it clear. Not everyone is super aware and some girl's have too much pride to let you know. I say you shouldn't worry.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:55 PM
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HOLY FUCK WALL OF TEXT. TL;DR Can you abbreviate? Edit I read your post and it is heartwarming. Good luck but I sense you aren't there just yet. Go out and approach, don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction28/04/16 03:09 PM
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I think we need to improve the sidebar but i'm unsure. I agree with you and once again, your doing a fine job. I just feel bad for the kids who look for advice and get turned off before they can really discover what it means to be PUA. I was there and I bet you were too.
/r/seduction28/04/16 03:07 PM
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I think the sidebar needs to be redone. Inner game is just as important, I think more so, then outer game. Sure you may get results but it won't make you happy. We need the 10 commandments of seduction, one of them being learn to first be happy by yourself because a girl won't solve that problem.
/r/seduction28/04/16 03:04 PM
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Good work. You're doing a good job but there must be something we can do to improve the sub.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:57 PM
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Hmm oops if that's the case I misunderstood her but she should have been clearer replying to my comment. I'm an asshole (because I'm tired of the bullshit), girls love me. Go figure.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:41 PM
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That's the wrong question and this tells me you need to work on your game more. You're insecure otherwise you would have said something already.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:40 PM
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Yes. I've notice the last thing you say all the time. It blows my mind. "I want to fuck this girl but don't want to say hi to her because I'm shy, please help."
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:23 PM
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A man doesn't give a fuck about what others think of him. A man is nonreactive to bullshit. A man does what he wants because he wants to and no other reason. A man puts himself out there even if he's scared or nervous. A man can flirt with a girl in front of a crowd of people watching and not flinch. A man is confident in himself and does not seek validation from others. A man get denied by the girl of his dreams and still be happy. A man can be alone yet content.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:14 PM
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Completely agree and i'm glad someone understands where I am coming from. I say this because 3 years ago I came here needing help and It sucked. Then I improved myself through a trial by fire. It is disappointing that there might be guys who were like me coming here being told the shit they want to hear but not what will help them.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:11 PM
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God she sounds low quality as fuck. Do whatever you feel like but don't care. If she says something that sounds like she is confident then react as if you don't care. Answer "meh" to her because shes probably insecure and looking for a man to make her feel better. This should be easy but don't worry about her and go out there a approach some girls you pussy.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:07 PM
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Pretend she doesn't have a boyfriend and act confident. Pretend you are a tribal leader. Act like him. Be non reactive to her bull shit. If you want to do something do it but also remain socially aware of the situation. Don't be afraid to touch her but you just need to feel the vibe and act accordingly.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:05 PM
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Holy fuck depression and insecurity alert! Dude you need to get a hold of yourself. Care less and improve yourself more.You sound so needy and a girl will not make you happy. Learn to be happy by yourself first. Watch some of these videos I highly recommend them. Go out and approach girls and pretend you are the tribal alpha male and start acting like him. You can do it because anyone can. It's not hard once you learn to how.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:01 PM
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I don't like tinder personally. I love human to human contact. You got this man as long as you self reflect constantly you'll get there. Don't worry about the results too much.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:56 PM
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Learn deep breathing. If you feel yourself anxious breath through your nose and fight for the deep breath. Out through your mouth like you're smoking. Close your eyes if you have to and just think Zen and peace. Don't worry about her and imagine the good that can happen but realize you will be fine if the bad occurs. Then smile like the apha male you are and get back to your conquest.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:33 PM
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You were the provider not the hot stud. The goal is to be the hot stud with good genes first and if you want, let her find out over time you're also an awesome dude that could provide. Women fuck the stud and get pregnant and latch up with the insecure provider. Don't let this happen.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:27 PM
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Go out and talk to girls. Even when you have a date or even 4 dates still approach. You come off a little needy and like you don't hookup with girls often. Don't be too eager to talk to her and don't sound impressed by her too much. Reflect yourself and think of what you may have done wrong but conversely don't read too much into the texts. You have no idea whats going on in her life. Pretend you are the leader of a tribe and think of how he would act. Also fill your day with shit to do. Don't b…
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:23 PM
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Read The Game by Neil Strauss.This will give you a baseline. Remember that even if something contains poor advice you can still cherry pick and learn something from it. Always keep an ear open.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:18 PM
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This is beautiful advice! I fully agree. Even the "10s" can be obsessive, especially if you act unimpressed and nonreactive with some of bitchier girls.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:14 PM
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I've decided to do this. I'll be more active on this sub because it needs it. I also agree there are many ways. I feel that some of the people here are asking what do rather instead of asking the better question how to do it.
/r/seduction28/04/16 01:08 PM
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It means nothing. Probably just liked your shoes but the even bigger problem is that you made a post about this shit.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:29 PM
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You're right but those posts have up-votes when they should be down-voted to hell and by posts I mostly mean the comments. I feel like we need approved posters and not let everyone give advice.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:27 PM
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I'll look at the posts right now and show you. I do agree that this sub can only be used by search TOP by weekly or longer. Otherwise the constant posts are shit. One Two Three Four (Makes me cringe and the mod has a negative score) Lol that reply though.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:16 PM
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Completely incorrect. How is this deceitful? Approaching confidently is already an indicator of interest. If you are a woman please learn more about pickup because you sound like you have no idea what you really desire. I do this and it works specifically because I am genuine with a bit of playfulness thrown in.
/r/seduction28/04/16 11:41 AM
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Gym, Fashion and confidence. Don't give a fuck what people think and be genuine. Watch these guys
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:18 AM
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You haven't met enough girls then. You'll meet them and they aren't fun.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:13 AM
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What you are saying makes you sound desperate and insecure. All of the advise in this thread is so terrible. Go up to her and ask her "how's it going"? Then project confidence through your actions. Don't act needy. All those girls are people too, talk to them like they are a dude you want to sleep with.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:11 AM
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This sub is indeed shit. I see terrible advice all the time.
/r/seduction27/04/16 08:22 PM
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You should be talking to pretty girls all the time not just when it is comfortable. Everyday look and you should see at least one any day.
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:22 PM
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Go by yourself, you end up getting girls who turn into good friends if they aren't interested.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:49 PM
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Go (with a few friend or not) to town or the beach or any social place and just start talking to random people. Just do it, talking to random people, guys and girls, will get you pumped and ease yourself into things. Talk to girls and tell the ones you like that they are cute or pretty. Get number and ask to hangout again. If you get your friends involved with this you will push each other and it will feel way more fun. If you "bitch out" you will hate yourself so just go out and talk to girls!
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:23 PM
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You are very lucky. Young girls on cruises seem to almost be looking for these quick romances. Defiantly go to the teen club meeting and talk it up. Make sure to make yourself the most confident one in the group. First impressions count. From my personal experience in this exact same situation is that being the confident one at the first meeting WILL make you the most desired (Even by the males friendship-wise).
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:12 PM
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I feel like you're trying to make a joke that involves your name.
/r/seduction18/06/12 03:24 AM
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