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Agree, the fitness community is very similar to the PUA OG's. I just get disappointed when I meet guys who I can tell are struggling and looking for answers, and just like I once did, turn towards people who have no answers and try to manipulate them for their own ends. TRP is basically the mutant child of the same guys who were originally on r/seddit the misc etc who got disheveled and started blaming everything on looks and money etc. The biggest problem for these guys is that they think about…
/r/seduction28/03/15 03:44 PM
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I liked your post, I think it gets to the heart of the dilemma most of us former PUA community guys feel. Personally I hope this subreddit and community is extinguished for good and most guys on here realize that getting laid doesnt really mean much after it happens a few times, unless you are seriously lacking in intelligence of ambition. I think most of the gurus that people admire such as Tyler, Julien, Chris GLL, Sasha etc are all frauds. This whole community was created as a way to target a…
/r/seduction26/03/15 10:53 PM
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good post. PUA was a money making machine which is now on the verge of dying as gurus are exposed as frauds. It exploits socially retarded or damaged men who live life thinking in binary about lay count and masculine value. I used to be one of those guys. The second I started trying to "date" and meet girls in normal ways, I quickly found an attractive girlfriend and got to experience sex etc. If you remain self conscious and looking for cheat code formulas.. hate to break it to you buddy but yo…
/r/seduction26/03/15 10:20 PM
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Also I think its a given if they are attracted or not. Generally you dont go on a date if you arent attracted unless you are low class trash... and most respectable girls wont do this
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 07:59 PM
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Nah I did, and ultimately found a great girlfriend I'm happy with. I think TRP seriously underestimates the number of inexperienced but cute girls who want to find a relationship with a smart, ambitious, masculine, and chill dude. Sure the typical sorority or club slut might put out like that... but for the most part any quality girl will not. Its a myth that top quality girls do one night stands. Trust me I have been around enough super rich, super good looking wall st dudes and even the most n…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:34 PM
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WSO is an ok starting point but the best way to learn is to learn from the best. Read real biographies/autobigraphies and or watch videos on youtube. Watch interviews with top hedge fund guys like Ray Dalio, Soros, Paul Tudor Jones etc and learn how they got where they are. I found LOTs of parallels but it is up to you to understand and integrate into your own personality. If you are more interested in entrepreneurship watch vids with Elon Musk, Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos etc and find out the common…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 10:23 PM
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Some good stuff here, but I would take WSO with a huge grain of salt. I recently lost my job from a bank so I have the time to respond to a reddit post. Most people who are actually working dont have even 5 minutes to write a post, much less the 30-45 minutes this post likely took. WSO tends to be full of college kids and wannabes so it has a lot of manosphere overlap without the best credibility. I'll also add that I worked 2 different jobs on wall street while highly highly depressed. It is NO…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:56 PM
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Yeah man I feel you. Lack of social circle + nerdy job is always tough. I think bars can still be decent venues depending on the type of place they are. If you go to a screaming loud, packed bar in midtown manhattan for example you will see a ton of really hot but spoiled, entitled, and general cunty girls. Basically these venues attract "sales" type of girls who know they are desired and expect nothing less than a pro-athlete. If you go out to a more hipsterish bar in brooklyn you might see som…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:37 PM
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I actually highly highly recommend dating apps like hinge and coffee meets bagel.. and there might be some others. Tinder type of apps attract very low quality girls like that in the original post. My observation is that there are many very pretty and sweet girls who dont like to drink or go out and therefore end up spending a lot of time with other girls or with a select few guys --who they may or may not be attracted to. I also found dating apps are a nice confidence booster for inexperienced …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 03:28 PM
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agree 100%. Like I said above I think TRP instills this fear because most of the girls encountered by the original TRPers were through bars, clubs, and or random street encounters. Girls who are impressed or willing to have sex with guys in one night stands or completely randomly generally tend to have a low threshold to sex in general.... so they are usually someones cum dumpster at some point. Self respecting girls who dont have sex outside of relationships (which I learned in my mid 20s actua…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:01 PM
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I was lucky enough to find a cutie who has never had a bf before.. This is why I dont like PUA and a lot of TRP methodology... it tends to push guys towards women like this who have had ridiculous amounts of sex with random guys some of whom you cannot beat in terms of sexual prowess, so even if you end up getting laid its unsatisfying or pointless bc there is no long run benefit. If you want the type of girl you actually want to keep you need to meet girls through friends and benign activities.…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:46 PM
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incredibly stupid example... if the guy is really good looking, cool, and has a great job he will find another cute/hot girlfriend with ease This girl just sounds like a grade A bitch... nothing frame can do about someone who is just simply not a good person
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:41 PM
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She cant mention she needs a guy who at least looks like David Wright though.... because then the comments would call her shallow. Women like her will fuck $8/hr construction workers but complain that there are no good guys when Amit Patel or David Yoon are single $300k earnings investment bankers who would love to even take her on a date. Sad fucking world lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:45 PM
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lol at putin shaking in his boots... so fucking true if anything guys like soros, david rockefeller, putin love whats happening... chaos theory in action with social causes used as a ruse to allow for global despotism and resource re-allocation I'd love to ask these chicks if they know why there is a war going on in Ukraine? but I'm sure they would have plenty to say about the state of rape culture in america (the most liberal country in the fucking world lol)
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:41 PM
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This post is pointless: The average redditor on TRP is not an "alpha" no matter how hard he tries. Alpha-ness is determined at birth, it is a combination of testosterone, upbringing/social development, and favorable genetic combination. True alpha males -- the pro-athletes, Mathew Mcccoughnahey's of the world make up less than 15% of all men, yet all men consider them their rivals. TRP is rapidly turning into its namesake by exposing LMS (looks, money, status), and stepping away from the ineffec…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:30 PM
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Right. I'm glad someone else sees this. If wealth mismatch was enough you would see a lot of mismatch pairings but you dont. You need pretty extreme "it" factor in the western world to pull "models". The pua reality of game is just another scam that was made the earn the founders (mystery, neil strauss, tyler rsd) easy money and status of their own which would actually make them attractive.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:37 PM
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nyc is the most looks rigged city in the world alpha in nyc = male model / nfl player looks I know gay guys in nyc who have fucked tons of stunner 10 girls before "coming out" but pretty much every dude knew they were gay... girls were hoping they were not.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:34 PM
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This is COMPLETELY FALSE. Profiles w/o pictures rarely get viewed and are not memorable. Best advice is to use the best possible professional photograph of yourself. Dont go for something quirk... standard and as handsome as possible works best. Also this is a place a tad bit of photoshop can make a HUGE difference as a memorable photo will help you get into the lap of recruiters.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:52 PM
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Its also Brazil.... its not like these rules condemn slut shaming or encourage sharing the same alpha dude implicitly like in nyc or the west in general go there for yourself and you will see what i mean :)
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:47 PM
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It depends on what you look like and what girls you are going after. If you are ugly, you will not get top tier girls save for becoming a famous rockstar or actor. Even ugly hedge fund billionaires are married to plain jane women, because they know they would attract the lowest level of attractive gold digging filth. For top tier girls you need either looks OR status OR money (for gold diggers)... that is fact in the western world save for a few outliers and the lower class (you will see mismatc…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:24 PM
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I am not an old guy myself, but I have over time figured out what exactly I'm good at an dedicated my life to this pursuit. College was hell for me because I followed a lot of the dating advice on the internet, and when it didnt work, left me completely depressed with no will to work hard or pursue anything. I spent countless days in my room just smoking weed and jerking off because it all felt so futile. When I discovered investing it completely consumed me. I spend 12-13 hours a day working on…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:34 PM
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you clearly have no idea what a 6 or 7 girl looks like
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:43 PM
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yeah he would get an ugly short girl....
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:36 PM
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this argument makes no sense... the 6'3 brother gets laid a lot and his better looking 6'3 brother doesnt... so by this logic an ugly 5'5 guy should be getting laid if he has a good personality think about that again. The argument is completely retarded.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:05 PM
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Yes Liam Neeson is tall, has a rugged masculine facial/body type. He is the type of "ugly" man that women are drawn to purely due to sex hormones, like many MMA fighters and other pro-athletes/ Danny Trejo types. My point is he has the masculine charged appearance to appear "brooding" and "dark triad". Replace an alcoholic asshole Neeson sitting at a bar with a George Costanza look alike of similar temperament and the description will become "alcoholic loser". Bundy was confident, but this was m…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:56 PM
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If wall street traders bet on ideas that had a .0001% chance of exponential payoff, would they be good trades? That's what you and many of the uninformed TRPers with no real world experience are trying to sell a largely very young population of this sub. What you are advocating is "pie in the sky" naivete. People who dont have the genetic value should be working EXTREMELY hard to compensate if they want attractive girls. Confidence is a cop-out with a very poor historical track record even withi…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:52 PM
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Right all I'm saying is that the OP's logic is different. He's not saying that HE is better than the girl's he is currently getting. He realizes his weakness and instead of covering it up via the personality and confidence BS (which is actually fairly similar to the feminist's use of "intelligence") I recommend he does something tangible that will actually have some value to women... money, status etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:37 PM
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Just out of curiosity are you African American? I just looked through your post history. do you normally date other black females? And yeah, maybe you are man. I dont like to get into specifics bc it sounds sort of gay, but nowadays I think the confidence and charm MO is important for society to feed men. When I was hugely into the "game" element I did get some girls...but it never helped me get girls I really wanted, they always wanted my good looking friends whether socially retarded or not. A…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:35 PM
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This is inane. You think that guy is unconfident/insecure based on his looks? ---> you have proved my point exactly. Women hamster away that guys are "confident" in reality they are just socially normal and handsome. The problem with the dark triad argument is, it does not apply when the man is ugly. Only good looking men pull of the dark triad ie if a guy was an angry mean drunk sitting at the bar and didnt look like Liam Neeson, women would be terrified of him not interested. Go to any dive ba…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:21 PM
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if a guy is short and ugly... w/o money or some significant talent based status (music, sports, comedy) he is not getting a hot girl regardless of how confident he is unless he goes to/lives a poor country A short and ugly guy with confidence will get a short and ugly girl. A short and ugly guy w/o confidence will get NO one. A good looking tall guy will get someone regardless of confidence, money, or anything else, but his upper limit is the very upper echelon of attractive females.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:06 PM
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Key is the guy's "league" if hes short and ugly ---> doomed
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:54 PM
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Musculature is genetic as well. I dont think its surprising that many of the best looking guys facially such as pro-athletes also have the best bodies. Higher testosterone --> better facial features and better body Look up what ugly bodybuilders like Lee Priest looked like before steroids... the reason why they look monstrous is because of synthetic androgens and extremely OCD dieting. Guys like Calvin Johnson look better in terms of physique by simply existing without training or diet.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:41 PM
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lol looks are subjective between choosing Salma Hayek and Jessica Alba because both of them are HOT saying that a girl choosing between George Costanza and Mathew mcconaughey on looks being subjective is beyond mentally retarded....
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:39 PM
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The other point you are missing is that Seal/Heidi Klum is an outlier among outliers. How many extremely looks mismatched celebrity couples do you see? Most of these slidedecks people post have 30 or so pics out of 1000s of celebrity couples. To say you are exaggerating to make a point is beyond inane. Seal has insanely good karma from his last life to be famous, rich, and get Heidi Klum. It isnt making any extrapolation to the average redditor worth even a grain of salt. By doing so you are the…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:35 PM
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Its crucial... though I agree if you are very masculine/have a good balance of features, slight assymetry isnt even noticeable. If you have a very pronounced bad feature such as a bulbous nose that is also very assymetric... it makes a huge difference.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:31 PM
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**If he goes for shorter women who are in his league, he will do fine if he is socially normal. **The taller guy will go for girls who are in his league, he will do find if he is socially normal. Girls in his league are hotter than short guy. Thats basically what you are saying. Nothing groundbreaking there.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:29 PM
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Yep extremely redpill comment right there: I'll add that a large reason why "confidence" is frequently mentioned is because there was a time in which this was an effective strategy. If you get the chance to travel to more conservative/ less developed areas of the world --- you will see many many more ugly guy/hot girl combinations. The principal reason here though, for someone who is truly redpill, is resources. The difference is that the difference between 0 and 1 is infinity percent, whereas t…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:25 PM
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Point is even if this guy were the most confident, funny, and genuine good dude on earth his looks would constrain him to an ugly whale of a girlfriend. Were this guy to look like this (famed serial killer and murderer Ted Bundy): http://murderpedia.org/male.B/images/b/bundy/bundy313.jpg He would continue to get laid and have multiple girlfriends on the side despite being a sadistic psychopathic freak. Bundy even brashly continued to lure and kill women when a public service announcement was bei…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 12:36 AM
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yep, PUAs emphasize confidence by showing in-field videos of good looking guys --- Julien, Paul Janka, Chris "Good Looking Loser".... good looks can make someone appear "confident" when their behavior is weird the average potato faced 5'6 redditor tries cold daygame in NYC and we are in sexual harassment territory
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 12:31 AM
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Also Seal is a famous recording artist who is very masculine looking.. ugly for men is any combination of : assymetric + feminine features,
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:44 PM
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You're right man! I feel confident as shit today! Cant wait to go out and get all the 9s and 10s! https://derpicdn.net/media/W1siZiIsIjIwMTMvMDQvMTAvMDBfMzlfMTJfOTMyXzI5MzI4N19fVU5PUFRfX3JhaW5ib3dfZGFzaF9xdWVzdGlvbmFibGVfZ2xhc3Nlc19jb3NwbGF5X2Jyb255X2hhaXJfZHllLmpwZWciXV0/293287__rainbow+dash_suggestive_photo_human_glasses_cosplay_irl+human_brony_neckbeard_hair+dye.jpeg
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:41 PM
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bingo... you would be surprised how many "nerd" girls are doing the nasty with football players in college
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:40 PM
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Not really.. the feminist landwhale is making a beliefs projection ie I'm too smart for all males. OP is saying that he lacks physical characteristics possessed by most/all players. He is being realistic and is better off pursuing entrepreneurship and money than "game" and getting no tangible result given his looks level.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:38 PM
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LOL so much blue pill below. I dare someone here to post 30 pics of "ugly" men with cute girls. Given the size and scope of the internet, if such phenomenon was common you would assume that these pairings would be as statistically prominent as searching "couple" in google. While it is true that money and resources can compensate --- the woman dating an ugly man for such things is making a tangible transaction. You dont see ugly men w/o some extraordinary fame or money dating pretty women... anyo…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:36 PM
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This is actually great. Very powerful as I see many of these flaws in myself now after over a year of introspection. I will add that the best solution to all of these sins, and ultimately to lead to the consequence of happiness, is seeking self-actualization. Now most betas are so caught up in the trivial -- relationships, social life, corporate 9-5 job that they fail to find purpose in their life. A life w/o direction is beta, whether you are fucking lots of hot girls or not. It wasnt until I f…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:24 PM
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YES PUA daygame type of bullshit will get you a massive LOSER label that everyone in the social scene will remember. Source: myself for a period of time. The best way to get laid in college is to be very very involved in school (classes/ study together etc.), clubs (meet girls with shared interests), sports teams (you have mixers with girls teams), frats (you have mixers with sororities)..... you should try and connect with girls and then isolate. Contrary to public opinion most "hookups" are no…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:11 PM
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congrats for you man.. having a high fwhr and masculine DOM features is the single biggest cheat code to picking up girls assuming you can muster the confidence to say cocky things to them and touch
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:04 PM
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Most guys underrate other guys... low 6 figures isnt enough. Neadrathal looking usually means very masculine which to women is what nice tits and ass are to men. Your friends are probably in looksmatched relationships.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:59 PM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate here... but persistence that leads to sex usually isnt beta behavior. Alpha's do this shit all the time, often its a great strategy especially if there is social pressure (ie other friends are trying to set you up or you are very professionally successful etc.). Simply getting it in doesnt make you a beta... sure if you commit to marriage without prenup after two nights of sex, you are an idiot, but I think this doesn't happen for the most part. I think unless …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:17 PM
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No the main issue is that your friends are beta supportive husbands... vast majority of marriages the couples are looksmatched, just flip through newly weds section in nytimes or anywhere. Only exceptions are betas with money for the most part. You will never see an ugly guy marry a hot girl unless he has something tangible to give her. Also every girl looks good on her marriage date... its the one day in her life where she gets to play the role of princess. Theres a reason why weddings dresses,…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:12 PM
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Couple questions as I am fairly sure Im low testosterone and have been looking to supplement for a while now. 1. how old are you.. 2. how do you supplement -- through clinic or medical or lifting clique etc Have you seen a noticeable difference yourself with just physiologic test with respect to the above details --- ie girls more pro-active towards you etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:33 AM
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Thanks for actually posting scientific evidence... TRP is generally filled with posts like the OPs bt provide no tangible evidence. For all the looks doubters, read above. Scent is associate with testosterone levels ----> hence why is you are low T you are going to struggle mightily with all women.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:12 PM
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lol dude keep living in your delusional world. First step is to maximize your looks --- lifting, juice, postural surgery if you need it etc. Second is to develop status -- professional, social etc. Third is to just be yourself in social/professional setting --> girls will want to bang "game" is a myth especially for the average redditor, who is worse looking that the average american man.... most of the posts on "game" are posturing by losers who get 2/10 girls but brag that they are 8s or 9s. A…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:09 PM
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you're completely right bro... its all in my head!!! http://i.imgur.com/wI02X.jpg
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:11 PM
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This post is so unbelievably simplistic... Bob can benefit from mannerisms because he has grown into his own and is a "hunk". 99% of guys on reddit do not become "hunks" after years of lifting. Alan is not winning purely because of his mannerisms... he is the jock who all the girls always wanted and still implicitly want. The most misleading advice here is that pursuing girls should remain the forefront of Bob's life even after he has missed the opportunity when pursuing women was riskless ie te…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:07 PM
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I dont blame people for systematic issues, especially when much of the transformative period for these people is puberty... a time when they arent adults moreover open source info is now there bc of the internet but i digress. Ie you cant blame a kid who was obese since he was 8 for being obese at 15.... his body is already fucked-- multiple body systems fried--- its mainly the parents fault. My point with 2 is that improvement is scientific, not based in blue pill generalities. People here dont…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:38 PM
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Iggy is a lot smarter than people will give her credit for being, and very down to earth too. When I saw her interviews I was floored.... she is a great act.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:14 PM
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True that man. Going to Brazil and interacting with girls there changed my life. TRP can zap you of your vitality because it seems hopeless, but its mainly the feminist extremely westernized liberal countries that have TRP issues. Religious countries that arent battleground... most of south america, southeast asia, i would have said eastern europe....but no longer lol. You can have a great time there if you are culturally literate and adventurous.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:13 PM
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THIS IS SPOT ON. As someone born and raised in a wealthy area of NY where almost every girl from my hometown now lives in NYC on a salary of 45k or less.. its fucking golden. Girls I know who got hired purely for their attractiveness to good companies are among the worst offenders, constantly hamstering away for prince charming while giving it up to some of the most sociopathic business guys one earth. Our generation is so fucked by the media.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:03 PM
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Yes, actually. Look at studies on the systematic erosion of testosterone levels in men since the 1930s. For the most part people today eat diets largely composed of highly processed foods chalk full of oestrogens and xenoestrogens. Moreover, the FDA is largely a corrupt organization which prioritizes US trade interests hence the 6-11 recommended servings of grain --- one of our historically most abundant and cheapest commodities. At the same time high quality saturated fats, the building blocks …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:37 PM
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The male equivalent to drew barrymore in terms of bodytype is not hot to women.. Men will lower their standards dramatically. Lumbering landwhales are generally women with pituitary conditions in their own right. Most of the decent bitter guys here are not out of shape or socially awkwards... just cant get the girls PUA etc says they can with "game". You can either lower your standards or AGGRESSIVELY improve... not just "frame" but push it way farther. That is beyond most of the pussy redpill m…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:28 PM
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The OP wants to get hot girls. Being that significantly overweight leads to a lot of testosterone conversion to estrogen via aromatization so overweight men typically have underdeveloped facial bone structures and musculature. Being "not fat" isnt enough today if you want a 6+ girl and thats as RP as it gets. There are exceptions, but in statistics there is a mean and most outcomes will fall closely around it. A fat girl doesnt even have to lose that much weight. A lot of famous women that we co…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:07 PM
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This might be the most blasphemous feminist bullshit censorship I have ever seen. Stephen A's point is that a woman should not put herself in that position if she can avoid it.... sort of like how a law abiding citizen should not hang with criminals, or a sober person should not get in the car with a drunk driver..
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:58 PM
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This is the kind of stuff on TRP that pisses me off... blanket blue pill somehow contorted to be redpill because it makes the poster feel good. Yes those things matter, but lets be realistic. A guy who does not naturally look good is going to have a hard time getting a great body because the same hormones which determine facial appearance determine your anabolic capacity-- not saying this cant be fixed but theres a reason why Jonah Hill looks like a pussy both before losing weight and after. The…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:38 PM
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Not independently... its not going to make you Brad Pitt. Just want to put all the options out there. You're not the only one dealign with this man
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:53 AM
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There are solutions that are too "redpill" for most guys on here and I would at least try these as its where i am with my life now. Get on HRT.... if you are naturally fat, man boobs, poor skeletal structure/ facial features you most likely have low T and or high estradiol... a qualified doc like Dr. Crisler or Anabolic Doc can help you figure out if these things are an issue. If you have a particular facial feature... weak chin, weak jaw etc there is plastic surgery and the trend is growing amo…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:14 PM
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There are solutions that are too "redpill" for most guys on here and I would at least try these as its where i am with my life now. Get on HRT.... if you are naturally fat, man boobs, poor skeletal structure/ facial features you most likely have low T and or high estradiol... a qualified doc like Dr. Crisler or Anabolic Doc can help you figure out if these things are an issue. If you have a particular facial feature... weak chin, weak jaw etc there is plastic surgery and the trend is growing amo…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:14 PM
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Yep, this is the sad truth. You're not allowed to "game" if you are already disqualified from competing. This is why so many professional PUA's employ naturals to test their material such as Julian RSD, Paul Janka, Chris Good Looking Loser because at the end of the day nothing is going to make a girl who finds you repulsive sleep with you. Naturals make PUA looks great, but a simply hi can do the same. That being said the threshold for good behavior/confidence also diminishes massively if she's …
/r/AlreadyRed29/07/14 05:41 PM
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agree completely but let me provide some perspective on what i found to be the best way to think about things. I used to be a whiner... most guys who whine dont want to, they are products of poor upbringing or are naturally unattractive and so the typical "be confident", "dress well", "lift" advice is generally meaningless. If you have low testosterone and have since you were 12... forget about getting hot girls, you have a serious problem. If you have scoliosis and cant walk in a a straight lin…
/r/AlreadyRed27/07/14 04:07 PM
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its pretty funny... the asian guy on the left and the girl on the right are the only normal looking ones... they were probably new to the city/town and nerdy and thought the meetup would be a good idea i remember going to a brewery and seeing a reddit meetup--- literally all neckbeards and one cute girl
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:16 PM
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bravo to this post: the average redditor woman is not attractive and doesn't fit into the traditional outgoing community of normal females.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:13 PM
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SMV in a club setting is 100% looks. The only exception is if you are "above average" but not spectacular but can peacock like a champion and dance like a crazy person (example would be someone like Pharrell). If you are short, average/ugly, and dont have crazy swagger its a complete waste of money. I would argue the above is true in basically any nightlife setting. You are only as good as you are in comparison to the other guys in the bar. If the average guys is 3 points better looking and tall…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 01:33 PM
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what do you look like? are you in shape? do you wear clothes that all the other pretty girls wear and the makeup etc? As long as you look like a girl who isnt fat, isnt hideous, and will put out, some guys will approach you and as a girl honestly you are in the driver's seat.
/r/trpGAME20/06/14 11:22 PM
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Waitresses can be a good starting point because they are conditioned to be nice to patrons and you can gain some confidence w/o getting shot down. Most guys have "good" experiences with waitresses, and then they predictably flake on them (this makes sense once you do enough of this... she deals with this shit all the time and wants a nice tip. also like poster at bottom said they are definitely in the lower tier of girls in terms of class so that can be tough as well for many guys to deal with)
/r/trpGAME17/06/14 06:00 PM
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No most guys get girls at 30 because girls feel pressured to get married at this age and settle for guys. These are also the same guys that end up in sexless marriages as cuckhold providers. People on TRP really really really underestimate looks. Bad looks kill great game every single day of the week. I agree that if you are average game matters a lot, but if you arent you need to work on looks otherwise you are going to end up a disgrunted PUAhater or something. You can effort yourself to Lebro…
/r/trpGAME17/06/14 05:56 PM
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Ok fair enough. I think in reality like the poster below said, no sane woman who is that attractive will date a less attractive man. That used to be the status quo before when people were monogamous and women married men for provision and men married women for companionship-- this generally led to most women being in shape and attractive and most men hardworking and dedicated to their families. I still see this when I travel, but this model is dead in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:18 AM
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lol at how the author looks like a gross bird and then calls an average black chick with makeup, clear skin, and a great body "unattainable" lol at how men are expected to look like this... http://www.papermag.com/uploaded_images/brody-jenner-bromance-10.jpg when there is nothing you can do about your facial bone structure save for plastic surgery that makes only marginal differences there is literally ZERO that can be done about your bodytype (bone strcture not body mass)... thats why so many b…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:25 PM
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Perhaps, but generally speaking no girl I knew in college who was a legitimate 9 spent any time on reddit or any forum of any sort, so while I cant say I dont believe you, I am skeptical. I have approached 9 girls before, and as an average guy I can tell you that while these girls will hold a conversation if you attempt to have one, they dont really get excited unless a really good looking guy approaches them. The idea that a 9/10 is going to date a 5/10 because she's starved for attention is a …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:07 PM
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I think this is a myth. They might not get approached constantly by beta 4s but they definitely get approached by 8/10 males regularly. They also have very high self esteem so they tend to reject guys they are not interested in politely unlike most mid level girls. My initial point was just that the rating used by OP are probably exaggerated because this type of hamstering generally happens in very mid level girls. Ugly girls and hot girls are very aware of their level of attractiveness generall…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:15 PM
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somehow I'm willing to bet HB6 and HB8 are exaggerations. any HB6 will act equally as stuck up, if not more stuck up, than an HB8 because she thinks she is good enough for only 8+ guys. I have actually found some 8+ girls to be very very aware and political around guys because they know that their looks have gotten them so far in life... and they don't have the jealous ego you see in average girls. Any girl who is attractive will have this biased perspective. I remember having a "friend" in coll…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:34 AM
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He's not a natural though lol.... he started game because he has severe aspergers and could barely talk to people game to him is just learning to be socially normal there are pua's i like out there like roosh and mark manson who are normal guys with normal experience and shitty experience with girls janka is not a role model because his circumstances are so distinct, ironically he said the first time he got laid he basically got raped at age 20. Any normal guy of TRP who looked like Janka would …
/r/trpGAME06/06/14 01:43 AM
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you cant.. its against human nature to not feel somewhat invested in your time... at least in the initial stages when you are still raw at recognizing what girls want beyond "charm" or "coolness" the point isnt to become sociopathic in your thinking, but rather to maximize the factors that you see successful men carry out in order to obtain women -- whether they be maximizing their physical appearance, focusing on career, or becoming extremely involved socially or in a hobby/sport/talent I made …
/r/trpGAME05/06/14 11:14 PM
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Paul Janka is a fucking joke. The guy is a legit supermodel and needs "game" is all I need to point out. Need I say he has a BS in Physics from Harvard, and is also rich. His game might as well grope random hot girls at the bar and see who doesnt resist, because unlike what many people think a large number would be aroused coming from him
/r/trpGAME05/06/14 10:22 PM
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for some reason I find it hard to believe that a short, ugly faced guy with a small dick and horrific frame (bone structure) is voluntarily celibate what type of girls would fuck this guy? I think legitimate incels exist and no amount of pua would help them. evolution exists in order to further the human race. Theres a reason why good looking guys have it easy, humanity wants those genes to be passed on.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:21 AM
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dude this is so on point ... if we didnt care if girls were attracted to us, most men would just go live on the beach somewhere in costa rica or brazil and fuck hot escorts all the time the validation is surreptitious... we know its beta to want it, but validation is what makes the alpha the alpha I recently had some slight cosmetic work done, and its completely changing the way I am perceived. It really is a mindfuck when girls start feeling up your muscles and stuff unprovoked, not because of …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:45 PM
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I dont think its a cop out or placebo because I have always been socially confident and had friends. My anxieties with girls generally begin at the escalation stage, not before that, so when I talk to them I'm not creepy or awkward or any of that. I have seen a very obvious improvement in my general perception by girls --- from girsl who see me at the gym, to receptionists, and waitresses. I get a lot more smiles and compliments, and like I said above I'm getting asked to go out with girls to pa…
/r/trpGAME04/06/14 04:54 PM
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good work man, crisp precise and to the point. definitely the sort of circumstance where game made the difference. Also did you drink out of the handle lol
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 11:35 PM
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I'll think about it.. I dont want any inkling of my id known on the net since cosmetic surgery is still demonized by most people as vain or whatever. http://brandowclinic.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/male-facelift-fat-transplant-neck-liposuction-.jpg this is a decent comparison but to put in perspective this guy already had a wide jaw whereas I was very narrow with similar neck fat and the fillers and fat graft gave me more of the after look. Also I have a smaller brow, so my face looked reall…
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 11:32 PM
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oh ok didnt read it right I guess.. well you can have a medically dangerous bite without it being a cosmetic condition. For example a lot of men with sharp underbites actually look more attractive, but the bite puts them at risk for breathing trouble, TMJ, and potential complications like sinus infection down the road. In my case my bite was normal, but my whole jaw and chin was shallow... like more shallow than a lot of girls. Now it feels like there is more mass around where my jaw and chin en…
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 11:29 PM
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yeah i mentioned this in another thread, money isnt really a significant issue for me given my professional background i have never had problems with acne, haircut/sloppiness, or clothes
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 09:01 PM
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my younger brother got a lot of orthodontic work done from age 12-15 but his jaw continued to grow through age 23... so now he needs surgery because his teeth are misaligned and he bites himself its definitely relative, i agree. Depends on a lot of things. I think I'm realizing that my definition of masculine might be a little bit more extreme that a lot of people on reddit due to my life experience. I always felt I was being judged for not fucking a hot girl every week, much less a few times a …
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 08:59 PM
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Yeah nailed it. I was a multi sport varsity athlete all throughout high school and played club sports in college. I have never really felt judged for my body on a level of muscularity or athleticism. That being said, I'm brown and only 5'8 with a normal frame so with a dress shirt on I'm hardly a professional powerlifter... and in a bar setting no girl is going to call me "jacked"... and personally I think the ideal physique to girls is the channing tatum "big frame" not necessarily big muscles …
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 08:54 PM
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Yeah definitely something that worries me to a degree, but judging from the way my dad looks at 65 I dont think there is a history of saggy skin in my family. I also figure that after I get married and have kids, at some point I can have it removed for comforts sake in my late 50s or 60s.
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 08:02 PM
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i wont post pics because i dont want them to find me, ~$3000 + $1500 for anasthesia and facility
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 06:32 PM
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wow sorry to hear that CatchMyGeneticDrift... the doctor I went to mentioned that perhaps I should look at maxfac, but I have a pretty demanding job and dont think I can give up half a year for the goal of aesthetics. I'm loving the chin implant personally. The jaw "implants" are definitely more uncomfortable, but the doc refused to do medpor so I ended up getting a combination of fat injection and filler. Overall my profile looks better.. from the front my jaw looks too square for my face but t…
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 06:30 PM
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lol dude gaming dudes just sounds gay... what you mean is I want to be a socially normal and be able to hold normal conversations with people. you want to have cool interests, honestly, and confidence for both men and women. things that will help you: no fap, working out, good diet/ high testosterone diet, good grooming and odor management, nice clothes, "normal" style... like brooks bros, polo... not ed hardy tryhard douche. Dont turn to weed and alcohol, guys who do that stuff as a lifestyle w…
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 05:00 PM
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Be good looking Dont go out solo, find some friends. Solo gaming rarely works because it requires you breaking down a group of 5-6 girls which means either one girl has to be wayyy more attracted to you than she wants to hang out with her friends, or all the girls are attracted to you and bidding for you attention. Girls rarely go out solo unless they have just gotten dumped or stood up or something, so likelihood is there will be a lot of solo dudes and girls will have their defenses up. As a b…
/r/trpGAME01/06/14 04:45 PM
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