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Depends what type of club you go to. If you go to a VIP club that sells bottles and tables you're going to get mostly women who like guys with high status and money. Those VIP guys buying tables and bottles bring in most of the revenue to the club so the atmosphere caters to them. Find smaller clubs without a big emphasis on VIP customers or stick to bars and pubs. I always have more fun bar/pub hopping.
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:55 PM
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Laugh about it. For them to take time to insult you means they feel threatened by you. If you want to fight back, try to make them mad while you keep a smile on your face. Do you remember any specific insults? I'm slim so when other guys bring up that fact I go into sarcastic mode "I workout everyday, bro, you know? Hashtag fitfam. I can't fucking stand skinny guys, like you didn't even have to work for that six pack, it's like a fat girl with tits. I worked really really hard EVERY day to look …
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:40 PM
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Cheer up, the fact that you at least got a girlfriend puts you in a higher bracket then most guys. What reason did your girlfriends give when breaking up?
/r/seduction04/01/14 01:19 AM
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Start talking about playful funny things. Really gets me out of analytically mode. Another way to get into the social interactions around you is to ask people questions you're actually interested in. Since you're analytically, you're naturally curious so I'm sure there are some quirky things you can ask people that you're actually interested in.
/r/seduction23/08/13 12:47 AM
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This depends on what school you go to...
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:42 PM
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Don't overload yourself with content. Reading the content without experience is useless. Find a few openers you like and just go out and approach, approach, and approach some more. Read some more, then approach and approach some more. You should use a 3 to 1 ratio when it comes to days you spend approaching women (3) to days you spend reading (1)
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:26 AM
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You read my post? I don't play games/tricks, they're silly and just serve as a crutch. But if he wants to play games, he should do one he already knows. Because the only people who should take time out of their day to learn tricks are 12 year olds.
/r/seduction30/08/12 08:45 AM
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Don't need to learn any tricks or games. If you are deadset on using them though, use one you already know like thumb wrestling.
/r/seduction30/08/12 07:16 AM
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I would say it was more 'time' than 'x amount of approaches'. I went hardcore for 30 days and was more comfortable approaching. After a year of going out, it feels natural.
/r/seduction30/08/12 07:14 AM
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Forget the girls she scares off, you're too good for them anyways lol
/r/seduction30/08/12 07:11 AM
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Good lighting, lookup on "indirect lighting" Nice comfortable rug or carpet that make you want to take your shoes off, I have a black shag rug. 100% Egyptian Cotton sheets. Women always 'borrow' my clothes and never return them. So I have a drawer full of comfortable clothes for women. Soffe shorts, long t-shirts, etc. Nice sound system too.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:51 AM
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Like @Xstream3 said, don't over think it. And don't think of it as a "close" or ultimate goal of your interaction because you will overhype it in your head and it shows. Just think of it as necessary part of continuing your relationship if you had a fun interaction. I always just take out my phone, pull up the new contact screen, and hand it to her.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:43 AM
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1) Doesn't matter. Don't get hung up on details like that. Both of those are more about timing. I ask for the number usually early when I'm talking to her about us in the future. Sometimes that doesn't come up til after I kiss her so it just depends. 2) Again doesn't matter. Just remember to be consistent. Pick your introduction and stick with it. I do a high-five.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:36 AM
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Twenty-one. On average, older men have more experience with women. You can get more experience now.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:27 AM
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Approaching. Seriously, not trying to sound like a dick. The anxiety you're feeling is because it's new to you and you don't know what to expect. Also you have some buildup fear of rejection. The only way to get over this is continuously approaching. Trust me, it will fade.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:23 AM
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Laugh it off, give her a "Really?" look and continue your interaction.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:21 AM
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If she has a greater body than you, she might look better than you. Sounds like you're rating yourself on characteristics guys don't care about, like wealth. And yea if she looks better than you, she is going to be more attractive than you to guys.
/r/seduction27/08/12 12:04 AM
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Don't be so worried or hung up about putting a label on your night out. Just have fun, and make progress.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:58 PM
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Know anything about black hair? The oil sheen smells bad and makes my hair greasy.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:36 PM
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You're right man, every has there own rhythm. I was just presenting this as a good rule of thumb. But in my experience if a girl has to ask you to leave her place in the morning, you've overstayed your welcome. "I hate when a guy doesn't know when to leave in the morning, and I have to ask him to leave."Straight from a conversation I was having about hooking up with party girls (might just apply to this subset )
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:31 PM
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One is called being a good guest and the other is called being a good host.
/r/seduction26/08/12 08:49 PM
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You sound like a guy with a cold that read WebMD and now thinks he has cancer. I wouldn't read much into it, he doesn't sound like he knows what he is doing. You should be worried more about the guys she goes to class with not the guys in your social circle. If you blow up at him, you only making yourself look stupid, just ignore him. I'm telling you this from seeing it happen year after year after year with couples that come into college freshmen year thinking they will be together forever. The…
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:07 PM
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I've used this successfully from sophomore year and on.: While casually walking by a girl or group of girls, sniff the air and say "You smell like a freshmen" Its a win-win. They always have a confused response and want to know why they smell like freshmen. If they are freshmen they will look to you for guidance on how to stop looking like a freshmen. If they aren't freshmen, they will be deadset on proving to you they are not freshmen. Both paths always lead to a number-close. Lead the freshmen…
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:55 AM
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I'm a black guy and I would say "No!" This is the longest I got it: http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/248108_1833866039453_4322042_n.jpg http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/249385_1833864039403_432988_n.jpg If you notice in the two pics it's real dry and nappy. To make it look good I had to spray oil sheen on it: http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/229793_10150175298378509_7834895_n.jpg That shit is annoying! Makes your hair look good, but it smells bad, girls can't touch …
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:37 AM
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Yea man, I've been in PUA for a long time, and once you've been out gaming women for at least a year your intuition always leads to better experiences. If it worked before, that means you're confident with that approach, it should work again. Since she's older, that should work splendidly. She'll respect the fact that you're mature enough to see that she needed to be wined and dined and will reward you ;)
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:30 AM
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Haha yea man, e-nights get weird! Don't want to beat a dead cow, but things might have worked out better if her last experience with you was sex on e and not coming down off e.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:19 AM
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No, it's the gentlemanly thing to do. I've NEVER had a woman get offended or stop talking with me because I gave her cabfare. She could have left her card at the bar, purse with her friend, etc. This is only if she needs a taxi, which is a rare situation for me. Most of the time I drive them back.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:16 AM
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I agree with @Xstream3. It seems like you're not physically escalating fast enough if your friend is making out with her in a few minutes. If you were able to get her to change venues, you should have been making out with her at YOUR house or had her in your room. Also what type of girls are you approaching? They seem slutty.
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:02 AM
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You're doing fine man! All she is doing is pacing you. She doesn't want to seem like a slut. Keep doing what you're doing and she'll give in.
/r/seduction26/08/12 10:51 AM
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Hooking-up 101 If you are at her place, be on your way out before she is waking up. Say you have to go do something and make sure you have exchanged contact information with her and tell her something cute/funny like an inside joke or "I had fun." The reason you want to do this is because most girls are not direct. You lead the interaction at night, so you should continue. Most girls feel bad or slutty asking a guy to leave right after having sex. There is nothing worse than making a girl sit th…
/r/seduction26/08/12 10:46 AM
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You want know unless you try. My friend with benefits experience was amazing in college. At my prime, I had 3 in rotation. If you want to make her a fbuddy, you want to make sure you only contact her when you want to fool around. She'll natural catch on to what's happening without you having to directly elicit the relationship. She will react from that point. Either she'll continue to let it happen. Or she'll start demanding for other interactions (dinner, movie, etc.) or a definition of what yo…
/r/seduction26/08/12 10:30 AM
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One way is to get into Frat parties without being a member to be a PNM (Potential New Member) I miss my PNM days. Express interest to Frat guys that you are interested in joining and if you have some time of value or fit (athlete, cool personality, good GPA) they will Rush you and make you a PNM. Being a PNM at a Frat party is like being VIP. Their goal is to get you in the Fraternity so they will do whatever to hook you. The way I would rush guys was give them alcohol or introduce them to 'loos…
/r/seduction26/08/12 10:18 AM
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I was in a frat in college. I will tell you there are sorority girls that only exclusively date/hookup with frat guys but there are also ton of girls who aren't in sororities. I'm not going to lie to you by not going to parties and not going Greek you're cutting yourself out of a big part of the College social scene. There are still girls out there though. Join some coed social clubs that aren't Greek. We had this one activities organization that organized concerts, fairs, speakers etc. Also you…
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:41 AM
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First, accept the friend request and wait a few days. Since this party was on Friday, wait til Monday to see how many more people add you. After that, if you do add people you met. Just make sure it's not a creepy request. Send a message with some inside joke y'all had or reference a situation you both observed and give a reason for adding, like hanging out in the future.
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:01 PM
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Fyi if you are looking for material, you will be looking for information on 'same-night lays' not LMR. LMR is what you face literally in the last minutes before sex. If she is saying she has to go with her friends and her friends aren't dragging her. You haven't built enough comfort for sex yet. You have to do baby-steps. First try getting the girl to do a venue-change with you and then try taking her home from that second venue. Your results should be alot better and you will face less resistan…
/r/seduction25/08/12 04:51 PM
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Great start! I would definitely push for a number close everytime though. Because most approach anxiety stems from fear of rejection. After you get used to the feeling of rejection and realize its not personal, your approach anxiety will fade.
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:49 AM
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I honestly wouldn't read much into that. If she was on the clock, she has an obligation to her customer. I personally don't like gaming girls in the service industry that are on the clock because they are in what I call "money mode" and use social interactions as a means to get more money. How late does the place stay open? If she indeed is a slut, she goes and parties after to work, you should ask her where and approach her there.
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:33 AM
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No they're not, I'm starting to get a grasp of your situation. Have actually attempted to approach her when you weren't around your HB8?
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:21 AM
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You can't get a hold of the situation until you figure out what you want. Ask yourself these questions: Would you have sex with her again? What are the negatives of doing so? Do you want to pursue a relationship with her? What are your future relationship goals and how does she fit in?
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:16 AM
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Alright we will scratch-out the possibility that she thinks you're just a friend. After she said "but I like his girlfriend alot" how did you respond? And also how did your interaction with her end?
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:04 AM
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Haha you answered your own question "his girlfriend" She probably thinks you're dating the HB8 you're showing up with and doesn't want to be that second girl. Dishonest player isn't attractive. You can indicate to her that you are in an open relationship with the HB8 or that the HB8 is your friend. Also you should know that showing up with an HB8 does add some value to you, but doesn't mean you automatically can have other girls. You have to possess a congruent personality that says you can pull…
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:46 AM
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Don't worry about 'isolation' at a college house parties. I studied PUA shit in college and isolation is not very effective in the college environment. If these girls came together, there is a good chance they are leaving together, but no worries. Because they usually just make sure they end back at their respective places. After that, game time. Instead of trying to go straight for the f-close, go for the number close. After you have her number, continue to interact with her til she leaves with…
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:38 AM
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Haha I've been in this situation. No offense AwkwardMusician, but don't confront your frat bros, if you haven't already confronted them that means you don't have an assertive personality and they've known you for awhile so coming out of nowhere wouldn't be showing authority, you would just look like a douche. His second piece of advice is good though, go out alone or find someone in the fraternity with your same mentality. If your frat was like mine, different cliques form, and there is probably…
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:14 AM
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Quick guide: 1) Most important advice ever: Be confident or Project Confidence. 2) Don't give off needy vibe like you need a girl. Give off social/fun vibe. 3) Come up with a few good openers and conversation topics. 4) Don't be afraid to leave your comfort zone. 5) Always make sure you're escalating the interaction somewhere.
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:07 AM
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Something I've learned over the summer is that you have to use two different strategies at bars and clubs. Bars are usually not as loud as clubs so you can have good conversations with people. In general, people go to bars to socialize and drink good. If you're a natural fun person, it's easy to meet people here. Clubs are a different story. Clubs are more visual and have more to do with image. How you look. How the people with you look. How you dance. Who you know. So you need to tailor your im…
/r/seduction25/08/12 10:03 AM
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First, what is your idea of casual flirting?
/r/seduction25/08/12 09:53 AM
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Can you describe in further detail how your first in person interaction went and also what your text said? Those are big factors in what type of tone you've set for the night.
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:28 AM
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There is no easy way to get good. Takes hard work and practice. I tried the 'seducer friend' route before. I did learn some things. However, at the end of the day I was not as successful as them because I was not THEM. What works for them works for them. You have to find your own path.
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:16 AM
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I frequently lied about my age in high school and would use excuses like "My roomate is a loser" or "My RA is a dick" or "I still stay with my parents" to try and go to her place. Honestly though, if I could do it over I would not have lied. You're in high school, focus on those girls. Plus you have wayy more problems then not being able to drink. 1) You can't watch a Rated - R movie. 2) Won't be able to get into 18+ establishments. I know you hate to hear this, but you'll have PLENTY of time fo…
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:05 AM
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You will not improve your social skills going to frat parties sober. 1) Most of the people there are drunk, so you're not getting accurate feedback. 2) I don't know about your morals, but I don't like hitting on drunk girls while sober. It seems unfair and borderline rapey... If you want to be sober and improve your social skills, walk around campus during the daytime and approach girls. It's the perfect time, because it's the beginning of the year so everyone is real friendly. The other day I f…
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:50 AM
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