tooflyforyou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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24	A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you? All of our lives women been told what men like and what men want in a woman and what we need to change about ourselves in order for men to find us desirable. But when I say “I don’t date broke men” all of a sudden I’m a misandrist. I’m sorry, are you telling me men can’t handle being told what women want and don’t want in a partner? That’s unfortunate. There’s no reason a man should be having a midlife crisis and throwing a tantrum just because he read on FDS that we expect effort from a man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 04:56 PM
1	Serious question, do any of you not want to get married? I always wanted to get married as a kid because that’s what society and religion pushes. Then after dating, I just wanted to stay single for the rest of my life. But now I’m for marriage. There’s pros and cons to both but I want to get married because I believe marriage gives you more rights than just dating long term. Divorce is heartbreaking and expensive but so is dating someone for 20 years and then breaking up. My dad cheated on my mom, got married to another woman and then cheated on her. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 02:57 PM
76	For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? They need to be active partners 24/7. Yes yes yes. They get their act together for 3 DAYS when they should’ve been doing it everyday and think they’re going to get rewarded with sex. Seriously, it’s a dog mentality, you’re not going to get a treat just because you performed a couple actions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 05:17 PM
252	For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? If men would use half the energy, attention and problem solving they put into trying to get more sex into being a better partner the world would be a better place. Men don’t even realize anything could be wrong with their relationship until they’re not getting sex. You push the cultural scripts. No really, they created the concept that women have to be as sexually inexperienced as possible and shouldn’t enjoy sex because they don’t want women to expect men to make them orgasm while men compete w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 02:44 PM
69	Male friends are a myth. Ain’t no way he sees her like a sister but jerking off to her nudes omg, he’s really sick. Men hide their intentions and then are shocked when their friend considers them a friend and not a romantic interest.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 05:44 PM
39	Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural” No fr he’s been rocking that same tired ass haircut forever now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 03:02 PM
304	Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural” All that money and fame, and he doesn’t have a personal trainer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 02:14 PM
23	A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flag It’s like when a man is a “nice guy”. Is he actually a nice guy or is he acting in a way that he believes will give him access to the opposite sex? Any guy with half a brain paying attention to social media will know what women are keeping their eye out for and one of those things are getting themselves together. So obviously a man is going to say he’s in therapy and even actually go to therapy if it’s going to make him look like he’s more aware of himself and working on his issues to be a bette…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 09:14 PM
108	Words and Actions This is the classic case of “some woman broke my heart so now I’m going to emotionally manipulate, traumatize, and gaslight women for the rest of my life”. It didn’t work out with one woman and it becomes his villain origin story. But women are expected to get played consecutively by men their entire lives and stay naive and innocent, and give every man the benefit of the doubt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 02:57 PM
60	Sugarbabies and the trope of "modern dating through female empowerment!" Men created the concept of a gold digger as a power play. If a woman expects a guy to be financially stable, they can just accuse her of being a gold digger. Or, if they’re wealthy enough, they can give money to a woman and she has to do everything he says. Men love to view themselves as providers but can’t even provide. It’s like men forgot women had to be “gold diggers” at one point because they couldn’t even own property or open their own bank account! Now men are creating a dynamic where I s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 06:13 PM
38	Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down! With all my exes I always had to soothe their ego because I was more successful than them and would obviously be the breadwinner. They would literally be depressed and have an attitude because they felt they weren’t more successful than me lmao. My last straw was when one of my exes literally told me that he was having doubts about marriage because he wasn’t sure that he would be able have enough money for our kids (future kids when we get married) because he had to send money home to his sister…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 05:43 PM
8	The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him. Da Baby is literally trash. Considering he has a track record for impregnating women and leaving them, he punched a woman, wore a diaper, made homophobic comments at his concert, told Meg Thee Stallion “business is business” when he did a song with Tory Lanez after his stunt, and now this???? The fact there’s people who are defending him? The fact Dani thought she was “different than other girls” and actually wanted to be with him? Ridiculous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/21 04:00 PM
15	Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong. Look out for the “all my exes were crazy” scrotes, most likely their exes weren’t crazy or were crazy for a reason.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 04:48 PM
4	FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here? Everyone always thought I was mean for the standards I had for men. I got told the usual like I won’t be able to find a man like that, etc. I decided just to stay single. I then met my fiancé and it opened my eyes to how TERRIBLE men are but by keeping my standards I managed to find a HV man. I will admit that I believed I was bit of a pickmeisha but mostly because I was bullied for being ugly and my mom raised me with pickme values. I also was the empowered feminist at one point as a way to fig…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 11:31 AM
13	If you plan to have children, you owe it to yourself and to them not to be a pick-me. Pick-mes can literally get their kids killed. Ugh I felt this in my bones! My mother is a huge pickmeisha and has literally brushed off my sister’s molester because “he’s family” and complains how she never had any sons. It’s disgusting! She also justifies her dad cheating on her mom and thinks being abused/cheated on by a man is some type of drama toxic love that should be glamorized.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 12:08 PM
6	Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with? I saw the same post and I just couldn’t understand it. I also seen how she tried to justify his renovations for a rental property that no one lives in as to why he can’t help so she can better her education (which is more important).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 07:17 PM