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CMVtoolpot462/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:12 AM
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4

Nuh uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:04 PM
5

Whatever you say, arbiter. Being unable to get sex from women doesn't make you a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:00 PM
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Oh, how comprehensive. This is assuming that a man's worth depends on whether women will sleep with him. I guess that means even if you're a broke abusive asshole, as long as you can get sex, you're good. And since we're going to be so biologically essentialist, I suppose women who don't have and raise children are societal losers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:56 PM
4

Can you elaborate on how they are societal losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:41 PM
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True, but it's hard to argue that these things aren't degrading. Getting a facial seems pretty mild to me. You'd have to be pretty sex-negative to feel degraded by it. Seems like, the way you're framing it, the degradation is mostly contingent on how much pleasure the man is getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:05 AM
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She could chain him up and make him clean her dirty asshole. She could use a chastity belt and torture his dick until he's about to cum, then ruin his orgasm. She could trample him and make him lick her boots clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:39 AM
1

I agree, being blind or totally incapacitated would be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:28 AM
2

Would you elaborate as to why it's insane? I'm curious about your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:40 AM
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Not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:31 AM
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Mind boggling that orgasms are more important to you than your ability to walk. I'm not sure that they are. Vision certainly is, though. If you were to ask me, personally, I'd probably sacrifice my legs below the knees to save my dick, provided I can use prosthetics and still walk. Anything more than that is too much, but the choice becomes more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:28 AM
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That's because you are a superior being, due to being a woman. /s Levity aside, it's hard to compare the loss of a limb with the loss of genitals. Both are horrific. But, while losing a limb means you'll have to struggle with mobility and prosthetics, losing your genitals means you'll never orgasm again. Kind of like losing your eyes means you'll never see again - I'd say I'd rather lose both legs, than my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:36 AM
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Living without orgasm sounds worse than losing a limb. There are at least advanced prosthetics in the latter case. I know, it seems silly to value our funny dangly bits that much, but it's a pretty important stress reliever for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:30 AM
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What percentage of men, 18-30, would you guesstimate are virgins? Because 70% of men losing their virginity before 30 sounds about right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:54 AM
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r/badmaleanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:20 AM
4

A huge amount of men are already choosing porn over relationships. People act like these men just can't pull, but the reality is that they just don't bother trying, because the porn is 20% of the effort, for 80% of the result. Add a companion AI that's specifically tailored to your interests, and you might be surprised how easily the "intelligent" apes are fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:28 AM
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Shaming "works" in suppressing behavior about as much as the death penalty "works" in preventing murder. But it doesn't work when you consider that most metrics for shaming are arbitrary. We can generally agree that shaming someone for hurting others is a good thing, for instance; but why shame gluttons? Because you find them unsavory?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:48 PM
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That's not evidence that it "works." Unless, by "works," you mean, "causes all sorts of problems."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:47 PM
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You don't know this guy. All you know about him is, he can attract women. You're telegraphing your own insecurity by claiming these women must either be low value (internalized misogyny), or they're only there for the fucks, even though he's a piece of shit (alpha fucks, beta bucks).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:00 AM
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You say this guy is trash tier, yet ostensibly, he's attracting all sorts of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:27 AM
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"Women don't want men women want." ~ BP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:16 AM
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Don't let u/Xervious talk down to you. They are clearly way too absorbed in their social-hierarchy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:01 AM
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Most guys I know are not very deep into beautification. It's not because they see it as unmanly and consider themselves too macho for it. They just aren't interested in investing the effort, because they don't see much value in it. I think it's a cultural phenomenon, that women typically spend way too much effort to present as beautiful. You know there's at least some neurosis, when they take 2000 photos of themselves each day, just to select the perfect one. And the cultural push seems to be to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:06 AM
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I think most of these guys wind up putting way more effort into the "friendship" than they get out, and tend to be pretty dense when she's just not into them. The woman likes to feel special though, so she'll tend to be really subtle about it as well. It was never a friendship to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:51 AM
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What did I change my tune to? I don't know what you're talking about, I think you're confusing me for the last guy. -edit- oh, nice edit, really saved yourself, there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:01 PM
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That was like, 2 out of 1000. Clearly, it's mostly women who have low opinions of short guys. Why would other men even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:41 PM
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If you like casual sex, then what's the problem with having casual sex with someone while vetting them as LTR material? If they ghost you, clearly they failed the test. Is it because guys you have casual sex with are fuckable, but LTR material guys are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:54 AM
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I'm just boiling yours and other women's answers down. This happens because women use sex as a bargaining chip, with people they'd rather not have sex with, frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:07 PM
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They are arguing that life in a maximum security prison is about equal to the life of the average woman. You aren't going to get anywhere with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:32 AM
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My prediction is: people will adapt and life will go on - miserably, as it always has.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:25 AM
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I think there is an emotional response to having lost a limb that you don't comprehend. You know it sucks, but you don't really know what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:06 AM
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I think people drastically over-estimate their capacity for empathy. For instance, my friend was telling me about how, five years ago, he couldn't imagine his depression ever getting any worse than it was - but that recently, it had gotten so much worse, that he, a man already living with severe clinical depression, developed a whole new perspective on depression. In a sense, he couldn't even empathize with himself. I believe people *think* they understand, but they don't. Oh and I guess solemn …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:50 AM
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Women are notorious for using sex to manipulate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:41 AM
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Yea, someone rightly pointed out that the MRM could make the same claim. It's all about which activist group you choose to apply the logic to. Seems like a cart before the horse situation.
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/21 03:26 AM
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Generally, when average boys express this insecurity to their parents or peers, they are taught that there is no "league"; that just because a girl is physically attractive, doesn't mean she is better than you. Just go talk to her, and be confident, and you might be surprised!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:37 PM
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And yet, anti-feminists are the ones you want to convert. Being cheeky with them doesn't help. It's as if children are leading the discourse. I fully agree that the concept of toxic masculinity exists. I just think it's a dumb term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:01 PM
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I don't know why I have to repeat this so often on this corner on the internet, but: women are part of society Probably because you spend so much time here. Anyway, my point is, it's a dumb term; as evidenced by the amount of confusion surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:39 PM
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So they are disposed of in the sense that their partners leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:57 PM
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Doesn't make the behavior predatory, though, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:36 PM
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Metal is a sub-genre of rock. Anyway, I had a question: If a woman is propping up harmful male gender roles, is that also called "toxic masculinity?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:15 PM
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Actively seeking to meet women is predatory? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:14 PM
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What happens to women who are disposed of?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:24 AM
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I hate to say this, but it seems difficult to think of this as an "era of stability." More like, "the era where all the poison we unwittingly put in our water and air kills us."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:45 AM
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If you want to debate, I suggest opting for a more formal debate format.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:16 AM
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This is true. There's a reason debating with strangers on the internet is largely ill-advised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:07 AM
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This sub and others like it only serve as an ideological wedge. This is not just a case of, "we can't all be friends, oh well." They are poisonous. We can all just walk away. By the way, I respect the intelligence of most people here. I'm actually kind of intimidated sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:04 AM
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Everybody is here for entertainment - a simulation of validation. Online arguments are the perfect game; everybody always thinks they're winning. If they think they can keep at it without deleterious effects, that's on them. I don't think they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:45 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:39 AM
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I have a throne of privilege? How's that? Please, explain how I'm the rich person talking down to the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:38 AM
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Your hypocrisy is evidence that you haven’t done the actual work of translating your feelings into a coherent stance- one you could actually put into practice rather than just ranting about vaguely. Is a smoker a hypocrite for espousing an anti-smoking narrative? I don't think so. My intention is to respond to posts here, in good faith, and as a last "fix", then never return. You're right, it is pretty damned convenient. Tribalism is woven into the psychological fabric of humanity, and being fan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:26 AM
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Clearly not. Good for you. Thanks for reading and commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:30 AM
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In most developed nations, in terms of controlling reproduction, a woman can: Choose celibacy Take general birth control Refuse sex unless a condom is used Take morning-after birth control Get an abortion Put up for adoption Men can: Choose celibacy Wear a condom Get a vasectomy Once pregnancy is established, the man no longer has any say in what happens. Ergo: women are primarily responsible for reproduction, while men are minimally responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:29 AM
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So people are selfish pieces of shit, what else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:43 PM
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Right. So are you saying in a nutshell that this approach is off-putting because many women are beautiful to men, and it conveys no information? If so, my personal opinion is that this is a pretty negative and overly-judgmental way of dealing with it. After all, there is always the possibility of follow-up conversation to convey more info. The man is likely just trying to give you the opportunity to say, "sorry, you're not my type" right off the bat. But, of course, you have every right to self-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 11:06 PM
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You don't know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:33 AM
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Quite the rabbit hole we're in, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:39 AM
1

That seems consistent. You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:50 AM
1

Would you say that having a "mean" thought doesn't make you an asshole as long as you withhold it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:43 AM
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Honesty doesn't have to be unsolicited and hurtful. Them: Do you like my haircut? Me: I don't know, I'm not really feeling it. Them: How was the steak? Me: A little overcooked, but I appreciate you making it. Them: Sorry if my laugh is annoying. Me: Yeah, but don't worry about it, I must be irritable today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:58 PM
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Thanks for the advice; I mean, it's only what my anxiety has been telling me for years, but thanks so much, avoidance really is the best strategy. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 10:57 PM
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It has to do with the knee-jerk reaction of, "this guy is an asshole/creep" whenever a man makes a mistake in his approach. In fact, it has more to do with, perhaps not your post, but the nature of this sub than anything else we're talking about. I'm not saying women should have no standards and just accept any proposal a man makes, no matter how inept; but do men need to be shamed for it? Personally, it's a massive discouragement for me to make any attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 10:56 PM
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OP has specifically clarified that lying, or "dumping false bullshit compliments", is not what we're talking about. Saying, "I think you're beautiful" is saying exactly that: "IIIII think you're beautiful." If someone truthfully said this to you, I understand that you would not trust them; but, let's assume you knew for a fact that he was being honest - can you now approach the same question with a different perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:16 AM
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Why, that's very red pilled of you. I guess it's a good thing women don't typically need to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:04 AM
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Who cares about you being honest about something that's already silently understood? You're just showing you're the one missing the point and it makes you look stupid. But then women turn it around on men who don't make their intentions clear at the right time. Too early = "stupid", too late = "I thought we were friends!" Men have to know what to say, when to say it, and how to say it, practically flawlessly, or else they're the asshole for not making their intentions clear. News flash: they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:00 AM
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I guess it's just a matter of how ethical you want to be. Taking advantage of a man who is attracted to you simply to get his money is unethical, but it certainly is good for you and "the kids."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:25 PM
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It seems like you're practically asking me to give in to my anxieties that nobody wants anything to do with me. As an introverted "young" (26) man who has never had a deep relationship, *I still want one*. It's very difficult to connect with new people though. Once that barrier is broken, I have plenty of potential for "constant daily interaction" with somebody I connect with; it's just that nobody wants to bang against my wall, so to speak. And I'm not just going to be okay with that. Unfortuna…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:59 PM
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I guess I don't really have a solid case. Seemed like your last reply was just, "nuh uh, I disagree," but the comment you were replying to wasn't much better and, I just ignored that. I've seen and argued against so many people who just invalidate, deny, and ignore points, and it's a huge pet peeve, so my eyes go red when I see that style. But I'm only human, and fall victim to the same shit. Though my sister ditched social media and is doing just fine, that is really just anecdotal; in this cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:36 PM
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Seems like they will tell you as much. If you're a man who even suggests he would prefer a low n-count woman, they'll almost always tell you n-count doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:09 PM
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General indifference towards me, avoid eye contact, occasional dirty looks... and that's just out in public minding my own business. I usually only approach women whom I think I have a chance with, so the golden goddesses with toned bodies, perfect hair and intimidatingly pretty faces don't have to deal with that from me. While I'm at work, I have to help customers find the hardware they need, which I'm pretty good at. We don't get many attractive girls my age (20-30), but when we do, they avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:30 PM
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If you're this bad at debating, why are you even on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:00 PM
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Weird, huh? As in, doesn't conform to the popular culture? Doesn't make sense to you? What's the problem with that? Why does "weird" in this sense mean bad to you? If you see someone isn't on social media, do you assume there must be something very wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:57 PM
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That's hilarious, because my sister has no social media presence and she's doing just fine. She's never been more than a month without a partner and is making a ton of money just working for a pizzeria. She has her own place, her own car... She's always going to festivals and parties and generally having a great time. I envy her, because we had practically the same upbringing and she's doing much better than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:48 PM
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Uh oh mods, this looks like invalidation!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 08:34 PM
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Do you know what happens to a person when they are "selected against by society"? They go absolutely fucking insane. Rejection doesn't come from the "rape farms" initiative, misogyny and misanthropy come from rejection and isolation, along with a lack of guidance, of course. I'm of the opinion that if you can't feel sorry for people who are so lonely and hateful they want others to suffer, you lack principles. This doesn't mean you have to embrace them; just understand that, from their perspecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 02:15 AM
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Awh did we hurt your cis female fee-fees? :'(
/r/MensRights29/11/17 09:08 PM
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Sorry to say this; but, if you can't tell he's trolling, you might want to get checked out for neurological disorders. Or you're just stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/17 03:05 AM
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THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU PORK A RANGLER IN THE ALPS idk what we're doing
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/17 08:58 PM
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I know, right? Who wants to be a teacher anyway? We all want teachers to stop teaching and move on. I mean ideally no one would have to be a teacher. It just sucks that the patriarchy is holding female teachers down.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 11:02 PM
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The good ol', "because men are doing it to other men, it doesn't count."
/r/MensRights20/09/17 10:55 PM
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Again what would you have them do? Call the mother and call the police. Which is what they did.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 10:45 PM
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I don't think I would want to cuddle with someone whom I didn't also want to date, but I guess I'm not sure.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 08:42 PM
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How many men will friendzone a girl, but also cuddle with them?
/r/MensRights20/09/17 08:02 PM
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Cuddling while "just friends" is a classic trap. Any girl who does this knows fully well they are encouraging romantic feelings. The truth is, they like the attention and don't care how torturous it might be for their "friend" in the long run.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 07:39 PM
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Feminists don't even understand how that question is a counter.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 07:30 PM
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I'm a men's rights sub and I hate Trump...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/17 07:48 PM
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If someone gifts you money for gambling and you win you owe nothing. The only reason you should give anything is to be nice.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/17 07:04 PM
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Either it's okay both ways, or not okay at all. My view is that we need to downplay the outrage when men do it. If it's all in good fun when women do it, it's all in good fun when men do it. If women didn't have legal recourse, as is the case for men, then I'd wager they would just suck it up and move on with their lives, just like a man has to.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 01:33 AM
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No, and I don't know what makes you think I am.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 03:56 AM
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All you have to do is read a bit about the equal pay act to know that not all wage disparity complaints have legal merit.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 03:13 AM
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For fucks sake, take a hint. People with the same jobs get paid differently all the time. It's illegal to discriminate on the basis of race/gender/disability.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 03:04 AM
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I just hope you don't teach law.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 03:01 AM
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Ever get a raise?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 02:58 AM
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So... you don't have a job, do you?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 02:46 AM
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Actually, the commonly touted figure is 77 cents on the dollar. 97 is likely accurate. There's no way there is absolutely no gap, that's just not realistic.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 12:19 AM
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I think the problem most people have with it is that if the roles were reversed, it simply would not be allowed and would be derided as sexism and misogyny. It's obviously not an important issue, but it is a frustrating one nonetheless.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 12:15 AM
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True Scotsman*
/r/MensRights01/06/17 12:12 AM
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Appointment by whom? An elected official?
/r/MensRights30/05/17 07:11 AM
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Then how do you suggest we get judges?
/r/MensRights30/05/17 03:16 AM
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Someone brought up something interesting in those comments: what if it was a 14 y/o girl instead of boy? As in, a 38 year old woman and a 14 y/o girl? I wonder how these people would feel about it then.
/r/MensRights08/05/17 03:14 AM
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He was clearly tipped over the boiling point by her cunty attitude.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 05:16 AM
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It's a matter of knowing your friend well enough to be confident they won't break your jaw over something like that. He'll just put my phone and/or wallet between his ass cheeks in response. Or squirt my hair and face with a ton of oily lotion while I was sleeping. Maybe I am an asshole...
/r/MensRights05/02/17 06:07 AM
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If you say so. We both thought it was funny afterward and no one got hurt, so I don't really see where you're coming from, but okay.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 06:10 AM
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As long as it's a joke I would have no problem with it. I once convinced my friend that I murdered somebody as a joke.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 05:41 AM
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Apparently, "Adios!"
/r/PussyPassDenied01/12/16 03:58 AM
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What the fuck is your problem?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/15 09:48 AM
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