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1	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Well, if you often feel like you described in your previous comment, it’s good to do what you can to change it - and retaining some info is required to change that. YouTube probably has a lot of videos that present information you could use socially in a way entertaining enough to keep your attention so you could remember some of it. Or maybe try listening while you do something simple like cleaning, you’ll probably be able to recall some of what you heard when the topic at hand calls for it. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 10:24 PM
2	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. Clearly they’re not useless in this context	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 10:18 PM
1	A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. If that’s actually your issue - knowledge can always be gained	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 04:18 PM
1	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? You expanded the topic but that’s how it started	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 11:59 PM
1	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? We’re talking about all of it in context of social relations particularly dating. How are those guys awarded in that context?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 11:41 PM
2	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? Getting maximum benefits for doing less while someone else does more, for your benefit, and gets jack shit is smarter than doing more, for someone’s benefit, and getting jack shit. The fact you’ve made yourself capable of a certain, important job yet stayed incapable of attaining most of what is desired by the average human doesn’t make you intelligent. It does make you a good worker and the “stupid” apparently get the benefit of utilizing that. Intelligence and aptitude don’t keep you at societ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 09:39 PM
1	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? It doesn’t hurt me either that someone will invest their “aptitude and intelligence” into creating a comfortable environment for others to enjoy and end up with the short end of the stick, but it’s insane to consider it smart, because it probably does hurt them. Or I’m misinterpreting what seems like the dissatisfaction of the average man with his social standing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 09:24 PM
2	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? Right, because dogs as a group consider most men unworthy of attention like women allegedly do. The average men die in mines so women can drink lattes and be with the above average ones. Smart move from the average man, putting all his competency to work so he gives the better men and stupid women a better chance to enjoy. Great deal!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 09:09 PM
0	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? Men do it as individuals for money, it’s not one gender’s favor to another. And even if it was - if their work is what’s necessary to maintain civilization yet they find themselves in what they see as a position of disadvantage, they’re stupid. Smart is the one who gets to drink the latte instead of dying for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 05:52 PM
2	There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner. All of those statements are based on your stance of what’s good and what’s an issue - clearly others don’t see it the same way. There’s no reason for someone to prioritize responsibilities for something they may not even want at the moment instead of fun they do want. Why is that good for them to do then? Why would they have to be objectively productive in a certain way if they would rather choose something else? Some probably are oblivious to the drawbacks - that’s a shame, but some are aware a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 03:55 PM
2	There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner. I think the response to this is pretty clear - people wanna enjoy and have fun instead of staying up to feed a child. Some manage to have a kid later and think the extra effort in later years is an alright exchange for the fun they had earlier. Some don’t because they find it too hard. Some don’t manage to have kids and end up unhappy, or they’re still content. Point being, it’s not a mysterious matter of “something seriously wrong” - it’s clear that people are using their youth for their pleasu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 02:29 PM
10	Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text) It’s not your responsibility in the core but if you don’t take it on even though you don’t necessarily have to, most women won’t want to fuck you again/often	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 01:10 PM
3	The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggerated Something not being someone’s fault doesn’t mean it isn’t ugly. It’s nobody’s fault that they have DNA that makes them ugly but they just do	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 03:27 AM
1	Men and women both need to stop with the revenge porn and grow up. Well for the wife it makes sense but for the other family members the question is first what they want - if they’re up for it it’s a non issue and if they’re not, yeah it sucks but the formulation was just very dramatic, paints a picture which I don’t think would be normal in real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 07:48 PM
4	Men and women both need to stop with the revenge porn and grow up. Honest question - is it really that dramatic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 09:14 AM
8	What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man? The friends are toxic, not the act of breaking up. You can break up with anyone even if they’re perfectly fine for any reason, it doesn’t make sense to call it toxic	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:27 AM
1	Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon? I get that. I wouldn’t say very positive, as I think that’s actually just the opposite end of the same issue, I’d say try to be chill. This is only personal experience but it seems to me that’s what people in general respond best to. Others’ fear can be unnerving while it’s happening and not a very positive attribute when it’s something of the past. Going the opposite way and being too giddy is still not very stable. I’ll use your escort point as an example, because I “felt”it the most when read…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 09:08 AM
1	Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon? To make it short - you overthink, you have a negative attitude, your thinking seems fearful. None of it is attractive when expressed in communication. Not saying you don’t have a reason to think like that - but it doesn’t change the fact it’s unappealing. I think we all sometimes have that line of thinking but whether you express it makes a difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:21 PM
-1	Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon? I’m gonna say this and I’m sorry it’s unpleasant, feel free to go off on me if you find yourself offended. I still think it’s relevant criticism for someone who’s interested in communicating with people, opposite sex or not. Honestly, your train of thought is very tiring. People don’t like to be bothered with conversations colored by this mentality when they’re doing anything. When you have good energy and interesting thoughts to communicate you could “bother” most people and they would in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:27 AM
2	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Then they should hope to find someone who’ll exchange acts of full service for something else than acts of full sponsorship. That’s gonna be hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 08:19 AM
2	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Just compare it to any other love language. If it’s physical touch, but I demand you come to touch me every two hours whatever we’re both doing it’s not just about the love language. If it’s receiving gifts but I ask you to cover most of my expenses every month it’s not just about my love language. If it’s words of affirmation but i want you to text me all day about how I’m good looking, it’s not just my love language. If it’s quality time but I want you to spend all your free time and beyond wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 06:49 AM
0	Financial stability is about to become the biggest obstacle in an already chaotic dating market, particularly for young adults. How did you decide what is “supposed” to be the base on which a relationship is formed? That sentence seems to concisely express the sentiment that’s spread out through this whole theory, even seems like the base belief behind all of this - but you said it like it’s the truth when it’s just your opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 10:14 AM
1	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? I like being strong in general because let’s be realistic - what good is being weak gonna get me in everyday life? And I mean strong in any sense, not just physically. The stronger the better. It’s unrealistic to want to be physically stronger then men(plural) generally but being stronger financially, socially, etc than the person you’re comparing to, no matter the gender, is good. However I like being weaker than MY man, in any way, because it means he’s stronger - and I like strength in a man,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 04:00 PM
2	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? You could find a job that deploys your strength easily so it doesn’t have to be sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 04:05 PM
1	Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex. Yeah I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 09:06 AM
2	Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex. Got it, thanks. To be honest any preference is fair but we can’t always expect to get what we prefer	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 09:39 PM
4	Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex. How’s it not okay to reject anyone you’re not interested in? For this example of women and virgin men, how is it not okay to want an experienced partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 12:06 PM
1	Why does it take longer for men to get over breakups then women (even if the men initiated)? But how and why will the breakdown happen, and how will that result in going back to the patriarchy? And while it’s hard to read tone from comments - seems like you don’t think sexual freedom is positive or that virginity should be quaint. Do you think that ties to the breakdown and what do you think is gonna happen with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/21 05:04 PM
1	Why does it take longer for men to get over breakups then women (even if the men initiated)? Honest question, how do you see that happening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 11:57 PM
2	Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURE Listen to your wife primarily because not every person is gonna like the exact same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 04:07 PM
4	Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners? What is it? Genuine question. I read all this stuff and wonder why would someone be happy about providing for their able partner, what’s the quality they’re doing it for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/21 11:56 PM