topDOOM Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
119	Men using OLD to put women ‘back into their places’	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	topDOOM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 03:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Men date around to work on their “game” without looking for a relationship - why can’t women do this too? Ikr! I do this (well DID. not on OLD since start of COVID-19) because I know I’m somewhat socially deficient and inexperienced. I have weaknesses. Dating for practice has helped out a lot. I’m not a fan of wasting time on a male, so I usually only enter interactions with males that will benefit me in some way and carry minimal burden. Unfortunately, men get super annoying at some point, that it isn’t worth the practicing experience anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 12:58 AM
35	Reminder not to over-invest Good start, but I think everything on this chart should be a smidge lower in terms of percent invested.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 07:15 AM
47	LVM using the age-gap dynamic to underperform Interesting that you see it that way. I thought that the old geezers just use that phrase as a way manipulate and keep her reeled in; to make the girl feel good about herself and sort of normalize the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/20 12:16 AM
75	The importance of male foreplay Not totally sure what he is complaining about. The penis is already centered enough in sexual intercourse, IMO. Those women don’t seem that into him. Like he said, there’s a difference a woman LETTING a man sleep with them versus WANTING to sleep with him. Sounds like a lack of desire, to me. Maybe he isn’t as good at “female foreplay” as he seems to be suggesting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/20 02:00 AM
19	When she doesn't hear from her FWB (sexual acquaintance) in 8 days, she starts to think he doesn't want her! NAH, YA DON'T SAY!!! ??? I think even “fuckbuddy” is a bit too kind. “Buddy” is a friend, but like in a cute way. There’s nothing cute about “fuckbuddy” imo. It’s just icky.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/20 07:54 PM
3	The dangers of a "hoe phase" My point is -- STDs have fallen off the map within the sex positivity movement. Sure, everyone talks about "being safe" but conveniently forgets to mention that a large majority of men will try every trick in the book to not wear a condom. This can lead to terrible consequences and young women should be more careful and wait before having sex. This, right here. I was super shocked and caught off guard when I found out that this was the reality. It's exhausting to get out of, with the stubbornnes…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 08:17 AM
41	Man automatically think I’m a sugar baby/ gold digger I know it's easier said than done, but fuck ’em. Men tend to hate on and shame women that enjoy some of the fine things in life. You know what you are about and you know what your family is about. That is all that matters. If they're not contributing to my life in some sort of significant way or paying my bills, tuition, etc, then I don't give a crap what they think. I literally have zero reason to. Just by virtue of them being men, they believe that they ”matter.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/20 07:36 AM
97	Man automatically think I’m a sugar baby/ gold digger It isn’t you. There is nothing wrong with you or your profile. At least in my experience, Hinge (especially) has tons of scammers. Edit: They specifically prey on younger women. I'm guessing it’s spillover from the ”sugar bowl.” They’ll either: -deposit a (fake) check and have you send them back the money because there was some ”error” initially Or -have you use that (fake) check money to buy tons of gift card and send you those card codes back. Both of these end up in the bank detecting a fraud…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/20 07:18 AM
20	Men using OLD to put women ‘back into their places’ lol. The last one I dated kind of became a headache. This recent character on Tinder... He has an ig video of him driving in a Rolls Royce. Is a photographer and bodybuilds etc. I seriously don't understand the expectation for me to have zero standards and just turn over and take it. It's so incongruent with what image he tries to create for himself on social media and etc. Does not make any sense.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 04:25 AM
71	Men using OLD to put women ‘back into their places’ He was like, “do you think I NEED Tinder to even get women?” 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 03:52 AM
81	Getting with men either significantly older or younger increases our mortality rate substantially This is disturbing. I think older men literally suck the life force away from younger women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 06:18 PM
19	Don’t pay for dates because you’re afraid men will feel “entitled” to sex. You’re letting them start negotiation on their terms. Get used to men being unreasonably entitled and offended at your rejection of their half ass effort. And get even MORE used to not giving a SINGLE FUCK. I just wouldn't go on the date in the first place.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/19 04:33 AM