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Outer Game toporagno13/r/seduction07/12/24 10:45 AM
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Yeah sure, treat her like everyone else.
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:04 PM
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Saying Hi is the bare minimum for every social interaction, regardless of the fact you have a crush on her. Don't ever overthink it if you don't want to come off as insecure or too much concerned of her presence. Women are able to sense such behaviours.
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:10 PM
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The market is satured, nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:08 PM
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Precious content
/r/seduction11/12/24 07:37 AM
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Sarcasm, witty jokes, emotional anchors, making her run her fantasy, imagining future together...
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:27 PM
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👑👑
/r/seduction08/12/24 09:48 PM
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I don't even imagine how to manage an interaction to lead to a 3 some ahahaha. I am at the very start of this journey to improving in picking up. I would be glad to know how you make it happen tho :)
/r/seduction08/12/24 01:50 PM
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You are right, you enlightened me. Thanks a lot
/r/seduction08/12/24 01:48 PM
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Always nice to listen to female perspective. This is precious
/r/seduction07/12/24 01:03 PM
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I always take the number of the girl I am flirting with but it's a waste because I can tell she is ready to escalate right there. I don't wanna miss out on these opportunities anymore
/r/seduction07/12/24 12:59 PM
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Richard La Ruina is not attractive at all to me
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:01 AM
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Car and apartment are the last things you should think about because once she will be in your room, she already cooked ahahhahah. however, don't be too greedy because you could come off as desperate and send away a lot of customers.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:06 AM
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I've read a lot of comments here that discourage you to emotionally attract a woman to text. I don't agree. It's actually more powerful than building something out of nowhere in real life here in Italy. Women are emotional beings by definition and they are much more turned on by verbal stuff rather than visual / physical. Maybe “what’s missing in your life” is not a good starter because it is too vague and out of context, unless you are already talking about how she feels in this period. You emo…
/r/seduction20/10/24 02:33 PM
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tell me what's your first message type and maybe I can give you some tips.
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:04 AM
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It's not what you say but how you say it. Maybe you are too exuberant and she will find you weird or maybe you come off as scared of her reaction. You should appear natural and spontaneous
/r/seduction15/10/24 09:59 AM
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congratulate yourself for making the first step! now keep practicing and analise yourself on what you have done during the interactions.
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:06 PM
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women love to have male friends who can give them approval and us men love to delude ourselves
/r/seduction21/04/24 10:07 AM
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what can I say, I think I'ill save this post. Thank you for sharing your experience. That's what picking up should be about: a way to challenge yourself, boost social intelligence and get know more about yourself too. I really appreciate what you are doing and how you are doing it. Keep the energy high and have fun!
/r/seduction13/04/24 07:59 PM
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don't ask for her number straight away. try writing something cool and magnetic. if she's interested, she will check the dms on purpouse.
/r/seduction13/04/24 07:55 PM
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I can understand how you are feeling. Not everyone has the right opportunities since the very first start. Maybe some experiences made you become introvert or when you were younger, you did not have the maturity to catalyse reject in the right way. That's all right. Past is past, you can't change it. What you can change is that you can start from here. And as a guy who starts only now, you must not compare yourself to the others who have been doing this in a spontaneous way since they were young…
/r/seduction13/04/24 12:53 PM
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If you feel the need to move your pupils, you can try by looking sometimes at her ear, in the middle of the eyes, nose, one eye first and then the other. This will make it extremely flirty and it is not odd as staring her in the pupils.
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:59 PM
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she's just being flirty! keep up with the "fight" :), women love this.
/r/seduction09/04/24 06:56 PM
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As a short guy, I really appreciate what you shared. That's 100% facts.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:42 PM
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he was already trying hard in order to reveal himself more. He tried more than once. You will burn out completely the possibility to get her back if you insist. Then, it's not good for your mindset either. He'd better move on and focus on other girls. He will have better luck next time, without feelings of resentment or neediness towards her.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:29 PM
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if they were under the influence of some substances as alcool, then texting them immediately would not change anything. the day after she still will be asking herself if she felt good with you.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:23 PM
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You are going out for a reason, she expects AT LEAST a kiss, especially if you are used to flirt in chat.
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:37 PM
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looks like I don't have to tell you anything, you are a Casanova already, what the heck are you even doing here? HAHAHA. Jokes apart, since you have the guts to go and talk to everyone, you should try some places which are not known for pick-up as the library or some cultural event. There you will manage to find more interesting and profound women. But watch out, they will be less used to pick-up and more sensitive.
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:13 PM
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it's ok to take numbers and that's it. don't be too greedy and don't expect too much from interactions at the beginning. have faith in yourself and congratulate yourself just for have started to have the courage to approach them.
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:09 PM
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Keep it up man! reconsidering and sharing what has happened is crucial in order to improve. Wish u all the best for the next approaches. I will follow you.
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:07 PM
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girls are more open and down to approach in the evening at the bars. They don't want to be approached in train station (if they are in a hurry to catch the train), library (because most of the times they just want to study/chill and you are not allowed to speak anyway) or when they are working. don't ever approach from behind, don't come off with low energy or bored attitude. Try enjoying the interaction by thinking "i feel good today. let's see if this girl is interesting and can add something …
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:07 PM
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that's not my style and conception of seduction but yes, if we are talking about averages and statistics, I can agree :) P.S. thanks for letting me discover this guy. I will take a look at his philosophy.
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:54 AM
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I see no investment by the girl in this approach. yeah, he acts confident and cool and maybe it will work for him BUT in most of the cases, the girl will not reply to the text even if you manage to get her number. he did not create any attraction or bond with the girl. I see no flirting or whatsoever. I don't like the bodylanguage too.
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:26 AM
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you simply accept the fact that you are not her type. maybe she likes what you write but subconsciously she does not see you as a potential partner. she's probably thinking about another guy too.
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:17 AM
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women have a time of elaboration which is longer than men. I prefer to let her acknowledge what happened and create a little suspence. You can recover the "magic of the interaction" by sending a text which recalls something you experienced together. For example: once I found this girl eating an ice-cream on a bench. I started talking to her and she stopped eating the ice-cream, which was melting. She gave me her number and the day after I texted her with "feel sorry for that ice-cream. I think I…
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:19 AM
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text the next day; write something funny or flirty related to something you experienced together the day before so she will recall the moment and remember more about you. My experience: once I found this girl eating an ice-cream on a bench. I started talking to her and she stopped eating the ice-cream, which was melting. She gave me her number and the day after I texted her with "feel sorry for that ice-cream. I think I owe you one now :)".
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:16 AM
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start by touching her at the very first start of the date. When you greet her, one hand on her wrist and kiss on the cheek - i am italian so maybe this is normal for italians but you have to assume she went on a date with you because she eventually likes you so no fear ;). then, during the date, you want to escalate and get her used to your touch. Use some excuses. what really works the best is when you tease her and she pretends to be offended; i love when this happens because then I take the c…
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:04 AM
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you can always try to arrange another date but add some spice this time ;). Try to add some touching and see how she reacts. If she feels comfortable, then escalate more and see if she's down for a kiss.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:57 AM
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i mean, calling her is an all-in. you might come off as needy. I advice you to let the time pass by so she will forget about the impression you gave her. Afterwards, you will re-text her with a different attitude and already knowing what type of answers you should expect from her :) be patient, don't rush
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:47 AM
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Don't overdo it. Don't force yourself to flirt with her at all costs just to convince her to close. Enjoy the moment and be spontaneous. A tip: greet her warmly with a hug/kiss on the cheek and with a smile. Her behaviour through the date will depend on these first interactions. From that point, it will just snowball and the connection will become more intense. An other tip: don't go straight to the bar/restaurant. You will both feel a little imbarassed as you will sit one in front of the other …
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:05 AM
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Man, she wants you to make a compliment. She sent a picture for this reason. She wants to hear that she is appreciated only by you.
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:17 PM
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always be subtle at first. play your game. I know you don't have much time but you told me you still chit chat with her sometimes. That's good. Attempt to send a flirtatious message in which you show a bit of interest and see how she reacts. If she's down, keep it up and then you will have to make little effort to go on a date with her.
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:10 PM
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First of all, I admire your dedication and the effort you are putting in this field. Not everyone has the courage to keep up with doing this in spite of the moments of self-doubt. However, I don't think that this type of excuse works best in order to obtain what we aim. We want to approach girls to meet them again and potentially date/get laid. We want to make conversations which are man to woman. So, you'd better try with a more charming and playful approach, even though it shows interest blata…
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:05 PM
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just as you normally do it towards your friends when you are having a good time together and joking around. When a friend of mine makes a funny joke and I start laughing, it is spontaneous to me to grab firmly his arm or give a pat on the back. It works the same with girls. You take a lot of chances to flirt with her and make her laugh, so you grab her thighs. An other interesting way is to tease her. She will pretend to be sad and she will eventually look away or move away from you. Now you can…
/r/seduction06/04/24 07:31 PM
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