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I think a drink is fine for the first date. One drink-if you have enough control. After that you do dinner dates. If they keep asking for drink dates, say no. I made that mistake in my 20’s. I allowed too many drink dates
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 01:08 PM
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Just be courteous. I’ve worked with many people over the years I didn’t like and the best method is to be courteous....And don’t divulge too much information about yourself. Don’t be cold—be neutral.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 12:33 AM
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You said you just finished college you are probably in your early or mid 20’s. I think this is something you will get over as you age. I used to be jealous of my prettier friends but now I am proud of my pretty friends. I want them to be attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 05:22 PM
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I listened to Dave Ramsey (he is a financial coach on the radio) and he was saying you never get rich shacking up with different partners. It costs money and resources to do. Search Dave Ramsey “Choices and Relationships” on YouTube. It’s only 7 minutes and makes so much sense. He has other videos about shacking up and how it hurts you financially.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 08:21 PM
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I would say just constantly remind yourself to stand up straight and speak softer and eventually it will just become a habit. I don’t have to remind myself to stand up straight anymore but I often have to remember to soften my voice if I’m getting loud.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 01:27 PM
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Speaking in a soft tone. I was always pretty quiet but in my 20’s I got obnoxious and a bit loud. I’ve come down dramatically. Also, posture and standing up straight. In high school I had a friend who went to modeling school and told me how standing up straight is more attractive. I recently went to the beach and saw a few women walking around hunched over and it was not a good look.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 12:25 PM
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Not all blondes are fake.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 02:17 PM
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This is so interesting. I think it does have to do with conditioning of society but I can’t think of examples. I never got much attention from men until I was 18 and then got so much attention. And I finally felt good about myself!! But I was just as valuable before 18 years when I got zero attention. Something is wrong here! How do we teach our daughters to feel valuable without being promiscuous??
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 01:14 PM
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I think you don’t need any advice. Everything you just said about how you like to wait makes perfect sense. Honestly, if you can’t say to a guy what you just typed to us than he’s not worth it. Just be prepared that there will be a lot of guys who don’t understand it and won’t stick around. In the end, it will always be more important that you were true to yourself and that you have respect for yourself. You’ll carry that your whole life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 08:55 PM
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I give you a lot of credit. I am not a prude but definitely not a saint. My best friend has slept with 2 men and she is in her 30’s now. I used to think she was prude but now that I’m older I give her credit and wish I had done the same thing. You will never be ashamed of yourself for only sleeping with men you love. But you will be ashamed either yourself for sleeping w men just to sleep w them
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 06:26 PM
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My sister met a good man online. My friend met a good man at a bar. I don’t think it’s WHERE you meet him. You could meet a weirdo at a church. I think it’s a matter of going out for dates, getting to know him and analyzing his traits, values and habits
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:24 PM
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I had a teacher in middle school and she was always yelling at the disruptive kids in class and she was still feminine. I never thought she was manly or less of a woman when she got pissed and reprimanded these kids.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 02:23 PM
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I’ve never been cat called. Even when I was young and hot. Anyways, the second I read your post I straightened up. Lol, I think it helps to always be aware of posture and I try to remind myself daily.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 02:21 PM
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I had a friend who would say “virginity is overrated” It made us all feel better about our bad choices. All you can do is learn from your mistakes and move on. And yes, it will fade but probably won’t ever go away. Learn to live with it. You can’t go back now.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:37 PM
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I remember when all I lived for was going out in a cute outfit. I’m so happy I’m way past that because it really did nothing for me in the long run. I don’t have IG but if I did, I’d probably like to look at art and nature. Maybe tutorials? Can you make a page that shows how you create the art you’ve been posting ? It seems like you have an interesting page so keep doing what you are doing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:30 PM
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I don’t think it’s frowned upon in today’s society to want marriage, baby and to stay home with the baby. I think it’s something you will eventually get if you want it enough. I would advise you to stay out of debt as much as possible. Many times women will go to school and rack up student loans and then when its time for a baby, they have to go back to work to help pay off the loans. Keep your expenses low, keep your values and eventually you will get what you want. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 12:20 PM
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You will probably grow out of this. I used to be this way but it really won’t matter as you age. Keep the best appearance you can but also try to keep a graceful character. The character of a person is always more important and it’s what people remember. Also, sometimes people’s appearances change. Someone may look great at 22, but by 31, their looks have transformed. I’ve seen it happen. Also, you can be blind in a way. These women may not be any more attractive than you are. You just might be …
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 03:05 PM
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I respect his values and opinions. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/20 03:12 PM
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Although it would be nice, you probably can’t leave without pain. He will be hurt. You will be hurt. It will be an adjustment for both of you. Try to be as respectful and honest as possible but know inside your needs come first. I’m my experience, it has taken a few times to finally leave. I hope it works differently for you, though. When it’s time to end, it will end.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 07:44 PM
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Not in my experience. I have males who I am friendly with and consider them friends. But as far as best friends or men I converse with daily-no.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 09:44 PM
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I think you have to feel sexy before you can get the look. Some of it will come with age but a lot of it is attitude and mindset. When I was your age I found that listening to Mariah Carey’s music made me feel more feminine and sexy. You can try to find a female musician you admire and listen to her music and kind of embody the lyrics.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 02:20 AM
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I think when we are young, it is easier to adhere to the manipulations of certain partners. We might put up with less of that behavior as we age and therefore healthy men might seem boring compared to the rollercoaster of emotions we were used to with the bad boy. I am personally not bored whatsoever with emotionally stable men. But I would have never said that in my 20’s.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 12:26 AM
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His boundaries were clear in the beginning. He wanted discreet which meant he wanted to hook up and on his terms. Discreet is just a fancier word for that. Make your boundaries clear from the beginning. I wasted years in failed relationships until I finally told my now-husband in the first few weeks of dating that I wanted to be engaged, then married with children. And he was like “Ok. Me too.” I think he respected that I was not messing around and knew what I wanted. Seeking arrangement is not …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 03:42 PM
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I think this is worth leaving a relationship over. You need to talk to him about it, though. And make your boundaries very clear. What is your ideal situation? He unfollows every “model” and deletes the saved pictures? (I didn’t even know you can save pics on IG.) I personally think IG is unhealthy and causes issues in relationships. My ex followed so many women on FB and IG and it really bothered me but I let it go. Until I discovered he messaged about 10 of these models one evening saying madl…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 07:34 PM
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