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I get this, and I know I need to be aware since I like to give all people the benefit of the doubt, but there are also a lot of posts here that are just hating on women. TRP isn't about hating women. I LOVE women. TRP is about how women work, and using that to your advantage. I love a good hamster example as much as the next guy, but here and there I see a post showing some article where a woman has a normal reaction that any human would have, and the OP goes off on what a foul cunt she is. I do…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:51 PM
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I'm ugly. When I say good looking I mean that you are a 6 or higher. Those of us who are a 5 or lower can't get the time of day on dating profiles. I tried OKC, and took hours and hours to develop a writeup, the final version got rave reviews from people. After months of sending messages to every attractive girl in my area, I ended up with interest from 2 women, neither was attractive. Ironically, they were best friends and had contacted me without knowing the other had. Those were the only two …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:36 PM
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OK, I missed the cuddling/past sex part. That's a paddling. source: I'm drunk as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 07:36 AM
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Unfortunately, she couldn't understand why it wasn't okay to spend hours chatting with her "online friends", frequently mentioning how much they miss each other, and ending conversations with mutual "love you!"s. "I haven't seen these guys in over a year! I don't mean 'love' in a romantic way!" She couldn't understand why it wasn't okay to keep cutesy secrets with her guy friends, or why it wasn't okay to speak in obvious code to her guy friends when they were all together. Whenever he asked wha…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 07:34 AM
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Find a seasoned PUA to walk you through it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 02:53 AM
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Totally accurate. Girls get so many messages on dating sites that their SMV artificially inflates by a huge amount. 6's are treated like 9's. Their profiles will be one word, stupid answers to the questions, yet they slam your well composed profile no matter what. Online dating is 95% pics. If you aren't eye candy, it is almost pointless. It is really tough to use standard seduction techniques, too - because so many guys just mass message girls with similar stuff. So anything that approaches "PU…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:31 PM
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Change your mind, and you will change your instincts. In other words, you won't feel dominant unless you believe you are. And to believe you are, you have to convince yourself logically that you are. To convince yourself logically that you are, you have to look at it logically instead of emotionally. In other words, educate yourself. When you realize that you really are the one with the power, you'll naturally be dominant in bed. And you won't be doing that awkward thing where you try to say dir…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:38 AM
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She'll also be much more into it. The main reason girls don't want you to stick your tongue up their ass is usually the fact that they aren't sure how clean their pooper is. It's also a big reason girls don't want you to just decide to have anal sex without talking about it first.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:30 AM
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Look before you lick?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:27 AM
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I love a good ass licking as much as everyone, but the term 'tossing salad' brings to mind the Chris Rock version (where the term came from) which is most definitely not something I would enjoy...
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:27 AM
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Fuck no. Well, yes. Online dating is a joke. It is a virtual shopping mall for women. Fuck that shit, I don't have the time to dedicate to marketing myself so that 1 out of every 100 women I message will respond. Facebook is also a lame way to meet women. However, everybody has a facebook, and it is a great way to keep in touch with women you know, and to spit a little game here and there to keep them interested if you don't have the opportunity to do it in person. But it can also be a sand trap…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:04 AM
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I've never heard that before - it is brilliant!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 06:50 AM
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Well, it was a pretty hampsterish way to excuse hate fucking her friend's husband or whatever, but in the end it seems like it worked out well for everyone. It sounds like they had a shit marriage and he was an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 06:43 AM
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Wow, I've been a solid level 2 for years, and didn't even know it. I had never even heard of MTGOW (or RedPill) until this year :oP
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 07:00 AM
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Why the FUCK would a guy buy a cam girl something? I mean, when I was beta I would do some dumb shit, but that is like parody-level beta. I wish I had tits. I could own the world.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 11:24 PM
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BRB - filling out college app. This is the opposite of clubs - where women are outnumbered by men and have a huge SMV advantage. So a good strategy is to go where most men don't.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:51 PM
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Yeah, but they don't have a monopoly on the frustration. The women quoted sounded exactly like 80% of the men on reddit when talking about trying to meet women, going to clubs where women have all of the SMV. I love seeing the roles reversed!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:50 PM
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...and lets JD do all the things to her that she wouldn't let him do?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:24 PM
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Cats aren't loyal either, but lots of men have cats because of the positives they do have. And masturbating isn't quite as enjoyable as actual sex, at least to me. A lot cheaper maybe, but not as fun. I actually think that it is an oversimplification to say that no women are loyal. They have their own version of love, it's just different than men's. Women aren't all evil, they just experience life a different way.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 02:35 PM
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Wow, dude. You really have done well.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 12:16 AM
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Lulz. Certainly not in the US, at least not past the age of 14.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 12:07 AM
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Where on God's green Earth do you find a virgin in 2014?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:20 PM
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I think you have the best username ever.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:18 PM
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You're on the right track. Just laugh at it and push it further. Basically anything that shows you aren't threatened is fine. If she says her guy friend is hot, ask her if she'll get his number for you. If she says Steve will do so and so for her, ask her if she thinks he'd be willing to take her off of your hands full-time. You can even just shrug and say "ok." if she's getting really persistent about it (like you aren't really even listening to her). But try to do it with humor, and a good hea…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:10 PM
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Me too. I've actually been avoiding women lately so that I don't have to even think about it, in order to put all of my energy into my business. Kind of the first time in my life that I've not been actively trying to get laid. It's a weight off my shoulders.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:33 PM
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It does. I don't think it has to, though. I think that with time, my attitude will adjust to make it more fun. It's really all mental - feeling like it's a huge effort to keep up some kind of facade. But I have gotten to the point where it becomes really fun - when I'm in the right frame of mind, and have let go of worrying about the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:30 PM
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Yep. 39.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:26 PM
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That makes sense. I guess I just feel let down. It doesn't really make any practical difference, though. Just growing out of my old fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:25 PM
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There are more positive aspects of having swallowed the red pill than having not, remember that. Oh, I still feel that way. There's just a lot of energy involved in turning around your entire world view. Sometimes it's exhausting!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:00 PM
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This sounds 100% accurate. Those girls like Gillian are great, if you can find them!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:58 PM
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Wow, what a great post! Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:56 PM
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I've found that girls who are around a 7 typically are the most laid back. Of course there is a lot of variation. But super hotties just think too much of themselves, and UGs are completely bitter and full of hate. The girls who are pretty enough to have a little self esteem, but not so beautiful that men let them get away with being spoiled brats - they tend to be the best of the lot in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:55 PM
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Challenge accepted!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:52 PM
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It's sad that at one time I would do absolutely anything for a drop of that juice. I wish I could have all that time and effort back.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:51 PM
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I feel ya. It does feel like a cruel joke!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:50 PM
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Lovedrop (Mystery's wing), said that k-closing is counterproductive. It satisfies the desire you've built up in her, ending the sexual tension. Most girls are really easy to kiss close, since that is considered just part of a fun night out. But if you want to go farther, you'll do better putting off kissing her until you are in a position to do a full close. Little teasing kisses are great, but full on make out sessions can kill the mystery of knowing you physically for her. It's kind of like ho…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:30 PM
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It really is a good read. Of course it is considered the least PC work of literature ever, so don't go suggesting it in English 101 class. There is an animated, claymation version of it that holds very true to the book, if you aren't down with deciphering Shakespeare text.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:20 PM
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I agree with everything you said except for the fat part. It's definitely a little better to be in shape, but being big isn't much of a handicap at all. Some women even prefer big guys. Not sloppy and disgusting, but overweight. The danger is to think that you can't get laid until you fix absolutely everything in your life and that you have to be some kind of demi-god before you can try to have sex with women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 12:45 PM
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What is up with that subreddit? It is the absolute worst seduction based forum I have ever read. Most all of their advice is the opposite of good form, and they seem to think that going to the gym a lot is 99% of being a PUA. WTF?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 12:31 PM
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My wingman and I were both pretty shy. We had a lot of AA at first, and it stalled us out bad. So we learned a LOT about battling it. I even came up with a custom "pre-newbie mission" mission, geared just to get guys who have never approached a woman before, or get panic attacks, or just freeze and always chicken out, to slowly overcome that problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 07:43 AM
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Yeah, it is def. an introvert inverter.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 06:17 AM
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Same here. Approaching gets so much easier after a few warm-ups. My method is to start by asking random people if they know where an ATM is, just to get my mouth and brain into talking mode. After a few minutes of that, I start opening sets - but the first 3 don't count. The first 3 are warm ups. After that, I'm pretty much in state and ready to run some game.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 10:49 PM
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Man, I feels ya. That is a lot like my folks' relationship. They are religious and divorce was never an option in their minds. I actually wish it had been. My Pop is completely non-intimate with her, he won't even let her kiss him on the cheek - she tried it for a picture and he literally jerked back his head in disgust. Because he has so much pent up rage about her relentless tiny cuts. I stay out of their business as much as I can. But since I've grown up, I do call out my mother sometimes. It…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:23 AM
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Yeah. Seeing their mistakes has really influenced my personal philosophy in life.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:13 AM
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What is up with the Swedes and taking feminism to a (even more than the rest of the West) ridiculous level? No one tells me how I can or can't take a leak. Come try to make me sit down. I'll piss all over you!
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 11:21 PM
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You'll do better flying solo, but you will be much more motivated with a wingman. As in, most wingmen suck - it's next to impossible to find a good wingman who raises your value without trying to steal the show, but it's a lot harder to go out alone. It's way more fun and easy to me to go out with a guy I like. Makes it fun. We challenge one another and push one another into sets. But I can't count how many sets I've had my buddy fuck up in some way (usually able to recover, but still it's annoy…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:46 AM
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Ha ha, lol. Just be glad that you are on this side of the lie. Poor guy. What meetup groups/themes are best for you? I do a photography/models meetup, and it's ok. But there's a majority of ugly/fat chicks who use the group to pretend to be models :oP
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 09:48 PM
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As an aside, buy a Cadillac. As an aside, have a man buy you a Cadillac. FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:55 AM
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This.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:29 AM
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I guess that the upside to this is that young guys with weak game can pick off a few "cougarish" 40 year olds who haven't become completely unattractive yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 10:09 PM
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Yep, old womanhood is just karma for all those years being entitled princesses. The smart ones a) take care of themselves so that they can extend the princess phase, and b) check out and 'settle' for a beta male with great earning potential somewhere in their late twenties or early thirties. A few of them are able to extend it past 40, but those are really rare. Smart women go ahead and bag a beta before they hit the wall. What really sucks is that those hard working, nerdy betas are happy for l…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 10:06 PM
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Suddenly thinking about going back for my masters...
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 07:17 PM
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Expecting women to be logical XD Women have forever claimed to want one thing, and be turned on by another. What woman do you know that doesn't always say she wants a "nice guy", but then goes home with total jerkasses? Even women admit to that one. Think of it as a cheat code. The fact that you know better puts you already ahead of all those friendzoned guys in "This Is What a Feminist Looks Like" t-shirts, thinking that it will get them laid...
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 05:22 AM
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I thought this had to be an article from The Onion. We have treated fishes as a mass term ‘fish’ and we don’t view them as individuals This has to be parody, right? right?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 05:58 AM
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Don't forget slut-shaming! I mean, she has a right to sneak around with alpha males, since her bf is so weak and works 12 hours a day to buy her nice things!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 02:07 PM
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Nice. You are an asshole for doing that to the poor guy. If you hadn't tricked her into letting you fuck her, they wouldn't have this problem, and you know it. It's not his "beta attitude" that creates the problem, or her "hamstering backwards rationalizations". It's you being manipulative and taking advantage of an innocent girl whose boyfriend isn't giving her enough quality time. You took advantage of her in a weak emotional state, and then did it again without the slightest feeling of guilt.…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 06:07 AM
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Yeah, arguing with redditors is a lose-lose proposition. As is taking that POV seriously. Good points.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 05:06 PM
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You've got to be an idiot to go on a site like that. While I'm sure that you would have no lack of dates, every last one of them is going to be a gold-digging user. The kind of woman who picks her dating site solely by the wealth of the men on it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 09:09 AM
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I don't know why the thought should be that shocking (training a gf). I've heard women talk about "training" their boyfriends and husbands for decades - they say it tongue-in-cheek, but really aren't joking. It's a common part of the "nesting instinct" women have. It's one of the reasons I don't get into committed relationships much anymore. But I do tend to use operant and classical conditioning on people in general. Because it works. And I have no idea why people don't pick up on it more often…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 07:47 AM
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Thanks. I try to explain to people why we aren't all neckbeard rapists - but once most redditors read "RedPill", their mind shuts off and they go into auto-hate mode. I really think that 95% of the world is incapable of doing any real critical thinking - if it sounds like stuff that other people hate, then they hate it. Whatever. It means that people like us can get ahead in life and experience realities that most would never even dream of.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 02:22 AM
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Yep - one single needy comment or action is all it takes to turn a woman off completely. My advice is to move on - it's easier to find and attract another woman than it is to repair what you've done with her. It takes a long time to beat those bad behaviors out of your system. Although you've probably learned what's good and bad in seduction, we grow up doing so many awful things (for me, weak and submissive body language was my particular cross to bear), that it is completely ingrained into you…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 06:26 PM
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Luckily, I've always been too selfish and/or immature to get married. Not that marriage is an immature act, but I personally have never been ready to make such a commitment in the right way. Fortunately, I somehow recognized that, and avoided the agony I'm sure you went through (marrying the wrong person, suffering through the hell that is divorce in our society). I just hope you didn't get taken too badly!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 06:20 PM
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The value of pussy has plummeted. If only the teeming hoards of beta males out there believed this, we would be somewhere as a society. But instead, they continue to throw their entire lives' values down at the feet of the first female that will let them. So if a girl is pretty, everything is still given to her. I think that the /r/nofap guys have hit on something: constantly fapping to porn doesn't really give you an advantage in the sexual marketplace. If anything, it causes men to become more…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 11:08 AM
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What's the deal with women becoming famous for being retarded shitbags? Next thing you know, this toad will be getting money to pose in Playboy or something. New shortcut in life: Act like total asshat in public. Get tons of publicity for what a douchebag you are. Enjoy the infamy and cash in bigtime, all the while crying about how much pressure the negative tweets have put on you - I mean, you're just a sweet, innocent little girl! You couldn't possibly be to blame for your own actions, could y…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:44 AM
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This is why I don't get too invested in women anymore. Men are bastards and liars - but everyone knows that. And we usually own up to our bullshit. But women, man can they do some evil bullshit and justify it in their own heads. I'm surprised she didn't just blame the whole thing on her husband being distant or something.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:36 AM
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Well, I've had my fun. Now time to find a wimpy guy who will work every second to keep me happy so I can get fat and bitch about wanting more stuff. It's kind of like retirement for women. They get to stop taking care of themselves, and just live off of the pension they created by having sex with a guy they weren't attracted to (but who got his MBA) long enough for him to buy the whole cow. Personally, I prefer to be a few versions of the guys on her list, than the "nice guy" who she has really …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:31 AM
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Good for you. I didn't discover seduction until I was well into my thirties, and it took me years to get the grasp of it because I had spent so much of my life being a total doormat.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:19 AM
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I don't get it myself. No way I could stand to have my gf go fuck a bunch of dudes all day! He has to either be into cuckolding, or bisexual, or just doesn't give a fuck about her and just thinks it's cool that he's dating some chick other guys jerk off to. I understand the logic of not being jealous or grossed out. I just don't get how a guy could overcome his biological instinct to not want his gf to get filled with other guys' jizz. But I am sure that he has all the sex he wants with her porn…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:17 AM
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are there any people here who believe in the general redpill/men's rights ideas but still have women they truly value and love in their lives? I do. I am very close to most all of my ex's, especially my latest one - I consider her my closest friend. We broke up because I was going through some deep emotional issues that had nothing to do with her, or women in general. and what are these women like? Well, they are all different, but what they do have in common is that they respect me, and I them.…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:07 AM
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