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Sorry, man. That's unfair. You had a great post. I guess because it wasn't in reference to a woman or women, then the mods must've thought it couldn't apply strictly within the rules. Wish they had left the post up. You had great stuff in there. Fortunately, I copied and saved it. So I'll be referring to your post over and over again as I continue learning how to live the red pill life.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:01 AM
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Great post, man. When I finally stood up, decided that I was going to beat the living hell out of a single person who bullied me again in high school - something amazing happened - it fucking stopped! Not a single. punch. thrown. Because I went from nice to boss. And because of that decision I made - there was less violence in the world. People were not perpetrating their violence onto me - I stopped it. As a result they became better less violent people and so did I. Shocking? Again - not fucki…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 08:21 PM
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I am very thankful my sexual satisfaction does not rely upon women. Ha! Funny. It could be considered a blessing of sorts. This may seem like an odd question, or maybe I'm just being stupid. But do all gay men think like men? Or do you find some gay men have a female way of thinking (e.g., not using logic, but relying on emotions, hamstering, etc.).
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 08:09 PM
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Yeah, apply (or keep applying) RP principles in your marriage. For me, two of the most valuable have been Outcome Independence and Amused Mastery. The first, I've used every time she tries her own Dread game. Shit works every time. And, if it doesn't, it's okay. I've got options. The second, I've used when she starts drama queening about stupid shit. I just don't buy into her drama anymore. That shit used to take us into a downward spiral of both of us going ape shit. That doesn't happen anymore…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:58 PM
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Me saying don't worry about it could have meant: Don't worry about it, I'll use a condom. Or, don't worry about it, I would never cheat on you. Either way, I think she wanted to rub her scent all over me because we pretty much had sex up until she dropped me off at the airport. heh Ha, well played, sir, well played. I'm striving to get to that point in my marriage, where my natural response is couched in RP thinking. I'm still working on counteracting decades of BP conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:49 PM
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Yeah, that's part of the problem. They've got pussy. No matter how fat and ugly, there's always going to be thirsty sad sacks lining up to hit that shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:44 PM
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When women hit a certain period in life she just goes poof and her SMV is gone and never comes back. Hahaha. Reminds me of the joke about Russian women: how they're all hot and lithe when young, but once they get to be a certain age, boom. Short, fat babushkas.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:40 PM
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Yep, good post. After my divorce, I decided to upgrade with a younger, hotter wife. We've been married 10 years, but many of those years have been rocky as shit. Now that I've learned of the RP reality and began applying those principles in our marriage, the path has become a lot smoother. It's amazing how well (and how quickly) these principles work (dread, outcome independence, amused mastery). I mean, it's a learning process for me, trying to overcome fucking decades of Blue Pill conditioning…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:38 PM
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The thing that's great about the red pill mentality is that you always have options. You're right. Great way of stating it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:19 PM
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Looking for a woman to mentally stimulate you is a not the right strategy. Agreed. Before TRP, I always looked for well-educated, smart women. Now, after learning of the true RP reality, I realize that's all bullshit. Both my first wife and my current wife have Master's degrees, both graduated with academic honors. And, good Lord, before TRP, it was always a mystery to me why these two women seemed so stupid when it came to being able to think logically about relationship issues and so forth. I …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:12 PM
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This. Once your SMV slips, the wife begins thinking about looking for her next branch.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:04 PM
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That's an excellent point and, to take the analogy further, when children are spoiled, never told no, made to feel like special snowflakes, they become insufferable, immature primadonnas unable to function effectively in society. Which, in a sense, describes the state of womanhood today in American society.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:44 PM
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Exactly. I usually come across this in business, but it's used in politics and practically any other context as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 12:03 PM
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Exactly. My wife appeals to extremes then, if I'm not careful, I end up arguing about stupid, absurd shit with her.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 10:33 PM
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Sometimes I've come across crafty morherfuckers who say this shit all the time to beguile you into underestimating them -- while they're out thinking and out maneuvering you.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 10:29 PM
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"It's 2:40 in the morning. She's just coming out of the bar. At 2-something in the morning, they probably didn't have that much cash on them. Um, why wouldn't she have cash? Ms. Sanchez, age 40, are you telling me that the victim, Melissa Thomas, age 29, was buying drinks for men at the bar? Or are you telling me that she was buying her own drinks? Much more likely, men were buying her drinks all night. "Where are our men? Why are they not protecting us?" Sanchez continued, her voice full of fru…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:21 PM
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She was 29 and I was 44. We're celebrating our 10th anniversary this year.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:35 PM
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Damn right.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 06:32 PM
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I would disagree. My wife is 15 years younger than me and I've never heard a negative comment about our age difference. 10 years' age difference is not uncommon, while 20 might be pushing it. But a man shouldn't give a fuck what people say, anyway, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 06:30 PM
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Women don't get honest feedback in anything other than their looks. That's the number 1 reason a lot of women fall to the constantly disrespectful asshole. Women are given feedback on their looks, but I suggest that it's generally positive, even inflated, feedback. Women usually are looking for validation, not honesty.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:01 PM
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I think there are lots of examples in which leaders have been real assholes, yet are able to motivate and succeed. In my view, it's only when the assholes fail to achieve business objectives that they're fired.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:56 PM
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Thanks for your response. My reasoning for that statement is that women are not introspective by nature and their thinking is ruled by emotions and very little (if any) logic. So, that's how I came to the conclusion that even if our roles were reversed, they would not learn as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:54 PM
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This sounds exactly why 'female bosses' suck down to even retail. They try to 'ape' masculinity and get it all wrong by trying to be crude, rude, and mean without good reasons, transitions, and details. That's a great point, particularly since we know that they are rarely able to understand or empathize with men, so they're only parroting their perceptions of how a many leads. The number one reason is because they aren't the ones pursuing or leading, but rather pushing people (beta's) away. They…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 06:16 PM
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That would be a nice change, huh?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:07 PM
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Yeah, right. After years of riding the cock carousel, a couple of STDs, a couple of abortions, maybe 50+ sexual partners, she'll hit the wall in her 30s, and will realize she needs to find a nice, dependable provider. Um, will those "learning experiences" make her more desirable? Uh, no.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 03:06 PM
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I don't think he was being an asshole. He just wants something different from the relationship than she does. For example, let's break down exactly what she says he does to treat her like shit: He was EXTREMELY unavailable: took hours to reply to my texts, bailed on plans all the time, never initiated conversation, never made an effort to make plans, yet I was at his beckon call when he decided he wanted a booty call. What she says she wants and what she desires are two different things.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:58 PM
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She's says this guy is treating her like crap, but I don't think so. I think he's being quite upfront about what he wants from her. She's looking at the relationship through her solipsistic prism. Let's break down exactly what she says he does to treat her like shit: He was EXTREMELY unavailable: took hours to reply to my texts, bailed on plans all the time, never initiated conversation, never made an effort to make plans, yet I was at his beckon call when he decided he wanted a booty call. To m…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:51 PM
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LOL. Finally learned that, thanks to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:34 PM
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Yeah, I like where she says it's actually a turnoff for the guy to act nice. That's why I think it's so hard for some of us to grasp the red pill reality. I mean, that shit makes no logical sense. It turns her off to be treated with respect and consideration? Yeesh. Women.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:33 PM
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Quite true.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:31 PM
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We must be getting a lot of anti-RP people visiting this sub just to down vote. At the moment, you've got 15 down votes, and there's nothing that's untrue or controversial at all from an RP perspective in your short comment. I cannot fathom why people would waste their time to read through a sub they hate just to down vote.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:30 PM
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Finally found a direct link to the PDF file: http://www.ulozto.net/xxkfka6/daniel-rose-sex-god-method-pdf
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:12 PM
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This link isn't working for me. Is there another link that someone can provide? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:11 PM
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Women are hypocrites: Shocker. Fat women (scale: 5) only willing to date 8s: Shocker, yet again.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:36 PM
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Money shot: I am an asshole. A douche. A manipulative piece of shit. Except I am not. I am a man who realizes his value and doesn't give it away. Nice guys hate me. Women fuck me. I am more confident and happy than ever. Go figure. Word.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:09 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:25 PM
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I did, until I took the red pill, and I was constantly perplexed why the way women thought and behaved was completely different than we were constantly told by women themselves and society in general.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:35 PM
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Interesting. I see that now. Will absolutely try that next time. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 11:13 AM
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Use your body and playful humour to open her into love. (the David Deida approach). E.g. start tickling her, or step into her space and pull her in for a kiss. Tease her, putting her on the defensive by trivializing her complaint (the "you're so cute when you're angry" approach). E.g. tease her by calling her the kitchen Nazi or Martha Stuart, &c. Interesting. These are techniques that I need to remember to try. Truthfully, when she's ranting and raving, being playful and flirty is not my first …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:55 PM
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Makes sense, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:52 PM
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...and you could sell the rights to the story! Winning! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:01 PM
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Yeah, and I covered the damn thing in aluminum foil too.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:45 PM
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Hmm, good point. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:55 AM
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Yep, thanks. Unfortunately, I just discovered TRP, and am well into my second marriage. If this one goes bust, I think I'm joining the ranks of MGTOW, at least for a while.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:55 AM
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...my only advice is to treat her more like a child.... Yeah, that's part of the BP conditioning I need to learn to overcome (that is, thinking of her as an equal in terms of maturity, reasoning ability, etc.). Fuck it, dude, she's already submitted that you were right. A man being right?- did you ever think it possible? No. It's astonishing how quickly and easily TRP works. Way to go, sir. Thanks man. I appreciate that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 09:59 PM
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Edited the OP to include what kind of pan.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 07:45 PM
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Edited the OP to include what kind of pan.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 07:45 PM
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I see what she's talking about. I didn't go into it because it wasn't an important detail, in my view. It really could have been anything else that was seemingly irrational.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:07 PM
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hahaha. Yup.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:06 PM
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Thanks. Yes, she has jealousy issues with my son and daughter. That's hard for me to believe, but it's there. I appreciate your input.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:06 PM
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I fail at this regularly but keep trying and trying. Same here. It's hard to counteract a lifetime of BP indoctrination. The book: "The Way of the Superior Man" explains this in detail. More than anything else, a woman's greatest pleasure is testing her man in order to feel his emotional strength. Second time I've seen this book recommended. I will pick it up, thanks! I agree with RP Dad (usually). Next time try to escalate when she is in apology mode. Complement her about her beautiful, sweet, …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:04 PM
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Yes, it felt good!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:49 PM
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LOL. Good plan. Thanks! EDIT: yeah, truthfully, I was so surprised by her apology that I couldn't think that far ahead. I'll be ready next time!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:48 PM
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Appreciate it. Yeah, mobile.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 07:09 PM
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Erk, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 06:44 PM
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slim Very often, it's an old picture before they put on 20+ lbs.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 04:26 PM
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Thankfully, but I think the total numbers are growing.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:51 PM
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Ain't gonna happen. New drones are created every day in academia.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:20 PM
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From the article: Teaching is a political act, and you can't choose to be neutral. Translation: stop teaching facts; propagandize. As many of us know, most public schools and many universities do little else other than inculcate a specific political perspective in students.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:14 PM
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Welcome. Keep coming back.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:07 PM
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Really outstanding post. Thank you so much. A few comments below on your pearls of wisdom. This will be a subjective account of my thoughts on the topic of Positive Masculinity. If you are cynical on LTR's or don't desire one yourself, feel free to move along. Thank you. There’s a real dearth of positive LTR advice on this forum. Perhaps you could cross post to /r/RedPillRelationships? You are firm, fair, and patient, but you never compromise your mission or your dignity to achieve goals. I must…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:01 PM
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I'm in agreement with /u/Aughin. I think one of the most important techniques for ensuring smoothity (to coin a word) is to be outcome independent, or to not give a fuck either way. It brings to mind one of my favorite quotes (paraphrased here): Sing like no one is listening...dance like nobody's watching, Which, in other words, means you're usually your best self when you aren't worrying about what other people are thinking. Just be yourself. If she gets you, fine. If she doesn't, move on to th…
/r/askTRP01/04/14 12:41 PM
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Most of the RP principles are the same for a long-term relationship as they are for a one-night stand -- with the exception obviously being spinning plates. I think the challenges are greater for the man in a LTR to stay RP than for a single guy. It's much easier, IMO, to maintain an abundance mentality than when, in fact, there is only one women available to you (while still in the LTR). Under that condition, it's very easy to get into a scarcity mindset and put pussy on a pedestal. It's someth…
/r/askTRP31/03/14 03:29 PM
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Thanks for your response! Interesting connection. Also brings to mind the thought that monks were the first MGTOW'ers.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:59 PM
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Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:49 PM
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Cheating whores will always be cheating whores. Bingo.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:29 AM
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Also keep in mind that they're only counting PIV sex. To them, blow jobs and anal do not count.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:23 AM
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Would be interested in reading. Which ones are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:21 AM
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...these women are worthless. They've been fucked by many men, all I'm doing is recycling trash.... Excellent turn of phrase...and very true.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:18 AM
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Yo, yo, yo! I've been Alpha as fuck since taking the Red Pill last Tuesday and, bro, I want to share my awesome experiences so the dudes here can learn from my skillz. I’m on my second and longest LTR - to celebrate our two-month anniversary, we took our relationship to the next level by French-kissing behind the bleachers at skewl (awesome!). When later after class in the hallways, I caught the bitch flirtin' with a couple dudes from the football team, I nexted her right there! I spent the rest…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:51 PM
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Doing your own thing and watching out for yourself is the greatest thing you can do. Bitches come and go, responsibilities and financial security is where your priorities should always lie. That's a pearl of wisdom right there that I wish I'd learned long ago.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 11:16 AM
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This. Absolutely. Read the sidebar. Get some experience.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 10:50 PM
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That's what bros are for. If I didn't have my best buddy to talk to and share shit with, I don't know what I'd do. I learned long ago (way before even hearing about the Red Pill) that sharing too much with with wife doesn't help me or our relationship. I sometimes hear guys say that their SO is their best friend. Truthfully, I don't know how that's possible. If it is, and they have it in their relationship with a woman, then God bless them. But I've never come across that in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:59 PM
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Thanks. I'm thinking that there's something to that, and it's a topic that isn't explored in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:06 PM
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Agree completely, but to get her jollies from turning on 16-year old boys is sick, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:43 PM
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So, the subs pornfree amd nofap are actually feeders for TRP?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:35 AM
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She was...the best at being completely manipulative. She'd push and push, pass off absurd non-sense as premises or conclusions.... Yeah, I hear ya. My wife can easily come up, rapid-fire, with 10 reasons why I should whatever she wants me to do. Something similar to what /u/www777com talked about "cluster bombing". Half or more of the reasons are totally bogus, but my natural reaction is to think about and try to address each one.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:03 PM
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And, when my argument would be flawless and patiently explained, easy to understand and laid out thoroughly, guess what you'd get as a reply? "The sky is purple." That happened to me yesterday. Her "the sky is purple" response was patently so absurd, that I just reiterated my point and walked out. There's absolutely no way you can argue with anyone who refuses to acknowledge the obvious. It makes me want to yell, "Are you STUPID?" But that's counterproductive. I need to maintain my frame and avo…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 01:07 PM
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Women can be savvy as fuck, yet completely stupid at the same time... That's what I couldn't figure out until I read that blog post. How can an intelligent, well-educated woman be so stupid, or not recognize the obvious logic and reasoning?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 12:49 PM
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They are the rare exceptions, and despite being the exceptions this is nothing more than a capability for them, not a propensity. That's a good way of phrasing it. In those terms, I see that some women in business understand that they need the respect of men in order to succeed. Clearly, if a manager loses the respect of his or her peers and subordinates (regardless of gender), they're going to have more difficulty. I can see that a woman who is a good manager in the workplace, may (or certainly…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 12:28 PM
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Good essay. Thanks for sharing. In another TRP post, I asked about the example of women who are successful in the workplace. In your blog post, you addressed it here: Even when they are in positions of power which require by nature of the job description that they be held completely and utterly accountable, they still demonstrate reluctance to give up plausible deniability and be forced into a position, analyse any female bosses in the workplace you've had to draw a personal inference if you nee…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 03:21 PM
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You mean, http://illimitablemen.com? Thanks I'll check it out. Please note that I was on my phone, which doesn't show flair. Had to go on my computer to see what link you were referring to. Thanks. edit: checked it out; now following.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:47 PM
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Dude, how'd you find a picture of my ex-wife? ;-)
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:17 PM
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A woman...is bound by no such logic, because they have no prevailing internal dialogue based on logic, just emotional thinking layered with rationalisation. Whoa! Is that generally true? I know it's been my experience with both my ex-wife and my current wife. But I thought that was me picking women who seemed smart, but turned out not to be able to apply logic to their own lives. If that is generally true, how do women succeed in business, for example, where emotions cannot always be your primar…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:00 PM
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There are so many posts on /r/DeadBedrooms/ where people are totally oblivious to why their wife has stopped having sex with them. So many times, I've been tempted to point them to TRP. /u/mordanus did a great job of doing that, if only implicitly. The OP sounds like he's not going to pick up on it, though (too deep into "oh woe is me" to see the answer).
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:06 PM
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After my weight loss, I have no problem attracting a guy... Really? She's DOWN to a size 17? What kind of guy would be desperate enough to bang a frigging whale? That's not a plate. That's a ceramic bowl.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 04:01 PM
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...but i also wanted to be able act freely and party like other girls sluts my age. Fixed that for her.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:04 PM
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It reminds me of the Role Models movie, where Paul Rudd wants to bang the hot chick, but she never cheats on her boyfriend (when she's in the same zip code). When they go on a trip together, outside said zip code, then bangalanga do dah. You can bet if if OP had successfully kept him beta, she'd continue having this same dispensation whenever she traveled in the future.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:54 PM
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Perfect summary.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:46 PM
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Nah, that's part of the reason this is so funny.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:20 PM
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That's just it: she hasn't gotten any dick yet. She was thinking it would be new dick daily. Whoa! Her boyfriend scored before she did? But, but, but....whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:12 PM
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RTFS (i.e., read the frigging sidebar)
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:10 PM
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RTFS, is what I woulda said. :-)
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:09 PM
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Women are often intense bitches, especially to each other. It's ironic in a sense, because men are recognized as competitive, but we will encourage and complement a friend who is getting fit and bettering themselves, while women tend to tear them down - particularly if it's a woman. My wife is slim and attractive. Every time we walk in to a restaurant or other public place, every woman that looks up doesn't look at me. Inevitably, they look at my wife, from top to bottom. Lesbians? No. They're c…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 03:25 PM
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Yep. That was my rule when I was dating. Nothing in three dates? Next. We're not teenagers anymore. If you're not having sex by the third date, then you're wasting your time and she's using you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:32 PM
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To me, it seems more of a mindset. When I was in between marriages, I was RP without realizing it. If by the second or third date, no sex? Then goodbye. Starting being demanding or nagging? Then goodbye. I always had several plates spinning, and an abundance mentality. But when I settled down and married (either time), it was all about satisfying and making my wife happy. In both marriages, I married high-maintenance, hard-to-satisfy women. Why the hell did I do this? My only excuse is that I di…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:22 PM
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That article is gold. Thank you for posting the link.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 12:40 PM
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