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The general rule across the board is that first dates should almost always be on weeknights. Allows for a good time constraint if you've got work or an early class in the morning, and it gives the impression (assuming you're the one who set the day/time) that you've got other things going on over the weekend.
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:17 PM
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After this story she will see my sensitive side. No, after this story she will likely see you as a cat murderer. Jesus Christ. I'm all for the vulnerability thing but seriously do not go with that story or anything else that involves violence to animals or people.
/r/seduction27/09/13 09:45 PM
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You mean as in... do dudes with beards have game? Because absolutely yes. As a guy with an awesome beard I can say it's a great kino enabler, girls love to touch it, feel how soft it is, etc. Plus it's always fun to bust out the "excuse me miss, my eyes are up here..." line.
/r/seduction24/09/13 04:38 PM
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Try fielding this question over at r/malelivingspace. Good advice on all sorts of decor stuff.
/r/seduction27/08/13 04:45 PM
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Never "tell her how you feel." I'm assuming here that you're implying one should express their feelings in actions instead, right? I'm personally quite open and honest about my intentions and how I'm feeling about the girls I'm with, and it can go either way with her reaction to it. I guess I wouldn't just dump my feelings all over 'em or anything, but I wouldn't leave things vague and up for interpretation either.
/r/seduction26/08/13 07:47 PM
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Depending on where you are exactly, there's plenty of options. SoCal's a different beast than most other cities. I always recommend staying far, far away from Hollywood. Head near the spots around UCLA/USC (SC's in a rougher neighborhood, just FYI). Or cruise down to Orange County. That's where I'm at. Huntington/Newport Beach are great areas that go off every weekend.
/r/seduction23/08/13 06:45 PM
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Having a conversation with, and then casually asking out a bartender counts as bothering an employee? An employee whose job includes... wait for it... engaging in conversation with customers. Get over it.
/r/seduction08/08/13 04:02 PM
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I've caught myself (and whichever girl I happen to be talking to has, I'm sure, caught me as well) inadvertently shifting my gave to the boobs. What works best for me in this situation? Just admit it and laugh it off. I would just cut in mid-conversation "Aw man, I totally just stared at your boobs for a second..." and then carry on whatever else we were talking about. It may work better if you're carrying a joking, playful frame. But I've never had an issue just blurting that out. The girls wit…
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:57 PM
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Depending on the context of social life in this case, I'd have to disagree. Just because someone stays in more often than they go out, or just have a small core group of even a couple friends doesn't mean it's impossible to get himself a girlfriend. Plenty of girls prefer to stay in and do stuff around the house than go out and party or hit up bars. It's entirely subjective to who the person is. And most people aren't extreme cases either, just cause he's not social doesn't mean he'd NEVER go ou…
/r/seduction08/01/13 07:59 PM
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If the guy's a paid Hollywood actor, then there's no real sense in debating whether or not he's good looking. He is. Outside of that, it's all subjective. Different people find different people attractive, that's just how it works. Keep your self well groomed, practice good hygiene, stay in shape, dress well, be confident. Bam! You're good looking.
/r/seduction22/12/12 12:16 AM
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That doesn't give a better idea. What is something specifically you've done outside your comfort zone? There's no way to gauge at all what you're doing without more details.
/r/seduction20/12/12 10:49 PM
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I'm too high for this shit.
/r/seduction06/12/12 06:33 PM
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Cool. Yea, going out to bars, we usually just cab to and from anyways. Thanks. I figured that's the best way to go about the situation. I guess I should just stick to planning any future dates to places closer to my house.
/r/seduction17/11/12 12:04 AM
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In terms of making it more difficult to pull night stands, wouldn't one presumably be taking a cab places anyway? I just moved back to my hometown from a big city where a car was absolutely unnecessary, and honestly I really enjoy not driving. I've brought it up like that before, and didn't really have an issue with it until one chick I was getting on with just fine suddenly turned cold and treated me like I was some sort of weirdo. Really messed with my head.
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:55 PM
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Ok, I brought this up in AskSeddit and didn't get any response really. I don't have a car or license, and won't be able to for a while, and live in a pretty public transportation unfriendly city. I have no problem with approach or conversation, but it makes things seem awkward when I bring up that I don't currently drive. How can I get that across without seeming like a loser? On the plus, the exercise I'm getting from biking everywhere is awesome and helping with the initial attraction factor.
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:43 PM
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