tosit2019 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? What do you think could help decrease divorce rates? You could have signatures in blood agreeing to every last detail of a marriage and still wake up one day to find either your or your spouses values & priorities have changed. If you make it easy for people to leave, more people will leave. It isn't rocket science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 06:59 PM
2	Are men inferior to women, are men more biologically oppressed? Quit worrying about this and get back to work. Shoulder to the wheel. Nose to the grindstone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 04:56 PM
8	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. Why are women repulsed by South Asian men? You guys are fucking badasses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 12:32 PM
3	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. I think the title is too long. Should be - "Men should change their behavior". If a woman notices, well, that's nice. If not, you're on the road, brother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:54 AM
1	[Q4ALL] What’s your opinion on the rising popularity of “Red Pill” ideas among men (particularly young men) today? It isn't until you're on the receiving end of a redpill moment that it really sticks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 05:55 PM
2	[Q4ALL] What’s your opinion on the rising popularity of “Red Pill” ideas among men (particularly young men) today? It's predictable. And not totally wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 05:53 PM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Interesting. Do you have a link?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:28 PM
2	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. We could all just be reading too much into this. Gen Z is still pretty young. I wasn't ready to have kids in my early 20s either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:58 PM
0	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. That's a much more reasonable take. I certainly wasn't ready to have kids at 24.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:57 PM
0	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. No, that's why you get your shit together and grow up. So your kid doesn't grow up in poverty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:30 PM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. You're right, I shouldn't have assumed this about you specifically. The general idea that people don't have enough money for kids, however, is an excuse IMO. Either that or it's shorthand for a general pessism about someone's own ability to cope in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:25 AM
0	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. This is an excuse. If you don't want kids, just own up to the fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 10:59 AM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. You're talking pretty specifically about the white demographic. Black and hispanic people will continue having large families.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 10:58 AM
4	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Very much agreed. This goes for the "can't afford it" answer too. It's an excuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 10:57 AM
2	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? Essentially that Game isn't about tricks and stories and negs and peacocks (or marginally at best). Instead it's about "polarizing" - making it clear that you're a man that wants to sleep with your target. The man you are in this situation is totally honest. Just bring what you have to the encounter. She'll decide one way or another pretty quickly and you can either get with her or move on. That's it. There's no secret. It just takes a lot of bravery and typically ends in rejection (which is tru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 01:53 AM
2	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? Have you read Models? It's pretty good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:55 PM
1	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? What I took from it is that you just put yourself out there as you are. Sometimes it works and sometimes not. The patterns and overthinking that go into Strauss-type game are really de-emphasized. But the key is that if you aren't willing to approach or a priori decide for the woman your chances are zilch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:01 PM
0	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? I'm talking game in the vein of Models, not Neil Strauss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 08:29 PM
-2	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? And in either case, game is still more important	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:28 PM
1	Subreddit divorce_Men has more than 4k members; subreddit Divorce_women has just only 500 members. Major props to you. I've always operated under the assumption that a group like this wouldn't work without a core theme that isn't the support itself, if that makes sense. I'm moderately red-pilled myself but only as it pertains to understanding male-female dynamics realistically and avoiding the word games & nagging that's so ingrained in how we're expected to understand sex roles in the 21st century.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/21 05:40 PM
1	Subreddit divorce_Men has more than 4k members; subreddit Divorce_women has just only 500 members. Is it around a particular theme (ie divorce, religion, exercise, service, etc)?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/21 04:31 PM
1	Subreddit divorce_Men has more than 4k members; subreddit Divorce_women has just only 500 members. Do you mind sharing more about it? Sounds interesting.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/21 04:15 PM
1	Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance? Yes. And those men soon find out they are mistaken about that calculation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 03:45 PM
3	Subreddit divorce_Men has more than 4k members; subreddit Divorce_women has just only 500 members. This is undoubtedly true. What are the men's support groups these days? To take this thought further, a men's "support group" would be a failure anyhow because what men want and need is shared experiences, camaraderie, and accomplishments. These are their supports. A group of men sitting around griping about their wives is about the most pathetic thing you could think of. So what's needed are "men's groups" that get shit done and occasionally lean pretty hard on one another. It would probably so…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/21 03:44 PM
2	What do you think is the cause for the supposed disparity between what women say they want and what they actually respond to? How many angels can dance on the head of a pin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 03:39 PM
1	Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional society Took them long enough. Guess they shouldn't have executed their officers in the name of equity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 12:12 AM
1	Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional society True, just Western Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 06:57 PM
10	Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional society Europe values human life so much that the US had to step in to avert complete destruction twice in the past 100 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 12:09 PM
1	Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women? You could think of Prince as the ultimate Peacock. Most of us just aren't that creative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 11:36 AM
2	Did solo marriage counseling help any of you guys? Is it worth it? I guess it depends what you mean by "worth it". Will it save your marriage? Impossible to say. But it could give you larger perspective on the issues and help you to prepare for whatever is next.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/21 03:42 PM
1	Is the marriage counselor playbook completely sexist? I've been thinking about a divorce for a while now. One thing that would help is just SOMEBODY to talk to about this. We moved recently and don't have much of a network in our new city. I'm thinking of solo counseling just as a way to talk through this with a disinterested party. Anyone have experience with that?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/21 10:36 PM
3	Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical? Read Models by Mark Manson. One thing to take away from it is that attraction is created through game. True game, not weird, rote, pickup artist stuff. But game that communicates attraction, risk taking, social status etc. Now consider online dating. It's terrible game. You're automatically communicating neediness and have no way of polarizing or evoking reactions from women. The reason few guys do well in online dating is that it takes enormous physical attractiveness to overcome the abominably…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 05:29 PM
1	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? A slightly more thoughtful response is that you can write 1000s of pages, attend therapy, learn the nuances of interpersonal relationships, introspect etc. for years and years and still find yourself trapped in a toxic relationship. Or you can say "I deserve better" and move onto whatever the world has in store for you. As long as you are externalizing the problem, you remain trapped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:21 PM
1	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? Yes, it is bad. A "realistic chance at a relationship" doesn't fall from the sky. You have to work for it. This world owes you nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 04:23 PM
2	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? Being a simp is a problem, whether it is currently experienced as one or not. Think about it this way, would a simp who stops simping today look back 6 months from now and regret stopping? We both know the answer. So do all simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 03:51 PM
4	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? Yes. Own your shit or get the fuck out. Blaming others for your actions is the surest road to your own personal hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 02:01 PM
3	All men are trash (except the top 3% hehee) Well, I think we diagnosed the problem then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/21 02:35 PM
9	All men are trash (except the top 3% hehee) Smile, lose some weight, dress nice, don't be a bitch. That's really it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/21 01:37 PM
2	Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife? At one point in my life, without a doubt. These days? Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 05:24 AM
1	If you were a woman, would you want to have male friends? Of course I would because, as Chris Rock says, you never know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 11:39 AM
3	In most couples, is the woman more attractive than the man? Physical beauty is the domain of women. So, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 02:32 PM
3	CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good. Being emotional is fine for a man and shows true integrity. The key is how you handle it. Remember, it isn't what is said that matters but rather who says it. Meaning that if you are confronting genuine emotion and doing it in a way becoming of a true man, then that is not only acceptable, but lauded. Just - don't do it all the time. That's weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 04:58 PM
1	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems You're the one on a sub debating Red Pill. It's not like we're on Chapo. That said, you really should read Rational Male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 08:50 PM
2	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems This is purple pill, which I assume implies some working knowledge of Red Pill. Read The Rational Male before trying to bring Citical Theory into this debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 01:51 PM
3	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems Inequalities will exist no matter what we do. Even if we all made precisely the same amount of money, the top 20% of guys would still have access to the women they wanted while the bottom 80% would be scratching their heads about why they can't find a date even though their Moms thinks they're great guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 01:41 PM
2	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems I do. It's at much lower levels than historically (pre-COVID) and does not usually manifest as hunger. The argument that things are materially worse these days doesn't hold up. Things aren't perfect and we can improve people's lives but to suggest people are starving in the streets shows how little contact you have with the true working poor. That's pretty common among self-styled Marxists who wouldn't go into a church or a Walmart if their lives depended on it. Anyhow, getting back to the origi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 01:38 PM
0	Is there any "systematic" way to get the average guy to stop being such an unfuckable loser? You can't outsource self-improvement. It comes from within or it doesn't happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 12:40 PM
1	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems "Empty stomach" lol. You've seen working class people these days, right? Or do they frown upon you interacting with plebes in your gender studies courses?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 11:45 AM
4	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems True. Odd how often they're paired tho. Unhappy people looking for external solutions to internal problems end up with very narrow world views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 11:41 AM
1	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems Friendly advice - Don't expect Joe Biden (or any other politician) to improve your odds in getting laid. The journey begins and ends within yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 02:48 AM
1	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems Ooh, baby, check out my Healthcare policy. Wanna give me a blow job now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 02:29 AM
10	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems I prefer to think of this as "post-Marxist" rather than "late stage capitalist". Capitalism is just getting going while Marxism is out inventing new genders thinking the 643rd one will finally spark the revolution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 09:53 PM
-1	[Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problems Because actually none of that shit matters to the reality. You can choose to adapt or spend your life blaming someone else for your problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 09:51 PM