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Work and don't spend it
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:58 PM
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let her do it. if it starts to interfere with your mission, then you put your foot down
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:02 AM
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"it just makes me overthink, fuck up my diet and waste time. Some loss in motivation too" I don't see the dilemma ? Besides, smoking weed is unattractive in general. It's cool when your 16 but the older you get, the less people will be interested. People who start smoking young tend to get over it even sooner.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:44 AM
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bonus point for one about training dogs
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:31 AM
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TRP paints a very hyperbolic and polarizing worldview because the target demographic is largely young, white, socially awkward men who genuinely respond well to a tough love approach. In reality, things are much more nuanced. If you go out 6 nights a week with a 50% success rate you have sex 1000 times with 1000 different girls from the ages of 18 to 25. You might be pretty good at sex but you will be inexperienced in relationships and will probably struggle. The same way a guy who dated the sam…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:28 AM
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a good place to start would be college scholarship programs for inner city kids
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:52 PM
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Why am I an asshole? I work 60 hours per week on top of the gym, social life, networking etc. How would you blame me? There is so much to do, when I used to sleep half the day and play video games the other half I never had so much success in my life.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:26 PM
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Could be. I don't sleep enough and I take stimulants. The same girl took a picture of me sleeping after we'd been together for like four months. She said it's the first time she'd ever seen me asleep. I'm not sure if she was joking. I had sleep paralysis once as a kid. It lasted for hours and it was terrifying. I hope it doesn't happen like that again
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:12 AM
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I have three rules for dating. (1) Don't lie to me (2) Don't steal from me (3) Don't disrespect me Those are my rules and I make them clear in the beginning. I don't give second chances, and I make that clear too. Setting guidelines for yourself and for her really cuts back on a lot of headache.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:50 AM
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She could show up and still not respect you. She could even respect you and not show up. All in all it is much easier to disprove someone's allegiance to you than it is to prove it.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:45 AM
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there is no too old but the older you are the more SMV you need
/r/askTRP22/09/17 11:06 PM
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I'd pour him a dram
/r/askTRP10/08/17 01:43 PM
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But what if I just like to party ?
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:43 PM
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Stuff is more polarizing than it should be. This question is similar to "should I go out for the basketball team or the football team" in that no one can fucking answer it for you.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:33 PM
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I don't think I would have taken it that seriously. If I'm reading it right that was a textbook A&A situation. Sounds like it worked out for you. Did you actually give a shit about seeing the movie?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:39 AM
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the vast majority have value beyond sex. Most won't utilize this value for any reason, far fewer will utilize it for your benefit.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:36 AM
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Treating everyone the same is a sign of very poor social skills.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:57 AM
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you're fucking up with them. the premise of this post is patently false.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:56 AM
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Stacey Widower Syndrome
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:48 AM
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is it herpes ?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:46 AM
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Every reddit is an echo-chamber. Some of the cliches here are legit. The "men peak at 65" meme is certainly not one of them.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:46 AM
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Tough situation. I am dealing with something similar - totally blindsided based on her behavior all along.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:43 AM
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Rules like these are made to be broken. You're setting yourself up for a shitstorm here. A smart woman who respects you will know right from wrong without you saying a word.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:40 AM
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No-fap is absolutely ridiculous IMO. The only differences between masturbation and sex are psychological. Sure if you're edging 4 hours per day to tranny gang-bangs you need help, but it's a hell of a lot deeper than jerking off. Only shit women are energy vampires. I get a rush of energy after sex, sometimes it even lingers into the following day.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:35 AM
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See a therapist
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:11 AM
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They don't really get more selective, but 18 is still a prime age for women.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:09 AM
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Demote her to plate status, hit the gym and delete facebook.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:09 AM
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PM me your pics and I'll give it to you straight.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:05 AM
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Talk to people
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:55 PM
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can't care this much man. just stick to your personal goals, not based on pleasing others. i'm 130 lbs noodle arms shorter than you and i have sex every weekend. lifting is a bonus, not a requirement. requirements = scarcity mentality
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:53 PM
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Let me get this straight. You are an executive officer and you're asking career advice on a forum full of college kids and club promoters ?
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:59 PM
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How do you do it better? Meet up and stick your cock in her.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:56 PM
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TRP is about getting what you want. Usually people are assholes because they're not getting what they want.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:55 PM
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Go get some sexual experience. Don't drink too much
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:08 AM
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Gently guide her when appropriate. Don't get emotional, and don't over-invest in her mistakes. Lead by example.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:07 AM
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the moment she revealed her interest in chad was irrefutable evidence that she has no respect for you as a man. removing her from your life is long overdue
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:06 AM
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Wasting your time on a chick is the male equivalent of getting P&D'd
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:43 AM
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Who cares?
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:58 PM
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There were less people
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:45 PM
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three wives, 12 kids, private island
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:43 PM
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I did when I was still too quiet around people. Now I just do what I want
/r/askTRP21/07/17 06:54 PM
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What a tough lesson. You need to completely reevaluate the choices that got you to the position you are in right now. You have a lot of work to do. Finding a new social circle should be high on the list.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:25 PM
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Why are you approaching women who look older than you? If you're 22 and appear younger then "looking like a predator" is not an issue.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:22 PM
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does telling her to wax again count ?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 09:27 PM
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about fucking time
/r/askTRP18/07/17 09:10 PM
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It sounds like you guys just met and not hooked up yet. If you have been together for a while it is a different story. A good rule of thumb is if she is close enough to check in on, she will already be checking in on you.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:49 PM
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I would say only hit her up if you are inviting her out, otherwise wait until school starts to talk.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:41 PM
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she is probably trickle truthing about her drug abuse. that being said i'd still fuck her if she seems clean and she's not nodding around me - could really care less
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:39 PM
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I know a guy who started a nursery in 1967 with a thousand dollars to his name. Today he is worth 9 figures.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:15 PM
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It makes sense now, I needed stoicsoul87 to spell it out for me. Success is measured by more than n-count and it sounds like that's part of what you re-enforced for yourself on the trip.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 04:15 PM
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you burn ?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:10 PM
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Silence is as important as speech in social interactions.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 03:54 PM
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what?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:49 PM
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Just fuck her tomorrow then keep yourself busy on your goals
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:42 PM
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Accomplish enough so when you pretend that people like you for who you are they will be eager to play along.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:40 PM
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How old is she? Can you still go to school ?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:38 PM
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You don't need a sub to stop jerking off.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:31 PM
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i dont get this. you stopped lifting and flirted with a single mum. all i'm getting from the FR is what a bitch your friend is.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 03:27 PM
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You know what you have to do.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:05 PM
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It works better on some girls but I'm not sure that insecurity is always the defining factor
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:39 PM
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you need to find yourself with your shit together if you expect to be an effective leader.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 07:23 AM
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Gently
/r/askTRP18/07/17 07:22 AM
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You lost me at "settle for one" of this type. I would select her from a different pool.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 07:20 AM
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What is your goal here ? What are the benefits and risks if you lie and reciprocate? What are the benefits and risks if you lie and deflect?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 07:18 AM
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Don't you think that there are some women out there who want to love and be loved ? It's absolutely not unrealistic to expect a loving woman. At the very minimum, we all can agree that a good woman must be capable of strong love for her children. This is the most important love that a woman can feel, and should be her strongest love. That doesn't mean it is the only kind she is capable of... People are not so one sided. Her next love should be for herself. For imperfect men like us, it can be ad…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 07:11 AM
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the king is not useless because we cannot win without him. same can be said for frame. we don't attack with our frame, we defend it from damage with our tools and skills, and also use these to overpower external frames (opponent's king).
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:59 AM
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I think I see what you're getting at. I agree that it's important to test her, especially in an LTR situation. Lord knows they are testing us, and with good reason. Your time is too valuable not to do it. In this case, I don't want to even spend an ask on this kind of question. The behavior you are testing for here is exactly what I want to do here. I want her change for free before I even have to "make the effort" to ask. That way I can ask directly about the next thing and more reasonably expe…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:56 AM
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I play a little but I'm no good. I am calling the "game" game in the analogy. I maintain that the king is frame because you your frame is not used to attack or develop your position. Instead you develop other skills (the other pieces on the board) and utilize tactics in social situations to reach your objectives. The tools we use like lifting, social awareness, and career development are like the bishops, knights, and rook that are used together to overpower external frames. You will still lose …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:34 AM
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Love is very valuable to me, almost but not quite as vital as sexual gratification. Eventually it will be far more valuable. A woman who is incapable of love is incapable of producing the results I desire.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:50 AM
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Great topic - I am going to read the original after this post. I am pretty new to this stuff and the extent that alleged RP guys are employing this tactic caused me to conflate it with RP theory (which I saw as a glaring flaw in the ideology) Here is why hiding weakness is a bad move: Possible outcomes: (1) your weakness is never discovered by your partner. in this case, you are sacrificing your desire for hers. You are afraid that exposing weakness will cause her to lose attraction for you. If …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:23 AM
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i'm against marraige, but i can't fathom the idea of never wanting to reproduce and cohabitate. for me the redpill is primarily a tool-set to achieve the level of self satisfaction and experiences i need to feel comfortable going down that route.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:09 AM
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it starts inside you and ends when you exchange the internal value you develop through focused effort for external value in the form of respect, validation and material possessions
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:07 AM
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smoke a blunt to get in the mood - kills my focus . pop some ritalin to get focused - shaky hands, racing heart, horny but decreased circulation. pop a 30 to chill out - kill my sex drive while exacerbating my lethargic circulation. moral of the story - winners don't do drugs
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:06 AM
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this was a colloquial line so probably a bad example for the public. "good looks" is an old urban term meaning "good looking out" or "thanks for having my back there". It's used somewhat sarcastically here to imply that she alerted you to a threat you weren't previously aware of. X-ray refers to the mutant from X-men who has the ability to see through solid objects (like pants)
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:44 AM
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Was there something awkward for either of you about the thing that makes it more uncomfortable? It seems like you got what you wanted, nexted her and moved on. Except you didn't move on..
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:39 AM
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I have the exact same issue and have been dealing with it for the past decade due to nerves and substance abuse. It took me a long time to realize that it was mostly happening when the girl was extremely horny and pushy in bed. The girls usually try very, very hard in these situations to get you going and it just makes it worse and more frustrating and embarrassing for everyone. Most times it would be after I told her to stop and a few minutes later I will initiate and be fine. I'm sorry that I …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:26 AM
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I am interested to hear more about why you feel regret. The insults here are value-anchor distractions from broadening the discourse.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:14 AM
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Women who respond better to manipulation than to comfort are necessarily damaged. No one can ever love you if you disguise your intentions and desires. To what extent these factors affect sexually experienced men is not set in stone.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:12 AM
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Reals > Feels Most people can't change much in just a month, and even if you do change you won't know until you are putting yourself out there enough to internalize and actualize your personal development
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:05 AM
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On some level do you still want to take and keep ? I think this is the question you need to answer to yourself. As you know that is a dangerous game, especially for men. That being said, you will never find happiness and security if you are sacrificing your desires out of convenience or fear.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:02 AM
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Honor is what you do for yourself so you can sleep at night.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:58 PM
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Keep her on as a one night a week release / validation boost but devote the rest of your time to self improvement with the same or greater fervor than you would without her in your life. Set up a time line for your goals including the point in time when you let her go from your life. This is not the greatest advice, but it's what I would do in your situation.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:51 PM
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It has it's time and place, namely a light social situation and a light shit test. It can also be used somewhat successfully as a tactic of last resort if you are caught off guard and a better play doesn't immediately come to mind. In many cases it is trash advice. Shit tests are designed to test frame, but they are not all equal. Category (1) shit tests are playful and Category (2) shit tests are disrespectful. Brushing them off is usually the best tactic in both cases, however openly agreeing …
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:45 PM
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yea. I have good success with ONS and FWB. I have a side plate and a main plate who I am interviewing for LTR status. I am trying ill advised tactics like offering un-requested bits of validation and corny levels of honesty about my feelings towards her. She told me early on that she has been cheated on more than once in the past. A couple days later I showed her some thirsty texts from a former plate and we laughed at desperation together. That was the only dread game I have ever pulled on this…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:31 PM
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Social media activity is absolutely not necessary and in more cases than not it's outright unattractive. I am dealing with this now. My current girl only really uses snapchat but she uses it very frequently. I will never have a snapchat. I felt disrespected the very first time she used it in my presence, and my instinct was to tell her exactly that. However I am glad that I didn't speak up so bluntly. What I did instead: If we're hanging out and she's on her phone or a while... (we spend a lot o…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 10:52 PM
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No because I don't tether myself to the community or even to the viewpoints themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 09:56 PM
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depends, are they grown women ?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:32 PM
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Yes unless she lets you bust in it first
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:28 PM
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good point. i plan to go full speed ahead working on myself but cutting back on stuff like partying, going out with mates (implied purpose to knock back drinks and pick up chicks). i should still be doing that stuff too to keep my options open and dynamic lifestyle ?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:08 PM
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Being low inhibition is the heart and soul of what it means to have a good personality as a man. It is absolutely essential to being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:20 PM
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I can only learn from reading and doing. Listening does nothing for me it's in one ear and out the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:17 PM
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I love clingy girls - it makes me feel important and more comfortable opening up myself when something is really hurting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:15 PM
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Feels good - better than drugs. I don't know how it feels for women, I think they love differently. To me love is when I care for them the way I care for myself. To hurt her would be as repulsive as for her to hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:03 PM
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I've never heard this "common narrative". I think caring about societal expecations is not exactly correlated to gender. Pure speculation but I would assume it is similar to intelligence distribution - most women care to some extent and men either care a whole lot or very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:01 PM
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Women's awareness will not hinder the utility of good advice - in fact it will bolster it. As much as the manosphere hates to paint women as victims - most of them do choose one or or more outright bad partners from any perspective. Access to information could help prevent this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:57 PM
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Every guy in the projects has expensive shoes and every girl has expensive wigs and makeup. People are very forgiving toward people who are insecure about the things they don't have - in fact they expect it. People who are insecure about the things they DO have (rich guy who buys a supercar to show off) are always ridiculed and never respected for their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:55 PM
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I don't think that's true - men and women are expected to show self control in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:52 PM
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To have a cold heart but to show a warm one is the optimal strategy for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:51 PM
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love men instead of using them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:39 PM
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Not showing signs of weakness is the most important one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 05:32 PM
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