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| 68 | Dating much youngerSo you want to have a “ho phase” with younger women. As long as all parties are legal and consenting - you do you. However I encourage you to remember the Dan Savage campsite rule for relationships: leave people better than you found them. You do have an obligation to wear your big boy panties and communicate well, early, and often. Don’t lead girls on for sex, be crystal clear about your intentions and boundaries — and overall just be a good human. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Was the divorce your fault?My fault- to a point. I ignored a bunch of incompatibility red flags early in our relationship. Then found it to be a problem when he still had most of those red flags 20 years later. 🤪 There are things both of us could have done differently and better of course. But - we had a lot of fun and got one great kiddo out of the mix, and are reasonably good friends and excellent co-parents now. He’s with a long term partner who we really like. Although to be honest I think she is incompatible with him… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Foreign travel questionFwiw whenever my ex or I travel with our son internationally we carry a notarised document stating that the other is permitted to do so. While we generally provide a general itinerary, nobody would freak out if it varied a bit. We have enough trust and good will that it is fine. Is there a reason that you think this is somehow a breach of trust? I’m honestly wondering why you are upset about it, so am curious to know if there is more to the story that would shed some light. BTW- not saying your … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?Hence “situationship” :) | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?Well… my situationship isn’t exactly FWB but the reasons for it might shed some light on how FWB can work. First, we were truly friends first. Both married at that point and didn’t cross any boundaries for years, but became very close. Truly loved each other and were each other’s biggest fan. I got divorced and our relationship turned physical. He was planning on getting divorced but there were complications. That’s a boring story but suffice to say there were good, if tragic, reasons. We realiz… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 13 | 12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men!This is a very American thing though. In some other places it would be considered insulting behavior. ymmv | /r/seduction | 30/03/23 07:48 AM |
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