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Oh I’m infertile. Went to get my sperm banked before my chemotherapy and they were like nah fam you’re infertile. Now I’m definitely infertile after the chemo.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:49 PM
-4

Lol me sitting here having condomless sex all the time without an ltr wondering how I’ve not gotten an STD.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:04 PM
-2

How about no
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:07 PM
1

YouTube. It’s pretty much the same as lashings like you do logs in the boy scouts.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:04 PM
4

Rope is always the best way to start. It allows for a variety of bondage and sensation. Always discuss with your partner and set up a safe word. You need to adopt a lot of dominant word play to go along with it. See what your partner likes. She might like to be demeaned and told exactly what to do. She might like to talk back and be forced what to do. There’s a large variety of things that go into a dominant role. The most important is understanding your sub.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:03 PM
2

What? Lol have you ever been involved in the BDSM community? That’s vanilla sex. There’s nothing really dominant about basic handcuffs and blindfolds.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:00 PM
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A lot of it is luck. Think about hard work like stacking the deck. Let’s say rolling a 6 means you win and you work real hard and you get a die with 4 6’s you could still roll on the other two sides and someone with a regular die could roll a 6 still. Hard and smart work can increase your likelihood, but it’s still luck to end up in the favorable outcome.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:57 PM
1

You can google the red pill or many of the given philosophies and find rejections from psychologists, psychiatrists, and sociologists. I mean this really can’t be news to you. It’s pretty common here to reject modern psychology due to it being aligned with the blue pill.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:54 AM
1

So has most of the red pills philosophy yet here we are.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:25 PM
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Idk if it’s that they’re narcissistic. I’d say most people who aren’t naive are skeptical of people who act in ways that seem overly rehearsed or unrealistic. Think about a salesman and he’s trying to sell you something and says this has everything you could want with no drawbacks. Most people would think something is amiss.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:39 PM
2

Depends on who you ask. Freud would probably say most men are subconsciously due to abandonment from the social dynamic of nurturing mothers and the abandonment entering into adulthood
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:27 PM
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How serious are the boundaries? I ask because some of the autist here would make a post like this over something like changing the radio station.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:44 PM
1

Is it weird I don’t find most of the girls in porn that hot? like my standard is typically above the average looks of a porn star.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:02 AM
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Well sociopaths tend not to be self-aware.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:53 AM
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If a girl asks if you would fuck her just set it up. She even double set you up to initiate it by asking her how
/r/askTRP05/05/19 11:00 PM
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Frame is BDE. It’s what cool people have. It’s a subtle confidence. It’s like how you act when you have an ace in the hole.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:38 PM
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Tf I look like reading a side bar. I do what I want. Moving in is financially advantageous if uk how to play your cards.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:27 PM
1

Very doubtful this is the case.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:33 PM
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Only 15 months, huh? Ik a lot of girls that would simply leave because you hadn’t married them by the two year mark. Most people ik who are married dated less than 2 years prior. I’d say moving in is like a 6 month thing if the logistics are there.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:31 PM
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I do this with everyone. I have a really good memory, so chances are if I’m listening I’ll remember.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:29 PM
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You don’t go shoe shopping in bare-feet.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:40 PM
1

Confessing love, be a “sad boy”, be overly controlling, become insecure probably a little bit of everything in small points in different relationships. It never nuked any of my relationships or really affected the sex life of them or anything much for more than a week.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:35 PM
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I guess lol. I mean it’s not for no reason you are constantly getting presented with misrepresented opportunity eventually you have to let the man know that’s not a big tittied Latina that’s an LG fridge.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:32 PM
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It’s all mostly BS to me lol. I just get on here to help people out and post my craziest stories just to see the stuff people will say.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:43 PM
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I was just used to the text any of a dozen girls come fuck and they drove to my house we fucked they left. Anymore effort than that was out of the question for me lol. I’d rather go make money. It was just a different time in my life. I was super busy. You couldn’t even get me out of bed for less than $200 in profit.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:30 PM
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Weird I’ve done things TRP would say would make a girl see me as a beta never had an issue like was described though. They’re always still after me as hard as ever.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:28 PM
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Are you sigma or alpha? Sigma go alone, alpha you have to go with friends.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:17 PM
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Man I’m about getting tired of everyone in this thread describing my behaviors as autistic lol. Seriously tell him straight up. You owe it to yourself.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:08 PM
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I’ve never had this experience. I’ve always had the contrary. Does this mean at times girls see me as an alpha playing beta?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:57 PM
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I used to have the same problem, but it was because I was lazy. I was like fuck if it’s going to be this much work I don’t even want it.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:54 PM
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This is funny because this is how I tell if a girl is into me lol.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:52 PM
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Now hold on, it does just at an extremely lower frequency.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:51 PM
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I get tested pretty regularly
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:43 AM
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I never used them. Withdrawal method 82% effective.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:35 AM
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Get out of a monogamous mindset. Catching feeling won’t be near the problem it is.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:30 PM
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Really?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 01:31 PM
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It’s not a fucking a joke lol
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:19 PM
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I swear to god it’s not.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:28 PM
1

Oh man I must be autistic. My friends say that to me a lot. I’ll do something and they’ll be like why’d you flex on all those guys like that and I’ll be like huh and they’ll make a joke and say autism is my superpower.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:49 PM
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Normal, she’s redpilling herself. She’s breaking away from societal norms. Her original worldview just got shattered from the breakup. Gay people are paranoid about coming out of the closet. It’s part of her development. The old formula has left her high and dry. She has to breakdown some of her long held beliefs that’s uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:03 PM
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Alpha=\= attractive beta=\=unattractive. “Duty sex” isn’t always 2-3 times a week.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:56 PM
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It didn’t. If anything it made it worse. Given I’m only 26, so making 6 figures makes me a 1 percenter for my age group. It made me less tolerant of many of the college females that I’d usually socialize with. It also made me less relatable to females my age. It’ll probably even back out as a positive as I age, but at 26 when a girl finds interest in you all of the things that would be a plus for a girl picking a 35 year old aren’t for you. She was expecting someone she could relate to who has a…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:13 PM
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I’ve got a crazy idea here. She might actually be depressed. Have you ever had depression? Sometimes you feel like leaving your whole family. She could also be lying, but remember it’s not your job to figure that out or worry about it.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:08 PM
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This is what a healthy red pill would be. It’s your life stop believing in fairy tale love and quit believing anyone is obligated to be involved in your life because of whatever reason you feel they should.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:05 PM
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Learn to read body language. You’ll be able to learn the difference between obligatory actions and voluntary actions. You ever fucked the fat girl, so the homie could get some? Fucked a girl just to get some etc? Well, your body language demonstrates it. The girl you felt you had to fuck and the girl you couldn’t wait to get in bed with both get fucked and the plot is the same. The subtleties are what reveal the differences.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:57 PM
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http://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf This is what you are looking for.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:55 PM
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Wrong lol. Dude TRP is mostly BS. It becomes even worse because you are adding in more of its worst trait, absolutism. There are “betas” who fuck everyday. Also, there are girls who use sex to lockdown the relationship. I’m a woman. I want to lockdown this man. What do men want? I as a woman am going to assume stereotypical men stuff which would be lots of submissive sex and lots of reassurance. Whether you are “alpha” or “beta” a girl who wants you and is willing to use those tactics is going t…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:49 PM
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29 with that kind of bs. You could have you like a 21-22 year old for that price.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:39 PM
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My guy. She just got out of a 6 year relationship. Think about that for a second. She hasn’t been on the market for 6 years and only has a 5 n count. She doesn’t even have things figured out yet. She won’t be over her ex until nearing 30. She’s most likely subconsciously or consciously getting back at her ex. Story time 22 year old plate I had. She just got divorced 3 years of on and off relationship 4 years of marriage. Ik her from within a month of her divorce cause she got pulled into our fri…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:37 PM
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I’ve never had this experience with my female friends who are few and far between. Maybe I’m just good at vetting people, or if they are smart enough not to fuck me then they make great friends.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:45 AM
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No platonic female friends? Just because one doesn’t want to doesn’t mean her friends don’t. I’ve had one girl who has been a platonic friend for 2 years. I’ve fucked 9 of her friends I met only because of her. I’ve also been told I’m a major sigma male and am a terrible friend unless I can come to the rescue.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:41 AM
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Idr see what’s offensive to resolve in blocking though. I mean how do they deal with real life?
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:35 PM
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I’m not even worried about it like that. I mean I’m surprised she was petty enough to block me, but as far as not getting laid miss one next 15 one coming
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:03 PM
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Nah you’re most likely right. She just made the immediate realization I’m the same asshole I was 8 years ago.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:59 PM
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Lol it’s not even game is the thing. It’s just my normal personality since forever lol.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:20 PM
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Different power dynamics. Changes in viewpoints. Very few people in life have a flat character arc. She might not have cheated on you which might be the main reason she needed the break was to see how her ex plays out since it wouldn’t be cheating. She could very well be conflicted. In general in economics everything has two standards taken into consideration for an exchange, immediate utility and expected return in utility. Her ex due to previously established dates, great times etc. combined w…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:23 PM
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She still wants her ex and she might have been nice enough to recognize that prior to putting you in a situation to over invest.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:54 PM
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It’s mpalt.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:48 PM
4

This is a whole new dynamic. Her ex is attempting to convince her it’s different this time and he’s got you beat because most likely he has better rapport than you.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:15 PM
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They aren’t. It’s a subculture effect. Being a smoker attracts smokers. Being a non-smoker has a net zero effect because it is a trait of the population at large.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:42 PM
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She’s upset. Think about it like this she likes you and has another guy she likes as much/more. She’s upset because she’s torn and you just drastically increased her gamble. She now either gets the other guy or she’s stuck alone. She’s also still stuck with him if he turns out to be not as good under further investigation. I would be pretty upset.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:28 PM
1

No grow it out, or dye it. You are a programmer. You have to get along with other programmers. You need that open minded look.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:34 PM
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Buzz cut computer programmer what are you one of those nazis off 4chan
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:54 AM
1

You can view all the raw data and most of the correlation and variance factors are given in the overview of the meta analysis. Btw a meta analysis is done with data from multiple previous studies.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:07 PM
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Boy you’re weird.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:15 PM
1

Dreading can be seen as passive aggressive. Passive aggressive is any indirect way of getting back at someone. She did something you didn’t like, so you silent treatmented her etc. it can also be denying something.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:12 PM
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Might be that you’re black. She might just want to fuck and not really be seen with you as a partner.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:05 PM
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Idk if she’ll always be dtf. I used to think this was true thought I had a girl completely alpha widowed always liked my photos etc even when she had a bf. Typically left little comments and would regularly try to text me. I replied one time and told her to come over and she said No ??. I said ok don’t then. She said you’re still a stupid asshole who is only into things for himself and she blocked my number and every social media.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:02 PM
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AWALT is the main one that gets TRP a bad rap out of those 4
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:43 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289604000492?via%3Dihub
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:42 PM
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If she told you then yeah probably because you are judgmental af. I get told red flags all the time because I’m not judgmental and in many ways have quite a few myself.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:04 PM
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Look at the raw data for women have higher IQ than men studies. The last 2 lines are bullshit conjecture though.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:01 PM
0

No why would anyone do that? People fuck people because they want to. If it’s garbage probably won’t happen again. If it’s good probably will, but if the baggage gets too heavy will probably stop happening.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:54 PM
1

I’ve been lifting for 10 and competitively for 6. You make 80% of your lifetime natural lean mass gains in the first 2 years of consistent training. Fake nattys lie like that all the time. Hell Simeon panda passed a polygraph.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:50 AM
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It’s not like that once you’ve grown into it. If you grow into an LTR, then you start to realize you aren’t giving time or energy. You are sharing an experience with someone that enhances it. Chasing women is a lot of time and energy getting pussy.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:35 PM
3

The original gainstas guy is on more than TRT.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:30 PM
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Idk just depends. A lot of partying and banging random women gets old. You don’t recover as well. You also get a lot more career goals and hobbies that makes you want to spend less time chasing women. You hit your own wall around 35 where your ability to bang hoes that are even slightly comparable to the girl you could be settled with starts to creep out the window.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:28 PM
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Not necessarily. I have 2 masters one is an mba other msme. Never considered a PhD.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:21 PM
1

Another important part to note if your interested in LTR’s is expectation of reward. The best analogy for it I can think of is a lottery ticket. You pay $2 for a ticket that has the numbers 2 2 4 6. You believe that to be a fair exchange. The numbers are drawn 3 5 7 9. You throw the ticket away. Nothing about the object you paid $2 for changes, but what did change was the expectation of reward from the object. If you in a social relationship have a heavily weighted expected reward, then you do s…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:28 PM
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Pretty much says all interaction is based off of some form of utility each party provides the other. It’s important to not this is done on the subconscious level which means it’s not always as simple as material exchanges. Once risk exceeds reward/expected reward for one of the parties they will cease interaction. You can evaluate your value against what you perceive to be another persons metrics to see you chances of some type of relationship. For example, let’s say you are in a punk band. You …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:17 PM
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Ignorant.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:08 PM
1

She made a power move to try to take back power. She also could have a moral obligation not to cheat, so she broke up to pursue another guy for a relationship and he was like nah fam and now she’s back to you.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:46 AM
1

Interdependence theory
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:37 AM
1

Yeah for like the average man you’ll gain like 30lbs of muscle in your life and like 25 in the first 2 years. It’s all about the AAS.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:12 AM
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It is and it isn’t. It just has very quickly diminishing returns. Most of the evidence suggests you can increase your lean body mass around 20% from a previously untrained state in your life naturally. In optimal training for hypertrophy you can expect to increase your lean body mass by 14-17% in your first two years of training. That means 70-85% of the muscle gain you’ll make as a lifetime natural is going to be made in the first two years.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:59 PM
1

This is my big one on those conspiracy flat earth types.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:09 AM
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I don’t really game. I have better things to do than entertain things I don’t agree with. Yeah for sure if you’re into that though
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:08 AM
1

That’s probably a frame thing. If your deadlift is good, then your pressing is going to suffer. I competed IPF raw for 3 years. I’ve pulled 255 kg at 83kg. I’ve yet to bench 145kg in comp. I’ve ran bench specific programming multiple times. I barely had 16in arms. That’s most likely my peak natural status. I’m running my first cycle test only right now though.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 10:47 PM
1

Plausible deniability is your ability to claim lack of knowledge or lack of responsibility about a situation to avoid liability. The other is making a gut decision. All of the executive management at my employer take a training on maintaining plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:24 PM
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Not really what I meant. I meant making decisions based off of prejudice because it takes too much time to understand the intricacies of the situation.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:29 PM
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I’ve read jung and Freud on that type of stuff. Had to learn the MBTI version in an executive management course my employer had me take. I could see that too. It helps remove the unknowns in social interaction which gives a sense of security and allows for “informed” decisions on the fly.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:13 PM
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That’s a stop sign lol. I mean nah it’s more of let me do your birth chart almost everytime. It’s a little bit more than what’s your sun sign. At least once a conversation a mention of how one of my signs in whatever planet explains why I just said something the way I did. Yeah I’m “left-wing” punk, so I definitely don’t move in societal norm circles.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:55 PM
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3 of the girls I’m seeing right now all made advances for a monogamous relationship on me on the same day a couple of days ago and my sister was like oh makes sense and showed me some astrology shit about it being some type of moon making it the time to evaluate and advance relationships.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:51 PM
2

Maybe. Idk that it’s lack of intelligence. Ik plenty of intelligent people who are Christian and stuff like that. I mean one of the women who was super into was a veterinarian and had full academic scholarship through undergrad.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:47 PM
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Kind of my theory on it too. I always took it as a crutch to avoid personal responsibility. It might just be the circles I move in that makes me find so many that are super into it.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:41 PM
1

Here I am like who doesn’t like doing cocaine.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:57 AM
1

Also the doctor will measure with on two methods which is pure penetration which is how far your dick goes in a device and the other will be from pubic bone to tip. There are plenty of ways to measure other than that.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:49 AM
1

Doesn’t even have to be good just doesn’t have to be bad. I mean you’ve already seen her naked once, so there’s no insecurity that comes with a new lay. If you hit once and didn’t Neg yourself with lack of ability and she didn’t have other intentions out of the lay you can hit it again.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:42 AM
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It’s commitment free sex. I mean why are you spinning plates? She likes the idea that she can spin plates too whether she does or not. You may have also encountered NPD’s or other forms of mental illness that immediately formed a codependent bond gotta watch yourself there.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:40 AM
0

Depends on the position and the girl in this case. There are positions where I hit cervix and I’m not 8+
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:31 AM
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Ok kinobody
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:29 AM
2

*texas method
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:28 AM
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They can also scream wtf my guy did a meth addict scribble that on you. Be wise when picking artists, art, and placement.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:27 AM
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I’ve got a huge baphomet quad sleeve cause it looks good.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:25 AM
-1

I love tattooed women and my testosterone is higher than any average male in history due to exogenous enhancement.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:24 AM
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never been with a woman who wasn’t tatted since high school lol oh well
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:23 AM
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I’m probably like a 7.5 or so on looks depending on what you’re into of course. I’m into lifting and was a collegiate wrestler for my freshman year. I’m good looking enough to that it wouldn’t detract from any other positives I present. Longest on and off was my HS gf which lasted 4 years. We cheated on each other quite a bit and everytime we really broke up I’d have sex with 3 or 4 girls. She eventually just. called it quits for good and tried to HMU like a year later. Non-stop was 2 years and …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 05:55 PM
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Really in my mind she’s trying to lock him down cause she needs that support for her kid and maybe the financial aspect. I was never really a TRPer though, so that may be something they believe. I was just a drug trafficker, so my first instinct if it seems like a good deal then it probably is a scam.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 02:45 PM
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Well I personally have been diagnosed as having significant personality traits from all 3 of the dark triad. The psychologist isn’t sure whether their deep seated or developed from my years as a large scale drug trafficker. I’m now just a 26 year old plant manager who works with real estate on the side.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 07:46 PM
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The number 1 rule to beating a shit test is don’t take it. There are no shit tests a person’s actions are just that regardless of the motive. You stand up for yourself period. It’s like a thief. You may empathize with someone who stole something from you to feed their kids, but if they weren’t a thief they could’ve asked you for it and got it.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 03:54 PM
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I think this happens to people who are cleansing. They have a knee jerk reaction to pull away from thought processes that happen to align with TRP teachings even though in that given situation it’s in fact the healthy thought process and action matrix.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 03:45 PM
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I think as a lot of ex TRPers try to cleanse themselves of their manipulative behaviors the No Contact manipulation of PUA’s gets conflated with no contact for their own well being. They think to themselves am I pulling a pick up artist tactic because I still hope for romantic involvement, or am I removing myself for my own health because I still hope for romantic involvement.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 03:41 PM
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This. If you don’t legitimately have dark triad personality traits, then performing those activities is going to destroy you. Trust me I’ve been seeking help because I legitimately have a dark triad personality. The thing about TRP is I believed all of that before ever discovering it. The difference is TRPers hated women and felt insecure. I was like who tf cares so what she cheated fuck her friends or something. This is because the people trpers try to emulate don’t have emotional pathways that…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 03:34 PM
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This is a big one. A lot the issues with what TRP promotes isn’t that it’s completely untrue, and it gains a huge following because it’s mostly true. It’s that TRP takes a huge brush that applies to human psychology and stops painting after women. They don’t even realize in a lot of ways they’ve developed the exact coping mechanisms the women they hate have.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 03:04 PM
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Winning an unwinnable game sounds a lot like all of the business principles I learned. It’s more about the advancement than any one single destination. One of the executives where I work big multi millionaire has that mindset about everything. He’s rich so obviously he has women that are after him for whatever reason. He has literally said he only got in an LTR and married because he’s religiously obligated. This and a few other anecdotal examples made me wonder if TRP ideas don’t come from atte…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 02:51 PM
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“It’s extremely strange to be in this position because for most of my adult life, I found such opportunities literally irresistible, I would actively seek them out. But the pain of experience has flipped my perspective on this. Even entertaining the though of branch hopping scares me, because I know it jeopardises the thing I’ve been building with the person I love the most, I know the world of pain that awaits if it’s entertained, and this kills my desire stone dead. I’m willing to sacrifice a …
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 02:35 PM
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