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U can definitely apply the FDS mindset to friendships. I would recommend doing so. There are a lot of women as well that are feeling unloved, filled with self hate and jealousy. And if u are fine, they may want to destroy ur reputation with dangerous lies and hurtful, toxic behavior because they can't take that u are doing better than them. They don't have the FDS mindset that helps women to encourage each other. U can vet out female friends as well if they don't care about u and ur well being a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:08 AM
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Idk he seems weird, also that he fights with others (since he thinks he will get sued for hurting someone) is a red flag. Maybe he's an aggressive person. Plus wtf means quitting life with randoms? Is that something like a local thing people are saying? Also, I think it has its reasons why it happened that u didn't meet up. Maybe it would be the beginning of a shitty life with him and I guess if there is a god, force or something that watches us...he/it maybe stopped it to save u.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:15 AM
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Male friends don't exist. I had a circle of friends some time ago with almost only guys and guess what? They all wanted to bang me. I friendzoned one of them and he started telling shit to the others. What happened after? Each of them were treating me like an alien, like I would owe them anything. And so the others started to say things like (they didn't care shit i guess, so I guess they only told me cause they thought they won't lose anything or anyone important to them and maybe even get some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:24 PM
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Yup, allmost all of the LVM I have ever met in my life were really short. Below 1,75 cm. They seem to comprehend their low self confidence with a big ego. I have only met about 4 LVM in my life who were over 1,80 cm. I guess they don't feel manly if they are shorter than the average height of a man so they try to dominate women because they don't have to think about their own body height anymore. But not all short men are LVM, my current bf is HV af. Just be a lot more careful if u meet a short …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:09 PM
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I wouldn't be able to relax if I know the guy is soooo controlling. If I would want a one night stand like her (I am in a happy monogamous relationship and glad af I don't have to struggle with his LV trash on OLD anymore) I would dump a picky guy like that and write the next hot guy. I had thousands of likes back then on tinder and I can tell u 90 % of the better looking guys would have sex with u while not caring about anything like sheets or pubic hair lol why should I waste my energy and tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:30 PM
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As a girl living in a place in austria where mainly guys from the netherlands and germany come to for vacation, I can confirm this 100 %. If you're searching for a HVM, those country's are definitly the wrong place to search for one lol just trash running around. 😂 Even if one asks you to go out for dinner they expect you to pay for yourself. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:09 PM
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Yeah, the feed from the pickmeisha next door looks like a whole schizophrenic phase. One day they will shit post about the low value men and the next day they will praise em. Dunno what's wrong with em 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:40 PM
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Is this maybe meant ironically? Since I don't hope she meant that for real lol If that's not meant as a joke I have to tell them girls, who follow such a mentality with pride, this: Thanks for attracting all of them Low Value Men to keep em far away from us High Value Women. The trash is gonna sort itself out thanks to your selfless act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:42 PM
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My god, how crazy is that. Be glad that he's your ex, I mean you never know what someone like that could be up to when things don't run the way he wants them to. There are crazy people out there setting their house or forests on fire, just because they love destruction and death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:05 PM
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Oh, awesome, you're from poland? My great grandma was from there as well. 🙌✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:53 PM
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Often the women they talk bad about actually are queens that recognized their value and dropped them LVM after. Those men just can't get over the fact they've been left. My ex lied about still being together with me after we did break up months before to our old neighbors. He told them I was working abroad lol and I will come back in a while. Until he had a new girlfriend lol. I really pity that girl, he was one of those red pill men and I doubt he will change. Also he had psychopathic character…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:50 PM
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I'm okay with a bit of villain in a character. 😝 I don't know tho how she will turn out in the next 3 episodes. 🤷‍♀️ Lord of the Rings had an awesome cast, yeah. I love fantasy and dark humor so I guess I'm in 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:40 PM
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This. 💁‍♀️👑✨ I always picked the average, nice looking guy and ALL of them were total LVM. I got approached quite often by quality looking men but I dumped them cause I thought I was out of their league. I had a big friend circle with much males back then and I stated clearly I'm not romantically interested in anyone, since some tried to approach me. After that they will always tell me I am too fat, my outfit doesn't look good, I am just not a 10/10 and won't find a guy like I am searching for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:41 PM
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Awesome, congrats on recognizing your pickmeisha pattern! I had a good laugh on the meme tho cause this sums up my past pretty well. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:21 PM
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I still love Yennefer so much in the series. I love how she isn't a clingy pickmeisha who expects men to save her. 👀 She is a badass queen. 🕶️ I'm at episode 5 now and I hope she won't turn into one. 😂 I didn't read the books yet, but I plan to because a friend of mine has them and she would borrow them to me. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:20 PM
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Most of them are just grown up kids. It's easy to detect such a manbaby when you enter his bathroom/toilet. 😂 Dirty? If he's not able to clean up such a place when a woman visits, run. He searches for a momma, not a girlfriend lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:05 PM
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Nobody has the power to lower your value except of yourself. Why do you think there is something wrong with you? Why do you give others the power to degrade yourself? Isn't there something wrong with people who need to give you the feeling you are not worth enough? You deserve all the love, my dear. It's just there are people out there that aren't able to give you the kind of love you actually deserve. And be happy that they decide to exit your life, what do you want with someone that is only ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:57 PM
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Same with "I can't trust women anymore, my ex mentally abused me" or "I just feel so alone without a partner, I'm single since a few months and miss the beautiful sides of a relationship so much". Yeah, the beautiful sides lol. Sex n good homemade food is what you miss, my friend. 😂 Also never date a man that is single since a short time span (I consider everything under a year as short), they just search for a gap filler and will drop you as soon as their dream woman appears. Men are emotional …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:39 PM
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I wouldn't ever marry. It's like a free pass for men because then they are absolutely sure they've got the full control over you. Tbh I also can't cope with the thought that I don't belong to myself anymore. You can't just walk out of marriage if something is not working out like in a relationship. It's connected with much stress and work to divorce. Also, you never know how much you as a person will change or your partner. We all change over the years and don't even recognize our older selfs. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:30 PM
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Actually 90 % of them will do that for a while. It's just that the mask will drop as soon as the pink glasses start to vanish and the everyday life starts. Then they will show their true self. And that's why it is important to look for small red flags while dating. Nobody is able to hide their true self the whole time. Sometimes it's small things, like when you cook together at his place and he promises to do the dishes but after eating he tells you he will do them later. It's something you will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:19 PM
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Yup, and all guys that were emotional not available literally cringed when I asked them to watch a movie that contained romance together. Whining like little boys when mommy tells them to clean their room. (not even talking about the cliche Hollywood movie, but something like the hunger games). That's why I won't ever date anyone again that isn't open to watch a movie containing romance. I mean, why do they want to date but cringe when someone else is experiencing love? That's a big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:13 PM
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Sadly the only example for men would be Super Mario. But Mario looks like he wouldn't give a fk about his appearance and looks like the 0815 weeb lol and still he wants the princess. It's just unfair from the media, that we girls learn about real love since childhood and guys feel "disgusted" about such movies. I mean I can also enjoy action movies etc. without feeling disgusted by the male energy. It shows quite much how guys are teached since childhood that love should be "disgusting" and "wea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:16 PM
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That's why they live at their momma's house. They can't even commit to themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:50 AM
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Yup, I can't form friendships or relationships with NT. I wouldn't reject someone normal ever, because actually I don't mind if someone has interests different than mine. It isn't easy as a person on the spectrum to find a partner that fits 100 %. And even harder when you live in a small town in the mountains where there is actually not a big pool of people to choose out from lol But they reject me cause I'm too weird, I do look quite good and love to dress beautiful (fashion is the only "normal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:39 AM
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Yup, it seems like people with autism are already considered low value here. We may have special interests but that doesn't make us fails - neither males nor females. And each on their own on what someone spends money on. Tbh I would rather date someone with merchandise at home than someone spending his money in night clubs and on prostitutes. Just because he has merchandise standing on the shelf it doesn't mean that he hasn't saved any money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:42 AM
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I get your point and I already answered it. That's why I just wrote right after the sentence you quoted that it takes a lot of work to learn this skills! I would NEVER expect my partner that he will fix me in my social deficits, I fixed all those issues myself or with the help of a therapist. It's just that it can still sometimes happen that you will say something inappropriate cause you don't have a appropriate answer for every question without learning it before. But god, who is perfect, will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:14 AM
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This! Dunno, but often I only talked about my aspergers when I did unpurposely hurt someone and it turned out in a discussion that made the other person feel unwell. I really didn't want to hurt the feelings of someone, I just didn't get the point how it came to that. Like, someone asks me about the opinion of something (like the question "did I gain weight?") , and le me in the past without any social skills will answer something socially inappropriate. (like "yeah, you did" in case of the weig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:59 AM
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Well, if you read again you will see that I wrote that it takes time and work to learn that social skills, I don't talk about accepting that behavior. It's just something that people with autism don't naturally have and they need help with it. Doesn't have anything to do with toxic since I don't mean anything like swear words when I talk about hurting words etc.. It's more like we cannot lie and are absolutely open with what we think about and will tell the other person how we think even if it h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:34 AM
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Sometimes the reason why people don't talk about their issues like autism (I guess aspergers?) or adhd is exactly the fear of a reaction like yours. I am a female with mental issues also and this really hurts to read. Since autism is nothing that should be even considered as low value. If everything went well until now why do you wanna dump him just because he didn't tell you from the start? I wouldn't ever talk about my issue with anyone from the start either, simply because I would be too afra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:28 PM
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Trust your gut. Anxiety is often our gut feeling telling us something. Maybe it's better if you cancel the date, forcing yourself into a movie you don't even like to watch is not a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:43 PM
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Dunno, but I have the feeling of a red flag when reading this. What man - who really enjoys to pay after a promising date - asks the woman if she wants to pay? NO woman will say "yes, you pay for me" after he asks an awkward question like this and I think he also knew that. He was glad for sure you didn't tell him to pay. If I have to tell a man to pay for me, I would feel like a golddigger. A real man doesn't ask about splitting the bill and would never even mention it. If the woman still wants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:42 PM
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They study philosophy and come back dumber than before studying it. Actually, if they understood even anything of philosophical stuff they wouldn't act superior like that. I would be like:"Bye boy, do your homework. Read Plato and his friends again, seems like you didn't understand at all what they were trying to tell us."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:28 PM
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I have to stop myself from laughing when I see the name of a fuckboy in the views list lol they are actually always the ones who unfollowed you before, so it's not just coincidence while swiping through the stories. I mean, they click on your profile on purpose just to find out what's happening in your life. Pathetic, or? It's like deep down they know they regret it to dump us but at the same time know that a HVW wouldn't fall twice for their bullshit. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:22 PM
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No one: Literally no single person ever: Low value men: Why am I doomed for being alone while acting like the biggest idiot to every person because they don't see how special and loveable I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:06 PM
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I guess you're right, didn't thought about it that way! Thanks for that eyeopening statement. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:33 AM
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Tbh I don't think he's lying when it comes to dating since he also wrote it in his picture that he is in a relationship and doesn't want to date lol Actually I also searched for friends once through OLD, because I was very lonely and lost all my friends in a toxic relationship with a LVM back then. It's easier through dating apps than through social media like Facebook and Instagram. He seems like a weak person and may be also in a toxic relationship and some people are not strong enough to end …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:36 PM
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Men are hunters when it comes to dating. And sadly, a successful hunt means for the most of them to at least hurt their prey. It would be too much for their ego if a woman leaves them. That's why they try to turn the tables in such a situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:40 AM
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Fear the walking dead lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:32 AM
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No, he is NOT different. 🤦‍♀️ Stop wasting your time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:57 AM
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Another queen move would be: "Because I don't have to deal with men like you in my private life. That's why." 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:58 PM
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Why? Because a therapist costs money and pickmeishas do it for free. Plus they also see the sex, so they won't have to pay for a prostitute either. 🤷‍♀️ Stop listening to a man's problems until he proved you that he's worth it. Also the past should not be a thing when he's working on a future with you. Don't give what you don't get, easy as that. You're not their savior lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:47 PM
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Tho Taco Bell would be still more romantic than "move your ass over to my place 😜" kind of dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:41 PM
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At the beginning of OLD I didn't think much about the dangers of it. Once a guy I already knew from talking to IRL, swiped right on one of those dating apps and I thought "K, let's give it a shot.". He invited me over to his house and I honestly didn't read much into it. As soon as I was there I already wanted to go home because I had a bad gut feeling. But tbh I was horny af since I didn't had sex for a long time and thought, maybe it would not be that bad to try out a one night stand, since I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:47 PM
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Yeah, there are so much creepers in this world. No way I would ever go to a strangers house just to pet a dog lol Why would I even want to introduce anyone to my dog? Am I, myself, not attractive enough to have to rely on the cuteness of an innocent pet? I guess some men only own a pet because they think it will work as a pussy magnet. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:58 PM
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Better invest money in a car than a LVM. 💸 When you think about how much money you spend over the years on looking good for questionable creatures, I guess you could also buy a Lamborghini or something instead lol. Just that a Lamborghini won't tell you to do the dishes everyday. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:26 PM
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Yeah, we are not a animal shelter for fuckboys. 😂 It's a total no-go on a first date lol. What do they expect? That you will play housewife starting at day 1? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:48 PM
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And what do we consider 99 % of the men? Low Value Men. And what does it also prove? That 99 % of women are pickmeishas, cause otherwise we, the High Value Women, wouldn't have problems in finding a decent men. It's like a statistic that proved it just right lol So, what do we learn out of this, ladies? Don't settle for someone who's values are not as high as yours and it's easy to find that out. If you have to ask yourself or on reddit if he likes you - RUN. And stop lowering your own value, ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:14 AM
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I cringed so hard hahaha I'm not that desperate "babe". That creature was desperate enough tho to invite you in doing his errands. And after this he would have probably asked you to help him with carrying his shopping bags home and ooops there you are, in his flat meeting his doggo. 🤷‍♀️ Want a coffee or something? 😂 Some men are so pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:55 AM
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It's a great compliment in the end, cause this behavior exposes that post of yours as the truth. LVM act after Barney Stinsons playbook. But for every game exists is a solution. And our solution is FDS. They are mad like a magician after his tricks got exposed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:18 PM
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Fun Fact: Someone just commented anything with "you're a b*tch" under my comment (I think it was under mine, but not 100 % sure) but it got immediately deleted lol. I guess a butthurt LVM read that and this proves your post just right lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:59 PM
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I'm so happy you learned this also! Sadly LVM don't have any morals. Opening up is something a man must earn before. He needs to show you that you can trust him. If you swim in the ocean (metaphorically for the situation with a man you don't know well yet) while bleeding (metaphorically for opening up emotional struggles etc.) you will be more likely to attract a predator. (metaphorically for a narcissist/LVM) They will use and enjoy that character traits like a predator will enjoy its meal. Tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:30 PM
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Edit: Autocorrect changed HVF in LVF so I had to change it back lol embarrassing. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:09 PM
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Yup. 😂 In the sight of a pickmeisha the expectations as a HVF are too strict, so they will proudly announce they are not like all the other girls. (or better said, not like a HVF) It took me a long time to recognize my own pickmeisha pattern, but finally I am free. That's why I'm fine with being like all the other girls that know their value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:06 PM
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I remember this from my times as a pickmeisha, when I was always posting in my social media pictures of quotes about being hurt, all male are the same etc. after LVM dumping me. And those LVM where all responding to that in messages like: "You are posting this because of me, right? I am not like other guys blabla I just didn't catch more feelings for you." or "You know I have a hard time currently, I just can't commit right now but that has nothing to do with you. Please stop accusing me of hurt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:26 PM
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