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totallymanlytears/r/seduction04/03/16 02:32 AM
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totallymanlytears/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:52 PM
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Feed them your honesty? You mean tell her about things you are weak at that are really not an issue? Or a false flaw? Is that what you mean
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 02:05 PM
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OP has a post history fetishizing interracial relationships and asking questions about small dicks... troll post
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:01 AM
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So true, well said
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 12:19 AM
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God i miss consume product
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 01:51 PM
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Why is that? He isnt perfect at all, but he is an educated man who focuses on topics like these - can you name someone more qualified?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 03:29 PM
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Semen retention, diet, sleep, exercise. Not sure about diet specifics, but the rest are rather intuitive and well studied, except maybe semen retention. But if you do it, you wont doubt its effectiveness and wont need a doctor to tell you that what you feel is true.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 03:26 PM
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Can you explain what you do physcially to be "extremely" sexual? Im fine conversationally, but what about body language, touch, etc? What does that look like for you?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:43 PM
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A lot of people talk here when they shouldn't be giving advice, but you just gotta ignore it
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:05 PM
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You getting mad at "faggots", letting them mess with your head, what does that make you? Shouldn't you just ignore them?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:00 PM
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You ask for advice then get mad when people give u advice. Nice
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:33 PM
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You having a fragile ego doesnt make you alpha, and getting rejected by girls you dont really care about doesn't make you beta. Get out of your head
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 02:07 PM
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Guarantee that 40% of that sub is dudes typing with one hand and making shit up. Guarantee it. You think stupid sluts type paragraphs on niche subs on reddit ? 😅
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:49 PM
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Take what you can from each post, recognize the biases, and move on. Easier said than done, but jtd the best way to use any information when you cannot verify the source - could be some well-spoken 15 year old or 60 year old player for all we know. And more likely its the former
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:19 PM
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It helped a lot. You can find it free online. Best of luck
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 02:34 AM
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Calling people who dont watch porn... virgins. Nice logic there bro
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 12:16 AM
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Try "this naked mind" for the alcohol book. Both of these books helped me tame drinking and quit smoking. Feel like a new man these days
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 12:07 AM
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Strict diet and taking care of yourself can be very attractive, as it means you value yourself and respect yourself - others tend to follow suit.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:28 PM
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Eventually she'll feel insulted/rejected, so she wont respond to feel better about it
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:04 PM
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Its about more than energy, and no one says you should believe it. Maybe learn about it before you dismiss it, but I dont really care either way
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 08:48 PM
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I am not talking to you - I agreed with your post. But someone who has other beliefs isn't a hedonistic asshole like the guy I was talking to implied.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 08:47 PM
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What a misguided reply... blaming capitalism is the funniest thing that you only see from complete losers. Capitalism produced the wealthiest societies in history, period. You wanna go play in mud, no ones stopping you. If you use that freedom to become hedonistic, thats on you buddy, not capitalism. Stop pretending some guy having sex with his girlfriend and having a job is some dire hedonistic fetish you depressed femboy
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:32 PM
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Sure, that way you can do more pullups/pushups too which is nice.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:01 PM
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Mewing is only a thing cause people think a diet of pizza dough and milk is "normal". Our soft diets have ruined our facial development for many. We used to do this naturally, many still do but many don't now. Thats why mewing is a "thing" that you have to train yourself to do if you don't already
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:41 AM
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You shouldn't be cutting either after only lifting a few months bro, coming from a skinny fat guy too. Build more muscle before you start cutting, being big, even if some of it is fat, feels great too, no need to rush it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 01:12 AM
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Americans/men like the illusion of freedom, give them actual freedom and they wouldn't know what to do with it. And I say this as an American man.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 12:42 AM
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Its a good post if you don't mind walls of unconnected ideas inspired by ADHD meds. That said, your nihilistic title doesn't really match the post - life does have a purpose, you just have to find it for yourself. And I laugh if you really do anything just so you can get "god like head" - what does this have to do with your purpose? If thats your purpose, then your right, life has no meaning.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 12:37 AM
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Someone got laid off jesus christ
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 03:08 AM
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I don't live there anymore but above average from my experience
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 05:14 PM
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Colorado girls aren't fat and hairy, well some are fat in denver but definitely above average in general. Lots of tats though I'll give ya that 100%
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 11:57 PM
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My problem is that I cant get hard with condoms and most of the time just put them on after I've had a couple of thrusts, but I'm thinking about giving them up since it just doesn't work for me. How about you figure out how to get your ding-dong hard and wear a condom? Start there stud
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:40 PM
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This is such a hamster post - you should be happy that shes raising herself for both of you, instead you're getting insecure. Discourage it? Allow it to continue? Boy I doubt you have the power to do either if this is how your brain works
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:38 PM
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He could also have longer arms, tall people with long arms tend to have lower bench, even with decently developed chest
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:05 PM
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I think if you had a higher BF you'd look more like the pic, so not necessarily even muscle if you ask me.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:03 PM
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Imagine being a grown man using smily faces
/r/PussyPass09/05/20 04:59 PM
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Were on the same page either way. Have a good one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 03:09 AM
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It is racist, but that doesnt mean that its bad. Dont play their word game. Chinese only marry chinese, muslim only marry muslim, why do whites and blacks have to mix? They don't and you dont have to justify yourselves, if anything mixing is unnatural
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 02:48 AM
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Your right, I want a real woman is a woman code too for plus sized with low self esteem. Hell maybe that is a real woman now that I think about it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 02:44 AM
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Eesh never seen it worded like this. That is hard to swallow, but maybe im just a narcissist
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:49 AM
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Modern women dont love themselves either, they love feeling high and dopamine in general
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:48 AM
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A woman with a dick is a dude, where is the confusion except in your sexuality
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:33 PM
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Says the guy whos wants to fuck dudes dressed like girls
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:25 AM
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Imagine being this big of a faggot
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:25 AM
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Fag
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:23 AM
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I know your probably joking, but you have no reason to be mad at women. They're just playing the hand they're given. Be mad at society for making this reality, feel pity for the women who will pay for it. We are really the winners, if either party could be considered a winner
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:10 AM
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Really gross, or maybe pitiful is the word
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:01 AM
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Joe Rogan is a beta male shill who will do anything his owners say
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 03:48 AM
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Not really. Its not incentivized and a source of status like it is for men. While they may be internationally famous, men and most of society only care about their looks still. Men can ascend that and become so much more than their bodies by building monuments, running companies, inventing math etc. Their ideas can transcend themselves, woman rarely get the opportunity and aren't incentivized to really
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:42 PM
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Your racist too bro, stop being such a pussy may be a good start
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:22 AM
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Asian women #1, black men #1, absolutely delusional sorry bro
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:24 AM
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I cant not think about how bad they smell in temps above 65, that is a burden let me tell you
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:00 AM
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Damn bro, I get like 5 a day and thought I pulled lol. You use shirtless pics?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:57 AM
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These people hate tinder cause they get no matches, its that simple
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:25 PM
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Thought provoking for sure. My least favorite traits are timidness, neediness, being a follower, being self conscious, being a thief, being a liar. I am working on all of them and have been for some time. Neediness is still the hardest, because I need to always remember that needing anything creates the feeling of being without. In othe words, it creates problems where none were before. This is definitely subconscious and bad.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:58 AM
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We facetime alot during quarantine so Ill do it no big deal but i really like her Bruh, you are way too into her and in her frame. Your hamster is going not hers... Text her nothing. Shes using you for attention and validation which you're providing
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:40 AM
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This x100
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:57 AM
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I feel that. Be interesting and they will stick around. Develop as a person and lift would be my advice
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:54 AM
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What exactly is the implication? She does sound nuts
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:51 AM
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Are you destined? No, definitely not. Are chads predetermined alphas? Definitely not. Looks can help you/hurt you for sure, but its judt one piece of the puzzle. Your only a BB bitch if you act/internalize/let people treat you like one. Dont be a BB bitch and you wont be a BB bitch
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:36 PM
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you rhink youre loco ese?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:21 PM
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If I see 100 men, I see 20 you retard
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:55 AM
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Are you a retard? What is 1 divided by 5?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:22 AM
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not a lot of quality girls like her in my area. Bad mentality even if its true. Move areas? This whole post reeks of you needing her in your life for some reason. I think you should see her in person so she knows you ain't some emotional tampon who will talk to her without sex. If you can't then why not find someone else
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:20 AM
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Cause he doesnt give a fuck. Hes a low value guy to you, but you aren't a women. He makes her feel how she wants and can probably be manipulated, thats really important
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:15 AM
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The top 20% is rare. 1 in 5 men is rare to you?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:13 AM
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I don't think so. Double texting is very weak, and you already messed up. What can you say in the next message that would save it? Nothing. Best course of action is mentally accept its over and drop it. She may text you back in a week (this could be a shit test) - you now have the power because you don't care what happens anymore. You got 2 girls in a week. Go get another. Edit: this guide is very useful for texting, you may enjoy it link
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:40 PM
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hey thinking 7 tonight at my place. Im getting Thai takeout unless you're jonesing for something I think the text was the bigger issue. This seems like you're unsure and care for her input. I woulda said something more like, "Come over for dinner at my place at 7 PM Friday or Sat" or something like that. Establish you have a plan for the night, she can follow it or not. Not that you need her input for the plan. She don't care what your gonna eat. Just my 0.02.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:22 PM
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but I’ve definitely caught some feelings and I’m unsure how to continue from here. Sorry bro but your intuition is right - game over. You know it, I know it, everyone knows it. Find another girl and get going
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:08 PM
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Are you retarded
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:58 PM
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Agree with the commenters, but couldnt agree more with the posts sentiment. You seem chill af
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:36 PM
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I went sober for 3 months too and did what the other guy said and had a lime soda. The thing is, most people never got as drunk as me anyways, and the chicks i would talk to were basically sober too. In other words, their night didn't revolve around alcohol and couldn't care less, unless they had a problem too. I ended up allowing myself to drink once a week, which hasnt been a problem but I still get too drunk to make meaningful connections. Id say your better off staying as sober as possible.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:32 PM
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Oh got it, that is understandable then. I am mid 20's, but I would try and escalate as usual, and be prepared for excuses. If she puts a hard stop to it or keeps rejecting your advances, thats when you can make it clear that if she wont satisfy you, then you will get it somewhere else. Build dread, maybe "take a call" from someone or text someone else with her. Good luck
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:32 AM
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What does "she friend zoned" you mean? She said that, or what. Cause if you want her as a plate, be sexual with her, slowly at first, but your interactions need to be playful and you need to be horned up and she needs to know it. She either accepts or rejects, either a plate or a memory. Since yoy couldnt get hard maybe work on yourself first unless that was a drug related fluke or something though...
/r/askTRP01/04/20 02:54 AM
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Its hard to tell the difference between the type of 30 or 40+ year old that is pulling 20 year olds from the 20-30 crowd your talking about - they are fit and attractive, unlike many 20 year old dudes. Plus they're also prob at different bars (more expensive, more restricted areas, etc.)
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:39 AM
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Gotta get that confidence up !
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:26 AM
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If it actually bothers you, then it will never end. This person is beneath you, and the fact that you don't realize it (I know you don't fully cause you made this post) only helps him. You need to do the opposite of put these people on a pedistal - you need to pity them, and know they are lower than you for taking jabs at other men like a bitch.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:21 AM
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Yeah not sure then. Good luck
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:22 PM
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You can tell her and potentially keep her as a FWB/plate. If she wants you, she can have you, but not exclusively.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:48 AM
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you can see how good life is when you're at the top. Yeah that was a reality check for sure
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:54 AM
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ThenI would just verbally reiterate that anyone who drinks daily has a problem. Shame her, force her on the defensive. This isn't a good way to deescelate, but this is what I would recommend. I am not perfect, but anyone acting that far out of line needs a reality check and I am not afraid of toing the social rules in cases like this
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:50 AM
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You gotta stand up for yourself, not that confusing. Tell her to calm down and get back into place. If you are firm and actually a threat, she will pacify herself. If she comes at you physically, you can restrain her and force her to submit. Its a MMA gym after all. No ones gonna talk shit about you if you grab her wrist as she tries to punch you, but they will if you let her walk all over you
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:48 PM
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Damn Daniel
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:28 PM
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Lie to yourself all you want but this is just embarrassing
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 09:36 PM
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It’s not unbelievable at all, though it is logically very unreasonable
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 05:59 PM
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No offense to her accomplishments, but I don’t care one bit what a girl I’m interested in does or her status, if anything it makes her less attractive
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 05:57 PM
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To hypotheticially give yourself a chance to be with your "oneitis" and the relationship you crave you need to stop the oneitis reaction by creating an abundance mentality - this is how you can be with a girl who will even come close to actually liking/loving you. She doesn't want to be on a pedistal, you doing that disgusts her. It means you are saying you can do no better. No girl wants to be with a guy she perceives can't be with other equal or better girls. Girls pick up on this through pres…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:36 AM
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Lift bro and read all of /u/Omlala's posts. This is great general advice. If shes interested, she'll continue the conversation.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:16 AM
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You don’t actually need anything to click to be happy. Sure, you need food and water and shelter, but assuming you have life’s necessities, you don’t actually need anything to be happy. And that is true.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 09:44 PM
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No shit. It’s a process that is extremely valuable, like eating clean, lifting, etc. nothing in life worth doing is “easy”, it were easy everyone would do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 07:56 PM
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Who gives a fuck what you take seriously. Take no post seriously, but take what you can from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 10:27 PM
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If it’s really clicked, then prove it to yourself, don’t expect us or anyone to care
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 10:24 PM
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Go write another anti-trump novel
/r/PussyPass12/12/19 06:41 AM
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Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. You have to get burned by she stove to realize the danger, and pain is a great teacher. That being said, trust is critical in general for meaningful connection, just learn how to vet for it over longer periods of time regarding close friends and LTRs (once you heal, of course.) If your like me, that takes a lot of getting burned too, but it’s critical Have a good one
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 02:23 PM
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The herd is saying to vaccinate, not the other way around. Look around, 99% of kids are vaccinated, that is the herd mentality - your premise is wrong right from the start. So, it’s not much of s stretch for them to convince themselves they know better than doctors or that there is some conspiracy to harm their kids. Do you understand what a herd is? This is "going against the herd". Then if they let them live they mess them up with their inherent narcissism and Machiavellianism. Only if the fat…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 01:45 AM
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Sorry you got so much hate for this post, probably just made people like him realize that they look like shit, even if they lift.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 03:01 AM
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Oh interesting! Thank you that’s up my alley as well
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:44 PM
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I think you’re wrong regarding TRP. You aren’t entering women’s frame, you’re entering the frame of being a man for your own good and no one else. Doing those things for the sole reason of getting pussy, however, would be - this is because it has to come from you, not some women. Women only care because if you’re easy to step on, then you’re putting them in danger too. They want a strong leader, not a weak son who needs help every 5 min. These skills are for you to be the best version of yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:07 PM
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Did you solve this? This is me to a T. I still get laid, but only with girls who ask me out which is super weak
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 09:58 PM
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What you've said is very relatable (probably for a lot of people) and I'm glad that a place like this exists to share such realizations, it's powerful for sure. One thing I would say, if you want my take, is be careful saying/thinking things like "I am no longer blue pill" or the like. I think this unconsciously causes us to resist new information as we think we're "cured". The truth is, we never are, no one is, before internet or not - there is surely a long way to go and new challenges that wi…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 04:22 AM
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Agreed - you need to be rock bottom (eg. a loser who’s tired of getting stepped on) to find this place, listen with an open mind, and use it as a tool instead of it “making you angry” or whatever
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 12:43 AM
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You need to read this daily
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 06:23 AM
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It is, but you need muscle to pull it off for sure, otherwise it looks white trash
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 06:28 PM
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Go for that Saudi money look
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 04:00 PM
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Watch cops and you’ll understand the name
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 03:56 PM
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What if you subconsciously lie to yourself? I noticed I do this a ton. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:16 PM
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Nice example, falls into “don’t listen to her words, look at her actions” for how much she values/wants you. I learned this the hard way years ago. “Your so perfect”, “you’re blah blah blah”. In fact, almost inverse what she says for the truth. I’m rambling, but liked the example, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:15 PM
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You are both arguing semantics, both need to understand that it’s your perspective and how you approach this, rather than the content themselves. I’ve read TRP for years and it’s changed my life in countless ways and your both looking at the bushes instead of the bigger picture. Your both right, but both wrong. It’s both, but also neither. Ironically, this is just my 0.02 - I know nothing, but I hope to get a person or two questioning how they approach this material and life in general. It’s all…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:10 PM
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Adopting is way more cucked then adultery. Adultery may be wrong, in your eyes, but surely you can see how raising another mans seed, willingly, is the most pathetic thing out there. I don’t necessarily agree, but I agree with the logic of this argument - At the end of the day, the weak suffer while the strong procreate. Is that right, that the fat beta suffers, even though he tried his best? Yes and no. It’s not right, but it’s also exactly correct, unless we want to deny how life procreates on…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:32 AM
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Good thing people never change or manipulate others. Especially women. Always listen to their words, exactly, cause she knows exactly what she wants. Good luck 👍🏻
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 12:21 AM
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Additionally, anyone making 1 mm or more is likely deferring as much of that income as possible pretax(can be well over 100k pre w/ defined benefit plan and the rest post tax if you know 7702 tax codes and the shelters they allow), so while they’re “rich”, they still cannot live a ton differently than anyone else. Maybe that’s part of why she thought he was stingy, because she cannot access it... just sharing some additional info and my thoughts, of course
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 10:55 PM
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That’s like saying rich people get bored of fishing in 30 minutes, so you need 2 poles instead. In other words, it should be what car guys say, imo, not rich people. Car guys can absolutely love a car for life, even if it isn’t a red Italian super car. Not most cars though, just like not most women. Just my 0.02
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 02:55 PM
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It’s a fair comment, as we tend to generalize “women”, when in reality, the culture truely does play a decent sized role. This is my opinion because it imposes certain ways of interpreting human urges. For example, it’s easy to say the US is an honest depiction of “raw” feminine behavior in the form of cheating, branch swinging, etc but that ignores the fact that the US isn’t actually a valid baseline either - since teen years, were essentially brainwashed with shows like “sex in the city” and s…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:17 AM
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This, I did this almost every date in college (very liberal place.) Girl I saw for longer than most, and became friends with, said I owed her 100’s of dollars; I laughed and said I know.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 04:01 PM
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If you know and you don’t do, then you don’t actually know.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 03:01 AM
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my guess: because a women who actually needs tinder is a huge introvert who watches tons of TV
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:39 PM
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I'm saying they should be sentenced for longer just for even attempting - actually following through should be punished longer too. Just my opinion though
/r/PussyPass20/12/18 04:00 AM
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You ever watch to catch a predictor? Even the guys get pathetic sentences. You shouldnt be jailed for years for meth while child predators get a year. That’s fucked up
/r/PussyPass16/12/18 02:44 AM
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It's rich people privilege - literally has nothing to do with her race. Stop judging people based on their skin color.
/r/PussyPass12/12/18 05:32 AM
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I figured, one of the rules was that they want posts to apply to everyone, not just me. Though I see people do it all the time lol. Im gonna ask her out this coming week, see what happens. Worse case the school year ends in a few weeks anyways
/r/seduction04/03/16 10:39 PM
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noted, thanks for the reply. I didn't delete it, the mods did for some reason
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:36 PM
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its weird though, because every time I see her I am with 3 of my other friends, some guys some girls. I feel like making any move around them would be incredibly awkward
/r/seduction04/03/16 04:40 AM
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