totallynevi Archive

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1	I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed. From what I understand you're 22 yo. If that's the case, then I walked a similar road, had like 4 years of depression / stagnation / not caring about anything and then eventually I got mad at myself and my life, like you did. It's definitely not too late, you can't even imagine (yet) how much your life can turn around in one year. The first and foremost step is to want to change. You're seemingly already in this step and you're seeking out advice / information etc - so you're ALREADY doing somet…	/r/seduction	08/03/18 02:08 PM
1	I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed. "I realized that I too am I guy who..." "I just don't feel confident in who I am.." "..as a means of protecting them from who I really am." "I feel that who I am on the inside is too deeply flawed.." >"Sometimes I act as I "should" and not as I "want to" because I resent who I am..." "..finding a girl who loves me for who I am.. " Dude, in this life you can literally choose who you are. People are not born rockstars, people are not born good at picking up girls etc., the only thing we are born w…	/r/seduction	07/03/18 06:23 PM
1	How do I ask her to have sex? Never ask like that, it will be instant turn off and make the situation awkward possibly closing the door for the future as well. The sooner you escalate this, the better. Like some close friend of mine once said 'a true gentleman fucks lady at the first date'. Just go with the flow and try to progress step by step, see how she reacts. Don't take too long but don't rush it either. You don't want to appear desperate by rushing, nor do you want to appear hesitating by taking too long. Eventually y…	/r/seduction	25/01/18 02:16 PM
5	Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy.. I can imagine it must be same or at least very similar experience. But we're all different disregarding the TRP road. Don't sweat about it and do you, just be aware of what can be found at the end of this road. Keep trying, keep improving and get it, you will judge your own situation when you'll reach that point. Thing that helped me with confidence drops, was awareness of my age and how things get better by default as you grow older + all the experience. Age 18-23 is probably the hardest year j…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/17 01:24 PM
1	The only lesson I learned during the almost 1 year of studying and practicing game, and why being yourself is actually a good advice. Similar story, wasted 4 years at uni (repeated 2 courses 2 times) and eventually quit it. In the past 2 years I've been questioning myself whether I actually like the study or not. It appears things change and I have changed and so I quit it. Although I've been nurtured that diploma is necessary etc etc I don't give a shit and never been happier in past 4 years than I am now, as I found a job that I like and slowly moving towards the life that I actually want to live. I basically gamed through m…	/r/seduction	05/12/16 08:27 AM
3	I got rejected on my first approach today.... Was I being too direct? I'd recommend avoiding the 'cute' and alike compliments. If you're going for one, it should be something that she is capable of changing, something that was her own effort. Good example: clothes, jewelry, books, maybe some kind of action, idea or whatever (implying you saw/overheard). Bad example: eyes, height, boob size etc... Something she can't control and it's just superficial overall. Next thing is yeah, you were too direct and rushed. I wouldn't be surprised if she thought 'wow, this guy i…	/r/seduction	09/09/16 11:59 AM
1	Tips on initiating? Scared of looking dumb or rejection. Embrace awkwardness. Use kino. Rejection is better than regret. (Or friendzone).	/r/seduction	09/09/16 11:47 AM
1	Seddit, I'm a boring person. How do I break out of catch 22? Yeah, video games will rarely help with girls. They're fine with moderation though, if you're up to simply making friends, imo.	/r/seduction	09/09/16 11:38 AM
2	Seddit, I'm a boring person. How do I break out of catch 22? Well, the OP said he has nothing to talk about. Hobbies certainly help with that. As for making friends, read the last tip. Just let people talk. Ask about their lives, their interests or whatever to keep them talking. The more people tell you about themselves, the more they are investing and thus the more inclined they are to become friends with you.	/r/seduction	09/09/16 11:34 AM
2	How much is pornography like real sex? -Honey, let's have sex like in the movies... -HELL YEAH. A husband proceeds to tie up his wife, gag her and fuck her brains out in many different positions while cumming onto her face. While wiping semen of her face: -We're obviously watching a different type of movies...	/r/seduction	08/09/16 09:12 PM
1	From approach to convo. How? Comment something about them. It doesn't have to be a compliment necessarily. Ask something random. My best conversations started off as random things at first. It has to feel funny and ok for you to say tho.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 09:07 PM
1	She is not my type! Problem! How can you know which beer is your favorite without ever tasting any kind of beer before? edit: or do your friends decide which is your favorite beer as well?	/r/seduction	08/09/16 08:58 PM
1	What's the deal with gym pickup? I don't know boyz. All of the advices seem meh to me. Create a scenario? Really... Maybe you should start creating scenarios at a bar/club too? Where you wait for a perfect song and accidentally bump into her, then you look at each other for a moment and suddenly you're in love? Or wait, you shouldn't approach a girl because she wants to work out in peace! Maybe she just wants to have nice body, you pervert. She's doing it for healthy lifestyle and her mom and not to be fucked you stereotypical …	/r/seduction	08/09/16 08:51 PM
5	Seddit, I'm a boring person. How do I break out of catch 22? Sounds easy for me. Find a hobby or two. It doesn't have to be anything spectacular, you just have to enjoy it and try getting good at it. Be it poker, dancing, acting, cycling or whatever. That's a good start. Start attending events of your interests. Concerts, festivals, musiems or simply meet-ups or whatever. I bet there are quite a few in your area, just google that shit up. Read books. Books are always fucking helpful. Everyone can find something they like to read about. Btw, documentaries …	/r/seduction	08/09/16 08:39 PM
29	30 year old in college If you feel weird - don't hit on them. If you want to smash that fresh pussy - hit on them. It's not that complicated. Don't make it complicated.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 08:29 PM
4	How to stand out in a group of "alpha" males? Well, if it's so useless and vague to you, maybe you need to look at it from another angle... Don't. Be. Fake. That's another beta's trait. Due to poor nurture or perhaps even some other reasons, those people (past self of me included) live...in a fake world. They try to suppress or disguise their needs for pussy, they try to be nice and it's all just...against nature, really. It's all just fake. A twisted view of the world that they got from movies, books, nurture etc.. I'm just trying to point…	/r/seduction	08/09/16 08:10 PM
34	How to stand out in a group of "alpha" males? Well, honestly you just need to get rid of that mentality that you need to prove something to yourself or others. That's not 'alphas' mentality. It's quite opposite when you think about it. When you have that mindset, it's like seeking for approval, isn't it? Therefore naturally you're less 'alpha' than others. Just be yourself, be confident and comfortable with who you are and if you're not - then fucking change something until you are. IMO it's not about speaking the loudest or taking the lead…	/r/seduction	08/09/16 09:58 AM
1	Was she attracted? Maybe she wanted to get your attention. But you didn't react on the spot, from what I understand, so just forget it. A missed opportunity now.	/r/seduction	29/08/16 01:58 PM
1	I had an opportunity to kiss the girl I like but i didn't take it Don't want to be that guy, but are you sure that the girl likes you back as a potential mate and not as a friend? Maybe deep down you know that it's the latter thus you didn't kiss her? Anyway, there's only one way to find out. Btw, try brushing the side of her hair before you attempt kissing, if she doesn't resist it's a good sign you can proceed.	/r/seduction	10/06/16 03:46 PM
11	Been out 3 times, and still haven't had the balls to approach anyone? He who hesitates - masturbates.	/r/seduction	30/04/16 04:10 PM
2	Annoying wingman advice needed Well, you should either tell your friend how you feel and ask him not to cockblock you like that or try to stir the conversation more towards the girls, as in ask questions about them. People love to talk about themselves(as you already noticed lol) and it's easy to establish connection simply by asking questions. Speaking with your friend is not a bad idea too. If he's a truly good friend of yours, he will consider your concerns and perhaps next time try to include you into conversation or rede…	/r/seduction	05/02/16 04:41 PM
2	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. Thanks for your input. I agree, that affection works like drug and when there's none, you get to experience withdrawals. But I think it can't be the case here, because it's been few years since relationship, and it should be over right now, no? But then again, I can't find any other explanation to this, your version sounds compelling. However, a thing worth emphasizing is that I like being single. Heck, I'm probably panicky afraid of getting into a relationship right now. But not because I'm afr…	/r/seduction	12/01/16 08:43 PM
8	Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice. Not sure if this can be considered obsession, but I have this 'problem' even while realizing that there's plenty girls out there and regularly going out, playing the game.. Perhaps should just post as another thread but since I consider topic relevant, I'll just post here. First things first, I've been on a drought for quite some time. Over a year I think. Just make out sessions time from time but always failing to close in but that's not what I want to talk about, I'm getting there. Just mentio…	/r/seduction	12/01/16 12:16 AM
1	Had a girl in bed and didn't make a move honestly, you have a lot to improve. but don't look down, we all do. realize that failure teaches a lot more than success does. first of all, I think you messed up when you allowed your friend to join. now don't get me wrong, bros before hoes, but you shouldn't bring a bro to a first date, unless it's a double date or something but even then.. but that mistake is rather forgiving. second one was -asking the girl if you could bring your bro-. I mean what...feels like you're viewing her as your mo…	/r/seduction	10/01/16 11:30 AM
2	No girlfriend at 23 If I understood this correctly, you're kinda upset that you don't have a girlfriend or what? Anyway, relationships are overrated. If anything, it only consumes time, so unless you have loads of spare time, don't get into one, at least don't try to. I mean, the way I look at it: get in a relationship only with a girl that's worthy of it, worthy of your time and love. Don't try to actively get in one, life's just too good being single too.	/r/seduction	09/01/16 05:08 PM
38	How to respond when Girl is sending sexy pics? tell her that if she keeps doing it, you'll fuck this habbit out of her	/r/seduction	09/01/16 05:01 PM
1	/r/ am i the only guy who is ever got upset because he looked a girl in the eye and said hey and she ignored me? that's a bad rule, don't follow it also, start by changing your mindset. You are what you think, therefore you may appear not confident enough or may just give such tingles from that follows - it really matters HOW you say "Hi". Is it quiet and humble? Or is it loud and confident? What is your body saying? Do you have good posture, or is all of your body tensed up just from saying hi?	/r/seduction	14/11/15 03:50 AM
1	I get only 1 or 2 matches per 100 likes on Tinder, but the girls I do match with are all 9s. What gives? Yeah, we both get 100 swipes a day, I believe. About pics, I'd suggest placing the first pic where you look best and where your face and body build/type can be clearly seen. 2cd pic with friends/socializing, 3rd something funny and 4th any of your hobbies/activities. That's all you need to boost your matches. Pics with abs are controversial, some say it helps, some say it's the opposite. I personally think that unless you have a body of demi-god, it would be better to pass on this idea.	/r/seduction	06/09/15 04:21 PM
3	I get only 1 or 2 matches per 100 likes on Tinder, but the girls I do match with are all 9s. What gives? dude, when i first created tinder, it was more or like 1-2 matches per day, meanwhile my friend got 7-10. i thought he had some features in him that attracts girls but it's actually all about pictures and profile. think about it - you have approximately 3 seconds to make impression about yourself. you have to put effort to create a short, yet funny description that depicts main things about you, like hobbies etc. then, working out for at least couple of months helps a lot too. dressing well as w…	/r/seduction	28/08/15 02:34 PM
-4	Beer is not a manly drink. Hey, you misread or misunderstood. I never implied that drinking or not drinking was manly or not. Only tried to advert, that some food might stimulate or suppress estrogen or testosterone (male and female hormones) which in return could make an impact on your energy levels and whatever else. Don't look at it the way 'oh, I'm going to be manly if I do x' but rather a way 'how could this affect me'.	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/15 03:22 PM
1	Fork Use 102: Building Muscle you must feed the body you want, not the body you have Golden words, now I see why I struggle with gaining mass. Thank you very much.	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/15 11:44 AM
1	[FR] Tinder: Dates, Profile + fishing this past week (first week on tinder) What worked and what didn't I'm still somewhat new to RP but I like comparing the game to poker. You can't give in to emotions and should hold your frame with no deviations. Just because you've stumbled against a fish - it doesn't mean you should become one yourself. Don't feed her attention, don't feed a fish your chips. You either make them fold or reassure that you have a better hand. Otherwise - don't play. Sure, it could be a challenge to win her over - but is the challenge worth the reward? Nevertheless, it's still i…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 10:22 AM