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You can't fill a hole in yourself with other people. But you can fill a hole in other people with yourself.
/r/seduction01/07/12 03:11 PM
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A master fisherman could probably catch more fish than you with a disney fishing rod. Fashion is just a tool. And frankly the better you are the less it matters, it mostly just fills holes in your game, it doesn't actually make you "better". It's like op said, fashion is only a necessity with consciously well dressed women who care about fashion. That said there is no reason not to get into fashion, and just remember for pickup especially, fit is king. Dressing well generates female attention, n…
/r/seduction31/05/12 10:03 AM
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but in a club with music pumping, you could know more than any other pua in the world, have the best inner game, but there is no way to communicate. You can communicate just as good as anybody else. Super loud clubs take a certain level of finesse, confidence, and being well dressed. You need to be able to pull her in asap without setting off any weirdo alarms. You can't really go up to a girl at a loud ass club, and try to lean in saying random crap to build value, it just doesn't work very wel…
/r/seduction12/05/12 03:15 PM
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I think what your feeling is your brain going through growing pains. You had this idea of what a sweet girl was like, and this experience fucked with that idea. If you are going to do the pua thing, you are going to have some experiences with girls that are really going to fuck with the sweet girl stereotype. If you think that "sweet girls" are somehow less sexual, than you are going to have lots of experiences that conflict with that. I think maybe this world isn't for everyone. Personally I wa…
/r/seduction10/05/12 11:19 AM
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Life is terrifying, but only because we make it so. It's all a matter of perspective. What is more terrifying? Messing up with a girl, or dying knowing you haven't experienced all that life has to offer?
/r/seduction10/05/12 11:00 AM
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Social anxieties are not easy to overcome for people who have zero experience. It took me a long time to overcome my own. Social anxiety is impossible to overcome with someone with zero experience. Experience is the only thing that will every really cure it. Baptized in fire style. I know you probably already know this, but I just thought it was a good opportunity to reiterate the point.
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:01 PM
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She started showing me pics, which led me to talk about how, "I love how sometimes I'll ask a girl for naked pics and she'll send me some in like 2 seconds, so I KNOW those are ones she is reusing from other guys." Then she says, "Hah I totally do that," and proceeds to show me her nudez on her phone :) This is a perfect DHV in my opinion. Communicates some kind of social value that only somebody in the know would know about. Leads her into a desirable state/frame. It's that weird combination of…
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:43 PM
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I too, have a penchant for the nerd hoes so I get your dilemma homie. Truth is, what you are describing is the combination of three or four or five things. Girls tend to do this stuff. Especially to certain kinds of guys. Nerd girls do it even more. If you really want girls to put an effort in, than you have to understand what motivates them to reach out. There's this weird combination of being present, but being a challenge. You gotta be a little bit cooler than her. Keep an open dialogue with …
/r/seduction03/05/12 12:27 PM
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It's funny I think we are all programmed to regurgitate the sex isn't important blah, blah, advice. I'm gonna run counter to what everybody else here is saying, and say that yes, getting your dick wet is probably the first step for you towards not being a little first world problems whiny bitch. I think we all want to live in this care bear fantasy world where sex isn't the single most important fucking thing that you can do in your life. Life doesn't work without sex. Not for us anyways. It is …
/r/seduction03/05/12 11:16 AM
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I'm sorry Bear. No matter how much social learning you get, people are still gonna run away from you. Even if you wear a suit and smell like freshly caught salmon. You are still a bear. The world just isn't ready for your majesty yet, Bear.
/r/seduction25/04/12 03:16 PM
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Aha this is Jeffy's story all over again. Get his book "Nine Ball" and it has a whole section of him going out with girlfriend and getting threesomes. Read up. Frankly this is the only good advice you have gotten so far in this thread. Really depends on what kind of girl you have on your hands, but if she is wild like jeffy's girl was by all mean live it the fuck up, and post mad fr's. I've just leveled up and now I'm in completely uncharted territory. Chase this feeling. Learn to love it.
/r/seduction24/04/12 06:28 PM
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I just want to say that you have to take the knowledge of advertisers with a grain of salt. They are in a world dealing with millions, and we deal with people one at a time. They have the luxury of basing all of their tactics off of the lowest common denominator of people, because frankly their are so god damn many of them. We don't have that luxury. At least not if you want to build relationships with people who aren't the lowest common denominator of the human population. The way I look at it …
/r/seduction23/04/12 01:05 AM
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I can only infer so much from a couple paragraphs, but it looks like you are shooting yourself in the foot on purpose to avoid unknown situations. This is a really bad habit. A really, really bad habit. All of the interesting people that I have met, known or read about, have a very similar philosophy in one key way: when ever an unknown situation arises, they jump right in. If you don't have this attribute you should develop it. If you do then you should strengthen it.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:44 AM
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You need to watch THIS As far as I'm concerned this should be in the sidebar.
/r/seduction21/04/12 09:32 PM
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It's better to ask a girl out sooner rather than later on the internet. The more you dick around, the more likely it is that she is going to feel weird about meeting. If you build up the interaction too much, then girls will feel weird about living up to this thing that you guys have together. On okcupid, I usually go for the number within 2-4 messages, and I get it about 80% of the time. I would go for the number first, send one or two playful messages, then set up a date.
/r/seduction21/04/12 09:20 PM
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The part about triangle gazing was really good. That's exactly the kind of thing I think girls looking to push things forward should be doing. Some sort of a more subtle kino escalation ladder for girls.
/r/seduction21/04/12 02:48 AM
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If she's late 20's or younger, then Super Nintendo. It sounds so innocent that it doesn't just sound like an invitation to come have sex. Logistics are much better than a movie. (You can pause/stop whenever you want, easier and less awkward to kino, easier to talk, PLENTY of opportunities for teasing.) All girls love mario kart. In my opinion, I don't need anything to help me game a girl once she is at my house. It's all about getting her there. Once she is in your domain, it's pretty much game …
/r/seduction19/04/12 07:10 AM
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Basically all you have to do, is tell your wing, once I go for the makeout, you go for the makeout. Then isolate your girl to whatever room, and you both do your thing. It really is as easy as that. 20 mins to get everybody acquainted. Bounce to pool. You both pull your girls to different ends and escalate. He really doesn't even have to have any game, he just has to pull the trigger. The age thing doesn't matter, don't worry about it.
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:57 AM
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I can tell you go out a lot. You consistently post quality stuff.
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:44 AM
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I think it was a combination of this, and didn't build enough connection. It's easy to bust on a girl a little bit, and escalate physically, and one thing just leads to another. If you don't seal the deal though, there is a pretty good chance she is going to feel completely different in the morning. And I would recommend just moving on. Any game you try at this point is just going to make you look needy, because she isn't reciprocating. She will either text you after a week or so, or she won't.
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:39 AM
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approach anxiety. aka scared to talk to womens.
/r/seduction19/04/12 06:28 AM
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Knowing how to preserve somebody else's ego is a skill. Teachers have to do it constantly. It's really difficult to correct someone in front of a class/bar full of people without making them feel like shit, but it absolutely can be done. It pretty much always comes at a cost though, and understanding that is what's important.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:15 PM
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there is also the rsd youtube channels.
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:54 AM
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Haha, I just looked around my room and I have two hair things, and a scarf. I've never gone out of my way to do this specifically, but I definitely agree with letting girls know what's up in some sort of implicit way. It just makes life so much easier.
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:47 AM
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It doesn't really matter. Can't think of anything to say? Stare at her, tickle her, pick her up... It really doesn't matter. Empty pauses are awesome. You have to have them. You realize it's when you're not talking that girls get most attracted right? Stop trying to impress her with all the cool stories, and just look into her eyes, and figure out where she is at, and what she is feeling.
/r/seduction17/04/12 04:01 PM
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DLV + being unresponsive/deadpan drives girls absolutely crazy. Nobody does this shit, that's why it works so well. Everybody is the bar/club is trying to DHV and out alpha each other, and spending the majority of the time looking really retarded for it. You think girls don't realize how stupid it all is? Girls are very savvy. Everybody in the club is trying to DHV, it isn't some secret pickup tactic, and it just makes most people look insecure the majority of the time. The alpha male doesn't ha…
/r/seduction17/04/12 03:50 PM
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and if you can keep them engaged they will never think about their phone. Adapt, or you will be left behind. Looks like somebody has never been to L.A.
/r/seduction17/04/12 07:26 AM
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I hate to be an umpire, but unless you got oral and didn't mention it, that's only second base homie.
/r/seduction17/04/12 07:19 AM
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Her: Where are your friends? You: (silence) You: (silence) You: (silence) You: I don't have any friends. (Look down) Works 100% of the time for me. Edit: It didn't dawn on me till after I posted this, but i actually say this even when my friends are there.
/r/seduction17/04/12 07:15 AM
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Intelligence is like beauty, people appreciate it most when it's effortless, and without any sense of consciousness of its self.
/r/seduction17/04/12 06:51 AM
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This has been discussed before, and I don't really think it matters, because it serves a purpose, and it doesn't really effect how people think in field. The whole idea of k-close really does effect how people act though (kissing isn't natural it's an accomplishment), AND it sounds retarded and creepy. But I don't really feel like posting a thread just to say that, much less some sort of condescending blog post.
/r/seduction17/04/12 06:39 AM
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You are doing a good job of standing out in every environment you were in, so that people are opening you. Dancing, boombox nightclub, paint on faces etc.. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:39 PM
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I'm tryin to find a cool bi chick to train in the ways of pimping, and then I'm going to go on a warpath.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:31 AM
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I do the same kiss. It set's the frame perfectly. I think sometimes people forget that your game is only as big as your balls.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:50 AM
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This guy knows what he is talking about. This is the advice that you need. It doesn't sound pretty, but it's true.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:39 AM
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You assumed confrontation, and so you got confrontation.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:30 PM
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Last Wednesday I went to a concert and opened a mixed two set during a high point in the music with eye contact, a smile and saying "Yeaa!" (with a thumbs up). The guy looks at me and tries to AMOG with something like, "Uhhhh, nice thumbs up" (sarcastically and trying to make me feel self conscious about doing the thumbs up). I instantly respond, "Heck ya! I love this singer! She's pretty good". My friendly positive misinterpretation instantly disarmed him, and afterwards he became friendly whil…
/r/seduction09/04/12 09:01 AM
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If it's any consolation there's about a 65% chance that you already have it.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:44 AM
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I do the "3..2..1..Let's Jam" from the cowboy bebop opening theme. That has always worked for getting me into set, and getting me pumped up at the same time.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:20 AM
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"How do I overcome anxiety?" Experience. It's always, always, always, always the same, answer. Simple, but true.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:13 AM
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I can't fucking stand girls that don't know how to makeout. If she isn't famous get up and walk away. Tell her you heard a cat in distress, and you have to go.
/r/seduction09/04/12 08:04 AM
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Can I get feedback on this opener? Yes. You can. By asking girls.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:57 AM
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This is a pretty bad idea. It's coming from the right place, but it just isn't sound in the pr sense. All this would do is just give those with negative opinions more credibility by giving them a response.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:55 AM
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Cold approaching is on some level the backbone of pua. If you can go up to anyone, anytime, and have a decent conversation, then you are in control of your own dating life. If you can't, then you aren't in control. It boggles my mind that this blogger dude spends all this time writing about pickup, but doesn't get that.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:49 AM
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Wait, I just read this again. LATE 20's female? That kind of changes things a bit. She sounds like she has problems being intimate. I can make guesses as to why, but I don't think it really matters. Truth is this is something she probably needs to work out, and there is no easy way to go about it. You can tell her that sexual intimacy is part of an adult relationship, and blah blah blah, but even if you guys start fucking it's just going to go to shit. I can telll you that already. She isn't rea…
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:27 AM
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People who are going out often, and aren't getting laid usually have one or two very obvious things holding them back. It's really hard to tell what that is without any reports of you in the field. If you post the night that led to you hitting bottom, I can maybe post some things for you to work on that I think would help you.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:14 AM
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Are you in a big city with a real model scene? If so, don't bang her, don't bang her close friends, bang her friend's friends. Be cool, and chill without being asexual. A lot of models actually prefer really normal guys, so don't be intimidated.
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:09 AM
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I need more details about the relationship between you and her. Is she a bi girl looking to score chicks with you? Is she just a friend who wants to help you out? Is she looking for you to help her out with dudes at the same time? Either way, one of the best uses I've found for a wingwoman is extraction. If she plans to end up at your house for the night, is doesn't mind at least stopping there for a beer or what not on her way home. So basically your wing needs to know when your girl needs boun…
/r/seduction09/04/12 07:02 AM
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There is a fancy pua word for this, but I can't remember it. It's such a simple concept. I find I do it pretty naturally, and it really does work wonders.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:49 AM
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And give him some starburns while we are at it.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:47 AM
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If she wants to stop seeing guys that only want her for sex, she has to select them out. The only way to do that is withhold. I disagree that the only way to do that is to withhold. Strongly. I find girls who do that juvenile, and they don't stick around in my life very long. But maybe I'm just weird? I suggest op only has sex with guys she has that lovey-dovey connection with.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:43 AM
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Yeah I just call that playful teasing.
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:20 PM
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Everybody hates negging. I don't know anybody who actually gets laid, who does that shit.
/r/seduction08/04/12 10:31 PM
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So what misconceptions do you want to clear up? What do you say to the people who say this is a subreddit of shallow, hyper-masturbatory beta-males? Or that it turns human interaction into some 'game'? Who cares? If someone is locked into some preconceived notion about something and you try talking to them you are gonna have a bad time. That's all there is to it. Haters are gonna hate, and there isn't much that I can say that would change their internet mind, nor do I fucking care.
/r/seduction08/04/12 10:28 PM
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I really don't think I knew women until I started getting close to them. I just had my preconceptions, and ideas of what I thought a woman was. Some of what I have experienced has been kind of fucked up. I had to stretch my mind around new ideas of what life is like for women. I think being that guy who is in a girls bed the next morning has given me a perspective on how women really are, that is more gritty, but not any less beautiful. I think there is a certain level of pickup where you are pr…
/r/seduction08/04/12 10:18 PM
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I've got to say I think most of what is posted so far is kind of horrible advice. At least from my perspective. I know if I go out with a girl 3 times, and we haven't had sex, it just makes me feel like we are in 10th grade again. It isn't going to make me want to girlfriend her, I'm just going to leave. Most of my girlfriends I had sex with on the second day. Pretty much as soon as I meet a girl she is getting sorted into different piles, so how could it be all about sex? I usually know within …
/r/seduction08/04/12 09:53 PM
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Fuck everything about this.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:01 PM
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No response is fine. You shouldn't feel like you have to respond to every text a girl sends. If a girl does text you to hang out though, realize that she is kind of going out on a limb in girl world, so you should at least acknowledge it if you get the chance. I would text her this morning with "sorry last night was crazy, I had this dream that keanu reeves was my father, and I like lived this whole life with my keanu dad, until he died of butt cancer when I was 35. I went to the funeral and eve…
/r/seduction08/04/12 12:13 PM
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Always, always, always do it at the beginning. The very beginning. People fucking hate surprises. Source: M. Night Shyamalan. If you can find a way to get it out there at the beginning it will scare away most girls that aren't cool with it before you waste any time on them. Most hot girls actually have a pretty damn hard time finding somebody who they can have sex with who isn't going to get jealous, be needy, etc... and fuck things up. There is no way to "answer" the question per se. There is n…
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:54 AM
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I think you need to loosen up, and not worry about status, or what other people are going to think of you. You should never be thinking "I'm going to look like a chode if." Just go with the flow. I go to a lot of hipsterish shows where things get rowdy, and everybody is hanging all over each other. If I really think somebody is being too much of an ass, I'll probably do something to clown them, but escalating into violence in a music environment is a massively insecure thing to do. You basically…
/r/seduction07/04/12 10:46 PM
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Approach. Approach. Approach. Experience is king. Game theory stuff are like recipes. How can you know what's good if you don't try what they say? Spend your time focusing on how to approach, and as you notice trends that are fucking you up in your game, you can look to that stuff for advice for how to fix it.
/r/seduction07/04/12 09:49 PM
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Wow, how could anyone be... so brave... you are truly a lighthouse in dark times crod242, without you I would be lost in a sea of misogyny, selfishness, and low self worth. I am so thankful to have happened upon your internet wisdom, and will remember you for all of my days.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:44 PM
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What have you contributed to society?
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:24 PM
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For those of you looking to take something from this video, pay attention to how he remains cool and comfortable in uncomfortable situations. This guy is actually pretty awesome.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:21 PM
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Some people have a very narrow view of what makes a person cool. I think the thinking that is at the root of this behavior, only serves to narrow their experience of the world. It isn't even about being judgmental or not, it is about enjoying the world around you. There is a fundamental difference in thinking between "looking" and "appreciating" the world around you. As soon as one "looks" for something then they are going to miss everything that isn't that. I have my favorite kind of flower, bu…
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:32 AM
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I mean this in the nicest possible way, but it absolutely sounds like you DO wear the same clothes always, and instead of just taking the advice, you saw it as a blow to your ego, and tried to deflect it. I know this sounds harsh, but that's really what it looks like to me. I would definitely look into diversifying your wardrobe. You shouldn't be able to boil it down into one simple formula. Being predictable is generally pretty bad in relationships/game, and I wouldn't say it works much better …
/r/seduction26/03/12 06:12 AM
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I basically have like a nostalgia pop culture table inside of my brain by someone's age. If I see a girl is 19, 22, 25, 28 I know more or less what cartoons/shows/games/music they grew up on. I feel like nostalgia is one of the most powerful instant reactions someone can have. It is a super easy cold read to make in my opinion, and as soon as you start talking about pete and pete/my little pony/voltron/mario kart shortcuts/any disney cartoon ever/even stevens/etc... it makes everybody feel like …
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:02 AM
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One more unicycling analogy. Noobs eject at the first sign of trouble. Experts stay on till their dick starts to hurt.
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:54 PM
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I have to agree with this. I say unless you are specifically into shy girls, then just skip them. Part of why I do pickup is because it's just fun, and trying to pickup a boring unreactive stuck in her shell girl, just isn't fun. Sucks for them, but oh well. It's not like girls don't make the same judgement constantly.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:49 PM
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Makes you feel awesome, and sound retarded.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:39 PM
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I don't know how I'm going to get around the chubby girl to the HB6. Try the spin move like from nfl blitz. They usually aren't very agile.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:34 PM
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"honest with themselves"
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:30 PM
0

But you have to listen to the music so you know what rhythm to fingerbang her at.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:29 PM
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Fit is EVERYTHING. It's both fashionable, and comes off as sexy. Fit is everything. I can't overstate this. If you want to look 5 times more attractive to the opposite sex, get clothes that fucking fit. MFA is awesome, but I think their advice has to be tweaked quite a bit for the pickup world. They tend to go a bit extreme with the conservative look, and their motto is basically don't stand out, but look nice in case somebody notices you. This obviously doesn't make sense in pickup. I say go wi…
/r/seduction21/03/12 07:19 AM
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How would you personally go about conveying intent nonverbally/physically?
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:16 AM
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RSD has a fuckton of free content for anybody who wants to check them out, including some pretty decent snippets of infield footage. I like this one and this one. Or one of their channels here, here or here
/r/seduction20/03/12 11:40 PM
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If this is how it works, then I get raped like once a month.
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:46 PM
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By the time you get to where you can actually game girls you started as friends with, you probably will have enough options that you would rather just keep those girls as friends. Catch22
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:18 PM
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Alternatively, if you go out together, and are constantly doing stuff like getting instant makeouts, then they will usually want to know what's up. Then you can slowly start to wean them onto some game, until they see it works, and tell them about places like seddit or show them stuff. I completely forgot, but I actually have shown probably at least 20 people the blueprint from rsd. We used to just leave it on at the house, when we had people over and just lol at them trying to figure out what w…
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:43 PM
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What the fucking fuck?
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:13 PM
1

FWB isn't some sort of mystical shit. Most 8+ girls have at least one person that they have some sort of fwbish thing with. It just takes relationship management skills, and already having a healthy sex life. This girl would probably develop feelings. If you want to hook up with her, do it, and if you don't then don't. She's a big girl, and can make her own decisions, and it doesn't seem like a friendship is gonna work out between you guys anyways.
/r/seduction19/03/12 03:38 PM
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What I would have said: Her: "Hey, not doing any math homework today?" Me: Nah, man. I gave up. Seventh grade is just too hard for me. None of this matters though. YOU WILL NOT GET THIS GIRL. Not at the rate you are going, my friend. You need to be focusing on girls in general, and not this one girl. There is way too much of this kind of stuff in seddit, and it just isn't good game. The best way to get one girl, is to be able to get any girl.
/r/seduction19/03/12 03:30 PM
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I personally think treating women like children who can't make their own decisions is incredibly misogynistic. It isn't my place to make sure girls don't make bad decisions. There is an obvious line between a girl who is inebriated enough to make bad decisions, and a girl who doesn't even know what is going on enough to make any decisions. I think it's hard to tell if that line was crossed in op's post. Personally I don't think so.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:05 PM
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A woman will forgive you for being too aggressive, but she will never forgive you for not being aggressive enough. This. A thousand times this.
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:34 AM
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You can't. It is literally impossible. So basically, you can't help them, but they can help you. Inner game to me, is all about working out the kinks in our own brains, so that we can move through the world with ease. You are in a privileged position to see just how many ways our brains can fuck with us, and how completely shut down they are to new realities. Then you can use this information to help you in fighting your own brains bullshit. You might notice someday that you sound like one of yo…
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:23 AM
2

Even better, buy the 20 pack and write her name, and other common girl names, on each toothbrush. Now the bitch knows what's up.
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:12 AM
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You just gotta move your hands like you're doing dj scratching when you stutter.
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:05 AM
0

Is this really seduction though?
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:28 AM
1

Just start by closing the gap. You want to get as close as possible, as soon as possible. At the start of the interaction, grab her by the arm, is she comfortable? pull her in closer, comfortable? put your arms around her neck. Now start running game.
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:24 AM
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These are just analogies. Literally everyone but you seems to get this. You have a huge chip on your shoulder. You aren't the science police. You don't even apply your own advice to your own posts. Thank you, and good day.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:47 AM
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fuck
/r/seduction18/03/12 07:20 PM
2

"What do you do when a drunk girl is obviously interested in you but is drunk beyond any kind of serious conversation" Is this a trick question? Seems pretty obvious to me.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:09 PM
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I would have played the boob grab differently. As soon as she grabbed your boobs, I would have went for hers. Physically showing interest, then make the obamanotbad.jpg face. Send mixed signals, one way or the other, but not physical and verbal disinterest. She gave you a pretty big ioi at the start of the interaction by making it sexual. You pretty much had free reign to do whatever you wanted at that point. In the grand scheme of things, I think it is way easier to start off running way too mu…
/r/seduction18/03/12 05:24 PM
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I think there needs to be a balance between, being welcoming to newbies, and letting newbies run things. I don't really think that balance has been found yet. I think the tone of this subreddit could change, and still be welcoming to new members.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:43 PM
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Some dudes wanted to make a subreddit that wasn't filled with: [FR] Made eye contact with a waitress!!!! Whether or not these dudes have any game though is yet to be seen.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:28 PM
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"A made-up fable is not necessarily the true explanation for something just because it seems superficially reasonable." I agree 100%. Even though I pointed this out, I'm still cool with you coming along behind and hammering it in.... (lol) The thing here is I'm not wearing a science hat right now. I'm not trying to reform the standard model of particle physics, I'm trying to help people put their wee wees in somebody's vah jay jay. BUT. I harshly disagree on sexual psychologists being the be all…
/r/seduction18/03/12 02:40 PM
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You are 100% right about the girls behind you ioi thing. Good eyes. Fuck if I know why they think dancing behind you is going to get your attention.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:04 AM
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Megapost incoming: I had a really long rambling post on confidence, and why it is so often stagnant that I was working on, and I drew from it a lot to make this. Please note I'm mostly using science terms just for allegorical purposes here, although I could make scientific hypotheses about a lot of this stuff, I'm definitely not trying to at 5 a.m. while still kind of fucking drunk from St. Paddy's. I think this whole subreddit is founded on the idea that alphaness isn't innate. I think the bigg…
/r/seduction18/03/12 10:12 AM
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Don't change how your night is going to go, because some girl is wholesome. If you feel like getting wasted, get wasted it's fucking St. Paddy's day.
/r/seduction17/03/12 09:53 PM
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Best way to shut a girl up is to put your tongue in her mouth.
/r/seduction17/03/12 04:20 PM
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"but I also feel that scent is one of the most important factors when it comes to attraction and most definitely seduction." No. It isn't. A million girls could come in here, and tell you it is, and I would still say bullshit. If a girl is attracted to you, she will project those feelings onto whatever scent you smell like. Obviously don't rub poop on yourself before you go out, but besides that I would say pheromones and the like are just marketing hype bullshit. Smelling good is just point bla…
/r/seduction17/03/12 12:16 PM
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If you say it like that than yes. The A in pua stands for artist. Be creative. Tell her that you think monogamy is totally fucked, and only penguins should do it, because at least when they do it it's actually cute. The sooner you do it the less bringing it up will blow you out. And the few times it does you find out before you have sunk two hours into it.
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:31 AM
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You have to find a way to squeeze this kind of shit in, in the first five minutes of meeting somebody.
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:18 AM
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Best way to get past it is never to have it. If you look like you are having fun, then you don't have to make sense. I think this is the biggest thing that people fuck up. They think that everything has to make sense. It really doesn't. What you say with words really isn't that important. More important to convey a sense of adventure, and that you don't give a fuck about her rules, and that you want to see if she is playful or not, then learn some stupid bullshit about her in the first five minu…
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:14 AM
2

The questions is: Do you want to look like you are getting laid? Or do you actually want to get laid? There are always better options than dancing with a girl in the club all night. No offense, but this is literally the lowliest form of pickup. If you really want to escalate, take her by the hand and lead her somewhere quiet. Talk to her, then bounce her to somewhere close by with good drunk food, then bounce her to your house.
/r/seduction17/03/12 06:06 AM
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"I'll keep my N64, because hell, even girls like Mario Kart." You have no fucking idea how many times that game has gotten me laid. Fucking nintendo I love you.
/r/seduction16/03/12 10:55 PM
2

Why anyone would downvote you for sharing field experience is beyond me. And I second the picking girls up, I use it constantly.
/r/seduction16/03/12 10:30 PM
3

This was an awesome read. My current game is mostly stolen from tyler.
/r/seduction16/03/12 09:08 PM
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awkward nerds learn how to pickup girls everyday, there isn't any reason she can't learn too. The key is simple actionable steps and making it fun. And "other girls might see me as unavailable." is hardly a bad thing.
/r/seduction15/03/12 11:50 PM
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Unshy her and teach her to be your wing. The possibilities are endless. A female wing is the best wing you can ever have.
/r/seduction15/03/12 11:07 PM
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"your feet must be tired. because you have been running through my mind and struggling against the repressive gender roles that we have been socialized into all day." I love it. I love using cheezy pickup lines after we've already been talking for a while. I just get closer and closer and keep saying them back to back with no pause in my most romantic creeper voice. Pickup lines are great nonsense banter to throw in because it pretty clearly shows that you don't give a fuck. She shit tests you? …
/r/seduction15/03/12 01:53 PM
1

What this guy says. Flaking is something everybody in the game deals with, a lot, and I really don't think there is any one good answer. Play it cool, and hope for the best. Flaking is a tricky subject, but calling them on it and getting all mad sounds alpha as fuck, but not getting laid isn't exactly alpha.
/r/seduction14/03/12 09:59 AM
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I think #1 is huge. I think the ideal place is just past the line. When I escalate, I always judge what is appropriate, socially acceptable, and expected, and go about twice that far. Part of your brain should be screaming what the fuck are you doing. And the other part should be saying lol, hope she doesn't slap you bro. I call it getting the fear boner. Pushing it to the limit makes it way more exciting for both of you. Escalation to me doesn't necessarily even mean touching a girl though. Som…
/r/seduction13/03/12 04:27 AM
1

Stop using the word k-close, and girls will magically start making out with you more. I wish that I was joking. Girls hold no importance in making out what so ever. You can literally walk up to girls and make out with them in the first thirty seconds. Making out is no big deal at all. Oh yeah, and stop kissing them at the end of the night, that is super lame.
/r/seduction13/03/12 04:06 AM
1

Creating a real connection with somebody is more about how time is spent, than how much time is spent. The way it works out for me is the girls that ended up being just sex tend to call back let's say half the time, where as the girls I really liked/connected with, tend to call back almost always. This is with me having sex on the first night almost exclusively, and always by the second. Just my personal experience.
/r/seduction13/03/12 04:00 AM
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We live in a pretty self similar universe. One doesn't have to look far to realize everything is made up of the same legos and there are really only so many colors and shapes. Nature tends to repeat itself. What you are explaining isn't just about pickup. The idea of taking something you are passionate about or an expert in, and trying to apply the things you have learned in that domain to another domain is one of the common denominators in people who seem to exhibit high intelligence. The behav…
/r/seduction12/03/12 04:05 AM
3

Night-watcher: He doesn't just stare, he looks at them with genuine respect. Not sure if more or less creeped out...
/r/seduction11/03/12 08:54 AM
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Night game for me. Build momentum. Talk to everyone within three feet of you. Ask them who their favorite founding father is. Talk about dinosaurs. Compare dick sizes. Doesn't matter. Every interaction let yourself get a little bit more pumped up. Roll up on girls who look fun. High energy. Talk mad shit. Have fun. Pick them up and spin them in circles. All UP IN HER SHIT. Eskimo kisses. Gazing deep into her soul. Making fun of her. She is being cute. You feel a little pang in yo heart. Stop tal…
/r/seduction11/03/12 08:52 AM
1

but it does seem like anyone who takes pseudopsychological BS like this too seriously would be pretty daft. Some girls take it seriously, some see it as a joke, but almost all of them love this kind of stuff. Girls love finding out stuff about themselves. Even if it is obvious bullshit.
/r/seduction11/03/12 08:08 AM
1

I think sometimes we want a special mantra that we can chant while picking up that will make us invincible. Inner game is not that mantra. There is no special mantra. All that kind of crap does is remove you from the present moment. Inner game is just the foundation and building blocks that good interactions are built out of. If you really have confidence, outcome independence, and all of these other things, game is just pretty much natural. People were getting laid long before nlp, dude. I thin…
/r/seduction11/03/12 08:01 AM
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Stripper dude is a good example of unreactive. You can tell he isn't going in his head to think of shit to say to impress the girls. Hell, half the stupid shit he says doesn't even make sense. The magician looks like he is trying to pick up girls. That is a bad thing. He is leaning in and trying way too hard.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:34 AM
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I use the horse girl thing, but not usually as an opener. I'll start with what brad p says more or less, and then say something about how every class had a horse girl, but never a horse boy. Why the fuck is that? How come every girl is sooo into horses, but you never see some dude wearing a horse shirt carrying a horsey trapper keeper. Then I'll bust on them saying girls only love horses because it rubs the fuck out of their clit, or because they subconsciously want the monster dong. Or I'll say…
/r/seduction11/03/12 06:53 AM
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more playful less serious If you only ask a girl questions you are genuinely interested about, there is a palpable difference in how you are paying attention. 90% of being a good listener is asking questions that you genuinely want to know the answer of. Everything that isn't a joke should ideally be able to follow up with something else. Asking a boring interview question is like ending a rap with orange. You have no where to go from there. She should either be able to respond, or you should be…
/r/seduction04/03/12 02:37 AM
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I'm more inclined to believe she was just fucking with you, and maybe you taking it wrong screwed it up. This is like verbatim what I tell somebody if they say they like clouds better than stars, or strawberry ice cream better, than chocolate.
/r/seduction03/03/12 08:42 PM
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Live fast, die young, eat lots of pussy. Fuck all you bitches. This is why I get called back and you don't. As long as you don't try to perform cunnilingus on a pus oozing blister, you have next to zero chance to catch anything from oral sex. Babies are the worst and most common std.
/r/seduction03/03/12 08:36 PM
2

Reading comprehension much? If you can't tell he has attitude problems, then I don't know what to tell you. Oh yeah, and what if he had nut cancer and rode bicycles, would you tell him that it isn't all about attitude and he should just quit? The fact is the people who excel are the ones who take responsibility for everything, even what is out of their control. Taken to excess it can be stressful, and unhealthy, but I think that is the last thing most people are in danger of.
/r/seduction03/03/12 04:32 PM
2

I'm stealing this to use on drunk girls.
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:00 AM
2

I agree with everything you just said. Especially the part about mixing verbal and nonverbal conflicting signals, my whole game is built on this. and to the op I'm really struggling to wrap my head around this. If anyone could help me out it'd be appreciated. Game isn't always about wrapping your head around it... Sometimes it's just about getting your head inside it. Stop worrying so much about your ego, and start just going out and getting naturally turned on by women, and acting on it. Then j…
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:50 AM
1

Sometimes girls are just busy. Sometimes they don't want to see you again. You can really only do so much. If I am getting majorly flaked on. I will wait till a night when we are texting back and forth, and just send her an "I am coming over, I'm on my way" at some point. It is usually kind of awkward, but once you are face to face it is really easy to figure out if she is into you or not.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:42 AM
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Neediness is when somebody has a tiny little black hole inside of their soul, and needs the constant approval of others to keep them from disappearing into an infinitely small singularity of low self worth. Also if someone text messages you five times in a row without a response. Edit: I know it's a mantra here to avoid catering to a girl's needs I'm pretty sure that is like the exact opposite of our mantra no shit.
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:24 AM
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As for lifting though, i'm not sure that'll work. I've lifted pretty religiously for five years, and, while i'm certainly stronger than when I started, i'm still weaker than just about anyone else. I just don't have the genes. Let's not beat around the bush. You have a loser mentality. Until you can find a way to excise this shit, nothing else you do really matters. However it happened, you have come to have the beliefs that you have. Can seddit help you? No, they can't. Not until you rewire wha…
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:19 AM
2

To me routine means story with a goal. I personally don't like almost any of the "routines" that are out there so I just tweak my own stories so that they can fit to certain goals.
/r/seduction02/03/12 01:35 AM
2

If you are playful it really doesn't matter what you say. Read her vibe and you will know what you can do, and what you can get away with. I haven't been to the club in a minute, but I generally start how you did. Then purposefully call her by another name, and tell her that I love her. I love you so much cindy. Omg my name isn't cindy. We are gonna have a chocolate lab named rufus and a house by the beach. Mix in lots of physical push pull type stuff. If she is even somewhat attracted I am all …
/r/seduction02/03/12 01:13 AM
2

I'm a firm believer that everyone should have some stories that they have told many many times. Pros for routines You have told the story many times, so you both A, can focus on delivery, and B, should have the delivery really down pat. It can free up your mind to think about other shit like logistics. You always have a back up thing to say if conversation is stalling. You can count on it to generally have a certain reaction.
/r/seduction02/03/12 12:53 AM
2

Assuming your wingwoman is coming back with you, you can do something like this towards the end of the night. Wing walks up and asks if you are ready to leave, then turns to the girl and says, "Hey do you want to come over and have a beer?". I've never had it not work. If you go out with your female roommates in tow this is probably the highest success rate extraction I've ever used.
/r/seduction01/03/12 03:48 AM
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For the truly socially retarded: hold her hand, but don't keep shaking it the whole time. I can just see some awkward penguin turned pua shaking some poor shy girls hand for 30 seconds straight while she is ever so slightly shaking in fear.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:44 AM
2

Text her thursday afternoonish all caps FRIDAY I wouldn't do anything else. She sounds good to go, do the gaming when you see her. Maybe throw out one random text inbetween now and then if you want.
/r/seduction28/02/12 11:30 AM
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This is something you have to figure out how to be upfront about from the very beginning, the very very beginning. If you find a way to fit in that you aren't looking for a girlfriend, in the first five minutes, and she jet's you haven't lost anything. When a girl meets a guy, all that game and shared emotions is being built on a foundation. If her foundation is that you are boyfriend material, and then turn out not to be, then everything you built together doesn't mean shit. It is all gone. If …
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:47 AM
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This isn't gonna get noticed because it's so far down the line but anyways. The number one difference between obama and romney is how much attention they are or aren't paying to the people around them. Attention has two main values. First off, having someone pay deep attention to you sends powerful signals about their value as a person. If they pay attention to you, then fuck they must be cool, because you are like the coolest mother fucker you ever met, so they must be cool for paying attention…
/r/seduction28/02/12 10:23 AM
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I think most people who find cocky funny tend to go through a phase where they use it way too much. I know I definitely have. It is just really easy. No matter what a girl does you can bust on her for it. After a while though, it just comes off as reactionary and kind of stupid. She is going to say something, and be thinking of how you are fixing to make some stupid wisecrack, and then if you DO say it, boom, she loses attraction. If cocky funny is your go to conversational strategy it will fuck…
/r/seduction28/02/12 09:21 AM
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Broaden your definition of what is possible. If you have momentum you can pull off the most retardiculous shit in the night club setting. I just act like a big kid. I just want to have fun. If a girl asks me what I do and I say professional wrestler then pick her up and spin her in a circle, they almost always go for it, because they can tell that I'm having fun, and they want to have fun too. Who doesn't like being a kid again? Fake edit: Don't pick up really drunk girls and spin them over your…
/r/seduction28/02/12 05:33 AM
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The ability to tell a story, in the larger sense, is central to my game. So many guys talk about the "situation" of their lives when really it's for girls it is more about the story of the guy's life. If you can make a girl want to be a part of your story, than you have her. A great artist can make anything into art. When I think pickup artist, I think of somebody who is creating a movie with their life, that other people want to be in.
/r/seduction28/02/12 03:25 AM
4

You are going about this in the wrong way. Confidence comes from life experience. Period. Not books. I say this as somebody who has been reading avidly their entire life. Confidence comes from everything going to shit, and having to live through the consequences. When you have been through a lot you know that no matter what happens life can't throw anything at you that you can't handle.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:21 PM
1

I stole it from the movie Waking Life, and modified it a bit for my needs.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:00 AM
4

Find another way to impress girls. Talking about your job is stupid. It just comes off as massively try hard no matter how "subtle" you try to be with it. If you are really dead set on this crap, let a girl pull the interesting details about your job out of you. Don't make your job your identity, it is going to be a major turn off for most girls.
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:57 AM
1

Because a woman's physical attractiveness is much more important than a man's generally speaking. I think it is a misconception that girls can't move pretty damn far up the scale though. Yeah some get born as "ten", but the "threes" can get in shape, pluck their eyebrows, get braces, wear flattering clothes etc.. I'd say 95 out of 100 women have the opportunity to get to at least an 8 out of 10.
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:32 AM
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Some people start out in life with the 32 pack of crayons, some start out with the 24 pack. You could look and say, "Hey, they have more crayons then me... this isn't fair!". Or you could do the best with what you have and realize it is more about how you use what you have, then what you start out with. If you have a red, yellow, and blue crayon, then you can make every shade of color that the guy with the 32 pack can make, and even more. Yeah it might take you more work, but it IS possible. You…
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:21 AM
2

From kissing up until penetration, how long should foreplay last vs actual sex Very situational. This is just something you have to get a feel for with experience. The most important thing with all of this stuff is being able to read a girl. You should have your own gameplan of what you are going to do, and be reading her to see what does and doesn't work on her, or when to mix it up. What is the proper foreplay progression? Kissing, body kissing, heavy petting, finger-play, etc ...? Foreplay st…
/r/seduction20/02/12 06:20 AM
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Just being.
/r/seduction20/02/12 05:18 AM
1

Tone down the jitteryness. I've been really antsy/high energy lately, and it is being misunderstood as nervousness. Less caffeine, more meditation.
/r/seduction20/02/12 02:59 AM
1

What ice?
/r/seduction16/02/12 06:35 PM
1

Vacation game is easy mode. Get drunk. Wear a condom. Your mindset should be something like: TITTIES fuckicantwalk ohshitsheishot waitdidijustpissmyself ohwaitthatistheocean datassss damgurlsupmakeoutwaitsheisprettycool intelligentconversationmodeENGAGE damn girl you are pretty cool blahblahblah bullshitextractionexcuseengage extract-fuck-sleep-repeat.
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:38 PM
2

To reach equilibrium you have to swing the pendulum. If you want to end up normal from chodey nice guy, you have to swing over into what you perceive as being doucheville.
/r/seduction09/02/12 09:25 AM
5

Blueprint Decoded the video series from RSD. I think there is a book, but I've never actually read it. Aside from that I've gained way more from reading non game sources as far as inner game goes. Nonfiction: Eckhart Tolle - The power of now, and A New Earth I think it's called. Lots of really great stuff about being in the moment, and not creating an identity out of the negative shit that has happened to you. This second part is absolutely huge, just look at all the negatively framed I can't ge…
/r/seduction09/02/12 09:19 AM
1

Everyone thinks they have a phd in women just because they have been interacting with them for 20 years. I have been interacting with violins and people who play violins for 20+ years. I have watched many people perform complicated music on the violin. I have watched instructional programs about the violin on television. All of these might come together to give me opinions about what it means to play the violin, how someone should hold their hand for proper bowing technique, or notice a correlat…
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:47 AM
2

I think the one thing AFCs need to understand is that rocking the boat on comfort level is how you peel away the self-limiting shell. You hit the nail on the head. It's really ironic that the guy who preaches this the most is exactly the guy that gets tuned out by all the people who could benefit most from what he is saying. For the super awkward nerds out there of course most of the shit they do is going to make them feel like "jock douchebags" just like someone who is just getting into fashion…
/r/seduction09/02/12 08:41 AM
5

You just do it. Girls aren't programmed in C++ Most of what they do doesn't make any sense. It either makes them giggle or it makes them jump you or they are neutral afterwords.
/r/seduction02/02/12 07:38 AM
7

The part about spinning girls is so true. It is some weird kind of bizarro chick magic that works every fucking time bar none. It is the ryu fast fireball of picking up chicks. It is almost never a bad move. Maybe if she just told you her cat died or something, I dunno.
/r/seduction02/02/12 02:25 AM
1

Your actions have to come from you. If you don't have some kind of plan or desire that you are acting from your interactions are going to stall out most of the time. Girls are always pinging off of what the guy is doing and thinking. If you are only pinging off of her, then it's like sticking a guitar next to an amplifier. It's just one big feedback loop.
/r/seduction02/02/12 01:50 AM
1

Monogamy is for penguins.
/r/seduction27/01/12 12:13 AM
4

I read this post twice, and I'm still not sure of the posters stance or the specifics of most of the points. I think you need to rewrite this and make the abstract parts more clear. Was it not in the case of the poster above (but not his alone), when you backed off, some girls DID end up having sex with you? You did say there was resistance were various reasons. If the female ended up having sex with you, could it be possible that one of them was NOT because she did not want to have sex with you…
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:01 PM
1

Vulnerability is showing your personality because you aren't afraid of being a real person around here, and neediness is telling her your problems because you are afraid to solve them. Vulnerability is a really vague word though, and to really nail down what I'm saying I'd have to post a wall of text. I'll just say this, being vulnerable has gotten me laid in situations where I absolutely wouldn't have otherwise. There is a huge difference in vulnerability that comes from strength, and vulnerabi…
/r/seduction19/01/12 07:43 PM
1

A long time ago society was structured in lots of tight knit communities who depended greatly on each other for survival. If you pissed off the wrong person you faced the possibility of being ostracized from the group completely. And by ostracized I mean you were most likely gonna die cold and alone without the groups help. If you think about it, it is only very very recently that we are living in times where this isn't the case. Our biology hasn't caught up to the reality of our current living …
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:16 PM
0

Don't talk about your interests. Talk about your passions. Explain the story of why you are passionate about it, and how it made you who you are. If you can't describe how cosmology tells a beautiful story of the universe or how understanding psychological types can help give us tools for greater empathy with each other, then frankly you don't deserve to get laid.
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:02 PM
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I actually had to stop this video and post within the first minute. I hope everybody watches this. Opinion is shit. That is the problem with trying to converse with people about pickup. If everyone's opinions of what pickup is like were congruent with what pickup is actually like in the real world then there wouldn't even be such a thing as game. And yet most people judge posts by whether or not it conforms to their opinion instead of whether or not it conforms to their experience.
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:57 PM
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Because get married have kids is the default conclusion of a relationship that started by having sex 3 hours after you met her? What the fuck? I am all for making your intentions clear. I personally do it, and I don't see any reason not to. I have almost never had it affect my game negatively. But I take personal offense to the idea that girls need to be somehow protected from a good dicking. What is exactly is the damage that is done? I just don't understand. So sex is only fun for a girl if it…
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:41 PM
2

This is almost all stuff I completely agree with. The only thing that I would disagree with is that I think learning to tell rehearsed stories naturally is a skill that everyone should have. Stories should only get better as you tell them and figure out what to tweak. If you decide to only tell new stories you are depriving people of something that can be a really cool experience for everybody. Imagine if stand up comics only did improv. That would be lame.
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:02 PM
3

Read Eckhart Tolle. A lot of what he says relates well to game Just ignore the new-agey stuff.
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:51 PM
2

Bars and clubs are definitely not "cold" venues.
/r/seduction14/01/12 08:34 AM
2

Gonna get downvoted for my scumbag antics, but one of the last girls I hooked up with was the president or vice president of the feminist organization on campus and I put it in her butt on the first night. Don't change anything.
/r/seduction13/01/12 11:38 PM
1

Humanism: exactly twice as badass as feminism.
/r/seduction13/01/12 04:38 PM
10

Eye taught him that. FTFY
/r/seduction13/01/12 03:24 PM
3

Why in the holy shit would you want to get girls numbers as a server? You have one of the absolute best opportunities to practice group dynamics anyone could ever ask for. The better your game is the more money you will make. I had a really long post typed out, but I think I can just say this. If you can be a fun guy while coming from a subtle frame of them having to earn your approval instead of the other way around then you will blow peoples minds and make tons of money. Serving is not about w…
/r/seduction13/01/12 03:22 PM
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Haven't you ever watched ANY movies? Never break eye contact with a girl while driving. Looking at the road is beta as fuck. Source: 2 Fast 2 Furious
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:42 PM
2

Just don't try to do that when ACTUALLY fishing.
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:39 PM
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Game is basically like fishing. Just casting your lure out there is all the skill you really need to catch fish. All the theory and fancy tactics just make it so that you go home hungry less often, and know what to do with the big fish when you get one on the line.
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:42 PM
1

Ultimately I would say #2, but it takes a while to get there, and you really have to break yourself down and rebuild yourself before you can get to a place where that kind of thing is truly coming from the right place. I would say the flower thing in your example is really bad news. It isn't some quirk of game that makes it so that we can't do stuff like that, it's a very often real perception from a girl that it isn't genuine.
/r/seduction12/01/12 09:05 PM
1

I'm basically good looking enough to be able to open with some really stupid stuff. This is about the only time it ever comes into my mind. I know that I can do creepy weird shit in the first thirty seconds, and get away with it because I'm not a five foot four bald man. Besides that I never ever think about it.
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:49 PM
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My college advice is direct or indirect keep it charming and relatively low key. Direct and charming is better than indirect and creepy. You should not look like you are hitting on a girl to other people. It really doesn't matter if you walk up and say she is adorable as long as it doesn't look like you are approaching lots of girls to everyone else. All of your sets should last at least 5 minutes, and your goal should be social circle esque stuff.
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:29 PM
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Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fucker her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault." Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her fac…
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:15 PM
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The post IS eight years old. If you google the actual content you can see some of the really early posted versions. I don't know what that has to do with the content though.
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:01 PM
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This post is woefully wrong. Girls say they have a boyfriend to let guys down easy, or put up some token resistance. They don't even think about it, it just comes out autopilot style. Furthermore I don't really care either way most of the time.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:50 PM
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I've been using this since forever it works. her: "I've got a boyfriend" me: "Oh shit me too!" (said in a joking but slightly excited girl bff voice.) if she responds well "Double date!" and double high fives up high. if she holds the high fives I spin her around and then make out with her. giving a fuck is for the faint of heart.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:45 PM
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This is pretty baller of you. Something weird that I've noticed is that the closer a girl is to a ten a lot of times she has much less of a bitchshield, and is actually super graceful about everything. If you are bored you can try actually critiquing the guys approach or correcting minor body language type stuff and things like that. It will only stick if he is in a positive state though. So if he is the type to get crushed, then it is kind of worthless. As far as crushing hearts goes: You aren'…
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:45 AM
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This is a great field report. Just from reading it, it looks like you took every opportunity available to you to make sure that the logistics were in your favor. You mention at least one logistical thing in pretty much every paragraph and your reasoning behind it. That is solid game. About the shit test. I personally wouldn't have responded or would have said something like "Yeah. I was hoping we could get fucked up on caffeine and bang hookers together. You're down right?" I'm speaking more for…
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:30 AM
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To a pua amoging is like striking someone for a martial artist: you only do it as a last resort. or you know... for the lulz.
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:56 AM
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Keep your lips and tongue soft. When you just mash lips together there is no sensation. You basically want to be able to have lots of room for different sensations. Kissing is analog not digital. It shouldn't be like not kissing or lips pressed hard into each other. It's more like not kissing, really close together, skins barely touching, touching but not pressing, light pressing, light pressing and moving, etc... Kissing for girls is almost like a form of communication, you should be able to ar…
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:46 PM
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This kid is just way too awesome. Life is hard, move on.
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:18 PM
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I regularly chat up hobos. People are interesting. I don't know if I've ever met anybody who wasn't interesting. Maybe you just don't know how to go about getting to know the interesting parts of people? Just being honest, but it sounds like you have a really narrow view of what would make a person interesting. Yeah you can't discuss the finer points of Dostoevsky with every ADD club girl in the world, but everybody on this planet has an interesting story.
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:07 PM
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"Science is the disbelief in the opinion of experts" Richard Feynman
/r/seduction15/12/11 01:43 PM
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Self diagnosis with aspergers is pretty common. I've always kind of known something was up, learned more about it over the years, then I took some of the online aspie tests and everything just sort of fits. I've heard, from friends and other aspies online, that the online tests are just as comprehensive as what you would be asked if you met with a psychologist in person.
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:51 PM
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Is encouraging someone in the wrong direction encouragement? I am all for nurturing growth, but at least half of the posts on here are not in any way moving towards seduction. I see them as being a step in the WRONG direction. I think that's where we disagree. I'll put it this way. I look at the posts here and I see it as somebody playing madden to try to learn how to play football. Yeah it kind of looks like the same game, you might even learn a few things. But it's just leading to people wasti…
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:21 PM
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Self diagnosed aspie and pua here. Wow, I am pretty pumped that this is a thing. Sounds very interesting, sent you guys an email.
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:32 PM
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You know that part of the night where the girl is like agreeing with everything you say? Just be like, yeah I just x I'm not looking to be tied down right now. Almost always she will be like Yeah me too! This is stuff you should always be throwing in there from right near the very beginning.
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:35 PM
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Fuck. Said everything I want to say. It never ceases to amaze me that people fall for stupid shit like this. I mean you guys do realize the people who did this "study" got to hand pick the quotes right? If they questioned rapists on the phases of the moon, then I would probably have a lot in common with them! Oh no, that means I'm a rapist!
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:20 PM
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Although shitting on your crops is ok. They will grow faster. Seriously though, this isn't seduction related. If you are out gaming girls the last thing you would do is stoop to workplace game. It's harder and lame for one, and the consequences of bad shit happening are way too high.
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:07 PM
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I agree totally. This is how I see 8/10 posts here... You know that girl in your class you've been seducing for the past five weeks? Yeah sorry, that's not called seduction, it's called talking. And no we don't need a transcript of your ljbf chit chats about twilight. Or the time you thought her having you paint her nails was an IOI and on and on and on... I think there needs to be a strong message of what is and isn't acceptable, and what is gonna get you straight laughed at on here. If any of …
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:01 PM
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and then your harem of women can take care of you?
/r/seduction13/12/11 10:08 PM
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They are a woman and a person first, and cultural whatever second. Unless you are talking hardcore muslim, it really isn't something you should be factoring in. and I do some of the stupidest shit I have ever seen anyone do like ever, and I have never once been slapped.
/r/seduction13/12/11 06:28 PM
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Honestly inner game to me is all about one thing. Being honest with yourself. You can be happy, you can be sad, but in the long run honesty and self awareness is what determines whether or not you will improve in life. Not just in pickup, but in everything. There is a really awesome quote in The Brothers Karamazov where the monk dude from the beginning basically says you can lie to anyone else, but when you stop being honest to yourself you give up the reins to your life. This one understanding …
/r/seduction13/12/11 06:24 PM
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The parts about sex being barbaric are meant as pure sarcasm. I was trying to point out that society today tells us that sex is barbaric. Then I'm trying to make the point that society is a lot more barbaric then sex. At least sex is honest and natural. Society doesn't even make sense half the time any more. I know that I come off as a heavy handed asshole though haha. I'm cool with that. I feel like this forum needs at least one person like me to even out the oprah vibe this place has. Add to t…
/r/seduction13/12/11 06:06 PM
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Not everyone deserves to spread their dna. Maybe you are one of those people? If you are too much of a gentlemen to engage in the one sole act that keeps us on this planet, then by all means go ahead. I'm sure someone else will step up and take your place for you. Weed yourself out of the gene pool. Makes no difference to me. Reproducing isn't a right. Getting with girls isn't a right. If someone else is more capable then they get the pleasure of doing what you are not. I'm sorry if I'm being ru…
/r/seduction13/12/11 01:28 PM
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If you find yourself saying more then one sentence in a row explaining what you do for work, then you are probably displaying lower value. You should always downplay what you do, it comes off wayyyyy better. If they ask you early just say super straight faced. I'm a computer hacker. (give her the dwight schrute eyes) when she cracks just say don't laugh at me... "I'll hack into your myspace and post your naked pictures all over the internet. Wait myspace is still a thing right?" If she asks late…
/r/seduction12/12/11 09:26 PM
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I actually was thinking about emailing them last night. Yes do it. They are hilarious, and it would be awesome.
/r/seduction12/12/11 09:02 PM
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nope.
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:44 PM
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There was never a point when I wasn't getting laid? I don't really understand what you're saying tbh. I guess there is some backlash because it seems like I was screwing that dude over or something? I guess I didn't make it clear that they weren't in an exclusive relationship. I try not to go out of my way to do stuff like that. Although it isn't nearly as big of a deal as some people make it out to be. Let the lady choose.
/r/seduction11/12/11 05:54 PM
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It is possible. Make them cum, always, without exceptions. Don't try to boyfriend game her then suddenly change your shtick, won't work. Manage expectations. If a girl has to tell you something, she isn't attracted to you. You need to constantly be sensing her expectations, and pulling away or being unavailable when necessary. It just takes practice. Just remember you don't have to respond to every text message or call. Have other options. I only have experience being in this situation, when I k…
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:11 PM
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This is just silly. Instant makeouts are easy. Making out means absolutely nothing to girls in a club/bar. If there is sexual tension, then you can make out, period.
/r/seduction11/12/11 01:40 PM
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I still hook up with my ex. (broke up 3 months or so ago) She asks me how many girls have I been with since we broke up. I say 3. I ask her how many guys she has been with. She says 0. I'm like wat? "But what about the guy you've been seeing for like 2 and a half months now?" Oh we haven't had sex yet. Meanwhile we have been having sex the whole time. o.O poor guy... tl;dr just cause the guy isn't having sex doesn't mean the girl isn't.
/r/seduction11/12/11 11:25 AM
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You could have just replaced that entire block of irrelevant text with: I'm whiny and scared of girls... they might eat me. Nothing you said matters one bit or even really makes sense. Would you post this shit on the skyrim forum? None of this has anything to do with that game, and it doesn't have anything to do with real game either. Stop being a little bitch.
/r/seduction11/12/11 11:15 AM
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Think like how girls dress. What do you care about the brand of her shirt, or how tight it is? Fit is king. Make sure your clothes are fitted. Fashion doesn't matter one way or the other per say, but it can open up new doors for you and let you get away with shit you might not have gotten away with otherwise. It makes hey I'm all smooth and shit, and we just made out before I said two words to you look more congruent. Besides that it just adds swagger points.
/r/seduction11/12/11 08:14 AM
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If you are a positive person, not just in your words, but in how you see yourself and the world etc., then you will be offering value to people around you without saying anything. If you are a negative person with a fucked up worldview, then everything you say is going to make people uncomfortable. Focus on how much of a fucking baller you are and not the excuses you make for yourself. Go from there.
/r/seduction11/12/11 08:05 AM
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It's always best to act through your own intentions, but yeah you most likely fucked up when you vocalized the sex thing. With most girls you need to gear down right before pulling, lay off the making out and definitely don't tell them hey lets go fuck right before trying to drag them off, lol. I would say the exception, is when you're fighting over a girl and she is getting attention from multiple different guys and is very pumped up. Then you can pull on sexual escalation. Basically you always…
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:57 AM
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Sounds like your only hurdle is some mild social phobia. I can't stress this enough that it sounds like you have a great mindset. This is so key. Every situation in your post is viewed from the lens of a positive mindset. This road, if you choose to follow it, will be so much easier for you then it is for a lot of people. Seriously makin me cheese, bro. You just need to push, push, push, your comfort zone. You need to severely overcompensate for any previous shyness if you want to end up at a ha…
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:43 AM
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You come across as very analytically inclined. That's cool. It's a fucking deathtrap for pickup though. Someday it will be a godsend that will help you understand social interactions that other people wouldn't be able to fathom the subtle complexity of, but you're not at that level yet. Right now though, it will just get in the way of everything you need to do. You need to get away from your normal modes of thinking and create some new neural paths, yo. If you are SERIOUS about this action thing…
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:22 AM
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