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2	What should I say if a girl sends me a bikini picture? Joke about it. It has to be spontaneous. If you guys are flirting you should arrange a date and become physical.	/r/seduction	18/12/21 04:52 PM
8	No, I won't dress up like a fuccboi! Be authentic. You may have fewer matches, but it will help you find the right woman for you which will probabily make you far hapier than a dozen generic women.	/r/seduction	05/12/21 11:08 PM
4	things I've messed up while I was dating for the first time Dude, you did alright. Dating is hard and there are a lot of things to learn. Its expected for things to not turn perfect at the start. Just enjoy your next dates and use every oportunity to learn.	/r/seduction	05/12/21 01:06 PM
10	I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible. Very few dismiss someones feeling and the first thing thought is to ask a crying girl for a blowjob . Absolutely 0 empathy. Worrying. The problem is that op may eventualy ljke someone and he wont be able to love her because he spent years thinking women are only recipients for his cock.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 09:26 AM
32	I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible. Shit. Hope you learn and grow to be a man, otherwise you will die alone. She is a human. You are not. You are ugly.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 01:23 AM
1	[deleted by user] I think you are on the fence, and you have everything to lose but also everything to win. You will probabily lose, but that doesnt stop you from trying. Imho you should do this now, bet, and deal with whatever outcome happens. Waiting will just make you suffer more. And you will probabily suffer anyway. The only possible outcome if you wait is that you will lose and suffer. Better to bet now, because you have a small margin to win, and if you lose you will suffer but you will be able to start de…	/r/seduction	15/11/21 01:05 AM
3	Where to get laid when you live with your parents? Rent a car or motel	/r/seduction	14/11/21 02:50 PM
1	The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realize Fun? Its a warning. Nowadays just a rape alegation is enough to completely destroy your life, and that is why many sane man avoid drunk women out of fear.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 01:47 PM
1	The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realize Men are suposed to be guardians of their butthole so they dont get raped in prison for alegations of raping a drunk woman.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 12:26 PM
2	Need advice This. Female friends are very valuable.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 12:12 PM
5	[deleted by user] There is a huge value in learning to drink so you can reach the level of intoxication where you still know what the fuck is going on yet you lose all that social restraint.	/r/seduction	04/11/21 02:56 AM
1	Any guys here who have gone from a kiss less virgin in their early 20s? Also where are you now with women? Why? There is no wrong age to aproach women,as long as there is a proper age gap.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 01:56 AM
3	Any guys here who have gone from a kiss less virgin in their early 20s? Also where are you now with women? Yeap. Humans are social animals and we need a good social standing just as much as we need food and water. Having a craft which you like, is good at and respect will give you confidence about yourself and all the rewards that you get from being good at something you believe in will help in all aspects of your life. So if you hate or disrespect your work you are already failing. Emotional suport is also extremely important. You need friends and family. People which stop you from being lonely and …	/r/seduction	01/11/21 09:11 PM
4	Any guys here who have gone from a kiss less virgin in their early 20s? Also where are you now with women? It was 95%, my mistake. I was never a pickup guy. You could say Ive been blessed because Ive been loved and I was able to love 5 women in the past 14 years, which is more than many could say. My idea of sucess is that. If you are a kissless virgin I recomend that first you kiss someone and then start thinking about having multiple sexual encounters. At 37 im looking at women from 31 to 40 mostly, althrough I guess I could date younger women, althrough i barely have time and I want to find someon…	/r/seduction	01/11/21 05:10 PM
6	I’m starting to give up Dude, you are totaly missing the point here. You spent 5 weeks thinking about the wrong person: her. If you have to think long term about someone it should be you. The idea about women is that you shouldnt deposit all your hopes on a single woman, you should be constantily working on yourself to improve your atraction levels to a lot of women. From those that find you atractive you then pick those you like. So stop thinking about a single female, focus on yourself and try to find out which women…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 12:47 AM
1	[deleted by user] Drive somewhere nice and tell her you want to see the sky or something like that. Bring a towel or something where you could lie on the floor and sit or lie down on the floor. If its too cold you could just cuddle on the back. Kiss and then move from there.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 04:23 PM
9	I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out. In this day and age the offended damsel in distress is quite a rare ocurance, specially in a bar. Women like honesty and they hardly feel ofended if you talk or sugest intimacy or sex, specially if they were the one who aproached you. I sugest you use these oportunities and engage in sexual encounters with casual women. And try to learn from older women.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 12:56 PM
1	How does one become confident? Recognize all your fears and deal with them, not by ignoring or blocking them, but by being honest with yourself, not making excuses and confronting them. And earn power. Power is the ability to change the world. That includes fame, status, health, muscles, beauty, money. The more power you have, the more confident you will be. And its best if this power comes from within, so you are less prone to lose it. Its better to dominate a trade instead of depending on an outside source of income. That i…	/r/seduction	24/10/21 01:03 AM
3	I finally talked to the hot girl in my gym You should talk to as many people as possible and without major intentions, just for the sake of it, and without expectations. Once you can do that with people which intimidate you you will have earned a very powerfull social skill. And just because people look rich, beautifull or powerfull shouldnt mean they should intimidate you. That is one way to know you have confidence in yourself.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 09:37 PM
1	Vanilla & not so vanilla. Get him one of those light and small whips and tell him to slap you while he penetrates you. Once he feels your pussy tightening from the slap he will get it.	/r/seduction	12/10/21 10:29 PM
2	when was the secret meeting? I dont think that being a player is the standart for most men. Up until 50 years ago the standart was to find a sweerheart at church, got maried at 19 to 25, had kids and married to life. The possibility to have as much sex as nowadays came from extensive acess to university and the idea that people dont want to get married until their thirties. So most people have about a decade of fooling around. This time has been expanding over the last 20 years and many people dont even want to have kids an…	/r/seduction	12/10/21 09:29 PM
2	I lost the chance to lose my virginity Dude, you couldve had made her pregnant and that would probabily make it harder to date other women and find the love of your life. You still have a lot to see and a lot to do, dont be anxious.	/r/seduction	11/10/21 12:22 AM
32	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? Her behavior changes. Each woman is diferent. Some will start moving more. Some will become relaxed and moan more. Some will stop breathing and become tight and then do a big moan and relax their entire body when they climax. Some will start saying things or do diferent moans. Sone will shut up and concentrate on the feeling. All of them will aply more pressure on your dick	/r/seduction	03/10/21 11:00 AM
26	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? The other guy gave some great tips, ill try to add a few: Listen and watch for signs that the position, trusting and speed is giving her pleasure. If she looks like she is enjoying it keep doing it for a few minutes, but if she have not orgasmed in a few minutes try going a bit slower or a bit faster and judge if she seems to be enjoying it more or less. The average woman orgasms in less than 10 minutes and most cant stay wet for more than 20 minutes. So the more you engage in foreplay the close…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 02:43 AM
-1	How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with? Find a fat ugly woman. Try mcdonalds.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 10:50 PM
4	[deleted by user] Yeap, you are in a role as an employee representing your business, you shouldnt use the forced interaction with your clients as a way to aproach women.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 12:49 AM
11	What does it actually mean to "respect yourself" It means that you value you for what you are, not what you have, what you do or how you apear. Its the confidence you get by wining chalenges and achieeving things in your life. Its the confidence of knowing that life has thrown dificulties at you in the past and you managed to win over them. Its also about liking and love yourself. You should see yourself in third person and think how you could be better, but also how you could be worst. Improving is always a journey, and you should look at how…	/r/seduction	08/09/21 04:21 PM
27	What kind of (non sexual) skills impress women? Not in any specific order. 1 playing an instrument (guitar guy). 2 singing. 3 cooking. 4 surfing. 5 massage. 6 making drinks. 7 understanding wine. 8 dancing. Guys who know how to dance can get women extremely easy in many social encounters. Ive seen funny guys who knew how to dance get amazing women with barely any words. Playing instruments allow women to respect you even without saying anything and you can garner atention in social events. Singing is harder to pull but also very atractive. Su…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 05:59 PM
4	[deleted by user] Yeap. Having a place always prepared to receive women in a pleasant way helps a lot. That is why you should always have it tight and clean. Knowing about drinks and having it at home also helps. Also there is no harm in inviting women over even if you dont expect to have sex that day, and its demeaning to do so because you hold no expectations.	/r/seduction	05/09/21 05:36 PM
12	[deleted by user] Dont try too hard, that is the problem. If you want someone you get performance anxiety and end up acting unnaturaly, which makes your behavior weird or make the girl unconfortable, which is a major turnof for women. I guess that when you talk to an atractive girl your mind go into anxiety mode and kind of ruins everything. Instead you should just chat, give her your full attention, be funny and interesting, show interest in her, give the ocasional real compliment, and escalate touch. Say she te…	/r/seduction	05/09/21 05:29 PM
3	Good tips needed Looks like you are risking your mariage for a few pics of a generic woman. Think if the rewards are worth the risks of losing your wife. I think its easier to explain porn than it is explaining this situation.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 03:50 PM
3	Is this a rejection or valid excuse? There is no way to know man. Absolutely none. And the worst thing you can do is worry too much about it, get anxious and fuck things up. Believe she is saying the truth and believe that you did your best. Give her some time. If you want to you can ask her again after some days. If she still give you an excuse, deal with it. If you still like this girl and would like to have a relationship with her then ask a third time in a few days or weeks. If she still declines then get over it, dont get emot…	/r/seduction	30/08/21 10:33 PM
2	Should I? Its important to have a good emotional suport group. Current society puts way too low value in friendships and comunity suport, when in the past it was something extremely valuable. I used to think I only needed a woman and that was it. Nowadays I think that makes you too dependable and weak emotionaly. We need stable, deep and healthy relationships where you can bond emotionaly, give and get suport. It seems you see this person as someone who.can solve your issues.and give you suport. You need …	/r/seduction	30/08/21 01:05 PM
5	What to do when you’re in the receiving end of simmering (pre ghosted) Mature people open up and can deal with the consequences. This is mostly a loser mental atitude of not even trying or just avoiding getting hurt so you just ditch things before you get hurt. I know that because ive been like that most of my life and just recently started realizing it. If op wants this guy she should invest in him and do her part. If it fails she shouldnt feel guilty or bad, but proud because she knew what she wanted and worked for it, and it didnt worked it wasnt due to her faul…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 05:29 PM
1	Cannot accept that I ruined it all with this girl I'm in love with Youre welcome, thanks. The major source of happiness and pain in our life doesnt come from outside events such as war, diseas or famine, but from people. And so we have to learn how to become better persons and also learn how to deal.with the worst and best of mankind because we cant control which we have to deal with. And as much as the world has changed in 2300 years, humans havent changed a lot, so the teachings from these man, who lived in even worst times, can be very helpfull. The best thi…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 04:56 PM
2	Cannot accept that I ruined it all with this girl I'm in love with Ive had a similar situation recently. It taught me that we are weak and emotional beings which have to learn how to deal with our hidden issues that we barely notice yet appear in times of crisis and fuck us in the ass. It also taught me that we have to learn how to deal with humans and interact both with the good and bad of mankind so that when we face an interaction where we cant escape we already know how to deal with it and dont act as a fool or as an imature man. In short, we have to always…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 03:21 PM
69	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet Its complex. The main idea is that instead of wasting time going after individual women (such as a friend, coworker or someone you "want") and getting barely any results you should instead use all that energy in improving yourself and becoming the best you can be so that other woman start to see you as desirable and actually come to you. A lot of people have this idea that they like someone and they spend months or years daydreaming about it and getting zero results. But real relationships shoul…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 12:12 AM
3	How to make my boyfriend hot and bothered Wear a skirt at home without panties and do naughty positions to entice him, but let him come to you and fuck you whenever he wants to. Tell him you bough a new thing he might like. Take him to the bedroom,.open your legs, spread something tasty over your pussy and asks him if he wants to taste it.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 09:37 PM
1	The cautious pof woman I usually transition to another app after 3 to 4 days and to a real date in about 7 to 14 days. If you cant talk to a person over an app why would it be easier in real life? Also I dont have a lot of free time so id rather talk over text and decide which women are interesting instead of seting dates with women that dont have the qualities I want and waste the few oportunities I have of going out. I can text when I am at work or during the week. Btw Im looking for a relationship so im looking for…	/r/seduction	26/08/21 05:20 PM
2	The cautious pof woman If i.am proud of myself, why not? She probabily perceived that you are afraid of being honest, which is a major red flag for a woman. That is probabily because you feel.ashamed of something The deal with these apps is that she should feel you are rating her as much as she is rating you. Because that would mean you have options instead of being desperate to go out with whatever woman is willing to go out with you. Most women want to judge you before deciding they want to show you their life. Ther…	/r/seduction	26/08/21 04:05 PM
0	10 year age gap. Free to proceed? I did try to be funny, so its not entirely your fault.	/r/seduction	26/08/21 02:15 PM
5	10 year age gap. Free to proceed? Im just saying that age shouldnt be a marker for maturity. Btw Im not proud of it, it is something I had and still have to work upon.	/r/seduction	26/08/21 11:29 AM
195	10 year age gap. Free to proceed? I had a 7 year relationship with a woman 7 years younger than me. Ironicaly enough it ended because I was more imature than her.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 11:01 PM
20	How do I approach an older women at work? Well, its all in your head. Im 37 and I still date. Probabily I wont go to a party but everything else is almost the same. The sex threshold is far lower thou.	/r/seduction	24/08/21 01:08 AM
24	How do I approach an older women at work? Ask her for coffee. Outside of the company. Move from there. Why should it be diferent from a 20 something woman?	/r/seduction	24/08/21 01:01 AM
4	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Thank you friend. I know that in this current day and age you have to be extra careful about alegations of rape, but I think as long as the two people are willing and no one is drunk or intoxicated then its ok to explore sex, as long as both people are respectfull.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 11:01 PM
4	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Why? Sex is more than vaginal insertion. It involves the whole body.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 06:29 PM
2	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Dude, then why are you here? I am actually here trying to help people and you are here just offending people. You also seem to have an unhealthy idea about sex and women. Women want and like sex just as much as men, and you can do all sorts of fun, erotic and original things in sex. You can do more than just missionary sex. Shit, I havent even talked about BDSM, multiple partners, use of toys or whatever, but I have no experience with that nor I am interested in it. What kind of world we have wh…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 06:27 PM
2	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Pro tip. If a women is already letting you touch her in the back then she is already confortable enough to let you touch her. You dont need to kiss just the lips, you can kiss her neck, her ears, her back, her hands. Sit right besides her, start the massage, start kissing her neck, talk in her ear, caress her face, gently point her face in your direction, tell her how beautiful she is, kiss her, keep escalation. Enough. By now I should be charging you. Enjoy the free tips. Btw light touching is …	/r/seduction	22/08/21 06:01 PM
4	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Well, i guess youve already kissed by then. I dont see many situations where you are alone at your house and you havent even kissed. Maybe teenagers do it but then I guess you would have to do all those inocent things as touch hands and whatever, but I think even teens nowadays see handjobs as a diferent way of greeting. Well, you can always do the standard low lights, soft music and wine, looks like you guys are not ready for pro moves such as massages, asshole licking and other power moves.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:50 PM
1	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Lol talk about yourself. Sorry you never had it. I am a 37 year old guy, maybe it doesnt happen with teens but it can happen with adults. Looks like your idea of sex is asking for consented sex in the presence of a lawyer and only do missionary because the other positions are demeaning for women. That is how an incel would think. I recomend you read a book called Kama Sutra, it even has tips on five diferent ways to pinch a niple. Maybe I should teach you how to lick an asshole and how to fuck a…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:37 PM
3	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? You are an idiot if you think I will just ask to give a massage to a woman ive met in the last five minutes in a restaurant. The topic creator asked for tips on how to escalate intimacy with a woman he asked to see a movie together in HIS HOUSE. That means all the initial social interactions has already moved all the way from the initial social encounters to a situation where both have some mutual atraction and respect but barely any physical intimacy. Stop being a dick and actuallt focus on the…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:33 PM
-1	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Im sorry it never hapened with you. I hope someday you give a woman a massage, let her lie down on her belly, kiss and caress her, slowly take her panties down while she lies defenseless to your touch, caress her back all the way from her neck to her pussy while you see how wet she is, and then you go to her ear and tell her how wet she is and how much you want to get inside her while she speaks a very low "yes" while you bit her ear and slowly insert yourself inside her and apreciate her low mo…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:26 PM
4	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? It is just one of the ways to do it. And im not talking about doing it in the middle of a restaurant, Im talking about doing it when you are both somewhere together alone.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:21 PM
1	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Im legit telling you you can do this on the first date with an adult woman and this works. You just need to use the oportunities that the natural conversation presents. It may just be a kiss on the cheek if you are on a movie theater, a touch in the hips if she is passing by or a massage if she is talking about her work and telling you its stressfull. Im not talking about coming out of the blue about the idea of just giving a woman a massage in a restaurant, im just saying that after a woman in …	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:11 PM
7	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Escalation You just got the perfect location for intimacy. Usually if both are interested its the woman who chooses how far you will go. If youve never kissed you may initiate intimacy though touching. It may be her hands, her hips, her shouldes. Giving a shoulder massage is a good way to initiate contact. You massage her shoulders and neck. After a while you may ask her to take out her blouse and touch her bare skin. If its all going right you may ask her to lie down so you can do it properly. …	/r/seduction	22/08/21 03:53 PM
1	Guys please help i have zero game If you dont have any skills in small talk and other social habilities, how do you think you will go from asking her out to straight sex?	/r/seduction	15/08/21 11:52 PM
9	proper way to ask her out? Start with small talk and engage in pleasant conversation. You dont really need a reason, but if you have a hook to start with (such as something she posted on instagram) use it. Talk for a bit, just to create some kind of interest and intimacy, but not too much. When youve realized she may be interested and is enjoying the exchange, ask her if she would like to meet with her sometime. If she say yes then you make plans. This whole thing is both to create interest and also judge her interest. If…	/r/seduction	15/08/21 09:07 PM
36	PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you Jeez, give this guy an award	/r/seduction	15/08/21 05:34 PM
1	Have you had a serious relationship start from clubbing? Gaslighted? Maybe a bit. It was a bit toxic, yes, but it wasnt bad all the time. She wasnt a cunt. She had issues, just as me. We had a hard time dealing with our conflicts. But I dont like the blame game, im only responsible for myself and for my mistakes. If I was more mature things wouldve had been diferent.	/r/seduction	15/08/21 01:38 PM
3	Have you had a serious relationship start from clubbing? Thanks for asking. Hope this helps someone. Love of my life, hot as hell, could easily become my wife if I wasnt a cunt. I went for a coffee with a hot women when we had barely started dating. Nothing happened and I had no intention of cheating her but I liked getting the atention of an absolutely gorgeous woman. I hided it and never said anything, she found out by accident and think I betrayed her somewhat. I, out of fear that by apologizing I would confess I was wrong never did it, and she res…	/r/seduction	15/08/21 12:52 PM
30	Have you had a serious relationship start from clubbing? It works. Met one of my ex at a uni party. Lasted 7 years. Ended because I was a cunt. Could easily had been the love of my life and mother of my kids. Regular people also go to clubs.	/r/seduction	14/08/21 11:16 PM
-4	I finally became a man and blocked my ex 😌😆 You are wrong. Being strong is recognizing your part on why it didnt work. The other person may be a cheating lying son of a bitch and 95% responsible why it ended, but you still was 5% responsible. In recognizing that you can work on your flaws, learn and move on. Even if the other person injuried you, try to forgive them and learn by trying to avoid someone similar in the future. Revenge, denying or blocking someone is done by the weak. The strong endure it, become stronger and keep on living …	/r/seduction	14/08/21 06:43 PM
2	Asked a girl I’m attracted to out for ice cream and she suggested her friends come with? Go, have fun, show your best, act like a decent human being, discover more about her. She may just want someone else to hang with you guys. No big deal. If by the end you think she didnt get the hint that you are interested in her, ask her out again.	/r/seduction	14/08/21 01:11 PM
11	Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach. I think this is too individual. I guess some guys need it once every day while others may need it every two weeks.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 06:53 PM
2	Not sure what I did wrong Well, hot women have it easy. They may have a great time with you but believe you are not good enough for a relationship, so they just ghost. No hard feelings.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:09 PM