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Speaking of language change, the word manspreading can be used by those who believe that is a tolerable and normal result of male physiology or the outcome of the patriarchy instituting seat space privelege for shitlords. Obviously the n-word isn't a nice relic of american race relations, but it would be quite Orwellian to ignore it. Besides, if the OED brands itself as descriptivist, and you as a pedant have a problem with that, then go pick up another dictionary.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 12:47 PM
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I got onto the list because I linked to an onion news link to make fun of some body image thing.
/r/MensRights31/07/15 03:37 AM
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List is in alphabetical order only see coontown and Kia wipe sweat of brow reads comment of not especially well known r/mensrights poster ctrl+f oneDRTYrusn ctrl+f totalyawsm HOLY CRIPES!
/r/MensRights30/07/15 03:03 PM
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Oh yeah X-post with r/badlinguistics https://np.reddit.com/r/badlinguistics/comments/3ev5oj/vocal_fry_is_patriarchy/ No brigading of course, but more discussion is there so it's a nice read.
/r/MensRights28/07/15 08:44 PM
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Gay men have very high rates of DV, and one thing that prevents them gay victims from reporting it is the fear of making their community look bad, and also the fear that they'll be dismissed simply for being men.
/r/MensRights25/07/15 07:36 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Mw1ARQc7vw Obligatory link :)
/r/MensRights25/07/15 07:31 AM
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I think what we need to understand here is that the only place politics has in the MRM is a) To argue on how to help men (Entitlement spending v. Frick Government) and what government approach we should take b) To talk about specifically how BOTH the left and right betray men AND help them
/r/MensRights10/07/15 12:26 AM
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Instead, Hume advocated simply keeping male and female students away from each other, because “boys will be boys, guys are pretty lusty, and you needed to be careful when you got them around young women”. I'm not going to piggyback off what could be quote-mining, but hey Kelly was the same woman who said that Santa Claus is definitely white. The reason why I as an MRA I'm put off by Mainstream, in this case, right-wing, is the automatic assumption that the situation here is that the rights of in…
/r/MensRights10/07/15 12:22 AM
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I've noticed that too. While of course there is a majority of men in the MRM, I've noticed women being far more supportive of the plight of men. It was only some time ago there was the case of Chase Hironimus, we were pretty angry at the father for his decision.
/r/MensRights07/07/15 02:40 AM
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Wierd thing is I was already a libertarian before I got into the movement, but now I'm less of a die-hard because I personally feel that the liberal approach (big government, large number of domestic violence shelters etc.) can help men. I might be wrong, but argue me if you wish.
/r/MensRights02/07/15 01:33 PM
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My standards for who i will date (on personal and education background level) have gone way up I now flat out have researching binges just to prove someone else is wrong in an argument. Now, I often don't come back with replies later on, but I often find myself deeper into issues that I wish to know about. I apply my MRA doubts to any kind of victim narrative, outside of gender. Especially media narratives. It also gave me the ability to discern which is the suspicious master narrative, and whic…
/r/MensRights02/07/15 01:30 PM
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I am careful to not make digs against other identity groups. For example. I stopped making fun of southerners. The MRM has definitely gave me insight into identity politics, and now I see it for what it is, politics. It's quite sad how much all those things can matter, and they shouldn't.
/r/MensRights02/07/15 01:27 PM
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I've noticed that whenever me and my buds discuss a tragedy, I no longer have that same visceral difference to a male or female death. Perhaps it is genetic, but I'm sure culture also drills that in too. Also, I call out people who say that women can't rape men (this happens a lot more than you think, it's not an everyday thing, but it happens every time a case like that goes on the news. Basically I deal with top commenters everyday :p)
/r/MensRights02/07/15 01:25 PM
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Here's a AVFM links. Bump for interest ;) http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/a-new-age-for-gays-or-a-trip-to-the-gallows/
/r/MensRights30/06/15 04:37 PM
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Your title only goes at a part of the issue. Just look at all the "services". Anger Management Support Group Men who have difficulty controlling their anger and whose rage has resulted in family problems, job difficulties, violence and legal problems can benefit from this group. Domestic Violence Support Group Designed to help men who struggle with abusive, controlling, and angry behavior toward their domestic partners. Intimate Connections: A Program for Partners of Sex Addicts Support and coun…
/r/MensRights25/06/15 07:41 PM
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How come boys are seen as anti-social brutes? I'm an egalitarian but I don't think there's anything wrong with typical masculinity (in that phrase I'm not referring to traditional masculine expectations of course :) )
/r/MensRights25/06/15 05:36 PM
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I'm sure your comment (and mine) will get down voted to oblivion, but posts like these make MRAs look like the whiny, bitchy third wave feminists they love to debunk and hate. Your comment was factually incorrect (2 upvotes as of 1:23 PM 6/25/15), but I appreciate your effort on breaking the circle jerk.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 05:23 PM
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Ignoring the gendered aspect of the scenario, I would want to slap the shit out of any stereotypical rape-culture scapegoat icky misogynist who makes those kinds of jokes. However, I don't think a similar thing would be condoned with a female joking about male rape. However as an MRA, I find it to be an everyday action opportunity to chastise others for demeaning male victims of female rapists or female victims of female rapists (And yes this is shit I hear everyday). And yes I do want to punch …
/r/MensRights25/06/15 05:15 PM
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I'm egalitarian, but I'm quite convinced that gender identity is more fluid than racial identity. Trans activists recognize that overall that people born with penises tend to behave towards the masculine side, and people born with vaginas tend to be more feminine. However, there is variance, both physically (intersex persons) and mentally (trans or queer). But I'm pretty sure people will throw shit if you suggest there is such a thing as feeling "black" or "white" personality-wise. Of course I'm…
/r/MensRights22/06/15 09:16 PM
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What in particular makes it futile that distinguishes the goals of MRA's from the groups chocoboat mentioned before?
/r/MensRights21/06/15 04:21 AM
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This is fantastic and fits like a puzzle piece with what we need to do as MRA;s. This should be our working code. I'm glad this is stickied.
/r/MensRights20/06/15 02:43 PM
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I remember some user saying that Feminism is a new riff on an old song. Who was it?
/r/MensRights20/06/15 02:22 PM
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Voat and Twister seem like nice MR companions. Anything else?
/r/MensRights20/06/15 02:21 PM
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It's old news now, but I remembered the firestorm that went on with Mercier. BTW, has she apologized for her actions? I'm kind of a slowpoke I know.
/r/MensRights20/06/15 02:05 PM
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Female privilege is intentionally murdering one's kids and still be called a loving mother "Male privilege" is being separated from kids you love and being forced to pay child support twice your take home and then being called a "deadbeat".
/r/MensRights18/06/15 03:37 PM
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I don't see it as zero-sum exactly. Though I have a hard time a gay MRA fighting for LGBT rights not because the two are the antithesis of each other, but because the idea that a gay man can get discrimination because they're male (this goes along with the whole "honorary women" thing) might cause a rift among their fellow LGBT activists.
/r/MensRights18/06/15 03:35 PM
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I learned how to cook at the age of 10 0_0
/r/MensRights18/06/15 03:23 PM
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Postmodernism Really, I thought the program was about railing against traditionalism and all reincarnations of it, like some feminists. Sorry I'm just wondering because when I hear that word I think of the cultural and art definition. Can you explain? The wiki article is just too damn vague https://en.wikipedia.org/?title=Postmodernism
/r/MensRights18/06/15 02:15 AM
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Well, the reason is quite simple /u/greengardens. Complaints about femenist ideas are not nearly as common as the lamentations on Gynocentric social and legal institutions. I in general appreciate Sweden's liberal atitudes, specifically towards gender. I think our main opponents are conservative traditionalists and radfems (well many feminists) who wish to discriminate against men in social programs because "grow ball" or "bercuz patriarchy" respectively.
/r/MensRights18/06/15 02:12 AM
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They only take in black immigrants. Literally? Are you making a joke about immigration patterns or are you talking about real legislation?
/r/MensRights18/06/15 02:08 AM
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This is ridiculous. It's called equal opportunity for a reason. This isn't a different argument for barring blacks or women from college. Like /u/SporkTornado said, this is as awful as affirmative action. Edit: Apparently this is satire, if it is, then it's pretty good |3, but hey Poe's law so I'm a bit confuzzles.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 09:02 PM
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Bububut of COURSE feminists care about tha menz, but male issues shouldn't hijack ours.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 08:58 PM
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You must have a micro penis or gay. I've been through it a few times as well. Something we all know so well that it doesn't even need /s
/r/MensRights14/06/15 11:04 PM
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A person without gender dysphoria shouldn't have to deal with this.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 08:55 PM
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This isn't a critique of male feminists, but I think you must make him see the hippocracy in his views. As always never consider yourself as an MRA evangelist, but don't stand complete BS. He would not listen to me when I tried to explain that the 77 cents to a man's dollar is not true He hasn't even attempted to bring about contradictory stats which are around. I've heard Feminists claim that when adjusted, it's still 10 cents off (I've seen 1.08$ ,97$) he told me that women are just stronger t…
/r/MensRights11/06/15 08:40 PM
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Milo is still a mutilating a-hole and nothing is going to change that for me. Men's rights is not poking at Feminism here and still having misandrist views.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 08:31 PM
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I do think that the ray rice thing gotta bit more attention, but hope solo was mentioned constantly. And then there was the Briner case.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:34 PM
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One thing I know for sure: I hate her. I hate her for what she did to me. I hate her for the long-term effect of it. I hate her for making me doubt myself. I hate her and I wish society punished women for rape the same way it punishes men... But it doesn't. It won't. It never will. But ya I think there should be men's groups and what not but I don't understand why they have to be so bitter?! /s Anyway I wish you personal healing. You don't have to forgive her and you should always keep that ange…
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:22 PM
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Our male privilege in a paragraph! /s edit:Patriarchal recounting
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:15 PM
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I never had this perception, and I'm not going to critiscize you for your past ignorance, but I remembered when a teacher in grade school explicitly told me that rape "was a terrible thing that men do to women" (We were in an advanced reading class and it was non-graphically mentioned briefly in a war crime article, and I already knew that it involved some sort of non-consensual sexual activity, but I was curious and wanted to ask the teacher. Of course she was quite sheepish about the subject. …
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:09 PM
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I've heard of victims trying to laugh off their experience in order not to be laughed at by their friends. The sickest form of oppression is under the rug, not necessarily what being talked about on mainstream media.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:04 PM
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While I'm very well aware that you all don't need any convincing of this fact, if you must provide scientific evidence for the idea that men can get raped (this really isn't a factual misunderstanding we're dealing with, just rationalized bullcrap misandry) it's important to note that a beating heart male cadaver can easily sustain an erection with stimulation, as it is known to be in the category of spinal reflexes (not that anybody got the ethical permission to do this, is just an obvious resu…
/r/MensRights07/06/15 08:02 PM
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I amn't a lawyer, but I just wish to say that some police are progressive, but I respect your decision knowing well that the female perp can easily turn your accusation against yourself. But as always I wish you healing for yourself even if justice won't be served. EDIT: Misplaced emphasis, I meant only some police, not all
/r/MensRights07/06/15 07:59 PM
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Men's rights activists, the cold psychopaths that hide behind their computer screens anonymously daring to state that they think men should get equal treatment for Domestic violence and that we should get female perps out of "victim mode." Those sick and inhumane bastards, wanting equality. /s
/r/MensRights02/06/15 08:41 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_common_misconceptions It's important to understand how these arise, it's not necessarily harmful that these specific facts arise, but how they are created is something we need to understand to be an educated socierty.
/r/MensRights02/06/15 12:24 AM
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Examples of factoids are *Vitamin A helps eye vision (It prevents blindness) *That the way water spins in a toilet depends on whether you are North or south of the equator (This stems from a lack of understanding of how the coriolis effect works) * Darn just check the list http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_common_misconceptions
/r/MensRights02/06/15 12:22 AM
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Quite a few of us had experiences trying to do stuff similar. Well I'm a middle school student :. But anyway I just want to emphasize that your constitution is extremely important. You have to find the balance between rights and freedoms that prevent ideology and circlejerks, but just enough requirements to keep people on the same page. Here would be my guiding principles (based on the one I wrote a year ago, the club broke up because it had only three busy members) *Put an emphasis on the fact …
/r/MensRights01/06/15 10:27 PM
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Ha, thnx man I didn't notice that.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:56 PM
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Since when was the last time a man was raped through deception? Give me a case and that will intrigue me. Anybody?
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:54 PM
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Fellow shitlords, we must fight to get Federal funding for ballz-growing research and how to solve the whatever-you-do-you're-an-evil-wife-beater paradox. /s
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:47 PM
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It's legally okay, but with genders reversed the reaction would be different. Definitely not a justice issue, but surely a cultural one.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 07:36 PM
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This isn't a non-serious Askreddit thread. Hey I'm all for free speech and this sub isn't exactly an Orwellian safe space, but it's an unwritten rule just basic decency not to make insensitive comments.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 07:31 PM
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I'm a middle schooler and I just want to say you're acting like 8-year old SJW. Though as an apology for my age group, I must admit that most 14-year olds are well composed when it comes to social issues.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 07:27 PM
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No but seriously, most Feminists I've read about are agaisnt male circumcision (though they might not see it as serious as FGM). Not surprisingly, all my Jewish Feminist friends seem to have no problem with it.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 07:26 PM
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Preach
/r/MensRights24/05/15 07:23 PM
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American reporting, just want to say that there are more MRA's than you think out there (though I'm always pleasantly surprised to meet one IRL, I've only met 2 :)
/r/MensRights24/05/15 06:50 PM
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Try DAHM, they're currently severely underfunded.
/r/MensRights24/05/15 06:47 PM
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Oh thnx :) I'll tell my great great great grandkids that you and Alison's videos were what I had considered to be the must-watch videos for any MRA (I'm being optimistic about life extension technology)
/r/MensRights18/05/15 11:18 PM
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I wonder if you remember me from the thread where I was wondering why everyone was so critical of Feminism and then you brought up the duluth model and I hope you can write something good again. Anyway, in school, 8th grade, we were learning about how racism was alive in the North, among abolitionists, and pretty much everyone that I used to assume were white saviors. Besides feminists, nearly all whites were afraid of Black men going to rape their white daughters (This trope still continues tod…
/r/MensRights17/05/15 11:03 PM
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I still think it's stupid. We shouldn't judge disabled people's capabilities beyond obvious implications.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 10:35 PM
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or a demon-spawn tear producing deadbeat? (You know like all black men) /s While the fact that the judge made this ruling based on his disability is in itself sickening, it's hard to say that the fact that he's a black man didn't come into play.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 10:33 PM
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Deaf linguistics teacher Aren't sign languages studied in modern linguistics?
/r/MensRights17/05/15 10:32 PM
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All woman is innocent. Bad woman is ugly and are indeed stupid menz trying to make us look bawd.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 05:38 PM
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As amazing as this is I would like to point out a #breakthesilence was already used for some ob/gyn issue (just google it). Should we point this out or will it just be trivial?
/r/MensRights09/05/15 04:56 PM
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I don't like the title either, but you should read it. Sure, not every article written about a serious article has to read like a Toy Soldier Blog post but I would say that the article does seems to focus more on disproving hetero narratives on IPV rather than highlighting and understanding the plight of IPV that does affect lesbian and gay couples, and those in the trans community.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 03:13 AM
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While the article does go against popular beliefs, simply being anti-SJW doesn't give Milo a license to speak carelessly about lesbian IPV. I understand if his main objective is to prove that lesbian IPV is the most prevalent proportionately, and that takes quite a bit of courage (and decent statistical understanding), but I can't help but get the understanding that his word use "Killer Dyke" and "Tranny" shows that he actually cares about lesbian victims of IPV. But I suppose the care and atten…
/r/MensRights09/05/15 03:05 AM
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Good joke man. But seriously, this is political correctness eating itself up. I think a lot of people see Lesbians and gays as helpless victims, and that they can't possibly commit a crime at a rate more than the average population white cishetero man. Though I must say quite a few tradcons have thrown their shit around with this "proof" of how lesbian relationships don't work. In the case of Britney Griner, this mixed with racism to form the abhorrent cesspit of opinion on the internet, that is…
/r/MensRights09/05/15 03:00 AM
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little representation or poor representation in media I guess this is real, there are specific tropes that affect women. Though of course MRA's do feel like Anita Sarkeesian's analysis of these tropes does ignore male disposability. having my voice be unrecognized because of my gender In terms of social justice or in terms of ideas in general? If it's the former then you're ridiculous. The latter, yeah women may encounter a paternalistic dick here and there. being harassed in my workplace/the st…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 09:42 PM
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The best comment on this link (Not the one linked above) http://www.worldwideweirdnews.com/2015/04/27-n36474.html the comments here are fucking despicable -Guest Well clearly the man raped 3 women, there's an epidemic of multiple victim rape perpetrated by uber-men that can't possibly be the victim of any crime and must enjoy any sort of sexual encounter. If we can reach out to this guy, that would be fantastic. Look, major social and legal change are going to take some time, but having outreach…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 01:56 AM
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While the questions you asked could take me paragraphs to answer in full, in light of how the MRM is contrasted against Feminism, my responses would actually be quite short, not that I don't have much to say, but it would be more than fully corroborated by other comments in different wordings. Like the title states, I am a self described feminist. While I do take a focus on women's rights, ultimately my understanding of feminism is "political, social, and economic equality between the sexes." We…
/r/MensRights05/05/15 10:01 PM
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Bec Rawlings I believe is one example.
/r/MensRights02/05/15 11:17 PM
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I've never faced misandry in any significant way growing up, but I'm quite sickened by how the media treats adolescent victims of statutory rape by teachers, the school-to-prison pipeline that I've seen so many boys go into, and the world in general. Now, most people in the 8th grade (I'd say half) know very well that I'm an MRA. I mentioned it in projects where we have to pick a social issue, and most of the time I don't even explicitly state it, but it's well understood. I've put up posters be…
/r/MensRights02/05/15 10:56 PM
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I'm afraid I cant think of a single celebrity who is unambiguously an MRA, though I have seen plenty who criticized Feminism and seem to be in support of men's issues, but not a single one called themselves an MRA.
/r/MensRights02/05/15 10:49 PM
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Yea which part? I would love to know some stats on false accusation whatever they are.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 09:48 PM
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That is frightening.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 09:47 PM
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I think it just represents human nature to polarize, it's quite sad but sticking to our principles are more imporrant than popularity. I suppose we should discuss the Red Pill more here, so while we don't seem out of touch, we should note that TRP doesn't deal with rights and such.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 09:13 PM
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I'm all up for strong discipline, but you're right on what would happen with reversed genders :p
/r/MensRights30/04/15 01:42 AM
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dv is dv it does not matter if you have a d or a v. Preach
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:49 AM
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It's like a spectrum. I feel like being an MRA and a Feminist are nearly mutually exclusive (Unless your a name-only for one, like Sommers), but anyone can be a Feminist/MRA and an egalitarian. To be exclusively egalitarian would be to believe that the women and men suffer equally in this world, though many MRA's and Femenists do profess the existence of a two-way street, though many of these (Mostly the latter, this is why I'm an MRA) see the opression of one group as a measly side affect of th…
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:49 AM
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cheating whore x-wife So why Men's rights? Were you in a court battle?
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:44 AM
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That's the gist of what I'm trying to post. I guess you three have minds secretly linked to each other.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:43 AM
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I do consider myself to be an egalitarian foremost, meaning that I am OKAY with a Feminist as long as they proclaim to be egalitarian and that men do face issues in their own right. Again, I'm sort of polarized towards men's rights because Feminism doesn't accept and actively decries the idea of systemic oppression of men. I think MRA's do definitely have bias, but I don't feel like I have to buy into that to be in the group.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:42 AM
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At first I was a bit offended by the writing style, but then I remembered the kind of website Tomonews is, it's pretty akin to upworthy and Buzzfeed. But oh well. Who has estimates for when people will start to care for men's issues? I'd say by the time I have grandkids.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 01:39 AM
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I mean I didn't chose to be gay I just am. Not relevant to Men's rights, but there was an episode of American Dad where Stan (A staunch anti-gay Republican) chose to be gay to see what it would be like. But anyway my point is that it's quite redicoulous for anybody to choose their sexual orientation for some political motive.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:59 PM
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To the underbelly of the Men's rights movment, you might have thought that what they said about us was a myth, but indeed we are baby eaters and prolific rapists! We don't care about men's rights at all, we just like to throw half-assed insults at other people while complaining about the lack of rational reason on the part. You have entered a cesspool of misogynists and completely maladapted people who are completely related to Elliot Rodger ad askdflj;lwekj oiw~~ Welcome to the Men's rights sub…
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:52 PM
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http://www.avoiceformen.com/?s=welcome+to+avfm Specific to AVFM but speaks a lot to the external views of the MRM.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:40 PM
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Greeting sir, and welcome! As an anarchist communist, I assure you there is no relevant conflict between mens rights and socialism. It is mearly a question of I suppose the only political conflicts in the MRM are political conflicts in and of themselves (they're quite sad, and very looked down upon in the MRM). There is plenty of criticisms of all groups and parties on the political spectrum for how they uniquely are detrimental rights. Dean Esmay does talks about the allegations of the MRM bein…
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:39 PM
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I think it's a poor idea to become part of a group because of hating feminism. Dean Esmay had stated this in writing his essay "Is libertarianism the undercurrent of the MRM?". In this essay, he looked at the various negative political influences on the MRM from both ends of the left-right scale. He vigorously states that simply being an anti-feminist is definitely not a ticket to being an MRA. If one is being anti-feminist simply as a by-product of being a white nationalist, a conservative trad…
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:16 PM
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Gay men face some of the worst of the discrimination against men out there While feminist claims about us being homophobic are unfounded for the most parted, I think what's triggering them (pun intended) is that we do stress that gays face more problems than lesbians because they're male, or at least we focus on gays, black men, not because they're POC and non-straight, but because they are men.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:07 PM
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It's actually hilarious to think how many openly gay MRA's have been called homophobic by feminists Feminism's paternalism Women: Women should be independent intellectually, but FeMRA's are brainwashed women who don't know what's good for them. Black men: Oppression hurts everybody, but only if your colored or female. Being a male doesn't makes anything worse.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 10:04 PM
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I was asking because I occasionally (this is not as common as an critiscism insult as say neckbeard or rapist) hear accusations of MRA's being in support of lowering the age of consent, which is odd considering our support for victims of statutory rape. But anyway, it's quite true that mass hysteria in reaction to a legit problem can be a problem in and of itself. *9/11 *The Red scare *The lavender scare *Satanic child abuse in the U.S. *Witch hunting (Salem, Papua new guinea, Europe) *False rap…
/r/MensRights26/04/15 09:59 PM
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Sad to hear that. In the U.S., a recent change in the FBI definition of rape does mean a woman can rape a man through penetration, be it digital or oral, however it doesn't cover envelopment or being forced to penetrate, so a huge number of male victims are left out. Recently, the first woman EVER convicted of rape in South Korea went to jail. There is some progress in the most developed of nations, but in most of the world male rape victims are absolutely screwed.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 08:15 PM
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In Maryland, we can pull laws out of ours assholes, and make non sequitor comments to victims of false allegations. Unless of course, you're talking about those old crazy laws that nobody bothers to erase, then I suppose that is an interesting fact. But still, not cool.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 07:03 PM
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BTW what does your partner has against MRA's? Does he feel like MRA's are not friendly to gays or does he actually professes to be a femenist (Which is unlikely considering what happend to him.)
/r/MensRights25/04/15 06:57 PM
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women who are raed can get pregnant by the rapist which is horrible A man can impregnate his female rapist. While I'm not sure how the law treats this between adults, or whether or not it even recognizes it, it's quite rage inducing but important to know that if a woman rapes a child, and becomes pregnant, she is indeed able to sue that boy once he turns 18 for child support. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 06:54 PM
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I believe this was stated in a AVFM article linked from this reddit, MRA's had NEVER made any anti-female legislation, but don't get me started with Feminism. Also, I have to disagree with people who believe that first wave feminism was somehow better just because it did indeed bring fundamental rights for women. Just search up white feathering.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 06:48 PM
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feminist policies and right wing UK publications selling pedohysteria American reporting. I always knew that our opponents connect us to pedophillia, mostly right wingers (The MRM gets turd flung at it from nearly all directions of the political spectrum). Do you have any example that I can save to my "MRA's are indeed sick fucks look at these trustworthy articles" folder. I'm filling it up with examples of how desperate people are when it comes to criticizing us.
/r/MensRights25/04/15 06:44 PM
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I was literally a communist I jumped around the political spectrum a lot. Kindergarten: Die-hard Christian conservative 1rst, Second and third grade: Pacifist communist (Pro-life, against death penalty, for gun control) 4rth grade: Socialist (Learned about Cuba, China, and yea) 6th grade: Paleo conservative 7th grade: Objectivist 8th grade: Libertarian. Yesterday: Left leaning Libertarian 2:13 PM Crypto anarchist leaning trans-humanist Time of post: Is being an MRA a political affiliation? Humor…
/r/MensRights25/04/15 06:39 PM
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Here is an example of how compassionate we are to all female victims. Let's take a look at some of the comments to the article, Unnatural relationship=unnatural behavior. Why do most black lesbians act so manly? I did not know that was a women in the photo. the freak is nasty lookin. no wonder she's a freak. a friggin n***er wouldn't even tap that. Now these comments were of course homophobic and racist. Lesbians, black & white & purple, should always be taken seriously as victims of domestic vi…
/r/MensRights23/04/15 09:01 PM
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Now, of course, one has to admit that there would be a massive shitstorm If I walked into my middle school wearing a shirt that says MRA Men's rights Activist. Just want to start a thread on free speech in school.
/r/MensRights20/04/15 08:57 PM
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So, do people pay more attention to breast cancer? It'd be nice to find some stats on that.
/r/MensRights19/04/15 10:40 PM
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Kudos to this mother for defying court orders to do what's right for her child. I hope Dennis Nubus will eventually learn about horrible detriments of male genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights10/04/15 01:23 PM
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Just read the article man. Or just press ctrl+f if you're too lazy to read the link. Though of course police brutality isn't out of the question here.
/r/MensRights10/04/15 01:19 PM
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Brought to you by Patriarchy since... since... gee how did it started? I think a couple thousand years ago some butthurts came together and yeah... It's an amazing success story though!
/r/MensRights06/04/15 07:49 PM
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Fantastical and vague metaphor you have there.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 07:24 PM
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Okay this is a pretty meta-quote Rather than seeing this as an attack or using it as a rebuttal we should work together to discuss the problem of sexual assault and WHY sexual assault happens. Why does someone, male or female feel the need to sexually assault someone. Emma Watson spoke on international womens day about how gender equality affects men too. She stated that gender equality affects men by creating this idea of masculinity that causes misconceptions about what it is or isn’t to be a …
/r/MensRights06/04/15 07:21 PM
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That's not an argument, that's just flinged shit typical of a tradcon.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 07:14 PM
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My Spanish isn't fantastic, but to say that treating both male and female victims of DV equally is barbarous only describes the people making those tweets.
/r/MensRights03/04/15 12:36 AM
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The argument is in the quote. Poor women losing their male utilities.
/r/MensRights29/03/15 08:28 PM
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Was it cynical? Yes, but I still care about this guy's life and beating heart.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 08:46 PM
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The Unknown Misandry blog has some good historical information on this kind of crime, that is fetal kidnapping.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 07:58 PM
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Call the police. Even if you get arrested, if you feel like your life is in mortal danger, you will be okay as long as you are away from her. Maybe not the best advice, but anyway God bless.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 07:46 PM
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I find outrageous that there are people with this kind of attitude. And I lean towards pro-life. Sure, there is definitely a track record of pro-lifers killing abortionists, but still. I think this is a men's rights issue, not so much as related to men's rights in itself, but it is a meta issue with respect to our group. I feel like the group has done it's best to condemn extremists on any side, and this should act as a reminder for us of what can happen when the ends justify the means.
/r/MensRights25/03/15 08:45 PM
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This is exactly related to the poster, but I would like to hear from OP his opinion on what domestic violence associations seems to be doing the most for men, or even better what organization have personally helped him.
/r/MensRights21/03/15 04:09 PM
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Crap I used spellcheck and pressed the wrong option. Thanks!
/r/MensRights18/03/15 10:23 PM
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You have been blocked for making a good argument.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 10:09 PM
1

Welcome to the oppression Olympics.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 01:44 AM
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I have only found 1 other MRA in my middle school. There's also one administrator who seems to be one, as he is extremely supportive of me. I can't say it is generational, but I can see what you mean. MRA's are rejected from older traditionalists, along with younger feminists.
/r/MensRights14/03/15 12:32 AM
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If it began to rain the girls would all scream to the top of their voices and rush inside to finish their sessions in the sports halls BUT every single time this happened the boys had to stay out in the rain getting soaked. Many of girls I know are actually independent people, not just cry-baby dolls. I'm not critiscizing you, I'm simply giving kudos to the females in my life that don't flaunt their pussypass. Anyway, my biggest personal experience of misandry was when a high school freshman gro…
/r/MensRights14/03/15 12:29 AM
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Trigger warning -Research -Logic (Just some patriarchal construct)
/r/MensRights14/03/15 12:15 AM
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Dude I can't remember how many time my butt has been poked, pinched, talked about etc. I can only remember a couple instances where boys mentioned doing those kinds of things. And they were rebuked and kicked in the balls. By other boys. How can a sex so dedicated to curbing other "perverts" feel any sort of "entitlement" to women?
/r/MensRights04/03/15 12:55 AM
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Also, I'm extremely bothered by this person's inability to properly center the text. Damn. Little things like that throw me off. But anyway, I fail to understand the logic of this. Why make this free for women? I would understand if this was aimed towards women, because hey when do men get raped? /s This essentially blames potential male victims for rape.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 12:47 AM
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I am actually some of Sommers' ideas. I don't support gamergate, I don't believe there is some sort of rape hysteria. However I am apalled at the harsh criticism this woman received, as if she is some sort of helpless infantile woman incapable of thinking on her own. In general I do agree with her on many issues, but I think free speech is at the heart of the issue here.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 12:43 AM
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Economic Left/Right: -2.0 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -11.69 The dot was off the bottom edge. For some time I considered myself to be very libertarian, though I used to be more of a religious right winger, and even before that I was a progressive democrat.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 12:18 AM
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Women have always been the primary victims of war, and nearly every issue. We believe men are just icky secondary victims of their frickin mess. /s BTW have you noticed how similar this is to racism? Whites believe that they are the victims, and all problems in black communities are either a result of black culture or genetics. They are only redeemed by shunning their language and culture to become white. The more "white" they are, by admixture or behavior. The worst part about this is that this…
/r/MensRights28/02/15 09:06 PM
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EDIT: Even here, people don't really give a shit. "deal with it" is the general consensus. So you know what? I'm going to leave. That's a shame. I hope those that have re victimized you will be held accountable, and will be downvoted into oblivion. While I can't give advice, nor do I have any real personal experience regarding sexual harassment, I can only state that I am as outraged as you of not just the behavior of your female coworkers, but also at the system that sees your suffering as insi…
/r/MensRights28/02/15 09:05 PM
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What makes you think feminism is the boogeymanperson here? Do they have any statements for these cuts?
/r/MensRights28/02/15 09:00 PM
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I have to agree. My only problem is that I'm suspicious of its gender neutrality. But. anyway, I'd need more info.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:50 PM
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DAHMW seems to be a great charity. I don't know what is its EIN though.
/r/MensRights19/02/15 12:58 AM
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Oh sorry. The funny thing is if Valerie Solanas picked a stronger caliber/ the wind blew stronger/ she sneezed/ whatever, she could have killed Andy Warhol. And she actually identified as a feminist. Yet, we get blamed for murder sprees committed by those who may not have even heard of MRA's (Elliot Rodger and the like). However if one lone shooter were to target men, the negative impact would be greater than the direct effect it would have on the victims. Others could emulate that, and while fu…
/r/MensRights19/02/15 12:35 AM
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Men's rights Activists are highly interested in women. In our sheforhe program, we believe that we can free women from their tiring roles as opressors. If we make women more masculine, the world will be a better place. If women weren't suck frickin misandrists, they can help solve women issues (which are simply minor ignorable extension of MISANDRY) /sarcasm Anyway, as an MRA, the response I usually give out is that I don't pretend to advance women's rights. I think the MRM has stuff to "teach" …
/r/MensRights18/02/15 03:28 AM
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Gee. It's weird to comprehend the idea that I might be looking at the genesis of Full-scale androcide (FUCKING MISANDRIST SPELLCHECK, WAIT AGAIN ARGGH!!!) now. But I need to get back to my school work :|
/r/MensRights18/02/15 03:10 AM
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It's a shame that justice isn't being done to this man. My uncle was undocumented, and while I would agree that we should treat illegal and legal immigrants differently in terms of government support, everyone has human rights and should be offered the same protection under the law. This is just sickening. If something happens to a young white girl it gets noticed. If it happens to MULTIPLE UNDOCUMENTED MEN, they don't deserver our attention. We treat them like less than 1/20ths of a human being…
/r/MensRights18/02/15 03:04 AM
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I suggest doing a massive poster campaign wit links and numbers referring to charities. http://www.dahmw.org/?page_id=16 The hotline is offline I'm going to print out some links and put em up...
/r/MensRights12/02/15 03:05 AM
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I don't even...
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:59 AM
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You have the point about liberals, but we're also against traditionalism which is espoused by many right wingers.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:55 AM
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I would suggest providing primary sources to the the early history of the MRM, though unknownmisandry already does a good job for that, and that topic isn't exactly Men's rights 101. I would have a glossary going over terms like white knight, male disposability, threat narrative, female hypoagency, and such. Also, try to show the range of beliefs in the group, but how they're all unified under one main goal.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 10:49 PM
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These guys need to do some push-ups, and start acting like men. It's always the comments that ruin progress. Sometimes the article, always the comments.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 01:11 AM
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Yeah, little things like that make me insane.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 01:02 AM
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I've left a club defunct, I have a 8 posters I haven't put up since one got ripped up BEFORE I EVEN PUT IT UP. But I just want to say now I will not be afraid. I will not put up with other people's opinion on my activism. I will pretend that every one supports But I don't need to pretend that someday in the future, humans will look back on this and merely dismiss it as part of a barbaric future. Those who fought for men's rights (and others for humanitarian causes) will simply seem like imperfec…
/r/MensRights11/02/15 01:00 AM
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This could've been in nottheonion!
/r/MensRights10/02/15 12:26 AM
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Just shocking. What else can I say?
/r/MensRights08/02/15 10:34 PM
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That's the ultimate difference between feminism and the MRM. Feminists concocted an incoherent worldview that lays the blame of all gender issues at men's feet. MRAs do not. Their worldview is a far more rational and consistent explanation that blames no demographic. Specifically we blame it on the difficulties primitive societies dealt with and how oppressive gender roles were established for millenia, and how we still cling onto male roles while discarding all responsibilities of women. Only f…
/r/MensRights08/02/15 10:29 PM
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I wouldn't agree on the 2nd part. Gender roles were an overreaction to clear but not too major biological differences. In past societies, sex was just a specialization for a person's disposability. Over time bioloigcally determined social constructs crystalized and lagged behind the technological advances they fueled. Man-made technology (And I say this with all due respect to the women who were belittled for their hard work and asserted agency when it comes to contributions to humanity) helped …
/r/MensRights08/02/15 10:19 PM
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Let me drop my opinion. You can't be both, but you can be an unlabeled egalitarian that refuses to submit to a certain Point of view.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 10:12 PM
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Men are currently in power in this world. If not a local regime, vastly on a domestic regime and certainly on an international regime. More men are in power than woman on a huge scale. This world is a patriarchy. It gives inherent privileges to men that woman do not have. HOWEVER this does not mean that men do not suffer also. One can not deny that we men get the short end of the stick when it comes to child laws, when it comes to rape claims, domestic abuse and all the different things that we …
/r/MensRights08/02/15 10:09 PM
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That wasn't what I was thinking all. When I read that, I though it meant that the females that responded were aroused by doing rape (Though the survey didn't specify). There is nothing is wrong in talking about how people in general can be aroused by the fantasy of being raped, but applying your last conclusion to actual policy making does constitute rape apologia.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 09:16 PM
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I agree. It should be called unlawful sex with a minor/statutory rape, but there shouldn't be a double standard.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 09:01 PM
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The comments are not nearly as progressive as this article X(
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:59 PM
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This is one of the most pro-male articles regarding sexual assault that I have seen, and it still doesn't sees the problem as primarily anti male. What you said states precisely what I was thinking.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:57 PM
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These men's experiences usually aren't as horrific as those of women who are assaulted, Killed my hope.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:53 PM
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I'm glad the ex signed away her parental rights, but I'm afraid the damage can't be undone.
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:47 PM
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Yo guys I just pulled up 2 links, one feminist and the other MRA, but I always suggest reading 2 POV's. And to you McKernanx I hoe the listings will be useful for you. In my opinion there is justice in the idea of trying to find the actual aggressor in an abusive relationship, but again these laws are applied in a way that hurts men (I've also read about how they negatively affect lesbian victims, though I have no citation for that.) http://www.stopvaw.org/determining_the_predominant_aggressor h…
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:42 PM
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These are called predominant aggressor laws. I actually planned to do a documentary for school on this, but I joined another group and my topic wasn't exactly related to the federal government. (Nevertheless, they were quite supportive of the topic, and they encouraged me to do one later on). Anyway, from whatever little research I did, predominant aggressor policies do try to give justice to finding the main aggressor in a reciprocal, they're interpreted in a very misandrist (That word describe…
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:37 PM
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And it's precisely the reason that we don't think DV against men is systemic (In your words, not a bunch of isolated instances) that it is systemic. It's systemic when there is the exact same reaction again and again. "What did you do to cause it?" "What did you do to cause this? Usually women are only violent when the man causes it."
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:29 PM
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What did you do to cause this I just realized how "misogynistic" this is. Women have so little agency in this world, they are akin to children. They can't even beat up people with intention, because they're too dumb and infantile to do things without being influenced by others. Of course women are strong, they're adults, and they can certainly beat people up. Apart from my ranting, I wish you safety. It's a shame that you must be revictimized like this. I also commend your bravery in leaving the…
/r/MensRights08/02/15 08:25 PM
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All feminist can be traced back to gynecoracy! Feminists are just immature and can't deal with their privilege.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 11:03 PM
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Fantastic writing. I love his characterization of MRA's, with so much emotion and effective use of writing. He is so adamant about his claims, and his emotion support him. /s This guy claims to go beyond the stereotypes of MRA's, while espousing them at the same time.
/r/MensRights06/02/15 04:30 AM
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Well yeah hur durr I sort of a made an embarrasing mistake, I just kind of accidentally raped a human bei- err man. /s
/r/MensRights06/02/15 04:04 AM
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Weird, my middle school is full of tumblr feminists. You would think people in college would be less naïve.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 09:55 PM
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I know this ins't exactly related to your personal experience, but which groups and organizations are most friendly to men? I'm running a small campaign at my Middle school and I only wish to mention charities that are respectful of men like you? Also, do you consider yourself to be an MRA? Or do you prefer to be unlabeled? Does MRA analysis (Concepts like Male Disposability and female hypoagency etc.) help you more than a Feminist viewpoint? I'm just wondering about your views, but whatever the…
/r/MensRights03/02/15 03:18 AM
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I think it's absolutely wrong for any minor to ruin another one's reputation by 'revenge porn', especially against their consent, there is an obvious double standard here with the girl being 15.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 03:01 AM
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I do not speak Danish, but I find it to be a very beautiful language. It translates quit well since in nearly every language, things like ships and countries are always reffered to with the feminine personal pronoun. Anyway it's nice to see the MRM expand culturally and language-wise.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:24 AM
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This isn't a fantastically worded question, but hey it's 1:18 AM where I am and I don't feel sleepy one bit. In nature, there are lots of different ways species are sexually dimorphic, and some species are completely hermaphroditic, like slugs and worms. No you won't find equality in nature. However don't get me wrong. It's fallacious to assume that "natural" gender roles are better, since they were formed in the evolutionary pressure of the barbaric ages. With abundant resources today, things l…
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:21 AM
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I just don't get why this whole thing is called mens "rights". We have rights, we have for a long time. Women's rights started as a movement because they lacked key rights that we had. Now there's feminism which is looking for equality, not necessarily rights. Things like equal pay, representation in media and institutionalised sexism; not so much rights as just general improvements. There are plenty of right around of the world that women have that men don't. True equality in every sense of the…
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:14 AM
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Thanks for attempting a X-post, but did you saved any comments? Or at least remembered any? Or was it removed before anyone even gave it the dignity of discussion?
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:04 AM
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Hey thanks for the link and whoah... that was completely unprovocative how could their moderators be so... Man that place is Orwellian. I though that they would upvote this thing but damn. Sure both subredditts might be quite partisan and hate the idea of ever joining up (Though there were quite a few non anti-feminist ppl on this thread), but for 2X to just ban the thing just blows my mind.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:03 AM
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I don't hate feminists. I just frickin despise people who do no wish to argue with me. I'm not talking about the general case where people don't want to create a ruckus or want to be polite or whatever. I'm talking about people completely ignoring my point and not giving an ounce of argument.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 06:00 AM
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What were their upvote/downvotes? Were these opinions popular and supported? Or not?
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:58 AM
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Hope is what wakes me up in the morning. It's what encourages me to bring equality to 50% of the population. I don't find that hope in yelling and screaming between groups with the exact same goals.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:54 AM
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Yeah, he should've done a X-post, which I oftentimes do. However now I'm banned from the Femenism subreddit for being a troll. Off-topic, @nicemod is there a difference between r/Feminism and r/Mensrights when it comes to free speech? Is one noticeably more open-minded.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:52 AM
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I like you too, you're waaay too smart to actually need an explanation. Just 6 words and you just crushed Dudley in an argument.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:48 AM
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Generally I would criticize a movement by the cute majority and poster children. We can go at lengths at whether or not Radfems are overepresented, I haven't seen much fruit in that. When I hear that feminism is equality for everyone, I always mention HeForShe. Emma Watson is clearly not a radfem, or at least she doesn't fit the stereotype (which in the end doesn't matter at all). The very name shows the kind of equality feminists want. They want to have men feel equal and grateful for simply ha…
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:46 AM
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These are pretty consistent differences between the movements :|
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:36 AM
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I suggest you two argue over the specific differences in approach to solving social issues that arise from these two movements, instead of going back and forth and not creating any meaningful dialogue.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:34 AM
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FUN FACT: NOW called Hitler an MRA (Same way one would call random people fascists or commies without knowing what it means), even though Hitler's rise to power is responsible for wiping out the first group concerned with Men's rights. An exposition on logic [Some facts on EARLY history of the MRM, which is essential but not highly known among MRA's]T(http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/whats-the-difference/) This is on the sidebar of this subreddit by the way.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:33 AM
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Wazzup's point is that TRPers and ROK are quite different circles from the general MRM, and Byron has a point that if Extremists are leading voices in a movement, then that movement isn't legititmate. Though I've a few misogynists here and there, but again they get downvoted into oblivion. Now another thing that would discredit a movement or group would be tolerance of extremism from its own moderates. According to my understanding, most muslims condemn other extremists. Feminists also try to di…
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:15 AM
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The hell is going on there? Progress? Dear deity.
/r/MensRights31/01/15 05:11 AM
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I don't have much to say, when I wrote that comment I still felt like Feminism and the MRM has similar goals in mind, and that while their perspectives, models, theories, and "buzzwords" (how people on r/Askfeminists referred to the ideas of male disposability and female hypoagency when I mentioned them), that these different perspectives were only coloration of the same underlying ideas. And again, the feminism I was thinking about is one that very much claims to help men, but really sees men a…
/r/MensRights28/01/15 10:25 PM
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Sorry, what does feminism has to do with this?
/r/MensRights27/01/15 10:16 PM
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Guy has some serious issues with women, no I mean relationship issues. He shouldn't be bringing that MR ACTIVISM.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 01:05 AM
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It's like Unabomber's contributions to mathematics. Just because he can prove a certain theory, doesn't mean he isn't crazy overall.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 01:04 AM
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I think you need to make a distinction to make it clear to people that you believe that males face systemic discrimination because they're male.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 12:46 AM
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Alright I'll go check their tweets and nominate the first, since Karen Straughan was instrumental in turning me to the movemet personally, though I do highly respect Christina Hoff Sommers for her focus on the marginalization of boys in the education system.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 12:31 AM
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I like your simple and non-confrontational poster. Also since it's black and white it will be cheaper to print. I suggest putting stats in order to make the average person stop and think about the hidden marginalization of men. The number of boys killed by circumcision every year, the number recent studies that support gender parity in Domestic Violence and sexual assault, and etc. I was never successful in forming a group, so I would love to hear updates from you.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 12:28 AM
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This is pretty cool, I really like the idea. I wish I can nominate DougDante, but I don't think he has a twitter account, much less an active one. I'm afraid I don't know many prominent MRA's on Twitter. Do you have any ideas?
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:35 AM
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Thanks DougDante. You're one the few names I can recognize on this subreddit because of your constant posting and most of all you compassionate activism. If we had more people like you, there wouldn't be so much bickering.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:31 AM
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The only overlap between PUA and MRA's would be that they are both groups that primarily? consists of men, and that's about it. As an MRA, I believe traditional masculinity should be defended in terms of perceived value, but I focus on removing the obligation to stick to roles from men and women, and the non-conforming.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:26 AM
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Well zz I personally prefer that it's loose. There needs to be dialogue among a group of people who fight for the same thing, not just adherence to a hive mind.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:24 AM
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Returnofkings isn't an MRA website. This isn't simply a no true scotsman thing. The content is quite different. Articles on ROK are about enforcing a traditional ideal of masculinity, and it has OBVIOUS connections to the PUA community. I just don't see a lot of that here (I'm not saying that there are absolutely no trads or PUA in this sub, it's just that the atmosphere is quite different.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:23 AM
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Good point. People in power are not simply beneficiaries to themselves. Their close associates, and the ones they love, will also get a bit of that nice. And you know chivalry? Who benefits from that's that? It's fallacious to believe that only people with the power are privileged.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 11:50 PM
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seriousquestion5's point is that the typical SJW outline of privilege is extremely simplified even if it takes race, gender, sex, ability, and whole list of other labels into question.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 11:46 PM
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Feminism took a long time to become intersectional, though now it has a high focus on race and LGBT persons.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 09:50 PM
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The MRM is a loose collection of people who believe in equal rights for men. You have no right to say who out there is going to "subvert" the MRM. Oh BTW, Fuck off.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 09:48 PM
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Well if Nyanbear does see hostility towards him in this subreddit, then its his responsibility to cite specific examples of it and then link to it. I've seen every single opinion on this subreddit, and I've seen some nasty comments. Most are however downvoted into oblivion
/r/MensRights24/01/15 07:52 PM
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NyanBear isn't supporting a split or fork in the MRM, he just wants to be accepted in the moment. @Nyanbear yeah, you get men's rights too, and sharing it doesn't mean anybody gets less. In general, if one identifies as a man then they're right and how they're infriged are what is discussed here.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 07:50 PM
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Seriously?
/r/MensRights24/01/15 07:46 PM
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On 2) I have to admit there is not a lot of MRA stuff specifically related to gay males. You can take a look at the following links. All the dumb trads got downvoted into hell, and when Psion made a comment supporting gay he got 7 upboats. http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2q4lnc/non_straightcis_people_of_this_subreddit_what_are/
/r/MensRights24/01/15 07:04 PM
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I agree with you that men's rights should focus on rights for men to achieve gender equality, not on feminism. Well said bro.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:53 PM
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Man-hater? This isn't a kindergarten playground. You support your opinion with facts not name calling. What if someone called you a neckbeard?
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:52 PM
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This here is my reply to Parker_25. It's related to what I want to say to loud-and-opionated, but you can skip to part 2. It's a Saturday, and I don't feel like putting a tldr; here. If you want to make a point Parker_25, I suggest you come up with citations for specific instances of each "sign of a feminist". Personally, I don't believe feminists are specically against our goals, it's just that they 1) Downplay the degree of discrimination against males 2) Make ridiculous claims like Hitler and…
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:43 PM
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Gee what if Iggy Azaleas did that -_-
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:08 PM
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You're asking great questions. The point of the MRM isn't to treat men like angels in court, but to see the double standards and disparities between convicts in terms of gender, and also race.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:06 PM
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While watching shouldn't take a higher sentence, most normal people don't just sit around when another person gets raped. Maybe they wouldn't intervene for their own safety, but he would at least show some more guilt for what he did.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 06:04 PM
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There's nothing great about being a baby factory OR a human robot. Nevertheless, male disposability had still survived to a far greater degree in the modern age, and quite sadly is encoded in our very biology.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:56 AM
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If anything, these barbarians would simply kill anybody in their path to protect women. They might be paternalistic, but hey, life would more important than your agency in that situation.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:54 AM
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I'm quite tired of people insulting MRA's by referring to how unattractive they're supposed to be. How about you treat feminists with the way you wish to be treated. And also your comment was of zero value to our discussion.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:50 AM
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Here my rebuttals in order of what you've said. But constantly criticizing feminism is wasted effort I fail to see how this view is any different from how people see the MRM. I disagree with other feminists I know on how society works, but I don't have a problem with them personally. What are the definitions? Well then call out other MRA's who refer to male feminists as white knights. Again look at my other comment. Eliminating other factors can get varying results, anywhere from 88, 97, 108, ce…
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:42 AM
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However, there is still debate over what portion of the wage gap is due to explicit discrimination. It has been claimed that around 40% of the wage gap is caused by discrimination,[3] though some argue that the gap is largely caused by women's career choices.[8] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_pay_gap It's a debate, this is exactly the kind of behavior that me and letthehatemailbegin are again, that is the constant name calling and what not.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 12:35 AM
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THANK YOU that is all I can say.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 01:31 AM
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Russia isn't a manadise. I'll try to get a link ASAP, but I read a news article on how one woman raped 10 men. edit: This can stand as a link on its own, but it's old news. http://www.inquisitr.com/26696/russian-black-widow-woman-arrested-for-raping-10-men/ Of course, it's written in a way that is extremely offensive. Cenk Uygur commented on this on TYT and his attitudes were absolutely sick for a "progressive" person.
/r/MensRights23/01/15 01:15 AM
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I feel bad for your mom since whatever her beliefs might be, did "Susie" beat you up to?
/r/MensRights23/01/15 01:13 AM
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Yeah, try to focus on problems specific to your audience (That's not to say your group should solely be focused on 1rst world colleges). As for me, I' primarily concerned about the school-to-prison pipeline, rape of minors (male, female, out of the binary or whatever) by teachers, liability of minors for child support once they turn 18 (Yes, if a woman rapes and a young boy and gets pregnant, that survivor is definitely liable to paying child support.) and other things teenage males should be co…
/r/MensRights21/01/15 01:16 AM
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Just want to note always laminate your posters and keep extra copies of them. They're a great way to get attention (though word of mouth about men's rights will spread like forest fire), however not every one is interested in free speech.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 01:09 AM
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Feminism isn't evil, my only problem with fundamentally is that it claims town the concept of equality, and that only its own gynocentric view will solve men's issues (Which is really just an extension of misogny /s). For what its worth to women, Feminism has been largely positive, its ideology is what sucks. However I'm with Jimmy, do not even mention feminism in any of your material, only attack from an idealogical standpoint of being inadequate for men.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 01:08 AM
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I think there should be some hope of cooperation between the two camps, especially in practical activism.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 01:01 AM
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Yeah, the general MRA belief (Again there is quite a bit of variation) is that while gender differences exist and should be fully understood, our society blows up these differences and arbitrarily alter them to create constrictive gender roles. If your #1 stated goal isn't the complete obliteration of feminism, whatever organization you start will be completely taken over by feminists. Now, I have dealed with many feminists when I tried to open up a club in a middle school (I didn't got enough p…
/r/MensRights21/01/15 12:59 AM
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I see what you mean. This isn't something an actual rapist would write. The satire was VERY well calculated, and quite dramatic. If one takes out the Postscript, then I would'nt take it as satire. But it's definitely a powerful way to teach a lesson.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 12:49 AM
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I pray and pray that this is just satire to teach us a lesson...
/r/MensRights21/01/15 12:47 AM
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I honestly don't see the big deal. Though I must admit there is quite a double standard here.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 03:43 PM
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BTW unkownmisandry is a blog with absolutely fantastic and hard to get information on men's rights.
/r/MensRights18/01/15 09:51 PM
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Gee it's just procedure. Killing innocent men. However I have to note that this article is a year old though.
/r/MensRights18/01/15 09:29 PM
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This is redpill $hit. This subreddit is dedicated to social justice (In the ideal sense of the phrase), not how other people are making it harder for us to get laid.
/r/MensRights16/01/15 05:08 AM
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I believe women should be free and have their own agency. Because I'm an MRA.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 01:28 AM
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The reverse is just as bad, though cases like this are overlooked.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 01:24 AM
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'm not against playing with dolls, I played with one myself for a short while.. but this is clearly being pushed on them because 'feminine' is now conflated with 'better'. I agree with you. This is my take on gender equality. Nobody should be forced into two boxes, feminine and masculine. And no one should be convinced that one box is better, or that the two boxes are completely separate.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 01:22 AM
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Hey look, I think boys should play with dolls so that they can see themselves in a less disposable light, instead of toy soldier. And no one should be "made" to play with certain toys. They should be given a choice, and they shouldn't be ridiculed because of it. Hey, anything is better than tel our kids that all men are rapists, but they can take care of kids with equal competency.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 01:18 AM
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What's your favorite flavor of Male tears? XD
/r/MensRights12/01/15 12:38 AM
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Ditto #Proudshitlord
/r/MensRights12/01/15 12:34 AM
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Check reddit metrics http://redditmetrics.com
/r/MensRights12/01/15 12:32 AM
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I like your idea of making crappy statistics in order to make light of an even crappier one. I'm just curious what site did you use?
/r/MensRights12/01/15 12:00 AM
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The following is a man's comment of the comment section I'd say using one's uterus and child to cripple a man financially for life is worse than being raped in most instances, but because one we allow by the law and one we do not the former is fine while the latter is horrid, when both should be illegal. As someone who was raped by a homeless woman I let stay at my apartment I'd rather have been raped than have to pay 50% of my income for 18 years to a woman who is under no obligation to spend i…
/r/MensRights11/01/15 11:54 PM
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Hey guys I know this thread is old but I want to add one more link
/r/MensRights11/01/15 07:12 PM
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Great thinking. That's a really good argument. "Kills man"? We already know that news agencies like to use profession names or other genderless identifiers when referring to men. "woman kills lawyer...", "woman kills fellow New Yorker...." Oh yeah BTW, is there a specific name for this? Where tragedies with male victims are reported with no regard to their gender? This gets pointed out by MRA's quite often and it'd be nice if there was a term for it.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 08:57 PM
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getting forcefully penetrated is just on a different level to other forms Alright I understand. But what's your opinion on envelopment? When a person (typically a man) gets made to penetrated, would you consider that to be rape?
/r/MensRights10/01/15 08:50 PM
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Im quite glad that that place now has its own local men's rights meeting. The unfortunate thing about being an MRA is that it's near impossible to find another IN REAL LIFE. I did convinced 2 other students to be MRA's, but I have never met any one. Are there any near Maryland, USA?
/r/MensRights10/01/15 12:14 AM
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While I'm glad you don't support a double standard, most of us wouldn't want to have our asses whooped like that.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 12:00 AM
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Wait a second I got 922 results!! AND THAT WAS WITH THE QUOTES AROUND. Lelink
/r/MensRights09/01/15 11:53 PM
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There were hardly any condemnation. We have a lot to do if people are this barbaric. Oh yeah guys I'm 14, this kind of thing really matters to me.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 11:46 PM
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Responsible entities? Darn. So for every UK male victim of CSA that is recorded official statistics (1) the boy had the guts to go to the police (2) he is then not believed NINETY PERCENT OF THE TIME. So government stats on this are utterly useless.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 11:35 PM
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Seriously? So if a girl performs cunnilingus on you without your consent, how would you feel about that? I understand that you may not define it as rape, that's not my problem, though I do disagree. However not even considering that to be sexual assault? Please clarify. As per my understanding, sexual assault is a catchall term that includes rape and and any forced sexual act. Are you saying that forced cunnilingus shouldn't be considered a crime? Also, why did you switched genders in the 2nd se…
/r/MensRights08/01/15 10:38 PM
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A lot of the comments are still incredibly backward. I'm not talking about a small minority. There were dozens of comments referring to the victim as "lucky". But, hey, it's a start.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 03:22 AM
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Just here to say (I'm not a mod, just trying to be friendly), remember to flair your post, or it might be removed. Anyway, this is quite sad.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 10:39 PM
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A woman practicing her own agency? MISOGYNY
/r/MensRights06/01/15 10:36 PM
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Look, I don't go around saying "hey, we own the concept of equality, do you actually know the definition of an MRA? If you're not with us you're a bigot." At the end of the day I don't even care if people are barely aware of all the MRA words and ideology (can you even call it that?) and what not. At the end of the day, we are a group of people with a specific goal in mind, and whoever truly supports our goals (not just claims to do so) is welcome in our circles, and they do not need to adopt ou…
/r/MensRights06/01/15 10:35 PM
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Roosh Valizadeh has some problems. You're only reffering to #11, the rest had little to do with Men's rights.
/r/MensRights03/01/15 07:06 PM
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So are you suggesting that we campaign for legislation that automatically places the child in foster care (giving a choice to the father of course)? I guess that's a good idea. Anyway still drafting that letter to my representative. I have lots of other school projects :p
/r/MensRights29/12/14 06:39 PM
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We get so caught up in protesting the obligation of child support in these cases we nearly forget something pretty obvious. Yes, the male victim should have a choice in providing child support, or even being the primary caretaker. The default position should be that the child is placed in foster care IMMEDIATELY, rapists cannnot take care of children.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 06:36 PM
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Chivalry kills. What can I say?
/r/MensRights23/12/14 12:45 AM
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Sorry have you read the rest? That was supposed to be sarcastic.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 01:51 PM
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Please ignore that comment sadlonelysoul, some people mix ideology with activism, the two aren't a good mix. Again you don't have to be an MRA, and please do not pay attention to nick012000.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 04:19 AM
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Just a reminder to say thanks to your dad for helping the world ☺
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:50 AM
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Kind of the reverse of what usually happens, but I'm glad that in this case the Internet was kind to you. Remember, the problem is that people in real life are constrained by social norms and expectations. That makes them act "polite", concerned about other people's thoughts and opinions rather than their internal sense of what's right. The person who discouraged you from reporting was too afraid of he general system, with legit reasoning yes, however here fear and doubt got into you perpetuatin…
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:48 AM
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Remember, anything you say can be taken seriously as advice. Citation please?
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:20 AM
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The courage you took to post that shows OP that she's not lonely, I hope that spurs her to report despite the odds.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:15 AM
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FYI The FBI definition of rape in the U.S. does cover all victims, though its wording is unclear as to whether or not it covers envelopment, also known as made to penetrate.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:12 AM
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It's the general idea that females can't be perpetrators that I've been experiencing that has bothered me. Now, you are right that society in general won't treat you great, however it is up to you to make a report. If you do manage to get your perpetrator prosecuted, no matter how hard it is, you will make it easier on the myriads of other who are in your situation. You are strong. And I believe in you.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:09 AM
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It is, and you didn't ramble. If I were you, I wouldn't be able to touch the keyboard.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 03:03 AM
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I'm shaking and crying as I type and I just wanted to share what had happened with a group who I figured would care. I'm shaking and crying too. I'm lucky that I never had experience this, but we ought to do everything we can to make sure you get justice.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 02:56 AM
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Oh guys apparently r/2Xchromosones got replaced by r/girltalk, there's even a redirect page. Anyway guys I'm here to say that the X-post was made to be as naive as possible and I wanted to compare the replies of women and MRA's (I say women and MRA's because there are feMRA's☺). I knew what you all were going to see and YES I do share your outrage, however I wanted to make a neutral X-post to compare and contrast answers. While the general population does find it surprising (not an outrage, just…
/r/MensRights19/12/14 02:24 AM
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When MRA's speak of male reproductive rights, we keep our hand off of women's uteri. A male reproductive pill, and fair child-support laws (you shouldn't pay child support to children that are not yours, child support shouldn't be ridiculously high.) Some MRA's are for a man's ability to choose whether or not he wants to pay child support, as a "paper abortion", though I think that is ridiculous. As a 14 year old, I am mostly concerned about not paying child support in the case I get raped ☺
/r/MensRights18/12/14 01:18 AM
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Idea 2: MRA's seem cool at first, but they are all anti-feminists ad misogynists at heart. This is pretty legit in certain ways. Any group with concerns that develops a hive mind can espew some pretty nasty ideas because that groups now frames everything as a part of social justice, even though it may not actually be contributing to solving the problem. Personally I do think anti-feminism is a problem in the MRM (though criticism of the misandrist legislation brought forth by feminists isn't.) I…
/r/MensRights18/12/14 01:11 AM
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Ditto. While I can address public reputation in a later comment (for example WE ALWAYS GET ASSOSCIATED with PUA's.), the basic premise of the men's rights movement is apparently offensive in itself. Let me break this down. Idea 1: Men have problems This isn't controversial. Patriarchy hurts men too. In a gynecrocracy, female oppression is considered to envelope men's problems, which are merely a subset of female oppression. In a discussion of male victims, it is always framed with male perpetrat…
/r/MensRights18/12/14 01:01 AM
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How to be a MEN'S RIGHT ACTIVIST Advocacy -Write letters to organizations regarding non gender neutral policies. Even if they insist on keeping such policies/regulations, your voice indicates that this movement EXISTS (it can be easy to forget that most people have never heard of the MRM) -Poster campaigns! Printing and designing posters can be expensive but fun. Remember, always keep extra copies of posters, as on average, posters that treat men as human beings don't last very long. In my exper…
/r/MensRights17/12/14 02:03 AM
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Getting into my current relationship, my girlfriend is an egalitarian. She doesn't use her feminine status as a method to get me to do what she wants and she asks, rather than tells me what to do, like a lot of women did. This is why I don't see the point of MGTOW. Yes 95% of wifmen* have been brainwashed by traditionalism, but the rest can be decent human beings. I feel like MGTOW's should simply state their need for a SO that can support him, instead of the other way around. Also I declare all…
/r/MensRights17/12/14 01:52 AM
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As someone who resides mostly on the left politically but with a mind of my own, I grew extremely weary of the constant anti-male barrage of western feminists in the media. This led me to get into debates and do independent research and my worldview changed significantly over the course of a few months. I went from buying into the Western feminsts aren't as bad as you expect. Women's rights activists, some of whom try to distance themselves from feminism as much as possible, can have much worse …
/r/MensRights16/12/14 04:28 AM
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Just something I noticed, while many people outside of MRA circles consider us to be a backlash against feminism, that's not exactly true. MRA's are very likely to be EX-feminists, and they're are far more familiar with the concepts of feminism. I often find myself explaining many concepts to my friends like male disposability and threat narratives. Whereas very few MRA's are unfamiliar with feminist terminology. Many feminist aren't even aware of some of the issues we care about. I had to expla…
/r/MensRights16/12/14 04:19 AM
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I was a feminist. Because feminists believed in equality, and equality is good for everybody. Even as a fairly young kid in elementary school, I was already familiar with feminist concepts like patriarchy theory and hegemonic masculinity and what not. If I help women, that makes me a good man. Other boys and men are rapists, other non-feminist girls were brainwashed. Then, 1rst week of 6th grade, I got sexually harassed by a sophomore (bus routes for high school and middle school were connected.…
/r/MensRights16/12/14 04:14 AM
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Raped her little sister and this. What can I say?
/r/MensRights10/12/14 04:12 AM
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Agree with you sis/bro. I don't see why the two can't be two subsets of egalitarianism. Yes, MRA's and feminist have different frames of looking at gender, traditionalism and patriarchy respectively. Now, anyone can think of any conflict between the two in terms of trying to affect legislation? I heard NOW is against shared parenting, but I am too darn tired to get a citation.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 04:07 AM
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This is just horrible.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 10:47 PM
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I don't think the CDC report itself is inaccurate, it's just how Mary Koss put UP A FU- (Breathing technique) double standard for rape against men and women.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 04:30 AM
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We should teach black kids not to steal. Yeah, it's that ridiculous.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 04:24 AM
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We feel like Petriacky does hurt men by sying bos will be boys, and feminism believes that not all men are rapist. If we tell'em no to rape (SINCE WE KNOW IT IS IN THEIR RAPIST BLOOD), then they will stop and serve wimmin. Grammar n spelling iz petraicky!!!
/r/MensRights04/12/14 04:22 AM
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Teach boys that rape is bad and no one should do it. Teach boys not to rape. These are two different sentences!
/r/MensRights04/12/14 04:19 AM
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This is why we need MRA, to end and attack female hypo agency, and eradicate male disposability.
/r/MensRights04/12/14 04:17 AM
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Not necessarily, but it isn't completely a men's rights thing. Yes, the subreddit did anticipate the day, but we all agree that the organization in charge of it did little to actually address men's issues.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 10:26 PM
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I was quite disappointed with IMD too. My competency in domestic chores is not important at all. I'm a 14 year-old boy, and these are my specific concerns for that, never mind all the crap other people have to go through. I want to grow up in a world where I don't have to pay child support if a woman rapes me I want to grow up in a world where if I raise my arms to protect myself against an abusive partner with a gun, I won't be labeled as a wife-beater I want to live in a world where if I call …
/r/MensRights30/11/14 10:23 PM
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Ironic because silencing others is a female privilege
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:30 AM
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Well put. I think this was a pretty poor link.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:28 AM
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I think it's great that a woman took a gun and avenged her son dammit, isn't the MRM about affirming the agency of women?
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:28 AM
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Reposts ruin every bit of originality
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:10 AM
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We should recognize the severity of emotion abuse and various indirect forms of control. However any effort to criminalize emotional abuse should be VERY specific on what its exact agenda is. This can lead to a slippery slop.
/r/MensRights25/11/14 03:40 AM
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I think this could have some applications. For example, one woman did lost quite a bit of money due to deception. Anyway, my only problem is that the definition is so broad, it is easy to see this being abused. I Maybe someone who actually experienced this sshould talk about it.
/r/MensRights25/11/14 03:30 AM
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[Stop treating as unpaid bodyguards!] (http://www.internationalmensday.com/india.html) I teared up a tinsy bit. That one sentence captures nearly everything about being a man. Your unpaid. And your just another disposable human shield for women and children.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 03:29 AM
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I am a middle school student, so I'm not going to put up posters on rape and consent. However, you're right that the IMD website is aimed more towards fathers and what not. The poster [here] (http://imgur.com/PUUX5hk) (Warning:Ms paint) is a poster designed to encourage people o sign up. The topic I'm probably basing my IMD poster on is education, as it affects me and my audience personally. And then there is circumcision, I'm not sure how comfortable people are about seeing a poster about it in…
/r/MensRights19/11/14 03:25 AM
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A lot of rapists feel entitled to sex, both men and women. The thing for men is that men are always assumed to want sex, because having a penis automatically makes you a sex hungry beast that should be happy to get raped. Anyway man, I wish you healing. Can't do much over wires and servers, but hopefully I can raise some awareness on the rape of men on Wednesday. "Men can get raped?" "Dude your lucky she squeezed you" "Women can't rape" "Damn you're lucky" -Says society
/r/MensRights18/11/14 04:07 AM
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I'm already on it, I'm going to use my "fantastic" MS paint photoshop skills and post these up. I'm so embarrassed Well I'm going to put this up on Wednesday plus a few edits, with tear resistant protection. I also need to spray it with flame retardant. And I need a few extra copies. I gave a copy to fellow member of my Men's Rights Club (Yes, my club has 2 other members) for proofreading, before I even put it up some girl took a look at it and ripped it up. Anyway, it would be great if someone …
/r/MensRights18/11/14 03:44 AM
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Sounds small, but I'll probably put up some posters at my school and donate a couple dollars. :|
/r/MensRights18/11/14 03:20 AM
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I would be quite terrified of a ~woman~ ANY FRICKIN PERSON WITH A DEVICE THAT CAN KILL YOU WITH A CHUNK OF LEAD HURLED AT HIGH VELOCITY @!%!^
/r/MensRights12/11/14 06:02 AM
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Well... If sexual dimorphism means that women can never ever ever be able to match up with men in strength, what are we going to do about male disposability. "Protecting men? that's insane, by their very nature they're disposable!"
/r/MensRights12/11/14 06:01 AM
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Are you serious? So men aren't evil and murderous, and women should have full agency and responsibility. You just linked to a fricken pic of a women in the army, and because she has a vagina, she does not get the same respect as a male soldier. There is a reason you got that many downvotes. We don't want people like you in the movement.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:58 AM
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Rape by deception is a real thing. Besides, what would you guys do if the victim was male?
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:52 AM
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I think the MRM has to be consistent on Women in combat. They have a right/responsibility to serve, and those that do serve are entitled to equal honour. You're either fighting traditionalism or not.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:51 AM
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K... I was a feminist for a very long time (Joined the MRM a year ago), so I always assumed androcentrism was baked up by stats...guess not.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:31 AM
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Wait, I take back what I said. You did made a good point about what the audience wants versus the demographics of the producers. But what is your theory on why women are the primary audience? Espescially if they are half the population. Is it because aiming media at women can attract white knights and various other men who want to protect women?
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:30 AM
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Androcentrism is partially responsible for many of the media tropes that we often complain about. Now, more female authors and directors won't neccesarily mean equal male and female disposability in films, but a half and half ratio is still ideal. Because =
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:27 AM
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You're detracting away from the the point. Okay sure, the video is focused on women, but we should be more concerned on how to stop people from taking advantage of drunks. If you're being sarcastic then you'll probably agree with me.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:25 AM
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ManWomanMyth made a similar point. It is true that people who make media are disproportionately men, and that is a problem. However gynocentrism is about erasing any special consideration for men, it is so subtle that it affects language itself.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:36 AM
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Hope you heal :|
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:31 AM
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Not to deny what you're saying, I want to share my take on patriarchy theory In Men's Rights Activism, the word that describes all traditional gender beliefs is traditionalism. Not matriarchy or patriarchy, just traditionalism. Some MRA's believe that we live in a matriarchy theory, but not a lot. There are several places where the MRA understanding of traditionalism and feminist patriarchy theory split. One is who overall has a harder time. MRA's use statistics to claim parity, whereas feminist…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:23 AM
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I'm not in the same physical condition as you, but it is sad that being born with a penis and extra muscle here and there can constrain who you want to be. & 8. Kind of describes the situation for half the population.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:13 AM
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A lot of female disposability goes back to the female role of spitting out babies. In prehistoric societies, if women didn't had babies all the time, and if men didn't kill themselves protecting their tribe and bringing food, then group success wouldn't be as high. With advanced obstetrics and 6 billion people on this planet and more than enough resources (Hunger and poverty arise from unequal access and distribution nowadays), treating any human being as disposable is wrong. I envision a future…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:09 AM
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I am an 8th grader, 14 years in this world should ideally make me innocent. I actually consider myself a profeminist, I think antifeminism divides us and keep us from addressing real issues. Anyway, I was sexually harassed as a 6th grader, and I won't forget the double standard I have to experience. A year later, I stumbled upon men's rights. Now, before this, I was considered myself to be a feminist, and I still consider many issues from a feminist standpoint today. When I was introduced to the…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 01:54 AM
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I never got groped but I had received verbal harassment. --I just turned 14 : |
/r/MensRights04/11/14 08:38 PM
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I wish Nan Shi healing. :\
/r/MensRights04/11/14 08:35 PM
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You are the A in MRA.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 07:16 PM
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Well MRA are just a stinking bunch of misogynists who can't get laid! The ironic thing is when MRA's are referred to as men who fail to attract women, one is actually supporting the patriarchy. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:59 PM
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The fact is she is bathing in the attention. She knew that people are okay with her being a ~child molester~ wierd 7-year old
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:56 PM
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Yes, but I am also concerned about how AVFM is going to use the money. We might all be part of the MRM, but transparency in the usage of money of any organization is important. I am ambivalent about the rather extreme measure, but I think AVFM's heart is in the right place. At the end of the day, as long as we all know for sure AVFM does with the money, I'm okay with AVFM's actions
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:26 PM
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If we are concerned about the double standard, we should blame the system not the individual. She would probably support the MRM if we look out for how family affects everybody
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:18 PM
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This is why I am sick of MRA's who think Marital rape is okay, like Janet Bloomsfield. You know what, I'll coin a term for this. The Double Standard fallacy: Saying something is right because it affects people equally Examples: Saying that mother OR fathers can sit on child support without holding a job. Saying that it is okay for a man to rape his wife because it's okay for woman to rape her husband. When we advocate for equal rights, we should be focused on making the world a place that respec…
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:14 PM
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Hey, the news story is right, but the double standard for the MEDIA in GENERAL needs to stop.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 06:03 PM
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Yeah, I think we should work on solving these issues, instead of blaming them on women who truly are victims of the system. However, they have to be in good standing to take care of the fetus. A under served life doesn't absolve you of all responsibility for your own body, and your fetus.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 05:40 AM
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I think that is true. Labeling these women as selfish and careless isn't going to solve the issue. Of course, women don't always have a maternal instinct. However, I do feel like these women are treated in a very punitive manner which doesn't helps the fetus/baby.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 05:38 AM
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pRAgwess...
/r/MensRights04/11/14 05:20 AM
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Sorry... why is this on this sub????
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:12 AM
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No, these traditional structures (respecting women and chivalry) Sabrina Schaefer is talking about are the results of male disposability, saying they were created the curb inappropriate behavior of men just goes to say that all men are pervs.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:07 AM
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Okay, but lets presume Men's Rights Activism comes to power and feminism shriveled Up. Wouldn't the MRM too have an expiry date?
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:48 PM
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You're effed up man, men arent like that.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 02:12 PM
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Well put
/r/MensRights27/09/14 02:07 PM
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Any trained officer deserves a gun which they can use optimally as per their individual needs.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 02:01 PM
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I'm no gun expert, but it seems to be the case that manufacturers are concerned about how big their guns are. Just give her something smaller, gosh.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 02:00 PM
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Yeah I think she does deserve some accommodation. Police Officers should guard the public, and that means being approachable to elderly, children, handicapped whatever. I'm not saying she being a woman makes her extremely friendly, you don't need beg people to be officers.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 01:59 PM
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I feel for you. Got sexually harassed in 6th grade. Maybe it is mansplaing. Maybe we are just whining. Maybe pointing out double standards is wrong. Maybe me just saying that women are just rarely capable of doing horrific acts onto men is misogynistic. That my rights is somehow a threat to your rights. Plus, isn't it incredibly offensive to women that they can't be held responsible for their actions? I am Pro-feminism, I believe in patriarchy and stuff, but I can't bring myself to believe that …
/r/MensRights26/09/14 09:04 PM
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It doesn;t matter wheter it is legal or not. You wouldn't want someone to reject you because you worked to advance men's rights. You can oice your opinion, but not deny someone a job.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 10:05 PM
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Snap judgements like that don't help men or women. She's not necessarily a feminazi because she works at a domestic violence agency that only helps women.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 10:03 PM
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Seriously! Why did you reject a woman with high credentials over something as small as her volunteering at an unfair local domestic violence agency? Does that automatically make her misandrist? Crap the spellchecker doesn't recognized misandry
/r/MensRights06/09/14 10:00 PM
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Honestly, I feel like many great feminists contributed to gender studies, and our understanding of the patriarchy. Femnists complain that all societies live under the influence of the patriarchy. Sure that is true, but matriarchy exists too.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 05:49 AM
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I remember some girls commenting on our media teacher's butt... Why does society has this ideas that "MEN ARE ICKY PERVS!!EWWW!" Smash the matriarchy
/r/MensRights24/07/14 05:23 AM
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