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A girl who's agreed to go on a date with you isn't going to be offended by you trying to kiss her. If you're really worried, I have 100% success rate asking if you can kiss them.
/r/seduction03/11/25 11:27 PM
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Yeah, but if you can't even chat to women in a friendly way you definitely won't be able to build sexual tension.. There's levels, and level 1 is being able to be not anxious and able to hold a conversation.
/r/seduction27/09/25 12:53 AM
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But I like to add a little care into it then not giving a fuck week later. This is straight up narcissistic manipulation.
/r/seduction21/08/25 03:31 AM
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To anyone reading this- this is really bad advice. You don’t have to act like a meathead and not “do anything for women” (apparently apart from alter your whole personality to make yourself a stupid asshole lol) in order to attract women.. you will turn off the vast majority and the ones remaining usually aren’t the ones you want.
/r/seduction21/08/25 03:27 AM
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As someone in their late 20s, would you mind elaborating on some of these changes? I think I roughly know what sort of stuff you're talking about, but keen for your perspective.
/r/seduction13/08/25 04:23 AM
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Sure, how they perceive you comes from your behaviour, and your behaviour comes from your head. You really don't think your mindset (frame) plays any role in the success of a date?
/r/seduction11/08/25 04:59 PM
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It's about how you feel within yourself, and being clear and confident in your intentions. These behaviours are very different and in my experience, women definitely notice the difference. It's not about them being psychic, but about how they feel around you.
/r/seduction11/08/25 04:05 PM
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nice and confident You can just say sleazy. I don't think that's what they meant. Why do you think that being nice and confident implies being sleazy? nice and confident To me, this means being sure of yourself and able to be assertive and standup for yourself if required, but choose to be kind. This is definitely a different energy from someone who tries overly hard to be nice because they don't feel secure in themselves, or worse, someone who is nice because they think if they act that way the…
/r/seduction11/08/25 03:01 PM
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Honestly I felt emasculated. I felt like the gay best friend you bring to girls night out. Your problem was your mindset. I've been in this situation before and think "how awesome is it to be out surrounded by all these beautiful and interesting women". Talk to them and take an interest. They will appreciate the effort and generally are extra nice because they understand it's scary being the only one of your gender there. I wouldn't go into a situation like this trying to pick anyone up, just be…
/r/seduction22/07/25 06:17 AM
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I know, this is hilarious. "Best to avoid girls who add you on instagram when they want to get to know you better". Like what??
/r/seduction02/06/25 03:53 AM
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I said how you make her feel. That's not really about her, it's about you and how you behave. I would recommend stopping trying to make women feel "perfect and amazing", and focus on being an authentic version of yourself that women want to be around.
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:06 PM
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I kinda was after I moved to a new city last year and have a gf now. I'm in my late 20s though, it took me a while to figure this out and I did pretty badly with very limited success for a good while.. The most important thing is how you make her feel, and being bitter and blaming women won't make her feel good.
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:49 PM
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Haha yeah, I mean you sound super bitter in these comments.. I feel like it would be intense catching up with you at a bar or something. You're welcome to ignore my comment, keep blaming women, and keep being unsuccessful if you like.
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:36 PM
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It's not a list of requirements that you can tick of and then women will like you... you have to still be likeable.
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:28 PM
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You're approaching women which is the hardest part. Basic advice is that I wouldn't compliment women you approach on their body. Women tend to like being complimented for things they've chosen that reflect their personality, which is why she responded positively to your first shirt compliment. Another thing- gyms tend to be not great places to approach- some women might be open but most probably just want to workout. Also, don't feel like you have be like "subtly sexual" to flirt. I feel like th…
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:17 AM
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At 31 you can just be direct. Ask them out, ask them if you can kiss them, ask them if they want to come back to yours. You honestly don’t need to be smooth, if you talk to women, maintain basics of hygiene, etc and be direct in your intentions, you’ll be surprised what happens..
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:52 PM
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I thought I'd expand on this and give you a more in depth response, because you sound pretty clueless OP. Here's the deal, people don't become "exclusive with FWB" unless they're wanting something more with that person. She obviously likes you quite a bit, evidenced by her being "awesome, fun and even buying you gifts" and it sounds like you like her a lot too, based on "I would be happy in all departments with her, if there were a slightly higher frequency of sex". It sounds like she likes you …
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:05 AM
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Yeah, you're in the early stages of a relationship (less obligations) and being kinda bad at it. Sounds like a great girl you're about to lose.
/r/seduction14/04/25 10:15 AM
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I mean, yeah. Having a job, being healthy and clean and fun to be around should be basic things most people want to do anyway. And why would you expect a woman to be attracted to you if you can’t even do the basics?
/r/seduction14/12/24 02:02 AM
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I was going to offer advice along the lines of- don’t focus on texting, just use it to set up dates, but I see you’re asking about that specifically. My advice is, be fun and flirty, not super sexual but reasonably clear with your intentions, have one interaction (conversation or just brief exchange) and then ask her out pretty quickly. Ask her to a specific activity on a certain day in a public place (usually for dates this is a good rule, hookups obviously sometimes meet at house). If she decl…
/r/seduction10/12/24 07:59 AM
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This shit is so stupid. Just talk to people and ask them out if you like them.
/r/seduction05/12/24 11:18 AM
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Working out while stoned is one of life’s great pleasures. Highly recommend trying it out.
/r/seduction04/12/24 09:47 PM
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I think this is probably something that would be helpful to talk about with a therapist (I’m not attacking you, this is just the sort of stuff they understand). It definitely sounds like an anxiety thing to me about closing. Maybe simply getting out more, getting more experience, etc would be helpful. Why have you had issues closing previously? Maybe reflecting on that and figuring out what you can do differently would help.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:00 AM
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Bro just ask her if you can kiss her. She’s down and will be happy. You honestly don’t even need to be smooth here, just ask and then do it when she says yes.
/r/seduction28/11/24 08:20 PM
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It’s a shit test, respond accordingly.
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:54 PM
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It’s a game. You’re trying to hurt her feelings because she hurt yours. Tell yourself what you like.
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:15 AM
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This is honestly the best line. So many first kisses after it. Literally never had someone I've been on a date with say no.
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:21 AM
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Straight up, OP. This is by far the best advice for you. Just be honest about your intentions. Long term for self confidence read models, gym, maybe therapy. But this girl clearly likes you. Just hold her hand watching a movie, or ask if you can kiss her. I can all but guarantee she'll respond positively. Don't worry about how things progress or try set any expectations of what you want to happen. It'll happen naturally, might take a few tries, etc, don't worry about it and have fun.
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:17 AM
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a) you said “save your life”, not looking good won’t cause you to die, being obese will. b) your perception of “good shape” is subjective. c) Plenty of ways to develop muscle without the gym. See parkour, climbers, callisthenics, gymnastics, etc etc.
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:50 AM
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Not everyone who doesn’t go to the gym is obese and on the verge of death, mate. Plenty of ways to exercise and be healthy.
/r/seduction15/07/24 10:50 PM
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Why is the full time job a factor? Lots of guys have jobs and girlfriends.. I don't think the premature ejaculation should stop you either tbh. Use your fingers and mouth.
/r/seduction30/06/24 08:10 AM
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Are they all aware of each other?
/r/seduction30/06/24 08:05 AM
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Yeah this kind of dinner date job interview is fine if you’re looking to settle down, get married, have kids, etc. Then you don’t want to waste your time with someone not right. If you just want to have fun and get laid like OP, they’re a terrible idea.
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:31 AM
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Maybe stop treating her like that then? If she treats you poorly and without respect, why on earth would you even want to be with her?
/r/seduction05/06/24 07:46 AM
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Mate you wrote a wall of paragraphs about this and it’s clearly been on your mind. No shade at al, but it does seem like you’re insecure about it. Which is fine. But admitting to yourself that you are is the first step to becoming more secure. Being secure in yourself = game.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:56 PM
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Basically no woman wants you to thrust into her for hours. That would be painful for most women. Go down on her, bit of fingering and make her cum. Then fuck her until you cum. Pretty straightforward.
/r/seduction14/04/24 02:24 AM
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Yes, it's obviously because people are more comfortable exploring and being open about their sexualities now. It's literally meaningless that the percentage of gayness in the population grew more than left handedness. What makes you think they would grow the same amount? How do you know that 30% of the population wasn't always gay? Even 10 years ago, it was hard for kids to come out. It's a much more accepting world now, it doesn't surprise me at all that the number of openly gay people has grow…
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:52 AM
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hahaha part of the global conspiracy to turn people gay 😂
/r/seduction15/02/24 03:25 AM
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Maybe take a little time to reflect on your own hypocrisy rather than getting butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:03 AM
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Choose better Lol, you're such a moron. Imagine saying this after making a whole post complaining about the women you date. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:34 AM
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HipHop and rap from the mid 80s to today is 99% about bitches, hoes, fat assess, wet pussy, and caters to strip club airplay. Just want to jump in here to defend hip hop. Yes, a lot of this stuff exists (and probably is the mainstream), but hip hop is a massive genre and there's a huge amount of beautiful self expression in it which has nothing to do with these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:51 AM
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Your penis
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:26 AM
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