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Personally, I'd want time manipulation and/or reality warping. At that point, I'd be pretty much omnipotent, and "getting a date" wouldn't be a big problem anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:56 AM
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I must be really fooled then. I love doing it, and (most) women I do it with love it, and want more of it.
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:45 AM
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The most true thing Mystery ever said was that "the game is played in comfort". These are prime examples of it.
/r/seduction24/01/26 08:53 PM
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As an older man, you are expected to have your sh*t together more. Women are no longer deciding on your potential...they are deciding on your results. Sadly, though, with average Gen Z and Gen Alpha guys...uh, let's just say...having less potential, it really isn't that hard to stand out.
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:56 AM
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reddit itself, in general, is a very left-leaning platform. I don't think it should be used as a real-world gauge, as it will tend to promote success stories for those who embrace those ideologies. With that said, seen guys of all political stripes struggle with women...and guys of all political stripes who have success with women.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:52 PM
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Set the bar low. Do networking/social meetup events, if cold approach is too much. Forget about "game"...just get yourself out there...even if you have to have a few drinks to relax. Consider these first few times out as knocking off the social rust, if you were in a social cocoon with your ex. If you have some female friends, let them know you are looking to go on a few dates. Hell, one of them may even step up to try to take you off the market...or give you some "practice". ;-) As for rejectio…
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:22 AM
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Sadly, I don't think Dr. Paul sells that "Get Your Send On!" ebook product anymore. Maybe it is available "elsewhere".
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:19 PM
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Dr. Paul Dobransky used to call this concept "sending". It's a great, subtle way to infuse normal communication, or even silence, with something extra to influence things.
/r/seduction08/07/25 09:29 PM
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Used to try to be witty in response to tests, as a younger man. Now, I just ignore tests...because in my experience, if your humor doesn't land, it's just an unforced error...unless they are testing whether I am normal and safe to be alone with. That is the only test you really have to pass.
/r/seduction22/06/25 09:11 PM
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What does he have over JAL? Haven't checked him out in a minute, so maybe his game has evolved?
/r/seduction21/05/25 09:19 PM
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Wow. Some people don't like to be in committed relationships (for whatever reason). OP asked about going from "0 to fucking multiple women often". Answer was how to get to that point, not to get into a monogamous relationship.
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah, the ultimate identity shifting happens when you are balls-deep in a woman you find attractive...and having that experience repeatedly with other attractive women. It's no longer about "getting lucky". It's about becoming and then being the man women want sexually/romantically, over time.
/r/seduction20/05/25 11:52 AM
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A general gameplan to go from A to Z (from getting leads to closing)...and are you willing to hear "no", not get butthurt over it, truly listen, and have an idea beforehand on how to respond, once you understand what the real objection is? The bar is SO low out there, right now, any average guy (let alone a "pretty good looking guy" who gets stares) who can keep things progressing towards what he wants is going to have a way better sex life than most. John Anthony Lifestyle's material is the clo…
/r/seduction20/05/25 11:48 AM
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Hate to say it, but I unintentionally lost a lot (but not all) of my sexual shame by accident. Having a female friend who'd always grope my dick when she was drunk (yeah, I probably could have slept with her, but she passed away a while back), being so stressed out that I just blurted out to a FWB at the time I just needed to get laid, instead of doing the same pretense of asking how her day was, etc...and finding she was very keen to the idea, suggesting 15 minutes into dates to go back to my p…
/r/seduction13/05/25 02:03 PM
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Can't replicate vibe in text. Vibe is way more powerful than any "lines" of text. Have attractive profile/ad post, and get, at least, on to phone, if not in-person ASAP. Less words, more "interaction". IYKYK. IME, push/pull can backfire immensely, if you aren't calibrated to use it properly and/or your "dance partner" is a bit sensitive and sees it as an attack and not as playful teasing.
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:50 PM
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Do you really want commitment...or do you just want to be liked (and respected) for more than just sex? Those are two different things, IME...and one or both can be true at the same time.
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:30 AM
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...yeah, but, still, more than a few people don't utilize it.
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:53 PM
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LOL. Seriously. When the hardcore old-school cold-approacher is telling you there is a better way, and you don't listen...you do you, though.
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:50 PM
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Why not do each at the appropriate times? I'm the guy who was cold-approaching women 20+ years ago at the bar, club, and street, and can appreciate that still...but to not recognize the power of social media in 2024 is pretty damn ignorant.
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:33 PM
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Only thing that ever worked for me is, "hi, can I meet you real quick". Props to John Anthony for drilling that one home. Any time I tried using any other type of indirect opener, like a compliment, it would get thanked, as she would keep on walking because it doesn't break their "trance" of going about their day-to-day business. Not to say the "I want to meet you" one doesn't fail, but it will at least make the woman stop, if she is going somewhere...and she is interested in you...or at least y…
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:03 PM
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Not sure why you were downvoted, but that is a great response.
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:57 PM
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Governments need more populace. Sperm donation will become even more widely accepted until male gametes (sperm) can be synthesized. We could go our own way, but the governments will "find a solution to the crisis" anyways.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 12:52 AM
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If he goes and does something "desperate" to the "mother"...not going to lie, I will totally understand. Think what this kid has undergone (and is still about to undergo) is tantamount to sexual abuse. If the kid wants to transition at 18, I understand and respect that.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:55 AM
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This. The best revenge Depp could ever serve would be to make more box office blockbusters, while her name fades into anonymity.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:55 AM
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You need to get your legal guardians (parents, etc.) involved now, if they don't know about this. Then, hopefully, they will be in touch with legal counsel for next steps.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 08:15 AM
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As you found out, on your own, at some point, you have to stop being the student, take what you have learned, and become your own master through experience, melding what you have learned and experienced into your own way of doing things.
/r/seduction15/10/22 03:23 AM
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The person has (perceived) better options than you. Move on.
/r/seduction15/10/22 03:17 AM
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I'd try to think "she meant well", and have a little giggle when she wasn't around.
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:33 PM
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You need to lower expectations, and be okay with "crawling", where you imagine seeing others "flying" (and I assure you, more than a few of the guys talking with the women are just going to talk with them...and that's it). Say hi and see who you "vibe" with. That should be the only aim to have right now.
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:24 AM
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Actually, yeah, doing all that touching stuff, in a public place...it may backfire a bit, as she may not want to be seen being "seduced" by others (exception being in a dark, loud night venue, where everyone is drinking and inhibitions may be lowered). That's where the softer-voice verbal flirting comes in...any excuse for you two to be slightly closer than platonic, while you both build comfort with each other. But, yeah, the excuse to go back to one's place is usually the pivotal moment where …
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:02 AM
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There are WAY more many things a guy can do to screw up getting into bed with a woman, than proactive, positive things a guy can do to ensure he gets into bed with a woman.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:35 AM
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Interesting blog. Curious to see how it evolves.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:39 AM
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"She Hulk" is Marvel/Disney, not Warner Bros/DC. Marvel/Disney aren't going away from "wokeism" anytime soon.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 06:42 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, Warner Bros Discovery have basically made the edict that they have to get away from the "wokeism" in their DC content, and get back to more "mainstream" themes. Even if they don't pivot to a more mainstream view, think of all the time you will have back to pursue other ventures, by not giving them (or Disney) any more money.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 05:52 AM
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Most any woman you "cold" approach, as a man, will assume you are attracted to them. If she is truly trying to avoid you on the outset, and you just aren't imagining it, it's because she is either not available, in fear for her safety, or just not attracted to you...and just doesn't want to "deal with you" in any case. If you have a close friend, especially if she is a woman, ask your friend to be brutally honest with you, as to how you come off to others. If you are socially awkward or creepy, …
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:34 AM
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Attractive women will always have multiple options they can exercise at choice. A lot of times, if they find the person(s) they are looking for, they close up shop until they are on the market again (if ever). Ghosting is usually rude, but the quicker you can let go of the resentment, the faster your positive energy will be able to be used with the next ladies that come into your life. Every romantic relationship you ever have will end at some point, unless/until you find the person who would ho…
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:16 AM
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Material makes somewhat of a difference, but the best feeling (and safest) condoms are the ones that fit you properly.
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:01 AM
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Oh yeah, that's right, Australia...a country that lately has demonstrated respect for human rights. /s
/r/MensRights11/04/22 08:25 PM
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I do, actually. You give too much power to Ms. Dixon. The article stated this man had mental health issues before his relationship to Ms. Dixon.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 07:09 AM
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So? It made her a horrible person. He still didn't have to kill himself.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 05:55 AM
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Yes, but we don't have to act on them. I hope bad karma haunts Ms. Dixon for the rest of her life...but I'm not willing to destroy the concept of personal responsibility over this.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:51 AM
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As an adult, you have a right to kill yourself. I wouldn't recommend it, and, obviously, Ms. Dixon is a piece of trash for actively suggesting it...but if we start convicting people for just suggesting a bad idea, it further infantilizes adults and doesn't recognize their agency and responsibility. The guy killed himself.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:22 AM
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Quality potential partners of all genders usually have multiple suitors until they are in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:30 AM
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He's not worth saving. Plenty of other men, in everyday life, worth saving over him. Even their kids know how screwed up the both of them are.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 01:29 PM
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First, you are going to have to come to peace with the fact that there may be no "justice" for any of this, and you will probably not be the one to "teach her a lesson", as well. It sounds like you had really shitty "friends", who either believed a third-party "account" of the events (over knowing you and your character personally), or needed to verify your account of events before trusting what you said. Unless I knew my friend had lied about something like that before (friends are still fallib…
/r/MensRights08/04/22 01:19 PM
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Absolutely. Given the horrific way Till died, if she was involved in any way, she has to be charged with the appropriate crime...even if it isn't directly "murder".
/r/MensRights13/03/22 01:24 AM
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I can get into a fight with someone, I knock them down, they hit their head on the ground, and they die. I didn't intend for the person to die, but they did. I should be charged with being responsible for their death. In the United States, IIRC, it is a form of homicide, but not murder.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 01:24 AM
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Agree with this list, save the fragrances. I have had a couple of women I dated who were extremely sensitive to scents. Even a very light application of a cologne caused noticeable discomfort for them. Think at a party or a club/venue, you can get away with more of an application of a scent, than in an initial 1-on-1 interaction, as there is more wafting around in the area of a crowd, and you can be an oasis in a sea of stink. Style is subjective, but hygiene isn't. We all know it, when we exper…
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:11 PM
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I'd rather this info be available to them (and explicitly laid out), than not, though. Obviously, if this is something they need to learn, there are probably other big blind spots in their lives (outside of getting intimate) they need to address, as well, and are well outside the scope of this subreddit.
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:06 PM
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Well, yeah, it doesn't sound that way either...but that doesn't change the fact that most women talent have a way shorter shelf life than a male talent who can keep wood on a shoot.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:32 AM
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Seems like that shelf life is for the female talent. There's a reason why a good "woodsman" can stick around for 2 decades or more.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:17 AM
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Absolutely. Wouldn't trade it for anything!
/r/MensRights25/12/21 09:48 AM
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Some people (not just guys, but women, too) are very willing to submissive to their romantic partners, even when they are the boss in other areas of their lives. You have to take any piece of advice with context. Obviously, this advice would have little to no resonance or value with this audience.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 03:15 PM
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While I don't agree with a lot of The Mystery Method, one thing Mystery did get right was saying that the game is played in "comfort" (a.k.a. trust). While you may get that "5 minute pull" once in a blue moon, most women do need to know they will not regret their decision to let you get intimate with them.
/r/seduction19/11/21 10:26 PM
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I'm all for the development of male contraception like Coso, Vasagel, etc...but it always seems like the funding for these projects always seem to stall right at the point of serious clinical trials.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 05:12 PM
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Yep. When they did that here in the States, I was one of the first in line to get the three-shot series for my age group. Given more middle-age people are back in the dating pool, it's probably a good idea.
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:42 AM
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How is that woman not in prison and the kid put up for adoption? Neither parent can properly care for that child.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 01:41 AM
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You live close to a downtown with a bunch of venues full your target demo. You don't have your age stamped on your forehead. Go out and take advantage of everything you have going for you.
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:12 AM
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Monika Matys, Chi Szeto (RIP)
/r/seduction21/06/21 08:59 AM
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I've been done reading books/consuming material for a while now...except for stuff that is now specifically related to modern social media and dating apps, as I was going from square one on all of that. So, for general stuff, I'm not sure, TBH.
/r/seduction13/06/21 09:43 PM
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It is way easier to assume every single "coach" trying to sell you something is fake. Then, they need to show their results. You'd be surprised how few "coaches" are legit in this industry, after using that litmus test.
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:00 AM
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A lot of the "old guard" pickup "experts" are now middle-aged men. Mark Manson hasn't been a single guy running game in quite a while. While there may be some timeless principles to all of this, you have to also account for generational changes, in how people communicate and connect, when applying something written years ago based on what worked at least a few years prior to that. I'm having my own learning curve, as a middle-aged man, understanding how to use things like IG, SC, Tinder, Bumble,…
/r/seduction02/06/21 09:06 PM
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Dior Sauvage is a more chemically, artificially smelling version of Aventus (at least to my nose), so I personally prefer Aventus (for my own sake), but both have gotten me great reactions from the ladies.
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:02 PM
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I see exactly what I just posted. Obviously, we disagree on this.
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:39 AM
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Get a fellow YouTuber at about your same sub level to cross-promote with you... https://www.youtube.com/user/itsjustdesi ...or pay models.
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:13 AM
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