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I'm not scared to call, infact I do on occasion but I just don't intentionally go for it each time. I'll try it with this girl though since you seem convinced.
/r/seduction29/06/17 07:15 PM
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Thanks for the advice but I'm assuming we're not in the same age group.
/r/seduction29/06/17 07:08 PM
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I get what you're saying.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:43 PM
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I'm not changing because my method has worked for me fine. There isn't only one way to do anything, and in my opinion I don't think your advice answers my question. Thanks for your input though. Edit: I read someone else's post and I realize I'm being a little ignorant. Maybe I'll give it a try and see what happens.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:41 PM
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I get the logic behind this, but I don't follow it. People have jobs and things to do that it doesn't make sense to just "guess" a time when they're free. And if she suggests another time and I'm not free then, we could go back and forth for hours guesing. It's just easier to ask when she's free imo. Both go to the same conclusion though.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:33 PM
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Alright. We had a decent conversation going the whole time. She's cute but kinda boring tbh. And she was on her phone a lot which is a red flag for me.
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:16 AM
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Turns out she didn't flake and we ended up meeting. Thanks anyway lol
/r/seduction15/06/17 02:42 AM
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No problem. So I've been talking to 2 different girls...the first one I had a date with today but I'm pretty sure she's flaking and/or going ghost. I sorta followed your advice before you gave it to me by continuing the conversation after getting her number, but we didnt have a very long one because she took awhile to reply (it was maybe 12 messages long). Last night she tells me "I have to see if I have work because my mother is my manager, so I might have to cancel, etc)" So I was pretty certa…
/r/seduction14/06/17 07:49 PM
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I get what you're saying. I just figured (at first) it was pointless to try to make any more conversation when we already had a date set up. Thanks for your advice, I'll try it.
/r/seduction14/06/17 02:22 PM
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Depends on the girl. Often they'll try to make some kind of conversation afterwards so I'll entertain it until it fades out, but I don't usually initiate any conversation until the day before the date (when I text them to confirm). Average elapsed time frame would be about 3 days to around a week.
/r/seduction14/06/17 03:41 AM
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I feel you. She did reach out to me though so I could just be dry with my response and see if she still tries to initiate a conversation. If not I'll just move on
/r/seduction02/05/17 06:38 PM
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Alright so she flaked last second. She had a weird excuse but I told her it's alright because I was also doing something right before the date (which is the truth). So after I sent that message, she opened it and didn't reply. I just woke up and see that she replied to the text I sent her like 4 days ago (everything else was on snapchat and I texted her once but she never replied until now). She said "it's crazy how I didn't even see this." Low hopes right now but how should I respond?
/r/seduction02/05/17 01:06 PM
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So I sent her a snap using your advice and she agreed to the time and place of the date. Thanks fam!!
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:25 PM
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Alright that's solid advice, thanks. So I was thinking about sending her a snap with a joke based on our first interaction, then when she replies saying what you said about being specific with plans. Only thing is, I'd have to ignore the fact that she didnt reply to my text but I guess its better then asking why she never replied.
/r/seduction28/04/17 08:49 PM
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(Paraphrased from memory because of snapchat) this one of the girls above girl: why'd you screenshot me? lol (she took a video of me while at work so I took a screenshot, put it on my story and made a joke saying I didn't have a clue who this girl was) me: is there a problem? girl: I look horrible in that picture lol me: Oh really? i thought you looked cute (forgot how I said it but I made it seem like it could be a joke, she's barely even in the snap) her: noooo lol. this is how I usually look:…
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:56 PM
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You're right, this could be the case too. I got at least 2 dates this year so that's something I guess. I'm just trying to figure out if there's something I'm doing that causes my flake rate to be high, unless it's just chance or it's always been like this and I never noticed/cared.
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:40 PM
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I mean they're my friends so obviously they don't mind being around me. I somewhat understand what you're trying to say though.
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:37 PM
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I'm pretty sure that isn't the case. I'm extremely straightforward more or less and don't respond if they don't.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:45 AM
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I sometimes hang out with female friends and they haven't said anything so who knows.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:36 AM
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I don't understand how you can be on this sub and be this wrong.
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:42 AM
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Then explain how "ugly" and short people exist since clearly they should be unable to reproduce by your logic.
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:07 AM
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Humor is a sign of good genes? Lol I'm going to need a source on that one.
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:06 AM
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Just use your sense of humor.
/r/seduction28/02/17 12:20 PM
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Looks are secondary to personality when you're male. You can pull if you're slim without a doubt (still more attractive than being overweight). I used to be underweight and still pulled girls because I had confidence and decent enough social skills. Nothing wrong with glasses either, I've never in my life heard of a woman saying glasses turned her off, so as long as OP has a fashionable pair he should be good. I'm not saying going to the gym, getting contacts, dressing better, etc won't help you…
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:40 AM
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Pretty sure you completely missed the point of my post. She already wants to have sex with me, I just need to keep her on ice until then.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:22 PM
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Good advice fam, thank you. I actually was sexting with her yesterday but it got off topic and thats when I eventually didn't reply. I didn't contact her today, but I think I might tomorrow.
/r/seduction29/11/16 12:15 AM
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Sorry for the late reply, but you should try to find a psychologist/therapist because that's what helped me the most. I was on prozac for a few months and while it worked for its intended purpose, didn't like it. It literally does nothing but cover up any problems you have on top of that. Just my experince though.
/r/seduction23/10/16 05:03 AM
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Work on yourself before approaching again, to start off.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:49 AM
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Do you talk to your psychiatrist or does he or she just prescribe your medicine? Based on your post it seems whatever happened in middle school seems to really have affected you if after all of those years you're still thinking about it. I got bullied a little bit in middle school but mostly high school, and I saw a therapist every week a year after I graduated and it really helped me a lot. I had 0 game and 0 success with females in general until I started going to therapy. You have to fix inte…
/r/seduction17/10/16 11:25 PM
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Not great advice imo. There's a million other factors to account for before attractiveness...not say it isn't a factor or shouldn't be improved.
/r/seduction15/10/16 05:50 PM
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Seriously what difference does it make? I've approached in person more than I've met girls on from it and still and had better luck from the app.
/r/seduction12/09/16 09:40 AM
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It doesn't work because you're doing what every other guy does on instagram, and tbh it's kinda cringey and a weak move. Your friend's success just seems like luck. Personally I'm not huge on social media game but instead of commenting a compliment, I would just go straight for the DM's and open with something stronger and less generic then "beautiful". If you both go to the same school your best move would be to approach her in person. Good luck.
/r/seduction10/08/16 05:41 PM
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To approach in class there's a bunch of different things you can try. Sitting next to a girl on the first day, going up to her before/after class. Honestly it should be easy to start a conversation, just ask her or make a comment about the class. In general common interest = easy opener. I don't see why your race has anything to do with your ability to talk to girls. Where I live a lot of the indians don't really integrate with other ethnicities so they often come off as shy, but I have met a co…
/r/seduction05/07/16 02:24 AM
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If I read this correctly this is your half sister?
/r/seduction23/06/16 07:49 PM
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I did and 100% recommend it. You'd be surprised how much it can help if you have some deep-rooted issues that need to be sorted out. I went and after about a year it changed me a lot for the better. It really works for inner-game. But obviously this all depends on who you go to and what you have to deal with so results may vary.
/r/seduction08/12/15 01:39 AM
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It just "seems" easier to do stuff online, but from my experience in person is better. I couldn't deal with all of the flakiness online which is what inspired me to approach in person instead. Not to say you can't just try everything.
/r/seduction31/10/15 04:45 AM
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