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| 66 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence. | CMV | toxicboy4lyf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 29 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their level | CMV | toxicboy4lyf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them fown to their level | Discussion | toxicboy4lyf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:32 AM |
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| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelOokay.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelSince when does not being a simp = butch 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelOokay 😆🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?Lol thats the biggest bs i ever heard 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you okay with your female SO regularly watching porn?I couldnt care less 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:04 AM |
| 2 | I don’t get mad at woman for their nature. Men should understand the rules of the game and play to win.Thats why i like to have more than 1 woman at a time. Even if 1 goes i still have others 😆. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?That was also from a time after monogamy was no longer an institution. Im talking about pre- sexual revolution monogamy. Where people married for life and divorces were rare. If we go further back , marriages were arranged. Then there really was no competition as you just get married to someone in your social class, ehich would be decided by the 2 families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI don't need to learn things from emotionally abusive men. But you can. They are far better with women than simps. I already know how to maintain a long-term relationship. Too soon to say, especially if you simp. At least simps sometimes know how to respect women. Lol 🤣🤣. Women like men who they percieve to be "above" them. Simping makes sure that that isnt the case. Thats why simps get dumped or cheated on. The problem with simps is that they dont know what is attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelTrying to pretend as if simps turn women on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 10:13 AM |
| 7 | How did the genders get to this point?Once the concept of monogamy went away it became a competition. What is unexpected honestly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelAny guy will do better if he doesnt simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelRelationship: if you do things for her when she doesnt do the same thats simping. Lets say you always buy chocolates or flowers for her but she never does something like that, its simping. I was with a girl for a while and i knew she liked a certain type of chocolate, so i would buy it before i went to her place. She would do the same for me. Which was unnecessary because i didnt like that chocolate. She could have gotten me something else that i liked , but thats irrelevant. Point is she would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelYup, agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelLets stick to actual definitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelGood point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelLol nice try 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelLol nice attempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelBut not everyone is like that, and some people are very generous with compliments and lifting others up. I have no problem with compliments. My issue is when people make underhanded disses disguised as compliments. I feel lucky to have my husband, and lucky to have my job, my parents, my friends. Thats great, but how would you feel if a coworker told you you are lucky to have this job. What if your boss said that, Now , it becomes different, right? Its not bad to say that to a partner. But a thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelExactly. I dont think most simps are mentally unwell, i just think they are desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelNope that is a wrong line of thinking. There are times when you dont need to care. For example if people just comment on your social media, or write stupid messages. In those cases you are untouchable so there is no need to engage and waste your time. Or if someone just walks by and makes a stupid comment, you dont really have to address it. Its why celebs dont care about regular folks who have beef with them. Because they are (almost) untouchable. But when someone says or does something to you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelThis might be news to some but men =/= women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelNah man. Simping is not just complimenting. Simping is going out of your way to make a woman seem above you. Compliments are just compliments. And simping WILL backfire on you in the longterm. But I also don't think that it is a good dynamic when a woman wants to simp for a man and the man treats that woman poorly. Thats actually a better dynamic than simping. Simps get dumped, those guys dont get dumped. This is why its important to understand the psychology of women, you guys clearly dont get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelYou are really letting your insecurities overcomplicate things here I think; Nope, i dont have insecurities like that. I am just well aware of sneak disses. Its not a compliment. Trust me. if another guy is saying you are lucky to have your amazing, beautiful gf then why do you assume he’s insulting you? Because he is. No doubt about it. If she is there he is also lowkey hitting on her. That might fly with some of the softer folks here but im anything but soft. Lol i had plenty of friends and wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelSure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why?In two words: double standards. Irl though, i have found that not THAT many women use sex toys. Its not as common as some of you may think. So if thats a dealbreaker for you, its not hard to find a woman who doesnt have/use toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 5 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelBeing with a man who doesn't adore me and doesn't show me how special and important I am would make me miserable. You can do that without putting the woman on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:00 PM |
| -4 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelUgh 🙄.. Nobody is talking about being interchangable. You are hearing what you want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI would think MOST guys would feel lucky to be dating a hot girl, No. Thats how you lose her. Why would you feel lucky? You have her, you are with her, so you deserve her. Simple. But idgaf what guys think about their gf, the only time i will make fun of a guy is if he turns that on me. If he says that I am lucky to be with a girl, yeah thats just asking for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelGood that it works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelEveryone does it even old people. I guess sensitive people dont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelOkay. in what context do you want it? Like a relationship, or how they view women in general, or something else specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelYeah none of my friends waste their time like that. Im not going to a strip club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelWhy do you mock people all the time? Because its funny. I dont mock people for no reason, i do it to people who go out of their way to embarrass themselves. Girls find it funny because they think the same. Is it hard to inagine that when you are out with someone and someone does something hillariously stupid its funny to the both of you? People do it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:45 AM |
| 15 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelThe first one is simping, second is not. Simping is when you treat a girl as if she is in a class above you. Being polite is not simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelThere is a difference there. If you saw comments like " you are a goddess, your ass is out of this world..." on a female friends instagram , you dont find it hillarious? I laugh about such shit with my guys too. When people act out of character like that its funny. Its just that women normally dont embarrass themselves like this as much as guys do. But there are women thirsting on certain insta pages too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI guess you could convince them if the girls themselves told them that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:29 AM |
| -2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI am most definitely not a bootlicker. That doesnt make me a pick me, lol. Everyone makes fun of weirdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI dont have the authority to do that 🤣🤣🤣. But seriously though. These guys could be more self aware and just use that to look better. If so many guys are struggling, its easy to differentiate yourself and become successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelGood point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:13 AM |
| -1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelYou will have a different opinion when you are with a guy for 8 years and he constantly puts you on a pedestal. That shit will get old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelIts not "degrading" someone, its making fun of them. And when someone does something so weird and unbecoming, its deserved. Its just like how girls make fun of thirsty dudes in their dms or comments. I find it funny too. Sad for those guys, but it is funny. They do it to thenselves. I have to ask if you think it's an insult when someone comments , "damn your cats is so nice you're a lucky guy" or equivalent or is it only with women? Its not an insult if it is a cat because i bought a cat. I did … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI disagree. I was a late bloomer when it came to women, i had my first sexual experience in my early 20s. I went on a roll after, but even before i got laid i never simped. I always thought i was ridiculous and unbecoming. I think its is a mindset. If you simp out of desperation that is still weak minded. You can decide to not put yourself down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelI understand that there will be simps but my point is simping is pointless. Its not helping your chances, its hurting your chances. Its just confirming to her that she is better than you. Which means she can do better. At least if you dont simp, regardless of where you stand in the market you keep some respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelNope its not wrong. Its not a compliment, its a lowkey disrespect. And no man should encourage that nonsense. Maybe you are just not used to subliminal messaging. But to think that is a compliment is ridiculous. Its not. Idk if you made this scenario up or not but i never had that experience with women. I talk shit about these lame men and losers all the time and all the girls find it funny. A lot of the time they start with that topic too. This particular question is just an example, it didnt h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:37 AM |
| -1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelThe reverse happens much rarer though. And women seem to be very eager to quickly jump on the "pick me's"( thats what they label them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Sex too soonNo problem, yw :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Sex too soonMakes me suspect that that whole "brain maturation" line is just empty moral posturing meant to avoid addressing the actual points and resort instead to emotional appeal. Thats exactly what it is. 18 yo is the accepted age of maturity in most places. What you do after or with whom is irrelevant as long as the other person is also an adult and into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Sex too soonWell here is the thing, i think given that the guy is 42, he probably doesnt care. I dont think it is too soon. And he probably doesnt either. As for wether he will wait or not, that depends on the guy. But i would think at 42, most guys are well aware of what they want. I dont think adjusting your behaviour will have an impact on how he sees the relationship. Although for younger guys, in general it does. If you sleep with a guy early many younger guys will be less likely to consider you for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 08:58 AM |
| – | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Fair points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:36 PM |
| – | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.On the other hand, there must be some way to help children overcome this anxiety and learn emotional intelligence in school. I think in the future this might have to become a thing. Its definitely more important than some subjects that are taught..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:34 PM |
| – | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Yeah im starting to see it. Its getting really irritating. But i hope at least a few people got some motivation to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:32 PM |
| – | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.It appears you dont know how to talk to guys either😂😂. Wth was that response. Take your time to respond. Baby steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I dont see any facts, kiddo. I see a guy who cant talk to girls 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Lol typical projection from the basement dweller. Get off the internet and go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.You have no data, you have delusion. Go out and touch some grass and when someone says "hi" dont run back to your basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.The bottom line is that the media feeds one picture of sex and sexuality to people and reality is just...different You guys here know nothing about reality. Nothing. You sit at home , read stuff on the internet, never talk to girls and have no clue whats going on outside. Iver time, you become delusional. At this point redpillers and blackpillers are all the same. A bunch of men who have no idea how interactions between people work. as a man if you rack up > 5 notches a year, you're in the top 5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.You cant help someone when they have a defeatist attitude. Your answer to my question is luck. Nope, its social skills. Most of you guys are just finding any excuse instead of learning how to talk to girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.HAHAHA go back to trp. Never been a redpiller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 0 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.It would be harder but i would still pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.If you were such a slayer, you'd know that 7s and 8s are 4s and 5s without makeup Im talking actual 7s and 8s. I understand its hard to believe if you dont know how powerful game is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:06 AM |
| 3 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.We did it before it had a name. People did it. If you are so negative , clearly YOU did not do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.So they start in the shallows because they believe.. They can’t swim? They know they cant swim. They practice in the shallows so that they get better..same with everything else. Now you are just arguing semantics. Im talking about how to apply it practically. Practice however doesn’t beget belief. Yes it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:39 AM |
| 3 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Clearly you have zero experience with daygaming. No guy who picks up women has a defeatist attitude like you. Guys in tinder dont even have a chance to show their personality. Pixels cant compete with a real person right infront of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.When you do anything for the first time; do you first believe you can do it? Or is there doubt? Thats my point. No one believes that they can swim before ever doing so. So you practice. You may start shallow. Or with a trainer. And you develop belief through practice. You are only confident in something that you know you can do. And develiping that takes practice and repetition. There are no confident swimmers who never stepped into water before. There are no confident drivers who never touched … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 10:16 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.That doesnt matter. When you are out there, you have an advantage over every bloke on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Is the kindest thing for us as a society to adjust male expectations down to a realistic level regarding their romance and dating lives?Okay those guys have no escuse not to figure it out by putting 2 and 2 together. They have the rcamlle right there at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Is the kindest thing for us as a society to adjust male expectations down to a realistic level regarding their romance and dating lives?On the other hand, if he desires sex with hot women, he does have the option of paying a prostitute. He could do thay from time to time as an adult. It has a bad rep, but its a profession and it will satisfy a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Well do you just switch a button on and here comes belief? Belief comes through practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:19 AM |
| 3 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Dont play the tinder game. Play irl. Its much easier and much less competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I can see how that could be extremely discouraging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.That older guy probably had more confidence due to being more experienced. You on the other hand have an advantage over younger guys in that regard. You win some you lose some, thats why they call it the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:08 AM |
| -1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Well i dont want to be mean to my friend, but the dude is 5'6". And he is a 4/10 "at best". He bangs girls who would be considered 7s and 8s. He just has amazing game. He would lap me if we were bantering. There are examples like that everywhere i wish more guys realized its not all about looks. Its about talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Ignore OLD. Approach women in real life. I guarantee you will have better results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:59 AM |
| 0 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Leading with wealth will only get you women who come after your wealth. There are plenty of rich simps. You want women who will stick around because of you, not money. If you cant mentally stimulate a woman your wealth will not keep her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:58 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Id its a case of not liking the conversation , i would suggest to find crowds that talk about things you do find interesting. If you are just hestitant to talk i would just say practice more and try to find fun in banter/teasing. About 99: of girls enjoy light banter when done at a time they are relaxed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.if you are automatically disqualified (cut) before you even get your turn at bat due to sub-alpha looks or status, then she's never going to even evaluate your "game". Yup then you just move on to the next. I have had over 30 women and i have had probably 300 to 400 rejections. Of course not everyone will be open to you. And approach is not the only part where you can get rejected. You can get rejected at flirting, at breaking the touch barrier at escalating etc. My advice is to just enjoy all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:36 AM |
| 0 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Some very good points. Masculinity is derided to the degree that if you have a modicum of self confidence; you’re going to beat out other guys. This is so true. Maybe thats why its so easy to daygame. There is literally almost no competition. Night game at least has some competition. You wrote some things i hadnt expressed in my post but you are correct. You need to have self belief first. My point though is that you can develop that through practice. You cant develop that sitting at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Picked up girls at all those locations :). And i know im not the first or only one to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Some good points. But in my experience i dont think women watch porn as often or as much as men. And yeah it seems to affect guys more maybe because its catered to be more addictive go men. And i dont think guys dont want a romantic relationship, most do or some just want casual sex. The majority of heterosexual men do want intimacy from women. I agree with you on everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:23 AM |
| -1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Thats also true. It is a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Lol, i can imagine. Some guys here just cant accept that its not all about looks and physique. And i think there is an equal number of people who think its all about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Yeah i understand that this might be a lot harder for autistic people. I've known numerous men who are, to put it bluntly, losers. They don't have a job, spend their lives abusing alcohol and drugs, and most of the time, aren't very good looking. They have no problem finding girlfriends, even multiple women they cheat on their partner with and somehow convince her she was the one to blame. About as far from a hvm as you can get. Yeah exactly, that goes with my point. You dont have to be great. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:59 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Thank you too. Hopefully these guys will listen to your experiences too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.You dont need anyone's approval to approach girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:55 AM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.You are right. A lot of the thought process here seems to be influenced by internet circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Fair point. I cant speak much for long term monogmaous relationships, i am not doing that rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Not gonna post pics here but im tall (6'1"), average looks, average or slightly above average physique, and i wear regular clothes (t shirt or shirt and some jeans) when i go out. I keep good hygiene and a good hairstyle and trimmed beard though. When i do nightgame i will wear classier shirts and formal pants and all of my crew does the same. You have to if you wanna look nice. But tbh most of my game is just approaching girls during the day and im not dressed to impress. Its just about figurin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:28 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I literally see dudes who are both short AND ugly pull more girls than me. How else do you explain that other than social skills. I admit those guys have much better game than me to do that. Regardless of where you are right now, you can always improve your situation by improving your social skills. You guys here sometimes get women very wrong. If you are able to mentally stimulate a woman, then you can take it further in the direction you want. Learning how to do that is more important than loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I dont disagree with the second part but i cant relate to feeling haunted after getting laid. It feel great to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I dont use online dating. I can see why that can be discouraging. I do daygame for the most part sometimes nightgame with my friends. Much better results and much more fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Its only weird if you havent tried it before. Once you start doing it you realize how much better it is. You really dont have much to loose. And as you do it more often you pick up on their vibes easier. You know who wants to be left alone and who is open to talk. I can never switch to online dating. Comparatively it seems like such a hassle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 7 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Practice, my friend. Its just like learning to swim or to ride a bike. You dont need to have a very high IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 4 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I am currently not in any monogamous relationship. I am seeing 2 girls regularly. We dont do much outside of hanging out, talking, going out when we can, and having sex. If i were to judge it neutrally, both of them do a lot more for me than i do for them. You could call me overconfident, but i do feel pretty secure. If they were unsatisfied they could have left at any time. But if they do its no big deal , ill just get back in the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 0 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Fair enough, but it pays off for the ones who arent naturally like that to try more and practice. You can become better at socializing even if you are introverted. You dont have to do it as much, and stay true to your nature but still be good at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.🤣🤣🤣🤣👌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:41 PM |
| -1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.🤣🤣🤣 Yes and there are other girls. Its not like you are limited to one girl. And btw, if you really get inside a girls mind she wont leave you so easily. The problem is that a lot of guys dont really know how to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Let me help you out at a club at a bar at a party at a park at the beach at the mall at a store at work/school/college Thats just what i came up with in the moment. There are more opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Lost cause here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Lol being witty and quick witted = clown? 🤣🤣 My dude if you want to be successful and respected you do need to be witty and quick on your feet. No one allows an idiot to be at the top of anything. That doesnt make you a clown, it makes you a winner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 6 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Thats a lazy mans fantasy 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Those are valid points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 3 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Why would they not focus on who they perceive to be the most desirable men they have access to? As it happens though, given everyone is playing the same game, this has led to a lot of women seeking a very small pool of guys (generally speaking). Dude this is way overblown. You can go out and score a girl easily. You dont need to be a top guy. I mean i do it and i dont even have an income. Which is apparently the pillar of being a hvm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Even with the changes, its still easy to get girls. I have no trouble getting girls and neither do any of my friends. One thing we all have in common is that we are all good at talking to girls. Even if things are harder, its not hard enough to where you cant overcome it by learning some game and becoming smoother with your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:26 PM |
| 0 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.You're delusional. Nope, i practice what i preach. I have friends who are below average in height and looks who get more girls than me and i have a 30+ count. Its all about the tongue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:22 PM |
| 7 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.Stupid people can do this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:15 PM |
| -1 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.This has nothing to do with my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.They have enough emotional intelligence to understand each other, enough social skills to interact successfully with each other, and so on. Its very easy for men to understand each other because we are all men. Its harder to understand a woman, a child, an older person , a person from a different background, different country etc. Thats why i said men need to build up their social skills. When you talk and interact more often with more people you will learn to connect with and to understand peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.They do a lot more than just compliment her about her hotness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.You’re already saying that they are hot. Yeah, so? Im describing a person. Im tall. So? Whats the big deal? The many simps just lets them know how hot they are. No they are not. Simps make them think they are better than others or more important than others. They are not. They are only hot. That in itself means nothing. I bang hot girls all the time. I have banged even more average girls. Hot girls arent all that. The problem is that the simps make them feel as if they are a lot more than what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.I still think hot women eith many simps are the most delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.So basically they are delusional. I wouldnt say it applies to all though. We have to place some blame on the simps too. They are the ones making them delusional. There is a relationship between the number of simps and a woman's delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:16 AM |
| – | Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is.My whole identity is "toxic masculinity". And irl i have no issues with women. Yet i fit the definition perfectly. These terms are just stupid. But they are funny though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 10:00 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Well you cant say that you are definitely the best for sure but if you are very experienced (i am) you can kinda tell by the girls reaction. And if that enthusiasm matches her words. And if she had a low partner count before, you could assume that. Personally i dont really commit, so its not a big deal to me. But i dont really keep banging a girl if she isnt feeling it or if she isnt very attracted to me. Btw You do not ask your wife for a paternity test. Thats actually pretty meta advice coming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 11:35 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Dudes are just going to have to deal with it. Lol no. If i had a small dick i would only ever be with a virgin. Simple. I am fairly big but im not messing with any sizequeens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 07:53 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Being a "good sex partner" is a necessity to every man. I would never be with a woman unless i am the best she ever had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | What does 'Hypergamy' mean to you?Is that like a superwoman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 03:21 PM |
| – | Men created the issue of HeightismCap. The problems with men and women on height are completely different. With men its just a competition thing. With women its a selection thing. If you are short, you can still make male friends and be successful. Its not common for men to dismiss a guy entirely for his height. But when it comes to dating, a lot of women will do exactly that. Ask the short guys here how they feel. Ask your brother actually. Luckily my genes made me tall. I dont have to deal with that issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Left-wing Gaslighting: “Women with few if any prior partners are MORE likely to cheat than women that have sown”This really isnt new info. People knew this prior to the middle ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich.I mean if you have the option, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men enjoy being desired more?That quote sounds like some simp ish. Personally i dont stay around girls who dont show that they like me and want me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 05:49 PM |
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