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This notion is quite popular on tiktok. In one video, a creator could claim that equality between genders and generally the betterment of women's issues is a must priority. Then the next video, they would share the sentiment that men should be paying, initiating first dates etc. It's a man's job to court/Chase the woman, and when this view is challenged, they jump right into the "the patriarchy is inherently on the men's side. Women are the oppressed and men the oppressors." And it's quite popul…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/21 12:16 AM
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But they do. People literally goto the gym with other people and ask for spotters all the time. That's a completely different scenario to what I've addressed. It's irrelevant.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/21 07:38 PM
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I mean, why would you approach someone in the middle of a rep with their headphones in? People don't go to the gym for social interactions.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/21 04:55 PM
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I don't believe that at all. I've read way too many me too stories The victim position is a lot more complex than you give it credit for. It's not black and white. A victim might see all the red flags, but because of other deciding factors may choose to stay. The inconsistency in their actions and thoughts usually depends on how they got themselves in that position. Ie self esteem, financial issues, past abuse etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:18 PM
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I've observed this as well and have come to the conclusion that it has something to do with women perceiving the men as safe. Had a guy friend who had one female best friend get a lot more female friends because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:07 PM
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I can't deny that, I only care about initial reaction to someone. If I find a woman anesthetically pleasing, I am not going to analyze the why's behind my thought. The guy is average. And he will find multiple women. You just seem a little out of it, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:56 PM
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When you use your anecdotes as an objective measurement of women's behavior, then yes, it's a stupid conclusion to draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:13 PM
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No facial harmony? That's incorrect, mate. His features suit him. He does not have a weak jaw, and his cheekbones are there, just subtle. Might be the blurry photo. He will easily be able to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:02 PM
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He's average. And there's no such thing as objective 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:57 PM
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Historically, women were nothing but accessories to men. They were cared about as objects, not as a human equal. To go war over over the same women they treated poorly and considered intellectually inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:02 PM
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Anecdotes are honestly the weakest form of evidence. And to use that to support your generalized statements is even more stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:59 AM
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Besides offering some naked videos and pictures, how do these OF women pretend they care for their fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:54 AM
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In other words, mate, someone won't turn into an incel by interacting with the women here. They will turn into one with their lack of critical thinking and generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:10 PM
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Or maybe you've been paying more attention to what conforms to your beliefs? Aka confirmation bias. You're actively looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:01 PM
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And the same goes for men. It's not a US vs Them, mate. Stop writing it off as women are the issue with the world, just because you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:35 PM
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I didn't even see it until you mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:34 PM
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Right. Bs straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:34 PM
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Incels are in tight knitted groups circle jerking each other. They just have beyond awful personalities and lack critical thinking. I would go as far to say most are average or slighty under average, not deformed like they believe. It's mostly their toxic view on women that dictates their title.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:04 PM
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Most women want men that can make them feel good. From what I've observed, women are always the most attractive partner while most men are under-average and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:55 PM
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Even if she was average, she isn't his looks match. He's a very low 2. She's far out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:44 PM
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Sounds familiar. Like those arguments incels make all the time. Can't get a woman? Must be because of hypergamy and that they only want Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:39 PM
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Whatever point you tried to make failed miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:33 PM
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Op is cherry-picking answers that conform to his beliefs. To use this as a measurement of women's entitlement is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:21 PM
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Women are as induvalistic as men. And men are humans. We humans tend to let our emotions affect our arguments and actions. Let's not generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:16 PM
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Pickmes are a thing. The word has just gotten abused and lost its original meaning. A pick me is a woman saying she's not like other girls, or that she's different from others girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:11 PM
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Most emotionally healthy people would not stay with abusers. Abshive relationships are a lot more complex and can't be minimized to "women thoughtless, therefore women choose Abshive partner."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:37 PM
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Nothing indicates they dropped you because you're reserved. You might be boring, suck at conversations, simply not compatible, come off too strong. Also, it's hard to recognize toxic/abusive behavior early in a relationship. There is also a psychological reason for victims staying with abusers/ seeking them. And it's called trauma bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:31 PM
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The word toxic masculinity was created by a men's right group back in the 90s if I remember correctly, and it does mean societies expectations of men. Not that masculinity traits are inherently toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:33 PM
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That's a small sample size. Maybe that only applies to your eldest daughter and son. I could use the same argument and imply it to my narrative, that yes, men like that would indeed get laid regularly by a variety of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:08 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking. Who in their right mind would actually follow the advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:15 AM
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Whilst i do agree with your initial premises, i disagree with the amber heard situation. Sexual assault or domestic violence is not taking serious, in some cases, when the perpetrator is a woman as it is still societal issues (?) that women can not abuse a man. She does not face the same backlash (though she is still being dragged) because she's a woman, not because she's a attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:51 PM
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Where I went to had only one week of sex ed and girls and boys were separated. All I remember from that class is how my teacher firmly stated men can not be raped by woman because rape is only forceful penetration by a man.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 10:52 PM
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Good thing there is an easy option, just like ordering pizza. However, as we know, men don't want hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:46 PM
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One shouldn't feel entitled to love or sexual intimacy. Life isn't fair and equal to everyone. Some get more girls/boys, others get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:44 PM
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A) andecotal evidence. B) so woman scream it 24/7 makes it sexist but you screaming it is logical and valid?
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:55 AM
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Considering the history of women being regarded as second class citizen and treated as such through history. Plus this mindset is still evident in a lot of places.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:52 AM
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Personally, I believe it's a little of both. For one, social pressure definitely contributes to this desire; as one would be belittled or teased for being in a relationship with a man shorter than themselves by their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:08 PM
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Maybe it's the fact that they don't notice it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:26 PM
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It probably has something to do with the "mysterious" vibe. At least that's what I connect such action from women to-it's a form of fetishizing the hurt "badboy."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:12 PM
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Neither do i see how maturity correlates to her abusive tendencies. A large age gap might result in lack of experience or something along the lines of that however, certainly not a factor of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:50 AM
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I don't see the point of "shouldn't be shocked." Does that justify her actions? Why is her age relevant to her unstable self? Being twice someones age means she's more likely to be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:55 AM
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Option three. Option two and three would probably not make one happy in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:23 PM
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It's insecurity with too high expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:34 PM
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The toxic type that hides it by calling herself "crazy,". Having an attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:37 PM
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Teenagers these days. This weird culture is more evident in teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:54 PM
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That seems like a generalization. Of course relationships have ups and downs but its not a battle for power generally. That would be the definition of "toxic relationships" a few encounters with such people wouldn't necessarily mean all of it is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:39 PM
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Does anyone here pay attention to strangers to the point of judging and despising them? I am definetly not attracted to them but I don't hate nor feel disgusted by their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:32 PM
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Regardless of attractiveness, an unattractive man can approach the women in non-flirty scenerios. Though if the man approaches the woman with dating or romantic possibilities in mind, they should be more critical or understanding. I don't see a certain rule whereas it states "only attractive approach me" meaning there are as many viable scenerios where the man can approach just like an attractive male, just not as much when it comes to romance etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:21 PM
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Slut shaming is usually a woman to woman situation, not men to women in most case scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:13 AM
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That's one example out of how many? Now what about the women who look like that. The societies beauty standard can be reached by both genders, whether it's natural or through changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:04 PM
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In a relationship, both parties or at least one is rather oblivious to those kind of traits. I think after a relationship, one will realize everything wrong with said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:39 PM
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