toxsickflow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? I’m rooting for you! I’m sure one day you’ll look back on this Reddit post/thread and realize the cards weren’t completely stacked against you. You just have to stay optimistic and have good intentions. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 11:04 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Believe it or not, a lot of women are tired of dealing with conventionally attractive “chads”, for lack of a better word. Sometimes the nice guy truly does win. You don’t have to be the most conventionally attractive guy if you are truly a good person. There’s a whole niche of girls, like me, who don’t like conventionally attractive men in fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 11:03 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Like I said, that’s how I realized my bf was the one for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 11:01 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? See, you already have a leg up on most guys. Use that to your advantage. A lot of times it’s best to go into dating with the intention of finding a mutual, sincere, deep friendship. That’s usually when the best, most sincere romantic relationships evolve. A lot of girls don’t realize they are willing to be with a man until she sees how he treats women, specifically her. Which a lot of times requires her to experience a casual-setting friendship with you first. As long as she’s aware you are hopi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 11:00 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Besides, I don’t think she’s as rare as you’d think. You just have to learn to ask her the right questions. And he open with her for what you are looking for. As she should be just as open with you. There should be no shame on either sides for what kind of preferences you have, within reason of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:57 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? And so what if the type of girl you are looking for is rare? That’s what makes it special. Because then it’s a girl that is meant for you. Sure, it may be a bit of a hassle looking for her, but the goal of dating shouldn’t be to just find a woman that likes you. Because then you are willing to settle. Which is insulting on both ends. You should both actively seek each other out and pick each other. The fun of dating is being able to search for the rare “right one”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:56 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? So, the whole sex being painful with someone you aren’t aroused by is misconstrued. Yes, it’s true but not in the way you think. It’s not really based off of physical appearance. Like, guys get hard just looking at a woman and are already prepped to have sex. But, with women, it’s not like that. Girls don’t really get wet or anything like that just by looking at something or someone. More work goes into “prepping” a woman for sex. You have to do foreplay. Not to be too graphic, but you have to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:54 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? You need to remind yourself that even if you do meet a woman who tries to make you feel less than for the qualities you possess, so long as you aren’t being an asshole of course or exhibiting misogynistic tendencies, that doesn’t make you inadequate and it doesn’t make you ineligible for all women. It just means that she is not your type of woman, and you are not her type of man. When it comes to dating, you truly can’t let yourself get too easily discouraged. Most people have to go through a lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:42 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? From personal experience, most women I know think more like me. There’s too much of a stigma around what women like. But from my personal experience growing up around mostly women my whole life, being the oldest of three sisters, having two moms, as well as only having aunts and no uncles, I have a good idea on what women think like. Most women care about emotional aspects before they care about physical aspects. Plenty of girls I know are currently dating or even married to men that they initia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:36 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Take it from me, a woman- I would be flattered if a man told me I was his first, both sexually and romantically. In fact, I wish that I could say I was my current boyfriend’s first in both and that he was mine. Use that “crutch” to your advantage and cater it to the right audience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:19 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Well, essentially, when it comes to dating, you should be looking for someone who is compatible with you on more levels than one. I guarantee there is a woman out there who is willing to accept your inexperience in both areas and who will be capable of liking you just as much as you do her. Good, loving women aren’t unicorns and sure, maybe it will take you meeting a few, or maybe more than a few, to find the right one, but I assure you it’s not a lost cause. The only way it would be a lost caus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:16 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? You absolutely should tell the truth if it comes up organically of course. But, if it doesn’t get brought up, then I see no reason for you to offer the information if you aren’t comfortable. To be fair though, at some point, if the relationship were to progress to sex, I do feel it’d be best to eventually indulge your inexperience with her because most women value honesty most in a relationship. It’s more suspicious that you would hide it from her than the actual inexperience itself. There’s not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:01 PM