tpablazed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? This always worked for me in my 20's..	/r/seduction	26/05/24 01:20 AM
12	Modern women have been brainwashed by Disney movies This post gives me mad incel vibes.. You should really get out there and actually meet some women instead of basing everything off a small group of women you know on insta..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 09:29 AM
2	Dick size matters to most people, and men with small penises are better off abstaining from sex to protect themselves from being personally and socially humiliated Is anyone really with their first choice tho?? My wife wasn’t the first girl I ever went after.. so she wasn’t my first choice.. but I’m happy with her.. and I love my life with her.. She dated guys before me too.. am I supposed to spend every day of my life regretting that I didn’t end up with the first girl I ever had a crush on?? Your point is pretty ridiculous tbh..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 09:49 AM
2	Dick size matters to most people, and men with small penises are better off abstaining from sex to protect themselves from being personally and socially humiliated You need to get off reddit and actually get out there.. First of all.. 5 inches isn't particularly small.. most guys are under 5 inches.. are you trying to say that most guys should abstain from sex?? Why?? Because they are scared someone is going to make fun of their penis size?? Seriously?? You can't be that sensitive..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 09:30 AM
3	I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight. I’m 6’1 350 lbs and am married to a gorgeous woman 110 lbs 5’6”.. Matter of a fact.. I never had problems with women and have always been on the fat side. Sorry but thats a lame take you got going on there.. offensive to a large section of the population too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 07:27 PM
1	beautiful women who marry overweight men are NOT gold diggers. please stop normalizing this. Lots of beautiful women are happy with their partners and not worried about the weight My wife is georgeous.. I am 7 years older than her and have been overweight since before we met. She is the one that goes to work every day and I take care of the kids/my parents during the day. If she was with me for the money she would have left a long time ago.. so this post checks out for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 09:38 AM
2	Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex? Dude said that’s what the tread was about tho.. if you are so against talking about what this thread is about.. then yeah.. no reason to post at all. I read threads without posting all the time.. if it’s a topic I don’t want to discuss I just move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:33 PM
3	Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex? Well the op literally stated that whether or not it should be legal is what this thread is about.. you don’t want to talk about what this thread is about out.. so wtf you doing here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:29 PM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war All I have to say here is.. get outside bro.. meet some women.. you don't have to be an incel.. you can get laid I promise.. you just have to leave your mom's basement for more than a few minutes at a time. Who cares what she did in her past?? She is saying here that she is asexual now and doesn't want a man at all.. how do you translate that to she is going to settle for an incel now?? I don't get it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 10:23 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war Sorry I am calling bullshit here.. have had thousands of lap dances and there is no fucking way.. stop lying. I read people saying you got played.. but I don't believe you are that stupid.. I think you are just lying for karma.. that backfired tho eh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 10:17 AM
7	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? https://directionscu.org/2023/01/19/how-men-and-women-manage-money-differently/#:~:text=Here's%20what%20they%20found%3A&text=Overall%20spending%3A%20Single%20men%20outspent,about%2017%25%20less%20than%20men. Look.. I can do that too. Of course you can find an article to validate anything you want on the internet man.. I am telling you though.. men buy a ton of super expensive toys every year.. I agree that overall women probably spend more often.. but men buy the super high ticket items.. Don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 06:39 PM
1	Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort? Definitely don't chase girls bro.. it's one thing to plan a date and make the first move etc.. but once that shit is done.. if they don't reciprocate and start being part of your life without you having to try then it's probably time to move on. Eventually you will meet someone who does the things you are wanting these other women to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 06:28 PM
6	Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money? I seriously doubt that's an actual fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 06:16 PM
2	What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online? Yeah no thanks.. I am turning 50 this year and have a 4 year old and that's tough enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 10:50 AM
4	What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online? I mean.. I guess I cared a little.. My wife claimed that I was number 5.. I personally have a feeling it's higher.. but I understand why she would want to keep it low to me. It really doesn't matter in the long run tho. We all have our secrets.. and some of them will get taken to the grave.. that's the nature of secrets. I am one of those triple digit dudes that you mention in this post tho.. so maybe that's why I don't really give a damn about it I guess. Sex isn't about love to me.. it's just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 10:06 AM
9	What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online? Sorry but if you are 50 and looking to get married/have kids.. you are in more of a hurry than this. No one wants to be pushing 60 with a toddler in the house.. just sayin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:58 AM
4	What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online? My wife and I are 7 years apart and I seem to remember a huge post about it where I said that and people freaked the fuck out on me.. I think it really depends on who all gets involved in the thread.. there are definitely people that even think 3 or 4 years is too much on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:56 AM
1	What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online? I have never been thin.. have always been a little chubby.. Reading this sub you would think that unless you have a godly body that you will never get laid in life.. you will be what RP calls an "Incel" forever.. That just hasn't been my experience in life at all. Matter of fact.. I would say that there hasn't been a single time in my adult life where I haven't been able to have sex on a regular basis because of my looks.. it just hasn't happened. So yeah.. even being "fat" won't put you on the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 09:52 AM
2	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? You realize that more women are getting college degrees now than men right? Not saying you are wrong.. at least not from a certain cultish segment of the population.. but if you find a man who isn't part of those circles.. chances are that he isn't like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:28 AM
4	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? Yeah this is good insight.. your social circle is EVERYTHING when you are single. When I was single (I was single for 10 years) I had an incredible social circle that included the nightlife scenes in several large cities.. I was pretty much the guy that knew everyone at the rave.. or club or whatever. I have never had any of the problems that dudes on this sub are always complaining about.. I literally got laid anytime I wanted during that 10 year period. I am not rich and not some super good lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:22 AM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? You are making a ton of assumptions here.. For one thing.. women don't "lose the majority of their attractiveness" after their 20's.. at least not women who take care of themselves. My wife is 43 and has had 2 kids and is just as beautiful as she was when I met her.. I get that you probably only think women in their 20's are hot atm.. but as you age your outlook on a ton of things will change.. I know mine did. Who is "high value"?? You mention these high value men.. but that could be anyone.. d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 02:58 PM
1	Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? I never even asked.. never cared either. It would have been super hypocritical of me to ask about her count since I was fucking half the girls in the rave scene in my town while I was single.. so why draw attention to body count when I don't even know mine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:44 PM
1	Most male sexual attention is fake, performative and overblown. Toning it down would be hugely beneficial for men in dating I agree with your TLDR.. but I do think that it's good to "simp" for your partner.. just not too much.. and not too early. You should find your partner VERY attractive or it's not going to last.. I have seen it too many times.. dude gets a girl pregnant that he doesn't find all that attractive.. He marries her because it's the right (christian) thing to do.. 6 or 7 years later they are in divorce court for obvious reasons.. So yeah.. you don't want to be obsessing over a woman you just started d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:14 AM
-3	Honest conversation about the main topics of this subreddit in real-time. Seriously?? Dude.. When I was single any time a girl slept with me right away I basically considered her a fwb from there on out.. not relationship material. I didn't want to end up marrying a cheater.. and I figured the more men a woman had been with the more likely that she was a cheater.. Who knows if my logic was flawed there.. I kinda don't think so tho as now I have been married for over 20 years and we have never had infidelity problems so I am very happy that I did things the way I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 09:07 AM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? What procedures? We had a baby 3 years ago and didn’t need any fertility treatments. Matter of fact we didn’t even mean to get pregnant.. it just happened. The doctor visits I mentioned was basic pregnancy weekly appointments (over 35 goes in weekly). We might make decent money.. but our insurance is just normal state employee insurance.. it’s good insurance but nothing too great.. I would even go as far to say that most pregnant women get the same care as we did. Most over 35 anyway. Under 35 i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:00 PM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Sorry but I don’t see how that’s relevant to this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 09:28 PM
0	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? I said I was.. I am not afraid to admit it either. Literally said nothing about you being emotional lol.. I said IF you are then fuck them.. and yeah I stand by that. Man to man. And the reason everyone brings up red pill dude is because that’s who says stuff like this. And this sub is full of angry red pill dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 08:44 PM
5	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? So stories.. got it. I dated a TON of women before I settled down and I have always worn my heart on my sleeve.. never had a woman leave me over being emotional.. stop believing stories and go live life for yourself.. if you are an emotional dude.. fuck em.. be yourself.. not who Red Pill guy tells you need to be. In my experience women actually like it when their guy will break down in front of them.. it makes them feel more secure in the relationship.. like you love her enough to show her your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 07:47 PM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? I mean.. I am 46 and have a 3 year old.. so whatever dude.. I will be fine. Idk what the aggregate fertility data is telling you.. I just know that when we were doing all the pregnancy things we were nowhere near the oldest people around.. there were plenty of women at our classes and doctor visits that were older (or at least looked older) than my wife. She is 42 now so had him at 39. I get what you are saying.. that's when women are most fertile.. and science definitely proves that.. but what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:02 PM
1	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Bro.. that is some 1950's shit.. women have babies well into their 40's in 2022. I get that at 35 a pregnancy is considered "high risk" but it's very common for women to have babies well past that mark. More and more women are skipping getting married out of high school/college and are developing their careers before settling down. I know they aren't the majority or anything.. but it isn't some miniscule percentage of them either. I would say 25-30% of the women that were around the pregnancy sc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:31 PM
5	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Where do you get this?? I would say the primary demographic would be 35-50 because they make the most money and they actually vote. That is far more important when growing/stabilizing a society than whatever the college aged kids (low to mid 20's) are doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 06:12 PM
3	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? I mean.. I live in FL so maybe it's skewed here.. but I see tons of hot women every time I go to Walmart personally.. and it isn't only the people that don't have money that go there.. literally everyone goes to Walmart.. even people that are in the higher tax brackets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 06:09 PM
2	Men and women, what is your relationship with pornography? The more you ejaculate the better health your prostate will be in. There is evidence that it helps avoid prostate cancer.. and that's a pretty big killer. This is why I think porn has it's place.. for dudes that don't get a ton of sex.. porn can be lifesaving.. literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 10:28 AM
1	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? I mean.. I am married dude.. and I take that commitment very seriously.. so yeah.. I know who I will be sexually attracted to for the rest of my life.. my wife. Besides.. I said “pretty sure”.. that doesn’t equate to seeing the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:42 PM
2	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? I am pretty sure I am an absolute zero. I have never had even thoughts that would make me think I have even an inkling of homosexuality.. Men just don't turn me on at all. I think you will find that many people who were raised with a Christian.. Southern.. type upbringing will be like me because it was ingrained into our heads VERY early that Homosexuality is this disgusting thing.. For those of us who were already hetero it worked too.. We are all married with kids now.. and at least for me.. h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:23 PM
2	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. It took me over 3 years to get the sex back.. 2 years isn’t hopeless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 09:07 AM
2	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. The whole point of the conversation is usually about saving the marriage.. most of these guys aren’t looking for permission to cheat or get divorced.. they want their wives to want them sexually again.. It’s usually something that can be fixed too.. honestly most of them have had a baby recently and they just need to wait it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 07:54 PM
3	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. You say that.. go look at all the recent posts on this sub and the marriage sub where husbands come here wanting to know why their wives stopped having sex with them.. you will find pages and pages of women saying that the man needs to get over it.. it's literally a theme on these subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 07:12 PM
2	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. Great.. then don't get married.. seriously.. Or do the right thing and talk to your husband about why you don't want to do it anymore.. and open the relationship so he can start having sex with someone else. If you get married and expect your husband to never have sex with anyone else then you better make sure you have sex with him often.. you are in a "use it or lose it" situation in marriage and the people that don't take care of their partners usually end up divorced.. with the exception of l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 07:03 PM
7	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Yeah.. fuck that.. as soon as she said anything about giving me the best years of her life I would have been out. This whole "can't marry someone unless they are as successful as me" thing really fucks me up as well.. Fact of the matter here is that it's WAY more valuable to have a guy that is going to be around for the kids life than how much money they make or what their social status is. I truly fear for the younger generations right now.. the BS that you guys seem to have to put up with to f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 05:28 PM
1	The pill I take is the Empty Pill. AMA cut off the idea of relationships and focus inwards for yourself to be happy. Fuel your own passions and interests. This is honestly what everyone who isn't in a relationship and wants to be should do imo. Working on yourself is the best way to become attractive to the women you want to date/get married to.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/08/22 12:17 PM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... We had a dead bedroom period.. 3 years post baby. It was rough ngl.. but we got through it and now the sex is literally better than ever. One of the things that no one seems to realize about sex is that it gets better when you learn your partner and vice versa.. know what they need you to do for it to be incredible.. For us it wasn't a lack of attraction or anything like that.. it was something to do with my wife breastfeeding.. it made her have zero desire at all.. once she stopped her libido c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 11:25 PM
5	Women of PPD, if you had a son... I was a fuck boy for many years.. have a super high N count.. and used to think just like all you RP guys as far as sex was concerned (never had the crazy conservative views that most of you have.. but the sex stuff was me for sure). I didn't find happiness or fulfillment until I met my wife.. Matter of fact.. I would say I was pretty unhappy during the fuck boy part of my life. I avoided relationships like the plague during that time and even tho I was fucking tons of different women.. nightly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 10:11 AM
3	[question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did? Here is the real question.. why would a woman want a RP man to take them seriously to begin with?? These guys are highly misogynistic from what I have read since joining this sub (This is the only pill sub I frequent.. I am definitely NOT a RP guy).. I would think to end up with someone like this would be absolute hell.. I get that women want to get married overall.. but marrying a RP type guy should be something that you ABSOLUTELY want to avoid imo.. Even if they are a high earner/really good …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:28 AM
1	What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him? I am raising a three year old who is probably going to turn out to be autistic.. so yeah.. I have been around them. You young kids just don't understand tho.. your kids are what help you learn what's really important in life.. I had no clue until I had them. When people say that they are rewarding.. they really are.. you learn so much from them and you literally mature as they are growing up.. you become a better person because of them. I was just like you guys not all that long ago.. never real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 07:34 PM
2	Why are you here? Mostly just curious.. also I am very successful in my relationship so figure maybe I can share some knowledge here and there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:24 PM
-1	What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him? Raising kids isn't torture dude.. seriously wtf??	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 08:17 AM
2	(The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRL I responded under the wrong person.. was meant for OP I would think that by breaking my post down the way you did it would have been obvious..	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 11:50 PM
3	(The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRL I think where you are getting fucked up here is that you don’t think a woman can be prim and proper normally but then turn on sex appeal when they want to be sexy.. My wife is super beautiful.. and when she is at work or with our kids you would never know about her hottie side.. she seems like a little Suzy Q homemaker.. but when her and I get some alone time she definitely turns the sex appeal on.. It’s totally possible to be both.. matter of fact.. I have a feeling the women you are thinking d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 11:29 PM
3	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL I mean.. yeah.. I had a messed up early 20’s and was pretty indiscriminate for a while there.. I got hurt really bad so relationships were the last thing I was interested in and sex became something that I did for fun.. not love.. so mine is high.. But no one knows that unless I want them to.. you don’t have to tell your partner how many people you have been with. It’s none of their business unless you start talking about marriage.. and even then it’s a judgement call for you if you want to be h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 07:25 PM
1	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL weeding out some is better than letting everyone up your N count which is apparently important for women to keep low. Why would this matter? Nobody but you should know your N count.. it is whatever you want it to be with the partner you are with now and can be something totally different with your next partner if you want. You aren't obligated to ever tell anyone the truth about it unless you want them to know. I don't get the whole N count thing.. I don't even know what mine is tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:11 PM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards My 8th grader is still in home school from the pandemic and rarely goes anywhere.. he doesn’t have the opportunity to have sex.. if he did I would make sure he had them. Thanks for your concern tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 09:45 PM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards You would have to know my parents to understand I think.. we were very religious and the official line was not until marriage. Not saying that it was a bad thing that they gave them to me so young.. just that I was still way younger than I would think would be normal for that. My youngest is in 8th grade and I can’t imagine giving him condoms like that. He is entirely too young still. Or maybe the better word is immature.. he definitely isn’t mature enough for that yet.. he hasn’t even had a gir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 09:03 PM
2	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards In 9th grade I wasn’t even having sex at all.. I get that they wanted me to have the condoms in case something happened.. but we never even had time like that on prom night.. 9th grade prom was fully chaperoned for me.. even after we just went out to eat and that was it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 08:50 AM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards I mean.. money isn't the only thing to bring to a relationship. My wife loves the fact that I take care of our kids during the day for one thing.. she doesn't have to worry about them being at a daycare and getting abused by someone there.. I have also taught our 3 year old how to swim.. we go swimming every day for our exercise.. over the last couple weeks he has really got it and now can swim all over our pool.. it's awesome to see! When we had our second baby.. shortly after my mom had a mass…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 12:33 PM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards I mean.. my wife is the bread winner and we have been together for 23 years.. we have sex daily.. multiple times most days.. and we are very in love. People tell us it’s like we are still newlyweds. So your logic is flawed at least in this case. That being said.. I do run a small computer sales business so it isn’t like I make no money at all.. but she definitely makes more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 11:28 PM
2	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards ok so it's an option for what?? .0005% of people?? At least on a regular basis.. most men live too far away from Nevada to make that their regular thing. Not to mention.. pretty sure it's very expensive there. So we can take that .005% (not an actual stat.. just something I made up quickly.. probably way less than that) and divide that by like 1% because 99% of guys can't afford to pay $300-500 every time they get horny. Legally paying for regular sex just isn't something most guys could do even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 09:37 PM
2	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards Uh.. are you talking about paying for sex here? You do realize that people get arrested for that right?? It’s idiotic to think that they would arrest anyone over it.. but they definitely do. Anyway.. I wouldn’t say it’s an option at all..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:07 PM
6	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards Na.. she is right. There is so much pressure from society to always want sex for men.. it’s like it’s ingrained into us.. and from a very young age. I remember back when I was in Jr High School and I just wasn’t that into girls yet being pushed by.. literally everyone.. to start meeting girls and get my first girlfriend.. and then once that happened my parents literally bought me condoms for my 9th grade prom night.. we were still young too! By the time high school rolled around I felt like a to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:00 PM
3	Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond? I am a man and not ashamed when I cry..have cried in front of my wife several times before and she has never thought any less of me. Pretty sure I cried in front of other women pre marriage as well and never noticed them thinking any worse of me either. Anecdotal I know.. and I am not saying it’s complete BS or anything.. I am sure there are some women who grew up with some kind of super macho dad/brothers who thinks it’s lame for a guy to cry.. but I don’t think it’s the majority.. or even clos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 12:20 AM
1	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? Na no thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 09:26 PM
1	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? Yeah I am definitely not talking about multi millionaire type people here.. that’s literally under 1% of the population. Anyone that is still in the rat race.. making a salary or sales commission or other professional jobs.. they aren’t broke or anything.. but they aren’t looking to buy a second yacht either lol. It’s harder for people like that to do a 100% SAHM type role.. like your one friend found out the hard way it seems. That’s why I think the trend will be more stay at home’s making some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 09:19 PM
1	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? I definitely agree that there are more stay at home moms that can afford to not have to bring income in.. but I bet those are even drying up at this point. Groceries are double to triple what they were just a couple years ago and housing is through the roof in most places right now. Unless the husband is making well over what an average person with a degree makes then I don't think it's feasible with the considerable increase in costs of everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 09:02 PM
2	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? Anyone can make a living from home.. I think that is a major misconception.. I am willing to bet that most of the families that can have someone stay home with the kids will need the stay at home parent to make some cash.. the economy is just too screwed right now to make it off one salary in the majority of families.. that would be my suspicion anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 08:46 PM
4	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? I mean.. to each their own. We had our reasons for setting this up the way we did. My wife's job has our insurance coverage with it and I have always been an independent contractor who only makes money when I make the company I work for money. It's always been fine because I am a good salesman.. but it made more sense for me to work from home and her to keep her job. I don't think staying with the kids is rotting my brain.. that's for sure.. it's been a very rewarding 3 years. I have enjoyed bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 08:32 PM
11	Women who had a promiscuous past in their 20s and now are no longer that was in your 30s... are you more reserved about sex with your current partner? Why do you guys all have this in your head.. that women can be all grouped together and like or dislike the same thing?? There are women that live for sex.. and there are women that are disgusted by it.. just like there are men that swing both ways as well. People don't fall into neat groups like you obviously think they do. I have been with women that would definitely take the sex over the travel any day.. and I have been with women who don't do sex at all (not for long I admit tho). Everyone h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 07:19 PM
3	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? If that's the case.. then you are still getting off work at some point.. the parent that stays home with the kids job never ends.. it's ALWAYS there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 06:59 PM
7	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? I mean.. not sure how much I believe that.. For one thing.. if you are taking care of a toddler then your day is literally cleaning up after them over and over all day. Trust me.. I do it most days. My wife works a 10-4 job while I keep the kids and run a computer sales business out of the house.. we have a 13 year old and a toddler.. it can be rough. Our toddler might be a little crazier than most.. he literally re messes stuff up as I am cleaning it.. it's a never ending cycle. That being said…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 06:56 PM
11	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? Funny part about all this is the actual cost of childcare.. it's RIDICULOUS!! If you don't have one of you staying home while the other is working you better have a good ass job.. it's REALLY hard to afford childcare on $50k a year.. that's for sure. It costs as much as $1300 a month for one child in daycare.. if you have multiple children it can quickly cost more than your take home pay is from working a 9-5.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 06:50 PM
3	Is it reasonable for a man with an average physique to want a thin/non-fat female partner? TBH.. if I had an award I would give it to you.. this is something no one on PPD seems to understand. If you aren't attracting someone that you are good with.. then it's ok to be single. There is no need to settle for someone that you don't find attractive.. that's a big part of why the divorce rate in this country is so high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 06:42 PM
1	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." Yeah pretty much this. I think this guy has a different definition for "sell yourself" than I do.. wearing nice clothes and practicing good hygiene is just normal every day stuff.. that isn't selling yourself in my opinion. People that truly try to sell themselves are a major turn off for me.. they act like they are god's gift to men/women and always try to make themselves the center of attention.. I can't stand that and never would have allowed myself to fall for a woman that acted like that. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 10:35 AM
1	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." Lack of good relationships?? I have been in a fairy tale relationship for 23 years..	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 04:05 PM
1	Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to come I mean.. my list would be well over 100.. I had 6-7 years that I refused to be in a relationship because I got hurt by my first 3 girlfriends.. I drowned my sorrows in a river of vaginas.. I figured that was better than diving head first into a bottle or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 07:38 PM
1	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." You are making assumptions about me based on two comments.. I am 100% not the guy who bases stuff off appearances.. but I do want to be seen as hot by my SO. There has to be that initial physical attraction or what's the point?? If the woman that I am with didn't think I was super hot then I wouldn't be very secure in the relationship. I would be worried that when a better prospect presents itself then she would take a good look at it. When I settled down I made sure that we were both very physi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 03:45 PM
1	How many today would be down for a stay home dad? My wife and I basically have this arrangement now.. I mean.. it isn't like I don't bring any money at all in.. but she is the breadwinner for sure. I keep the kids.. help with homeschool for our 13 year old.. make dinner.. keep the house clean (ish) and run a small computer sales business out of my house. It has worked out well for us.. she has a good job which provides our insurance and a good base pay that pays our bills and I make our disposable income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 02:03 PM
3	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." Well no thanks anyway.. I guess I am lucky or something because I never had a problem with attracting women.. I wouldn't ever have settled for a woman that thinks I am anything less than hot as hell. I never felt like I had to sell myself to anyone.. And I damn sure am not trying to sell myself to some girl that is luke warm about me. The generation of entitlement. What generation are you calling entitled?? I have been married for 20 years.. been together for 23.. if that's entitled to you then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 01:16 PM
2	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." Lust doesn't just develop the moment you meet someone.. it can take time to go from "this person is hot and I am interested" to "omg I want to fuck this person" I was a fucking horndog when I was single.. and I still didn't just expect the women I met to want to jump into bed with me the first moment I met them.. that is something you develop over the course of the date.. sometimes it even takes a few dates.. a couple months even. Look.. I agree that if there isn't some kind of touching by the e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 11:15 AM
1	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." I don't agree with most of what you have said in this thread.. I do agree with this part tho.. don't wait on people like that.. if a relationship doesn't go the sexual route within a couple months I think it's time to move on.. My wife made me wait for right at two months.. I think it was smart of her to do that.. because it showed me that she wasn't like all the other girls.. who I usually slept with first date.. but it wasn't long enough for me to get bored and decide the relationship was neve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 11:02 AM
2	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." Sell yourself. To another person. Convince them to pick you, essentially. You shouldn't have to "sell yourself" If they aren't attracted to you without you having to do some bullshit sales tactic then the relationship won't be worth it in the long run anyway.. Like.. maybe you will still have sex.. pretty sure I have had sex without total attraction before.. but it isn't great sex.. and if you actually fall for someone who isn't completely attracted to you then you are straight up setting yourse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:55 AM
0	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." I'm not getting emotionally intimate without touching someone first.. I guess my love language is touch tho because I go nuts without it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:51 AM
1	Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow." If I would have done that I would have missed out on the best.. most intense.. longest relationship of my life.. who I am still married to and NEVER plan to not be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:47 AM
1	Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to come What a shit comment.. WTF is "loose morals" anyway?? Who decides what is loose and what isn't?? You??	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:25 AM
6	Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to come Idk.. I fucked my first ex's sister after I caught her cheating on me.. Have fucked plenty of "best friends" too.. I don't think anyone is "normal".. there is nuance to every single person out there.. they all have some kind of quality that makes them not "normal". Therefore I think there is no such thing as normal.. it's just a set of expectations that society puts on people.. it isn't real tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:21 AM
6	Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to come For real.. I lost count in my early 20's.. and no way I could tell you how I met them all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 10:15 AM
1	What do you guys think of Andrew Tate? Not a fan of this asshole.. but this is true.. I used to sell merchant services and chargebacks don't work the way described here.. there is no way to hide money from them.	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/22 09:04 AM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Ugly is an opinion man.. it isn't fact. There are girls that think balding guys are hot.. My friend from college is probably about 5'4-5'5 as well.. he didn't get laid all that much in college or anything.. but he definitely did have fun with a few cute girls.. some that even had me scratching my head.. Dude was really smart and had a good personality.. but I never thought he would get girls that I would be interested in.. He wasn't in my "league".. or so I thought.. boy was I wrong.. he was inb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 05:58 PM
3	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I know a guy that is 5'5 and his wife is pretty hot imo.. she is probably about an inch taller than him.. blonde.. normal bimbo looking girl.. someone everyone used to try to fuck in HS.. There is someone for everyone.. just because you are short might exclude you from dating some women.. but the friend I just mentioned used to sleep around as much as any of us.. I don't think his height really hampered him all that much.. always have seen him with hot girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:53 PM
2	Is it reasonable for a man with an average physique to want a thin/non-fat female partner? I mean.. I am a big guy who is married to a thin girl.. I don't think you have to be so caught up on looks.. if you find a woman attractive then date her.. if not then don't. You don't have to settle. Even if it takes you a year to attract your partner.. or 2 or 3 even.. that isn't that bad. It's better than spending 6 years going from one night stand to ONS and short BS relationships and getting hurt over and over.. trust me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:58 PM
3	The "ick" phenomenon. Na you did the right thing. I never liked messing around with married women.. I did a couple times and always came to regret it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 04:57 PM
1	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? Yeah.. maybe when I was in my 20’s.. now I would be terrified to be dating. OLD and the fact that everyone has their heads in their phones all the time has really changed things from what I have gathered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:15 PM
2	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? Whatever the reason, I think it’s time women step up and approach people they’re interested in. This is how I usually did things when I was single.. I would let women know I was interested via smiles or just overall body language.. but I didn't like rejection so I would usually let them approach me. What city I was in at the time made a huge difference for how much success I had with that strategy tho.. I lived in Chicago for a year.. and women there were very up front about whether or not they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:07 PM
7	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? If we agree some men get more attention because of their looks, you get mad at US. Not the good-looking men. Why should they get mad at good looking men?? They shouldn't be mad at anyone but themselves imo.. it isn't impossible to become a "good looking man".. it just takes dedication. Maybe they will never be the perfect looking guy that makes every woman want to chase them or anything.. that is just genetics.. but you can become an attractive partner if you work on it. There are women that fin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 11:39 AM
1	Where do we as a species go from here? That literally has nothing to do with my comment. My wife is the one who decided she wanted them.. I helped her make them because I love her.. I feel like you just made some kind of assumption about me without having ANY info on the subject.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 06:32 PM
0	“When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to be You are making tons of assumptions.. if I had to guess I would bet you are one of those virgins that you say get shit on all the time. When I was 17 I was a virgin.. Senior in HS.. I was a late bloomer for sure. The girl that took it from me knew it too.. it wasn't some thing that turned her off about me.. she enjoyed being the one that got to walk me through my first couple sexual encounters. After I graduated from HS I slept with over 100 women (got hurt by girlfriends.. so I slept around.. lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 05:46 PM
-1	Where do we as a species go from here? Ok.. well maybe you won't have them then lol.. good luck with that.. I still say it's possible that you will decide otherwise.. when you meet the perfect match many things will change.. that might be one of them. I didn't want them at all in my early 20's.. I was what many on this sub would call a Chad. I was the guy who was with a different girl most nights and definitely wasn't in a headspace to settle down at all. I wouldn't say I was a player.. because they all knew the deal.. we always had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 04:25 PM
3	Where do we as a species go from here? I didn't think I wanted kids at 25 either.. I am now 47 with 2 kids and couldn't be happier about it. Your mind might change.. might not.. I definitely don't think it's set in stone that you won't have them just because they don't sound like a good idea to you right now. If I was a betting man I would bet on you having them by the time you get to 40 tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:25 PM
1	Its harder to be attractive as a female than it is a male I mean.. the male part is unachievable if you don't have the big dick.. so I gotta say that the male one is harder. Unless you were just born hung.. you will never be able to do it.. no matter how hard you work. You can do it with money or status.. but then you aren't married because of who you are.. but what you bring to the table.. I will take my marriage over that any day.. feel for guys that have to do it either of those ways. At least boobs and butt can be a surgery.. I don't know of any su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 11:23 PM
3	How did people even meet and start dating before the existence of dating apps? It's a long story.. I was out almost every night and I was someone in the rave scene.. it equaled a ton of hookups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 07:54 PM
4	How did people even meet and start dating before the existence of dating apps? Yeah this.. I lived in Chicago for a year and hooked up with close to 60 women that year.. I met almost all of them at bars and clubs. At home (Florida) I would meet women through friends.. or at parties.. raves.. clubs etc. Met my wife through friends.. but we did first meet at a party. I think I like it alot better that way.. I wouldn't like to be in the dating scene at this point.. I don't really like the idea of putting myself out there on the sites.. think I do much better in person.. I am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 11:24 PM
1	Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman? I mean.. not a kiss.. Anything more and I would consider it cheating tho. Just to be clear here.. I am not talking about making out.. but when we used to party.. if we were rolling or something it wouldn't have been a big deal. Matter of fact.. pretty sure she has kissed girls in that situation in the past.. long time ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 09:46 PM
3	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? My wife made me wait like 2 months.. that was long enough for me not to think she was like all the other girls.. and not too long where I went for someone else imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 07:45 PM
6	Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not? Not because of any moral judgment or hang up like that, just because I think what you do is, y’know, indicative of what you want lol. And considering I want a monogamous relationship, I would be very hesitant to start one with someone who wants a lot of variety/sex with strangers. This really depends.. I had a bunch of partners because I was hurt early.. my first 3 girlfriends all cheated on me.. 2 of them REALLY bad.. so I didn't want anything to do with a relationship until I met my wife. I wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:13 PM
2	Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not? The only correct answer is that it depends on the couple.. My wife has less than 10 on her count.. I have well over 100. Doesn't matter to either of us tho. Looking at the comments here it's obvious that there are tons of couples where that does matter.. so it definitely depends on the couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:06 PM
5	The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant. Not well matched by who's standards?? You would probably think my wife and I aren't a good match.. but we have been together for 23 years.. married for 20. My wife wasn't the hottest girl I had ever met when I met her.. but she was very sweet.. we shared interests.. and she definitely had potential. I helped her with style a bit and paid for a few spa days and next thing you know she was as hot as any other girl I had ever dated. We went to my HS reunion recently and out of all the "popular" peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 08:03 PM
1	What type of girl do you guys hit on? It's not like every woman I ever met took it great or anything.. but you can tell who will respond well and who won't within like 2 minutes of meeting them.. if they aren't going to respond well then I would just skip that person. If that's what you mean by social repercussions then it's totally possible to navigate the landscape and figure out who you can do that with and who you can't.. Maybe when I say be flirtatious that means something different to you than it does to me? I don't mean being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 09:55 PM
1	What type of girl do you guys hit on? Then why even say "that's great, lucky you"? I am willing to be enlightened if there are some social repercussions that I didn't experience that people are experiencing now.. that is why I asked for examples instead of just blowing you off to begin with. Obviously I am the exact opposite of what you claim that I am here.. but hey.. you don't want to type it out.. or whatever.. so don't worry about it I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 07:52 PM
2	What type of girl do you guys hit on? Answer the question? What social repercussions do you fear?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 10:03 PM
1	What type of girl do you guys hit on? What massive social consequences?? I literally used to hit on every female I met and I never had social problems..	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 09:11 PM
2	How are people supposed to find partners? Na that's BS.. guys in their 20's should always be hitting on everyone.. even girls they don't want to sleep with.. it's good practice.. I used to do it even with older women (like my moms age at the time) who there was no way in hell we would ever have sex.. and they always loved it. When I was in my 20's I was the most flirtatious guy in the room always.. I wasn't some pretty boy that got every girl he wanted either.. but I did have ALOT of sex when I was single.. I attribute most of that succ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 07:52 PM
3	Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats) I mean.. if it’s the one it’s the one.. When I met my wife I knew she was the one very early in our relationship.. so if you feel like you have met the one then go for it! I wasn’t saying that every guy needs to take the time that I did.. but I do think that time was a good thing for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 09:05 PM
1	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship "Oh, yeah, I can see your point now. I won't have a problem with holding down a fatty in a relationship, because she will hold herself down. because of her weight. because she is fat. lol, get it?" I am on my desktop computer atm.. and it looks like the quoted joke was from you.. just so ya know. That's why I thought you were being immature.. it doesn't look like a quote on my screen. Figured you would like to know that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 08:21 PM
1	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship I am not trying to piss you off.. and if I misunderstood your joke I apologize. If that wasn't what you meant then it's just the other guy that is dealing with an immaturity problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 08:09 PM
3	When people say they're not monogamous, what do they mean? Yeah this for sure. From the time I was 19 until I was 25 I was definitely non monogamous.. I was cheated on by all of my early girlfriends.. literally all of them.. so I stayed far away from relationships during that time. It wasn't like I wanted some polyamorous title.. I didn't even know what that meant. I just didn't want to get hurt again.. I will tell you what tho.. in the mid 90's rave scene (where I usually hung out back then) there were a TON of non monogamous people.. I would tell girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:58 PM
3	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship I know that.. my wife has had 2 kids and is hotter than she used to be.. but MANY do.. I am just saying that these guys are showing their immaturity with comments like this guy made here. There are tons of reasons your wife (or you) might put on some pounds.. child birth is definitely one of them.. but so is getting injured.. Some medications.. depression.. the list goes on..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:47 PM
0	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship I understand that.. then you threw in that joke.. There is no need for that.. calling women (or men) fatty's is super immature and it can be VERY hurtful if someone gets wind that you are calling them that. I was actually typing a comment to the other poster about immaturity when you posted it but decided to move the comment under you because of the joke. The two most important things when looking for a relationship imo.. Confidence and maturity. Those 2 traits will reflect in the rest of your l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:36 PM
-1	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship You literally just said “I won’t have a problem holding down a fatty in a relationship because she will hold herself down” Like I said.. I think it’s maturity for most guys that can’t get laid..	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:24 PM
2	Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats) I didn’t meet my wife until I was 25.. didn’t have a serious relationship from 19 to 25.. so yeah.. I think guys should definitely explore their sexuality before getting married.. it did me well as now I have been married for 20 years and have an awesome relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:22 PM
6	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship What are you guys going to do when your wife has a couple kids and doesn’t look perfect anymore?? Calling girls “fatty”’s makes me think it’s more of a maturity thing for you guys than looks or whatever else you think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:19 PM
1	if you can't get a woman to be your friend, you'll never be able to hold a woman down in a relationship Confidence.. I find that most dudes that can’t get laid have none.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:17 PM
2	Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking I was out like 4 nights a week in my twenties.. I guess I was playing a numbers game.. I mainly just didn't care tho.. I got cheated on bad by literally all of my first few girlfriends.. so I avoided relationships like the plague for a while there.. I don't think I was consciously playing a numbers game.. I was mainly just having fun with girls I would meet.. my intentions were almost always known up front tho.. I think most of the girls I dated in my 20's knew I was damaged goods.. but many of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 10:02 PM
2	Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking I mean.. I had tons of rejection too.. it wasn't all success.. or even a majority of successes.. tons of girls told me to go to hell when I hit on them.. but it doesn't matter how many say no if one says yes.. I always looked at it like that and it usually worked out for me. Maybe that's the difference between guys like me (and probably you tbh) and these mythic "hot guys".. they don't get rejected as much probably.. or maybe they don't have to spend so much time and energy on meeting women.. no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:16 PM
1	Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking My sex life is way better now than it was back then tbh.. it's just all with the same person now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:11 PM
0	Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking Na dude.. I have always been a little chubby.. I do have blue eyes and dark hair.. I definitely used that to my advantage.. but I was never the guy that got the cheerleader in high school or anything like that.. I did grow into my looks a bit in the second half of my twenties.. but I was never going to end up on the cover of GQ or anything..	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 08:29 PM
1	Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinking What is this "top tier" that everyone keeps talking about?? I can guarantee you that if I showed you a picture of me at 25 that you wouldn't think I was "top tier".. but I dated tons of really beautiful women in my single days and ended up marrying the most beautiful woman I ever met.. at least she is in my eyes. If I had a "type" in my single life.. then she is 1000% that type. I feel like most of the guys in this sub are young.. I didn't even start getting laid often until I was over 21-22.. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 06:43 PM
6	Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women? This is bullshit.. My wife makes more than me and we are pretty damn happy.. she has never given me a reason to think she is going to leave or anything like that.. I take care of the kids during the day while she is at work.. and that gives her piece of mind so she doesn't have to worry about them all day.. I try to have dinner ready when she gets home from work.. rub her back every night once the kids are in bed.. and I run a business out of the house to help with some of our expenses.. but she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 05:48 PM
2	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With I am just going to paste my answer to someone else here so you see it. I posted this in another part of the thread.. Basically I went out like 4 nights a week to bars and clubs.. I got to know the people in my city and built a reputation as a life of the party kind of guy.. I eventually got to where I knew everyone in town.. most of the women I hooked up with knew me.. or knew of me.. so I think I might have had better luck getting dates than I would have otherwise. Just being out on a regular b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 07:54 PM
5	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With I posted this in another part of the thread.. Basically I went out like 4 nights a week to bars and clubs.. I got to know the people in my city and built a reputation as a life of the party kind of guy.. I eventually got to where I knew everyone in town.. most of the women I hooked up with knew me.. or knew of me.. so I think I might have had better luck getting dates than I would have otherwise. Just being out on a regular basis gives you credibility with the other people in the scene.. you rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 07:51 PM
3	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With Yeah I have only ever met a handful of women that I thought would “fuck anything “ in my life.. I honestly think right place right time has more to do with it than anything. Main reason I say confidence is important is because I always had the balls to ask women for sex.. I was never worried about rejection.. it definitely happened a good bit.. but if one girl rejected me I always knew that there were 1000 others to flirt with.. so I never worried about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 02:38 PM
0	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With You said that only hot guys can do that.. I am not a hot guy.. have always been a little overweight and haven’t ever been considered super attractive. I am trying to express to you that confidence is more important than looks..	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 09:26 AM
1	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With So fuck the older women then?? Sometimes in life you have to take what it gives you.. if older women are hitting on you then you could probably learn a lot about yourself and become a better lover by taking some of them up on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 09:13 AM
3	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With Let’s flip this tho.. I fucked tons of hot girls when I was single.. at least 100.. probably more. I settled down with the hottest girl I have ever met tho.. I am not what you would probably consider a “hot guy”.. but I was still able to fuck a ton of really hot girls. The entire premise makes zero sense at all.. getting laid isn’t about what you look like.. it’s more about confidence in yourself than anything from my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 09:10 AM