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Horseshoe theory. The far left and the far right are basically the same thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 09:53 PM
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The patriarchy as defined by feminism has never existed in the US. Gender roles were created out of a need to survive. It was never about empowering men at the expense of women. Most of the men who died in WW1 couldn't even vote
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 02:56 PM
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72% of (known) violent crime is performed by men, 28% by women 93% of prisoners are men, 7% are women These pesky facts don't line up with your narrative
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 02:39 PM
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Get fucked
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 02:35 PM
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As someone who's climbing up the corporate ladder, I don't think I would mentor a woman. Not because I'm against it in any way, it's simply a matter of self preservation. A good example of the unintended consequences
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/25 02:28 PM
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It's not about what they "can" do. Everyone should learn courage, for example. But if women don't learn it they will be totally fine. If a man doesn't learn it, he will struggle his whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:51 PM
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Tell that to the millions of young men who are virgins and live in their parents home til 30. You don't think they could've used some better guidelines for how to be a man in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:57 PM
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Data science is awesome. Obsessing over your ex is not.
/r/seduction08/12/20 03:02 PM
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Nah bro models is great. When I felt lost and hopeless and gave me hope and direction
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:37 PM
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Same bro. If you want success you must learn to be brave
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:36 PM
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Coffee shop, very casual restaurant, ice cream, Park. Or even multiple those on the same date if it goes well. Honestly anything low commitment that you think sounds fun works
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:36 PM
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I guess very generally, don't get complacent or give up. Keep trying to be your best self. Your best self is attractive to women.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:15 AM
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Thanks! I'm rooting for ya
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:08 AM
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AFAIK it just comes down to being young. I bet you could masturbate twice in one night if you tried. Same idea
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:54 AM
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Guitar and salsa
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:53 AM
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Thx bro. Well she's never lied or played games with me afaik. I think she's got potential but I'm still getting to know her. We'll see
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:25 AM
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Thanks brother I don't know if you two are bf/gf or just fwb Undefined, but she treats me more like a bf than a fwb
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:03 AM
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Doesn't seem likely
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:00 AM
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Personally, I never put more effort into text conversation than the girl (usually less). I use it as a means to handle logistics and focus on getting to know her in person. Text her inviting her with a specific time and place/activity. If she likes you, it'll be easy
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:42 AM
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Why should you be ashamed of being attracted to someone? Own that shit
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:36 AM
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It was brief the first time cause I lost my erection when we changed positions. It was brief the second time because I finished quickly
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:20 AM
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Tell that to the 1700 people who upvoted <3
/r/seduction27/07/20 10:19 PM
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Lol I'm comparing the bear to anxiety, not a girl. The scenario could just as easily be that you're having sex with a girl in the woods.
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:55 PM
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It's a movie reference
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:23 PM
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Like warm apple pie
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:19 PM
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I've never understood that. Marriage is such a massive commitment and a big deal. Sex is well...not
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:50 PM
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Thanks! I know religious guilt well, but I don't practice religion anymore so it no longer effects me.
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:38 PM
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I get what you're saying man, but nobody is perfect. We all have our insecurities and issues. God knows I do too. Every girl wants to feel beautiful and wanted. Obviously some insecurity isn't a good thing, but it's not a deal breaker.
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:10 PM
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Thanks, congrats to you too!
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:59 PM
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Lmao you made me think of this Coronavirus SNL skit
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:41 PM
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She cried because she was self-conscious and thought I wasn't attracted to her
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:30 PM
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Nope it isn't the end-all be-all of life. But it's the one part of my life that's waaaay behind the rest. I have a good career, good friends, hobbies I enjoy and a non-existent romantic life. And honestly the pursuit of women has motivated me to improve other aspects of my life.
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:29 PM
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I would argue that a lot of PUA coaches are trying to sell cheap tricks, lines and techniques. Rather than helping with personal development. I believe you'd be better off getting a therapist or a non-PUA related life coach.
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:24 PM
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It's a fight or flight response. Imagine that you're masturbating in the woods (as one does) and a bear starts charging at you. How long do you think your erection will last?
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:14 PM
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Sounds like me a year ago haha. Then my advice to you would be to be as bold and confident towards girls you like as possible. Be open and unapologetic about your attraction towards them and don't let rejection faze you. Fortune favors the bold
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:02 PM
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Parks. Restaurants with open, outdoor seating. Wineries. Anything outside and open works really. You will always have an excuse for why you shouldn't act. Ignore it.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:28 PM
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Yeah you're nervous, but when you're a virgin it's on another level. When I finally got close I was so terrified that I didn't even wanna do it. That I lost my erection the moment sex became a reality out of fear.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:26 PM
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Yes lol. The problem for me was that the girls I liked, I put on a pedestal and the girls that I didn't like I treated normally. So basically I ruined any chances with girls I liked, making it seem like only the girls I wasn't into were into me.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:21 PM
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Well I had to get my depression under control first which was mostly therapy and running. Models focuses on 3 things: lifestyle, action, and communication. My communication is naturally good with women so that wasn't so important for me. I did make a lot of changes to my lifestyle though. From simple stuff like finding a good barber and improving my wardrobe, to expanding my social circles and finding new hobbies. Another big thing was learning to take action without my anxiety inhibiting me. It…
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:48 PM
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Even if you're still a virgin, if you're talking to multiple girls or feel like you can easily meet new girls, then it's much easier to not put them on a pedestal. Easiest way to do that with the virus is to make a good dating app profile.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:40 PM
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Man you really gotta learn to love yourself. How can anyone else love you if you don't love you. Maybe therapy would do you some good? There are therapists that specialize in stuff like self esteem and anxiety
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:34 PM
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I got my first kiss at 22. Keep working on yourself and you'll get there bro, I promise.
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:27 PM
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It doesn't mean you'll be a good sexual partner, but it does mean you'll be confident and unafraid most likely. Meaning you're less likely to trainwreck an opportunity to sleep with a girl. You also probably won't struggle with things like being unable to get it up and finishing in < 1 minute.
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:17 PM
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I feel like you didn't really get my point. It's not so much about feeling like I'm too old to be a virgin and more-so that women my age expect you to be experienced. It makes it much more difficult to have any success with them. It's not about the label, it's about the extra challenges that come with the label.
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:04 PM
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Nice guys don't finish last. Guys who lack the boldness finish last. Being nice should not be your selling point, it's just something everyone should do. So be bold and physically escalate
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:52 PM
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Thanks bro. I know there's a lot of toxic masculinity in this sub, but there's also a lot of good guys giving good advice.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:34 PM
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People don't seem to understand this for some reason. Losing your virginity is not a big deal. Having your virginity is a big deal. Anytime you haven't done something you tend to get much more nervous with the idea of doing it. As you probably know, women want you to be calm, confident and leading them. Being a virgin makes this exponentially harder. How can you be confident in doing something you've never done before? Virginity perpetuates never having sex by nature. This is something you proba…
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:29 PM
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2 birds with one stone!
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:26 PM
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People don't seem to understand this for some reason. Losing your virginity is not a big deal. Having your virginity is a big deal. Anytime you haven't done something you tend to get much more nervous with the idea of doing it. As you probably know, women want you to be calm, confident and leading them. Being a virgin makes this exponentially harder. How can you be confident in doing something you've never done before? Virginity perpetuates never having sex by nature.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:25 PM
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This post is a pretty good summary if you don't wanna read it. Though I recommend you just read it. Specifically for me, learning how to improve my lifestyle: better haircut, style, hobbies that naturally introduce me to girls in my demographic. Also overcoming anxiety to become more bold and take more chances with women because boldness is super attractive to women.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:21 PM
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Girls like nice guys in the sense that they like guys who treat them well. Being nice isn't a replacement for a personality though
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:15 PM
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It's more about identifying the flaws behind your failures and learning to fix them. Rather than some BS PUA strategies.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:13 PM
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I'll cya in hell then
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:12 PM
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We made out on the second date. She slept over on the third date but we didn't have sex until now. I'm really not sure what you're getting at bro. Why would I make this up?
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:11 PM
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You prolly just need better pictures. Get someone to help you with it
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:09 PM
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I'm not saying that it's really a big deal or wrong to do it, I'm just saying why it's not for me.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:08 PM
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I'm thinking there's a good chance I gf her. She's really into me and I think we're a great match.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah it's the only one you need imo. It's more about identifying the flaws behind your failures and learning to fix them. Rather than some BS PUA strategies.
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:57 AM
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It seemed like it killed her attraction for me. I feel like experience, or at least acting like you're experienced is attractive to girls. Virginity is the antithesis of that. Thanks, it's a big relief
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:33 AM
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I think you mean: How many years of self improvement?
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:27 AM
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I know every woman is different, but the last time I told a girl I was a virgin, I got the slow fade
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:23 AM
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Not really. I enjoyed all the dates
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:21 AM
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Yeah it was awkward. I'm lucky that she made it about as easy as it could be considering my nerves.
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:20 AM
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23 and online dating Nah paying some girl to fuck you isn't the same as seducing a girl
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:16 AM
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No, it's a torturous stigma which repels women like the plague
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:12 AM
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Your life must be hard lol
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:04 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:03 AM
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A mask??? Bro what's the point of a mask when you're making out with someone. I did wear a rubber though
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:02 AM
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I like the way you think. 17 years ahead of the game
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:28 AM
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Yeah, I get what you're saying, but also the reasons why I was a virgin for so long are no longer a factor. More recently it's just been inexperience holding me back.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:10 AM
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At least I won't have the fear of actually having sex holding me back at every opportunity anymore
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:39 AM
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What if girls think I'm weird when I just randomly approach them. Approaching girls is scary everytime, no matter how many times I do it. You're asking for a lot more than a smile from guys, it's the least you can do. No risk, no reward. Also you have nothing to be worried about. If a random girl smiles at me it always brightens my day. Even if I'm not attracted to her.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:42 PM
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you should have more options irl than tinder just like the girls do Nobody responsible has a ton of options IRL mid pandemic. Just saying.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:31 PM
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"I'm asking for a friend..."
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:22 PM
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Dude just download tinder or something. I can't tell you how many times female friends have complained about creepy guys in their social media dms. They'll be way more receptive on a dating app.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:04 PM
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Fair enough. I think that's more of a statement about bad bitches than girls my age in general. The girl from this post is a nice girl.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:30 AM
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I have friends my age who have happy relationships with nice girls. I think you're over generalizing a bit based on your own bad experiences
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:05 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way. But please don't project your bad experiences on me or tell me what matters in my life
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:02 PM
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Ate some food and watched the sunset
/r/seduction20/07/20 08:59 PM
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Don't be bitter man. It's unbecoming
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:08 PM
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That post is a month old. You need to either try again or move on and forgive yourself. Getting hung up on it and beating yourself up isn't helping anyone
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:26 PM
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23 I've psyched myself out of guaranteed kisses so many times though. Best advice I can give is don't hesitate once you get a signal it just gives you time to overthink it. Also forgive yourself for the fuckups.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:11 PM
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You're getting in your head again. If you wanna see her again and give it another shot then make it happen.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:57 PM
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I've done this shit so many times. You just can't hesitate. The longer you wait, the easier it is to get in your own head. Be kind to yourself and do better next time.
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:42 PM
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Someone who is needy will be all subtle about it or try to hide it. Someone who is attractive will be unapologetic and just directly tell/show them.
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:39 PM
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One time I did tell a girl I had been on a few dates with and she pretty much lost interest immediately. So honestly bumming her out is not really my main concern
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:30 PM
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Anxiety is a bitch man. Try not to give it control, you got nothing to worry about
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:49 AM
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I'm probably just gonna take it one step at a time and see how it plays out. Best not to think that far ahead imo
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:44 AM
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because if you don't, you'll end-up in the friendzone. ahhaah story of my life. Thanks man
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:33 AM
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I'm glad to hear it! That's why I made this post. To give you guys some proof that hard work pays off.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:31 AM
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Well I certainly wasn't born with it haha
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:05 AM
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Thanks man. Yeah that's pretty much what I did. Though it made it pretty hard to sleep bc I was all wound up lol
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:02 AM
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Don't be anxious, it's pretty easy. It's like massaging her lips with your lips. The hardest part is initiating the first one. I have in the past googled about stuff like that, but in the moment none of that stuff came to mind. I just winged it.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:48 AM
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If I wanted to date her. Yes, after we had sex.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:45 AM
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I don't see how you could seduce a girl who's not attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:44 AM
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Thanks man. I'm 23. Honestly I prefer meeting girls through hobbies, bars, etc. but the virus kinda made online dating the only responsible option in the US. I recommend bumble over tinder.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:07 AM
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I mean the main difference with this and failures of the past was timing. Picking up on her signals and acting confidently and without hesitation. Apparently it is that easy...
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:02 AM
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idk that's what impression I was getting from their comment. I don't think I did anything wrong.
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:15 PM
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Thanks. I hope I didn't come across as objectifying her or anything. I am and will continue to treat her with respect.
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:09 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. Fortunately I don't let assholes on reddit dictate how I live my life. Best of luck to you too!
/r/seduction13/04/20 10:28 PM
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Are you jealous because all the girls you like keep getting swooped by older dudes? Or are you a woman who's frustrated that men your age (except losers) won't offer you more than a ONS? You're reading way too much into it dude. You directly insult me for no reason, of course I'm not gonna like you lol The fact that you listed Donald Trump as a role model explains a lot. You do seem like a bit of a narcissist. Enjoy your shallow relationships with girls half your age. They'll happen less and les…
/r/seduction09/04/20 06:59 PM
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First of all, I wasn't offering advice, I was responding to you. Of course you change over time. You wanna become the best version of yourself, but pretending to be someone you're not by using some dumb pickup tactics is inauthentic. And nobody likes someone who's inauthentic even though it can take a while for them to realize it. How does being upset over a LTR breakup make you a loser? Real men aren't afraid of their emotions. Also with all due respect if you're only dating girls 10-15 years y…
/r/seduction09/04/20 03:24 PM
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I don't see a dichotomy between being authentic and pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. You can still be yourself, while putting yourself in situations that make you uncomfortable or touching a girl more than you're comfortable with. You don't need dumb pickup strategies to push the envelope and get over anxiety.
/r/seduction08/04/20 11:04 PM
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You're stating an opinion with no backing facts and talking about it like it's a scientific study. If you want people to take what you're saying serious let's see some actual facts, an actual study.
/r/seduction08/04/20 10:50 PM
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That's probably more because extroverts put themselves in more social situations and therefore get more opportunities.
/r/seduction08/04/20 10:41 PM
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"can't miss you if you're not gone"
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:29 AM
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