tradestreaming Archive

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2	She told her parents I see your pain and recognize it, brother. We've all felt the brokenness but you're not broken. You're grieving. Things will get better.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/20 06:10 AM
2	The Gift thank you for sharing. I appreciate your awareness of how nice it was to be in that moment, with your kids, doing the mundane, instead of the fighting, bickering or criticism.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/20 10:24 AM
1	Please help an undeserving man stop divorce (Very Long Post Warning) I love your advice. Thank you for sharing with OP	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/20 12:51 PM
10	When they blame you for everything and don't accept any for themselves I hear you, man. That feeling of betrayal runs deep and her blaming you...well, that can feel so crazy. But know it's hers. Her story is not yours. You may never hear any acceptance of responsibility. Find your own story, accept the role you played in the marriage, mourn and grieve what you once had. Don't wait for her to 'release' you by shouldering the blame of what went wrong. Find your strength and voice and power on your own and plot a way to move on. Litigate if you feel it necessary but k…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/20 05:28 AM
5	Women have their social groups, men don’t. I think there is data to back up your assertion that men generally lack social support, especially as they hit middle age. It's important to find friends and build community. There are also men's groups that I would recommend exploring -- it's wonderful to see and meet other men to talk about our struggles and pain.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/20 02:48 PM
7	It ends in the morning... with a whimper. Much support to you, brother, in this journey. Time is a great healer.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/20 08:58 AM
4	Shitty day I feel your pain. I'm 45 and recently moved into a one room apartment after separating from a 24 year marriage. Everything -- work, friends, housing, career -- is now in flux. One thing of solace I can share that works for me is getting into mythology. That may sound nerdy (I guess it is), but if we think of ourselves as epic heroes (and we are, right? In our own small way...), this is the classical journey people like Odysseus took in the Odyssey that made them into great figures. They were cal…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/19 11:50 AM
5	Why can't I just leave? I'm not sure this question is helpful. He's here now. That's the reality. But I do think it's important to look in the mirror. She may be controlling. But, before you leave, is there a part of you that needed to be controlled? Did she become something you needed but didn't find in yourself? A lot of spouses give up their power and outsource their initiative, their autonomy to their other half.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/19 04:44 PM